Sounds Fake But Okay
Comedy
A podcast where an aromantic asexual girl and a biromantic demisexual girl talk about all things to do with love, relationships, sexuality, and pretty much anything else that they just don't understand.
Location:
United States
Description:
A podcast where an aromantic asexual girl and a biromantic demisexual girl talk about all things to do with love, relationships, sexuality, and pretty much anything else that they just don't understand.
Twitter:
@soundsfakepod
Language:
English
Email:
soundsfakepod@gmail.com
Episodes
Ep 300: Government Recognition of Asexuality feat. Ash McCullough
4/28/2024
Hey what’s up hello! For this week’s very exciting 300th episode we’re chatting with Ash McCullough about their advocacy work with the Australian government.
Content Notice: Brief discussion of Roe v. Wade and abortion laws
Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/government-recognition-of-asexuality-feat-ash-mccullough
Follow Ash: @ash.slingshott
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Duration:01:05:15
Ep 299: Gold Star Asexuality and "Actual Asexuals"
4/21/2024
Hey what's up hello! This week we talk about the concept of gold star asexuality and the harm and confusion caused by a community of "actual asexuals"
Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/gold-star-asexuality-and-actual-asexuals
Kayla Kaszyca
P.O. Box 410021
Cambridge, MA 02141
Sarah Costello
P.O. Box 16453
North Hollywood, CA 91615
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Duration:00:52:21
Ep 298: The Rise of Smutty Books
4/7/2024
Hey what's up hello! This week we're talking about the mainstreamification of smutty books, our desire for a rating system in books, and how we feel about the rise of smut as aspecs.
Content Notice: slavery, violence against black people, murder, discussions of sex (at Wimbledon), and mention of the phrase "quivering member."
Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/the-rise-of-smutty-books
Support the SHEAUXTIME Collective: https://www.sheauxtime.com/# | @SHEAUXTIME
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Duration:00:53:24
Ep 297: Body Count
3/31/2024
Hey what's up hello! This week we're talking about the very stupid concept of a body count AKA how many people you've had sex with and the dangers of using body count as a stand-in for the value someone puts on sex
Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/body-count
Content Notice: Harmful stereotypes about mental illness, general discussions of sex, mentions of sexism
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Duration:00:57:03
Ep 296: Am I The Asshole pt. 9
3/24/2024
Hey what's up hello! You know what time it is — it's time to prowl the depths of Reddit to figure out what on Earth is going on out there.
Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/am-i-the-asshole-pt-9
Books with acespec and arospec characters: https://bookshop.org/lists/books-with-acespec-and-arospec-characters?
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Duration:00:49:42
Ep 295: Couple Privilege
3/17/2024
Hey what's up hello! This week we're talking about the evil that is couple privilege and how it disadvantages single people AND couples alike.
Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/couple-privilege
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Duration:01:02:11
Ep 294: Q&A - aspec activism, friendship, the allos, & more!
3/10/2024
Hey what's up hello! This week we're taking the time to answer your questions about everything from aspec activism to our favorite places to travel.
Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/qa-aspec-activism-friendship-the-allos-more
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Duration:00:50:30
Ep 293: Can AI Help You Date?
3/3/2024
Hey what's up hello! Today we're talking about how artificial intelligence has invaded the world of dating from AI dating coaches to AI dating profile assistants.
Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/can-ai-help-you-date
Vote for Dear, Luke Love, Me: https://www.surveymonkey.com/r/YWQLHHH
No sex, no romance playlist: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/6wdkxJGXc1xUrtlJi0GPke?si=dde7d2d6407c4ecc
Cosmo articles: https://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/a46584514/bias-ai-dating-technology/ | https://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/a46585109/ai-dating-tips/ | https://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/a46575786/ai-dating-common-questions-concerns-experts/
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Duration:00:47:33
Ep 292: Separating Aromanticism from Asexuality
2/25/2024
Hey what's up hello! As Aro Week 2024 comes to an end, we talk about the way aromanticism is often linked with asexuality and how that can ultimately harm the aromantic community.
Content Warning: Light descriptions of sexual activities
Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/separating-aromanticism-from-asexuality
Shop our Bookshop.org storefront: https://bookshop.org/shop/soundsfakepod
Check out Hopeless Aromantic: https://bookshop.org/a/101336/9781839973673
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Duration:00:50:52
Ep 291: Am I The Asshole pt. 8 (Asshole Edition)
2/18/2024
Hey what's up hello! We're back reading r/AmITheAsshole. Some of them may be fake but oh boy are they full of assholes!
Content Warning: Mentions of child abuse, domestic violence, death, miscarriage, incest
Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/am-i-the-asshole-pt-8-asshole-edition
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Duration:00:44:01
Ep 290: Hating Your Partner
2/11/2024
Hey what's up hello! Just in time for Valentine's Day, this week we're talking abou the phenomenon of straight people hating their partners!
Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/hating-your-partner
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Duration:00:55:02
Ep 289: The Other Significant Others feat. Rhaina Cohen
2/4/2024
Hey what's up hello! Today we're talking to author Rhaina Cohen about her book, The Other Significant Others: Reimagining Life with Friendship at the Center. It's a real platonic delight.
Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/the-other-significant-others-feat-rhaina-cohen
Get the book: https://bookshop.org/a/101336/9781250280916
Follow Rhaina: https://www.instagram.com/rhainacohen/
Rhaina's Substack: https://rhaina.substack.com/
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Duration:01:04:23
Ep 288: Compersion
1/28/2024
Hey what's up hello! Today we're talking about compersion. What is it? Where did the term come from? Is only for poly folx?
Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/compersion
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Duration:00:53:52
Ep 287: Celebrity Sexuality Speculation
1/21/2024
Hey what's up hello! Today we're talking about the pop culture phenomenon that is speculating about celebrity's sexualities, demanding that celebrities come out, and accusing celebrities of queer baiting. Yikes!
Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/celebrity-sexuality-speculation
Our friend's article about BTS and queerness: https://www.them.us/story/park-jimin-bts-padya-paramita-personal-essay
Video essay about homophobia in K-pop: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xGW-Snfu-30&t=1353s&ab_channel=KaterinaRose
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Duration:01:08:39
Ep 286: Am I The Asshole pt. 7 (Aspec Edition)
1/14/2024
Hey what's up hello! We're back from our long winter's nap and ready to judge some assholes!!! This time, we're reading some aspec specific stories.
Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/am-i-the-asshole-pt-7-aspec-edition
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Duration:00:51:56
Ep 285: Same Podcast, One Year Apart (The Fourth Year)
12/10/2023
Hey what's up hello! To wrap up another year of the podcast, we're back recording the fourth edition of "same podcast, one year apart" a la Billie Eilish x Vanity Fair.
Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/same-podcast-one-year-apart-the-fourth-year
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Duration:01:01:07
Ep 284: This Author Loves Butch Orcs
12/3/2023
Hey what's up hello! This week we manage to talk about everything and nothing at the same time. Toxic old men named Gerry, wedding presents, butch orcs, chilis. You name it, we covered it.
Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/this-author-loves-butch-orcs
Legends & Lattes: https://bookshop.org/a/101336/9781250886088
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Duration:00:52:06
Ep 283: SFBO the Audiobook Sneak Peek
11/26/2023
Hey what's up hello! We finally have an audiobook! Read in our own voices!!! As a special treat, today we give to you a sneak preview of chapter one.
Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/sfbo-the-audiobook-sneak-peek
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Duration:00:24:16
Ep 282: Am I The Asshole pt. 6 (Wedding Edition)
11/19/2023
Hey what's up hello! We're back with another fan favorite Am I The Asshole but this time it's all about weddings.
Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/am-i-the-asshole-pt-6-wedding-edition
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Duration:01:03:44
Ep 281: Being Ace feat. Madeline Dyer
11/12/2023
Hey what's up hello! This week we're chatting with Madeline Dyer about her new anthology Being Ace: An Anthology of Queer, Trans, Femme, and Disabled Stories of Asexual Love and Connection.
Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/being-ace-feat-madeline-dyer
Buy Being Ace: https://bookshop.org/a/101336/9781645679561
Follow Madeline: @mdyerauthor / @elinannalise
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Duration:00:57:19