Meet/Cute

Burlesque dancer Lavendelle met her husband in the basement of a fraternity when she was 17 – but before that, she'd had many a romantic meet/cute moment, as well as many a not-so-romantic back-of-the-cinema makeout session. ** You can follow Lavendelle on Instagram and TikTok @lavendelleburlesque. My book, This is Not About You, is out now! Get it in ebook format in the US, or in hard copy in most good bookshops in Ireland and the UK. See here for a lot of links! I co-host another podcast, Not Without My Sister, with my sister, Beatrice, available on all podcast platforms. Check out my writing on Substack. Meet/Cute is recorded in Fort Wayne, Indiana, and written, presented and produced by Rosemary Mac Cabe. Music is from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/sensho/good-times License code: J7UUYXO9B2ZDF0SV Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

My book, This is Not About You, is out now! Get it in ebook format in the US, or in hard copy in most good bookshops in Ireland and the UK. I co-host another podcast, Not Without My Sister, with my sister, Beatrice, available on all podcast platforms. Check out my writing on Substack. Meet/Cute is recorded in Fort Wayne, Indiana, and written, presented and produced by Rosemary Mac Cabe. Music is from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/sensho/good-times License code: J7UUYXO9B2ZDF0SV Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Social media foodie, influencer, bar owner and theater kid Stephanie Bonner joins me on Meet/Cute to talk leaving home at 18 for the bright lights of the Big Apple, dating in NYC, falling in love with her husband and deciding to give up the glitz for life in Fort Wayne. Follow her on Instagram @sbonbon and catch drag brunch in The Green Frog in Fort Wayne on Saturdays at 1pm. My book, This is Not About You, is out now! Get it in ebook format in the US, or in hard copy in most good bookshops in Ireland and the UK. I co-host another podcast, Not Without My Sister, with my sister, Beatrice, available on all podcast platforms. Check out my writing on Substack. Meet/Cute is recorded in Fort Wayne, Indiana, and written, presented and produced by Rosemary Mac Cabe. Music is from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/sensho/good-times License code: J7UUYXO9B2ZDF0SV Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

If you have been affected by any of the issues in this podcast, please contact Women's Aid (Ireland or UK), or the AWAIC (US). You can follow @fortwaynefoodslut on Instagram, check out her website or listen to her podcast. My book, This is Not About You, is out now! Get it in ebook format in the US, or in hard copy in most good bookshops in Ireland and the UK. I co-host another podcast, Not Without My Sister, with my sister, Beatrice, available on all podcast platforms. Check out my writing on Substack. Meet/Cute is recorded in Fort Wayne, Indiana, and written, presented and produced by Rosemary Mac Cabe. Music is from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/sensho/good-times License code: J7UUYXO9B2ZDF0SV Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode of Meet/Cute, virtual assistant Hannah Wofford is in the hot seat to talk about almost appearing on MTV's Catfish, being the one who prepares men for The One, and meeting her husband at the age of 19 (and marrying him at the age of 21). My book, This is Not About You, is out now! Get it in ebook format in the US, or in hard copy in most good bookshops in Ireland and the UK. I co-host another podcast, Not Without My Sister, with my sister, Beatrice, available on all podcast platforms. Check out my writing on Substack. Meet/Cute is recorded in Fort Wayne, Indiana, and written, presented and produced by Rosemary Mac Cabe. Music is from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/sensho/good-times License code: J7UUYXO9B2ZDF0SV Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Sophie White met her husband way too young – or so she says, meaning she missed out on the "fun" (? questionable) of Tinder, Bumble and Hinge. But she likes him a lot, so it's probably okay. (But she'd still like a little hall pass and thinks all bisexuals should get one.) Follow Sophie on Instagram @sophwhitewhoop or check out her full bibliography on her website, here. You can listen to The Creep Dive wherever you get podcasts, or subscribe to be in the Mother of Pod club. My book, This is Not About You, is out now! Get it in ebook format in the US, or in hard copy in most good bookshops in Ireland and the UK. I co-host another podcast, Not Without My Sister, with my sister, Beatrice, available on all podcast platforms. Check out my writing on Substack. Meet/Cute is recorded in Fort Wayne, Indiana, and written, presented and produced by Rosemary Mac Cabe. Music is from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/sensho/good-times License code: J7UUYXO9B2ZDF0SV Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

New York Times bestselling author Ashley C. Ford knows a lot about love, thanks to her husband, who taught her that love isn't a competition; her upbringing, which showed her the ways she didn't want to be loved; and the work she's been able to do on herself, which allowed her to believe she's worthy of that love to begin with. Somebody's Daughter, Ashley's memoir, is available now wherever books are sold. From indie booksellers, Split Rock Books in the US has it; as does Gutter Bookshop in Ireland. You can check out Ashley's website here, and follow her on Instagram and Twitter, too. My book, This is Not About You, is out now! Get it in ebook format in the US, or in hard copy in Ireland. Gutter Bookshop has that, too. I co-host another podcast, Not Without My Sister, with my sister, Beatrice, available on all podcast platforms. Check out my writing on Substack. Meet/Cute is recorded in Fort Wayne, Indiana, and written, presented and produced by Rosemary Mac Cabe. Music is from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/sensho/good-times License code: J7UUYXO9B2ZDF0SV Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Hello and welcome to Meet/Cute, a podcast about getting together, breaking up, and everything in between. I’m your host, Rosemary Mac Cabe, and I’m here to ask the big questions. What brings two people together? And what tears them apart? In other words: tell. Me. Everything. This is a podcast for romantics; a podcast for lovers; a podcast for anthropologists but, above all else, a podcast for nosy f*ckers. Join me every Thursday as I talk to someone about the ins and outs – if you’ll excuse the pun – of their romantic histories. Subscribe to Meet/Cute wherever you get podcasts. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Listen to Not Without My Sister, my OTHER podcast, wherever you're listening to this – or on Spotify at https://open.spotify.com/show/3YoMClQm0lLsjBULXgTjTB?si=WjcLvI5sRwWoP_TFrDsH0A You can follow Chuy "JR" Harris on Instagram or on Twitter @cochinochuy The episode of How to be Sound that brought us together is the episode where I interviewed Session Moth Martina about indie wrestling – listen to it here: https://podcasts.apple.com/ie/podcast/ep-18-fighting-words-irish-wrestling-star-session-moth/id1336039859?i=1000429242397 If you, like me, didn't know anything about what it means to be demi-male, you might like this piece on The Body is Not an Apology: https://thebodyisnotanapology.com/magazine/coming-into-my-gender-identifying-as-a-demi-guy/ Chuy found out his Dad was gay in his freshman year of high school, when he was in ninth grade (age 13) – here's a piece from Gays With Kids about how to come out to your kids, from Dads who've been there: https://www.gayswithkids.com/the-being-blog/advice-on-coming-out-to-your-kids-from-gay-dads-whove-been-there I mention Greenleaf, a show you'll find on Netflix that I really, really like, about a Memphis megachurch. Thrilling stuff. Glitter Cat Barista offers free programs for marginalized coffee professionals, with a view to increasing the diversity in coffee competition! Check it out: https://www.glittercatbarista.com/ *** If you'd like to support the work I do – help keep 'How to be Sound' going AND read a plethora of essays on life, love, sex, dating, feminism and more, sign up to my Patreon from just $4 per month. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

The illustration Charlot Kristensen created for the recent cover of The Irish Times' Saturday Magazine which focused on being black and Irish will surely go down in history as one of the most iconic Irish images of 2020. We sat down in our respective homes (#stayhome, y'all) to chat about how this commission came about, working as an artist in Ireland and her upcoming graphic novel, What We Don't Talk About. You can check out Charlot's work on her website at charlotkristensen.com and pre-order her graphic novel here. Charlot is involved with the Dublin Comic Arts Festival, more on which here. Alan Dunne, who Charlot mentions as a friend and great supporter of her work, can be found at alandunne.ie. I mention Jordan Peele's Get Out, which is a stunning – and horrific – satire on race in America. *** If you'd like to support the work I do – help keep 'How to be Sound' going AND read a plethora of essays on life, love, sex, dating, feminism and more, sign up to my Patreon from just $4 per month. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Thank you for listening to Episode 1 of Not Without My Sister, which we have tentatively titled, 'Not Without Our... Mother?' This episode is dedicated to, and focuses on, our Mother, who, for all of her Irish Mammyisms, has her own individual quirks and foibles which make her – we think – just interesting enough to dedicate an hour-long podcast episode to. We hope you enjoy it :) If you have any topic suggestions, or subjects you'd like us to chat about, please do let us know! Leave a comment on our website or contact us via Instagram @rosemarymaccabe and @beatricemaccabe. Here are a few of the things we reference throughout the episode. You'll find the transcription here. How to Fall ApartImagination LibraryNot Without My DaughterSigh, Gonein this NPR talk@Sindy_the_traveler Not Without My Sister is presented by sisters Beatrice and Rosemary Mac Cabe. Editing is by Liam Geraghty. Original music by Cody D. Records. Original illustration by Lindsay Neilson. Not Without My Sister is a production of The Warren. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This episode was recorded way back when, one of the first episodes of the first season of How to be Sound. This is me revisiting that episode – the only episode I've recorded with a person of colour, which is a massive failing on my part and something I will be looking to improve in the future. I've done a bad job of offering my listeners equal and fair representation of today's world, and for that I can only apologise. #BlackLivesMatter You'll find Erica Cody on Facebook, Twitter and Instagram – and you can check out her music videos (you should) on YouTube, too. Thank you so much for listening to How to be Sound. Please take some time to rate and/or review on iTunes; it helps other people who might like it to find How to be Sound! Producer extraordinaire Liam Geraghty's Meet Your Maker is also well worth a listen. Mother of Pod. Just in case you don't know what a Billie Barry kid is... BE WARNED: this will scar you for life. Check out BIMM, Ireland's music school (it's not really like Fame, allegedly). Step Up: High Water starring Jade Chynoweth is really, really good. I promise. Watsky: Moral of the Story is a good song to listen to (on repeat) when you're worrying about what other people are doing (unlike Erica, who's focused on her own sh*t). Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Alison Curtis is one of the most recognisable voices on Irish radio, presenting Today FM's Weekend Breakfast show every Saturday and Sunday morning from 8-11am. She sat down to talk about emigrating from Canada, immigrant assimilation and the radio gender gap. Follow Alison on Twitter here and on Instagram here. *** If you'd like to support the work I do – help keep 'How to be Sound' going AND read a plethora of essays on life, love, sex, dating, feminism and more, sign up to my Patreon from just $4 per month. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Julie Mc Loughlin and her husband Owen left steady, full-time jobs to set up their own business after a spot of creative DIY piqued the interest of friends, family and, well, everyone who heard about their off-kilter wedding invitations. I sat down with Julie to talk about the business of business, creativity and conceptualisation, working from home and how Jando got off the ground. This episode was, crucially, recorded before the current pandemic – and it's more important than ever to support Irish art so, if you're in the market for some new prints, check out Jando's offering. *** If you'd like to support the work I do – help keep 'How to be Sound' going AND read a plethora of essays on life, love, sex, dating, feminism and more, sign up to my Patreon from just $4 per month. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Molly Finn (NOT her real name) set up an OnlyFans when she realised there was some interest in her holiday bikini pics – and because, surprisingly, her mother asked why not. She sits down to talk about the democratisation of pornography, whether or not OnlyFans is sex work and how much she charges to send a picture of her feet. For more on OnlyFans, read 'How OnlyFans Changed Sex Work Forever' from the New York Times. *** If you'd like to support the work I do – help keep 'How to be Sound' going AND read a plethora of essays on life, love, sex, dating, feminism and more, sign up to my Patreon from just $4 per month. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Limerick-based singer-songwriter Emma Langford sits down to talk about touring in Germany, producing an album with three months' notice, the importance of using your voice – and platform – to further the causes you believe in, and whether or not she's ever just thought about writing a rubbish pop song to rake in the €€€. Follow Emma on Twitter and Instagram – and check out her new single, Sowing Acorns. *** If you'd like to support the work I do – help keep 'How to be Sound' going AND read a plethora of essays on life, love, sex, dating, feminism and more, sign up to my Patreon from just $4 per month. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Dublin fashion designer Claire Garvey had a week to design two outfits for Eimear Noone, the first female conductor ever to conduct the orchestra at the Academy Awards – but she didn't let that get in her way! (See the result on Claire's Instagram.) We sit down to talk fashion design, the Irish arts scene, surviving through a recession and how relying on trends will never be an issue for her. Follow Claire on Instagram @clairegarveydesigner and check out her website, ClaireGarvey.com. *** If you'd like to support the work I do – help keep 'How to be Sound' going AND read a plethora of essays on life, love, sex, dating, feminism and more, sign up to my Patreon from just $4 per month. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

PhD researcher Ellie Marley is studying the impact of shame on the lives of women in Ireland living with a HIV+ diagnosis – we sit down to talk about what she's learned so far. If you'd like to get in touch with Ellie about her research, you can contact her Send mail" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">by email here. A few bits we mention include: Still Standing: An Irishwoman's Story of HIV and Hope by Liz MartinI Thought it was Just Me (But it Isn't) by Brene BrownTeam America's...

You can follow Colette on Twitter @RedHareColette and listen to her podcasts, Science Drops, and The Critter Shed, anywhere you get podcasts. Colette is a fellow member of The Warren, Ireland's newest podcasting network. Read more about that at thewarren.ie *** Throw me $1! (Or, y'know, more!) I write a whole lot of pieces on Patreon for paid subscribers and you can be one of those from just $1 a month at patreon.com/rosemarymaccabe. You can follow me on all social media @rosemarymaccabe. Please do rate, review and subscribe to How to be Sound on iTunes – it really helps boost my ego and make me feel like I'm not wasting my time. kthx Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

You can follow Holly on Twitter here – and sign up to her Patreon to read all about her new life. The Irish Independent covered Holly's Kardashian-koloured moment in the sun – when her illustrations of Kim Kardashian got shared by America's first family. If you haven't already, you can listen back to episodes of Holly's podcast, Popsessed, presented with DJ Conor Behan, wherever you get podcasts. Holly wrote about her experience volunteering in Calais for The Irish Times. You can read it here. Read all about Ireland's recycling targets here. *** Throw me $1! (Or, y'know, more!) I write a whole lot of pieces on Patreon for paid subscribers and you can be one of those from just $1 a month at patreon.com/rosemarymaccabe. You can follow me on all social media @rosemarymaccabe. Please do rate, review and subscribe to How to be Sound on iTunes – it really helps boost my ego and make me feel like I'm not wasting my time. kthx Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.