This Is Life with Heather & Cornelius

In this episode, Heather and Cornelius dive into the world of parasocial relationships... those one-sided connections we form with people we follow, watch, or admire from afar. They explore how social media blurs the lines between public and private lives, and why it's more important than ever to lead with empathy. Executive Producers are Riley Peleuses for YEA Networks / YEA Podcasts If you are interested in advertising on this podcast or having Cornelius & Heather as guests on your Podcast, Radio Show, or TV Show, reach out to podcast@yeamediagroup.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this candid and heartfelt episode, Heather and Cornelius open up about how unexpected interruptions—whether big or small—can throw us off balance, stir up confusion, and sometimes even cause pain. From personal detours to family shifts and emotional curveballs, they explore how life’s disruptions challenge our expectations and force us to grow. Tune in as they share stories, insights, and a few laughs about what it really means to stay grounded when life doesn’t go according to script. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, the Cornelius and Heather open up about a recent clash between their sons that put Mom in the middle... and not in the way she deserved. It’s a real look at how mothers often lead with love, patience, and care, but still need and deserve unwavering respect. When one son crossed a line, Cornelius stepped in, not just to discipline, but to reinforce the importance of respecting their mother’s words. This is a conversation about parenting balance, the power of a united front, and raising boys who understand both love and limits. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, we dive into the age-old mystery: how can two people in the same relationship hear completely different things? He said one thing, she heard another and somewhere in between is what's really happening (and a whole lot of frustration and laughter). We’re breaking down the most common communication disconnects between men and women, why tone matters more than words, how assumptions get made, and what we’ve learned from our own marriage about listening vs. really hearing. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this raw and honest episode, Cornelius chats navigating doubts to confronting expectations, he shares share how he and Heather made the decision to move forward with marriage, not because everything was perfect, but because they chose each other on purpose. We dive into the power of managing expectations, picking your battles, and intentionally pouring into your partner even when it’s hard. This one’s for anyone who believes love isn’t just a feeling, it’s a choice. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this raw and revealing episode, our producer, Riley, asks Cornelius why some men walk away from their relationships when they feel their woman “deserves better.” He unpacks a lesser-talked-about reason why some men leave relationships—not because they’ve fallen out of love, but because they believe the woman deserves better. He explores the emotional and psychological weight behind feeling “not enough,” how shame, pride, and unmet needs collide, and why love alone sometimes isn’t enough to stay. If you’ve ever been blindsided by a breakup that made no sense—or walked away from someone you loved—this conversation is for you. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What does it mean to be a man in the 21st century — and at what cost? In this eye-opening episode, Scott Barrella (MS LMFT) and Cornelius dive deep into the intersection of masculinity and mental health. From battling burnout to the stigma around seeking help, we talk candidly about why so many men suffer in silence. It's time to rewrite the script on strength, emotion, and connection. Whether you're navigating your own mental health journey or supporting someone who is, this conversation is one you won’t want to miss. Visit Scott Barrella at cornerstonesv.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

From AI to Instagram, we’ve never been more “connected” — so why do we feel so isolated? Cornelius gets real about digital illusions, broken relationships, and how our inner battles keep us from finding true peace and community. If you’ve ever felt unseen, this one hits home. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

After years of chasing a clear path — from politics to ministry — Cornelius opens up about what happens when the dream you built your life around suddenly ends. In this raw and honest conversation, he shares his journey through aimlessness, identity loss, and the struggle to rebuild confidence after stepping away from a life he thought was forever. Whether you're starting over, questioning your path, or searching for new purpose, this episode is a reminder: losing your way doesn't mean losing yourself. Sometimes, it's the beginning of something even greater. Executive Producer is Riley Peleuses YEA Media Group / YMG Podcasts If you are interested in advertising on this podcast or having Cornelius & Heather as guests on your Podcast, Radio Show, or TV Show, reach out to podcast@yeamediagroup.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, we dive into the journey of discovering what truly lights you up and sustains your soul. From practical exercises to heartfelt stories, we explore how to identify your passions, embrace what nourishes you, and let go of what doesn’t. Whether you’re feeling lost or just seeking deeper fulfillment, join us for actionable insights and inspiring conversations to help you align with your unique spark. Perfect for anyone ready to live more intentionally Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Join us on this episode as we unpack our raw, real journey of stepping away from full-time ministry—a rollercoaster of emotions, from the gut-wrenching lows of doubt and identity loss to the exhilarating highs of rediscovering purpose. We’re diving deep into the struggles—letting go of a calling that defined us, diversifying our finances, and wrestling with doubt—while celebrating the wins, like newfound freedom and unexpected opportunities. Through candid stories and hard-earned lessons, we’re not just sharing our transition; we’re building a lifeline for pastors and ministry leaders eyeing their own next season. Expect practical tips, heartfelt encouragement, and a community vibe to help you move forward with clarity and courage—because life after the pulpit isn’t the end, it’s a bold new chapter. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Here is another sample of the Brand New Podcast, The Come Up featuring JSI Chavez from Radio's Kidd Nation and Fitness Influencer Jason Poston. Two very successful Husband's/Dads/Professionals who had very rough starts. They understand everyone's Come Up has a rocky road and they want to encourage and educate you on a better path to your Come Up! Hit play and Meet Jason! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, Heather and Cornelius dive into the raw emotions behind their recent big fight. Heather shares how she felt unappreciated after going above and beyond to help Cornelius, while Cornelius opens up about feeling disrespected and unheard by Heather. Tune in as they unpack their misunderstandings, reflect on their actions. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, we dive into the curious divide between how men and women approach asking questions. From social conditioning to evolutionary psychology, we explore why men often stay silent when curiosity strikes—while women tend to probe deeper. Expect a mix of laughter, cultural insights, and real-world anecdotes as we unpack this overlooked gender dynamic. Tune in to find out why the question mark might just be a woman’s secret weapon! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, Cornelius and his friend, David Winston, discuss what it means to embark on a transformative journey of authenticity, exploring what it truly means to live as your unfiltered self in a world that often demands masks. We dive into the courage it takes to embrace vulnerability—stripping away pretense and risking judgment, rejection, or failure—to uncover the raw strength that lies beneath. Through heartfelt stories, expert insights, and practical reflections, discover how stepping into your truth, despite the discomfort, can lead to deeper connections, personal growth, and a life aligned with who you really are. Join us as we navigate the beauty and the peril of being authentically you. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Here is a sample of the Brand New Podcast, The Come Up featuring JSI Chavez from Radio's Kidd Nation and Fitness Influencer Jason Poston. Two very successful Husband's/Dads/Professionals who had very rough starts. They understand everyone's Come Up has a rocky road and they want to encourage and educate you on a better path to your Come Up! Join the Journey Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dive into the raw, unfiltered journey from struggle to triumph in this powerful episode. We explore what it takes to push through setbacks, self-doubt, and sheer exhaustion to achieve greatness. From the science of resilience to real-life stories of underdogs who are clawing their way to the top, we unpack how grit—more than talent or luck—shapes success. Expect hard-hitting insights, practical takeaways, a dose of inspiration, and a lot of laughter to fuel your own tenacious path. Whether you’re chasing a dream or just surviving the grind, this one’s for you. Don’t forget to share and subscribe. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In a world that’s equal parts chaos and opportunity, how do you hold onto hope without losing your grip on reality? In this episode, we dive into the messy balance of keeping it real—facing hard truths head-on—while still finding reasons to stay optimistic. From practical strategies to hard-earned lessons, we explore how to build resilience that doesn’t rely on fairy tales or blind positivity. Expect raw insights, no fluff, and a roadmap for hope that actually holds up. Executive Producers are Riley Peleuses for YEA Networks / YEA Podcasts If you are interested in advertising on this podcast or having Cornelius & Heather as guests on your Podcast, Radio Show, or TV Show, reach out to podcast@yeamediagroup.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this part 2 we are continuing the conversation about the messy, often contradictory experience of church life—what it means to attend, to embody faith, and to find yourself in conflict with the very institution meant to nurture your spirit. From the beauty of community to the wounds left by religious dogma, we explore what happens when the place that once felt like home starts to feel like a battleground. Is it possible to reconcile faith with frustration? Are you a Christian or a moralist? Can you still “be the church” when the church no longer feels like yours? Let’s unpack the tension, the heartbreak, and the hope of a complicated spiritual journey. Thank you to our amazing partner BetterHelp - This episode is brought to you by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/LINDSEYS and get on your way to being your best self. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, we dive into the messy, often contradictory experience of church life—what it means to attend, to embody faith, and to find yourself in conflict with the very institution meant to nurture your spirit. From the beauty of community to the wounds left by religious dogma, we explore what happens when the place that once felt like home starts to feel like a battleground. Is it possible to reconcile faith with frustration? Are you a Christian or a moralist? Can you still “be the church” when the church no longer feels like yours? Let’s unpack the tension, the heartbreak, and the hope of a complicated spiritual journey. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices