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I Did Not Sign Up For This

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Carling, a queer Canadian with a strong belief in the transformative power of storytelling, community, and friendship, is the creative mind behind "I Did Not Sign Up For This." As the podcast enters its third season, Carling is joined by her partner Lindsay, along with their two new Queer BFFs, Sam and Amy. Together, they navigate a diverse range of everyday topics, delve into the obscure, and explore the intricacies of their long-distance friendship, (fondly referred by Queers as "U-hauling"). Get ready to immerse yourself in the camaraderie and open discussions—no topic is off limits. Become part of the conversation and feel like one of the besties!

Location:

Canada

Description:

Carling, a queer Canadian with a strong belief in the transformative power of storytelling, community, and friendship, is the creative mind behind "I Did Not Sign Up For This." As the podcast enters its third season, Carling is joined by her partner Lindsay, along with their two new Queer BFFs, Sam and Amy. Together, they navigate a diverse range of everyday topics, delve into the obscure, and explore the intricacies of their long-distance friendship, (fondly referred by Queers as "U-hauling"). Get ready to immerse yourself in the camaraderie and open discussions—no topic is off limits. Become part of the conversation and feel like one of the besties!

Language:

English

Contact:

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Episodes
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Collections

4/30/2024
Don't worry - we arent talking debt collectors, but rather a lighthearted discussion of collectibles. Are you a collector, or are you just accumulating things? We're learning who among us grew up with families that collect things, which one of us gets anxiety even thinking about it, and some nostalgic throwbacks we think you'll enjoy! If you're enjoying the show, please consider rating and reviewing the show and share with your friends! You can find us online IG @Ididnotsignupforthis.podcast FB @Ididntsuft TikTok @Ididnotsignupforthis.pod www.patreon.com/ididnotsignupforthis www.ididnotsignupforthis.com If you're in BC, Alberta, or Ontario and love amazing quality, local meats, check out Tru Local - when you order your first box using this link, you'll get up to $75 off! Click here for instant savings! Join the community over on Patreon at www.patreon.com/ididnotsignupforthis Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/i-did-not-sign-up-for-this/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Duration:00:42:28

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Steamy dreamys and nasty nightmares

4/16/2024
This week we're talking dreams - from steamy to downright terrifying, and everything in between. If you're enjoying the show, please consider rating and reviewing the show and share with your friends! You can find us online IG @Ididnotsignupforthis.podcast FB @Ididntsuft TikTok @Ididnotsignupforthis.pod www.patreon.com/ididnotsignupforthis www.ididnotsignupforthis.com If you're in BC, Alberta, or Ontario and love amazing quality, local meats, check out Tru Local - when you order your first box using this link, you'll get up to $75 off! Click here for instant savings! Join the community over on Patreon at www.patreon.com/ididnotsignupforthis Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/i-did-not-sign-up-for-this/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Duration:00:49:16

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Oh what a mess!

4/2/2024
This week we're discussing messes - epic, mucky, yucky messes. Whats an epic mess you've caused, or been victim to? If you're enjoying the show, please consider rating and reviewing the show and share with your friends! You can find us online IG @Ididnotsignupforthis.podcast FB @Ididntsuft TikTok @Ididnotsignupforthis.pod www.patreon.com/ididnotsignupforthis www.ididnotsignupforthis.com If you're in BC, Alberta, or Ontario and love amazing quality, local meats, check out Tru Local - when you order your first box using this link, you'll get up to $75 off! Click here for instant savings! Join the community over on Patreon at www.patreon.com/ididnotsignupforthis Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/i-did-not-sign-up-for-this/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Duration:00:56:27

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Kids in sports - barriers, opportunities, and the reasons we're broke

3/19/2024
Did you grow up in extra curriculars? Join the conversation with your new besties as we talk about the seemingly impossible task of keeping kids in sports without going bankrupt! We talk gender disparities, and the most expensive and most affordable sports for kids. If you're enjoying the show, please consider rating and reviewing the show and share with your friends! You can find us online IG @Ididnotsignupforthis.podcast FB @Ididntsuft TikTok @Ididnotsignupforthis.pod www.patreon.com/ididnotsignupforthis www.ididnotsignupforthis.com If you're in BC, Alberta, or Ontario and love amazing quality, local meats, check out Tru Local - when you order your first box using this link, you'll get up to $75 off! Click here for instant savings! Join the community over on Patreon at www.patreon.com/ididnotsignupforthis Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/i-did-not-sign-up-for-this/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Duration:01:04:44

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Practically pranking

3/5/2024
Join us in our "Prank for good" by sharing, and donating if you can to this truly worthy campaign - Get Milly to New York! If you're enjoying the show, please consider rating and reviewing the show and share with your friends! You can find us online IG @Ididnotsignupforthis.podcast FB @Ididntsuft TikTok @Ididnotsignupforthis.pod www.patreon.com/ididnotsignupforthis www.ididnotsignupforthis.com If you're in BC, Alberta, or Ontario and love amazing quality, local meats, check out Tru Local - when you order your first box using this link, you'll get up to $75 off! Join the community over on Patreon at www.patreon.com/ididnotsignupforthis Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/i-did-not-sign-up-for-this/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Duration:00:45:09

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Understanding Alberta's Proposed Gender Identity regulations

2/20/2024
In this episode we're breaking down Albertas new proposed gender identity policies - join the conversation as we discuss our own reactions, as well as the implications of these conservative policies on trans and gender diverse youth, as well as the 2SLGBTQIA community at large. If you're enjoying the show, please consider rating and reviewing the show and share with your friends! You can find us online IG @Ididnotsignupforthis.podcast FB @Ididntsuft TikTok @Ididnotsignupforthis.pod www.patreon.com/ididnotsignupforthis www.ididnotsignupforthis.com If you're in BC, Alberta, or Ontario and love amazing quality, local meats, check out Tru Local - when you order your first box using this link, you'll get up to $75 off! Join the community over on Patreon at www.patreon.com/ididnotsignupforthis Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/i-did-not-sign-up-for-this/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Duration:00:55:10

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Season 3: Pilot

2/6/2024
Have you made new friends as adults? because it can feel damn near impossible! In the highly anticipated Season 3 of "I Did Not Sign Up For This," the dynamic quartet of co hosts – Carling, Lindsay, Sam, and Amy are delivering a fresh wave of humor, candid conversations, and unexpected twists all while "U-hauling" their friendship to the next level. If you're enjoying the show, please consider rating and reviewing the show and share with your friends! You can find us online IG @Ididnotsignupforthis.podcast FB @Ididntsuft TikTok @Ididnotsignupforthis.pod www.patreon.com/ididnotsignupforthis www.ididnotsignupforthis.com If you're in BC, Alberta, or Ontario and love amazing quality, local meats, check out Tru Local - when you order your first box using this link, you'll get up to $75 off! Join the community over on Patreon at www.patreon.com/ididnotsignupforthis Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/i-did-not-sign-up-for-this/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Duration:01:09:04

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Finding clarity in the chaos - Charli's Story

1/2/2024
In this episode I'm joined by Charli, who shares their story of overcoming unimaginable challenges and finding clarity through all the chaos they endured. Today, Charli is a clarity coach who helps people from all walks of life. You can find Charli on IG and TikTok @charli_timehacker and their website https://www.timehackersunite.com If you're enjoying the show, please consider rating and reviewing the show HERE, and share with your friends! You can find me online IG @Ididnotsignupforthis.podcast FB @Ididntsuft TikTok @Ididnotsignupforthis.pod www.patreon.com/ididnotsignupforthis www.ididnotsignupforthis.com Join the community over on Patreon at www.patreon.com/ididnotsignupforthis Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/i-did-not-sign-up-for-this/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Duration:00:44:16

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Better late than straight - Kathy's Story

12/26/2023
Being a fundamentalist Christian, Kathy was doing everything "right" - she married a man, home schooled their four children, and was involved with her church. It was her husbands alcoholism that would trigger a divorce, and level of self discovery she was not prepared for. If you're enjoying the show, please consider rating and reviewing the show HERE, and share with your friends! You can find me online IG @Ididnotsignupforthis.podcast FB @Ididntsuft TikTok @Ididnotsignupforthis.pod www.patreon.com/ididnotsignupforthis www.ididnotsignupforthis.com Join the community over on Patreon at www.patreon.com/ididnotsignupforthis Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/i-did-not-sign-up-for-this/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Duration:00:54:02

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Breaking generational curses - Jill Davis' Story

12/12/2023
Jill Davis shares her incredible journey of overcoming loss, religious conditioning, and a difficult marriage to find peace and self-expression. She discusses the impact of the tragic loss of her sisters, the pressure to conform to societal expectations, and the challenges of a high-conflict divorce. Jill also highlights the importance of breaking generational curses and finding one's own path to happiness. She shares her experiences of rediscovering freedom, exploring new experiences, and finding solace on her inherited farm. Through it all, Jill emphasizes the importance of continuous healing and growth. You can learn more about Jill, her coaching, and podcast If you're enjoying the show, please consider rating and reviewing the show HERE, and share with your friends! You can find me online IG @Ididnotsignupforthis.podcast FB @Ididntsuft TikTok @Ididnotsignupforthis.pod www.patreon.com/ididnotsignupforthis www.ididnotsignupforthis.com Join the community over on Patreon at www.patreon.com/ididnotsignupforthis Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/i-did-not-sign-up-for-this/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Duration:00:46:42

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Fighting for life changing treatment - Candisses Story

11/28/2023
In this episode, I talk with Candisse Mccormick - a Canadian woman living with Spinal Muscular Atrophy (SMA) who is raising money, and awareness to gain access to a life saving treatment while lobbying for change that will help others with SMA. If you are able to donate, or share this gofundme with your community, please check it out HERE Her website has a ton of great information and resources, you can get that HERE If you're enjoying the show, please consider rating and reviewing the show HERE, and share with your friends! You can find me online IG @Ididnotsignupforthis.podcast FB @Ididntsuft TikTok @Ididnotsignupforthis.pod www.patreon.com/ididnotsignupforthis www.ididnotsignupforthis.com Join the community over on Patreon at www.patreon.com/ididnotsignupforthis Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/i-did-not-sign-up-for-this/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Duration:00:52:04

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Unimaginable Loss - Melissa's Story

10/3/2023
*Content warning - this episode discusses suicide and drug overdose In this deeply moving episode join me for an intimate and heart-wrenching conversation with Melissa, a resilient woman who has experienced the unfathomable depths of grief and loss. Melissa opens up about the her journey that began with the accidental drug overdose that claimed the life of her ex husband, and father of her children. Just when she thought life couldn't become more challenging, tragedy struck again when her husband died by suicide after a long battle with chronic pain and navigating a broken medical system. This episode is not just about the pain and despair; it's also a testament to the indomitable human spirit. Melissa reveals how, in the face of overwhelming adversity, she found the strength to not only carry her own grief but to help her children process their own trauma, loss, and sorrow. Join us as we hear Melissa's extraordinary journey, offering solace and understanding to those who have endured their own unimaginable losses and shining a light on the path to recovery, forgiveness, and finding a new sense of purpose in life. This is a story that reminds us of the human capacity to persevere, rebuild, and ultimately thrive, no matter how profound the loss. If you're enjoying the show, please consider rating and reviewing the show HERE, and share with your friends! You can find me online IG @Ididnotsignupforthis.podcast FB @Ididntsuft TikTok @Ididnotsignupforthis.pod www.patreon.com/ididnotsignupforthis www.ididnotsignupforthis.com Join the community over on Patreon at www.patreon.com/ididnotsignupforthis Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/i-did-not-sign-up-for-this/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Duration:00:48:10

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Growing up untethered - Stacey's Story

9/19/2023
Growing up in a time when divorce wasn't as common, Stacey experienced a feeling of being untethered - never feeling like she was home despite having two houses to go between. With her parents each remarrying, Stacey shares her experience and how it's shaped not only who she is today, but how she shows up as a parent as a result. You can find Stacey on IG @staceyuhrig and listen to her podcast anywhere you get your podcasts by searching Flip That Shit, or HERE If you're enjoying the show, please consider rating and reviewing the show HERE, and share with your friends! You can find me online IG @Ididnotsignupforthis.podcast FB @Ididntsuft TikTok @Ididnotsignupforthis.pod www.patreon.com/ididnotsignupforthis www.ididnotsignupforthis.com Join the community over on Patreon at www.patreon.com/ididnotsignupforthis Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/i-did-not-sign-up-for-this/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Duration:00:42:33

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Finding Purpose through Prison - Mattison's Story

9/5/2023
Join me in my conversation with Mattison Skoog-Simpson (CDBC, CPDT-KA) in "Finding Purpose through Prison". Mattison's story is a reminder that we can't always predict the path we'll take, but we can make the most of it and turn it into a learning experience. Don't miss out on this incredible tale of resilience, redemption, and the power of discovering your true passion. You can find Mattison on IG where there is a link to all of the work she's doing! If you're enjoying the show, please consider rating and reviewing the show HERE, and share with your friends! You can find me online IG @Ididnotsignupforthis.podcast FB @Ididntsuft TikTok @Ididnotsignupforthis.pod www.patreon.com/ididnotsignupforthis www.ididnotsignupforthis.com Join the community over on Patreon at www.patreon.com/ididnotsignupforthis Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/i-did-not-sign-up-for-this/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Duration:00:53:20

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Finding Liberation: How Fly Fishing Transcended Conversion Therapy - Elena Joy's Story

8/22/2023
In this powerful episode, I sit down with the incredible Elena Joy as she shares her journey of self-discovery and liberation. From being deeply rooted in the Mormon church, and a life as a stay-at-home mom in a traditional marriage, Elena's story takes a profound turn when she discovers she has same-sex attraction. 🏳️‍🌈❤️ Elena's narrative takes us on a rollercoaster of emotions, from heartbreak to resilience, and ultimately to triumph over a belief system that sought to suppress her true self. 🌟 Her courage in breaking free from the shackles of conversion therapy is an inspiration to all who are on a path to authenticity and self-love. Tune in to this episode as Elena Joy recounts her discovery of the healing power of fly fishing, and how she found the strength to rise above adversity. 🎧✨ Let her story remind us that embracing our true selves is a journey worth taking, no matter the challenges we face. If you're enjoying the show, please consider rating and reviewing the show HERE, and share with your friends! You can find me online IG @Ididnotsignupforthis.podcast FB @Ididntsuft TikTok @Ididnotsignupforthis.pod www.patreon.com/ididnotsignupforthis www.ididnotsignupforthis.com Join the community over on Patreon at www.patreon.com/ididnotsignupforthis Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/i-did-not-sign-up-for-this/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Duration:00:41:14

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False memories and the deception that silenced millions - A conversation with Lynn Crook

8/8/2023
*TRIGGER WARNING* Topics include childhood sexual abuse. This week I sit down with the courageous Lynn Crook, a survivor who refused to be silenced any longer! In "False Memories," Lynn sheds light on the heartbreaking reality of abuse and manipulation she endured at the hands of her own parents. You can find more information about Lynn, as well as her book at http://www.lynncrook.com/index.html If you're enjoying the show, please consider rating and reviewing the show HERE, and share with your friends! You can find me online IG @Ididnotsignupforthis.podcast FB @Ididntsuft TikTok @Ididnotsignupforthis.pod Twitter @Ididntsuft www.patreon.com/ididnotsignupforthis www.ididnotsignupforthis.com Join the community over on Patreon at www.patreon.com/ididnotsignupforthis Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/i-did-not-sign-up-for-this/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Duration:00:26:52

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D.I.D, Generational Trauma, and Choosing a Different Path - Amy's Story

7/25/2023
Join me as we get into a powerful and enlightening conversation with Amy Porter. We explore the depths of her extraordinary journey, growing up with a mother who had Dissociative Identity Disorder (DID). Amy's story is a testament to resilience and the strength of the human spirit. Her childhood was filled with immense challenges, as she navigated a world of inconsistency and unknowns. Many times, she felt lost and alone, grappling with the complexities of her mother's condition. Amy shares her transformative experiences and the lessons she's learned along the way. Through determination and sheer will, she has carved a different path for herself and started a beautiful family of her own. This episode is an eye-opening exploration of mental health, compassion, and the power of forging our own destinies. If you're enjoying the show, please consider rating and reviewing the show HERE, and share with your friends! You can find me online IG @Ididnotsignupforthis.podcast FB @Ididntsuft TikTok @Ididnotsignupforthis.pod Twitter @Ididntsuft www.patreon.com/ididnotsignupforthis www.ididnotsignupforthis.com Join the community over on Patreon at www.patreon.com/ididnotsignupforthis Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/i-did-not-sign-up-for-this/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Duration:00:34:44

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From Trauma to Triumph: Andrea's Story

7/11/2023
This episode we hear the remarkable journey of Andrea, who was adopted at birth into a Conservative Jewish family but endured unimaginable hardships throughout her childhood. As a young girl, Andrea's life took a tragic turn when her adoptive mother passed away, leaving her vulnerable and exposed to the abusive hands of her father and stepmother. Enduring unspeakable trauma and loss, Andrea's spirit remained unbroken, fueling her determination to escape the toxic family system that had engulfed her. Leaving everything behind, Andrea embarked on a profound journey of self-discovery and healing. It was a quest to understand life beyond the shattered remnants of her past, and an exploration of her own identity and purpose. In this episode, Andrea recounts her harrowing experiences and shares the incredible resilience that allowed her to rise above the darkness. With unwavering strength, she found the courage to confront her painful past and take the necessary steps towards reuniting with her birth family. Andrea shares how she navigated the complexities of her Jewish heritage and embraced her newfound connections. If you're enjoying the show, please consider rating and reviewing the show HERE, and share with your friends! You can find me online IG @Ididnotsignupforthis.podcast FB @Ididntsuft TikTok @Ididnotsignupforthis.pod Twitter @Ididntsuft www.patreon.com/ididnotsignupforthis www.ididnotsignupforthis.com Join the community over on Patreon at www.patreon.com/ididnotsignupforthis Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/i-did-not-sign-up-for-this/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Duration:00:39:57

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Learning to trust after religious trauma - Catherines Story

7/4/2023
Join the Leaders for Inclusive Change HERE Tune in to Episode 174 as we delve deep into a thought-provoking conversation with guest Catherine Quiring! She bravely opens up about her journey of growing up evangelical and the profound impact it had on her life. Catherine takes us on a captivating exploration of her experiences, as she unravels the layers of her story, revealing how she emerged as a codependent people pleaser and the challenges she faced in reclaiming her identity. Prepare to be moved as Catherine shares her path to healing, offering invaluable insights and lessons she learned along the way. Her resilience and determination will inspire you to confront your own struggles and embark on a journey of self-discovery and growth. If you're enjoying the show, please consider rating and reviewing the show HERE, and share with your friends! You can find me online IG @Ididnotsignupforthis.podcast FB @Ididntsuft TikTok @Ididnotsignupforthis.pod Twitter @Ididntsuft www.patreon.com/ididnotsignupforthis www.ididnotsignupforthis.com Join the community over on Patreon at www.patreon.com/ididnotsignupforthis Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/i-did-not-sign-up-for-this/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Duration:00:39:26

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Targeted and attacked - Lexi's Story

6/27/2023
Join the Leaders for Inclusive Change HERE Being a teenager is hard - you want to fit in, have friends, and experience life to the fullest. But what would you do if the very people who you thought were your friends tried to kill you? Join me as I hear from Lexi, who opens up about the scariest experience of her life. You can follow Lexi's story on TikTok @lexiweinbaum If you're enjoying the show, please consider rating and reviewing the show HERE, and share with your friends! You can find me online IG @Ididnotsignupforthis.podcast FB @Ididntsuft TikTok @Ididnotsignupforthis.pod Twitter @Ididntsuft www.patreon.com/ididnotsignupforthis www.ididnotsignupforthis.com Join the community over on Patreon at www.patreon.com/ididnotsignupforthis Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/i-did-not-sign-up-for-this/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Duration:00:57:50