Sex on Your Terms

This time, Brian shares his thoughts on interacting with bisexual, pansexual and gay men as he further explores his own sexuality. Plus, how does all of this fit into our polyamorous journey? A deep look into our experiences as a couple with a pansexual man! Check out our coaching services at https://sexonyourterms.com Email us directly at sexonyourterms@gmail.com Twitter: https://twitter.com/sexonyourterms Instagram: https://instagram.com/sexonyourterms

A very different episode of Sex on Your Terms! We receive so much correspondence from single men about how to be successful in the lifestyle space. So, we're providing it here today! Hear directly from a hotwife couple how to catch the attention of those that entertain single men, and how to ensure you are keeping that attention! For more personalized information, or to have us help with an online profile, find our services at https://sexonyourterms.com Email us with questions and comments at sexonyourterms@gmail.com Twitter: https://twitter.com/sexonyourterms Instagram: https://instagram.com/sexonyourterms

During this episode of the Sex on Your Terms podcast, we discuss our personal hard and soft limits, and how limits defer from preferences. Plus, how have our limits changed over the course of our non-monogamous journey? Book your free consultative call with us today at https://sexonyourterms.com Email us directly with comments, questions and more at sexonyourterms@gmail.com Twitter: https://twitter.com/sexonyourterms Instagram: https://instagram.com/sexonyourterms

During this episode of the Sex on Your Terms podcast, we discuss the importance of value systems in the lifestyle, when it matters that they align with others, and when it really might not. Plus, we chat about our personal experiences with poly relationships and how value systems not aligning can spell trouble for a long-term relationship. For individualized sex coaching, assistance entering the non-monogamous lifestyle, and so much more, book a free consultation with us today at https://sexonyourterms.com Email us directly with feedback and questions at sexonyourterms@gmail.com Twitter: https://twitter.com/sexonyourterms Instagram: https://instagram.com/sexonyourterms

Episode 26 of Sex on Your Terms discusses the assumptions and pre-conceived notions held about all different elements of the non-monogamous lifestyle, both from the outside world as well as from other lifestylers. Hear our thoughts, plus when we think that assumptions can actually be a positive thing! Find our coaching services and book a consultative call with us at https://sexonyourterms.com Email us directly at sexonyourterms@gmail.com Twitter: https://twitter.com/sexonyourterms Instagram: https://instagram.com/sexonyourterms

Many a sex therapist has used the 5 Erotic Blueprints model to help couples understand their own sexual needs and those of their partner. But how does this model work for non-monogamous people who experience sex with multiple partners? We offer our own opinions and some real-life examples on Episode 25 of the Sex on Your Terms podcast! Find all of our resources and coaching services at https://sexonyourterms.com Email us directly to schedule a free consultative call or ask a question at sexonyourterms@gmail.com Twitter: https://twitter.com/sexonyourterms Instagram: https://instagram.com/sexonyourterms

On this episode of the Sex on Your Terms podcast, Brenna and Brian discuss Brian's concerns about getting older and interacting with lifestylers younger than him over time. Brenna shares her own thoughts on how she believes their lifestyle journey will change as they both age. Hear this and much more by downloading today! Discover our coaching services and resources at https://sexonyourterms.com Email us with questions and comments at sexonyourterms@gmail.com Twitter: https://twitter.com/sexonyourterms Instagram: https://instagram.com/sexonyourterms

Brenna turns the tables on Brian during this episode of Sex on Your Terms! She asks him a question that spurs a conversation about fears and trepidations in non-monogamous relationships, specifically around expressing sexuality and diving into the world of polyamory! Let us know your thoughts, or reach us directly for assistance at sexonyourterms@gmail.com Find our coaching services, blogs and resources at https://sexonyourterms.com Twitter: https://twitter.com/sexonyourterms Instagram: https://instagram.com/sexonyourterms

A very different episode of Sex on Your Terms! Brian provides Brenna with a question about their lives as a hotwife couple, and it leads to a very real conversation about our journey: Past, present, and future. Hear what it's REALLY like to be a hotwife couple! Check out our coaching services, blog, and more at https://sexonyourterms.com Email us directly at sexonyourterms@gmail.com Make sure you're subscribed to the show on whatever platform you stream on!

Change is an inevitable part of life, and from our perspective, and integral part of being in a successful non-monogamous relationship. This episode, we share some of the ways in which we have grown and changed personally so far during our non-monogamous journey. We also talk through some of the ways we would like to improve ourselves and our relationship in order to become the most fulfilled non-monogamous people we can be. Listen in, and reach out with your own thoughts and comments at sexonyourterms@gmail.com! To start your dive into finding true sexual liberation and fulfillment, check out our resources and services at https://sexonyourterms.com Twitter: https://twitter.com/sexonyourterms Instagram: https://instagram.com/sexonyourterms

This week, we discuss the double standards based on gender that exist in the non-monogamous world, plus how this relates to society at large. We also discuss an interesting study about the word "clitoris" during Sex in the News! Find our coaching services and other resources at https://sexonyourterms.com Email us with questions, comments, and topic suggestions at sexonyourterms@gmail.com Twitter: https://twitter.com/sexonyourterms Instagram: https://instagram.com/sexonyourterms

Episode 19 of Sex on Your Terms explains 5 different types of attraction, and how each can manifest themselves in different ways in non-monogamous relationships. Plus, how has each type affected us in our individual dynamics, between each other and with others? For individualized coaching on non-monogamy or sexuality in general, find our services and resources at https://sexonyourterms.com Email us directly at sexonyourterms@gmail.com Twitter: https://twitter.com/sexonyourterms Instagram: https://instagram.com/sexonyourterms

A new couple that has come into our lives has us questioning and discussing two of the most important qualities we assess when looking for play partners: Chemistry and connection. We discuss each, as well as the ways in which we can tell they absolutely do or do not exist when we interact with others. To join the conversation, email us at sexonyourterms@gmail.com For our coaching services and additional resources, head to https://sexonyourterms.com Twitter: https://twitter.com/sexonyourterms Instagram: https://instagram.com/sexonyourterms

During this episode of Sex on Your Terms, we discuss how our play style has evolved, and how getting on the road has taught us what's most important when it comes to playing with others. Plus, we chat about compatibility in the lifestyle, and how we seek it out personally. Make sure to visit our friends, Altplayground, at https://altplayground.net For coaching services and more information on us, head to https://sexonyourterms.com Twitter: https://twitter.com/sexonyourterms Instagram: https://instagram.com/sexonyourterms

Every couple has a different "sweet spot" terms of how frequently they play. As people who had very regular play partners in their hometown before hopping on the road, we've had several really meaningful discussions about how frequently we would like to be playing. But when life gets crazy, the lifestyle can often take a back seat...Hear us explain this from our perspective! Check out our partners, Altplayground.net for your next nonmonogamous adventure! https://altplayground.net Coaching services and resources can be found at https://sexonyourterms.com Twitter: https://twitter.com/sexonyourterms Instagram: https://instagram.com/sexonyourterms

The worlds of swinging and kink, while adjacent, don't always see eye to eye. We attempt to explain why this might be from our perspective, as well as some personal opinions on how both camps can be a little more understanding of the other. After all, shouldn't we all be able to play nice? For more information on our services and resources, visit us at https://sexonyourterms.com For your next non-monogamous adventure, we hope you'll consider our partners, Altplayground! https://altplayground.net Email us at sexonyourterms@gmail.com Twitter: https://twitter.com/sexonyourterms Instagram: https://instagram.com/sexonyourterms

It is almost inevitable for those in the nonmonogamous lifestyle to arrive at this dilemma eventually: What if someone catches feelings when they "aren't supposed to"? We ran into just such a dilemma recently, and the conversation that ensues is one of boundary-setting and transparency in nonmonogamous interactions. Make sure to visit our partners for your next nonmonogamous adventure! https://altplayground.net Email us your questions, topic suggestions and comments to sexonyourterms@gmail.com See our coaching services and other resources at https://sexonyourterms.com Twitter: https://twitter.com/sexonyourterms Instagram: https://instagram.com/sexonyourterms

This episode of Sex on Your Terms, Brenna and Brian discuss how their priorities have shifted in terms of what they most want in a play partner over the course of their nonmonogamous journey. They also delve into the characteristics each finds most important in a potential poly romantic interest. It's a fun listen with insights on how experience and learning can shift perspectives greatly in this lifestyle. Make sure to check out our partners, Altplayground.net, for your next nonmonogamous adventure! https://altplayground.net For information on our coaching services or to schedule a free consultative call, visit us today at https://sexonyourterms.com Email us your comments, questions, or topic suggestions to sexonyourterms@gmail.com Twitter: https://twitter.com/sexonyourterms Instagram: https://instagram.com/sexonyourterms

During Episode 12 of the Sex on Your Terms podcast, Brenna and Brian discuss the concept of fairness in lifestyle relationships, as well as certain circumstances in which many couples experience an inbalance in perceived fairness. Find out our recommendations for avoiding the "score board" mentality in nonmonogamous relationships! Check out our partners, Altplayground, for your next nonmonogamous adventure! https://altplayground.net Twitter: https://twitter.com/sexonyourterms Instagram: https://instagram.com/sexonyourterms Check out our resources and coaching services at https://sexonyourterms.com Email us your questions, comments, and topic suggestions to sexonyourterms@gmail.com today!

In the world of nonmonogamy, it's an almost certainty that you will experience "trainwreck" moments that could be labeled as failures. But seasoned lifestylers will tell you that each failure is an opportunity to learn and grow. We examine 4 of our biggest "failures" as well as the lessons we took with us into future interactions to create more pleasurable experiences for all! This and more, on Episode 11 of Sex on Your Terms! Find our resources, coaching services, and so much more at https://sexonyourterms.com Email us at sexonyourterms@gmail.com Twitter: https://twitter.com/sexonyourterms Instagram: https://instagram.com/sexonyourterms Visit our sponsors, Altplayground, for your next nonmonogamous adventure! https://altplayground.net