Love by Design
Romance
Love by Design is the only podcast that teaches women the exact algorithm on how to find your ideal type of man with a proven personality typing system. Dating and Relationship Coach and Eniostyle Expert Polina Solda combines her coaching and personality typing expertise to teach women how to finally solve the problem of “finding the right man” and then create an easy and lasting relationship. You’ll be amazed how quickly you can find the love of your life when you follow Polina’s advice shared in this show. Learn more at www.polinasolda.com Book a free consultation "Attract Your Man" at: https://calendly.com/polinasolda/attract-your-man-now-call-40mins?month=2022-11
Location:
United States
Genres:
Romance
Description:
Love by Design is the only podcast that teaches women the exact algorithm on how to find your ideal type of man with a proven personality typing system. Dating and Relationship Coach and Eniostyle Expert Polina Solda combines her coaching and personality typing expertise to teach women how to finally solve the problem of “finding the right man” and then create an easy and lasting relationship. You’ll be amazed how quickly you can find the love of your life when you follow Polina’s advice shared in this show. Learn more at www.polinasolda.com Book a free consultation "Attract Your Man" at: https://calendly.com/polinasolda/attract-your-man-now-call-40mins?month=2022-11
Language:
English
Episodes
The End of the Love by Design Podcast
12/29/2022
Can you believe it? It’s the end of the year of 2022 already. And, it’s the end of the Love by Design podcast.
I spent two years and paid thousands of dollars to record and produce 85 episodes that thousands of people listened to… and loved.
You probably wonder, “WHY???”
The answer is simple. My new podcast Find the Right Man is BETTER.
And I want you and new listeners to start the new year there.
But even deeper…. I let go of attachment to where I’ve been. I’m committed to where I am...
Duration:00:31:12
How to Meet Your Man with My Proven System
12/22/2022
You CAN meet your man in just a few simple steps.
Even if it hasn’t “worked out” in the past.
Your current age, location and amount of free time are enough.
It isn’t impossible or hard. You don’t have to struggle.
In this week’s episode #84 How to Meet Your Man with My Proven System, you’re about to discover:
✨The three biggest mistakes women make that keep them single
✨How to avoid these mistakes and what to do differently
✨A proven process for finding the right man in just three...
Duration:00:43:06
High-Quality Dating
12/15/2022
How can you create the high-quality dating experience of attracting high-quality men to you?
Your thoughts create your results in love—your thoughts about the quality of men, the quality of the dating experience and what's possible for you in love.
What you can create in love depends on whether it's based on your past, your perceived limitations, fear, lack or doubt, or whether it’s coming from a place of possibility—a future that doesn't exist yet.
That’s exactly what I explore in this...
Duration:00:41:36
The Six Dating Phases
12/8/2022
Have you ever wondered why some women do the exact same things in dating but get completely different results?
The simple answer is that they go through different dating phases.
Each one creates different experiences, opportunities and results.
I came up with these six dating phases based on my experience coaching thousands of women in the last 12 years.
When you are aware of them, when you don't resist them, don’t fight against them and don't try to skip them, then you can confidently...
Duration:00:30:30
Are you struggling with low-quality dating?
12/1/2022
If yes, I want to offer you this perspective:
It's not what you do in dating.
It's not what you say in your online dating profile, texts, or social media pages.
It's not whether you reach out to a guy or he reaches out to you.
None of these things matter as much as what I’m going to say..
It's what you think about when you do these things.
Because your thoughts create your feelings.
And how you feel determines what energy vibration you exude.
Men unconsciously pick up on that energy....
Duration:00:32:57
Giving with men
11/24/2022
Happy
Giving…
You can think about it from a place of lack or from a place of abundance.
The most powerful thing about giving is that you get to create within you.
You already have direct, instant access to the unlimited source of energy and love inside of you.
You can create energy and love with your thoughts.
You can give it to others with your actions.
And, you can have MORE of it with your results.
During this time of giving thanks, I want to offer you this thought:
You have...
Duration:00:27:35
What you think you know that you don’t
11/17/2022
When I was single and dating, my slogan on my online dating profile was, "30 seconds and we both know."
But 100+ dates later, I still needed to find out.
The way our brain works is that it searches for familiar, repetitive patterns. It loves to repeat the same patterns. If you think about it, our brain thinks the same thoughts day in and out. 🧠 ⭕
The same thing happens with dating and choosing men.
Our brain wants to keep us from making new decisions that require a lot of energy and...
Duration:00:29:41
Why you aren’t dating
11/10/2022
If you're currently single and not dating . . .
If you have a desire in your heart to meet the love of your life, yet you're not taking action . . .
Why is that?
You want something, yet you need to do something in the direction of your desire.
We often come up with some good reasons for doing something other than what we want.
We can wholeheartedly believe that these are the real reasons. They're very rational and logical and make sense.
Yet, underneath usually lies something else.
If...
Duration:00:34:15
How Shift from Being Single to Being in a Relationship
11/3/2022
Many single women I talk with tell me there are only two reasons why they can’t get into a relationship: not finding the right man, or meeting a man but . . . he doesn’t want to commit.
They think it happens to them when a man doesn’t have time for a relationship or changes his mind or disappears. 🤷🏻♀️
They think that when men don’t commit, string them along, or ghost them is just what happens in dating. 🤷🏻♀️
But being in a relationship is a choice.
What . . .? 🤯
You choose...
Duration:00:37:59
The Dual Relationship Pyramid
10/27/2022
Would you like to get a glimpse of what’s happening inside Love by Design?
And would you like to learn how some of our members get into a dual relationship—an easy, stable and lasting relationship—as quickly as 30 days after joining?
Besides learning how to use personality typing and manage their minds, our members follow my unique and highly effective Dual Relationship Pyramid framework.
Because it’s so powerful and valuable, I dedicated it to a new episode: #76 The Dual Relationship...
Duration:00:44:02
How to think new thoughts in dating
10/20/2022
If you feel like you're going around in circles in dating, I get it.
It can be extremely frustrating and exhausting to spend so much time, energy and effort in online dating, texting and dating yet see no progress.
You may be trapped in the illusion that if you do MORE, you’ll get better and different results, so you push and force yourself.
You may be taking a break from dating, waiting and staying in the place of inaction.
And here’s what I want to offer you:
Our thoughts create our...
Duration:00:42:25
How to Feel Love
10/13/2022
So many of us WANT to feel love. But . . . so many of us are not doing the things that would ALLOW us to have it.
So many of us have been programmed to think that for us to feel love, there are certain things that need to happen that are outside of our control.
We’ve been programmed to believe that if we just find this special person or soulmate, then we will finally have access to this feeling of love. Then, finally, we'll be happy.
What I want to offer you is this:
Love is created...
Duration:00:31:10
Overcoming Self-Doubt in Dating
10/6/2022
Talking with single women every day, I hear so many stories of women who want to find the love of their life but aren’t dating.
They share that they don’t feel confident about putting themselves out there—especially, after taking a long break from dating.
They are trying to hide, and continue telling themselves why NOW isn’t the “right” time for dating, why they’re “too busy” to date or why it’s going to be a waste of time.
Have you ever wondered what’s underneath those...
Duration:00:48:02
Invest in yourself & your future relationship
9/29/2022
We just got back from a 10-day family vacation to the West Coast. I feel so inspired that I started writing a book.
As current members of my flagship program, “Love by Design,” share their wins and results (like start dating their dual partner types within just a couple of weeks of joining), I realize that each of them has one thing in common: they all INVEST in themselves.
Being smart, professional women, many of us invest in our educational and professional growth, in real estate and in...
Duration:00:39:53
Overcoming Fear in Dating
9/22/2022
As we’re hosting our free 3-part live video training, “Attract Your Man,” I'm aware that so many women want to find love but something gets in their way.
Most likely that something is FEAR.
Fear of putting yourself out there.
Fear of being rejected.
Fear of getting hurt (again).
Am I right?
And I totally get it. Your mind is trying to protect you.
It seems to be logical and rational.
But here’s what I want you to consider:
Your fear is not a good reason to not put yourself out there...
Duration:00:41:05
The cost of waiting and staying alone
9/16/2022
As I’m taking inspired action in my company (hosting a 3-part live video training starting September 22, hosting a virtual summit in January and publishing a book in March), I’m thinking how many of us smart, professional women approach our personal life differently.
When you’re so busy with work and life, it’s hard to find time and energy for dating and searching for the right man.
When you haven’t been putting yourself out there for a while, it’s really hard to say to yourself, “Okay,...
Duration:00:27:51
Be Honest with Yourself
9/8/2022
In this episode today, I want to talk about one quality that I believe is the most important when it comes to creating a healthy and powerful relationship—honesty.
That’s exactly what inspired me to create this new episode, #69 🎙️ “Being honest with Yourself”.
I truly believe that when you’re being completely honest about how you feel with yourself first and with other people and continue being this way, there is no way that you will not be in your dream relationship.
In this week’s...
Duration:00:41:44
Being in an easy relationship
9/1/2022
I love to say that a secret to any great relationship is that you always have something to look forward to together—I think it applies to life as well.
So what is the secret to a great and long term relationship?
The secret—of course—anything very easy is easy to maintain.
That’s exactly why I created this new episode, #68 🎙️ Being in an easy relationship. I'm going to give you the exact formula and give some examples of how it works in this podcast.
Because I think being an easy...
Duration:00:41:57
Do you have a "Man Manual?"
8/25/2022
A couple of weeks ago, we invited a group of friends boating with us. One of them was a single woman who has what I call a “Man Manual.” She attempted to use it with my husband, which inspired me to create this episode.
In this week’s episode, you’ll learn:
✨ What a Man Manual is
✨ How a Man Manual sabotages women
✨ The cost of holding on to a Man Manual
✨ Real life examples of women with Man Manuals
✨ The two words that are cues you have a Man Manual
✨ The secret to having a happy...
Duration:00:38:40
The real reasons why women can’t attract quality men online
8/17/2022
“There are no quality men online.”
“Online dating doesn’t work.”
If you’ve been thinking these thoughts and struggling to attract high-quality men online, you’re going to get the cold, hard facts about what’s really going on—and why—in this episode.
In this week’s episode, you’ll learn:
✨ What I’ve seen on Tinder as both a man and a woman
✨ The most important thing I learned from my shaman (it’s my mantra)
✨ Why focusing on what happened in the past doesn’t matter
✨ Why women struggle...
Duration:00:50:11