Dirty Rotten Church Kids

Well they say all rotten things must come to an end. In this final episode, I have a laid back conversation with my friend, the Pastor of Pump himself, Danny Prada. We talk about our respective journeys, how we have grown as individuals, how DRCK has impacted our lives, and how we feel as it all comes to a close. From the bottom of my heart, thank you for so many wonderful moments. I feel honored to have created this show and thrilled by what it has meant to so many Bad Apples like me. Keep up the Dirty Work. And remember, It’s all gonna be okay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

On this, second to last DRCK episode, I had the privilege of hanging out with my friend Janice (God Has Not Given! Bad Words! General Menace!) , and new friend Tim (The New Evangelicals!). We discuss the things we would go back and tell ourselves about our personal deconstruction journeys– the good, the bad, the dogmatic. We also discuss platform culture, how we feel about worship music, and play a game of Youth Group or Boy Band. Brought to you by BoyZone Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week I had the privilege of chatting with friend of the show and friend of mine, theologian and author Dr. Roberto Che Espinoza (Body Becoming! Activist Theology!). We have a laid back conversation about rest, embodiment, finding the third way and taking time to dream about the world we wish to see. I also go on a mild rant about being funemployed and the shit show that is the current job market. TIMESTAMPS: Interview - 10:24 Post Interview - 47:44 Sip, Smoke, Read - 59:45 LINKS: Donate to the Activist Theology Project. Check out Dr. Roberto Che’s Espinoza’s website. Follow @jerryjhlee, @workhap, and @apowermood for job hunting tips. Read Atomic Habits, Essentialism, So Good They Can't Ignore You, Good to Great, and The First 90 Days for self-help goodness. Brought to you by UTTERLY HUGE POTATOES Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week I had the privilege of speaking with sex educator and sex empowerment coach Portia Brown (Froetic Sexology!) . We discuss her upbringing in evangelical spaces, the ways she subverted the sex scripts she was handed, and the deliberate pursuit of pleasure practices. TIMESTAMPS: Interview - 5:04 Post Interview - 52:09 Sip, Smoke, Read - 57:30 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week we’re talking about missions! My co-hosts for this episode are podcasters, writers, and friends Kevin Garcia (Bad Theology Kills! A Tiny Revolution!) and Mason Mennenga (A People’s Theology! The Black Sheep Podcast!). Together we unpack our experiences with short term mission trips, the ideas and doctrines that informed so many of them, and how we feel on the other side of a faith change. We also hear stories from the Bad Apples. TIMESTAMPS: Interview - 2:07 Bad Apple Submissions - 49:15 Sip, Smoke, Read - 1:20:15 Brought to you by Real Time Twitter Fame Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week, I have the absolute privilege of speaking with songwriter, producer, genius Joy Oladokun. We discuss their upbringing in Christian spaces, stepping into truth and the creative journey. We discuss her new album, Proof of Life, the songwriting and creative process, and the art of sifting through faith traditions to find the goodness. We also witness a second encounter with everyone’s favorite evangelist, Pashhtor Ben. TIMESTAMPS: Interview - 4:26 Car Rental Sketch - 25:29 Post Interview - 55:05 Sip, Smoke, Read - 1:05:10 Brought to you by those little Christian propaganda comics that no one remembers the name of and there’s no way of knowing. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

On this episode, I have the privilege of chatting with podcast hosts Sarah Heath and Justin Gentry (REVcovery!). We talk about what it was Iike deconstructing while in full time ministry, the struggles of making significant career changes, and the impostor syndrome that comes along with it. We also discuss what we have found that brings joy on the other side of a faith change and hear stories from the Bad Apples. TIMESTAMPS: Interview - 1:04 Bad Apple Submissions - 59:29 Sip, Smoke, Read - 1:37:07 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week I have the absolute pleasure of chatting with podcaster, writer, and performer Holly Laurent (MEGA The Podcast!). We talk about her upbringing in evangelical spaces, and the faith change that ultimately led to Mega The Podcast. We talk about humor, creativity, walking the fine line of familiar and unfamiliar, and finding the lovely things on the other side of the evangelical bubble. Brought to you by that time the senior pastor only talked to you because he knew it would be filed away as a sermon illustration opportunity. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

For the first episode of the season, I chat with podcaster, author, and academic Brad Onishi (Straight White American Jesus!). We discuss his upbringing as a Japanese American within evangelicalism, the origins of extremist Christian nationalism and what comes next, his new book, and I have a big announcement to make about this season! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It’s the last DRCK of 2022! What a year it has been. I’m wrapping it all up with singer/musician/producer Lucy Dacus! We talk about her upbringing within a cerebral evangelicalism, VBS, Purity Culture, and unravelling what she was handed. We also talk about her latest full length, this year’s EP, her creative process and ways in how she has found community on the other side of a faith change. We also answer the age old question: was Lucy Dacus team Unforeseen Kiss or Sloppy Wet Kiss. Brought to you by The Christmas Carpenter and Vanilla Spice Eggnog TIKTOK Creator Cred: @patrickteahantherapy - You Are Not in Trouble @appliedscience11 - Where Are You Christmas? Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week I got to chat with actor, director and writer Jon Huertas (This is Us! Castle! Sabrina the Teenage Witch!). We talked about his upbringing within the catholic church, moving out of religious spaces to nontheism, and reasons he let go of the dogma he was handed to instead embrace belief in humanity. We also talk about creativity, the hard work of believing in yourself, telling compelling stories, and we chat about This is Us. Brought to you by Worship Dice TIMESTAMPS [8:35] A word from our sponsor: Worship Dice! [13:51] Interview with Jon Huertas [1:04:58] Sip, Smoke, Read WORSHIP DICE SKIT Music from https://freetousemusic.com/ Track title(s) by Limujii https://youtu.be/yHDLbdT4Z1Q "Sappheiros - Embrace" is under a Creative Commons license (CC BY 3.0) https://www.youtube.com/c/Sappheiros Music promoted by BreakingCopyright: https://bit.ly/embrace-song Music from https://freetousemusic.com Track: Careful by Pufino https://youtu.be/efsguUCy5KQ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week we’re talking purity! This week’s guest co-host is Blair from TalkPurityToMe–we discuss growing up in house churches, and some of the ways we were taught about purity and modesty, as well as some of the ways we are still feeling the aftermath. We also hear stories from the Bad Apples. Brought to you by Date Me Jesus Timestamps: Date Me Jesus (feat Virginia Spotts) - 22:15 Topic: Purity - 29:53 Modesty clip - 41:39 John Piper clip - 58:04 Bad Apple Submissions - 1:05:02 SSR - 1:21:21 BOTANY FARMS CBD AFFILIATE LINK: https://bit.ly/3h5HKXe National Resources Trevor Project: Call (866) 488-7386, Text 678-678, 24/7 Year round crisis intervention and suicide prevention services to lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and questioning (LGBTQ) young people ages 13-24. PFLAG 400+ chapters across the country providing confidential peer support, education, and advocacy to LGBTQ+ people, their parents and families, and allies. Crisis Text Line: Text START to 741-741-FREE, 24/7 support for those in crisis. Text from anywhere in the U.S. to connect with a trained Crisis Counselor. The Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgender National Hotline: (888) 843-4564 The GLBT National Youth Talkline (youth serving youth through age 25): (800) 246-7743 Trans Lifeline: (877) 565-8860 GLAAD The Center Colorado Resources Colorado Crisis Services Hotline: Call 1-844-493-8255 or text “TALK” to 38255 to speak with a trained counselor or professional. Counselors are also available at walk-in locations or online to chat between 4 p.m. and 12 a.m. Out Boulder County Inside Out Youth Services One Colorado Transgender Center of the Rockies Queer Asterisk A Phoenix Rising, LLC: Offering pro bono services for crisis help for the victims and those affected. New Foundation Counseling: Offering pro bono services for crisis help for the victims and those affected.Colorado resources Colorado Crisis Services hotline: Call 1-844-493-8255 or text “TALK” to 38255 to speak with a trained counselor or professional. Counselors are also available at walk-in locations or online to chat between 4 p.m. and 12 a.m. Out Boulder County Inside Out Youth Services One Colorado Transgender Center of the Rockies Queer Asterisk A Phoenix Rising, LLC: Offering pro bono services for crisis help for the victims and those affected. New Foundation Counseling: Offering pro bono services for crisis help for the victims and those affected. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

On this off-week I wanted to give you bad apples a sneak peak at the Patreon episodes and introduce my friend and new producer/editor, Joshua Delbridge aka Delbreezy! We talk about his backstory, being queer in evangelical spaces, and how we met. We also sip, smoke and read together. Enjoy! Interview 1:42 Sip, Smoke Read 53:05 Irreverent Media Group www.irreverent.fm DRCK Patreon https://www.patreon.com/dirtyrottenchurchkids DRCK Merch https://dirtyrottenchurchkids.creator-spring.com/? Intro theme " Up In My Jam (All Of A Sudden) – Kubbi" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tDexBj46oNI Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week I had the chance to chat with comedian, podcaster, author, director and musician Rhett McLaughlin (Rhett and Link! Good Mythical Morning! James and the Shame!). We talk about his upbringing in church, deconstructing while in the public eye, and creating therapeutic music. He also answers some questions from the bad apples. Brought to you by Ancestrydotcom: Don't Go Spraining Your Ankle in Your Ancestral Home Time Stamps Interview 5:44 Bad Apples, Good Questions 55:50 Sip, Smoke, Read 1:06:44 Irreverent Media Group www.irreverent.fm DRCK Patreon https://www.patreon.com/dirtyrottenchurchkids DRCK Merch https://dirtyrottenchurchkids.creator-spring.com/? Intro theme " Up In My Jam (All Of A Sudden) – Kubbi" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tDexBj46oNI Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week we talk prosperity! My guest cohost is podcaster, speaker, author and friend Tori Williams Douglass (White Homework! Go Home Bible You're Drunk!). Together we unpack the health and wealth gospel. We discuss how we were brought up in that theology, the harm it causes and how we unlearn some of the language on the other side. We also answer your questions, Adrian gets stuck talking to a pastor on an airplane and we hear stories from the bad apples. Brought to you by Joel Houston owing us offering money and Tori's Peach (the cocktail). Time Stamps Bad Apples, Good Questions: 4:25 Pastor on a Plane: 21:21 Sip, Smoke, Read: 1:24:53 Irreverent Media Group www.irreverent.fm DRCK Patreon https://www.patreon.com/dirtyrottenchurchkids DRCK Merch https://dirtyrottenchurchkids.creator-spring.com/? Intro theme " Up In My Jam (All Of A Sudden) – Kubbi" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tDexBj46oNI Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week I got to chat with podcaster, writer, speaker, researcher and community organizer Phil Drysdale (The Deconstruction Network! The Phil Drysdale Show!). We discuss his upbringing as a church kid in the UK, how his faith changed and the work he has been doing within the deconstruction space. We talk about some of his research findings, common misconceptions about deconstruction and the psychological comfort of evangelicalism. Brought to you by Sweaty Palms and Clenched B*tthole Questions Time Stamps Interview 6:42 Sip, Smoke, Read 1:20:13 Irreverent Media Group www.irreverent.fm DRCK Patreon https://www.patreon.com/dirtyrottenchurchkids DRCK Merch https://dirtyrottenchurchkids.creator-spring.com/? Intro theme " Up In My Jam (All Of A Sudden) – Kubbi" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tDexBj46oNI Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dirty Rotten Church Kids is back and this week I have the pleasure of bringing back podcaster, general menace and friend Janice Lagata (God Has Not Given!) This week we talked about passing the plate--how we were brought up learning about tithing, ways in which church taught us about possessions and how we approached tithing during our faith changes. We also listen to a christian broadway compilation album and hear stories from the Bad Apples. Brought to you by #GoFundYourself, The Post Evangelical Guild and the pentacostal conga line. Time Stamps Hell Court 6:06 Bad Apples 42:00 Sip, Smoke, Read 1:18:49 Irreverent Media Group www.irreverent.fm DRCK Patreon https://www.patreon.com/dirtyrottenchurchkids DRCK Merch https://dirtyrottenchurchkids.creator-spring.com/? Intro theme " Up In My Jam (All Of A Sudden) – Kubbi" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tDexBj46oNI Hell Court Music "The People's Court 1981-1993 theme music" https://youtu.be/7iTqoDH0vFU Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In case you missed it--we had the chance to make an appearance at our friend Kevin Garcia's Crowded Table Event in Atlanta. We recorded the show for those that couldn't make it, and took some time afterwards to recap and sip, smoke, read together. We talk about cancelled flights and driving through the night, discovering Josh is actually an Enneagram 7, and the work of building an online community with practical impact. Brought to you by "it's not about Bodily Pleasure it's about GODILY Pleasure" and the Church Zone. Time Stamps Live Podcast! 00:12 Megachurch Instagram 4:40 Bad Apples Good Questions 25:50 After Hours w/ Kevin Garcia 55:54 Sip, Smoke, Read 1:10:16 The Crowded Table Community https://thecrowdedtable.mn.co/ Irreverent Media Group www.irreverent.fm DRCK Patreon https://www.patreon.com/dirtyrottenchurchkids DRCK Merch https://dirtyrottenchurchkids.creator-spring.com/? Intro theme " Up In My Jam (All Of A Sudden) – Kubbi" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tDexBj46oNI Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week we had the pleasure of speaking with C. Davis (Deconstructing Colors!). We discuss her church upbringing, how actually believing the Bible often leads to deconstruction, and how the perceived safety found within cultural Christianity keeps many folks in the pews. We also talk about putting first things first and answer questions from the bad apples. Brought to you by Porcelain Pay Day, Josh’s Irish accent and getting #FiredForWhiteJesus Time Stamps Update on "Don't Say Gay Bill" 11:00 Bad Apples, Good Questions 19:19 Interview 32:51 Sip Smoke Read 1:41:30 Deconstructing Cash App $DeconstructingClrs Irreverent Media Group www.irreverent.fm DRCK Patreon https://www.patreon.com/dirtyrottenchurchkids DRCK Merch https://dirtyrottenchurchkids.creator-spring.com/? C Davis theme song https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EOgbkunsC7c Intro theme " Up In My Jam (All Of A Sudden) – Kubbi" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tDexBj46oNI Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week we talk about "culturally relevant" churches, how we were brought up in Hip Christianity ™, the ways people were leveraged to keep the machine running and the ways people were reduced to an attendance statistic. We also take a Texas Anti-Trans bill to Hellcourt, play a game of Improv Sunday School Songs and hear stories from the Bad Apples. Brought to you by Zit and Snot in the Morning # CurseGodandDieF*cker Time Stamps Improv Sunday School Songs 14:30 Hellcourt 25:14 Main Topic 42:19 Sip Smoke Read 2:01:01 Vostok SOS https://vostok-sos.org/en/ukraine-under-fire-support-vostok-sos-aid-operation/ Malteser International https://www.malteser-international.org/en/about-us/service/news/press-detail-en/ukraine-malteser-international-prepares-supplies-for-refugees.html Nova Ukraine https://novaukraine.org/ 24 LGBTQ+ Organizations You Can Support Right Now https://www.shondaland.com/act/a27789423/24-lgbtq-organizations-support-right-now/ Irreverent Media Group www.irreverent.fm DRCK Patreon https://www.patreon.com/dirtyrottenchurchkids DRCK Merch https://dirtyrottenchurchkids.creator-spring.com/? Intro theme " Up In My Jam (All Of A Sudden) – Kubbi" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tDexBj46oNI Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices