Love Shack Live: Helping Couples Rescue Their Relationships

Send us a Text Message. Have you ever felt a creeping sense of resentment in your relationship, not because of a single argument, but due to a series of small misunderstandings and unmet expectations? Perhaps it's the silent assumption that you'll always prioritize your relationship over personal time, or the expectation to handle stress in ways that suit your partner better than they do you. Welcome to Love Shack Live, a haven for those standing at the crossroads of their relationships, struggling with daily conflicts and an emotional chasm that seems to only widen with time. In today's episode, we're unpacking a critical yet often overlooked aspect of relationships: boundaries. What are they? Why are they essential, and what happens when they go unspoken? We'll explore how boundaries evolve as relationships progress and why it's crucial to communicate these changes to maintain respect and individuality. Join us as we offer practical advice on how to effectively articulate and adapt boundaries. We'll share real-life stories from individuals who have navigated complex boundary dynamics successfully, demonstrating how clear boundaries don't just preserve personal space—they enhance trust and understanding between partners. Are you ready to transform unspoken boundaries into bridges of connection? Let’s unravel the tapestry of relational boundaries together, because isn’t it time your relationship reflected the depth of understanding you aspire to? Takeaways Chapters: 01:50 Exploring the Essence and Evolution of Boundaries 05:51 Navigating Boundaries: From Personal Experience to Practical Advice 10:12 The Dynamic Dance of Boundaries in Relationships 21:26 Understanding Boundaries: A Continuous Conversation 32:18 The Power of Self-Awareness and Communication in Setting Boundaries 36:16 Engaging with the Audience: Questions, Comments, and Community Insights 42:46 Closing Thoughts and Looking Forward Episode Resources: Love in Limbo Roadmap:Learn more and join hereSeparation Support Sessions:loveinlimbo.comBetter Love Club:Explore the club

Send us a Text Message. In this powerful episode, we dive deep into the emotional complexities that couples face when their relationship teeters on the edge of ending. The "Land of Maybe" is a symbolic space where uncertainty dominates, and decisions about the future of a relationship remain unresolved, often causing intense emotional turmoil. This episode addresses individuals' critical questions and feelings when one partner has already filed for divorce or is contemplating separation. Through compassionate dialogue and expert insights, Staci, Tom, and Brooke explore strategies for navigating this uncertain terrain, offering hope and practical advice for those seeking to either salvage their relationship or find peace in its conclusion. The episode is especially poignant as it responds directly to a listener's heartfelt dilemma about surviving and thriving in the uncertainty of pending divorce, highlighting the universality of such relationship challenges. Key Discussion Points: Understanding the 'Land of Maybe':Emotional Rollercoasters:Strategic Steps for Reconciliation:Featured Conversations: The Emotional Weight of Uncertainty:Creating Emotional Safety:The Power of Letting Go:Chapters: 02:36 Understanding the Land of Maybe 07:03 The Emotional Rollercoaster of Relationship Uncertainty 10:18 Navigating Through the Land of Maybe 18:58 The Importance of Letting Go and Self-Reflection 30:15 Embracing Open Communication for Relationship Healing 32:21 Navigating Emotional Honesty in Relationships 34:19 The Consequences of Withholding Communication 35:30 Embracing Vulnerability for Relationship Growth 37:49 The Power of Sharing Difficult Truths 40:13 Lifelong Journey of Relationship Skills 42:49 Reconciliation and Moving Forward 44:02 The Courage to Envision a New Future 48:39 Embracing Change and New Beginnings 56:29 Support and Resources for Relationship Challenges Episode Resources: Love in Limbo Roadmap:Learn more and join hereSeparation Support Sessions:loveinlimbo.comBetter Love Club:Explore the clubFor direct access to all resources, including private sessions with Staci, visit StaciBartley.com and navigate to the 'Work with Me' tab.

Send us a Text Message. What does it truly mean to be brave when faced with separation or divorce? These words are not just terms; they are thresholds that challenge our emotional resilience and force us into the depths of our fears. Welcome to Love Shack Live, a beacon for those navigating through the often tumultuous waters of relationship conflicts and emotional chasms. This is where we confront the most intimidating challenges, transforming fear into a catalyst for personal growth and deeper connections. In this compelling episode, we plunge into the heart of fear itself—exploring its origins, its pervasive impact on our decisions, and its dual potential to either dismantle or deepen our relationships. Why does the mere suggestion of space or the end of a partnership provoke such profound anxiety? What lessons lurk within these fears, and how can we harness them to take courageous steps toward renewal and reinvention? Join your hosts, Staci Bartley and Tom, along with their daughter Brooke, as they guide you through the intricate dance of understanding and overcoming the fears associated with the end of relationships. Learn how confronting the stark realities of our situations—no matter how daunting—can unveil pathways to new beginnings and lead to unexpected opportunities for empowerment and healing. Throughout this journey, you'll discover tools and strategies for mediation and thoughtful dialogue, designed to transform relationship challenges into opportunities for growth. We'll share personal stories and expert insights that illuminate the path from fear-driven reactions to courage-based actions. Tune in and find out how embracing the most daunting aspects of relationships can lead us to profound courage and radically new ways of loving and living. Don't miss this deep dive into the emotional dynamics that shape our lives, where fear becomes a doorway to freedom and authenticity in our relationships. Chapters: 00:00 Introduction: Fear and Relationships 10:13 The Emotional Impact of Fear: Frustration, Resignation, and Cynicism 29:11 The Power of Facing Fears 46:45 Navigating Triggers in Relationships 55:41 Rising Above Fear and Transforming Your Life Episode Links: https://stacibartley.com/bundlehttp://loveinlimboroadmap.com/http://loveinlimbo.com/Relationship Check-upLove Shack Live Playlist

Send us a Text Message. Picture this: you're strolling hand in hand with your partner when they gently utter those words that make your heart race: "I feel like we could both use a little space." In that moment, fear, confusion, and uncertainty grip you. Welcome to Love Shack Live, where we delve into the depths of relationships, seeking to mend emotional divides and forge lasting connections. In this episode, hosts Staci, Tom, and Brooke Bartley peel back the layers of separation, revealing it not as an end, but as a potential beginning. Join us as we challenge the misconceptions surrounding space and separation, inviting listeners to embark on a journey of personal growth and self-discovery. 🔍 Key questions we'll answer: 🌟 Tune in as we explore the importance of continuous personal growth, the need for emotional well-being, and the essential role of communication in nurturing healthy relationships. Don't miss this enlightening conversation on finding strength, healing, and renewed purpose in the face of relationship challenges. "The pain of this difficulty is an enormous motivator. It guides us to the next steps of learning and growth in our lives." - Staci Bartley Join us on Love Shack Live and embark on a journey of self-discovery and transformation in your relationships. Let's heal together, starting now. 🌱💖 Chapters: Episode Links: http://loveinlimboroadmap.com/https://stacibartley.com/bundlehttp://loveinlimbo.com/Relationship Check-upLove Shack Live Playlist

Send us a Text Message. "Can we really grow closer by being apart?" It's a question that haunts anyone who hears, "I need space," from a partner. If you're wrestling with feelings of loneliness and confusion in this space, you're not alone. This episode of the Love Shack takes you on a journey through the twists and turns of relational space, turning separation into a chance to deepen and heal your bond. Join us as we delve into weeks three and four of our Love Limbo Roadmap, focusing on turning these challenging weeks into opportunities for communication breakthroughs and personal growth. How can you keep the connection alive when you feel worlds apart? Can personal growth lead to a stronger union rather than drifting apart? We tackle these essential questions with empathy, offering actionable insights that resonate with where you're really at. Adding a profound layer to our discussion—this episode features the raw, unfiltered stories of three Love Limbo Roadmap graduates. They're here live, sharing their journeys through the challenging waters of relationship gaps. Their experiences are not just stories; they are testaments to the transformative power of taking space and using it to forge stronger, more resilient bonds. Whether you're in the throes of a relationship pause or simply wondering how to maintain emotional ties amid personal change, this episode is a treasure trove of guidance, compassion, and collective wisdom from those who've navigated these troubled waters and reached the shore stronger than ever. Listen in and discover how intentional space, approached with understanding and care, isn't just about surviving apart—it's about thriving together. Step into the Love Shack, where we explore the spaces between us with heart and hope, teaching you how to bridge the gap and find each other again, perhaps more deeply connected than ever before. Chapters: 00:00 Welcome to the Love Shack: Navigating Relationship Spaces 00:23 Diving Into the Love Limbo Roadmap: Weeks 3 and 4 01:53 Recap and Insights: The Journey of Self-Discovery and Emotional Weightlifting 05:30 Unlocking Communication: The Key to Relationship Resilience 20:53 Real Stories of Transformation: Guests Share Their Journeys 37:31 The Power of Community Support 39:21 Personal Growth and the Journey of Self-Discovery 48:16 Challenges and Triumphs: Navigating the Roadmap 01:02:07 Commitments and Agreements: Building a Strong Relationship Foundation 01:12:50 Embracing the Journey: The Final Reflections and Encouragement Episode Links: http://loveinlimboroadmap.com/https://stacibartley.com/bundlehttp://loveinlimbo.com/Relationship Check-upLove Shack Live Playlist

Send us a Text Message. Feeling the emotional tug-of-war when your partner whispers, "I need some space"? It's like walking a tightrope between giving them room and fearing the growing silence might become a chasm too wide to cross. Welcome to Love Shack Live, the sanctuary for those standing at love's crossroads, where daily challenges and emotional distances put to test the bonds we cherish most. If you're seeking a path back to a connection that's not just enduring but heartfelt and genuine, you've found your guide. In today's episode, we unravel the roadmap for those yearning to bridge the silent gaps in their relationships. I'm Staci Bartley, flanked by my co-host and partner, Tom, and our insightful daughter, Brooke. Together, we're navigating the complex waters of love—armed with personal and professional insights—to steer you back to the shores of connection. But how do we transform the daunting request for space into a bridge that draws us closer? This conversation is your compass. Delving into the Love and Limbo 30-Day Roadmap, we share strategies beyond survival—aiming for a flourishing love life amidst separation. Over the next 30 days, we promise not mere quick fixes, but a profound journey of introspection, emotional fortitude, and step-by-step guidance towards rejuvenating your relationship. Embark on this journey with us as we dissect the essence of giving space—turning it from a harbinger of distance into a catalyst for deeper intimacy. From the crucial initial step of rediscovering your individuality to mastering the art of emotional weightlifting and navigating the most challenging conversations, we've got you covered. If the silent spaces between you and your partner echo with questions of connection and future, stay tuned. Let's redefine the narrative of separation, proving that sometimes, a little distance is all it takes to come back even closer. Join us on this transformative adventure in Love Shack Live, where every step taken apart is a leap towards coming together, stronger and more connected than ever. Prepare to turn the page on relationship gaps—where the end of each chapter is just the beginning of a deeper bond. Episode Links: http://loveinlimboroadmap.com/https://stacibartley.com/bundlehttp://loveinlimbo.com/Relationship Check-upLove Shack Live Playlist

Send us a Text Message. Have you ever felt the frustration of speaking without being heard, your words floating in a void between you and your partner? It's a silent trap many couples find themselves in, not from a lack of love but from a profound disconnect in truly understanding each other. Welcome to Love Shack Live, your haven for navigating the turbulent waters of relationship crossroads, aspiring to rebuild a bond that's both genuine and enduring. In this episode, we dive into an often overlooked yet crucial aspect of relationships: the art of truly listening. It's about far more than hearing words; it's about deciphering the emotions, intentions, and silent truths that linger unspoken. How can our personal narratives, biases, and the constant struggle against the urge to correct shape our ability to truly listen? How do we overcome common hurdles like defensiveness and distractions to maintain a genuine presence in our conversations? Join us as we explore practical strategies and heartfelt advice designed to enhance your listening skills. This episode is essential for anyone seeking to transform their relationship through the power of understanding and empathy. Mastering the art of active listening can bridge gaps, foster a deeper connection, and enrich the bond you share, even amidst the toughest discussions. Why is this episode a must-listen? The journey toward enriching your relationships begins with opening your ears and your heart to the perspectives of those you love. As we embark on this exploration together, remember, that the goal isn't to perfect the act of listening overnight but to embrace it as a continuous, evolving practice that enriches not just your relationships, but your understanding of yourself and others. So, are you ready to listen not just with your ears, but with your heart? Join us in rediscovering the power of listening in transforming relationships. Listening is more than keeping silent; it's the first step to understanding. Let's explore the impact of truly listening—for both the speaker and the listener—and how it can revolutionize the way we connect with those we care about. Episode Links: https://stacibartley.com/bundlehttp://loveinlimboroadmap.com/http://loveinlimbo.com/Relationship Check-upLove Shack Live Playlist

Send us a Text Message. In the stillness of the night, have you found yourself wrestling with thoughts of unresolved arguments and unspoken words with your partner? As the world quiets down, do these concerns grow louder, echoing the depth of your emotional turmoil? You're not wandering through this maze alone. Welcome to the concluding episode of our enlightening series on communication within relationships, brought to you by Love Shack Live. Throughout this series, we've ventured through the foundations of effective communication and the initial steps towards healing dialogues. Yet, one pivotal question remains: How can we truly embrace and celebrate our differences without letting them create a chasm between us and our loved ones? This episode delves into the intricate dance of co-mingling differences, claiming your emotional territory, and the art of continuous conversation without losing sight of emotional safety and mutual respect. Join us as we unwrap the Communication Sandwich Framework in its entirety, providing you with the tools to navigate difficult discussions with grace and to foster a deeper connection. Discover how acknowledging and valuing each other's unique perspectives can transform your relationship in ways you've never imagined. Are you ready to change how you communicate and explore the boundless potential with your partner? Lean in, get comfortable, and let's embark on this final journey together, sprinkled with a dash of fairy dust for conversations that end on a high note. What's Inside This Episode: Don't miss the culmination of our series, where we uncover the secrets to not just communicating effectively but transforming your relationship into a bastion of understanding and intimacy. Your path to profound connection awaits. Episode Links: https://stacibartley.com/communication/http://loveinlimboroadmap.com/http://loveinlimbo.com/Relationship Check-upLove Shack Live Playlist

Send us a Text Message. Have you ever found yourself lying awake at night, pondering, "Why don't we talk anymore?" In the silence that has crept into your relationship, there's a longing for the days when conversations flowed effortlessly, and your hearts felt undeniably close. Welcome to this pivotal episode of Love Shack Live, where we delve into the complexities of communication. Today, we're exploring the transformative power of something we whimsically call "fairy dust" and the courage it takes to "Call It Out" – revealing your inner world with vulnerability and honesty. But what exactly is this fairy dust, and how can it shift your conversations from battlegrounds to bridges of connection? In this episode, we not only recap the emotional foundations laid in part one of our series but also guide you through the first crucial steps of opening up a conversation that matters. We'll unravel how fairy dust – the essence that makes every word count – can envelop your attempts to connect, offering a gentle embrace of empathy and care. And as we venture into the heart of today's journey, we uncover the power of calling it out, transforming shadows of misunderstanding into beacons of clarity. How can you shift from accusing to sharing your experience in a way that softens hearts and opens doors to deeper connection? And imagine the difference it makes when you not only share your feelings but also invite your partner to share theirs, creating a dialogue that's as nourishing as it is healing. If you're seeking to rediscover the closeness you once shared, to sprinkle your interactions with the magic of understanding and genuine connection, then you're in the right place. Together, let's explore how fairy dust and the courage to call it out can illuminate the path to a deeper, more fulfilling partnership. Join us on Love Shack Live as we lay down the first piece of bread in our communication sandwich, setting the stage for conversations that truly matter. Episode Links: https://stacibartley.com/communication/http://loveinlimboroadmap.com/http://loveinlimbo.com/Relationship Check-upLove Shack Live Playlist

Send us a Text Message. Feeling utterly alone even when you're just inches away from your partner is a heart-wrenching reality many of us face. It's like shouting into a void, desperately hoping for an echo, only to be met with silence. This profound sense of disconnection, where heartfelt conversations once flourished, now replaced by an invisible barrier, is a pain point many couples face. The arguments that seem to endlessly circle, the words choked back by a mixture of pride and fear, and the feeling of walking on eggshells—these are not just trivial disagreements but symptoms of a deeper, unspoken rift that has stealthily crept into the heart of your connection. This podcast is a haven for listeners who find themselves at a daunting relationship crossroads, embroiled in daily conflicts and witnessing the emotional gap between them widen day by day, yet cling to the hope of rekindling a bond that feels authentic and enduring. Today, we are excited to announce the beginning of a three-part series on communication—a journey that promises to venture far beyond the conventional wisdom on how to exchange words more effectively. Instead, we aim to delve into the emotional barricades that inhibit us from truly listening and empathizing with each other. "Why do we keep misunderstanding each other?" "How can we talk without it turning into a fight?" "What happened to us?" These are the kinds of questions we seek to explore. This series is not just about tweaking our actual dialogue but about confronting the hidden barriers to our emotional connectivity. Join us as we courageously peel back the layers of frustration, misunderstanding, and silent battles that have overshadowed the love we once celebrated. We challenge you to remain open and curious as we dissect not only the methods but the underlying reasons behind our communicative breakdowns. This is your invitation to uncover the tools and insights necessary to bridge the emotional chasms, to heal the wounds of miscommunication, and to cultivate a relationship imbued with deeper understanding, empathy, and unconditional love. Welcome to a transformative exploration that seeks to not just change how you talk, but to revolutionize the very essence of your interactions and connection with your partner. Episode Links: https://stacibartley.com/communication/http://loveinlimboroadmap.com/http://loveinlimbo.com/Relationship Check-upLove Shack Live Playlist

Send us a Text Message. Have you ever felt the ground give way beneath you when trust is shattered? "I don't trust you anymore" - these five words can mark the beginning of a heart-wrenching journey through doubt and pain. But what if it could also mark the start of a beautiful quest towards healing and understanding? Welcome to Love Shack Live, your sanctuary for navigating the stormy seas of love and trust. Join us as we delve into the delicate art of weaving trust back into the fabric of our relationships. In this episode, we're not just exploring trust; we're embarking on a profound journey from betrayal to healing, uncovering the invisible yet unbreakable threads that can bind hearts together again. How do we rebuild trust when it feels like the foundation of our love has crumbled? Today, we uncover the essence of trust - how it's formed, the impact of its loss, and the most crucial question: how can we restore it once it's been broken? With real stories, expert insights, and practical tools, we're here to guide you through the complexities of mending trust. Whether you're grappling with doubts, navigating through conflict, or yearning to bridge an emotional gap, this episode offers a beacon of hope. Dive into an exploration of the heart's capacity for healing, the soul's quest for understanding, and the profound strength found in vulnerability. As we traverse the rugged terrain of human emotion and connection, we'll offer you the tools, wisdom, and heartfelt advice needed to mend the intricate tapestry of your relationships. Tune in and allow us to accompany you back to a place where trust is not just rebuilt, but reborn, where every scar tells a story of survival and every step forward marks a victory of the heart. Episode Links: https://stacibartley.com/feeling-alone-together-unspoken-expectations-relationships/http://loveinlimboroadmap.com/http://loveinlimbo.com/Relationship Check-upLove Shack Live Playlist

Send us a Text Message. In the dance of love, the steps aren't always in sync. Are you and your partner finding yourselves on a tightrope, balancing the need for closeness with the necessity of space? Welcome to Love Shack Live, a sanctuary for those standing at the crossroads of their relationship, seeking to mend the growing gaps and reignite a flame that burns true and bright. In today's episode, we delve into the heart of your concerns and explore the nuanced ebb and flow of commitment, the delicate balance between intimacy and independence, and the transformative power of facing emotional baggage head-on. How do you support a partner teetering between closeness and solitude? We're tackling these questions and more, offering personalized advice and strategies grounded in empathy and experience. From turning in-home separations into journeys of growth to navigating the challenges of passive communication and ensuring the emotional safety of all involved, we've got you covered. Join us as we illuminate the path to a more understanding, respectful, and loving relationship. Through expert advice and heartfelt stories, we're here to transform the trials of space and separation into stepping stones toward the connection you've always desired. Because at Love Shack, we believe every challenge is a chance for growth. Let's embark on this journey of love and discovery together. Episode Links: https://stacibartley.com/feeling-alone-together-unspoken-expectations-relationships/http://loveinlimboroadmap.com/http://loveinlimbo.com/Relationship Check-upLove Shack Live Playlist

Send us a Text Message. Do you feel a growing emotional gap in your relationship, a sense that the deep, intimate connection you once shared is slipping away? In the hustle of daily life, it's easy to find ourselves longing for a bond that goes beyond the surface, yet feeling unsure how to reclaim that profound closeness we crave. This longing for deeper intimacy isn't just about being understood; it's about being truly received by another—heart and soul. But the path to rekindling this connection often feels shrouded in mystery, leaving us to wonder if it's possible to ever truly grasp it again. As days turn into years, the challenge of maintaining and deepening intimacy can seem like an insurmountable task. Welcome to Love Shack Live, your sanctuary for navigating the complexities of relationships at a crossroads. Today, we're joined by Topaz Adizes, an award-winning filmmaker and the mind behind a brand new book called "12 Questions for Love," to guide us through this labyrinth. With insights gained from 1,200 couples around the globe, Topaz reveals how the art of asking thoughtful, strategic questions in an environment of emotional safety can transform our relationships. How can strategic questioning and relentless curiosity rejuvenate our relationships? How do we maintain, and more importantly, deepen the connection we share with our partners over time? These are the transformative questions we're unpacking today. Join us as Topaz shares his insights from working with couples globally, revealing that the key to lasting intimacy is not just in the asking but in the sharing of emotions and creating an environment of emotional safety. Discover how well-crafted questions can lead us closer than ever before, turning each shared moment into a step toward a more profound connection. So, if you're searching for that elusive treasure of deep intimacy, tune in. Let's unravel the mystery together and learn how the power of inquiry and unwavering curiosity can breathe life into our relationships. Welcome to a journey of discovery, where each question asked is a door opened to a deeper understanding of ourselves and our partners. "What does it truly take to create lasting intimacy? How do the subtleties of communication shape our deepest connections?" These are the questions at the heart of today's episode. Prepare to be inspired, challenged, and ultimately transformed. Episode Links: theskindeep.comhttp://loveinlimboroadmap.com/http://loveinlimbo.com/Relationship Check-upLove Shack Live Playlist

Send us a Text Message. Are you waking up each day, feeling like you're walking on eggshells, sharing a home but not a life with your partner? The reality for many of us is a relationship filled with daily conflicts and a growing emotional gap, where silent expectations and unvoiced agreements cast a shadow over our once vibrant connection. Welcome to Love Shack Live, a beacon of hope for those at a relationship crossroads, craving a connection that feels true and heartfelt. I'm Stacey Bartley, joined by my co-host and lover, Tom, and our insightful daughter, Brooke. Together, we delve into the essence of relationships, guiding you from the shadows of the unsaid to a bond built on mutual understanding and deep intimacy. But how do we bridge the gap when silent forces, nestled close to our hearts, shape our relationships in ways we can't see? In this transformative episode, we unfold layers of unspoken agreements, exploring the delicate dance of expectations that silently govern our interactions. We dive into the heart of emotional safety, revealing how to craft a sanctuary where hearts are open, and communication flows freely. It's time to transform the silence that separates into dialogues that unite, showcasing the strength of empathy and understanding. What if the key to reuniting the love that first brought you together was not in finding new ways to communicate but in uncovering and addressing the silent agreements that have been guiding your relationship all along? Today, inspired by a roadmap member's journey, we navigate the silent corridors of love and expectation, illuminating the path to a relationship enriched with laughter, love, and the profound comfort of truly knowing and being known by your partner. Join us as we traverse these uncharted territories, shining a light on the silent agreements that could be the key to unlocking a deeper connection with your loved one. Episode Links: https://stacibartley.com/feeling-alone-together-unspoken-expectations-relationships/http://loveinlimboroadmap.com/http://loveinlimbo.com/Relationship Check-upLove Shack Live Playlist

Send us a Text Message. Do you find yourself trapped in the relentless tug-of-war between staying and leaving, caught in a cycle of conflict and emotional distance that seems insurmountable? You are not alone. This episode of Love Shack Live is a beacon for those standing at the crossroads of their relationships, yearning for a genuine connection and a love that lasts. Join us, Staci and Tom Bartley alongside, our daughter Brooke, as we delve into the heart of relationship struggles — the daunting "land of maybe" that oscillates between hope and despair. We'll explore the fears and doubts that keep us anchored to uncertainty and share transformative stories of couples who've navigated these turbulent waters to rediscover their bond. From personal struggles to breakthroughs, we offer not only professional insights but also our own journeys of love, conflict, and reconciliation. This episode promises invaluable insights into overcoming common relationship hurdles and the importance of stepping into the unknown for the sake of love, along with practical steps to move towards and beyond the "maybe." Whether you're on the brink of giving up or seeking a spark to rekindle your relationship, this episode offers hope, clarity, and a roadmap to a more fulfilling partnership. So, are you ready to leave the land of maybe and embark on a journey towards love and understanding? Join us in today's episode and transform your relationship into the love story you've always dreamed of. Stay curious, stay hopeful, and let's navigate out of the land of maybe together. It's never too late to transform your relationship. Are you ready to rediscover the potential in your relationship? Dive deep into the stories of real couples who, against all odds, navigated their way through the complexities of love and emerged stronger together. Episode Links: http://loveinlimboroadmap.com/http://loveinlimbo.com/Relationship Check-upLove Shack Live Playlist

Send us a Text Message. In the quiet moments of a relationship, when your partner asks for space, do you find yourself adrift in a sea of uncertainty, your heart anchored in worry while life relentlessly moves on? If you're standing at a relationship crossroads, facing the chasm of emotional distance and yearning for a connection that's both genuine and enduring, welcome to Love Shack LIve. This episode ventures into the complex dance of love and space. It's a sanctuary for souls navigating the stormy waters of relationship challenges, offering a beacon of hope and guidance. Have you ever wondered if emotional space, which seems so isolating, could actually be the key to unlocking a deeper, more authentic bond with your partner? Today, we unravel this paradox, exploring how the silence that seems to separate us might instead serve as a bridge to unparalleled intimacy and self-discovery. Drawing from a deeply personal narrative, Staci shares her journey of self-rejection and sacrifice in the name of love—a path many of us tread unwittingly. This episode is not just about understanding the dynamics of giving space; it's a deep dive into the emotional cycles that trap us, the misconceptions that mislead us, and the fears that hold us back from truly connecting with ourselves and our partners. What if the greatest gift you could offer your partner—and yourself—was the freedom to explore the contours of your own heart? Join us as we guide you through the emotional landscape of relationships, offering insights and strategies to help you emerge from the silence not as strangers, but as partners more deeply in tune with each other's needs and desires. Love Shack Live is more than a podcast. It's a journey to the essence of what matters most in love and life. So, what's the next step? Let's discover it together, uncovering the answers that lie waiting in the space between. Episode Links: http://loveinlimboroadmap.com/http://loveinlimbo.com/Relationship Check-upLove Shack Live Playlist

Send us a Text Message. Ever wonder why some relationships stand the test of time, while others crumble? Welcome to this week’s insightful episode of Love Shack Live, where we delve into the delicate yet powerful dynamics of love and partnership. I'm Staci Bartley, alongside my cohost and partner, Tom, and our daughter, Brooke. Today, we’re not just talking about love; we’re exploring the art of preserving it. At the heart of every relationship lies a series of small, often overlooked actions that can either build a bond stronger or lead to its undoing. As a seasoned divorce mediator, I’ve witnessed firsthand how minor neglect and unspoken needs can silently erode the strongest of connections. But what if we could reverse-engineer these patterns? What if the key to a thriving relationship is simpler and more attainable than we think? Join us as we unravel the concept of ‘preventative maintenance’ in relationships. It’s like caring for a precious heirloom – requiring attention, care, and regular check-ins. Learn how to spot the small disconnects before they lead to major breakdowns, and how to cultivate a cycle of love and appreciation through everyday gestures. In this episode, we unravel the secrets to avoiding the pitfalls that lead to divorce. Drawing from my unique experiences as a divorce mediator, I've learned that the secret to a lasting, happy relationship is often rooted in the smallest gestures and understandings. Why do these minor actions, or their absence, have such a profound impact on our relationships? And how can the concept of preventative maintenance, akin to caring for our cars or our health, be applied to nurture and strengthen our bonds? So, are you ready to transform the way you view and nurture your relationship? Whether you're at the crossroads of a difficult decision or looking to deepen the bond you already have, this episode is for you. Let’s embark on this journey together, discovering how the little things aren’t just little – they're everything. Episode Links: https://stacibartley.com/divorce-mediators-secrets-to-avoiding-relationship-breakdownhttps://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT8gpuk3t/http://loveinlimbo.com/Relationship Check-upLove Shack Live Playlist

Send us a Text Message. In the quiet aftermath of a plea for space, many of us find ourselves at a relationship crossroads, questioning the unspoken needs and silent cries for attention we've overlooked. Welcome to Love Shack Live, a sanctuary for navigating the complexities of love and relationships. Join us as we guide you through the emotional maze and help rebuild genuine, lasting bonds. Today's episode asks a poignant question: Why do we often delay addressing our relationship issues, leading to a point where space becomes a necessity? This journey through the human heart explores not just the need for space but also the critical importance of not waiting too long to nurture and heal our relationships. We'll also introduce you to our 'Love in Limbo: 30-Day Roadmap,' starting January 14th. This program is designed to help you navigate these challenging times, offering steps to bridge emotional gaps and reconnect with your partner on a deeper, more intimate level. Join us as we embark on this heartfelt journey, facing the truth behind the silence, embracing the space, and rekindling the flame of love. We'll confront the inevitable challenges all relationships face and discuss how addressing them timely can transform the outcomes. From the illusions we live into the realities we face, this episode is a call to action for all those seeking to reforge their bond in love’s fiery crucible. Why do we delay addressing relationship issues, and what are the consequences of such hesitation? Let's dive into this conversation and find out, because here's a reality: The way we handle these challenges can make a huge difference in our relationships' outcomes. Let's explore together. Episode Links: http://loveinlimboroadmap.com/http://loveinlimbo.com/Relationship Check-upLove Shack Live Playlist

Send us a Text Message. 🌟 New Year, New You? Let's Dive Deeper... 🌟 Have you ever kickstarted a new year filled with determination and dreams, only to watch them dissipate as life unfolds? This all-too-familiar scenario doesn't just apply to resolutions; it mirrors our relationships. The deep connections and dreams we hold dear often get clouded by our focus on fears and negatives, overshadowing the fulfillment we truly seek. Welcome to Love Shack Live, where we navigate the intricate maze of relationships, especially when love's light dims. We're here to guide you through these turbulent emotional waters. In today's show, we explore a common conundrum: Why do relationships that start with strength and connection often spiral into doubt and fear? How can we shift our focus from evading fears to embracing desires, lighting a path toward growth, connection, and a deeper understanding of ourselves and our partners? 🔍 Unveiling Emotional Resistance: The Gravity of Relationships 🔍 Together, let's uncover the parallels between physical and emotional growth. Much like battling gravity to strengthen our muscles, we confront fears and doubts to fortify our emotional resilience. This episode is a journey through the realities of resistance, both in body and heart. 🚪 Opening Doors to Growth: From 'Don't Wants' to 'Do Wants' 🚪 We're not just discussing challenges; we're transforming them into opportunities for profound connections. Today, we dissect the narratives that hold us back, the justifications that anchor us to the past, and how reframing our perspectives can lead to a more resilient, loving future. 💔 To Stay or To Leave: Navigating Relationship Crossroads 💔 Are you at a relationship crossroads, pondering whether to renew your commitment or take a different path? We delve into this pivotal question, offering insights and perspectives to guide you through these decisive moments. Join us in the Love Shack, where we don't just talk about love - we live it, learn from it, and evolve through it. Tune in as we embark on a transformative journey, turning relationship challenges into stepping stones for a stronger, more resilient love. Episode Links: https://stacibartley.com/10-texts-partner-needs-space/download/http://loveinlimboroadmap.com/http://loveinlimbo.com/Relationship Check-upLove Shack Live Playlist

Send us a Text Message. Have you ever wondered why minor disagreements in your relationship suddenly spiral into major conflicts, leaving you feeling isolated and misunderstood? Welcome to this episode of Love Shack Live, a sanctuary for those navigating the complex pathways of relationships. In today's episode, we're diving into a topic that, while often overlooked, plays a pivotal role in the dynamics of our relationships: defensiveness. Defensiveness creeps into our interactions, often unnoticed, turning simple conversations into battlegrounds of self-preservation. But what ignites this defensive spark within us? More importantly, how can we recognize and disarm it to prevent damage to our precious relationships? This episode invites you to reflect on your experiences with defensiveness and understand what lies beneath this protective mechanism. Join us as we delve into effective strategies to navigate through defensiveness, fostering open, emotionally connected partnerships. Our journey today isn't about quick fixes; it's about uncovering long-lasting solutions for genuine, enduring bonds. Get ready to transform how you perceive and manage defensiveness in your relationships. Today's revisit of this vital topic offers both new and loyal listeners a chance to deepen their understanding. Defensiveness is often a blind spot, and revisiting this conversation unveils new layers and strategies for growth. Reflect on how far you've come since first encountering this topic and embrace new insights that may have previously eluded you. In this conversation, drawn from both my professional practice and personal experiences, we confront the realities of emotional defense mechanisms. When pressed emotionally, our default is often to shield ourselves, leading to manipulation and control tactics in our relationships. This episode guides you through recognizing and overcoming these tendencies, paving the way for a more open, connected partnership. So, are you ready to dive in and unravel the mysteries of defensiveness? Tune in to Love Shack Live and embark on a journey to a more harmonious, understanding relationship. Episode Links: https://stacibartley.com/10-texts-partner-needs-space/download/http://loveinlimboroadmap.com/http://loveinlimbo.com/Relationship Check-upLove Shack Live Playlist