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Discover the joy in parenting with The Imperfect Heroes Podcast! DJ Stutz, an Early Childhood Specialist with over 20 years of teaching expertise, brings you insightful episodes to navigate the rewarding yet challenging journey of raising children. Join DJ and her guests as they share knowledge and experiences, offering valuable insights to empower you with confidence and peace. Become the imperfect hero, fostering independence, productivity, and happiness in your children's lives. Tune in for practical parenting tips and stories that resonate with your unique journey!

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Discover the joy in parenting with The Imperfect Heroes Podcast! DJ Stutz, an Early Childhood Specialist with over 20 years of teaching expertise, brings you insightful episodes to navigate the rewarding yet challenging journey of raising children. Join DJ and her guests as they share knowledge and experiences, offering valuable insights to empower you with confidence and peace. Become the imperfect hero, fostering independence, productivity, and happiness in your children's lives. Tune in for practical parenting tips and stories that resonate with your unique journey!

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Building Faith at Home: Practical Tips for Parents of Little Ones with Nancy Boyer

5/5/2025
Send us a text Join DJ Stutz for the Season 5 finale of Imperfect Heroes: Insights into Parenting! Her guest, Nancy Boyer, is a mom of five and budding author, who shares how faith anchors her parenting. Nancy discusses losing both her parents during her teens, leaning on daily scripture, prayer, and community, and teaching kids to serve others. She highlights how their family’s faith’s impacts her children’s lives—perfect for parents of young kids wanting to nurture family values! With 200 episodes, this podcast covers countless topics to support your parenting journey. Go ahead and binge this summer to find the help you need! DJ invites your ideas for future episodes. She’s on a summer hiatus but she’ll be back in August with more wisdom. Follow the podcast for summer parenting tips! Time Stamps Connect with Us! DJ Stutz - Podcast: https://www.imperfectheroespodcast.com/ Coaching and Resources Website:https://www.imperfectheroes.net/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheImperfectHeroes Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/imperfect_heroes/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOpphCRklDJiFXdS76U0LSQ Rumble: https://rumble.com/v449rko DJ Stutz Calendar Link: https://bookme.name/Imperfectheroespodcast ONE ON ONE COACHING Link: https://www.littleheartsacademyusa.com/courses/one-on-one-coaching-bundle Find DJ’s Books “Roman is Bigger,” “Roman is a Bigger Brother,” “Oscar’s True Friends” on Amazon, Kindle, Barnes&Noble, and Walmart. Find Nancy’s Books https://www.amazon.com/s?k=Nancy+Boyer&i=stripbooks&crid=2Y1OYIVMHKB9&sprefix=nancy+boyer%2Cstripbooks%2C152&ref=nb_sb_noss_1 Support the show Support the show. If you like what you hear, we would appreciate your support. Every little bit helps. https://www.buzzsprout.com/1779847/support

Duration:00:41:50

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Meltdowns to Milestones, Celebrate 200 Episodes of Imperfect Heroes

4/28/2025
Send us a text Join DJ Stutz for her landmark 200th episode of Imperfect Heroes: Insights Into Parenting as she looks back at sterling moments and topics for parents and caregivers of kids (birth to age 8). Relive a moving father-son story on emotional regulation, with tips to validate feelings and build trust. Turn challenges like thumb-sucking into bonding opportunities using teamwork strategies. Tame sibling rivalry with practical advice to foster compromise and kindness. Discover why meltdowns are DJ’s favorite with mindset shifts, learning to strengthen relationships, and teach calm-down tools. Boost friendships with tips to help kids choose kind pals. Hear listener comments and heartfelt reviews. Explore episodes at ImperfectHeroesPodcast.com topics like potty training, adoption, learning disabilities, and more. Join the free Parent Perspectives workshop or book coaching at ImperfectHeroes.net. Got questions? Email us at DJStutz@ImperfectHeroes.net—we’ve got you! TIMESTAMPS 5:36 DJ shares how a father connected with his new son with skin to skin contact followed by years of being there for his son created a strong bond that keeps the two connected. 9:45 Looking back at a past episode, DJ shares a comment made by past guest Dr. Ted Bennion on understanding that challenges are your kids’ and parents are there to guide and support. 13:39 DJ shares strategies for helping children manage through sibling rivalry 19:55 DJ shares how to make a mental shift about managing meltdowns and how that helps to reduce their frequency and length. For more information on the Imperfect Heroes podcast, visit: https://www.imperfectheroespodcast.com/ DJ Stutz - Podcast: https://www.imperfectheroespodcast.com/ Coaching and Resources Website: https://www.imperfectheroes.net/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheImperfectHeroes Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/imperfect_heroes/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOpphCRklDJiFXdS76U0LSQ Rumble: https://rumble.com/v449rko Text: 720-989-6475 DJ Stutz Calendar Link: https://bookme.name/Imperfectheroespodcast ONE ON ONE COACHING Link: https://www.littleheartsacademyusa.com/courses/one-on-one-coaching-bundle Find DJ’s Books “Roman is Bigger,” “Roman is a Bigger Brother,” and “Oscar’s True Friends” on Amazon, Kindle, Barnes&Noble, and Walmart. Support the show Support the show. If you like what you hear, we would appreciate your support. Every little bit helps. https://www.buzzsprout.com/1779847/support

Duration:00:34:56

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Tailoring Education: School Choices for Your Child’s Needs with Shiloh Stutz

4/21/2025
Send us a text Follow one family’s journey as they seek the perfect educational fit for their kids. DJ chats with her son, Shiloh Stutz, a Northern California hospital administrator and dad to Roman and Niko. Shiloh shares how he and his wife, a city engineer, chose a small, values-driven Christian preschool for Roman, sparking his academic success. This led to a dual immersion school and later a private Christian school. Niko followed suit, thriving in academics and sports. Shiloh dishes on balancing parental guidance with fostering independence, offering practical tips for parents of young kids. Fans of DJ’s books Roman is Bigger and Roman is a Bigger Brother will love hearing about the actual Roman and Niko! Tune in for faith-based, family-focused advice to help your children excel. Perfect for parents navigating their kids’ educational needs! Listen now for inspiring, kid-friendly insights! Don’t forget to rate, review, and subscribe to Imperfect Heroes so you never miss a new episode Time Stamps 2:41 ​​DJ Stutz and Shiloh Stutz discuss the journey of choosing the right education path for their children, starting with daycare and preschool. 9:53 Shiloh discusses how he and his wife met with the teacher and when they realized how their son’s academic and social needs were not being met. 15:34 DJ and Shiloh discuss doing the research to identify educational options in your area. 36:08 Shiloh shares the difference between being a present parent, involved in your child’s activities and a helicopter parent. Connect with Us! DJ Stutz - DJ Stutz -Podcast: https://www.imperfectheroespodcast.com/ Website:https://www.imperfectheroes.net/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheImperfectHeroes Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/imperfect_heroes/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOpphCRklDJiFXdS76U0LSQ Rumble: https://rumble.com/v449rko DJ Stutz Calendar Link: https://bookme.name/Imperfectheroespodcast ONE ON ONE COACHING Link: https://www.littleheartsacademyusa.com/courses/one-on-one-coaching-bundle Find DJ’s Book “Roman is Bigger” on Amazon, Kindle, Barnes & Noble, and Walmart. Support the show Support the show. If you like what you hear, we would appreciate your support. Every little bit helps. https://www.buzzsprout.com/1779847/support

Duration:00:40:12

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Easing Parental Anxiety for Happier Kids with Lenora Edwards

4/14/2025
Send us a text Don’t forget to rate, review, and subscribe to Imperfect Heroes so you never miss an episode! Who our kids look up to shapes who they become! In this episode, DJ Stutz and Lenora Edwards explore how young children develop a sense of morality by observing the heroes in their lives. From parents and teachers to friends and public figures, kids model behaviors they see—making it essential to guide them toward positive role models. DJ shares inspiring classroom stories of children showing kindness and bravery, while Lenora discusses the impact of social media on hero worship. They also offer practical tips on setting screen boundaries, fostering meaningful real-world connections, and helping kids choose role models who reflect strong values. 🎧 Tune in now to learn how to help your child become—and look up to—an everyday hero! Time Stamps 4:08 – How kids identify and choose their heroes. 7:27 – Why recognizing heroes' flaws can reveal their greatest strengths. 20:25 – A heartwarming classroom story of young kids displaying heroic kindness. 26:16 – The influence of social media influencers on young children’s idea of heroism. Connect with Us! DJ Stutz - Podcast: https://www.imperfectheroespodcast.com/ Coaching and Resources Website: https://www.imperfectheroes.net/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheImperfectHeroes Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/imperfect_heroes/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOpphCRklDJiFXdS76U0LSQ Rumble: https://rumble.com/v449rko DJ Stutz Calendar Link: https://bookme.name/Imperfectheroespodcast ONE ON ONE COACHING Link: https://www.littleheartsacademyusa.com/courses/one-on-one-coaching-bundle Find DJ’s Book “Roman is Bigger” on Amazon, Kindle, Barnes&Noble, and Walmart. Contact Lenora Edwards Website: https://www.betterspeech.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/betterspeech/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/yourbetterspeech/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/BetterSpeechVideo LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/better-speech/mycompany/ Support the show Support the show. If you like what you hear, we would appreciate your support. Every little bit helps. https://www.buzzsprout.com/1779847/support

Duration:00:36:31

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Little Actions, Big Impact: Guiding Kids to Understand Others with Carrie Lingenfelter

4/7/2025
Send us a text In this warm and welcoming episode, host DJ Stutz sits down with Carrie Lingenfelter, a former teacher, speech therapist, and conscious parenting champion. They chat about the joy of really getting to know our kids and building those precious connections. Parents of little ones, this one’s for you—full of gentle ideas and engaging tips to help your family grow together! Carrie opens up about understanding our kids’ unique strengths and struggles, sharing the sweet idea of "empathic" children and how our own vibes affect their world. They explore finding that cozy balance between letting kids feel big emotions and guiding them toward self-care—perfect for those tricky toddler moments or preschool ups and downs. DJ offers inventive tricks like using timers and teamwork to smooth out behavior bumps, making parenting feel a little lighter. Both shine a light on empathy, kindness, and how grandparents can be such a blessing in today’s parenting journey. With Carrie’s heart for raising sensitive, gifted kiddos and DJ’s down-to-earth wisdom, this episode is a gem for parents who want to keep it real. Listen in for simple ways to nurture emotional wellness, creativity, and closeness—raising little changemakers, one loving family at a time! Time Stamps 4:06 – DJ and Carrie chat about gifted kids and the wide neurodiversity spectrum—great for parents celebrating their child’s unique shine! 11:03 – DJ shares a quick trick to help kids take responsibility and fix mistakes—perfect for raising problem-solvers! 20:48 – DJ and Carrie share why teaching kids empathy matters—essential tips for nurturing kind toddlers! 29:47 – DJ and Carrie explore avoiding overly strict or lax styles—ideal for finding your parenting groove! Connect with Us! DJ Stutz - Podcast: https://www.imperfectheroespodcast.com/ Coaching and Resources Website: https://www.imperfectheroes.net/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheImperfectHeroes Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/imperfect_heroes/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOpphCRklDJiFXdS76U0LSQ Rumble: https://rumble.com/v449rko DJ Stutz Calendar Link: https://bookme.name/Imperfectheroespodcast ONE ON ONE COACHING Link: https://www.littleheartsacademyusa.com/courses/one-on-one-coaching-bundle Find DJ’s Books “Roman is Bigger,” “Roman is a Bigger Brother,” and “Oscar’s True Friends” on Amazon, Kindle, Barnes&Noble, Bookshop.org, and Walmart. Contact Carrie Lingenfelter Website: https://hearttoheartlife.com/ Email: https://hearttoheartlife.com/contact-heart-to-heart-life/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hearttoheartparentspodcast Instagram: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carrie-lingenfelter-50518648/ Support the show Support the show. If you like what you hear, we would appreciate your support. Every little bit helps. https://www.buzzsprout.com/1779847/support

Duration:00:41:44

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Chores for Little Champs: Secrets to Confident Kids

3/31/2025
Send us a text Join DJ Stutz on Imperfect Heroes as she dives into raising independent kids—kicking helicopter and lawnmower parenting to the curb! Tired of over-scheduled, over-indulged little ones who can’t solve a problem? DJ’s here for you. She dishes on how hovering tanks work ethic (business owners are spilling the beans!), and shares simple ways to get your toddlers and preschoolers rocking chores like pros. Imagine modeling hustle, setting clear rules, and letting them face consequences—no more swooping in, mamas! From age-appropriate tasks to real talk on grit, DJ’s tips are pure gold for parents of young children. Research backs her up too: early independence boosts self-esteem, amps up school success, sharpens social-emotional skills, and even slashes anxiety and meltdowns. Want kids who thrive, not just survive? Tune in for practical parenting hacks that build confidence and resilience in your little ones—because raising self-reliant kids starts today!" TIMESTAMPS [1:41] DJ Stutz breaks down how helicopter and lawnmower parenting leave our little ones over-scheduled, over-indulged, and missing grit—must-know stuff for parents craving resilient, happy kids! [4:26] DJ spills the tea on getting toddlers and preschoolers in on household action—think tiny helpers building independence and confidence while tackling tasks with you. Parenting win! [23:20] DJ dives into how teaching young children they can get stuff done—and love it—sets them up for a fuller, happier life. Say goodbye to helplessness, hello to thriving kiddos! [26:04] DJ drops research gold—early independence boosts self-esteem, school success, and social skills while cutting anxiety. Essential listening for parents raising strong, self-reliant little ones! For more information on the Imperfect Heroes podcast, visit: https://www.imperfectheroespodcast.com/ DJ Stutz - Podcast: https://www.imperfectheroespodcast.com/ Coaching and Resources Website:https://www.imperfectheroes.net/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheImperfectHeroes Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/imperfect_heroes/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOpphCRklDJiFXdS76U0LSQ Rumble: https://rumble.com/v449rko DJ Stutz Calendar Link: https://bookme.name/Imperfectheroespodcast ONE ON ONE COACHING Link: https://www.littleheartsacademyusa.com/courses/one-on-one-coaching-bundle Find DJ’s Books “Roman is Bigger,” “Roman is a Bigger Brother,” and “Oscar’s True Friends” on Amazon, Kindle, Barnes&Noble, and Walmart. Support the show Support the show. If you like what you hear, we would appreciate your support. Every little bit helps. https://www.buzzsprout.com/1779847/support

Duration:00:34:48

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Parenting with the End in Mind: Raising Kids Who Think Ahead with Chaya Garcia

3/24/2025
Send us a text Tune into this awesome podcast episode where DJ Stutz chats with relationship pro Chaya Garcia about boosting your kids’ executive functioning—aka their ability to plan ahead and make smart choices. They dish on why modeling behavior is key, how to turn failures into learning wins, and why kids need to express emotions confidently. Chaya shares tips on building strong relationships (hint: actions beat words!), while DJ offers family-tested tricks for guiding kids through conflicts and picking character-driven friends. Grab your favorite beverage and listen for practical, fun advice on raising resilient, empathetic little decision-makers—perfect for parents of toddlers, preschool and early elementary kiddos! Don’t forget to rate, review, and subscribe to Imperfect Heroes so you never miss an episode! Time Stamps 4:24 – DJ Stutz and Chaya Garcia break down executive functioning—how kids learn to think ahead and make thoughtful decisions. 10:00 – DJ and Chaya discuss resilience and why the biggest failure is never trying. Learn how to help kids embrace challenges. 19:21 – Encouragement matters! DJ and Chaya share how reminding kids of past wins builds confidence and perseverance. 28:20 – DJ and Chaya explore conflict resolution—teaching kids to handle disagreements while keeping friendships strong. Connect with Us! DJ Stutz - Podcast: https://www.imperfectheroespodcast.com/ Coaching and Resources Website: https://www.imperfectheroes.net/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheImperfectHeroes Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/imperfect_heroes/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOpphCRklDJiFXdS76U0LSQ Rumble: https://rumble.com/v449rko DJ Stutz Calendar Link: https://bookme.name/Imperfectheroespodcast ONE ON ONE COACHING Link: https://www.littleheartsacademyusa.com/courses/one-on-one-coaching-bundle Find DJ’s Books “Roman is Bigger,” “Roman is a Bigger Brother,” and “Oscar’s True Friends” on Amazon, Kindle, Barnes&Noble, Bookshop.org, and Walmart. Contact Chaya Garcia Website: https://marriedin2025.com/ Email: chaya@chayasarah.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/epicloveexpert/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/epicloveexpert/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@EpicLoveExpert Support the show Support the show. If you like what you hear, we would appreciate your support. Every little bit helps. https://www.buzzsprout.com/1779847/support

Duration:00:43:37

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Building Your Village: How Volunteers Transform Autism Parenting with Jennifer Celeste Briggs

3/17/2025
Send us a text In this episode, DJ chats with Jennifer Celeste Briggs, author of Watching Sarah Rise, about her heartfelt journey raising her daughter Sarah, diagnosed with autism at four and a half. Jennifer, a Pittsburgh mom with a BA from Swarthmore College, shares how she turned challenges into triumphs using the Son-Rise Program—a loving, child-centered approach she dubbed "Sarah-Rise." Trained at the Autism Treatment Center of America, she built a volunteer network to spark Sarah’s social skills, speech, and eye contact through therapeutic play. Jennifer dives into the power of embracing your child’s interests, training volunteers like a pro, and leaning on community support. Her tips? Stay present and open-minded! Check out her book and resources on her website or at bookstores for inspiration. Perfect for parents of young kids navigating autism or other neurodiversities,, this episode is packed with hope, practical advice, and a reminder you’re not alone on this journey! Don’t forget to rate, review, and subscribe to Imperfect Heroes so you never miss an episode! Time Stamps 3:36 – Jennifer shares why she trained at the Autism Treatment Center for a Son-Rise Program—hope for autism parents! 5:32 – Jennifer talks tapping community volunteers—a must for your kiddo’s village! 8:53 – Jennifer explains training volunteers to join Sarah’s play, boosting her interests—pure gold for connection! 25:53 – DJ says journal your kid’s triggers and wins—key for understanding your little one! Connect with Us! DJ Stutz - Podcast: https://www.imperfectheroespodcast.com/ Coaching and Resources Website:https://www.imperfectheroes.net/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheImperfectHeroes Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/imperfect_heroes/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOpphCRklDJiFXdS76U0LSQ Rumble: https://rumble.com/v449rko DJ Stutz Calendar Link: https://bookme.name/Imperfectheroespodcast ONE ON ONE COACHING Link: https://www.littleheartsacademyusa.com/courses/one-on-one-coaching-bundle Find DJ’s Books “Roman is Bigger,” “Roman is a Bigger Brother,” and “Oscar’s True Friends” on Amazon, Kindle, Barnes&Noble, Bookshop.org, and Walmart. Contact Jennifer Celeste Briggs Website: https://www.watchingsarahrise.com/bio/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jennifercelestebriggsauthor/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jenniferbriggsauthor Support the show Support the show. If you like what you hear, we would appreciate your support. Every little bit helps. https://www.buzzsprout.com/1779847/support

Duration:00:37:43

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Tantrums to Toughness: Patience Tips for Little Ones with Lenora Edwards

3/10/2025
Send us a text In this episode of Imperfect Heroes, DJ welcomes back speech-language pathologist, Lenora Edwards, for an engaging conversation about teaching kids persistence, resilience, and the joy of trying new things. DJ and Lenora discuss how fear of failure or discomfort can hold children back, how parents’ own experiences shape their reactions, and why modeling a growth mindset is essential. They share practical strategies for helping kids develop patience, confidence, and a willingness to push through challenges, whether it's learning a new skill, trying a sport, or simply stepping outside their comfort zone. Listen up for faith-filled, doable tips to swap tantrums for toughness! 𝗪𝗮𝗻𝘁 𝗺𝗼𝗿𝗲? Join my free workshop March 27th, 7 PM—Parent Perspectives: Building Persistence & Patience in Kids. You’ll grab my Patience Playbook too: https://www.imperfectheroes.net/courses/parent-perspectives-workshops 𝗧𝗶𝗺𝗲 𝗦𝘁𝗮𝗺𝗽𝘀 𝟰:𝟭𝟰 Lenora Edwards and I kick things off chatting about growing kids with big hearts and stick-with-it grit. It’s all about love and a little faith to build that moral compass and persistence—right from the start! 𝟳:𝟯𝟲 Lenora and I get real about nudging our little ones to try something new—maybe a bit scary! We’re cheering them on, but if panic hits, no worries—we’ve got tricks to pivot and keep it fun. 𝟭𝟱:𝟯𝟵 Here’s a mom tip from me: I love setting the stage for new adventures—making them exciting and cool ahead of time. It’s like planting a seed so they’re pumped to jump in! 𝟯𝟭:𝟬𝟬 Lenora and I dive into family mottoes—think of it as your team cheer! It’s a simple way to spark that ‘we’re in this together’ vibe and get the kids fired up to tackle stuff as a crew 𝗖𝗼𝗻𝗻𝗲𝗰𝘁 𝘄𝗶𝘁𝗵 𝗨𝘀! 𝗗𝗝 𝗦𝘁𝘂𝘁𝘇 Podcast: https://www.imperfectheroespodcast.com/ Coaching and Resources Website: https://www.imperfectheroes.net/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheImperfectHeroes Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/imperfect_heroes/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOpphCRklDJiFXdS76U0LSQ Rumble: https://rumble.com/v449rko DJ Stutz Calendar Link: https://bookme.name/Imperfectheroespodcast ONE ON ONE COACHING Link: https://www.littleheartsacademyusa.com/courses/one-on-one-coaching-bundle Find DJ’s Books “Roman is Bigger,” “Roman is a Bigger Brother,” and “Oscar’s True Friends” on Amazon, Kindle, Barnes&Noble, and Walmart. 𝗖𝗼𝗻𝘁𝗮𝗰𝘁 𝗟𝗲𝗻𝗼𝗿𝗮 𝗘𝗱𝘄𝗮𝗿𝗱𝘀 Website: https://www.betterspeech.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/betterspeech/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/yourbetterspeech/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/BetterSpeechVideo LinkedIn: https://www. Support the show Support the show. If you like what you hear, we would appreciate your support. Every little bit helps. https://www.buzzsprout.com/1779847/support

Duration:00:36:30

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2/27/2025
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Duration:00:38:45

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🔒 Zombies, Bullies and Heroes Oh My! With Robert Wylie

2/24/2025
Subscriber-only episode Send us a text Would your child know what to do in a dangerous situation? In this episode, DJ sits down with Robert Wiley from DPP Defense to explore how parents can teach kids practical self-defense, situational awareness, and emotional resilience. From identifying threats and de-escalating conflicts to running safety drills just like fire drills, Robert shares expert strategies to help children stay safe, confident, and prepared. With over 30 years of experience in personal defense, Robert has trained with law enforcement, taught self-defense to youth, and studied predator behavior. He introduces the “What Would I Do?” game—a powerful tool to prepare kids for real-world dangers like mob mentality, riots, and personal attacks. Tune in to learn how intentional parenting and open communication can build self-sufficient, street-smart kids. And keep an eye out for his upcoming book, Defense Against Frogs, Dogs, and Humans! Don’t forget to rate, review, and subscribe to Imperfect Heroes so you never miss an episode! Time Stamps 3:25 – Robert explains why teaching kids to protect themselves—even when parents aren’t around—is a critical life skill. 5:04 – The three pillars of self-defense every child should know. Robert shares why training the mind is just as important as physical skills. 9:06 – Predators don’t just groom kids—they groom entire families. DJ and Robert dive into how manipulation tactics work and what parents can do to stay one step ahead. 14:24 – Introducing the “What Would I Do?” game—a fun and powerful way for families to role-play real-life safety scenarios and prepare kids for emergencies. Connect with Us! DJ Stutz - Podcast: https://www.imperfectheroespodcast.com/ Coaching and Resources Website:https://www.imperfectheroes.net/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheImperfectHeroes Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/imperfect_heroes/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOpphCRklDJiFXdS76U0LSQ Rumble: https://rumble.com/v449rko DJ Stutz Calendar Link: https://bookme.name/Imperfectheroespodcast ONE ON ONE COACHING Link: https://www.littleheartsacademyusa.com/courses/one-on-one-coaching-bundle Find DJ’s Book “Roman is Bigger” on Amazon, Kindle, Barnes&Noble, and Walmart. Contact Robert Wylie Email: dppdefense@gmail.com Website: https://DPPDefense.com Facebook: https://facebook.com/GunNKnifeGuru Instagram: https://instagram.com/dppdefense YouTube: https://youtube.com/@DPPDefense LinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/in/robert-wylie-dppdefense Support the show. If you like what you hear, we would appreciate your support. Every little bit helps. https://www.buzzsprout.com/1779847/support

Duration:00:39:38

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The 4 Emotional Needs Every Child Has (and How to Meet Them!) with Richard O’Keef

2/17/2025
Send us a text Ever wonder what truly helps children thrive while keeping them from dangerous paths? In this powerful episode, DJ Stutz sits down with parenting expert and author Richard O’Keef to dive into the four emotional needs every child has—belonging, personal power, being heard and understood, and boundaries. Richard, who teaches incarcerated dads how to break generational cycles of abuse and neglect, shares the 15 essential parenting skills that help meet these needs. Together, DJ and Richard discuss how intentional parenting—through one-on-one time, goal setting, and life skills—creates confident, resilient kids. They explore the impact of consistency, unconditional love, and firm but kind boundaries in raising children who feel secure and valued. Richard also shares insights from his new book, 911, What is Your Parenting Emergency?, offering practical tools to reduce struggles and enjoy the parenting journey. Tune in for an inspiring conversation filled with real-life strategies to strengthen your family and empower your children! Don’t forget to rate, review, and subscribe to Imperfect Heroes so you never miss an episode! Connect with Us! DJ Stutz - Podcast: https://www.imperfectheroespodcast.com/ Coaching and Resources Website:https://www.imperfectheroes.net/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheImperfectHeroes Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/imperfect_heroes/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOpphCRklDJiFXdS76U0LSQ Rumble: https://rumble.com/v449rko DJ Stutz Calendar Link: https://bookme.name/Imperfectheroespodcast ONE ON ONE COACHING Link: https://www.littleheartsacademyusa.com/courses/one-on-one-coaching-bundle Find DJ’s Book “Roman is Bigger” on Amazon, Kindle, Barnes & Noble, and Walmart. Contact Richard O’Keef Email: richardokeef@gmail.com Website: https://911ParentingEmergency.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100012391081685 Bluesky: https://parentingemergency.bsky.social Support the show Support the show. If you like what you hear, we would appreciate your support. Every little bit helps. https://www.buzzsprout.com/1779847/support

Duration:00:38:50

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🔒 Raising Heroes: Helping Kids Choose Their Heroes & Become One Themselves with Lenora Edwards Episode 189

2/10/2025
Subscriber-only episode Send us a text Who our kids look up to shapes who they become! In this episode, DJ Stutz and Lenora Edwards explore how young children develop a sense of morality by observing the heroes in their lives. From parents and teachers to friends and public figures, kids model behaviors they see—making it essential to guide them toward positive role models. DJ shares inspiring classroom stories of children showing kindness and bravery, while Lenora discusses the impact of social media on hero worship. They also offer practical tips on setting screen boundaries, fostering meaningful real-world connections, and helping kids choose role models who reflect strong values. Tune in now to learn how to help your child become—and look up to—an everyday hero! Don’t forget to rate, review, and subscribe to Imperfect Heroes so you never miss an episode! Link to Wayne Dyer - The Teddy Story: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z5fqWPdSccI Time Stamps 4:08 – How kids identify and choose their heroes. 7:27 – Why recognizing heroes' flaws can reveal their greatest strengths. 20:25 – A heartwarming classroom story of young kids displaying heroic kindness. 26:16 – The influence of social media influencers on young children’s idea of heroism. Connect with Us! DJ Stutz: Podcast: https://www.imperfectheroespodcast.com/ Coaching and Resources Website:https://www.imperfectheroes.net/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheImperfectHeroes Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/imperfect_heroes/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOpphCRklDJiFXdS76U0LSQ Rumble: https://rumble.com/v449rko DJ Stutz Calendar Link: https://bookme.name/Imperfectheroespodcast ONE ON ONE COACHING Link: https://www.littleheartsacademyusa.com/courses/one-on-one-coaching-bundle Find DJ’s Book “Roman is Bigger” on Amazon, Kindle, Barnes & Noble, and Walmart. Contact Lenora Edwards Website: https://www.betterspeech.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/betterspeech/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/yourbetterspeech/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/BetterSpeechVideo LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/better-speech/mycompany/ Support the show. If you like what you hear, we would appreciate your support. Every little bit helps. https://www.buzzsprout.com/1779847/support

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1/27/2025
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Episode 187: How to Raise Moral Kids in the Digital Age: Expert Tips from Dr. John Chanaca

1/27/2025
Send us a text In this episode, DJ welcomes Dr. John Chanaca, an experienced author and family therapist, to explore the moral development of children in today’s technology-driven world. With over 42 years in education and counseling, Dr. Chanaca shares insights on fostering moral values through consistent parenting and role modeling. He discusses the importance of cyber safety and outlines eight key traits for successful students, including respect, obedience, and problem-solving. Dr. Chanaca emphasizes the long-term nature of parenting and encourages families to collaborate on setting moral goals, creating a lasting positive legacy. Don’t forget to rate, review, and subscribe to Imperfect Heroes so you never miss an episode! Time Stamps 5:36 – Tech & Morals: DJ Stutz tackles cyberbullying, online safety, and teaching kids to use technology wisely. 10:33 – Family Growth: Dr. Chanaca shares how we grow through three family experiences. 21:54 – Inner Light: Exploring the spiritual spark in every child. 30:09 – Success Traits: Dr. Chanaca’s 8 key traits for raising thriving students. Connect with Us! DJ Stutz - Podcast: https://www.imperfectheroespodcast.com/ Coaching and Resources Website:https://www.imperfectheroes.net/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheImperfectHeroes Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/imperfect_heroes/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOpphCRklDJiFXdS76U0LSQ Rumble: https://rumble.com/v449rko DJ Stutz Calendar Link: https://bookme.name/Imperfectheroespodcast ONE ON ONE COACHING Link: https://www.littleheartsacademyusa.com/courses/one-on-one-coaching-bundle Find DJ’s Book “Roman is Bigger” on Amazon, Kindle, Barnes & Noble, and Walmart. Contact Dr. John Chanaca Website: https://www.mjchanacapublishing.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mjchanacapublishing/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100089699787125 X: mjchanacapubish Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/s?k=John+Chanaca&crid=OMIMOPDXMRPT&sprefix=john+chanaca%2Caps%2C190&ref=nb_sb_noss Support the show Support the show. If you like what you hear, we would appreciate your support. Every little bit helps. https://www.buzzsprout.com/1779847/support

Duration:00:39:48

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Episode 186: How Kindness and Compassion Shape Future Entrepreneurs with Margot Machol-Bisnow

1/20/2025
Send us a text In this episode, DJ chats with author Margot Machol-Bisnow about the link between parenting and entrepreneurship. Margot has interviewed over 70 entrepreneurs and shares her findings about childhood commonalities. They highlight the value of praising effort and resilience over outcomes and supporting children’s unique interests. Margot also explains how entrepreneurship is about more than starting businesses—it’s about making a positive impact no matter where you work. Learn how fostering kindness, compassion, and risk-taking can help your child develop an entrepreneurial mindset and thrive in any career path! 🌟 Don’t forget to rate, review, and subscribe to Imperfect Heroes so you never miss an episode! Time Stamps 7:12 – Margot dives into the surprising traits shared by successful entrepreneurs. 9:38 – DJ and Margot explore why resilience and learning from failure are essential skills for children. 18:20 – Raising kids with kindness, compassion, and integrity takes center stage as Margot shares why these values are crucial. 26:27 – Adapting to today’s fast-changing world! DJ and Margot discuss how parents can prepare their children to thrive in the face of new economic and technological challenges. Connect with Us! DJ Stutz - Podcast: https://www.imperfectheroespodcast.com/ Coaching and Resources Website:https://www.imperfectheroes.net/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheImperfectHeroes Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/imperfect_heroes/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOpphCRklDJiFXdS76U0LSQ Rumble: https://rumble.com/v449rko DJ Stutz Calendar Link: https://bookme.name/Imperfectheroespodcast ONE ON ONE COACHING Link: https://www.littleheartsacademyusa.com/courses/one-on-one-coaching-bundle Find DJ’s Book “Roman is Bigger” on Amazon, Kindle, Barnes & Noble, and Walmart. Contact Margot Bisnow Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/margotbisnow/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/raisinganentrepreneur1/?fref=ts LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/margot-machol-bisnow-a29550b5/ Find her book on Amazon: CLICK HERE Support the show Support the show. If you like what you hear, we would appreciate your support. Every little bit helps. https://www.buzzsprout.com/1779847/support

Duration:00:33:36

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Episode 184: Directing Moral Development in Your Kiddos? Begin Here.

1/6/2025
Send us a text Welcome to Season 5 of Imperfect Heroes! This season, we’re diving into a powerful theme: The Moral Development of Young Children. In this first episode, DJ Stutz explores how children grow their sense of right and wrong, drawing on the groundbreaking theories of Jean Piaget and Lawrence Kohlberg. From understanding empathy to building integrity, DJ unpacks the stages of moral development and shares practical, real-life strategies for parents. Learn how to model values, spark meaningful conversations, and use storytelling to nurture compassion and fairness. With insights on setting consistent boundaries and creating a family mission statement, this episode is your guide to raising kind, ethical, and responsible kids. Remember to like, follow, and tell a friend. We would love a rating and review. TIMESTAMPS 2:04 DJ discusses the basics of moral development. 07:15 DJ shares the earliest steps of moral development begin with newborns 18:32 DJ talks about the timing of when children develop an understanding of empathy and fairness. 29:14 DJ Stutz discusses the role of faith in shaping moral development Connect with Us! Podcast: https://www.imperfectheroespodcast.com/ Coaching and Resources Website: https://www.imperfectheroes.net Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheImperfectHeroes Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/imperfect_heroes/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOpphCRklDJiFXdS76U0LSQ Rumble: https://rumble.com/v449rko DJ Stutz Booking Link: https://bookme.name/Imperfectheroespodcast ONE ON ONE COACHING Link: https://www.littleheartsacademyusa.com/courses/one-on-one-coaching-bundle Support the show Support the show. If you like what you hear, we would appreciate your support. Every little bit helps. https://www.buzzsprout.com/1779847/support

Duration:00:35:38

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Episode 185: Parenting Spicy Kids? Diane Dempster Shares a Recipe for Success

1/1/2025
Send us a text Don’t forget to rate, review, and subscribe to Imperfect Heroes so you never miss an episode! In this episode of Imperfect Heroes: Insights into Parenting, DJ Stutz sits down with Diane Dempster, co-founder of Impact Parents, to discuss the challenges and joys of raising what she calls “Spicy Kids.” Diane shares her expertise on distinguishing between behaviors that are "naughty" and those rooted in neurological or developmental differences, emphasizing the importance of understanding executive function delays. Together, they explore how meeting children where they are, fostering intrinsic motivation, and encouraging self-awareness can transform parenting. DJ shares personal stories from her journey raising a neurodiverse child and fostering, offering relatable insights for parents navigating similar paths. Diane highlights the need for parents to manage their own emotions and practice self-awareness to better support their children. Time Stamps 2:00 – DJ and Diane discuss how they define a complex kid and the unique challenges of parenting children with diverse needs. 12:12 – They explore the "I do, we do, you do" approach, offering practical steps to help children develop independence in tasks. 17:26 – DJ and Diane talk about the importance of understanding what motivates your child and how different children respond to different incentives. 27:18 – They share insights on how “typical” behaviors in children can sometimes be misunderstood as problematic, emphasizing the need for perspective and empathy. Connect with Us! DJ Stutz - Podcast: https://www.imperfectheroespodcast.com/ Coaching and Resources Website:https://www.imperfectheroes.net/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheImperfectHeroes Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/imperfect_heroes/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOpphCRklDJiFXdS76U0LSQ Rumble: https://rumble.com/v449rko DJ Stutz Calendar Link: https://bookme.name/Imperfectheroespodcast ONE ON ONE COACHING Link: https://www.littleheartsacademyusa.com/courses/one-on-one-coaching-bundle Find DJ’s Book “Roman is Bigger” on Amazon, Kindle, Barnes & Noble, and Walmart. Contact Diane Dempster Email: diane@impactparents.com Website: https://impactparents.com/ Podcast: https://impactparents.com/podcast/ Twitter/X: https://x.com/ImpactParents Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/impactparents/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ImpactParent/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/ImpactParents LinkedIn: Support the show Support the show. If you like what you hear, we would appreciate your support. Every little bit helps. https://www.buzzsprout.com/1779847/support

Duration:00:35:10

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Episode 183: Fostering Faith: The Role of Spirituality and Curiosity in Parenting with Lenora Edwards

12/30/2024
Send us a text In this episode, DJ Stutz chats with Lenora Edwards, a board-certified speech-language pathologist, about the powerful link between spirituality and parenting. They explore how curiosity strengthens faith and builds meaningful family connections. Lenora shares tips on using tone and non-verbal cues to guide children’s spiritual questions while fostering open, judgment-free conversations. They also highlight the value of journaling to help kids reflect on their spiritual experiences and develop a strong moral foundation. This inspiring discussion previews Lenora’s 2025 role, where she’ll return every six weeks to share expert insights on raising young children and supporting their moral growth. Tune in for actionable advice to nurture your child’s faith and family connections! Don’t forget to rate, review, and subscribe to Imperfect Heroes so you never miss an episode! Catch our first episode with Lenora. Episode 83. Just CLICK HERE. TIMESTAMPS 5:34 – Parenting with Purpose DJ and Lenora discuss the growing need for parents to develop skills and understanding to better navigate raising young children. 13:16 – Deepening Your Faith DJ emphasizes the importance of nurturing your relationship with God as a foundation for parenting. 16:40 – Fostering Faithful Curiosity DJ and Lenora highlight creating safe spaces for children to explore their faith and ask questions. 27:06 – Consistency in Spiritual Conversations DJ and Lenora share tips for approaching faith topics with warmth and trust-building consistency. Connect with Us! DJ Stutz -Podcast: https://www.imperfectheroespodcast.com/ Website:https://www.imperfectheroes.net/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheImperfectHeroes Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/imperfect_heroes/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOpphCRklDJiFXdS76U0LSQ Rumble: https://rumble.com/v449rko DJ Stutz Calendar Link: https://bookme.name/Imperfectheroespodcast ONE ON ONE COACHING Link: https://www.littleheartsacademyusa.com/courses/one-on-one-coaching-bundle Find DJ’s Book “Roman is Bigger” on Amazon, Kindle, Barnes & Noble, and Walmart. Contact Lenora Edwards Website: https://www.betterspeech.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/betterspeech/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/yourbetterspeech/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/BetterSpeechVideo LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/better-speech/mycompany/ Support the show Support the show. If you like what you hear, we would appreciate your support. Every little bit helps. https://www.buzzsprout.com/1779847/support

Duration:00:35:40

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Episode 182: The Power of Spirituality and Stories in Parenting: A Chat with Author and Christian Singer/Songwriter Andrew Peterson

12/23/2024
Send us a text In this episode, DJ Stutz talks with Andrew Peterson—Christian singer-songwriter, and author of The Wingfeather Saga—about weaving faith into every aspect of life. Andrew shares how he integrates faith into his family’s daily routines, making it a natural part of parenting and relationships. They discuss the power of storytelling, music, and art in fostering spiritual growth and teaching the beauty of truth. Andrew emphasizes the importance of discernment in media and parenting with humility, openness, and grace. He also gives a preview of his upcoming projects, including a graphic novel and a young adult adventure book, both rooted in his mission to glorify God through creativity. Join DJ and Andrew for a heartfelt conversation about faith-filled family life and the role of creativity in sharing God’s love. Don’t forget to rate, review, and subscribe to Imperfect Heroes so you never miss an episode! Connect with Us! DJ Stutz - Podcast: https://www.imperfectheroespodcast.com/ Coaching and Resources Website:https://www.imperfectheroes.net/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheImperfectHeroes Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/imperfect_heroes/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOpphCRklDJiFXdS76U0LSQ Rumble: https://rumble.com/v449rko DJ Stutz' Calendar Link: https://bookme.name/Imperfectheroespodcast ONE ON ONE COACHING Link: https://www.littleheartsacademyusa.com/courses/one-on-one-coaching-bundle Find DJ’s Book “Roman is Bigger” on Amazon, KIndle, Barnes&Noble, and Walmart. Contact Andrew Peterson Website: https://www.andrew-peterson.com/ Twitter/X: https://x.com/AndrewPeterson?ref_src=twsrc%5Egoogle%7Ctwcamp%5Eserp%7Ctwgr%5Eauthor Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/andrewpetersonmusic/?hl=en Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/andrewpetersonmusic/ Other Authors/books mentioned in this episode. Katherine Paterson - The Great Gilly Hopkins and The Bridge to Terabithia Richard Paul Evans - The Michael Vey Series Lloyd Alexander - The Chronicles of Prydain Support the show Support the show. If you like what you hear, we would appreciate your support. Every little bit helps. https://www.buzzsprout.com/1779847/support

Duration:00:35:28