Beauty in Battle Podcast
Religion & Spirituality Podcas
Beauty in Battle is a high-energy conversation for married couples to help you energize your relationship, give you purpose, and draw you close to your spouse by turning the tension that divides you into energy that fuels you. In this podcast, Jason and Tori Benham share the stories of their relationship and the practical ways they turned conflict and quarrels into passion and purpose by leaning into their struggles rather than trying to avoid them. As a result, they discovered that fighting together drew them together. Their message is clear - you don’t need to stop fighting; you need to start fighting … the right way. When you and your spouse choose to no longer fight against each other in a personal battle but alongside one another in a spiritual war, the results are amazing as you begin to recognize your God-given purpose together. Laced with practical insights and easy-to-follow steps, our discussions will help you discover:* The number one relationship killer and how to stay away from it. * How to combat negative thinking toward your spouse. * The one key that will magnetize you to your spouse and your spouse to you.* How to win your love back when “you’ve lost that lovin’ feeling.”* Why there was a wedding crasher at the first marriage in history and how he showed up at your wedding too. We all fight. The question is, will you discover the beauty in battle? We're here to help you do just that!
Location:
United States
Description:
Beauty in Battle is a high-energy conversation for married couples to help you energize your relationship, give you purpose, and draw you close to your spouse by turning the tension that divides you into energy that fuels you. In this podcast, Jason and Tori Benham share the stories of their relationship and the practical ways they turned conflict and quarrels into passion and purpose by leaning into their struggles rather than trying to avoid them. As a result, they discovered that fighting together drew them together. Their message is clear - you don’t need to stop fighting; you need to start fighting … the right way. When you and your spouse choose to no longer fight against each other in a personal battle but alongside one another in a spiritual war, the results are amazing as you begin to recognize your God-given purpose together. Laced with practical insights and easy-to-follow steps, our discussions will help you discover:* The number one relationship killer and how to stay away from it. * How to combat negative thinking toward your spouse. * The one key that will magnetize you to your spouse and your spouse to you.* How to win your love back when “you’ve lost that lovin’ feeling.”* Why there was a wedding crasher at the first marriage in history and how he showed up at your wedding too. We all fight. The question is, will you discover the beauty in battle? We're here to help you do just that!
Language:
English
Website:
https://www.beautyinbattle.com
Episodes
Questions For Deeper Connection
5/7/2024
Ever felt a stalemate when it came to thinking of stuff to talk about with your spouse? Today's episode will cure you of that! Join us as we dive into specific questions you can ask your spouse that will help you connect on a deep level.
And, as promised on the pod, here are a list of the questions:
Before you talk, here are some questions to ask yourself about your spouse:
Five Questions to ask one time:
Five Questions to ask every week:
Duration:00:39:23
Marriage On Mission - An Interview With our Missionary Friends
4/30/2024
Join us and our close friends, Trent and Amy Pruett, missionaries in the Philippines, as we discuss how they manage to run a growing ministry and full-time business while thriving in their relationship.
You'll enjoy this podcast as it gives practical takeaways you can apply in your marriage today.
Duration:00:36:37
Rekindling Romance
4/23/2024
Did you know the fire you once felt in your marriage doesn't have to die down or even simmer? You can and should keep it burning hot! This episode will dive into the building blocks of romance and the three keys to ignite the flame once again.
Enjoy!
Duration:00:22:42
The Myth of the 50/50 Marriage
4/17/2024
To thrive in your marriage, shift your focus from tallying points in your relationship to building a winning connection with your spouse. In this episode, we'll share three essential strategies to help you make this shift.
Enjoy!
Duration:00:33:35
The HERO Journey
4/9/2024
Do you want to know your spouse better? How about deepening your understanding of yourself? Today's episode will help you do just that. We're going to ask you one powerful question that will draw you close to your spouse and open your eyes to who you were made to be!
We call this "The HERO Journey." It's going to bless your life and marriage in a big way.
Enjoy.
Duration:00:30:33
Connecting Through Conversation
4/2/2024
Have you ever been lost in a conversation with someone and totally lost track of time? You enjoy it so much. Why? Subconsciously, you are connecting with them, and God made us for connection. In this episode we dive into the research behind what makes "super communicators" and how we can emulate their practices in marriage.
Enjoy.
Duration:00:35:02
Three Keys to Intimacy
3/26/2024
We were created for oneness with our spouse. The question is, how do we practically do it? Today's episode will give you three keys to drawing close and staying close to your spouse so you can experience a marriage that will last.
Enjoy.
Duration:00:31:32
Self Awareness in Marriage
3/19/2024
The healthiest marriages are emotionally intelligent marriages. And the key to emotional intelligence is self-awareness. Join us as we discuss the three levels of self-awareness and how you can walk through each level to strengthen your marriage.
Enjoy!
Duration:00:35:44
Harnessing Emotions to Strengthen Your Marriage
3/13/2024
One of our greatest needs is emotional connection. Harnessed properly, emotions can draw you together in a deep and powerful way. Today's episode is all about helping you do just that. Join us as we share three keys to emotional connection built upon a Biblical and scientific framework.
Enjoy!
Duration:00:38:44
Two Powerful Questions
3/6/2024
If you want to magnetize your spouse to you, this episode is a "must-listen." We're going to share two powerful questions that will put you in a frame of mind to draw your spouse close and connect you emotionally.
Enjoy!
Duration:00:24:50
Six Healthy Marriage Habits
2/28/2024
Join us as we discuss six key marriage habits we've discovered that have drawn us closer and helped us turn conflict into connection. Based on proven research, these six keys can revolutionize your marriage!
Duration:00:37:23
Four Pillars of a Strong Marriage
2/21/2024
Join us as we dive into a little brain science that shows the power of our right-brain and how it is wired to run on four key things. These four keys are pillars that will support and strengthen your marriage when you apply them to your relationship.
Enjoy!
Duration:00:27:00
Dealing With Insecurity In Marriage
2/14/2024
Intimacy is to be fully known and fully accepted. God made us for intimacy - both with Himself and with others. In marriage, intimacy is the lifeblood of your relationship. But it's hard. Why? Because intimacy reveals insecurity.
In today's episode, we dive into the topic of insecurity and give three keys on how to overcome it. You'll enjoy this Valentine's Day edition as we tackle a difficult issue that we all face.
Enjoy. And ...HAPPY VALENTINES DAY!
Duration:00:33:45
A 3-Part Grid For Conflict Resolution
2/6/2024
Today's episode is all about how to properly manage conflict and a 3-part grid we've learned that has helped us overcome conflict in our own marriage.
It's built upon the foundation that conflict is meant for connection - it’s God’s way of turning you from “me” into “we.” This mindset will help you w/any conflict.
Join us as we share this unique grid that can help you work through any conflict!
Duration:00:29:20
The Powerful Role of the HELPER
1/30/2024
This episode is sure to blow your hair back, especially if you're a wife! We dive deep into the meaning of the phrase "helper suitable" and the powerful implications it has on the role of a woman in marriage. Taken from the context of creation and attaching a new spin on relationship dynamics, this conversation will leave you feeling empowered and excited about your marriage.
Join us in this fun and interesting deep-dive into the world of female identity. This podcast is a "must listen" for wives to understand their true identities and husbands to grasp the powerful role your wife has in your own identity.
Enjoy!
Duration:00:20:38
Two Words To Grow Your Marriage
1/23/2024
Each year we ask God to give us a word for the following year. This year God gave us two words (well, technically four, but who's counting?). Today, we're gonna share those words with you and how you can use them to help build and grow your relationship.
Enjoy
Duration:00:35:46
How To Stay Attached To Each Other
1/16/2024
Today we're going to dive into Attachment Theory and how we can apply it to our marriage. Recent studies have shown how your primary attachments early in life dictate the strength of your attachments later in life, but how we can each grow to deeper levels of connection by simply being aware of our attachment style.
Attachment is defined as "a deep and enduring emotional bond between two people in which each seeks closeness and feels more secure when in the presence of the other.”
Attachment Theory is a set of principles regarding how people attach with others in relationships. Coined by psychologist John Bowlby in 1969, he states that when we form our primary attachment, we also make a mental representation of what a relationship is, which we then use for all other relationships in the future i.e., friendships, working, and romantic relationships.
We look forward to jumping in and discovering what we can learn about attachment and how it can help us connect deeper with our spouse.
Duration:00:35:59
Sweat Together, Stay Together
1/10/2024
You cannot be the spouse or parent God made you to be if you are not physically well. Today's episode focuses on the importance of exercise and nutrition in your marriage and how suffering together draws you together when you choose to focus on your physical fitness as a couple.
Plus, we're going to share nine keys to a healthy lifestyle from an expert coach.
Enjoy!
P.S. If you haven't gotten your copy of our latest book, Marriage A To Z, grab one HERE!
Duration:00:35:22
The Power of Kindness in Marriage
1/5/2024
We often take for granted the importance of being kind to our spouse. But recent research has shown the power that simple kindness has on your physical, mental, emotional, and relational health. In this episode, we're going to talk about three aspects of kindness, the brain science behind it, and the four building blocks to becoming a kinder person.
Enjoy!
Duration:00:27:24
Discovering Your Childhood Message
12/27/2023
Your childhood was the university of your relationships. How you thought and what you believed as a child plays into the way you respond as an adult. In today's episode, Tori will dissect the nine types of childhood messages and dissect the fears and desires they are built upon.
Your inner child is still speaking. Shining a light on this subconscious voice will make sure it does not sabotage your marriage!
Enjoy.
If you haven't gotten your copy of our newest and best-selling book Marriage A To Z, grab your copy HERE.
Duration:00:41:28