Imperfectly Poly
Adult Content
This is the Imperfectly Poly Podcast where I'm talking about being a polyamorous man going through life and trying to navigate the ups, downs and circles that come my way. This will just be my thoughts and perspectives on different aspects of life and this is not intended as a guide for how you should do poly or life in general. Instead this documents my thoughts and experiences in an attempt to normalize a lifestyle choice that is more common each day.
Location:
United States
Genres:
Adult Content
Description:
This is the Imperfectly Poly Podcast where I'm talking about being a polyamorous man going through life and trying to navigate the ups, downs and circles that come my way. This will just be my thoughts and perspectives on different aspects of life and this is not intended as a guide for how you should do poly or life in general. Instead this documents my thoughts and experiences in an attempt to normalize a lifestyle choice that is more common each day.
Twitter:
@ImperfectlyPoly
Language:
English
Episodes
The Poly Perfection Trap
4/18/2024
This week I talk about one of my personal sayings "progress, not perfection." I relate this concept to perfectionism in polyamory and relationships in general. Then I talk about how changing the focus away from perfection towards progress can help mental health significantly.
Duration:00:16:46
Compersion Myths and Tips
4/11/2024
This week I talk about all things Compersion. I start with describing compersion and give examples of how compersion is not just for polyamorous relationships. Then I talk about some myths related to compersion and finally a few tips to help someone achieve compersion.
Duration:00:22:20
KTP and NRE w/ Chloe
4/7/2024
In this episode, I have my lovely girlfriend Chloe on the show and we are talking about our first month together, how we support each other and how we have been navigating Kitchen Table Poly (KTP) dynamics along with managing our New Relationship Energy (NRE).
Duration:00:19:38
From Breadcrumbs to Follow Through
3/29/2024
In this episode I'm talking about how dreams can still come true even when you think they died. I also talk about some experiences with breadcrumbing and explain what that term means. I talk about how my life is on an upswing and my dreams are finally coming true.
Duration:00:19:36
Coming out as poly w/ Danielle
3/16/2024
Today I have my wife, Danielle, on as a special guest for us to talk about coming out. This is mostly us just telling our stories about coming out to family, friends and coworkers and sharing how they accepted or rejected us along the way.
Duration:00:35:48
Life Update: First Date
3/11/2024
This is a little life update including my first week at IOP and a first date that I went on! Listen in for more details.
Duration:00:25:02
Needs and Offerings
3/10/2024
A relationship is more that just what you get from a relationship but as importantly it also includes what you are able to offer the other person. In this episode, I talk about a little exercise to figure out your needs and offerings within a relationship and I encourage you to do this periodically, as these thing can change over time.
Duration:00:25:34
The Invisible Support System
2/29/2024
You may not see it everyday, but the support systems are there. Reach out, be vulnerable and allow people to support you.
In this Episode, I'm talking about a hard day I recently had and how people supported me through it.
Duration:00:28:03
My thoughts on Emotional Safety
2/22/2024
As I have began thinking about finding another partner, I am reminded of the importance of emotional safety. This is just me chatting about my thoughts on Emotional Safety and why its important to me.
Duration:00:34:46
A chat with Abby
2/15/2024
Today's episode has a special guest of my youngest daughter. I wanted to showcase how our chats usually go and how her and I have fun chatting about everything and nothing. You can see how our minds wander and drift as we talk, but I hope you can also hear how much we just enjoy talking and spending time together. Enjoy this little peak into my life as a father.
Duration:00:36:09
Imperfectly Bipolar
2/9/2024
In this episode, Chris is going to spend some time getting pretty vulnerable and opening up about his mental health journey. Chris has been sober for 3 years and diagnosed with bipolar II about two years ago. This is not the most upbeat episode, but it will shed light on who Chris is to give more context as the episodes go forward.
Duration:00:28:58
I am Imperfectly Poly
2/2/2024
Welcome to February 2024! Where did the time go? Oh, yeah.... A lot happened. Chris is going to spend some time to catch you up over the last 18 months and talk about a change in format. A lot has happened so buckle up for the ride.
Duration:00:20:16
Imperfectly Rebooting
2/1/2024
We're bringing this podcast back to life. Be ready because Episode 1 of the new format comes out soon!
Duration:00:00:30
18 - Movie Review - Top Gun: Maverick
7/23/2022
Just for fun, we wanted to throw in some levity with a review of Top Gun: Maverick. Obviously Chris and Don are a little too excited about this movie but Mony and Danielle were good sports with it all.
Duration:00:35:34
17 - The Relationship Escalator with The Lovely Redhead
7/2/2022
Today we are talking about the traditional relationship escalator and our thoughts on how it does and does not relate to the way we do relationships. We have our Lovely Redhead returning as a special guest to provide her thoughts as well.
Duration:01:08:23
16 - Poly Relationship Styles - Part 2
6/25/2022
This week we are continuing our talk about the various styles of ethical nonmonogamy and related terminology. There are a lot of definitions out there so this one needed to be split into two parts.
Definition Source: https://www.menshealth.com/sex-women/a39412505/types-of-polyamory/
Duration:00:29:41
15 - Poly Relationship Styles - Part 1
6/19/2022
This week we are talking through some of the various styles of ethical nonmonogamy and related terminology. There are a lot of definitions out there so this one needed to be split into two parts.
Definition Source: https://www.menshealth.com/sex-women/a39412505/types-of-polyamory/
Duration:00:42:41
14 - Cigar Chat - Poly Misconceptions
5/28/2022
This week we are doing another cigar chat since its lovely outside and we are talking about some common misconceptions with Polyamory. We get into the weeds talking about some societal and religious views of our chosen lifestyle and relay how we see that polyamory is a wonderful way to share joy and love with your partners, family and friends.
Duration:00:40:27
13 - Cigar Chat - Poly Vacation
5/21/2022
This week we are sitting out back talking about our vacation to North Georgia for Chris' 40th Birthday and all the interesting adventures that our six person polycule can get into with a beautiful yet haunted cabin in the woods over Friday the 13th weekend.
Duration:00:50:01
12 - Holidays and Big Moments
4/30/2022
This episode is focused on celebrating holidays and other big moments within our polycule.
Duration:00:58:21