The Better Sex Podcast ~ Unfiltered Conversations

In this episode of The Better Sex Podcast, I talk with Sexual Fantasy Expert, Artemisia de Vine. Artemisia shares her personal story from her restrictive upbringing through her discovery of sexual fantasies and expanded consciousness to becoming a professional dominatrix. During this conversation, we dive into the exploration of desires rather than suppression of them in forming a healthy relationship with desire for sexual play. Atemisia brings a wealth of training and expertise in creating emotional and psychological safety during sexual play, offering listeners a unique exercise to explore sexual preferences. With insights from her upcoming book "The Spirituality of Smut: The Surprising Wisdom of Sexual Fantasies," Artemisia enlightens us on the transformative power of erotic imagination. Join us as we navigate the journey of embracing our deepest desires for a more satisfying and spiritually connected sex life through fantasy. Connect with Artemisa Free Gift myfantasyis.com Work with Artemisa artemisiadevine.com Learn the Celeb Swoon technique: Find powerful clues about your unique sexual psychology by taking a closer look at your fav swoon-worthy celebs at MyFantasyIs.com Got questions about sex and relationship? Podcast Feedback DeborahTantraKat@Gmail.com Book a breakthrough session with Deborah Sexual Mastery Breakthrough Session Sex and Relationship tips direct to you Inbox Stay Connected Pillow Talk Newsletter Practice and experimentation The Relationship Lab

In this episode of The Better Sex Podcast, I talk with Sensuality and Love Coach Maya Kova. Maya's journey began as young woman fascinated by love, propelling her on a path to conquer her own relationship anxiety. Her journey and expertise offer a treasure trove of enlightenment that has the potential to revolutionize your experience with love and desire. With her partner, Maya has navigated the challenges of anxiety and attachment, crafting a grounded and secure co-creative partnership built upon self regulation of your nervous system. Now, Maya draws on these personal experiences along with her professional expertise to share how understanding and harnessing our desires can lead to empowered relationships and a fulfilling sex life. Her story is a testament to the power of self-awareness and growth. Along the way, we delve into the role of the Love Goddess archetype, the nuances of conscious loving, embodying feminine energy without passivity and the significance of polarity in deepening connections. Throughout our talk, Maya provides valuable guidance for understanding the intimate language of our sensations, leading to a more connected and conscious way of loving. Free Gift https://consciouslytransform.com/breathwork-anxious YouTube @Maya-Kova Instagram @maya.kova_lovecoach Facebook Consciously-Transform Got questions about sex and relationship? Podcast Feedback DeborahTantraKat@Gmail.com Book a breakthrough session with Deborah Sexual Mastery Breakthrough Session Sex and Relationship tips direct to you Inbox Stay Connected Pillow Talk Newsletter Practice and experimentation The Relationship Lab

In this episode of The Better Sex Podcast, I talk with pioneering erotic bodywork educator Joseph Kramer, PhD. Joseph shares his transformative journey from academia to becoming a leading teacher of erotic massage and sexual embodiment. In this conversation, we delve into how pornography– which is often seen as ‘bad’-- can be used as a tool to learn the art of touch in your relationship. Along the way, we chat about methods for increased body awareness during self-pleasure, how to enhance erotic experience through breath and presence, and the value of experiencing all kinds of touch… even beyond the erotic. Joseph and I also discuss the legal recognition of sexological bodywork and its significance in innovative sex education, especially in light of health crises. This conversation dives deep into the power of getting to know your own body and desire to enhance pleasure with some useful tools to facilitate this exploration. Connect with Joseph www.sexologicalbodywork.com/links EroticMassage.com OrgasmicYoga.com https://www.facebook.com/joseph.kramer.10/ Connect with Deborah Got questions about sex and relationship? Podcast Feedback DeborahTantraKat@Gmail.com Book a breakthrough session with Deborah Sexual Mastery Breakthrough Session Sex and Relationship tips direct to you Inbox Stay Connected Pillow Talk Newsletter Practice and experimentation Better Sex Membership

In this episode of The Better Sex Podcast, I talk with Tantric Lawyer, Kim Mukti Nirjhara. Kim blends the worlds of deep spiritual practice and the legal field, using tantric principles to navigate personal evolution through conflict resolution. Kim shares her transformative journey to discovering tantric therapy, the revitalization of her yoni, and how she came to bring together the intertwining of emotion and pleasure into working with legal disputes. During our conversation, Kim talks about her unique path of facilitating community leadership and the importance of healing sexual trauma within the body. This rich conversation touches on misconceptions of tantra, the broader uses of energetic practices in the legal environment, and her deep respect for First Nations law. Along the way, learn more about Kim’s newest book, “Confessions of a Tantric Lawyer” as well as a variety of tantric techniques you can use in your own personal practice. Connect with Kim Website: thetantriclawyer.com (with links to buy her book) Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thetantriclawyer/ Free FB Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/tantriclawyervipcommunity You Tube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC8vjko54dtOlmvRESQdtesQ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thetantriclawyer/ Podcast Feedback DeborahTantraKat@Gmail.com Got questions about sex and relationship? Sexual Mastery Breakthrough Session Stay Connected Pillow Talk Newsletter Better Sex Membership

In this episode of The Better Sex Podcast, I talk with PhD, Sex and Relationship Coach, Sexuality Educator, and Sexological Bodyworker Charlie Glickman. Charlie shares his extensive experience and wisdom from over three decades of working in the field of sexuality education. We talk about his book, "The Ultimate Guide to Prostate Pleasure" providing listeners with an in-depth look at the pleasures and benefits of prostate stimulation for cisgender men, as well as touching on experiences for transgender women, non-binary, and gender-neutral individuals with prostates. As Charlie shares about his own journey to sexual education, he shares about the importance of somatic education in learning about one’s erotic experience. We also talk about anal play sharing methods to overcome common concerns such as fear of pain or concerns about masculinity and sexual orientation. He gives us some valuable tools for respectful language to help create pressure-free sexual environments with your partner. Charlie leaves us with encouragement to embrace sex positivity and an invitation to explore the transformative power of vulnerability in intimate relationships. Learn more at about Charlie www.makesexeasy.com Twitter charlieglickman FB https://www.facebook.com/charlie.glickman Got questions about sex and relationship? DeborahTantraKat@gmail.com Stay Connected Pillow Talk Newsletter Better Sex Membership https://www.deborahkat.com/turnedon FB https://www.facebook.com/deborah.tantrakat Insta https://www.instagram.com/deborahtantrakat/

In this episode of The Better Sex Podcast, I talk with NeoTantra Educator and Pleasure and Intimacy Expert Caroline Carrington. Caroline shares her transformative journey from the corporate world to the rich and empowering realm of NeoTantra. During our conversation, we explore the differences between NeoTantra and traditional Tantra, discussing how dynamic meditations and mantras can act as profound tools for sexual mastery and deeper connection. Caroline provides valuable tips on reconnecting with the body and utilizing the chakras to improve sexual experiences. Along the way, we talk about how to improve communication, sexual stamina and increase overall pleasure. You’ll also be introduced to the powerful effects of sound and vibration during orgasm and the importance of authentic intimacy and learn about Caroline’s resources, workshops, and retreats to deepen your sexual empowerment and connection. Learn more at about Caroline www.JewelintheLotusCoaching.com www.SarasaTantra.com Insta https://www.instagram.com/caroline.carrington/ FB https://www.facebook.com/Aum.Mani.Padme.Hum Got questions about sex and relationship? DeborahTantraKat@gmail.com Stay Connected Newsletter Pillow Talk Better Sex Membership https://www.deborahkat.com/turnedon FB https://www.facebook.com/deborah.tantrakat Insta https://www.instagram.com/deborahtantrakat/

In this episode of The Better Sex Podcast, I talk with Bloom Community CEO, Noa Elan. Noa brings an innovative and refreshing approach to finding experiences and creating connections in the dating and social world bridging online access with live, in-person events. During this conversation we dive into how a digital event & community site like Bloom can allow folks to communicate more authentically to form deeper relationships. Along the way, Noa shares her story of learning about sexuality, connection, embodiment and relationship all leading to the creation of Bloom. We talk about the nuances of consent, the value of community connection and embracing vulnerability. Noa shares her perspective on the need for creating more spaces that prioritize consent, growth and fostering both platonic and romantic relationships that are founded on depth of connection. Connect with Noa Blog https://bloomcommunity.com/blog Insta https://www.instagram.com/bloomcommunityapp/ Got questions about sex and relationship? DeborahTantraKat@gmail.com https://bettersexsummit.com/ Stay Connected Pillow Talk FB https://www.facebook.com/deborah.tantrakat Insta https://www.instagram.com/deborahtantrakat/

In this episode of The Better Sex Podcast, I talk with Family, Divorce and Relationship Coach Veronica Nabizade. Veronica brings her wide range of experience from legal mediation to deep spiritual practice, and immense work on inner growth to support women in difficult marriages. Her feeling is that “if it’s worth fighting about, it’s worth fixing.” which is the heart of her work as the founder of Relationship Restart. This was an extremely rich conversation exploring leverage, personal development and the importance of self-relationship as the path towards either thriving together or divorcing with dignity. We talked about codependency in relationships and how the Enneagram can help to navigate ourselves and each other. Veronica shares a bit about her journey starting with challenges with her marriage that led her on a quest of spiritual and personal growth. She talks about the value of a “sacred pause” in a relationship including how to do it and in a supportive manner and along the way provides valuable practical tips and insights for our listeners to improve their own relationships and find harmony together. Connect with Veronica https://www.facebook.com/veronicapersonalrestart PersonalRestart.com mindfulmediator.law RelationshipRestart.net Got questions about sex and relationship? DeborahTantraKat@gmail.com Better Sex Membership https://www.deborahkat.com/turnedon FB https://www.facebook.com/deborah.tantrakat Stay Connected Pillow Talk

In this episode of The Better Sex Podcast, I talk with Physician Healthcare Consultant, Keynote Speaker and Best-Selling Author, Dr. Erkeda. Dr. Erkeda brings us their wisdom related to sexual health and wellness, particularly women’s health issues and how to advocate for oneself with healthcare providers. We touch on the struggles women have in the healthcare system due to poor education in women’s health as well as getting support around sexual disorders. We explore pelvic floor health and how physical wellness plays a major role in our sexual wellness. Dr. Erkeda speaks about her commitment to provide more community access to wellness as it relates also to food security, financial ability and social determinants of good health. This is a valuable conversation filled with tips on how to manage women’s health issues and get the help you need when you need it. Connect with Dr. Erkeda Website: https://www.drerkeda.com/ Podcast: ProspectiveDoctor Podcast Pacemakers: https://pacemakerzapp.com/ INSTA: https://www.instagram.com/doctordgram Got questions about sex and relationship? DeborahTantraKat@gmail.com Better Sex Membership https://www.deborahkat.com/turnedon FB https://www.facebook.com/deborah.tantrakat Stay Connected Pillow Talk

In this episode of The Better Sex Podcast, I talk with Bodyworker, Sexual Pioneer, Sound Healer, Dominatrix, and Visionary Craniosacral Practitioner, Emily Oren. Emily reflects on patterns of being absorbed into relationships and how that led to learning important insights on boundaries, self-intimacy and vulnerability. She deep dives into what boundaries are, exploring your personal boundaries and expressing them in healthy ways. During this conversation, we talk about vulnerability, self-intimacy, physical pleasure and slowing down to explore emotional intimacy. Along the way, we hear a bit about Emily’s journey as a model, artist, singer, and storyteller as we chat about women’s tendency to neglect themselves, especially women who are ambitious in their life. This is a rich conversation covering so many deep topics, and of course, Emily gives us some practices from her Heart Ninja toolbelt to deepen our self-intimacy.

In this episode I talk with Happiness Empowerment and Couples Intimacy Coach, Shay Sun. Shay tells us about their journey with understanding the changing nature of relationships over time. He shares about his exploration into Chinese Philosophy and its wisdom for the constant change of relationship as well the secrets it reveals about feminine pleasure . In this conversation, we talk about strong women, creating desire, Tantra Speed Date, and the communication needed between a couple for great sex and deeper intimacy. We also chat about shutdown and resentment between couples and some tips for healing that divide by coming back to communication.

In this episode I talk with mentor, breathwork teacher, storyteller and creator of the Yoniverse Monologues, Sirena Andrea. Sirena tells us about her work with women telling their stories to release shame around their experiences and desires. She shares her journey as a breathwork practitioner and the transformative power breathwork has for healing and empowerment. In this conversation, we explore the impact the stories we tell about our bodies have on our identities and the effect that has both in and out of the bedroom. We also chat about uncomfortable emotions and how to embrace them better sex and a fuller, more authentic life. Website https://www.yoniversemonologues.com/home (free gift lives here) FB https://www.facebook.com/groups/255664482280643 OR Sirena Andrea Insta @YoniVerse Monologues Got questions about sex and relationship? DeborahTantraKat@gmail.com Better Sex Membership https://www.deborahkat.com/turnedon FB https://www.facebook.com/deborah.tantrakat Stay Connected Pillow Talk

In this episode I talk with autistic polymath, maverick leader, business & life strategist and Tantra lineage holder Tanja Diamond. Tanja opens up about her own experiences as an introvert and offers valuable advice on embracing awkwardness during the dating process. She shares her insights on autism, relationships, and the journey to better sex. Hear more of Tanja’s journey with the unique dating challenges faced by individuals on the autism spectrum. During our conversation, we talk about understanding love and lust, autistic struggles, healing trauma and how to turn awkward conversations into fantastic sex. You don’t have to be neurodivergent to get a lot from this conversation – everyone, regardless of neurodiversity, can encounter difficulties in relationships and learn from Tanja’s wisdom. https://www.facebook.com/tanja.diamond/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/tanjadiamond/ https://learningtantra.com/ Got questions about sex and relationship? DeborahTantraKat@gmail.com Better Sex Membership https://www.deborahkat.com/turnedon FB https://www.facebook.com/deborah.tantrakat Stay Connected Pillow Talk

In this episode I talk with Love, Sex & Relationship Coach Iryna Sulim who specializes in men’s empowerment and sexual mastery. Hear Iryna’s journey into Tantra and sacred sexuality and how that has informed her relationships as she becomes a mother. During this conversation, we talk about the dance of the polarities within everyday life of kids, partners and jobs. Iryna shares with us the importance of deep inner self-knowledge and tells us some easy ways to reconnect to your sexy self to share with a partner. Connect with Iryna E-mail: info@irynasulim.com Website: www.IrynaSulim.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/iryna.sulim Got questions about sex and relationship? DeborahTantraKat@gmail.com Better Sex Membership https://www.deborahkat.com/turnedon FB https://www.facebook.com/deborah.tantrakat Stay Connected Pillow Talk

In this episode I talk with Sex Coach, Will Tantra about the practice of Tantra and its impact on enhancing pleasure and intimacy in relationships. Hear about Will’s personal journey in the field of sex coaching and the benefits of practicing edging and energywork during masturbation. We also talk about how to create a masturbation practice to prepare for partnered sex, the role of breath, sound, and movement in experiencing touch and the role porn plays in sexual fantasy. Along the way, Will shares about the need for comprehensive sex education for women as well as men, optimizing pleasure and meditation as a part of sexual practice. Don't miss this enlightening conversation on sexual empowerment and embracing pleasure. Connect with Will IG: @tantric.fitness Twitter:: @tantricfitness OnlyFans: onlyfans.com/tantricfitness JustforFans: justfor.fans/tantricfitness Got questions about sex and relationship? DeborahTantraKat@gmail.com Support the Podcast Become part of the Better Sex Membership https://www.deborahkat.com/turnedon Coaching with Debroah https://www.deborahkat.com/services-5

On this episode I sit down with professional Dominatrix and Coach, Daytona Day to dive into the world of Dominance & Submission (D/s). Hear how she got started in the world of fetish fashion which eventually led her to D/s and mentoring in that space. In discussing the exploration of D/s within the kink world, we look at the value of understanding both the dominant and submissive energies within yourself as a path to empowerment. Daytona brings us through the ins and outs of exploring dominant/submissive experiences including boundaries, role-play, kink psychology and living 24/7 in this lifestyle. Our conversation highlights the role of education, communication, and self-reflection in the kink journey and offers resources for those interested in exploring their own kinks and fetishes. CONNECT with Daytona Day Instagram withlovebutneveryours Website withlovebutneveryours.com Find More murdertheywore.com Got questions about sex and relationship? DeborahTantraKat@gmail.com Support the Podcast Become part of the Better Sex Membership https://www.deborahkat.com/turnedon Coaching with Debroah https://www.deborahkat.com/services-5

On this episode I sit down with Tantric Scientist Dr. Jessica Harvey to talk about sexuality as a sacred practice. Hear her story of taking her MIT-trained Organic Chemist academic research skills and applying them to the exploration of consciousness and sacred relating. We dive into the path of Tantric wisdom that teaches sexuality as a sacred path for awakening and liberation from suffering. Dr. Harvey shares her perspectives on emotional intelligence, mens’ sexuality and how to empower men to vulnerably reclaim their desires in ways that also respect and honor women. Jessica shares more about her research into desire, communication and self-care for fostering deeper intimacy. Learn More About Jessica: The Thinking Man's Intimacy Summit: https://www.bliss-science.com/summit Coaching men and couples: https://www.bliss-science.com/ Follow Jessica on IG! https://www.instagram.com/bliss.science/ Become part of the Better Sex Membership https://www.deborahkat.com/turnedon Coaching with Deborah https://www.deborahkat.com/services-5

In this episode I sit down with filmmaker Max Carey, whose recent film, “tOuch Kink” explores Human Sexuality and consensual kink practices. We discuss the evolution of kink culture, the importance of breaking free from societal boxes, and how the ethical guidelines used in BDSM can inform all kinds of romantic relationships beyond kink. Our conversation wanders, like Max’s tour of over 137 countries, through some of his personal story from farm-boy to kinky film director and a range of topics including informed consent, negotiation, outdated social norms and paths to deeper communication and trust in relationships. Max shares more about his film and the impact he hopes it’ll make for relationships. This was a fun conversation! Check out Max Official trailer for tOuch Kink: https://f.io/wjPqn4ma touchkink.com Become part of the Better Sex Membership https://www.deborahkat.com/turnedon Coaching with Debroah https://www.deborahkat.com/services-5

In this episode of The Better Sex Podcast, I sit down with accomplished Sex & Relationship Educator, Dr. Hazel-Grace Yates. We took a deep dive into relationship repair - what it is, why to do it and her best tips on how to go about it. Throughout our discussion, Hazel-Grace shared their personal journey to discover and embrace their own sexuality as well as the importance of doing the work to heal in relationships. During this fun and deep conversation, they share how to do relationship repair well (for all types of relationships) and use it as a path to more juice in your sex life. Learn more about upcoming events or how to work with Hazel-Grace here: www.drhazelgrace.com Upcoming and OnGoing Intimacy Through the Art of REPAIR Classes (Virtual and In-Person Denver events) Intimacy Through the Art of Repair - Intro Part 1 - June 28th - Virtual https://ITARintropart1.eventbrite.com Intimacy Through the Art of Repair for Couples - In-Person in Denver - July 2nd https://IntimacythroughrepairJuly2Denver.eventbrite.com Intimacy Through the Art of Repair - Intro Part 2 - July 12th - Virtual https://ITARintropart2.eventbrite.com Become part of the Better Sex Membership https://www.deborahkat.com/turnedon Coaching with Debroah https://www.deborahkat.com/services-5

In this episode I sit down with astrologer, witch, and shamanistic strategist Umoh Luna. In this VERY unfiltered conversation, we explore the dynamics of sexual energy, the drama triangle, bodily autonomy and how all of this ties into sexual responsibility. We dive into all the things – shame, judgment, empowerment, victimhood and power. Juicy, right?! Umoh shares the importance of playful curiosity while exploring your own body. This curiosity is not just for you to learn yourself, but brings an element of even more depth when you bring it to the bedroom with your partner. Resources Umoh Astrology Website https://www.yourdollarsign.com/site/about FB https://www.facebook.com/UmohLuna Deborah Got questions about sex and relationship? DeborahTantraKat@gmail.com Better Sex Membership https://www.deborahkat.com/turnedon FB https://www.facebook.com/deborah.tantrakat