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The Pondering Stepmom Podcast

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A podcast dedicated to the dynamic community of women navigating the realm of stepparenting. This Podcast was inspired by my blog, The Pondering Nook, where I write about my own experiences as a stepmom, mom, partner, and my own self-improvement journey. Each week the podcast airs there will be a topic or question posted in the days prior on The Pondering Nook’s Facebook & Instagram. I’ll discuss the topic on the show and read the responses (many will be anonymous!) Most episodes are under 30 min so you can listen while you’re on the go, on your lunch break, or on your drive to work.

Location:

United States

Description:

A podcast dedicated to the dynamic community of women navigating the realm of stepparenting. This Podcast was inspired by my blog, The Pondering Nook, where I write about my own experiences as a stepmom, mom, partner, and my own self-improvement journey. Each week the podcast airs there will be a topic or question posted in the days prior on The Pondering Nook’s Facebook & Instagram. I’ll discuss the topic on the show and read the responses (many will be anonymous!) Most episodes are under 30 min so you can listen while you’re on the go, on your lunch break, or on your drive to work.

Language:

English

Contact:

7606698637


Episodes
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"Mother's Day Honesty"

5/2/2024
In this episode, stepmoms reveal how Mother's Day does - OR doesn't - affect them on their stepparenting journey. Tune in! If you like this episode, you may also like 'Creating Your Stepmom Space' --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/ponderingstepmompodcast/message

Duration:00:22:21

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"Do You Feel Comfortable in Your Own Home?"

4/18/2024
This week, I discuss stepmoms who might feel like an outsider within their own home and what we can do to remind ourselves to take up our own space in a healthy way! Please tune in! If you liked this episode, you might also want to hear, ⁠⁠"Why Stepmoms Step Back."⁠⁠ If you enjoy this podcast, please leave me a glowing review wherever you listen so others can find me! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/ponderingstepmompodcast/message

Duration:00:13:03

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"I Do...?"

4/11/2024
In this episode of The Pondering Stepmom Podcast, I explore how the act of marriage changes (or doesn't change) the way a stepmom is perceived by others and also how she perceives herself. I got some terrific feedback that I think you'll like!! Tune in! If you like this episode, you may also like, ⁠"Anger Issues"⁠ --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/ponderingstepmompodcast/message

Duration:00:23:28

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"Wow, They Don't Look Like You..."

3/14/2024
Do people comment about whether or not your stepkids look like you? We stepmoms have to field all kinds of comments and opinions about our role and this is one of them. Tune in to hear feedback from other stepmoms on this fascinating topic! If you like this episode, you may also like "Great Expectations" Find more from me at The Pondering Nook on ⁠Substack⁠. You can subscribe to get my articles for free. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/ponderingstepmompodcast/message

Duration:00:17:56

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"Do You Like Your Stepkids?"

3/7/2024
This week, I discuss feedback from stepmoms about how they initially felt about their stepchild or stepchildren when they first met them and how that may have changed over the years. I got some excellent and varying feedback from stepmoms in all kinds of blended family dynamics. Tune in! If you like this episode, try, "When Stepmoms Feel like 'The Bad Guy' For Expressing Themselves" Find more from me at The Pondering Nook on Substack. You can subscribe to get my articles for free. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/ponderingstepmompodcast/message

Duration:00:20:35

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"The Fixer"

2/29/2024
This week, I talk about stepmoms who feel like they are handling most of the problem-solving with their stepkids, fielding the majority of the communication between bio mom or bio dad, and feeling too much like a "fixer" within their blended family situation. I hope you enjoy it! If you like this episode, you may also like, "Anger Issues" Please find The Pondering Nook at ⁠Substack⁠ and thank you for listening! xoxo --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/ponderingstepmompodcast/message

Duration:00:18:36

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"Anger Issues"

2/22/2024
Welcome to season 8 of The Pondering Stepmom Podcast! For the first episode, I discuss feelings of anger and how our stepmom roles can cause us to feel emotionally fried to an unhealthy degree. Join me as I discuss stepmom feedback about their experiences and advice on managing anger. Please find The Pondering Nook at Substack and thank you for listening! xoxo --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/ponderingstepmompodcast/message

Duration:00:17:57

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"The Butterfly Effect: How Stepmoms Found Positivity In Their Role"

12/14/2023
In this 100th episode of The Pondering Stepmom Podcast, I talk about the positive evolution the stepparenting journey has brought other stepmoms. Please tune in for this uplifting episode. If you like this episode, you may also enjoy "⁠⁠The Introverted Stepmom⁠⁠" Enjoying this podcast? Please leave me a glowing review wherever you listen so others can find me! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/ponderingstepmompodcast/message

Duration:00:21:43

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"When Stepmoms Say No"

12/7/2023
This week I discuss scenarios where stepmoms had to put their foot down and just say NO to doing things they used to do after finding themselves tired, resentful, and just DONE. I got some great feedback from stepmoms so tune in! If you like this episode, you may also enjoy "⁠The Introverted Stepmom⁠" Enjoying this podcast? Please leave me a glowing review wherever you listen so others can find me! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/ponderingstepmompodcast/message

Duration:00:20:51

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"Hey, Jealousy..."

11/30/2023
In this episode, I explore feedback from stepmoms about experiences they have had with their stepchild or stepchildren being jealous of their presence. I ask stepmoms what advice they can offer other stepmoms who are going through this complicated situation. If you like this episode, you may also enjoy "Nice To Meet You...?" OR "The Ex-Factor" You can hear me being interviewed by Andrew G Marshall - Therapy at The Meaningful Life Podcast about being a stepmom. Tune in! https://open.spotify.com/episode/7BjFt5Rz386yzjwPAvQkah... Enjoying this podcast? Please leave me a glowing review wherever you listen so others can find me! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/ponderingstepmompodcast/message

Duration:00:18:18

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"Our Favorite Stepmom Resources"

11/15/2023
Hey there, This week, I get some feedback from stepmoms as to what their favorite stepmom resources are & I give a big shout-out to a handful of my favorites. Tune in to hear what books, podcasts, or pages are helping to guide stepmoms, including myself. If you like this episode, you may also enjoy ⁠"All The Things Stepmoms Wish You Knew"⁠ Enjoying this podcast? Please leave me a glowing review wherever you listen so others can find me! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/ponderingstepmompodcast/message

Duration:00:17:19

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"When Stepmoms Feel Like The 'Bad Guy' For Expressing Themselves"

11/1/2023
Hey, stepmoms... How do you feel about expressing anger or emotions within your blended family home? Are you comfortable doing so or do you feel like you can't say anything at all? This week, I hear from stepmoms on how they are coping with this issue inside their homes... If you like this episode, you may also want to hear, "⁠⁠All The Things Stepmoms Wish You Knew⁠⁠" Enjoying this podcast? Please leave me a glowing review wherever you listen so others can find me! Find my articles about being a stepmom at ⁠⁠The Pondering Nook⁠⁠ & at ⁠⁠I⁠⁠⁠⁠, Stepmother ⁠⁠at Medium. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/ponderingstepmompodcast/message

Duration:00:23:58

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"Managing Chaos: When You Have No Control Within Your Blended Family"

10/18/2023
In this episode, I hear from stepmoms about decisions that are made without their input and/or control. This episode was very personal to me and I hope other stepmoms out there will be able to relate and gain comfort knowing they are not alone in this issue. Thank you for listening! If you liked this episode, you might also want to hear, ⁠"Why Stepmoms Step Back."⁠ If you're enjoying this podcast, please leave me a glowing review wherever you listen so others can find me! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/ponderingstepmompodcast/message

Duration:00:19:41

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"Creating Your Stepmom Space"

10/4/2023
In this episode of The Pondering Stepmom Podcast, I explore how much stepparenting has impacted the personal space and privacy of stepmoms. Got some fantastic responses that offered up unique perspectives while being absolutely relatable. Thank you for tuning in! If you like this episode, you may also enjoy "The Introverted Stepmom" Enjoying this podcast? Please leave me a glowing review wherever you listen so others can find me! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/ponderingstepmompodcast/message

Duration:00:20:04

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"The Package Deal"

9/20/2023
In this episode of The Pondering Stepmom Podcast, I explore feedback from stepmoms about how they initially felt about dating a person who already had a child or children and how their expectations about becoming a stepmom matched up with reality. If you like this episode, you may also want to hear, "⁠Parenting Biological Kids vs. Stepkids⁠" Enjoying this podcast? Please leave me a glowing review wherever you listen so others can find me! Find my articles about being a stepmom at ⁠⁠The Pondering Nook⁠⁠ & at ⁠⁠I⁠⁠⁠⁠, Stepmother ⁠⁠at Medium. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/ponderingstepmompodcast/message

Duration:00:27:39

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"What Would You Say If You Could?"

9/13/2023
This week, the floodgates open as stepmoms tell me what they would say to their stepchildren's biological mother if they could speak freely. This episode is already one of my favorites. The feedback was poignant, cathartic, and honest. Thank you for listening! If you liked this episode, you might also want to hear, "Why Stepmoms Step Back." If you're enjoying this podcast, please leave me a glowing review wherever you listen so others can find me! Find my articles about being a stepmom at ⁠The Pondering Nook⁠ & at ⁠I⁠⁠, Stepmother ⁠at Medium. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/ponderingstepmompodcast/message

Duration:00:25:13

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"Stepparenting Toddlers"

9/5/2023
Is stepparenting a toddler easier than stepparenting older kids? Does it help seal the bond more when you begin stepparenting kids at a younger age? Are there advantages and/or disadvantages to being a stepmom to toddlers? I asked, and stepmoms answered! Tune in! If you enjoyed this episode, you may also like "Seasoned Stepmom Advice For Stepparenting Teens" OR "Are We There Yet? The Journey of Step-Parenting Teens" Thank you for listening! If you're enjoying this podcast, please leave me a glowing review wherever you listen so others can find me! Find my articles about being a stepmom at The Pondering Nook & at I, Stepmother at Medium. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/ponderingstepmompodcast/message

Duration:00:17:03

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"Great Expectations"

8/28/2023
Are your partner's expectations of your stepmom role realistic or do you think they expect too much from you? Tune in to this first episode of season 7 as I discuss the dynamics of partner expectations and how they affect the mental and emotional journey of a stepmom. Thank you for listening! xoxo If you like this episode, you may also want to hear, "⁠All The Things Stepmoms Wish You Knew⁠" Enjoying this podcast? Please leave me a glowing review wherever you listen so others can find me! Find my articles about being a stepmom at ⁠The Pondering Nook⁠ & at ⁠I⁠⁠, Stepmother ⁠at Medium. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/ponderingstepmompodcast/message

Duration:00:15:18

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"The Introverted Stepmom"

6/28/2023
How do you handle stepmom life as an introvert? I wanted to know if I'm the only stepmom who struggles with this issue. Whether it's setting boundaries or talking to new people, being an introvert can be challenging, especially within a blended family dynamic. Join me for this bonus summer episode! If you like this episode, you may also enjoy "All The Things Stepmoms Wish You Knew" Enjoying this podcast? Please leave me a glowing review wherever you listen so others can find me! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/ponderingstepmompodcast/message

Duration:00:14:33

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"Thank You, Stepparents"

6/1/2023
In this bonus episode, I drop in to congratulate and thank the stepparents who are in the trenches during this end-of-school-year season. Award ceremonies and graduation events can bring up awkward and tense emotions for stepparents this time of year. Tune in for a much-needed dose of appreciation! I miss you guys! If you like this episode, you may also want to hear, "⁠Parenting Biological Kids VS Stepkids⁠" Enjoying this podcast? Please leave me a glowing review wherever you listen so others can find me! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/ponderingstepmompodcast/message

Duration:00:05:50