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Ahmir & Basirah are Co-Hosts, Lovers, Creatives, and all-around "Freaky" people who love just about everything having to do with sex, love, connection & kink. They created Both Sides of The Bed as a safe space to talk about and learn about sex and relationships, because there are a lot of people who have sexual experiences that are lacking what they truly desire, and they want to be a part of the catalyst that shifts that narrative. The show's premise is to get both the masculine and feminine perspectives of what happens in and out of the bedroom. This Podcast is a place to learn how to amplify levels of intimacy and equip people with the proper language and tools to explore their sexuality with their partners and also become more open-minded with how they give and receive pleasure.Please LIKE, SUBSCRIBE, SHARE & RATE to follow the discussion and know more about the creators by following on IG @ahmir_rashad & @basirah__ and stay updated @bothsidesofthebed.NEW EPISODES WEEKLYhttps://linktr.ee/bothsidesofthebed

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Ahmir & Basirah are Co-Hosts, Lovers, Creatives, and all-around "Freaky" people who love just about everything having to do with sex, love, connection & kink. They created Both Sides of The Bed as a safe space to talk about and learn about sex and relationships, because there are a lot of people who have sexual experiences that are lacking what they truly desire, and they want to be a part of the catalyst that shifts that narrative. The show's premise is to get both the masculine and feminine perspectives of what happens in and out of the bedroom. This Podcast is a place to learn how to amplify levels of intimacy and equip people with the proper language and tools to explore their sexuality with their partners and also become more open-minded with how they give and receive pleasure.Please LIKE, SUBSCRIBE, SHARE & RATE to follow the discussion and know more about the creators by following on IG @ahmir_rashad & @basirah__ and stay updated @bothsidesofthebed.NEW EPISODES WEEKLYhttps://linktr.ee/bothsidesofthebed

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English


Episodes
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Are You The Romantic Type

1/17/2024
In this episode, Ahmir and Basirah discuss Romance. What it means to be romantic in a relationship, how to bring more romance into a relationship and they share how they would prefer to experience romance with each other. PLEASE LIKE, FOLLOW, SHARE AND COMMENT! Connect with us on Instagram https://instagram.com/bothsidesofthebed https://linktr.ee/bothsidesofthebed For Sex & Relationship Coaching with Basirah connect with her on her website https://www.b-intimate.com For the full video on YouTube, check out our channel @bothsidesofthebed https://youtube.com/channel/UCOuDUZpjUhqXsC2AABwNuEw

Duration:01:13:55

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Sex And Society

1/10/2024
In this episode, Ahmir and Basirah discuss how societal views impact how we all view sex. They touch on how we all should dictate our own sex lives on our own terms and not let society or any other outside influences determine what sex looks like for us, and how in doing so we can find true sexual liberation. PLEASE LIKE, FOLLOW, SHARE AND COMMENT! For Sex & Relationship Coaching with Basirah connect with her on her website https://www.b-intimate.com For the full video on YouTube, check out our channel @bothsidesofthebed https://youtube.com/channel/UCOuDUZpjUhqXsC2AABwNuEw Join our Patreon for exclusive content https://www.patreon.com/BSOTB Connect with us on Instagram https://instagram.com/bothsidesofthebed https://linktr.ee/bothsidesofthebed

Duration:01:01:29

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Relationship Resolutions 2024

12/28/2023
In this episode, Ahmir and Basirah discuss their Relationship Resolutions and how they plan to show up in their lives and relationship during 2024. They discuss being more intentional with their quality time, scheduling relationship check in’s and their desires to level up their sex life and explore new things like tantra. Listen as they share their resolutions and remember to check in and establish new goals with yourself and/or your partner. PLEASE LIKE, FOLLOW, SHARE AND COMMENT! For Sex & Relationship Coaching with Basirah connect with her on her website https://www.b-intimate.com For the full video on YouTube, check out our channel @bothsidesofthebed https://youtube.com/channel/UCOuDUZpjUhqXsC2AABwNuEw Connect with us on Instagram https://instagram.com/bothsidesofthebed?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y= https://linktr.ee/bothsidesofthebed

Duration:01:15:35

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What Are Your Intentions?

12/20/2023
In this episode, Ahmir and Basirah discuss Intentionality and what it means to show up intentionally in your life, relationship, and bedroom. Listen as they define intention and share what showing up intentionally means to them, men’s misleading intentions, women’s deeper intentions around relationships, the importance of honesty, and gain some tips on how we can all show up more intentionally to strengthen our relationships. For the full video on YouTube, check out our channel @bothsidesofthebed https://youtube.com/channel/UCOuDUZpjUhqXsC2AABwNuEw Connect with us on Instagram https://instagram.com/bothsidesofthebed?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y= https://linktr.ee/bothsidesofthebed PLEASE LIKE, FOLLOW, SHARE AND COMMENT! For Sex & Relationship Coaching with Basirah connect with her on her website https://www.b-intimate.com

Duration:01:06:46

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Open Relationship Goals

12/13/2023
In this episode, Ahmir and Basirah discuss their open relationship goals and how it hasn’t been as open as they both would like, they touch on their collective type, feeling rusty in the game, desires and concerns about approaching women and Ahmir shares how he feels Basirah is the perfect wingman! Tune in to hear their game plan to get what they desire and how they plan to go about getting. PLEASE LIKE, FOLLOW, SHARE AND COMMENT! https://linktr.ee/bothsidesofthebed Connect with us on Instagram https://instagram.com/bothsidesofthebed?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y= For Sex & Relationship Coaching with Basirah connect with her on her website https://www.b-intimate.com For the full video on YouTube, check out our channel @bothsidesofthebed https://youtube.com/channel/UCOuDUZpjUhqXsC2AABwNuEw

Duration:01:19:25

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A Little Therapy Never Hurt Nobody

12/6/2023
In this episode, Ahmir and Basirah discuss their journey with couples therapy and relationship coaching, they delve into why they started, how it has helped their relationship with themselves and each other, and also its impact on how they coach their clients. PLEASE LIKE, FOLLOW, SHARE AND COMMENT! For Sex and relationship Coaching with Basirah connect with her on her website https://www.b-intimate.com Connect with us on Instagram https://instagram.com/bothsidesofthebed?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y= https://linktr.ee/bothsidesofthebed For the full video on YouTube, check out our channel @bothsidesofthebed https://youtube.com/channel/UCOuDUZpjUhqXsC2AABwNuEw

Duration:01:02:56

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Moving In Together And Our Spiritual Journey

11/29/2023
In this episode, Ahmir and Basirah share their experiences as the take the next big step in their relationship and move in with one another and also share their transformative spiritual journey and how it has impacted their lives and relationship. Connect with us on Instagram https://instagram.com/bothsidesofthebed?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y= https://linktr.ee/bothsidesofthebed For Sex & Relationship Coaching with Basirah connect with her on her website https://www.b-intimate.com For the full video on YouTube, check out our channel @bothsidesofthebed https://youtube.com/channel/UCOuDUZpjUhqXsC2AABwNuEw GO FUND ME FOR PAGE AHMIR'S MOTHERS HOUSE FIRE https://www.gofundme.com/f/help-marie-after-a-devastating-fire?utm_campaign=p_cp+share-sheet&utm_medium=copy_link_all&utm_source=customer

Duration:01:37:44

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Are You A Dom, Sub or Switch: (Part 2) The Dominant & Switch

8/31/2023
Are you a dom, sub or switch in your relationship? Ahmir and Basirah believe that in every relationship, each person in it is either embodying a dominant energy, a submissive energy or switches between the two energies depending on how they feel. By knowing which personality aligns most with you, you can begin to better navigate your relationships by playing the role that comes most naturally to you. Join Ahmir and Basirah in part two of this this two-part series that explores the world of dominance and submission. In this part , they share insights into the characteristics and styles of dominance and the things to consider when developing your style. PLEASE LIKE, FOLLOW, SHARE AND COMMENT! For Sex & Relationship Coaching with Basirah connect with her on her website https://www.b-intimate.com Connect with us on Instagram https://instagram.com/bothsidesoftheb... l https://linktr.ee/bothsidesofthebed Share your stories, ask advice, or connect with us at share@bothsidesofthebed.tv

Duration:01:02:45

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Are You A Dom, Sub or Switch: (Part 1) The Submissive

8/19/2023
Are you a dom, sub or switch in your relationship? Ahmir and Basirah believe that in every relationship, each person in it is either embodying a dominant energy, a submissive energy or switches between the two energies depending on how they feel. By knowing which personality aligns most with you, you can begin to better navigate your relationships by playing the role that comes most naturally to you. Join Ahmir and Basirah in this two-part series that explores the world of dominance and submission. In this part 1, they share insights into the emotional aspects of being a submissive, emphasizing the importance of self-awareness, trust, and open dialogue. They also shed light on the intricate nature of submission, offering listeners a chance to uncover the transformative power of understanding and embracing different relationship dynamics and how they naturally impact a relationship intentionally and unintentionally.

Duration:01:05:16

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Toys R' Us - Lets Explore Some Sex Toys!

8/2/2023
In this episode, Ahmir and Basirah delve into the world of sex toys and share their tips on incorporating them into the bedroom. From sensual exploration to impact play, they've got you covered. Join them as they take you on an exciting tour of their favorite sexy toys that are sure to enhance your pleasure and playfulness. PLEASE LIKE, FOLLOW, SHARE AND COMMENT! For the full video on YouTube, check out our channel @bothsidesofthebed https://youtube.com/channel/UCOuDUZpjUhqXsC2AABwNuEw Connect with us on Instagram https://instagram.com/bothsidesofthebed?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y= For Sex & Relationship Coaching with Basirah connect with her on her website https://www.b-intimate.com Maude Lube and Massage Candles Promo Code: Maude is BSOTB10 Join our Patreon for exclusive content https://www.patreon.com/BSOTB https://linktr.ee/bothsidesofthebed

Duration:01:32:02

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Are You Speaking My Language? - Exploring The 5 Love Languages

7/22/2023
Want to experience a deeper connection with your partner in and out of the bedroom? Or do you simply want some tips to help you and your partner get exactly what you desire sexually from each other? Join Ahmir and Basirah as they discuss the five love languages with a seductive twist, Continuing their mini-series about re-building connection, they'll show you how to use these love languages to take intimacy to new heights from Words of Affirmation to Physical Touch. Get ready for some exciting tips to amp up pleasure and passion using the power of the 5 love languages. Unlock new levels of connection, desire, and communication with the love languages we all know and love. PLEASE LIKE, FOLLOW, SHARE AND COMMENT! For Sex & Relationship Coaching with Basirah connect with her on her website https://www.b-intimate.com For the full video on YouTube, check out our channel @bothsidesofthebed https://youtube.com/channel/UCOuDUZpjUhqXsC2AABwNuEw Connect with us on Instagram https://instagram.com/bothsidesofthebed?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y= l https://linktr.ee/bothsidesofthebed Share your stories, ask advice, or connect with us at share@bothsidesofthebed.tv

Duration:00:58:33

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Connection At Its Core - Building Real Human Connections

7/9/2023
Tune in to this weeks episode as Ahmir and Basirah share personal anecdotes, actionable advice on how to foster authentic connections and dive into Love Mapping by John Gottman. Whether you're seeking to enhance your existing relationships or forge new connections, this episode is sure to leave you inspired and equipped with valuable tools to navigate the real of human connection at its core. PLEASE LIKE, FOLLOW, SHARE AND COMMENT! Share your stories, ask advice, or connect with us at share@bothsidesofthebed.tv For Sex & Relationship Coaching with Basirah connect with her on her website https://www.b-intimate.com (https://www.b-intimate.com) Connect with us on Instagram https://instagram.com/bothsidesofthebed?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y= For the full video on YouTube, check out our channel @bothsidesofthebed https://youtube.com/channel/UCOuDUZpjUhqXsC2AABwNuEw Join our Patreon for exclusive content https://www.patreon.com/BSOTB (https://www.patreon.com/BSOTB) Connect with us on discord https://discord.gg/JhCQCqm4 (https://discord.gg/JhCQCqm4) Shoutout to Elle X Erotica https://www.youtube.com/@ElleX https://linktr.ee/bothsidesofthebed

Duration:01:32:55

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You Are My Twin Flame (Part 2)

6/2/2023
In this deeply honest and insightful episode, Ahmir and Basirah continue their conversation from part one, delving even further into the challenges they've faced in their relationship and the ways in which they've grown and healed together. With vulnerability and authenticity, they share their journey of overcoming turmoil and finding a deeper connection, ultimately emerging stronger and more resilient. And in addition to exploring the depths of their personal experiences, they also share exciting news about the new directions that BSOTB will be taking. Tune in for a powerful and inspiring conversation about love, growth, and the beauty of overcoming adversity. PLEASE LIKE, FOLLOW, SHARE AND COMMENT! Connect with us on Instagram https://instagram.com/bothsidesofthebed?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y= For the full video on YouTube, check out our channel @bothsidesofthebed https://youtube.com/channel/UCOuDUZpjUhqXsC2AABwNuEw Share your stories, ask advice, or connect with us at share@bothsidesofthebed.tv For Sex & Relationship Coaching with Basirah connect with her on her website https://www.b-intimate.com (https://www.b-intimate.com) Linktree https://linktr.ee/bothsidesofthebed SHOUT OUT TO JAY KAIZEN FOR THE INFO ON TWIN FLAMES Go Check out more of his content on IG and TikTok @jay.kaizen https://instagram.com/jay.kaizen?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

Duration:00:46:16

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BSOTB Season 2: You Are My Twin Flame (Part 1)

5/27/2023
WELCOME TO SEASON 2!!! Come join Ahmir and Basirah in this amazing two-part first episode as they share their beautiful but intense twin flame journey. Get ready to feel all the feels as they get real about the ups and downs they've been facing and how their love for each other helped them through it all to get where they are today. Tune in next week for Part 2 of this episode. PLEASE LIKE, FOLLOW, SHARE AND COMMENT! Connect with us on Instagram https://instagram.com/bothsidesofthebed?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y= For the full video on YouTube, check out our channel @bothsidesofthebed https://youtube.com/channel/UCOuDUZpjUhqXsC2AABwNuEw Share your stories, ask advice, or connect with us at share@bothsidesofthebed.tv For Sex & Relationship Coaching with Basirah connect with her on her website https://www.b-intimate.com (https://www.b-intimate.com) Linktree https://linktr.ee/bothsidesofthebed SHOUT OUT TO JAY KAIZEN FOR THE INFO ON TWIN FLAMES Go Check out more of his content on IG and TikTok @jay.kaizen https://instagram.com/jay.kaizen?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

Duration:01:18:04

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A Conversation About Masturbation

1/21/2023
In this episode, Ahmir and Basirah discuss Masturbation, why they do it, what they fantasize about, the value of self pleasure and the positive and negative effects it can have on our sex life. Stay tuned to hear about the ways you can switch up you self pleasure “routine” PLEASE LIKE, FOLLOW, SHARE AND COMMENT! For Sex & Relationship Coaching with Basirah connect with her on her website https://www.b-intimate.com (https://www.b-intimate.com) For the full video on YouTube, check out our channel @bothsidesofthebed https://youtube.com/channel/UCOuDUZpjUhqXsC2AABwNuEw (https://youtube.com/channel/UCOuDUZpjUhqXsC2AABwNuEw) Join our Patreon for exclusive content https://www.patreon.com/BSOTB (https://www.patreon.com/BSOTB) Connect with us on Instagram https://instagram.com/bothsidesofthebed?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y= (https://instagram.com/bothsidesofthebed?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=) https://linktr.ee/bothsidesofthebed (https://linktr.ee/bothsidesofthebed)

Duration:01:05:40

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Open Relationships - The good, the bad and the sexy

1/13/2023
In this episode, after receiving many questions on the subject, Ahmir and Basirah finally take a deep dive into open relationship and talk about the different types of open relationships, what their open relationship looks like, and break down the good, the bad and all the sexy things that comes with being in one. Stay tuned to hear about the important questions you should ask yourself if you are considering being in one too. PLEASE LIKE, FOLLOW, SHARE AND COMMENT! For Sex & Relationship Coaching with Basirah connect with her on her website https://www.b-intimate.com (https://www.b-intimate.com) For the full video on YouTube, check out our channel @bothsidesofthebed https://youtube.com/channel/UCOuDUZpjUhqXsC2AABwNuEw (https://youtube.com/channel/UCOuDUZpjUhqXsC2AABwNuEw) Join our Patreon for exclusive content https://www.patreon.com/BSOTB (https://www.patreon.com/BSOTB) Connect with us on Instagram https://instagram.com/bothsidesofthebed?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y= (https://instagram.com/bothsidesofthebed?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=) https://linktr.ee/bothsidesofthebed (https://linktr.ee/bothsidesofthebed)

Duration:02:11:12

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New Year, New US... The Story of Ahmir & Basirah

1/6/2023
BSOTB IS BACK! In this weeks episode Ahmir and Basirah bring in the New Year catching us up on where they have been these last few months and some major challenges they faced during that time. Come along for the ride as they take you back to the loving beginnings of their relationship and the beginning of Both Sides of The Bed. Stick around until the end for clips of bonus Patreon content of a conversation they had as they dive in deeper and unpack their feeling surrounding their relationship. PLEASE LIKE, FOLLOW, SHARE AND COMMENT! For the full video on YouTube, check out our Channel @bothsidesofthebed https://youtube.com/channel/UCOuDUZpjUhqXsC2AABwNuEw Connect with us on Instagram https://instagram.com/bothsidesofthebed?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y= https://linktr.ee/bothsidesofthebed (https://linktr.ee/bothsidesofthebed)

Duration:00:58:18

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The Art of Seduction - Whats Your Seductive Archetype?

9/9/2022
Seduction is an energy, a dance, an intent and an art. In this weeks episode Ahmir and Basirah dive into the 9 different seduction styles, share their personal seductive techniques and discuss how having a seductive game can amplify your chances of getting what you desire…and your prey. PLEASE LIKE, FOLLOW, SHARE AND COMMENT! For the full video on YouTube, check out our Channel @bothsidesofthebed https://youtube.com/channel/UCOuDUZpjUhqXsC2AABwNuEw Connect with us on Instagram https://instagram.com/bothsidesofthebed?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y= https://www.bothsidesofthebed.tv

Duration:01:49:08

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The Sex Blueprint- How To Level Up Your Sexual Relationships

8/10/2022
Have you wanted to spice things up in the bed room but struggled with how to bring up the topic to your partner? In this weeks episode Ahmir and Basirah discuss “The Sex Blueprint”, a guide to help you get a better understanding of what you want and get a better understanding of your partners needs by, Getting clear about your wants, Identifying you desires and Being vulnerable. The Sex Blueprint: https://drive.google.com/file/d/1xZsEaAstvqKsU8J-ZeIZcBZ6_mMqHZmJ/view PLEASE LIKE, FOLLOW, SHARE AND COMMENT! For the full video on YouTube, check out our Channel @bothsidesofthebed https://youtube.com/channel/UCOuDUZpjUhqXsC2AABwNuEw Connect with us on Instagram https://instagram.com/bothsidesofthebed?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y= https://linktr.ee/bothsidesofthebed

Duration:01:50:45

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How To Have Great Sex: The Perfect Sex Cocktail Feat. Cocktales Dirty Discussions

8/3/2022
What are the right ingredients for great sex? In this episode, Ahmir and Basirah chat with Kiki and Medinah, the lovely ladies of the Cocktails: Dirty Discussions podcast. They discuss how to have great sex, being the beloved unicorn, and uncommon porn interests! Kiki and Medinah are honest, hilarious, and know exactly what great sex means. Connect with our guests: Cocktails Podcast https://linktr.ee/cocktalespodcast https://instagram.com/cocktalespodcast?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y= @Kikisaidso https://instagram.com/kikisaidso?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y= @coffeebeandean https://instagram.com/coffeebeandean?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=j

Duration:01:00:11