The Believe in Your Dog Podcast

If you’ve spent a lot of time in the separation anxiety training space, you’ve probably heard the term “suspending absences.” And if you’re particularly astute, you’ve figured out what that means: You essentially stop leaving your dog home alone. In this episode of the Believe in Your Dog Podcast, I’m taking a deep dive with my colleague Jane Wolff of Good Wolff on the subject. And like most things related to separation anxiety, it’s nuanced. It requires you to get curious about your individual dog and their needs. It requires you to be flexible. It requires you to observe and collect data. It requires you to reach out to your community for support. And it’s more than just bringing your dog to daycare. You’ll learn: Resources mentioned in this episode: The Secret Sauce to Separation Anxiety Success: Suspending Absences Schedule a Complimentary Call with Jane Wolff, CTC, CSAT Is Doggy Daycare Right for Your Dog? By Wag the Dog and Company Choosing a Doggy Daycare by Wag the Dog and Company Crowdsourcing Alone Time Alternatives Suspending Absences: Not just doable. It’s being done!

To be prepared is half the victory. - The purpose of this podcast is to empower you to take the reins on your own separation anxiety training journey. Resolving separation anxiety is a lofty goal–one that is complex and messy even under the guidance of a Certified Separation Anxiety Trainer. With that in mind, I want to be sure you are prepared as you DIY this endeavor. When obstacles inevitably confront you along your journey, I want you to remember that they are 1) normal and 2) surmountable. When you feel derailed, I want you to think “I remember Jackie saying this would happen,” instead of “I am a failure and this will never work.” A little preparation and familiarization with the footings on which the whole process rests will give you that sense of groundedness. So in this episode, I am laying out the 10 pillars that serve as your foundation for separation anxiety training. Any time you feel stuck (and you will feel stuck), I want you to circle back to this episode and assess how solid your foundation truly is. The 10 pillars I’ll address are: Resources mentioned in this episode: Study of One: A DisclaimerThe Secret Sauce to Separation Anxiety Success: Suspending AbsencesCanine Enrichment for the Real World by Allie Bender & Emily Strong Enrichment for the Real World PodcastDoggie Language by Lili ChinBravo Dog's Body Language Online CourseFallout from the Use of AversivesMedication Education ResourcesHow Long Does It Take to Resolve Separation Anxiety?

What does enrichment have to do with separation anxiety training? If you follow me on Instagram, you’ve probably heard me say that work-to-eat toys aren’t a cure-all for separation anxiety. And I stand by that. So why have I devoted a podcast to the topic of enrichment? Here’s the thing: Enrichment is about more than work-to-eat toys, and separation anxiety training is about more than suspending absences and going at your dog’s pace. Enrichment is about meeting your dog’s species-specific needs, and separation anxiety training needs to be a holistic approach that includes just that. In this podcast episode, special guest Allie Bender of Pet Harmony Animal Behavior and Training and I take a look at how this topic of meeting your dog’s needs can be incorporated into a behavior modification plan, and why it is crucial. In this episode of the Believe in Your Dog Podcast, you will learn: Resources mentioned in this episode: Pet Harmony Training Website Pet Harmony Training on Instagram Pet Harmony Training on Facebook Pet Harmony Training Podcast Pet Harmony Training Enrichment Chart Canine Enrichment for the Real World by Allie Bender and Emily Strong Enriching Animal’s Lives by Hal Markowitz Think Smart Dog Training’s Snuffle Mats Why Dogs Need More Control Over Their Lives - article on Psychology Today DogMinded Enrichment Resources

“It depends.” That’s often the last thing that frustrated dog guardians want to hear in their search for answers. And as much as we want to give them the black-and-white responses they’re after, Certified Separation Anxiety Trainers (CSATS) often can’t. Because it really does depend when it comes to separation anxiety training. In this podcast episode, special guest Ally Verba of Training with Allyand I discuss why this is often case: Because every dog is a study of one. Cookie cutter approaches don’t account for the individual dog’s environment, learning history, experiences, health and so much more. And as Ally and I note, all those things have a huge impact on the dog’s trajectory. In this episode of the Believe in Your Dog Podcast, you will learn: Resources mentioned in this episode: Ally’s InstagramAlly’s WebsiteAlly’s PodcastAlly’s Home Alone Training Academy ProgramAlly’s Home Alone: Four Phases to Comfort DIY CourseTraining with Ally scholarshipAdherence to the Study of One: A DisclaimerPodcast With Jackie and Ally on Data TrackingDr. Susan Friedman’s WebsiteDr. Susan Friedman’s Living & Learning With Animals Online CourseDoggie LanguageBravo Dog Training’s Body Language Course

Don’t we need to see the behavior to know how to change it? Before I decided to specialize exclusively in separation anxiety, I fielded this question a lot. Many of my clients with aggressive dogs in particular strongly believed that I needed to see Fido snapping at visitors to successfully change the behavior. The case can certainly be made (as I did many times) that it isn’t necessary (or ethical) to put dogs and people in danger and risk a bite solely for the purpose of observation. Especially when we can safely and accurately surmise why Fido would do such a thing and what the best course of action would be without pushing a dog past their threshold. But what about for separation anxiety dogs? As my special guest and mentor Malena DeMartini and I discuss in this episode, we strongly believe in the importance of an initial absence assessment before embarking on a home alone protocol. We take a deep dive in all things initial assessments: what they are, why they are important, and how to conduct them. In this episode of the Believe in Your Dog Podcast, you will learn: Resources mentioned in this episode: websiteInstagramFacebookinitial assessmentMission Possiblebookhttps://www.wyze.com/How to watch and record your assessment using Zoomhttps://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S1558787820300460https://www.companionanimalpsychology.com/2016/12/how-to-choose-dog-trainer.html

I’ve never been a big fan of labels. I have blogged about why they can be problematic. But I also recognize that they can be innocuous, and in some cases, helpful. When it comes to separation anxiety training, getting clear on the terminology is important. It’s important because a clear understanding of what specific triggers are at play is imperative in planning and executing a successful training protocol. And labels like separation anxiety, isolation distress and fear of missing out (FOMO) allow us to group common triggers into categories that make training for efficient. In this episode of the Believe in Your Dog Podcast, you will learn: I also touch on the subject of the next episode: How to run an assessment with my mentor, Malena DeMartini. Resources mentioned in this episode: https://www.believeinyour.dog/blog/defining-separation-anxiety https://www.dacvb.org/page/AnimalOwners

Sometimes it just doesn’t feel possible. As soon as you think you’re on the right track with training, your dog destroys the door frame or your neighbors report that the howling persisted for the entire 6 hours you were away. And you once again feel deflated. I am here to tell you that separation anxiety is treatable. And while the process isn’t easy, it is doable. With my guidance and a hefty dose of trust in the process, my clients are regaining their freedom and ending their dogs’ distress, one mission at a time. In this first episode of the Believe in Your Dog Podcast, I introduce myself and share what you can expect from the podcast. You’ll learn about how I got started in dogs and all the mistakes I made that led me to where I am today. You’ll learn why I’m so obsessed with helping separation anxiety dogs and their people. And you’ll even hear me touch on how the approach I use to resolve my client dogs’ home alone distress has informed my own mental health journey. I also get really clear on what I hope to achieve with this podcast: Resources mentioned in this episode: https://www.believeinyour.dog/resources https://malenademartini.com/for-trainers/separation-anxiety-training-certificate-program/ https://www.academyfordogtrainers.com/ https://boulderhumane.org/training-and-behavior/ https://www.companionanimalpsychology.com/2018/07/what-is-desensitization-and-counter.html https://www.samhsa.gov/ https://www.believeinyour.dog/blog/adherence-to-the-study-of-one-a-disclaimer https://www.companionanimalpsychology.com/2017/02/what-is-positive-reinforcement-in-dog.html Download a transcript of this episode here.