Almost Adulting with Violet Benson

Hey Besties! Today, we're diving into the full length of the second half of Violetta’s eye-opening interview with Mark Groves. Get ready for more insights and surprises! Are you more invested in your partner's life than your own Netflix queue? Do you find yourself constantly adjusting your mood thermostat based on someone else’s emotional weather? Buckle up as Violetta and Mark dissect what it means to be codependent, from obsessing over how others perceive us online to partnering up with someone who wouldn't cheer if you won the lottery. They will uncover the roots of codependency, explore the masquerade ball of personality masks—from the Perfectionist to the Damsel in Distress—and discuss why your life’s quality is basically the guest list of your personal relationship party. Tune in, and get entangled in the hilarious truths behind our relational binds! If you are looking to listen to today's episode without any ads or interruptions, feel free to subscribe to my subscription podcast at https://almostadulting.supercast.com/. What’s more? You'll get TWO extra episodes every week on Wednesday and Saturday! Today’s Sponsors: LulusCBDistillerywww.cbdistillery.com What to Listen For: Connect with Mark on: https://www.instagram.com/createthelove/https://twitter.com/createthelovehttps://www.youtube.com/user/markgrovestvhttps://createthelove.com/Liberated Love: Release Codependent Patterns and Create the Love You Desire Get more content on: https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissues See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey Besties! Today, Violetta welcomes Adrienne Everheart, a certified dating and relationship coach & feminine energy therapist who specializes in connecting women to their authentic self and creating the loving relationship they desire. In this sizzling session, Adrienne reveals the mystique of feminine allure and provides insightful strategies designed to empower women, whether they are healing from past heartaches or aiming to rekindle an old flame. Her advice is not just about attracting a partner—it's about igniting a deeper passion within yourself and radiating confidence. Whether you're mending a broken heart or setting the stage to lure back an ex with newfound allure, Adrienne equips you with the tools to confidently navigate the complexities of love and relationships. Join Violet and Adrienne for a transformative experience that will leave you inspired, informed, and invigorated to pursue your romantic endeavors with zest and wisdom. If you are looking to listen to today's episode without any ads or interruptions, feel free to subscribe to my subscription podcast at https://almostadulting.supercast.com/. What’s more? You'll get TWO extra episodes every week on Wednesday and Saturday! Today’s Sponsors: NOCDhttps://www.treatmyocd.com/ Episode Highlights: 00:00 Intro 01:49 How do I get my ex back? 02:27 Biggest misconception about dating today 05:44 Let the other person miss you 07:10 The 4 irresistible qualities men crave 15:05 What is love-starved? 19:06 Words that men love to hear 25:26 When should you say ‘Thank you’ 29:23 The ‘easy to be around energy’ 33:22 What does it mean to tap into your feminine energy 36:07 Women get preferences confused by boundaries 39:56 How do you express your expectation on the first date 44:00 The difference between soft and dark feminine energy 46:17 What does it mean to be in your dark feminine energy? 48:32 Is your soft feminine energy intimidating men? 49:42 Tap into your masculine energy 51:08 Then there is a third energy - neutral 55:05 How to drive men using your goddess feminine energy? 58:35 Healing from a breakup 01:02:12 You’re attracted to what you already have 01:05:45 How do you make him miss you after a breakup? 01:08:25 How do you get him back? 01:12:59 The ABCs to get him back 01:15:28 Putting your inner boy to work 01:17:37 A real story about a long distance relationship that worked long-term 01:21:14 How to get a man to chase you like he used to 01:27:23 “I am irresistible to men” 01:30:54 Show that you’re bored 01:32:52 How to make him keep loving you 01:34:52 How to protect your heart and not fall too fast 01:36:58 How do you love yourself? Connect with Adrienne on: https://everheartcoaching.com/ https://www.instagram.com/adrienne_everheart_ https://www.facebook.com/EverheartCoaching/ https://www.youtube.com/@AdrienneEverheart https://www.tiktok.com/@adrienneeverheart This Podcast is for Women: Relationship Advice & Feminine Energy with Adrienne Everheart Get more content on: https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/ https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/ https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/ https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissues See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hello and welcome to my PREMIUM PODCAST!! Today you will get a glimpse of the Wednesday premium episode!!! To listen to the FULL episode and get AD FREE weekly plus TWO EXTRA episodes a week, go subscribe on https://almostadulting.supercast.com/ On today's episode I discuss, Stagecoach, OCD, and my favourite quotes from my therapist! I also give you some advice, my favourite Kdrama's and my experience with finally getting back on dating apps! See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey Besties! This episode is all about the highs, the lows, and the hilariously unexpected. Violet opens up about feeling a bit down and explores why sometimes, despite everything, it just seems like things won't get better. She discusses the simple joys of being happy and the importance of being present in those moments. But it’s not all about the downs; there’s an up when she talks about getting sponsored to go to Stagecoach—and yes, she’s going solo! Tune in for an episode filled with humor, vulnerability, and the kind of honest chat you’d only share with your closest friends! If you are looking to listen to today's episode without any ads or interruptions, feel free to subscribe to my subscription podcast at https://almostadulting.supercast.com/. What’s more? You'll get TWO extra episodes every week on Wednesday and Saturday! Today’s Sponsors: Skims - Shop the SKIMS T-Shirt at https://skims.com/. Now available in sizes XXS - 4X. What to Listen For: Get more content on: https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissues See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey Besties! Today, let's try something a little different. Violetta challenges AI to give intriguing insights it might offer on our everyday dilemmas. From practical tips on mustering the courage to reach out and effective breathing exercises to manage anxiety to quick mood-boosting activities, discovering happiness, and the best life advice ChatGPT can offer. Whether you're searching for a laugh, a cry, or a moment of inspiration, this episode promises to be as enlightening as it is entertaining. If you are looking to listen to today's episode without any ads or interruptions, feel free to subscribe to my subscription podcast at https://almostadulting.supercast.com/. What’s more? You'll get TWO extra episodes every week on Wednesday and Saturday! Today’s Sponsors: Nutrafol - Find out why over 4,000 healthcare professionals recommend Nutrafol for healthier hair. Visit https://nutrafol.com/ and use promo code ADULTINGShopifywww.shopify.com/adultingNOCDhttps://www.treatmyocd.com/ What to Listen For: Get more content on: https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissues See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey Besties! Welcome to Benson Book Club! Today, Violetta will be reading from Robert Greene’s The 48 Laws of Power - Law #9: Win Through Your Actions, Never Through Arguments. Discover why winning through your actions rather than arguments can lead to more meaningful victories and why saying less can actually get you more. Whether you're going through tricky social situations or just trying to get ahead in life, this episode is packed with wisdom to help you master the art of keeping it cool and collected. Tune in for less talk, more action! If you are looking to listen to today's episode without any ads or interruptions, feel free to subscribe to my subscription podcast at https://almostadulting.supercast.com/. What’s more? You'll get TWO extra episodes every week on Wednesday and Saturday! Today’s Sponsors: Talkspace - https://www.talkspace.com/Prose - Go to https://prose.com/adulting for your free consultation and 50% off your one-of-a-kind formulas What to Listen For: Get more content on: https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissues See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey Besties! It’s 2024 and we’re done being nice girls. Violetta breaks down the SECRET to dating men - getting him to commit and learning the difference between a nice girl and a b*tch. GIRLLL, all you ever did was take care of him, be nice to him, and put him on a pedestal, and now you don’t understand why you got dumped…well, maybe that IS the problem – you’re too nice! In this episode, Violetta teaches you how to stop being too available and how to become the b*tch that men will go crazy for. So get ready to be the main event and how you can make men work so hard for that front seat! For more episodes like this, check out the premium podcast with two extra episodes WEEKLY subscribe here - https://almostadulting.supercast.com/ Today's episode is brought to you by our sponsor: NOCD - To learn more about therapy with NOCD, go to nocd.com and schedule a free 15-minute call with their team. That’s N-O-C-D.com to learn more and book a free 15-minute call. What to Listen For: Get more content on: https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey Besties! Today is another Benson Book Club Tuesday! Let’s take another look at 101 Essays That Will Change The Way You Think by Brianna Wiest - a collection of the author’s most beloved pieces of writing. Ever catch yourself thinking, "I don't know what I’m doing with my life"? You're not alone! In this episode, we dive into 20 signs that you're actually doing better than you think. We'll explore what it truly means to lead a good life, challenging societal metrics and embracing the idea that a great life is made up of a series of small, meaningful moments. If you are looking to listen to today's episode without any ads or interruptions, feel free to subscribe to my subscription podcast at https://almostadulting.supercast.com/. What’s more? You'll get an extra episode every Saturday each month! Today’s Sponsors: Trulywww.trulyhardseltzer.com/locations Episode Highlights: 00:00 Intro 01:28 “I don’t know what I’m doing with my life.” 04:32 20 signs you’re doing better that you think you are 11:32 How do we measure a good life? 17:14 A great life a series of small moments put together Get more content on: https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/ https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/ https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/ https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissues See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hello and welcome to my PREMIUM PODCAST!! Today you will get a glimpse from Saturay's premium podcast episode where we discuss how to handle conflict, especially for people who struggle with it. Hope you enjoy! To listen to the FULL episode and get ad free episodes plus two extra episodes a week, go subscribe on https://almostadulting.supercast.com/ See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey Besties! Today, we discuss the PSYCHOLOGY, the SCIENCE, and the SPIRITUALITY behind Success along with a few calls to actions to make it happen for you!! Let’s listen to some life lessons about what success truly means and unravel the paradox between failure and success, all with a dash of Violetta's flair. Discover actionable tips to halt self-sabotage and uncover traits common among successful people. We'll explore the synergy of passion and perseverance, why willpower isn't your only ally, the transformation from a fixed to a growth mindset, and how to ignite your motivation for success. Plus, don't miss our top tips for attracting success in your life! If you are looking to listen to today's episode without any ads or interruptions, feel free to subscribe to my subscription podcast at https://almostadulting.supercast.com/. What’s more? You'll get an extra episode every Saturday each month! Today’s Sponsors: Skims - Episode Highlights: 00:00 Intro 02:00 What does success mean to you? 03:28 The failure and success paradox 07:53 Tips to stop self sabotaging 10:14 Quantum physics 15:57 What do most successful people have in common? 20:16 Passion and perseverance 24:20 Don’t rely too much on willpower 28:08 Switching from fixed mindset to a growth mindset 30:30 Tips to get motivated to become successful 32:56 Top tips to attract success Get more content on: https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/ https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/ https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/ https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissues See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hello and welcome to the Violetta's diary series available on my PREMIUM PODCAST!! Where I share my random thoughts or CONFESSIONS with no cuts, no edits, no notes, no pre planning, no nothing. Just the two of us naked and honest with each other. Today we discuss some things I WOULD NEVER share on my regular podcast since I am afraid of a lawsuit or people coming for me so if you want to hear the full story, go listen and subscribe on https://almostadulting.supercast.com/ See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey Besties! Today, for another reading session of Benson Book Club, we will take a peek into How to Win Friends & Influence People written by Dale Carnegie - a book about ways to make people like you, how to win people to your way of thinking, and how to change people without arousing resentment. Together with Violetta, we get to hear practical tips on winning people over instantly, incredible stories of people who mastered the art of being likable, and how to arm yourself with six foolproof strategies to make a lasting impression and cultivate meaningful connections. If you are looking to listen to today's episode without any ads or interruptions, feel free to subscribe to my subscription podcast at https://almostadulting.supercast.com/. What’s more? You'll get an extra episode every Saturday each month! What to Listen For: Get more content on: https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissues See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey Besties! We're diving headfirst into the complexities of self-sabotage. Why do we often self-sabotage? How do we snap out of the self-defeat funk? Embrace the beauty of failure, kick negative thinking to the curb, and discover 18 tips to boost your spirits. It's all about flipping the script, surrounding yourself with positive vibes, and quitting the blame game. Get ready to transform your perspective and sprinkle some fab into your life! If you are looking to listen to today's episode without any ads or interruptions, feel free to subscribe to my subscription podcast at https://almostadulting.supercast.com/. What’s more? You'll get an extra episode every Saturday each month! Today’s Sponsors: CBDistillerywww.cbdistillery.comGlamsquadhttps://glamsquad.com/ADULTINGNuuly - https://www.nuuly.com/ What to Listen For: Get more content on: https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissues See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey Besties! Welcome to Benson Book Club! Today, Violetta will be reading a part of Chapter 19: When To Have Sex from the book Men Don’t Love Women Like You! by G.L Lambert, and will be sharing her thoughts on when to take things to the bedroom, decoding men's real dating agendas, and identifying the tell-tale signs of true romantic victory. Ever regretted going too far, too fast? We're breaking it all down and guiding you to date on your own terms. Let's get real about romance, empowerment, and finding what truly clicks for you in the world of love! If you are looking to listen to today's episode without any ads or interruptions, feel free to subscribe to my subscription podcast at https://almostadulting.supercast.com/. What’s more? You'll get an extra episode every Saturday each month! Today’s Sponsors: Factor What to Listen For: Get more content on: https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissues See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey Besties! Welcome to episode TWO of Dating University available ONLY on the PREMIUM podcast. Violetta is going to get real about everything from pimple patches to our 'pick me' girl pasts. It's all about embracing your fabulous self, finding that rock-solid confidence, and saying goodbye to people and habits that just don't spark joy anymore. And let's chat about relationships - why it's crucial to know what you want and how not to fall for those oh-so-tempting but totally empty flatteries. Remember, comparison is the thief of joy, especially when it comes to other women. So, let's believe in our own allure and walk this journey of self-love and empowerment together. This series lives EXCLUSIVELY on my premium channel, so to listen to the FULL episode, make sure to subscribe and catch it here - https://almostadulting.supercast.com/ See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey Besties! Today, we get to listen to the second half of Violetta’s conversation with Sarah Baldwin. Sarah is a Somatic Experiencing Practitioner and Trauma-informed Life Coach dedicated to supporting individuals in understanding their reactions, feelings, and patterns, emphasizing that these are not indicative of anything wrong, but rather everything being right with the person. Violetta and Sarah will dig deep into what it means to have an anxious or avoidant attachment style, how to overcome it, and how it can potentially affect your current and future relationships. Discover how your nervous system is the puppeteer of your relationships, unravel the mysteries of anxious and avoidant attachments, and get the lowdown on why opposites attract but might not always stick. Learn the golden rules of relationship arguments, decode the dynamic dance between different attachment styles, and embrace the bravest steps towards love. Whether you're anxiously engaged or coolly detached, it's time to understand, set boundaries, and find out why, in the game of love, we're all wonderfully complex. If you are looking to listen to today's episode without any ads or interruptions, feel free to subscribe to my subscription podcast at https://almostadulting.supercast.com/. What’s more? You'll get an extra episode every Saturday each month! Today’s Sponsors: Nutrafol - https://nutrafol.com/ Episode Highlights: 00:00 Intro 00:24 How does your nervous system affect your relationships? 02:04 How does Anxious Attachment style develop? 03:47 How does Avoidant Attachment style develop? 05:18 What should you do if you have avoidant attachment? 10:39 What should you do if you have anxious attachment? 12:39 Anxious and avoidant attachment attract each other 17:22 The golden rule: Two dysregulated people can’t solve an argument 20:41 Most common dynamic between anxious and avoidant people 21:37 We can be both avoidant and anxious 24:03 Why both avoidantly and anxiously attached people are often misunderstood 28:14 We need to learn to understand each other 30:04 A lot of us feel we’re so f*cked up 35:46 What is the bravest thing an avoidant person can do in a relationship? 37:26 Can an avoidant and anxiously attached person have a relationship? 40:56 Fear and excitement have the same somatic sensory response 44:32 The people we need to set boundaries will resist those boundaries the most 48:12 When to know that the other person is not yet safe for you to be in a relationship with 55:16 We all make sense and there’s nothing wrong with us Connect with Sarah on: https://www.sarahbaldwincoaching.com/ https://www.facebook.com/Sarahbaldwincoaching/ https://www.instagram.com/sarahbcoaching/ Get more content on: https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/ https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/ https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/ https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissues See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hello and welcome to the Violetta's diary series available on my PREMIUM PODCAST!! Where I share my random thoughts with no cuts, no edits, no notes, no pre planning, no nothing. Just the two of us naked and honest with each other. Today we dive into sliding into dm's, my intrusive thoughts and lots more. This series lives EXCLUSIVELY on my premium channel, so to listen to the FULL episode, make sure to subscribe and catch it here - https://almostadulting.supercast.com/ See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey Besties! Welcome to another Benson Book Club Tuesday! It’s been a favorite so we will discuss another chapter of 101 Essays That Will Change The Way You Think by Brianna Wiest - a collection of the author’s most beloved pieces of writing. Violetta dives into a heartfelt exploration of the transient nature of relationships, where we ponder the journey from being strangers to becoming lovers, and sometimes, strangers once again. This podcast delves into the gratitude we owe to those who've departed from our lives, the insights gained from lost love, and the realization that every encounter has its purpose, often serving as a lesson in our personal growth. Through stories and reflections, we uncover the essence of our connections, learning to appreciate every moment and person as part of our life's evolving narrative. If you are looking to listen to today's episode without any ads or interruptions, feel free to subscribe to my subscription podcast at https://almostadulting.supercast.com/. What’s more? You'll get an extra episode every Saturday each month! Today’s Sponsors: Trulywww.trulyhardseltzer.com/locationsShopifywww.shopify.com/adultingSkimshttps://skims.com/ What to Listen For: Get more content on: https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissues See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey Besties! Let’s welcome Alex Bennett and Jordyn Woodruff, the duo behind the Mean Girl podcast. In the show, these two come together for honest conversations about sex, friendship, mental health, and living in the big city as outsiders. Violetta, Alex, and Jordyn didn’t hold back as they talked about what makes friendships last, setting boundaries (because, hello, we need space!), and why growing apart might just mean you're growing up. Ever wonder how to navigate friendships when life stages change or how to detox from toxic pals? We've got you covered! Plus, get the scoop on making friends in your fabulous late 20s. Because, let's face it, friends are the family we choose, and it's never too late to add to your tribe! If you are looking to listen to today's episode without any ads or interruptions, feel free to subscribe to my subscription podcast at https://almostadulting.supercast.com/. What’s more? You'll get an extra episode every Saturday each month! Today’s Sponsors: Talkspacehttps://www.talkspace.com/Glamsquadhttps://glamsquad.com/ADULTING Episode Highlights: 00:00 Intro 01:36 How’s LA? 03:59 Do you make friends easily? 04:21 How has making friends changed over the years? 07:44 People who are able to maintain lasting friendships are green flags 09:51 Does it matter how long you’ve been friends? 15:31 How do you define a good friend? 18:07 Scared to rely on friends too much 21:29 Create boundaries with your friends 23:24 Friendships growing apart as you mature 32:36 If you’re not growing apart, you’re not growing up 35:20 Do you stay friends with your married friends? 39:42 Have you experienced a toxic friendship? 43:06 Choose your friends who will say your name in a room full of opportunities 44:28 Gossiping is false friendship bonding 48:46 If you constantly talk about other people and nothing else 54:51 How did you realize it was toxic? 59:30 She’s my BFF but she stole my ex 01:05:06 What did you learn from a toxic friendship? 01:07:31 How to heal from a friendship breakup 01:15:11 How to make new friends in your late 20s 01:16:43 You will continue to make friends your entire life Connect with Mean Girl on: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCVGd0eUpf67iwp7K84wTJnQ https://www.instagram.com/meangirlpod https://twitter.com/meangirlpod Get more content on: https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/ https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/ https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/ https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissues See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey Besties! In today’s Benson Book Club, Violetta will take inspiration from Men Don’t Love Women Like You! by G.L. Lambert - a manual on how to stop manipulation, command attention, and be seen as a must have by any man. Let's take a look into men's true intentions in romance, separating truths from "D*ck Lies," understanding sexual significance, and uncovering why men pursue new conquests. Learn why you might be unknowingly auditioning for a role you didn't choose in the complexity of love and desire. If you are looking to listen to today's episode without any ads or interruptions, feel free to subscribe to my subscription podcast at https://almostadulting.supercast.com/. What’s more? You'll get an extra episode every Wednesday and Saturday each week! Today’s Sponsors: Nuuly - https://www.nuuly.com/ What to Listen For: Get more content on: https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.