The Naked Marriage with Dave & Ashley Willis

Welcome back to the Naked Marriage Podcast. In this episode, Dave and Ashley Willis sit down with Dennis and Kara Duncan to delve into their heartfelt journey through infertility and adoption. The Duncans open up about their love story, the hurdles they encountered while trying to begin their family, and the significant emotional impact it had on their marriage. They emphasize the critical role of communication, the benefits of counseling, and the strength they drew from their faith during challenging times. The episode concludes with a touching prayer for others facing similar struggles. --------------------- For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage --------------------- Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Welcoming the Guests 02:15 Starting the Journey and Facing Infertility 08:21 Communication and Counseling 13:06 Support from Friends and Family 21:14 The Journey to Adoption 26:26 Prayer for Those Going Through Infertility and Adoption Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome back to our favorite day of the week, HUMP DAY Q&A!! Today's question: My Spouse Is On OnlyFans. What do I do? ------------------- Check out some more of our resources:https://store.xomarriage.com/collections/dave-ashley-willis-1/products/naked-and-healthy For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome back to the Naked Marriage Podcast, with, Dave and Ashley Willis. In today’s episode, we explore the essential role of faith in enriching your marriage. We invite you and your partner to join us in building a relationship grounded in God’s Word, engaging together in prayer, Bible study, and active participation in your church community. We also discuss how serving together can deepen your bond. To support you on this journey, we’re excited to offer a free prayer guide. We'll share some uplifting statistics on how faith can anchor your marriage, making it stronger and more resilient. Join us as we delve into these transformative practices that can bring you and your spouse closer, not just to each other, but also to God. -------------------------- Grab Your Free Prayer Guide:https://dl.bookfunnel.com/dtad9cbfib Grab a copy of I Will:https://store.xomarriage.com/products/i-will For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage ------------------------- Chapters 00:02 Welcome and Overview 01:30 Building a Marriage on Faith 02:27 Faith Through the Storms 04:53 Engaging in Community and Church 07:15 Benefits of Serving Together 09:34 Experiencing Growth Through Service 16:33 Faith in Daily Life and Resources for Growth 25:56 The Power of Prayer in Marriage 28:00 Conclusion and Call to Action Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome back to our favorite day of the week, HUMP DAY Q&A!! Today's question: I'm Attracted To Someone At Work What Now? ------------------- Check out some more of our resources:https://store.xomarriage.com/collections/dave-ashley-willis-1/products/naked-and-healthy For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

We are so excited to continue in our intimacy series here on the Naked Marriage Podcast. In this episode, we delve into the essential ways to rekindle romance and amplify intimacy in your marriage..... yes we mean SEX. We discuss the pivotal role of physical touch and its immense benefits for a couple’s emotional and physical bond. We also explore how engaging all five senses can significantly enhance your sexual intimacy, and we’re thrilled to share a special bonus sex tip with you! Join us as we emphasize the importance of making intimacy a priority and the power of open communication to fulfill each other's needs and desires. Get ready to take actionable steps to deepen your connection and enjoy a more fulfilling marital relationship. ------------------------- FREE Resource: What Kind of In-Laws Do You Have? Need Marriage Help?: www.xomarriage.com/help Check out some more of our resources:https://store.xomarriage.com/collections/dave-ashley-willis-1/products/naked-and-healthy For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage ------------------------- Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Setting the Stage 10:24 The Importance of Physical Touch: Building Trust and Connection 26:17 Prioritizing Intimacy: Breaking the Cycle of Mismatched Sex Drives Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome back to our favorite day of the week, HUMP DAY Q&A!! Today's question: what do I do when I think my spouse has an addiction ------------------- Check out some more of our resources:https://store.xomarriage.com/collections/dave-ashley-willis-1/products/naked-and-healthy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome to the Naked Marriage Podcast! We are Dave and Ashley Willis, and we are thrilled to continue our intimacy series. In this series, we are diving deep into the essentials of intimacy—emotional, physical, and spiritual—and explore the vital role of communication and trust in fostering a healthy marriage. Each episode is designed to help couples build unbreakable trust and deepen their connection through transparent and open dialogue. We share insights from our own marriage and biblical principles to guide you through common challenges and improve your relationship. Join us as we help you remove barriers and embrace a fully intimate, "naked" marriage free from secrets and full of lifelong love. Tune in to grow closer to your spouse and strengthen your marital bond as we dive in on what trust adds to your marriage. --------------------------- FREE Book: What Kind of In-Laws Do You Have? Need Marriage Help?: www.xomarriage.com/help Should your spouse be able to check your phone?: https://xomarriage.com/articles/can-i-check-my-spouses-phone/ Check out some more of our resources:https://store.xomarriage.com/collections/dave-ashley-willis-1/products/naked-and-healthy For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage --------------------------- Chapters 00:00 - Introduction to Intimacy Types Overview of emotional, sexual/physical, and spiritual intimacy. 02:50 - The Importance of Communication and Trust How active communication and trust are foundational to intimacy. 04:33- The Digital Dilemma: Presence Over Screens Challenges of digital distractions and the importance of mindfulness. 06:58 - Secrets: The Enemy of Intimacy Why secrecy sabotages intimacy and how transparency can rebuild it. 09:22 - Restoring Trust After It’s Broken Strategies for rebuilding trust with honesty and frequent check-ins. 11:37- Healing and Forgiveness Post-Betrayal The process of healing, the necessity of forgiveness, and managing challenging emotions. 13:55 - Practical Steps to Rebuild Trust Guidance on restoring trust through consistent and transparent actions. 16:15 - The Role of Apology and Repentance The importance of genuine apologies and repentance in trust restoration. 18:34 - Navigating Recovery and Rebuilding Intimacy Gradual rebuilding of intimacy, akin to healing a physical injury, including setting boundaries. 20:58 - Support Systems and Counseling Using counseling and support systems to aid the recovery process. 23:22 - Grief and Emotion Management Handling emotional and grief processes in relationship rebuilding. 25:34 - Empowering the Wronged Spouse Supporting the wronged spouse through emotional expression and prayer. 27:57 - Forgiveness and Re-Earning Trust Distinguishing between forgiveness and trust, and methods for re-earning trust for enhanced intimacy. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome back to our favorite day of the week, HUMP DAY Q&A!! Today's question: Should We Orgasm Together ------------------- Check out some more of our resources:https://store.xomarriage.com/collections/dave-ashley-willis-1/products/naked-and-healthy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

We are so excited to be starting our new intimacy series on the Naked Marriage Podcast, and we can't wait to embark on this journey with you! In this episode, Dave and Ashley Willis explore the intricate layers of intimacy within marriage. From emotional to physical, spiritual, and sexual intimacy, we delve into the essential components that strengthen the bond between partners. Join us as we offer practical insights and tips for nurturing intimacy in your marriage. Let's dive in together and build deeper connections! ----------------------------------- Need Marriage Help?: www.xomarriage.com/help Want an Ad-Free Experience: xonow.com/naked Check out some more of our resources:https://store.xomarriage.com/collections/dave-ashley-willis-1/products/naked-and-healthy For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage ----------------------------------- Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Overview 02:23 Defining Intimacy 05:31 Emotional Intimacy 16:22 Spiritual Intimacy 27:27 The Key to Better Intimacy: Vulnerability and Consistency 29:48 The Power of Praying Together in Marriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome back; it's our favorite time of the week; it's HUMP DAY Q&A TIME! Today's question:How do I stop resenting my spouse after everything we've been through? Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome back to the Naked Marriage podcast! In this episode, we delve into the crucial topic of anxiety with Dr. John Deloney. He sheds light on the origins of anxiety in our modern, fast-paced world and stresses the significance of identifying its signs. Dr. Deloney shares insightful personal anecdotes and practical strategies to cultivate a non-anxious life, emphasizing the importance of seeking support and connection. Tune in for invaluable advice on finding peace and success in every aspect of life. ------------------------- Check out some more of our resources:https://store.xomarriage.com/collections/dave-ashley-willis-1 For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage ------------------------- Takeaways Anxiety is a result of living in a fast-paced and distracting world that our bodies were not designed for. Recognizing the signs of anxiety, such as difficulty sleeping, avoidance of intimacy, and numbing behaviors, is crucial for addressing the issue. Choosing reality and getting connected with trusted individuals who can provide support and guidance are important steps towards healing and finding peace. Creating a non-anxious life involves intentional planning, setting boundaries, and prioritizing physical, mental, and spiritual health. ------------------------- Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Background 03:10 The Rise of Anxiety 06:00 The Inspiration for the Book 07:29 The Causes of Anxiety 10:37 Creating a Non-Anxious Life 22:53 Choosing Reality and Getting Connected 26:39 Taking Steps Towards Health and Success 28:28 Where to Find the Book 28:54 Conclusion and Call to Action Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome back; it's our favorite time of the week; it's HUMP DAY Q&A TIME! Today's question: How do I communicate with my husband about the stuff I'd like to be done around the house without sounding like his mother? Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome back to the Naked Marriage podcast! In this episode, Josh and Katie Walters join Dave and Ashley to share their journey of overcoming marital challenges and rebuilding their relationship, as discussed in their book 'New Marriage, Same Couple.' They offer practical advice on confession, vulnerability, and seeking support, emphasizing the importance of staying committed and allowing God to transform their marriage. Their inspiring story serves as a beacon of hope and encouragement for couples navigating their own relationship difficulties. ------------------------- Check out some more of our resources:https://store.xomarriage.com/collections/dave-ashley-willis-1 For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage ------------------------- Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Background 01:24 The Inspiring Story and the Book 09:53 The Confession and the Summer of Hell 11:38 Moving to Charleston for Healing 25:12 The Importance of Confession 33:31 The STAY Acronym 36:53 Conclusion and Where to Find the Authors Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome back to the Naked Marriage Podcast! We're honored to present a very special episode featuring an interview with our beloved mentors, Steve and Susie Swanson. Unfortunately, Steve passed away earlier this week, but we're grateful to share his last interview in this bonus episode. In this heartfelt conversation, we sit down with Steve and Susie Swanson as they share their invaluable wisdom and experiences in caring for aging parents. The Swansons delve into the importance of honoring and supporting parents as they navigate the journey of aging, offering practical advice for overcoming the challenges that arise during this season of life. Patience, communication, and prayer emerge as vital components in maintaining healthy relationships with aging parents, as the Swansons stress the significance of finding the right caregivers and establishing a supportive network for our loved ones. Their story resonates as a powerful reminder for listeners to cherish and care for their parents with love and respect, serving as an inspiration to navigate this journey with grace and compassion. Welcome to this special episode of the Naked Marriage Podcast. ------------------------------------------------------- Check out some more of our resources:https://store.xomarriage.com/collections/dave-ashley-willis-1 For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage ------------------------------------------------------- Takeaways Honoring and supporting aging parents is a biblical mandate, and it is important to prioritize their needs and well-being. Communication and patience are key in navigating the challenges of caring for aging parents. Finding the right caregivers and creating a supportive network for parents can greatly enhance their quality of life. Prayer is essential in seeking wisdom and guidance in caring for aging parents. ------------------------------------------------------- Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Background 01:25 Remembering Steve Swanson 06:20 How Steve and Suzy Met 10:24 Grandchildren and Family 15:10 Caring for Aging Parents 20:26 Finding the Right Caregiver 24:33 Dealing with Sibling Dynamics 27:53 Navigating Disagreements in Marriage 32:13 Maintaining Healthy Relationships with Aging Parents 35:04 Final Thoughts and Encouragement Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome back; it's our favorite time of the week; it's HUMP DAY Q&A TIME! Today's question: Is it okay to be attracted to other people when you're married? Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome back to another episode of the Naked Marriage Podcast! Today, we are going to open up about the all-too-common feeling of being married to a stranger. Sharing our own experiences and insights, we'll offer genuine advice on how to bridge the gap and reignite intimacy. From carving out meaningful moments together to nurturing individual growth while prioritizing the marriage, we dive deep into the nuances of connection. With an unwavering focus on faith, prayer, and the importance of a supportive community, we want to remind you that laughter and joy are essential ingredients for a thriving relationship. Join us as we journey together toward deeper, more authentic connections in marriage. ---------------------- Takeaways Acknowledge the dynamic of feeling like you're married to a stranger and the need to reconnect. Prioritize spending time together and engaging in meaningful conversations. Maintain independence while actively pursuing growth and connection in the marriage. Seek God's guidance through prayer and surround yourself with a supportive community. -------------------- Chapters 00:00 Introduction 00:32 Married to a Stranger 01:23 Reality TV and Marriage 03:14 Acknowledging the Dynamic 04:39 Reconnecting and Growing Together 06:08 Spending Time Together 07:05 Living Parallel Lives 08:29 Maintaining Independence and Connection 09:51 Prioritizing Time Together 11:19 Concern and Curiosity 12:11 Avoiding Unhealthy Behaviors 13:08 Dealing with Changes in Faith 14:35 Feeling Like Strangers 15:35 Avoiding Counterfeit Comfort 16:30 Surrounding Yourself with a Supportive Community 18:26 Prayer and Seeking God 19:25 Reaching Out for Help 19:55 Laughter and Connection Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome back; it's our favorite time of the week; it's HUMP DAY Q&A TIME! Today's question:My husband and I have been married for 6moths, and it's been rough. What do I do when sex has hurt our relationship more than helping it, creating frustration and hurt? Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome back to the Naked Marriage Podcast with Dave and Ashley Willis! We are diving into a topic close to our hearts today. We're opening up about the sacred vows of 'In Sickness, In Health, and Until Till Death Do Us Part.' Sharing intimate stories and personal reflections, we explore the profound journey of standing by each other through health challenges & More. From moments of vulnerability to the strength found in serving one another, we delve into the raw reality of marriage in sickness and in health. Join us for heartfelt conversations on the importance of empathy, honest communication, and the beauty of seeking help when needed. Plus, stick around for some lighthearted fun with the Let's Get Deep card game as we navigate the depths of love and commitment together. ---------------------------- Grab a copy of our book:https://store.xomarriage.com/products/naked-and-healthy For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage --------------------------- Takeaways Serving and caring for a spouse during times of sickness is a privilege. Empathy and understanding are crucial in supporting a spouse facing health challenges. Open communication about end-of-life decisions is important for couples. Asking for help and supporting each other in difficult times is essential for a strong marriage. ---------------------------- Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Back to the Basics series 00:59 In Sickness, In Health, Till Death Do Us Part 02:14 The challenges of serving and being a caregiver 03:13 Sickness and health can affect couples of all ages 04:35 Understanding and empathizing with each other's experiences 05:05 Navigating life-changing injuries and disabilities 06:29 Finding support and gratitude in difficult times 07:52 Having conversations about end-of-life decisions 09:43 Honoring the wishes of the spouse facing illness 12:34 The importance of serving and asking for help 13:00 Let's Get Deep question: Involving food in sex 14:45 Reflecting on past decisions and finding gratitude 16:33 Recommendation: Let's Get Deep card game 17:01 Conclusion and upcoming episodes Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome back; it's our favorite time of the week; it's HUMP DAY Q&A TIME! Today's question: My husband's mother believes it's his responsibility to take care of her, and we've gotten into some arguments over the subject because I feel like he's allowing her to pit us against each other. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome back to the Naked Marriage podcast, friends! Today, we are diving deep into the heart of marriage with a candid discussion on the vow 'forsaking all other's, continuing in our back-to-the-basic series. Drawing from our own experiences and those of couples we've worked with, we're shedding light on the gravity of this commitment and what it truly means to prioritize your spouse above all else. We'll be sharing some personal stories that highlight the importance of establishing healthy boundaries and the power of making your marriage public. Plus, we're tackling the tough topic of navigating relationships outside of marriage, whether it's with the opposite sex or within family dynamics. So join us for an honest conversation about love, commitment, and the beauty of a Naked Marriage! ------------------------------- Order your copy of Married Into The Family Today: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/married-into-the-family For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage Give a wedding gift to our producer Tywon! https://www.zola.com/registry/chloeeandtywon ------------------------------- Takeaways The vow 'forsaking all others' in marriage represents the exclusivity and commitment that spouses should have towards each other. Setting boundaries and making the marriage public are important in maintaining the exclusivity of the relationship. It is crucial to recognize and avoid unhealthy relationships, both with people of the opposite sex and with family and in-laws. Dream travel destinations and three life rules: love God, love people, and serve the world. ------------------------------- Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Importance of Forsaking All Others 02:14 The Significance of the Vow 'Forsaking All Others' 03:10 Recognizing the Lack of Exclusivity in a Marriage 04:35 The Importance of Boundaries in Marriage 06:28 Making Your Marriage Public 08:21 The Danger of Not Showing Commitment in Public 09:49 Identifying Unhealthy Relationships 11:40 Challenging the Norms of Marriage 13:07 Maintaining Professional Boundaries 15:02 Finding Your Own Rhythm in Marriage 16:52 Identifying Dangerous People in Your Life 19:46 Balancing Relationships with Family and In-Laws 21:08 Dream Travel Destinations 22:35 Three Life Rules 22:57 Conclusion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices