Strictly Stalking

Michele Locke, once a Domestic Violence Court Judge, has dealt with numerous distressing stalking cases throughout her tenure in El Paso County. Transitioning into private practice, Michele remains dedicated to family law, offering valuable insights and guidance for those navigating court proceedings with their stalkers. She is here to share her thoughts and advice about the court system, what to expect, and how to navigate the process. CHECK OUT OUR PATREON: www.patreon.com/strictlystalking OUR SPONSORS: Noom Noom - Sign up for your free trial today at www.noom.com lovelustfear Apple Podcasts | https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/lovelustfear/id1735876283?uo=4 Spotify | https://open.spotify.com/show/0e3ndcf5u8lZ5lhN1lvWec Amazon Music | https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/b06d0ea8-cb29-4c3a-98e6-0249d84df748 Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/lovelustfearpod/ Submissions | https://lovelustfear.aidaform.com/lovelustfear The Last Trip - Podcast Listen & Subscribe to The Last Trip - https://audioboom.com/channels/5119581-the-last-trip Follow The Last Trip on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/thelasttripcrimepod/ And Subscribe for all the updates on Patreon - https://www.patreon.com/TheLastTripPodcast DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? E-MAIL US strictlystalkingpod@gmail.com Instagram: @strictlystalkingpod @feathergirl77 @jaked3000

lovelustfear is a podcast series that exposes the darker side of dating and relationships. Every episode explores true dating and relationship stories—from the awkward and uncomfortable to the shocking and bizarre to the disturbing and downright dangerous. Host Jake Deptula welcomes storytellers into candid conversations, revealing the decisions they made and dilemmas they faced when better judgment got lost in a haze of desire. lovelustfear is a compelling, terrifying, but always insightful exploration into toxic dating and relationships that will have you abandoning courtesy and listening with caution. Links Apple Podcasts | https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/lovelustfear/id1735876283?uo=4 Spotify | https://open.spotify.com/show/0e3ndcf5u8lZ5lhN1lvWec Amazon Music | https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/b06d0ea8-cb29-4c3a-98e6-0249d84df748 Chartable | https://link.chtbl.com/lovelustfear Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/lovelustfearpod/ Submit Your Story | https://lovelustfear.aidaform.com/lovelustfear

Annie Bowles is advocating for the release of April Wilkens, who was given a life sentence for killing her stalker in an act of self-defense. Annie is striving to bring attention to the issue of criminalized survivorship and is pushing for the passage of the Oklahoma Survivors Act. This legislation aims to help survivors of domestic violence by allowing evidence of abuse to be presented during trials to potentially reduce their sentences. During the second half of this episode, we will be sharing parts of an interview Annie conducted with April in prison, allowing her to share her own story. **The following episode of Strictly Stalking contains graphic language and topics including sexual assault, domestic violence and homocide. Listener discretion is advised.** CHECK OUT OUR PATREON: www.patreon.com/strictlystalking GUEST LINKS: Annie Bowles Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/news-du-jour/id1511548993 Call Governor Stitt and ask him to sign SB1470: (405) 521-2342 Write to April Wilkens: April Wilkens #282399, MBCC C3B-206, 29501 Kickapoo Rd., McLoud, OK 74851 Text or E-mail April Wilkens: https://securustech.net/ **PLEASE NOTE THAT THAT ALL PRISON CORRESPONDENCE WILL BE READ BY PRISON STAFF.** OUR SPONSORS: Noom Noom - Sign up for your free trial today at www.noom.com Progressive Insurance Press play on comparing auto rates. Get your auto quote at Progressive.com to join the over 28 million drivers who trust Progressive. lovelustfear Apple Podcasts | https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/lovelustfear/id1735876283?uo=4 Spotify | https://open.spotify.com/show/0e3ndcf5u8lZ5lhN1lvWec Amazon Music | https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/b06d0ea8-cb29-4c3a-98e6-0249d84df748 Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/lovelustfearpod/ Submissions | https://lovelustfear.aidaform.com/lovelustfear The Last Trip - Podcast Listen & Subscribe to The Last Trip - https://audioboom.com/channels/5119581-the-last-trip Follow The Last Trip on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/thelasttripcrimepod/ And Subscribe for all the updates on Patreon - https://www.patreon.com/TheLastTripPodcast DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? E-MAIL US strictlystalkingpod@gmail.com Instagram: @strictlystalkingpod @feathergirl77 @jaked3000

Samantha was abducted and imprisoned by her stalker. After they met in college, Samantha realized a man had an unhealthy obsession with her when he started following her around and leaving her unwanted gifts. In 2014, when he pursued her across state lines, Samatha secured a six-year restraining order against him. Upon returning to her hometown six years later, she noticed his presence, but he kept his distance and remained silent. However, the eerie calm shattered one fateful night in October 2022 when he forcibly entered her home and abducted her, imprisoning her in a homemade cage; getting the idea from the TV Show "You." Samantha is bravely sharing her story of survival and unimaginable trauma. **The following episode of Strictly Stalking contains graphics depictions of physical violence, abduction, torture, and sexual assualt. Please listen with caution.** CHECK OUT OUR PATREON: www.patreon.com/strictlystalking OUR SPONSORS: Delete Me Today get 20% off your DeleteMe plan when you go to JoinDeleteMe.com/STALKING and use promo code STALKING at checkout. Shopify Sign up for a one-dollar-per-month trial period at www.shopify,com/strictlystalking to take your retail business to the next level. Progressive Insurance Press play on comparing auto rates. Get your auto quote at Progressive.com to join the over 28 million drivers who trust Progressive.

Abby Furness made a recent appearance in the Netflix documentary titled "Can I Tell You A Secret?" The documentary sheds light on the victims of Matthew Hardy, who systematically harassed more than sixty women by fabricating falsehoods about them on social media through fake accounts. Abby joins us today to recount her experiences with Matthew and delve into aspects of her story that were not covered in the documentary. CHECK OUT OUR PATREON: www.patreon.com/strictlystalking OUR SPONSORS: Delete Me Toda y get 20% off your DeleteMe plan when you go to Join DeleteMe.com/STALKING and use promo code S TALKING at checkout. Progressive Insurance Press play on comparing auto rates. Get your auto quote at Progressive.com to join the over 28 million drivers who trust Progressive. lovelustfear Apple Podcasts | https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/lovelustfear/id1735876283?uo=4 Spotify | https://open.spotify.com/show/0e3ndcf5u8lZ5lhN1lvWec Am azon Music | https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/ b06d0ea8-cb29-4c3a-98e6-0249d84df748 Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/lovelustfearpod/ Submissions | https://lovelustfear.aidaform .com/lovelustfear The Last Trip - Podcast Listen & Subscribe to The Last Trip - https://audioboom.com/channels/5119581-the-last-trip Follow The Last Trip on Instagram - https://www.in stagram.com/thelasttripcrimepod/ And Subscribe for all the updates on Patreon - https://www.patreon.com/TheLastTripPodcast DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? E-M AIL US strictlystalkingpod@gmail.com Instagram: @strictlystalkingpod @feathergirl77 @jaked3000

In 2022, Jaimie and I spoke with Abby Furness, who was stalked by an obsessed OnlyFans subscriber. After this ordeal, Abby became the target of another stalker, as detailed in the Netflix True Crime Documentary, “Can I Tell You A Secret?” We present an encore of OnlyFans Stalker, and on April 9th, 2024, we’re releasing a new episode with Abby Furness to discuss her experience dealing with another stalker. If there’s a guest whose story we’ve featured in a past episode that you’d like us to revisit, email strictlystalkingpod@gmail.com or DM us on Instagram at strictlystalkingpod. We appreciate your listening and ongoing support for the survivors we’ve featured. Thank you! CHECK OUT OUR PATREON: www.patreon.com/strictlystalking The Last Trip - Podcast List en & Subscribe to The Last Trip - https://audioboom.com/channels/5119581-the-last-trip Follow The Last Trip on Instagram - https://www.in stagram.com/thelasttripcrimepod/ And Subscribe for all the updates on Patreon - https://www.patreon.com/TheLastTripPodcast DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? E- MAIL US strictlystalkingpod@gmail.com Instagram: @strictlystalkingpod @feathergirl77 @jaked3000

Katie was cyberstalked after accepting a Facebook friend request from a woman she had never met in person. Initially, their messages were amicable, but they soon dove into personal topics, including emotional and mental struggles. Tension escalated when Katie started receiving messages from the woman’s boyfriend, expressing concerns about their relationship. When Katie advised him to leave if he felt it was toxic, she triggered the woman’s retaliation. This included menacing social media posts, fake reviews on Katie’s business page, and messages sent to her friends. Katie now aims to share her experience of cyberstalking to raise awareness about online safety. CHECK OUT OUR PATREON: www.patreon.com/strictlystalking PROMO LINKS: Multitask righ t now. Quote your car insurance at Progressive.com to join the over 28 million drivers who trust Progressive. The Last Trip - Podcast Listen & Subscribe to The Last Trip - https://audioboom.com/channels/5119581-the-last-trip Follow The Last Trip on Instagram - https://www.in stagram.com/thelasttripcrimepod/ And Subscribe for all the updates on Patreon - https://www.patreon.com/TheLastTripPodcast DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? E- MAIL US strictlystalkingpod@gmail.com Instagram:

Sasha is being stalked by her child’s father. After a life-altering accident altered his personality, Sasha severed ties with him. However, this decision only seemed to exacerbate is obsession with her. His stalking behavior escalate to the point where he brazenly trespassed onto her property, issuing threats directed not only at Sasha, but also at her new partner. Seeking legal protection, Sasha sought a restraining order, only to face a retaliatory move as her stalker filed one against her. In an effort to shed light on the tactics stalkers use through the legal system, Sasha is sharing her story and urging others to continue fighting for justice. CHECK OUT OUR PATREON: www.patreon.com/strictlystalking SPONSOR LINKS: Noom - Sign up for your free trial today at Noom.com The Last Trip - Podcast Listen & Subscribe to The Last Trip - https://audioboom.com/channels/5119581-the-last-trip Follow The Last Trip on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/thelasttripcrimepod/ And Subscribe for all the updates on Patreon - https://www.patreon.com/TheLastTripPodcast DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? E-MAIL US strictlystalkingpod@gmail.com Instagram: @strictlystalkingpod @feathergirl77 @jaked3000

Kaitlynn was stalked by her abusive ex boyfriend. What began as a college romance turned into a nightmare astheir relationship spiraled into toxicity. His possessiveness and controlling behavior was out of control, and he even moved into the apartment next door to maintain constant surveillance. The situation reached a terrifying climax when he physically assaulted Kaitlynn several months into their relationship. Despite her fear, she found the courage to leave him. However, her escape only fueled his obsession. He relentlessly pursued her with incessant phone calls and text messages, leaving threatening notes on her car, lurking outside her residence, and attempting to break in through her bedroom window. CHECK OUT OUR PATREON: www.patreon.com/strictlystalking SPONSOR LINKS: Noom - Sign up for your free trial today at Noom.com PROMO LINKS: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/lovelustfear/id1735876283?uo=4 Spotify | https://open.spotify.com/show/0e3ndcf5u8lZ5lhN1lvWec Amazon Music | https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/ b06d0ea8-cb29-4c3a-98e6-0249d84df748 Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/lovelustfearpod/ Submissions | https://lovelustfear.aidaform.com/lovelustfear The Last Trip - Podcast Listen & Subscribe to The Last Trip - https://audioboom.com/channels/5119581-the-last-trip Follow The Last Trip on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/thelasttripcrimepod/ And Subscribe for all the updates on Patreon - https://www.patreon.com/TheLastTripPodcast DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? E- MAIL US strictlystalkingpod@gmail.com Instagram: @strictlystalkingpod @feathergirl77 @jaked3000

Lady J was stalked by her ex-boyfriend. What started as a seemingly ordinary relationship turned toxic within six months; he was possessive, accused her of cheating, and was emotionally abusive. She attempted to break from the abusive cycle, but he resorted to manipulation tactics, including threats and even a suicide attempt, to coerce her into staying. Despite her efforts to seek help from the police, she found little assistance. When he escalated into stalking, she had no choice but to abandon her business and go into hiding. Lady J lives in constant fear due to her stalker’s relentless pursuit. She has channeled her experiences into something positive by establishing an online community for other survivors of similar situations. CHECK OUT OUR PATREON: www.patreon.com/strictlystalking GUEST LINKS: Lady J https://www.instagram.com/stopyourstalker/ DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? E-MAIL US strictlystalkingpod@gmail.com Instagram: @strictlystalkingpod @feathergirl77 @jaked3000 SPONSORED BY: Delete Me - Go to JoinDeleteMe.com/STALKING and use promo code STALKING for 20% off Noom - Sign up for your free trial today at Noom.com Progressive - Progressive.com The Last Trip - Podcast Listen & Subscribe to The Last Trip - https://audioboom.com/channels/5119581-the-last-trip Follow The Last Trip on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/thelasttripcrimepod/ And Subscribe for all the updates on Patreon - https://www.patreon.com/TheLastTripPodcast

UPDATE EPISODE: Sarah became the obsession of a man who confessed that he lacked self-control. Sarah’s stalker harassed her on Facebook, wrote her long delusional messages, and sent hand-drawn portraits of herself. When her stalker showed up at her job, Sarah was terrified. She told family and friends she feared he would hurt or kill her. She fought back and her stalker was sent to jail... but that was 4 years ago. Is Sarah still being stalked? Listen as Sarah updates us on her case. We’ll play the original episode after the intro, if you know this story well, you can fast forward to around the 55 minute mark to hear the update.

Libby found herself in a distressing situation when she joined a neighborhood Facebook group, and one of the members began stalking her. After meeting this woman one evening for drinks, Libby sensed warning signs and attempted to maintain an online-only relationship. However, as their friendship progressed, it became evident that toxicity had infiltrated even their virtual exchanges. Taking measures to protect herself, Libby chose to block the individual. But this triggered a series of troubling behaviors, from sending inappropriate emails to reaching out to Libby's acquaintances and spreading falsehoods online; the situation quickly escalated into stalking. The stalker resorted to legal harassment, filing baseless reports with Child Protective Services and even accusing Libby of being the one stalking her. In response, Libby took the necessary steps to involve the authorities, initiating an investigation into her stalker. CHECK OUT OUR PATREON: www.patreon.com/strictlystalking DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? E-MAIL US strictlystalkingpod@gmail.com Instagram: @strictlystalkingpod @feathergirl77 @jaked3000 SPONSORED BY: Delete Me - Go to JoinDeleteMe.com/STALKING and use promo code STALKING for 20% off Noom - Sign up for your free trial today at Noom.com Progressive - Progressive.com Shopify - Sign up for a one-dollar-per-month trial period at Shopify.com/strictlystalking and take your retail business to the next level today!

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Mimi's life took a significant turn in the 1970s when she crossed paths with the man who would become her stalker. Mimi met her ex husband while bartending at a club and they got married, but unfortunately, the relationship ended in divorce, unleashing a nightmare as her ex-husband struggled to accept the separation. What followed was a descent into darkness as he not only refused to acknowledge the divorce but also subjected Mimi to physical abuse and menacing threats. Even as she attempted to move forward and explore new relationships, he relentlessly tracked her down, harassing both her and her partners. Despite seeking assistance from the authorities, Mimi found little relief. In response to the escalating danger, she made the difficult decision to arm herself with a firearm for protection. Today, Mimi bravely shares her harrowing journey of survival, transforming her experience of abuse and stalking into a crusade to empower fellow women to stand up and fight back against such injustices. GUEST LINKS: CHECK OUT OUR PATREON: www.patreon.com/strictlystalking DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? E-MAIL US strictlystalkingpod@gmail.com Instagram: @strictlystalkingpod @feathergirl77 @jaked3000 SPONSORED BY: Noom - Sign up for your free trial today at Noom.com Progressive - Progressive.com Shopify - Sign up for a one-dollar-per-month trial period at Shopify.com/strictlystalking and take your retail business to the next level today! Love, Murder - Podcast Listen & Subscribe to Love Murder - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/love-murder/id1522372858 Follow Love Murder on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/lovemurderpod/ And Subscribe for all the updates on Patreon - https://www.lovemurder.love/patreon The Last Trip - Podcast Listen & Subscribe to The Last Trip - https://audioboom.com/channels/5119581-the-last-trip Follow The Last Trip on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/thelasttripcrimepod/ And Subscribe for all the updates on Patreon - https://www.patreon.com/TheLastTripPodcast

Gigi was stalked by a man she met on Tinder. Their relationship progressed, yet due to Gigi being transgender, he insisted on keeping it concealed. One fateful night, the situation turned violent, prompting Gigi to flee and end the relationship. He began a campaign of harassment, stalking her relentlessly, issuing threats, contacting her workplace, reaching out to her family, and resorting to blackmail by threatening to distribute intimate images. The intensity of the stalking escalated when he fabricated details to obtain her flight information, intending to confront her in person. CHECK OUT OUR PATREON: www.patreon.com/strictlystalking DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? E-MAIL US strictlystalkingpod@gmail.com Instagram: @strictlystalkingpod @feathergirl77 @jaked3000 SPONSORED BY: Delete Me - Go to JoinDeleteMe.com/STALKING and use promo code STALKING for 20% off Noom - Sign up for your free trial today at Noom.com Progressive - Progressive.com The Last Trip - Podcast Listen & Subscribe to The Last Trip - https://audioboom.com/channels/5119581-the-last-trip Follow The Last Trip on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/thelasttripcrimepod/ And Subscribe for all the updates on Patreon - https://www.patreon.com/TheLastTripPodcast

Charlotte is a single mom who was stalked by her child’s father. Despite noticing warning signs in the relationship, the couple moved in together when she found out she was pregnant. The relationship was toxic and the abuse escalated to the point Charlotte knew the relationship was not salvageable. When she ended things, her ex started stalking her. He sent harassing messages to her friends and family and persistently followed her around town, all while she was still pregnant. Things became violent during a road rage incident, and law enforcement urged Charlotte to seek immediate protection with a restraining order. CHECK OUT OUR PATREON: www.patreon.com/strictlystalking DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? E-MAIL US strictlystalkingpod@gmail.com Instagram: @strictlystalkingpod @feathergirl77 @jaked3000 SPONSORED BY: Noom - Sign up for your free trial today at Noom.com Progressive - Progressive.com

In 2020, Jaimie and I spoke with Dave Kroupa, who was stalked for over four years by a woman who was impersonating his ex, Cari Farver, to cover up her murder. In light of Dave’s story featured in the new Netflix True Crime Documentary, "Lover, Stalker, Killer", we present an encore of Too Close To Home: Stalking Dave Kroupa. If there’s a guest whose story we’ve featured in a past episode that you’d like us to revisit, email strictlystalkingpod@gmail.com or DM us on Instagram at strictlystalkingpod. We appreciate your listening and ongoing support for the survivors we’ve featured. Thank you! CHECK OUT OUR PATREON: www.patreon.com/strictlystalking DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? E-MAIL US strictlystalkingpod@gmail.com Instagram: @strictlystalkingpod @feathergirl77 @jaked3000

Sam was stalked by her ex-boyfriend. Following high school, Sam started dating a soldier a few years older than her, but soon moved out of the area. Despite the geographical distance after her relocation, they maintained their relationship from afar. During their time together, he closely monitored her every move, demanded frequent video chats, incessantly texted her, and accused her of cheating. Eventually, he managed to infiltrate all her social media and bank accounts. Recognizing the toxicity of the relationship, Sam's family urged her to end it, triggering an escalation in his stalking behavior. CHECK OUT OUR PATREON: www.patreon.com/strictlystalking DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? E-MAIL US strictlystalkingpod@gmail.com Instagram: @strictlystalkingpod @feathergirl77 @jaked3000 SPONSORED BY: Noom - Sign up for your free trial today at Noom.com Progressive - Progressive.com Thrive Market - Go to ThriveMarket.com/strictly for 30% off your first order, plus a FREE $60 gift! Minds of Madness (Promo) https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-minds-of-madness-true-crime-stories/id1191274361 https://open.spotify.com/show/4RKwfnVZfoHZcWeU0BHz9X https://www.instagram.com/themindsofmadness/ https://mindsofmadnesspodcast.com/

**The following episode of Strictly Stalking contains graphics depictions of domestic violence. Listener discretion is advised.** Natalie is a survivor of domestic violence, attempted murder, and stalking perpetrated by her ex, a former Navy Seal. She is a resilient, single mother who now faces the challenge of sharing custody of her three children with the very person who stalked and almost killed her. The challenges she faces as a survivor being mandated to co-parent with her stalker are immense. Despite everything she’s been through, Natalie is not allowing herself to be defined as a victim, but rather a survivor. She is now stepping forward to share her truth, aiming to empower and help others who may be navigating a similar experience. CHECK OUT OUR PATREON: www.patreon.com/strictlystalking SPONSOR LINKS: The Last Trip - Podcast Listen & Subscribe to The Last Trip - https://audioboom.com/channels/5119581-the-last-trip Follow The Last Trip on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/thelasttripcrimepod/ And Subscribe for all the updates on Patreon - https://www.patreon.com/TheLastTripPodcast DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? E-MAIL US strictlystalkingpod@gmail.com Instagram: @strictlystalkingpod @feathergirl77 @jaked3000

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