Dudes Spankin' Dudes

TL;DR version: Register for Hot Seat Vegas by Sunday, June 9 to make sure that you'll get a room placement in the same buildings as the other attendees. Also, we're looking for attendees who want to put on activities or meetings that help people connect in the conference rooms we've got for our event. Message RedSpankScott on Whappz if you'd like to host an event or activity, or if you're interested in helping run games for our planned Friday game night! More details about Hot Seat Vegas here: HotSeatVegas.com. More information on Tuscany Suites, Las Vegas here: https://www.tuscanylv.com/

Another Hot Seat Retreat has come and gone, and Scott is joined by Dean, who attended Hot Seat Retreat in Palm Springs for the first time in March and got spanked a whole lot. He tells us all about it. Mother Nature decided to make her presence known this year in some unpleasant ways, but we powered through, warming ourselves up nicely with the heat of some very, very sore bottoms. Listen on, dudes, if you want to hear how Hot Seat Retreat’s roleplay interest tracks brought some new opportunities for punishment to manifest. Valuable links: OTK LA: otkla.com/home Hot Seat Vegas: hotseatvegas.com/home Camp Red Tails: campredtails.com Music: Vivera / “I Don’t Give a Damn” (Instrumental Version) / courtesy of epidemicsound.com

Scott is joined by Hot Seat Retreat co-organizers Jaden and Doug to announce a new spanking weekend venture. We're going to Vegas, guys! Hot Seat Vegas will be launching July 10-14, 2024, at the Tuscany Suites and Casino. Registration opens on January 20, 2024. Listen on for more details. Visit our site here and sign up for our newsletters to keep track of the latest info: https://www.hotseatvegas.com/home

It’s a very common fantasy for dudes into spanking: You get pulled over for speeding or tailgating or some other moving violation by a gruff, authoritative police officer. Is there anything you can do to get out of a ticket? Maybe pay some other penalty right then and there? Perhaps bent over the hood of the police car? Perhaps with the police officer’s belt, or maybe some paddle he happens to be carrying around with him? You can live out that fantasy, either as the wayward driver or the cop. We’re joined by Dave, also known as Hunter Chase, who does roleplay spanking scenes as a police officer or prisoner with advice on living out these fantasies and incorporating handcuffs into spanking play safely. All this plus the latest on upcoming spanking events, including a very hot time coming to some butts this summer in Las Vegas! Links "Bad Lads and Strict Sirs" shop: https://blssworld.printify.me/products SWAT Studios: https://www.swat-studios.com/ Dave’s Twitter feed: https://twitter.com/hunter_chase_23 Music: Vivera / “I Don’t Give a Damn” (Instrumental Version) / courtesy of epidemicsound.com

Bad Ass Weekend 2023 in Georgia has come and gone, and Scott is joined by Justin and Trevor to talk about our seminars and some very hot spanking action. Scott talked about how to properly bully deserving bottom boys and ended up on both the giving and receiving end of some very hot bully play. Justin and Trevor made an example of themselves in an excellent public lesson about putting together genuine roleplay scenes in your spanking play. Justin and Trevor also have plenty to say about their amazing new book, “Bad Lads, Strict Sirs, and the World of Adult Male Spanking,” which had its release party at Bad Ass Weekend. Oh, and we have a spanking flag now. No, really, we do. Listen on, dudes! More on Justin and Trevor’s book: http://badladsandstrictsirs.com/ Buy it here: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CH7BLWSW Music: Vivera / “I Don’t Give a Damn” (Instrumental Version) / courtesy of epidemicsound.com

Good news! Moonburn m/m spanking parties will be returning in January 2024 at Sanctuary Studios in South Los Angeles. Listen for some quick details. Sanctuary Studios is at 13012 Athens Way, Los Angeles, CA 90061. Their website is here: https://www.sanctuarylax.com/. There will be more news to come in December. Looking forward to seeing you all back.

The Bad Boys Spanking Party will be returning to L.A. Leather Getaway on Thanksgiving weekend. It will take place from 4-7 p.m. on Saturday, Nov. 25 and is free to anybody registered to attend the weekend. For more information about attending L.A. Leather Getaway, visit clawinfo.org.

Episode 50 was supposed to be a celebration! Instead, Scott, joined by Paul, a.k.a. Copper, has to discuss the state of L.A.’s Moonburn parties. The upcoming October Moonburn party is the last we have scheduled for the foreseeable future. We talk about what has happened and why, and what the future holds. We are working on keeping Moonburn going, but it’s gonna take a little work. We also share fond memories of Moonburn and our friend Vern, who was a pivotal part of Man’s Hand Films, Camp Red Tails, and the Moonburn parties and just recently passed away. All this, plus reminders about the pending Bad Ass Weekend in October (Scott’s giving another presentation on Bully Play) and the pending release of Steve and Mike’s book on spanking, “Bad Lads, Strict Sirs, and the World of Adult Male Spanking.” More on Bad Ass Weekend: BawEvent.Com More on Hot Seat Retreat: HotSeatPS.com More on the OTK LA spanking parties: OTKLA.com Music: Vivera / “I Don’t Give a Damn” (Instrumental Version) / courtesy of epidemicsound.com

Scott and Jaden are happy to announce that registration for 2024's Hot Seat Retreat will open on Saturday, Sept. 16, starting at 10 a.m. Pacific (1 p.m. Eastern). There are major changes coming to the room assignment process as we shift to a lottery system, which Jaden explains. And Scott announces an addition of "interest tracks" for attendees who want to focus on activities involving certain types of roleplay. There is more info to come! Visit Hot Seat Retreat's website for more info: HotSeatPS.com Follow Hot Seat Retreat on Twitter/X: https://twitter.com/HotSeatRetreat

Ow Canada! Ryan joins Scott this episode to discuss CanSpanks, a spanking event at Fox Haven, a big, isolated campground in Lavigne, Ontario. Their next gathering is coming in September, and Ryan’s got some hot stories about what happens up there. And in the fantasy life of spanking, Ryan, an unrepentant brat, talks about how he best uses his bratty behavior to get what he deserves, how to recognize when tops are reacting well to your bratty behavior and when to turn the brat on and off. All this and some updates on some more spanking events coming up in our community. CanSpanks: Sept. 4-10, 2023. https://www.canspanks.com/foxhaven Bad Ass Weekend: Oct 11-15, 2023. Bawevent.com. OTK LA: Next party, August 11, 2023. OTKLA.com Hot Seat Retreat, March 13-17, 2024. Hotseatps.com Music: Vivera / “I Don’t Give a Damn” (Instrumental Version) / courtesy of epidemicsound.com

For Episode 48, Steve from Episode 46 is back to join Scott to talk about switches. Not the implement—though we should probably talk about that, too, in a future episode. Rather, we discuss what it’s like to be somebody who craves both giving and receiving spankings as opposed to just taking on one role. Many, many men in the spanking community identify as a switch, but we haven’t yet had an episode focusing specifically on what it’s like. We discuss both our real-life experiences trying to navigate our alternating modes of play as well as how the desire to both give and receive affects our fantasies and how we pursue them. Music: Vivera / “I Don’t Give a Damn” (Instrumental Version) / courtesy of epidemicsound.com

It's time to get ready to register for Hot Seat Retreat 2023, from March 16-19 at CCBC resort in Palm Springs. Registration will open at 10 a.m. Pacific Time (1 p.m. Eastern) on Nov. 19th. Rooms will be reserved on a first-come first served basis, so be ready when registration opens if you want a chance to stay at the resort. We also have rate agreements with two overflow motels. And we're making everything a little bit easier by allowing you to pre-pay registration. Scott is joined by Jaden and Doug to go over some of the basics. Please visit the site here and subscribe to our newsletter so you don't miss any developments: https://www.hotseatps.com/ And Hot Seat Retreat's Twitter feed is here: https://twitter.com/HotSeatRetreat

Scott is joined by The Sweet (and briefly by an awkwardly meowing cat) to discuss the fun of Bad Ass Weekend 2022. And there was a lot of fun to be had. Scott got to be a bully and get punished for it. The Sweet got spanked for some real life bad manners. More spankings were dished out at Uno games and wrestling matches. An amazing time was had by all. The Sweet can be followed on Twitter @sweet_as_aheart: https://twitter.com/sweet_as_aheart There’s still time to register for the L.A. Leather Getaway! https://www.clawinfo.org/ And be sure to register for our Hot Seat Retreat newsletter for information about registration opening soon. Hotseatps.com. Music: Vivera / “I Don’t Give a Damn” (Instrumental Version) / courtesy of epidemicsound.com

The Bad Boys Spanking Party is back for 2022 on Thanksgiving weekend, as is CLAW, now rechristened in its L.A. home as the L.A. Leather Getaway. The Spanking Party will be held in the Pasadena Room of the Westin Bonaventure on Saturday, Nov. 26, from 4-7 p.m. The party is free to those registered for the L.A. Leather Getaway. It's $20 for those who just want to come to the party. Scott provides all the details. For information about the L.A. Leather Getaway and for registration and room rates, visit: https://www.clawinfo.org/. Hope to see you all at the party

For Episode 46, Scott is joined by Stephen and Mike, two members of our spanking community who are working on a special project: a book about our scene and its members. They chat about their plan, what they’re looking for, what they are hoping to produce, and how you can participate. If you want to participate in their survey, visit: https://forms.gle/3hnCcTTPgg4qa1DQ6 Music: Vivera / “I Don’t Give a Damn” (Instrumental Version) / courtesy of epidemicsound.com

As Monkeypox spreads within the male community this summer, Scott felt it necessary to record a special piece with warnings and tips. Just because you're not engaging in sex, that doesn't mean you're not at risk of either getting or spreading Monkeypox. Some information from the CDC on social gatherings, safe sex, and Monkeypox here: https://www.cdc.gov/poxvirus/monkeypox/pdf/MPX_Social_Gatherings_Safer_Sex-508.pdf

Some spanking implements are rigid. Some spanking implements are flexible. By the same token, some guys have rigid spanking fantasies where the scene plays out in very particular pre-determined ways. Some others have more flexible fantasies that revolve a bit more about evolving or improvisational play based on reactions during the scene. Both approaches (and both types of implements) are perfectly valid in the spanking scene. But it’s important to know the ins and outs of not just the tools but the types of play. A person with a rigid spanking fantasy may have a difficult time adjusting to a more flexible player and vice-versa. Scott is joined by Jaden from Whappz to discuss and advise. Don’t forget, Bad Ass Weekend is coming up in October: Bawevent.com. And mark your schedules for Hot Seat Retreat next March 16-19, 2023: hotseatps.com. Music: Vivera / “I Don’t Give a Damn” (Instrumental Version) / courtesy of epidemicsound.com

Our second Hot Seat Retreat has come and gone, and Scott is joined by attendees Randy (a.k.a. RedBearSpanker) and Tony (a.k.a. BearSpanks) to discuss all the fun of the event. Lots of swats were dished out, Scott got bullied and wedgied quite a bit, a pool party led to some wet bottoms getting paddled, and a good time was (mostly) had by all. In other news, Dudes Spankin’ Dudes now has a Discord server. If you want to join, message Scott on the Twitter feed (https://twitter.com/DudesSpankDudes) or look up Scott on Whappz (RedSpankScott) and send him a message. Music: Vivera / “I Don’t Give a Damn” (Instrumental Version) / courtesy of epidemicsound.com

It’s Hot Seat Retreat time! But for those of you unable to join us out in Palm Springs, Scott managed to squeeze in a fun episode about some important spanking history connected to Man’s Hand Films, which has just recently shut down as a company. Scott is joined by Mike (a.k.a. StricTop) and Phil (a.k.a. SFspank), who have launched a brand new m/m spanking art archive. The initial focus is on the artwork and contents of old issues of the now-defunct “Red Tails” magazine that Man’s Hand Films produced. We talk about how they started the archive, the work involved, why it’s important, and commissioning new art from erotic artists online. And we also reminisce about the days of Man’s Hand videos and some of our favorite old movies of theirs. Check out Mike and Phil’s archive here: www.gayspankart.com. Mike's Twitter feed is here: https://twitter.com/spank_gay Music: Vivera / “I Don’t Give a Damn” (Instrumental Version) / courtesy of epidemicsound.com

Hey out there to any dudes attending Hot Seat Retreat. If you’re looking to get your hands on Scott’s ass while he’s involved in his hosting duties, please listen to these guidelines. Yes, Scott wants to be bullied and spanked all weekend long while he's serving as host and he'll be attending as a bottom. He takes a few minutes here to outline his consent and what he’s giving all of you permission to do to him. His poor butt is already quivering in anticipation for what’s to come. Please visit our site at HotSeatPS.com for info about the event. If you’re already registered to attend, please get active on our forums as folks schedule fun spanking activities. Music: Vivera / “I Don’t Give a Damn” (Instrumental Version) / courtesy of epidemicsound.com