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Contact me for a private session, visit www.robertjamescoaching.com/contact This podcast is all about OCD and anxiety and how we can have a better relationship with it. If you struggle with OCD or another anxiety disorder and want to learn how to manage it better, then this podcast is for you.

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Contact me for a private session, visit www.robertjamescoaching.com/contact This podcast is all about OCD and anxiety and how we can have a better relationship with it. If you struggle with OCD or another anxiety disorder and want to learn how to manage it better, then this podcast is for you.

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Having Patience About The Impatience To Improve From OCD

5/1/2024
Book your free session directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com Want to support the podcast in return for exclusive content and more access to me? Check out my Patreon tiers, any help is much appreciated :) www.patreon.com/user?u=88044382 Welcome to episode 387 of The OCD and Anxiety Podcast! As we near our 400th episode, we're taking a look at patience and our relationship to it, especially when dealing with complex challenges like obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD). Inspired by our coach Robert James, we are going to explore various ways we can cultivate patience and turn frustrating setbacks into opportunities for growth. This episode delves deep into the often turbulent journey of dealing with OCD. We'll talk about the highs and lows that come with the disorder, how to manage impatience during recovery, and the importance of acknowledging setbacks as a normal part of progress. We'll also touch on vital strategies, such as exercising self-compassion and understanding the unpredictability of life. Often, when we're making progress with OCD, it seems like triggers increase rather than decrease. This could be our brain trying to lead us back to old, familiar habits. Recognizing and resisting this can be crucial in smoothly navigating the path to recovery. The episode also explores this phenomenon, drawing insights from acceptance commitment therapy, exposure work, and the teachings of Carl Jung. As we journey through this discussion, you'll learn how to cultivate patience effectively. By accepting the challenging emotions that come with setbacks and resisting the urge to feed our frustrations, we can actually come out stronger and more determined to fight OCD. Don't miss out on this insightful discussion that aims to empower you with practical tools and the mindset you need to combat impatience and setbacks in your journey with OCD. Start living the life you choose, not the one chosen by your fears. Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.

Duration:00:16:27

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How Judgment Can Make OCD Worse

4/27/2024
Book your free session directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com Want to support the podcast in return for exclusive content and more access to me? Check out my Patreon tiers, any help is much appreciated :) www.patreon.com/user?u=88044382 Welcome to Episode 386 of The OCD and Anxiety Podcast, the show that provides insight, positivity, and empowerment for dealing with anxiety disorders, brought to you by Robert James Coaching. In this episode, we delve into the powerful role that judgment plays in intensifying the symptoms of obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD). We shine a light on the destructive impact of our inner critic, revealing how it feeds on our self-esteem and propels us into a cycle of negative self-judgments. We uncover the nature of the inner critic as a part of our psyche, one that does not reason or empathize but instead instigates attacks and criticism. Take a journey with us into the realm of the inner critic and its relationship with self-esteem. Embrace the realization that while the inner critic might make us feel vulnerable, we can learn to release judgment and permit acceptance to evolve. Get clarity on the illusion of control associated with OCD and dispel a few common misconceptions about self-esteem and OCD. With insightful advice and pragmatic strategies at your fingertips, this episode is a valuable guide for anyone dealing with OCD or trying to comprehend their internal dialogue better. By the end of this episode, you will understand that the journey isn't about eliminating the inner critic but fostering a healthier relationship with it. Remember, you are not alone in this struggle. Boosting Self-Esteem Amidst Social Media Pressure and Judgment In today's episode, we also explore the unsettling influence of social media on self-esteem. Given our age of constant online sharing, we live in an era where people frequently showcase their best moments or traits, painting an artificial portrait of continuous happiness and success. This portrayal inevitably leads to comparisons and self-judgment, skewing our self-perception in a negative light. Compounded by a consumerist culture that ties fulfillment and happiness to material possessions, we dissect how these projected expectations and social comparisons give rise to anxiety disorders like OCD. We underscore the importance of self-compassion and awareness amid these superficial societal expectations, and how journaling can prove to be a useful tool for introspection. Useful resources and free sessions are available on our website to assist you in navigating through these emotional challenges. Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.

Duration:00:19:01

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Holding Your Head Up High: Navigating OCD With Confidence

4/24/2024
Book your free session directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com Want to support the podcast in return for exclusive content and more access to me? Check out my Patreon tiers, any help is much appreciated :) www.patreon.com/user?u=88044382 Welcome to The OCD and Anxiety Podcast. The aim of this podcast is to encourage individuals who are battling with anxiety disorders, specifically Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD), and equip them with tools to have a more positive approach towards their conditions and the confidence to start living the life they choose. In today's podcast, we discuss a rather challenging topic - navigating OCD with confidence. Many times, people struggling with OCD and anxiety fail to maintain their confidence, hence, making it harder for them to manage their disorders.Regardless, it is crucial to build and maintain a positive outlook and inner strength to overcome adversity just as Helen Keller and many others did. We understand that taking on the challenge of OCD requires resolve, resilience, and inner strength. Therefore, this episode stresses the importance of practicing different therapy techniques such as exposure work, acceptance commitment therapy, and building confidence in oneself. Included are inspirational quotes, personal experiences, and plausible solutions to keep you motivated and hopeful. We assure you that no matter what stage of life you are in, maintaining balance in all areas of life is crucial. When life is interesting, you are less likely to get caught up in anxious thoughts. Also, being compassionate to oneself goes hand-in-hand with the quest to gain more confidence while navigating OCD. Whether or not you are successful in initially building this confidence, it is okay. What's important is that you do not stop trying. Eventually, with time, it will get easier and hopefully tell positively on managing the OCD. Remember, you can always reach out for a free session. Just head to the website www.robertjamescoaching.com and leave a message. Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.

Duration:00:16:34

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Understanding OCD: Why Some People Are More Prone and The Hope For Change

4/20/2024
Book your free session directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com Want to support the podcast in return for exclusive content and more access to me? Check out my Patreon tiers, any help is much appreciated :) www.patreon.com/user?u=88044382 Welcome to episode 384 of The OCD and Anxiety Podcast. Today, I'll be discussing the topic of why some individuals seem to be more inclined towards developing OCD and obsessive behaviour. In this episode, I delve into the concept of 'nature versus nurture,' explaining how both genetics and environmental influences play crucial roles in predisposing us to OCD and anxiety disorders. I shed light on the complexities of OCD, emphasising how our daily lifestyle, surrounding environment, and level of childhood trauma can contribute to our nervous systems becoming more sensitive and anxious. I also explore the fascinating subject of epigenetics. This emerging field of science studies how our behaviours and environment can trigger changes that affect the way our genes work, which can sometimes be passed on to future generations. It offers a hopeful outlook for those of us wrestling with OCD, as it suggests the power of our environment to switch on or off certain genetic tendencies. And while it's crucial to acknowledge our inherited dispositions towards anxious thinking, it's equally essential to remember that our destiny is not fixed. A key focus of the podcast is the message of hope. I believe that, regardless of how long you've been struggling with OCD or how deeply rooted your fears may seem, you can change the narrative. OCD may feel like a trap, but through acknowledgement, acceptance, informed strategies, and sustained practice, you can shift behaviour patterns, attain emotional resilience, and alter your nervous system responses. Join me in this episode for an enlightening discussion on OCD, its underlying causes, and the hope for transformation despite its challenges Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.

Duration:00:12:18

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Try This When OCD Strikes

4/17/2024
Book your free session directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com Want to support the podcast in return for exclusive content and more access to me? Check out my Patreon tiers, any help is much appreciated :) www.patreon.com/user?u=88044382 Welcome to Episode 383 of The OCD & Anxiety Podcast where we dive into the complexities of living with OCD and anxiety. In this episode, we begin by recognizing the daily struggles one faces when dealing with these disorders, and provide an easy way to access free support through robertjamescoaching.com. Diving into our main topic, we discuss how difficult it can be when your OCD catches you off guard. In those moments, it feels more natural to give in to obsessions, performing rituals or compulsions, and ultimately gets stuck in an unproductive cycle. Throughout this episode, we take a closer look at resisting these impulses and rather focusing on accepting discomfort rather than pushing it away. We also delve into the idea that OCD is often a way to suppress difficult emotions such as fear, anxiety, anger, guilt, and shame. People with OCD tend to push these feelings away, but we suggest a new approach of allowing these feelings to rise, acknowledging them and learning from the experience. We also discuss the concept of viewing OCD triggers more as challenges instead of threats and focusing more on overcoming them. In this episode, we introduce the concept of a 10 to 30 second rule to slowdown when experiencing a trigger. This means paying direct attention to the feeling of anxiety, not judging or pushing it away, but instead curiously observing the experience. Through this method, we encourage listeners to change their relationship with these difficult emotions to navigate these unexpected triggers better. As always, we wrap the episode with a reminder of our offer of a free session from robertjamescoaching.com and ensure listeners that the information in the podcast is for informational purposes only, and is not intended to be a substitute for actual medical or mental health advice. Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.

Duration:00:13:05

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Should You TryTo Eliminate Or Master Anxiety?

4/13/2024
Book your free session directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com Want to support the podcast in return for exclusive content and more access to me? Check out my Patreon tiers, any help is much appreciated :) www.patreon.com/user?u=88044382 Welcome to Episode 382 of "The OCD and Anxiety Podcast" where we offer insights into having a healthy relationship with anxiety disorders. We delve into whether the goal should be to completely eliminate anxiety or master it, with the emphasis leaning towards mastering anxiety as a more beneficial long-term approach. Anxiety is a natural, human sensation that has been with us since birth. It's challenging to truly eliminate it, but learning to manage or 'master' this emotion can lead to a more fulfilling life. Anxiety shouldn't always be interpreted as negative. Sometimes, it can be a trigger, signalling us to step out from our comfort zones and challenge ourselves, aiding personal growth. The episode discusses the importance of exposure work that allows us to practice and become familiar with experiencing discomfort. This understanding provides a positive light to anxiety, showing that it isn't necessarily a sign that things are going wrong, but rather, an invitation to explore our limits and learn more about ourselves. Whether it be public speaking, relationships or other fear-inducing situations, managing anxiety demands patience, acceptance and compassion towards the discomfort we experience. The idea isn’t to eliminate anxiety but to co-exist with it, acknowledging its presence without letting it dominate our lives. Particular stress is laid on the fact that while it's great to relax sometimes, we shouldn't always aim for constant calmness. Instead, the emphasis should be on how to manage those anxious feelings effectively, navigate through them and become stronger for it. Please remember to consult with a mental health professional when you're dealing with issues related to OCD or anxiety. A professional can guide you better through the process and ensure you handle these emotions safely. Tune in to the podcast to broaden your perspective on anxiety and OCD and begin the journey to reclaim control over your fears Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.

Duration:00:16:42

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Sustainable Growth For A Life With Less OCD

4/10/2024
Book your free session directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com Want to support the podcast in return for exclusive content and more access to me? Check out my Patreon tiers, any help is much appreciated :) www.patreon.com/user?u=88044382 Welcome to episode 381 of The OCD and Anxiety Podcast by Robert James Coaching, a platform geared towards establishing a healthier relationship with anxiety disorders. This episode is designed to help you reclaim control over your life and veer away from the course charted by your fears. Our topic for today's discussion is the key to rendering patient and sustainable growth from Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD). Together, we will unpack successful strategies to maintain progress, manage setbacks, and preserve any gains achieved throughout your journey. The goal is to foster an increasingly peaceful future and a lifestyle free of the reins of OCD. I understand that dealing with OCD is an uphill battle that demands incessant pushing against your comfort zone, the persistence to stay on track with foundational therapies such as Exposure and Acceptance Commitment Therapy, keeping up with new routines, and warding off the perilous claws of burnout. These tasks are challenging, but with the right mindset and approach, you can turn these challenges into stepping stones towards a healthier mental state. By recognizing, accepting, and responding appropriately to life's inevitable upsets—such as relationship tumults, professional disputes, or other life events—we can navigate our path to recovery effectively. Patience, self-awareness, and understanding that setbacks are part of the process can fortify our resolve in the face of adversity. This podcast episode also lays emphasis on the importance of habit formation and the pitfalls of setting too many goals simultaneously. Using the concept of sustainable atomic habits, I explain how focusing on a few small but consistent actions or routines can lead to lasting growth over time. This way, you mitigate undue stress and overwhelm, and ensure continuous personal development despite the torrents of anxiety or OCD distracting you. Finally, remember that setbacks are not fail-ends but opportunities for self-reflection, evaluation, and change in strategy. The key is not to strive for a perfect journey but for a successful one. Join me on this episode to gather more insights on overcoming OCD and living a more peaceful and joy-filled life. Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.

Duration:00:15:39

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How To Be Able To Do Nothing & Still Not Ruminate

4/10/2024
Book your free session directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com Want to support the podcast in return for exclusive content and more access to me? Check out my Patreon tiers, any help is much appreciated :) www.patreon.com/user?u=88044382 In episode 379, we delve into the often overlooked importance of embracing stillness and 'doing nothing'. Often our fast-paced lives neglect the importance of these silent moments. However, learning to be at peace in stillness, without ruminating, is a crucial skill to help manage OCD and anxiety. As we further engage with this concept, an interesting correlation is drawn between OCD and boredom. The idea that the obsessive thinking tied to OCD can serve as a distraction from monotony is explored, hinting towards the possibility that OCD might be a mechanism developed to counteract boredom—a form of undisguised anxiety. The challenge of idle states for those struggling with OCD is acknowledged, but a constructive solution is offered—embracing mindfulness. By directing focus onto the present moment and grounding oneself, it can offer relaxation and relief from the cycle of thoughts. Practical tips on bringing mindfulness into these idle periods are provided, such as paying keen attention to your immediate surroundings and tuning into the senses. By focusing on what you can see, hear, smell, or touch, it keeps the attention grounded in the present moment, providing a refreshing rest from intrusive thoughts. In conclusion, the power of doing nothing is recognized as a positive coping strategy for those dealing with OCD and anxiety. However, it must be approached mindfully, ensuring that in moments of 'doing nothing', we stay connected to the present moment and grant ourselves much-needed peace from ruminating thoughts Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.

Duration:00:14:22

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Understanding the Link Between Procrastination and Anxiety

4/6/2024
Book your free session directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com Want to support the podcast in return for exclusive content and more access to me? Check out my Patreon tiers, any help is much appreciated :) www.patreon.com/user?u=88044382 In the 380th episode of The OCD and Anxiety Podcast, your host explores the often overlooked but deeply impactful link between procrastination and anxiety. This episode delves into how the struggle of putting things off and waiting for the 'perfect time' to act can exacerbate anxiety and OCD, further disrupting daily living. Discussion points include understanding anxiety-induced procrastination, identifying both obvious and non-obvious areas of procrastination in your life, and how the idea of perfectionism can often lead to avoidance and further anxiety. The conversation also spotlights the importance of acceptance and the powerful role it plays in the process of managing anxiety. The episode winds up with a valuable insight into how deflecting difficult emotions can lead to unhealthy behaviors like obsessive-compulsive tendencies and procrastination. Moreover, it highlights the benefits of getting in touch with our emotions and body sensations for a healthier approach towards dealing with anxiety. Whether you are a long-time sufferer of anxiety or OCD, or you are just beginning to explore the world of mental health, this episode offers helpful perspectives and practical steps towards understanding and dealing with procrastination linked to anxiety Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.

Duration:00:14:58

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Build Self-Compassion for OCD With This Body Focused Meditation

3/30/2024
Book your free session directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com Want to support the podcast in return for exclusive content and more access to me? Check out my Patreon tiers, any help is much appreciated :) www.patreon.com/user?u=88044382 Welcome to Episode 378 of The OCD and Anxiety Podcast by Robert James Coaching. We're here to help you build a more positive outlook on anxiety disorders and reclaim control to live the life you choose. This episode is devoted to sharing a self-compassion body focus meditation, a powerful tool that has played a significant role in my own journey with OCD. While everyone wants to live an authentic life, we often get trapped in our fears and obsessions dictated by OCD. We all yearn to let go and feel liberated from these persistent patterns. But the issue with OCD is finding ourselves stuck in our thoughts, going in circles with compulsions. The solution to this problem lies not in thinking, but in feeling—leaning into the discomfort and inviting self-compassion into our lives. Self-compassion is more than a buzzword in mental health, it's about accepting ourselves as we are, including our struggles, anxiety, and mistakes. It's a journey towards letting go of perfectionism and embracing acceptance. With this episode comes a guide to a meditation exercise that brings you into your body, focusing on the heart and breathing in a 'white light' of kindness and compassion. As you focus on this meditation, you'll feel a sense of peace and freedom from OCD, anxiety, and other thought patterns that keep you stuck. It's all about building self-compassion and acceptance, two powerful allies that can transform the way you manage your mental health. If you have any questions or need further guidance, feel free to reach out. Your journey to a healthier, happier life is just a few breaths away Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.

Duration:00:14:12

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Letting Go Of OCD: The Resolve & Resilience To Make The Change

3/27/2024
Book your free session directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com Want to support the podcast in return for exclusive content and more access to me? Check out my Patreon tiers, any help is much appreciated :) www.patreon.com/user?u=88044382 Welcome to episode 377 of the OCD and Anxiety Podcast. This episode tackles the challenges of OCD, the persistence to break free from the entangling mindset, and the move towards a healthier mental state. Emphasizing that letting go of OCD, albeit arduous, is not impossible and adversaries could turn into accomplishments. This episode provides encouragement and supportive words to those trying to overcome limits posed by OCD and anxiety. Drawing on personal experiences and observations, the podcast sheds light on the misconceptions about OCD and the undue judgment subjected to those suffering from it. It underscores the importance of concentrating on maintaining an inner peace, regardless of external or internal criticisms and prejudices. By tackling the often overlooked aspect of OCD- the relentless mental labor that goes behind maintaining a semblance of normality, this episode offers a profound understanding of the disorder. It underlines the extraordinary grit, determination, and tireless work individuals with OCD put in daily. As the episode evolves, it navigates the difficult road to replacing old, harmful habits with healthier coping mechanisms. It emphasizes learning to accept setbacks and mistakes as part of the recovery process rather than signs of weakness. Ultimately, this episode reassures that while hurdles exist, progress may come with detours, and life may not always be beautiful, it is still worth fighting for and living to the fullest. It encourages reorienting your focus away from perfection and towards small, consistent actions that lead to self-improvement and living in harmony with one's values. Combining understanding and empathy with real-world experience, this episode offers valuable insights and strategies to those grappling with OCD and anxiety. Join us on this journey to better mental health, a gradual but invaluable process, bringing you one step closer to living the life you want. Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.

Duration:00:15:14

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Breaking Down Limiting Beliefs

3/23/2024
Book your free session directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com Want to support the podcast in return for exclusive content and more access to me? Check out my Patreon tiers, any help is much appreciated :) www.patreon.com/user?u=88044382 Welcome to episode 376 of The OCD and Anxiety Podcast by Robert James Coaching, where we discuss strategies to foster a healthier relationship with anxiety disorders and push past the boundaries that fear has imposed on us. In today's episode, we delve into overcoming limiting beliefs, specifically those revolving around OCD. We explore not only directly confronting these beliefs but also an indirect approach of tackling them. This involves embarking on journeys we previously thought were impossible, thereby proving our self-imposed limitations wrong. Discussing the theories of renown psychologist Carl Jung, we probe the harmful impacts of black and white thinking, emphasizing that the embrace of "grey" areas is pivotal to fighting OCD. We touch on practical techniques such as the Wim Hof method of cold exposure, encouraging you to challenge your fears in a safe and responsible way. Also recounted is a personal journey of learning to juggle as an example of a challenging but achievable task that helps break disabling beliefs about one's abilities. This episode is peppered with insights aiming to inspire listeners to question their own limiting beliefs and consider activities or skills they have always found daunting. The main message is to break down problems into manageable tasks and relish the empowering sense of accomplishment once achieved. Remember, we are not victims of OCD but have the ability to overcome it with a dash of discomfort, determination, and dedication. References https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC10392899/ Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.

Duration:00:17:07

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Three Tips For Finding Peace From OCD Rumination

3/20/2024
Book your free session directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com Want to support the podcast in return for exclusive content and more access to me? Check out my Patreon tiers, any help is much appreciated :) www.patreon.com/user?u=88044382 Welcome to episode 375 of The OCD and Anxiety Podcast, hosted by Robert James Coaching. This episode provides actionable strategies on managing OCD and anxiety, with a particular emphasis on developing a healthier relationship with these disorders. Learn three effective strategies designed to diminish obsessive ruminations and make choices not guided by fear but by personal values. If you’re grappling with OCD or anxiety, seize the opportunity of a free session with Robert to start regaining control. Taking a cue from Virginia Woolf's profound quote, “You cannot find peace by avoiding life", this episode motivates listeners to face discomfort and uncertainty head-on, rather than shying away from them. Outstanding progress against anxiety disorders is often achieved by allowing tough emotions to surface while simultaneously contributing to regular life activities. The podcast delves into the significance of mindful living as a vehicle towards peace. To aid understanding, Robert presents an approach that involves engaging in ordinary activities with utmost focus and spending time connected to nature. By sharing personal experiences and tips on integrating mindfulness into daily activities, this episode arms you with the tools to break free from the exhausting cycle of rumination. The episode concludes with a strong endorsement of spending quality time in nature and its proven benefits for mental health. Alongside mindfulness practice, appreciating the simplicity and beauty of nature can significantly bolster mental well-being. The strategies outlined in this episode aim to help listeners manage daily anxieties and obsessive thoughts by promoting mindfulness and present-moment focus. By engaging in valued activities, practicing 'postponement' of thoughts, and retraining our focus, the episode provides practical methods to manage obsessive thoughts and compulsions more effectively. For additional support and further discussion on these strategies, make use of the available resources, including the Patreon community. Remember, this guidance is not meant to replace professional mental health advice, so stay tuned in for more practical strategies and tips targeting OCD and anxiety Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.

Duration:00:19:50

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OCD- A Journey Of Struggles, Complexities & Victories

3/16/2024
Book your free session directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com Want to support the podcast in return for exclusive content and more access to me? Check out my Patreon tiers, any help is much appreciated :) www.patreon.com/user?u=88044382 In episode 374 of the The OCD and Anxiety Podcast, we delve into the intricate realities of living with obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD), busting common misconceptions, and exploring monumental challenges faced by those dealing with this disorder daily. This deep-dive discussion aims not only to foster understanding amongst OCD sufferers but also to enlighten those who desire to genuinely comprehend this widely misunderstood condition. We begin by exploring a powerful quotable insight from author David Adam that perfectly encapsulates the inhibiting effect of OCD on an individual’s life. We then dissect the everyday struggles faced by those living with OCD, focusing on the quest for a 'just right' sensation as opposed to a superficial need for neatness and order. We also touch on the enlightening journey of self-discovery, self-compassion, acceptance and spiritual introspection – an often overlooked outcome of living with the disorder. The episode further explores the role of anxiety in our lives against the popular belief that it should be completely eradicated. We argue that anxiety is an important signal to our areas of concern and a tool to enhance our focus. In our segment 'Victories', we highlight the importance of recognizing and celebrating small wins on the journey of overcoming OCD. The episode also features my personal story and how incorporating small changes in my daily routine led to substantial improvements in managing OCD. Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.

Duration:00:20:38

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The Importance of Fun Despite Anxiety and OCD

3/13/2024
Book your free session directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com Want to support the podcast in return for exclusive content and more access to me? Check out my Patreon tiers, any help is much appreciated :) www.patreon.com/user?u=88044382 Welcome to episode 373 of the OCD and Anxiety Podcast by Robert James Coaching. In this episode, we delve into the significance of finding enjoyment in life, especially while dealing with OCD and anxiety. Emphasizing the power of planned fun activities, we explore how integrating amusement and joy into your daily life can be instrumental in promoting mental health. We look at various research indicating the benefits of fun and leisure, not only for mitigating the intensity of obsessions and compulsions but also for strengthening bonds with people in your social circles. We also discuss concepts like 'flow' state, teasing out its significance in overcoming OCD and anxiety. Amid anxiety-inducing thoughts and repetitive compulsions, having structured fun can bring about relief, helping you refocus your attention onto more helpful and joy-inducing aspects of life. Despite the presence of OCD, fostering a habit of indulging in activities you love and engaging in good-hearted fun can potentially enable you to reconnect with your authentic self. Whether it's listening to a comedy podcast, going for a run, or engaging in intellectual conversations, finding ways to incorporate more fun in your day-to-day life can reap immense benefits. A reminder for those struggling with anxiety and OCD: Robert James Coaching offers free sessions which can be availed through their website. Also, you can become a supporter of this podcast through Patreon or subscribe to the Instagram handle @robertjamescoachinguk and Youtube channel. This podcast episode serves as an encouraging call to action for individuals struggling with OCD and anxiety: to not wait for the anxiety to subside but to take action today, to live life amidst the struggle, allowing all positive emotions to unfold naturally. References https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5597001/ https://www.nytimes.com/2021/12/23/well/mind/having-fun-suceeding-coronavirus-pandemic.html#:~:text=When%20people%20are%20having%20actual,and%20it%27s%20good%20for%20us. Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.

Duration:00:14:53

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Breathe Through It: OCD & The Power of The Breath

3/9/2024
Book your free session directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com Want to support the podcast in return for exclusive content and more access to me? Check out my Patreon tiers, any help is much appreciated :) www.patreon.com/user?u=88044382 In episode 372 of The OCD and Anxiety Podcast, Robert James shares his v insights on how breath work can serve as a powerful tool to manage obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD) and anxiety. Drawing from his personal journey and professional wisdom, he explores the transformative potential of breath control in disrupting cycles of anxiety and obsessive rumination. Robert broaches the subject from a unique perspective, asserting that optimal breathing routines can remarkably ameliorate life quality. He expounds on the pivotal role of proper breathing in helping us concentrate on our goals, values, and passions, rather than dodging fears and worries. A centerpiece of the episode is Robert's explanation of how to shift focus from trying to eradicate discomforting thoughts to anchoring ourselves in the present using our breath. He provides expert tips on various mindfulness techniques and meditation disciplines, urging listeners to make breathwork a part of their daily routines to boost their overall well-being. Notably, the episode enriches listeners with helpful resources, practical breathing exercises, and motivational quotes to help them integrate breathwork seamlessly into their schedules. This leads towards fostering a healthier, less anxious life. This episode also delves into the potential benefits of famed breathwork methods like the Wim Hof Method. While shedding light on its calming effects and anti-inflammatory properties, Robert graciously reminds the audience to always follow safety guidelines to prevent adverse side-effects like dizziness or fainting. In conclusion, listeners are treated to the exciting prospect of reclaiming their lives from anxiety and OCD through these simple, yet ground-breaking breathing techniques. Still, listeners are reminded to approach the information as supplementary resources and not as replacements for professional medical or mental health advice. References https://www.wimhofmethod.com/science https://www.verywellmind.com/abdominal-breathing-2584115 https://www.mindful.org/everyday-mindfulness-with-jon-kabat-zinn/ Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.

Duration:00:19:48

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New Study Suggests Exercise Could Be More Beneficial For Mental Health Than Medicines

3/6/2024
Book your free session directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com Want to support the podcast in return for exclusive content and more access to me? Check out my Patreon tiers, any help is much appreciated :) www.patreon.com/user?u=88044382 Welcome to episode 371 of The OCD and Anxiety Podcast – the treasure trove of striking insights, and empowering knowledge on dealing with OCD and Anxiety. Today, we embark on an exploration journey, aiming to comprehend the positive implications of exercising on our mental health. We delve into a recently published research study undertaken by Australia’s leading university. The promising study lends credibility to the fact that physical activities have profound effects on tackling disorders like anxiety and depression. We decode the findings of this research, expounding on how the inclusion of physical activities in treatment plans can lead to remarkable improvements. Focusing on my personal experiences, I elucidate the advantages of regular exercising when dealing with OCD. Physical exercise, while it may not be a complete solution, plays a crucial role in altering our hormonal responses, changing our mindset, and, most importantly, making us embrace life with a lighter perspective. These beneficial impacts of regular exercising help us to effectively deal with the whirls of OCD. Moreover, we highlight the results of an extensive meta-analysis undertaken by the University of South Australia that included over 100,000 participants. The study underscores the potency of physical activities in alleviating the symptoms of depression, anxiety, and distress. More importantly, it advocates for the adoption of exercising as a primary treatment for these disorders. The research establishes that even short-term workouts can bring about significant changes. It points out that high-intensity workouts generate better improvements in depression and anxiety, while medium-length exercises tend to have more effective results compared to long-duration ones. The research emphasizes that variations of exercising - incorporating activities like walking, resistance training, pilates, or yoga - can all contribute to enhancing mental health. As we arrive at the end of this exploration journey, the realization dawns upon us that while exercises may not be the ultimate panacea, they indeed make the symptoms of OCD easier to manage. They bring positivity, elevate confidence, and subdue anxiety levels, thus equipping us better to confront and overcome the challenges thrust upon us by OCD. In conclusion, I would like to reiterate that any decision to incorporate exercises should be preceded by a discussion with your doctor or healthcare expert. It’s pivotal to combine exercising with the ongoing medical treatments, rather than considering it as an alternative. Always remember, every step towards regular exercising is a step towards better mental health. REFERENCES https://bjsm.bmj.com/content/57/18/1203 https://www.unisa.edu.au/media-centre/Releases/2023/exercise-more-effective-than-medicines-to-manage-mental-health/ https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2023/02/230223193417.htm Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.

Duration:00:15:39

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Barriers To Overcoming OCD: Negative Comparisons

3/2/2024
Book your free session directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com Want to support the podcast in return for exclusive content and more access to me? Check out my Patreon tiers, any help is much appreciated :) www.patreon.com/user?u=88044382 Stand tall against the 'Comparisons' thief that steals your joy. In episode 370 of The OCD and Anxiety Podcast, we delve into the world of OCD and how comparisons might aggravate the condition. Discover the negative influence of your inner critic's constant nagging and judgment, often centered around comparison, and learn to lessen its controlling grip. From the host's personal experiences and observations to Theodore Roosevelt's wise words, "Comparison is the thief of joy," we embark on a journey, understanding how comparison can mar self-esteem and escalate anxiety disorders or OCD. Furthermore, we spotlight the divisive role social media often plays, exploiting your vulnerabilities, and triggering exacerbating comparison habits. As we traverse through each aspect, we also focus on nurturing self-compassion as a positive counterweight to comparison. Value and learn from self-assessments without succumbing to negative self-judgment. Practice recognizing your involvement in undesirable comparisons and choose better alternatives, focusing on present moments, and spurring healthier habits. This episode aims to provide the tools to change the narrative about OCD and your life, strengthening your capacity for self-compassion, and finding joy in your unique journey. Join us to break free from the chains of comparisons and live life on your terms. Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.

Duration:00:16:45

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Unlocking Motivation to Overcome OCD

2/28/2024
Book your free session directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com Want to support the podcast in return for exclusive content and more access to me? Check out my Patreon tiers, any help is much appreciated :) www.patreon.com/user?u=88044382 Welcome to Episode 369 of The OCD and Anxiety Podcast, a platform that inspires a more positive relationship with anxiety disorders and provides insights on overcoming the control of fear in one's life. In this episode, we unpack the crucial aspect of motivation in overcoming Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD). Discover how easy it is to misplace motivation into unhelpful thoughts and actions, resulting in a cyclic battle with OCD that people often fight silently. Yet, it is essential to realize that you're diverting your energy resources into the wrong path. Explore anecdotes from different people who have confronted and overcome OCD, provided as directional signposts to keep you moving forward. You'll also hear about practical suggestions such as reading inspirational autobiographies and real-life stories of victory over adversity. Delve into the underlying principle of forming sustainable habits to conserve motivation resources. By transforming vital OCD management techniques and exposure activities into regular practices, coping with OCD becomes less tiresome and more automated. Learn how to ensure your focus remains on the proper path. Remember that recovery involves acknowledging fear while continuing to live out personal values and ambitions. Enjoy this guided exploration on leveraging motivation to free yourself from OCD's grip. And should you have any questions or need further clarification, please feel free to get in touch. The podcast is available on Instagram, YouTube, and Patreon, where you can drop your questions or comments. Also, visit the official website, robertjamescoaching.com, to book a free session and commence your journey towards freedom from OCD and anxiety Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.

Duration:00:18:07

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Is Distraction A Viable Strategy for Managing OCD?

2/24/2024
Book your free session directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com Want to support the podcast in return for exclusive content and more access to me? Check out my Patreon tiers, any help is much appreciated :) www.patreon.com/user?u=88044382 Welcome to Episode 368 of The OCD and Anxiety Podcast where we delve into the question - Is distraction always bad for OCD? Tune in as host, anxiety coach Robert James, takes an enlightening look at the power of positive distraction, mindful attention, and the concept of the 'flow state'. Robert reflects on these themes by quoting renowned psychologist Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi and sharing his own insights on the benefits of engaging in activities that challenge us just enough to completely absorb our attention - a state known as flow. Here we not only gain relief from fear and rumination, but also experience the fullness of our lives, bringing us closer to our values and interests inside of our obsessions and compulsions. However, while positive, healthy distraction can be a potent tool against OCD, it's equally crucial to be wary of unhealthy forms that involve incessantly keeping busy or forcefully suppressing fears which, in turn, often exacerbates anxiety and exhaustion. Join us to understand how to wield 'mindful distractions' that are aligned with what’s truly important to us, how to bring more compassion to your process and turn your struggles with OCD around. Inspiring, informative, and eye-opening, this episode reminds us about the strength in positive distraction and the potential it holds in helping you reclaim your life from OCD Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.

Duration:00:15:33