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Matthew Hussey is a relationship and confidence coach. Today we chat about what a decade of coaching almost exclusively women has taught him about modern dating, the key components of attraction and his upcoming book Love Life. Thanks for listening! Follow Matthew Hussey: https://youtube.com/@thematthewhussey https://matthewhussey.com If You’d Like To Help Support The Podcast: http://www.patreon.com/charismaoncommand If you enjoy the podcast please SUBSCRIBE and Click the Notification bell 🔔 ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 00:00 Intro 00:40 Universal Content 02:32 The Bliss Point 06:56 Unhappy and Hurt 11:13 Dating the Same 5% 15:04 Initiating Conversations 17:54 Expectation Pressures 21:26 Take Away the Hidden Agenda 26:04 Flirt with the World 28:18 Internal Workaround for Introverts 33:21 The Two-Hit Theory 37:45 Certainty is a Valuable Trait 43:43 Trust Issues and Setting Boundaries 50:55 Success Coming From Insecurities 54:48 Why Should You Love Yourself? 01:01:44 Parental Love and Responsibilities 01:06:16 Love Life: How to Raise Your Standards 01:12:22 What is Hurting You? 01:16:47 The Greatest Life Lesson 01:18:13 Why We Choose Pain Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Teal Swan is a Youtuber and spiritual teacher. We chat about what childhood traumas lead to narcissism, what a soul retrieval is and how you can do and if claims of remote viewing, ESP and seeing auras are legitimate Thanks for listening! Follow Teal Swan: https://www.youtube.com/@UC1KIUp4PNCyIwCPTq1hYzWQ https://www.tealswan.net/ If You’d Like To Help Support The Podcast: http://www.patreon.com/charismaoncommand If you enjoy the podcast please SUBSCRIBE and Click the Notification bell 🔔 ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 00:00 Intro 01:09 - Reaction to Theo Von and Tony Robbins Interview 04:16 - How Narcissism Starts 08:59 - Developing the Chronic Manipulation Skill 11:33 - Dysfunctional Family 13:23 - What is Emotional Incest 16:39 - Is It Love or Just an Energy Exchange? 19:42 - The Rigid Idea of a Healthy Relationship 22:26 - This is What Abusive Relationships Do to You 26:41 - Sexual Compatibility Impacts Relationship Compatibility 30:15 - The Difference in Personality Preference 34:45 - Healing Inside a New Relationship 39:18 - What is Soul Retrieval? 44:33 - Little Moments, Huge Impact 50:10 - An Template for Success 55:30 - Diversity and Wokeism 59:57 - Dichotomy Versus Discrepancy 01:03:38 - Human Beings are Overly Identified 01:07:27 - How Can You Inspire Trust? 01:10:17 - Technology is Our Slave 01:11:23 - Is AI Developing Consciousness? 01:13:08 - Ancestral Trauma 01:17:08 - Being Aware of Your Own Gifts 01:23:06 - Where to Find Teal? Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Men today have a strange problem. Many of them are just too nice for their own good. Doctor Robert Glover helps them fix that. Not so that they can become sociopaths or jerks. But so that they can become confident, assertive grown ups who don’t have to resort to manipulation or people pleasing to get their needs met. We discuss what childhood experiences create nice guy syndrome, why nice guys are on the rise in the last 50 years and how to shift into men that women are actually deeply attracted to and more importantly that respect themselves Thanks for listening! Follow Dr. Robert Glover: https://integrationnation.net/landing-page If You’d Like To Help Support The Podcast: http://www.patreon.com/charismaoncommand If you enjoy the podcast please SUBSCRIBE and Click the Notification bell 🔔 ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 00:00 Intro 00:43 Nice Guy No More? 04:30 The Nice Guy Persona 09:15 How Childhood Uncomfortable Feelings Affect Adulthood 15:19 How Your Relationship Shapes Your Partner 17:47 Don’t Trade Your Purpose for Romance 22:43 Positive Emotional Tension 26:36 The Masculine and Feminine Polarity 30:12 We All Have Masculine and Feminine Energy Within Us 40:43 The Guilt of Returning the Favor Received 45:44 Hidden and Repressed Pleasure of Sexuality 55:22 How Do We Unwire Sexual Shame? 01:01:02 The Share-Test Method 01:05:52 You Control Your Own Sexuality 01:10:15 Take the Shame Away 01:18:50 Learn How to Defend Your Needs 01:22:40 The Concept of Differentiation 01:27:13 Staying Monogamous Without Sacrificing Sexual Freedom 01:32:06 Tension Between Being You and Meeting Your Partner’s Needs 01:34:39 Why Do Men Grow Up Pleasing Women? Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Dr. Richard Schwartz is world leading psychotherapist who in the 1980s develop a revolutionary branch of therapy called Internal Family Systems (IFS). We chat about how people have split personality or "parts", why past traumas are unconsciously keeping you stuck and how 16 IFS sessions can cure anxiety, stress and even PTSD. Thanks for listening! Follow Dr. Schwartz: https://ifs-institute.com/ https://www.youtube.com/@UCW3_oqt84pU4Hajx5dsKU-A If You’d Like To Help Support The Podcast: http://www.patreon.com/charismaoncommand If you enjoy the podcast please SUBSCRIBE and Click the Notification bell 🔔 TIMESTAMPS⏰ 00:00 Intro 01:32 What is IFS? 04:17 How IFS Can Help with Anxiety 06:20 Unlocking a Part of You 08:09 The Other Side of Having Multiple Personalities 11:03 The 8 C’s We All Have 13:24 No Bad Parts, Just Extreme Experiences 15:56 The Negative Effects of Childhood Abuse 19:56 One of the Goals of IFS 20:46 Men’s Mental Health 24:23 Constraining Masculinity 30:17 The Story of an Activist with a Traumatic Past 33:57 Defining Your True Self 35:45 Spirituality and Meditation 39:48 Here’s How to Get to Know Your Inner Self Better 54:02 Other Options to Help with IFS 55:09 Taking in the Energy of the Abuser 59:22 How to Get Yourself Out of Negative Thoughts 01:00:53 Punishment Versus Discipline 01:01:34 Where to Find Dick Schwartz Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

On today's podcast Charlie from Charisma On Command talks about the source of creativity, why he started eating meat again and his reaction to the Hasan Minaj apology. Thanks for listening! If You’d Like To Help Support The Podcast: http://www.patreon.com/charismaoncommand Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Andrew Herr is an expert in human performance who developed biotech strategy for the US military including the Navy Seals. We chat about the terrible health advice from the US government including the "food pyramid", how Public Health lies have left the average American unsure how to improve their lives and how to use your personal health data to optimize your focus and mood... Thanks for listening! Follow Andrew Herr: https://twitter.com/andrewherrbio https://www.fount.bio/ If You’d Like To Help Support The Podcast: http://www.patreon.com/charismaoncommand If you enjoy the podcast please SUBSCRIBE and Click the Notification bell 🔔 ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 00:00 Intro 01:08 You Can’t Trust the Government 03:48 Debunking Health Fads 06:52 Customized Approach to Staying Healthy 10:38 10 Things People Care Most About 13:08 Anxiety's Impact on the Immune System 14:22 How Food and Lifestyle are Poisoning Us 21:00 The Dangers of Ultra Processed Food 24:49 Why Do We Crave Sugar? 26:27 How to Fix Your Immune System 29:46 Burnout and Stress 33:46 Drug Addiction 35:00 Was COVID Lockdown Ineffective? 38:08 Obesity Drugs Don’t Work 43:28 Figure Out What Works For You 51:19 Testosterone Boost 52:57 Performance Enhancers 1:00:26 Food Allergy Tests 1:01:48 The Elimination Diet 1:04:00 Ways to Get Better Sleep 1:06:08 Service Fount Offers 1:10:30 Where to Find Fount For business inquiries: TheDroppingInPodcast@gmail.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Rian Doris @riandoris is the co-founder of the Flow Research Collective where he teaches people to reliably enter the flow state for higher performance in life's most high pressure situations. He also owns several other businesses including sam ovens's Consulting.com which he purchased from him earlier this year. We chat about developing rock solid intuition, the most important leadership lessons for 8-figure businesses and Rian's incredible story of overcoming a traumatic brain injury as a teenager. Rian is so sharp and I really love this conversation so I hope you do too! Thanks for listening! Follow Rian Doris: https://www.youtube.com/@riandoris https://www.flowresearchcollective.com/ If You’d Like To Help Support The Podcast: http://www.patreon.com/charismaoncommand If you enjoy the podcast please SUBSCRIBE and Click the Notification bell 🔔 ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 00:00 Intro 00:57 Early Start in Business 02:08 Becoming Steven Cotler’s Intern 04:07 What is Intuition? 07:03 How Sports Give Rise to Flow State 09:35 Brand Growth 11:40 Life After a Severe Head Injury 17:01 How to Maximize Optionality and Opportunity 20:11 Decreased Sense of Self Consciousness 22:44 The Future of Humans and AI 25:11 Limitless Material Abundance? 27:21 Memes Versus Genes 30:50 The Fundamental Unit of Any Business 35:11 How to Recruit the Best Talents 42:47 Intuition Made Practical 47:00 The Ultimate Success Killer 52:43 Two Productivity Networks of the Brain 55:12 Single Focus Versus Strategic Neglect 57:48 Top Two Sources of Happiness 1:00:10 Investing in Your Happy Space 1:03:53 Intersection Between Goals and Belonging 1:05:39 Digital Nomad is Overrated 1:07:57 Practicing the Flow Teaching 1:10:53 The Truth About Strategic Neglect 1:14:58 Learn More About Rian For business inquiries: TheDroppingInPodcast@gmail.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Adi Shankar @bootleguniverse123 is a Hollywood producer who is the go to guy for adaptions of video game series. Including Netflix shows like CastleVania, Captain LaserHawk and the upcoming Devil May Cry show. We chat about how he created his dream job in 20's, how he convinced HollyWood gatekeepers to let me pursue his vision without their interference and the steps to invent your own job that is both creatively fulfilling and commercially successful. Thanks for listening! Follow The Adi Shankar: https://www.youtube.com/@bootleguniverse123 https://www.instagram.com/bootleguniverse If You’d Like To Help Support The Podcast: http://www.patreon.com/charismaoncommand If you enjoy the podcast please SUBSCRIBE and Click the Notification bell 🔔 ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 00:00 Intro 00:22 Creative Process for Captain Laserhawk 04:47 George R. R. Martin’s Creative Mind 07:03 When the Character Feels Soulless 08:23 Conversation with George R. R. Martin 12:59 Wrong Assumptions 15:34 Dark Take on Richie Rich 23:58 Fan Fiction Short Films 27:30 Securing Resources and Funds 35:29 Strategy to Get Recognized 41:09 Deconstructing the Core Elements 43:17 Do You Need Social Media? 48:44 The Value You Put Out as a Creator 52:36 The Creator Economy 58:58 It Mainly Starts with Emulation 1:04:36 Reservoir of Knowledge 1:08:19 Resonating with the Audience 1:13:49 Existing in the Extremes 1:17:53 Follow Adi’s Work For business inquiries: TheDroppingInPodcast@gmail.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Josh and T.K. are two thirds of The Minimalists. They teach their followers how to get more from their lives by rejecting consumerism and pursuing what brings the most joy. We chat about the subtle ways that consumerism creeps into our lives, how to reconnect to the dreams that we lost in the pursuit of traditional success and how to generate permission-less abundance. Thanks for listening! TIMESTAMPS: 00:00 Intro 00:20 Minimalism's Purpose 06:29 Deceptive Corporate Dynamics 07:57 The Path To Genuine Happiness 09:47 Validating The Desire For Validation 15:03 Unlocking Creativity 18:51 Defying Society’s Expectations 23:48 Be The Friend Yourself Needs 30:06 Living A Life That’s Not Yours 34:47 Adding Value To People’s Lives 39:24 The Art Of Deep Listening 44:00 Natural Curiosity 50:20 Metrics That Quantify Our Quality Of Life 57:50 The Minimalist Life 01:04:34 Leveraging Simplicity 01:08:43 What Makes You Feel Alive? 01:10:31 Foundation for Economic Education 01:14:03 The Permissionless Mindset 01:22:56 What We Admire Versus What We Advice 01:25:29 Why Observations Are Better Than Advice 01:29:52 The Real Business Is People 01:33:26 How To Effectively Sell Your Product 01:41:56 Finding Your Healthy Space Follow The Minimalists: https://www.theminimalists.com/ If You’d Like To Help Support The Podcast: http://www.patreon.com/charismaoncommand If you enjoy the podcast please SUBSCRIBE and Click the Notification bell 🔔 ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ For business inquiries: TheDroppingInPodcast@gmail.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Justin Mares is the founder of multiple health companies including Kettle and Fire, Perfect Keto, and TrueMed as well as a friend for many years. We chat about how his networking helped made him 8 figures, why he thinks the FDA has killed more Americans and any other governmental agency, and catch up on our beliefs about god, happiness, and life. Thanks for listening! Follow Justin: https://justinmares.substack.com/ If You’d Like To Help Support The Podcast: http://www.patreon.com/charismaoncommand If you enjoy the podcast please SUBSCRIBE and Click the Notification bell 🔔 ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 00:00 Intro 00:27 Am I An Atheist? 04:43 The Story Of Jesus 08:20 Is Parenthood For You? 10:18 The Importance of Mentors in Success 14:18 Community Effect on Mindset 16:03 Consistent Outreach for Strong Bonds 20:09 People Are Ready to Help 22:09 Passion For Wellness 27:17 Food Regulation 28:24 How Food Can Be Deadly 31:13 Capitalism Concept 34:45 Conscience Check 36:40 Why We Get Sick 41:06 Outdated Treatment Model? 43:19 The Unbeneficial Societal Trade 46:53 Living Healthy Is Expensive 51:09 Cold Plunge Demand 53:14 Major Effect Of Environmental Toxins 54:30 What Is Metabolic Psychiatry For business inquiries: TheDroppingInPodcast@gmail.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Tucker Max is a multiple time New York Times Best-Selling author. He's undergone a radical personal transformation from selfish playboy to dedicated father, business leader and now rancher as a result of therapy and psychedelics We chat about how someone can know what healing mode is best from them and the biggest lessons he's taken from his transformation Thanks for listening! Subscribe to Tucker Max: https://www.youtube.com/@RudiusMedia If You’d Like To Help Support The Podcast: http://www.patreon.com/charismaoncommand ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 00:00 Intro 02:09 Psychedelics 05:06 How To Deal With Negative Emotion 08:04 Flawed People, Horrible Parents 17:13 The Pain Of Rejection 18:36 Mid Life Crisis 22:42 Life Out of Balance 24:40 Talk Therapy 31:09 Psychedelic Therapy 40:22 Finding Inner Peace 45:33 Dysfunctional City Life 48:17 Not Doing What You Preach 52:00 The 2-Session Trap 58:01 Trust Your Own Experience 01:03:37 Healing From Parental Neglect 01:09:45 Work On Yourself First 01:12:48 Find Your Healthy Place 01:20:48 A Mirror Of Your Own Life 01:26:04 Relationship With God 01:31:20 Oneness With The Universe 01:35:00 Divine Connection 01:39:41 Feelings I Didn’t Want To Feel 01:44:10 Pay Attention To The Signs For business inquiries: TheDroppingInPodcast@gmail.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Matt Kahn is a speaker, author and spiritual teacher. We chat about the hidden limitations of self improvement, how to love and transform negative emotions, and the nuances of being led by your intuition rather than ego. Thanks for listening! Subscribe to Matt Kahn: https://www.youtube.com/@MattKahnAllforLove If You’d Like To Help Support The Podcast: http://www.patreon.com/charismaoncommand If you enjoy the podcast please SUBSCRIBE and Click the Notification bell 🔔 ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 00:00 Intro 00:13 Ego Versus Personal Growth 04:38 The Ties Between Ego And Imagination 09:37 How Do You Work On Yourself? 11:40 Letting Go of Resistance 17:43 The Positive Side Of Skepticism 19:14 Leading With Self-Understanding 23:15 Trust In The Unknown 28:28 Mindful Decisions And Self Care 30:27 The Freedom To Choose Our Diet 35:44 Becoming A Healing Presence 39:39 What Is Reputation? 43:09 Holding Space For Others 47:37 Supportive Boundaries: When Help Meets Consent 53:21 Integrating Masculinity Into Femininity 59:38 Environmental And Situational Awareness 1:05:15 The Baggage Of Unprocessed Pain 1:07:05 Our Expanding Consciousness 1:12:04 Checkout Matt’s Work For business inquiries: TheDroppingInPodcast@gmail.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

On today's podcast Charlie from Charisma On Command talks about the Russell Brand Allegations, Dave Portnoy vs. Washington Post and the Andrew Tate BBC and Vice interview Thanks for listening! If You’d Like To Help Support The Podcast: http://www.patreon.com/charismaoncommand If you enjoy the podcast please SUBSCRIBE and Click the Notification bell 🔔 ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 00:00 Intro 00:04 Russell Brand Accusations 06:25 How Close Was Peace: The Ukraine-Russia War 08:42 David Portnoy, Connor Murphy 10:59 Russell Brand Victim Speaks Up 12:49 Demonetized By YouTube 14:01 Andrew Tate Commits Tax Fraud? 15:46 Real World App: A Pyramid Scheme? 19:10 Character Assassination 21:26 David Portnoy vs. Washington Post 25:09 Power Dynamic In The Workplace 28:02 Victimhood Holds A Special Power 33:01 Age of Maturity 36:18 What Is Superego? 39:08 Consent 44:38 We All Want The Truth 48:22 Moral Age of Consent 50:43 Superego Culture For business inquiries: TheDroppingInPodcast@gmail.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

On today's podcast Charlie from Charisma On Command talks about Elon Musk's traumatic childhood, how to stop being a people pleaser and the shady origins of Internet Marketing Thanks for listening! ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 00:00 Surviving Abuse: Understanding Dissociative Reactions 04:28 Is Elden Ring A War And Empire Building Game? 07:06 The Physics And Material Science Genius 08:25 Elon Musk's Business Decluttering Strategies 12:16 Geniuses With Troubled Childhood 12:46 John Harris’ The Downing Street Memo 14:43 Who’s The Worst President? 18:05 Internet Marketing Lies You Need to Know 25:33 Our People Pleasing Tendencies 30:17 Embracing The Power Of Breathwork 35:15 How To Nurture Healthy Self-Ownership 41:23 Firm Sense Of Ownership 47:02 The Burden Of Carrying Stress Around For business inquiries: TheDroppingInPodcast@gmail.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

On today's podcast Charlie from Charisma On Command interviews Professional Game Master Timm Woods. Timm is an educator and storyteller who specializes in game-based education. He uses Tabletop Role-Playing Games, like the popular Dungeons & Dragons, to educate students and adults in social skills and critical thinking. Find Timm Online: https://www.timmwoods.com/ https://www.instagram.com/timm.woods Thanks for listening! If You’d Like To Help Support The Podcast: http://www.patreon.com/charismaoncommand If you enjoy the podcast please SUBSCRIBE and Click the Notification bell 🔔 ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 00:00 Crazy Intro 01:34 What is D&D? (Dungeons & Dragons) 04:06 How Timm Makes $100+ Per Hour Playing D&D 05:41 The Subtle Art of the Game Master 08:46 How Timm Designed His Own Dream Job 13:59 Timm’s Life Changing Psychedelic Experience 15:43 Timm’s Biggest Fear While Pursuing His Dreams 17:12 Does Making Money Ruin the Integrity of Art? 21:06 Following Your Dreams When No One Believes in You 26:26 What Will the Audience of D&D Look Like in the Future? 29:22 The Difference Between Male and Female D&D Players 32:28 Making D&D Accessible to a Wider Audience 36:40 The Ultimate Flexibility of D&D 42:13 Timm’s Dissertation on D&D: The Value of Play 51:34 The Danger of Losing a Sense of Play in Life 54:06 What Makes a Perfect D&D Game? 55:41 The Secret World of LARPing 1:01:03 What Makes Games More Fun Than Life 1:05:50 Why D&D Is More Exciting Than Video Games 1:07:55 How to Create a Compelling Story 1:10:40 Timm’s Worst D&D Experience 1:15:40 How to Book Timm 1:16:24 The Best D&D Show in the Game Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Dr. Nicole LePera is a clinical psychologist and owner of the Holistic Psychologist. We chat about the three core human needs, the subtle ways people compensate for not having those needs met and the steps that anyone can take to feel more authentically confident and connected to their true self. Thanks for listening! TIMESTAMPS 00:00 Intro 00:17 3 Core Emotional Needs 05:27 Becoming Self-Aware 11:07 Generational Empathy 14:14 The Struggle OF Well-Meaning Parents 18:59 Breaking Free From Repetitive Patterns 23:02 Listen To Your Body 28:33 Noticing Stress And Its Needs 32:51 Rooted in Familiarity 34:53 Craving Authenticity 38:57 What Alone Time Signifies 45:32 Trigger Points: What Do You Respond To? 48:19 In Self-Preservation Mode 52:42 Trapped in Outdated Notions 59:05 Respectful Expression Of Your Perspective 1:02:40 Embracing Flexible Boundaries 1:09:34 Childlike Tendency To Personalize 1:15:20 Grounds for Seeking Personal Space 1:20:59 Emotional Gaps In Adults 1:28:13 The Dynamics Of Secure Relationships 1:32:06 The First Step To Ultimate Healing 1:36:02 Our Ties to Everything 1:41:32 Learn More About SelfHealers Circle For business inquiries: TheDroppingInPodcast@gmail.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

James Sexton is a divorce lawyer in high-conflict cases. He wrote the book How To Stay In Love based on his nearly 3 decades of inside access to the explosive end of relationships We chat about why people grow to hate the ones they love, why marriage is a broken technology, how to craft the perfect prenup to avoid financial ruin, and the most important rule for not having your relationship end in a divorce. Thanks for listening! Subscribe to James Sexton: https://www.instagram.com/nycdivorcelawyer/ http://www.nycdivorces.com/ If You’d Like To Help Support The Podcast: http://www.patreon.com/charismaoncommand If you enjoy the podcast please SUBSCRIBE and Click the Notification bell 🔔 ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 00:00 - Intro 00:24 Divorce And Death 06:28 The Inevitability of Mortality 08:12 The Significance of Your Choice 10:22 The Role of Marriage 17:00 What's Worth Holding On To? 22:54 The Anti-Cheating Factor 28:20 How Sex Drives Successful Relationships 30:40 The Perfect Prenup: Yours, Mine, Ours 39:16 Men and Marriage 48:38 Winning an Unjust Court Case 58:20 Wealth's Influence on Justice 1:00:04 Child Support: Legal Obligations Explained 1:04:01 Making the Uncomfortable Your Ally 1:07:52 Relationship Advice: Disappoint Your Partner 1:11:43 The Threat of Inner Insecurities 1:13:48 Core Needs 1:18:00 Where James Learned Charisma 1:25:01 How Conflict is Good For Couples 1:27:21 Arguments 1:34:37 Learn More About James Sexton Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

On today's podcast Charlie from Charisma On Command talks Jordan Peterson’s Mental Model of Betrayal and the “Blind Side” Lawsuit Thanks for listening! If You’d Like To Help Support The Podcast: http://www.patreon.com/charismaoncommand If you enjoy the podcast please SUBSCRIBE and Click the Notification bell 🔔 ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 00:00 What Are Mental Models? 04:41 Processing Hurt From Others 09:59 Tears: Manipulation Tool Or Genuine Emotion? 12:12 Regrets Of An Elderly Man 17:04 Finding Peace in Non-Achievement 20:01 When Doing Nothing Speaks Volumes 21:41 Transcending Fear of Death 24:47 Michael Oher Speaks Up About Adoption Lie 29:36 Exploiting Opportunities for Personal Gain 31:27 Developing Better Instincts in Tough Choices 33:46 Logan and Jake Paul’s Clash of Perspectives 37:39 Kevin Spacey Got Hard Canceled 38:33 Innocent Fearlessness in Kids Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Doctor Orion Taraban is a clinical psychologist and owner of the PsycHacks Youtube channel. @psychacks In this episode we discuss the psychology of dating, the behavioral economics of dating and how those two things make men and women have very different incentives and approaches Thank you for listening! Subscribe to PsycHacks: https://www.youtube.com/@psychacks If You’d Like To Help Support The Podcast: http://www.patreon.com/charismaoncommand If you enjoy the podcast please SUBSCRIBE and Click the Notification bell :bell: TIMESTAMPS 00:00 INTRO 00:14 Why Women Go to Therapy 3 Times More Than Men 03:27 Is Therapy Better Fit for Women? 05:58 Men Find External Solutions to Internal Problems 10:55 Why Modern Men Are Struggling in Dating 13:30 Learning to Deal With Rejection 15:50 The Romantic Ideal: Men Have Been Lied To 20:53 Society’s Definition of Love Is Toxic 23:22 Jesus: How Much Sacrifice Does Love Require? 27:59 Loving Without Expecting Anything in Return 30:23 "Love People Like Cats" 32:29 Wounded People Recreate Their Traumatic Relationships 35:05 The Crossroads: Where Decisions Really Matter 37:14 How to Avoid Being Blinded by Emotions 39:27 Stopping Negative Thought Cycles 44:23 The Core of Mental Disorders: “Self-Focused Attention” 45:34 The Surprising Power of Stepping Away From Alcohol 47:22 The Black Pill: Young Men Giving Up on Life 51:46 The Antidote to Hopelessness 53:10 Being a Young Man Is Tough 54:49 Should You “Grind Out” Your 20s? 57:11 What It Means to Be a Man in 2023 1:01:19 The Changing Definitions of Masculinity and Femininity 1:05:05 Masculinity: “To Have a Spine and to Have a Pair” 1:07:40 Covid and Conformity 1:09:56 Having a Healthy Level of Self-Doubt 1:11:21 When Should You Stand Up Against the Crowd? 1:13:54 Is “Masculinity/Femininity” a Productive Framework? 1:17:30 Why Women Are Frustrated With Modern Dating 1:20:26 “Women Are Still Waiting for the Offer” 1:22:12 Why 99% of Women Will Be Disappointed 1:26:23 Can Evolutionary Psychology Explain Dating? 1:28:15 Forming Relationships: Can Compatibility Beat Status? 1:30:24 Beauty Doesn’t Make a Happy Relationship 1:32:04 “Find Your Ugly Duckling” 1:33:26 The Dark Horse Strategy 1:35:41 Debate: Do Looks/Finances Really Matter That Much? 1:39:16 Personality Disorders = Childhood Coping Mechanisms 1:41:39 Uncovering Internal Wounds Without Becoming a Victim 1:47:33 Can You Take on Too Much Responsibility? 1:48:59 You’re Not Always the Problem 1:51:16 The Pros and Cons of Spirituality 1:54:22 The Point of Religion: “A Felt Connection With the Divine” 1:57:37 People Never Love Each Other Exactly the Same Amount 2:00:05 Check Out PsycHacks on YouTube and oriontarabanpsyd.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

On today's episode Charlie from Charisma on Command interviews Dr. Rob Henderson. Rob made it out of the chaos of poverty and foster care system to eventually receive his PHD from Yale We talk about the psychology of poverty, status games of the elites and class warfare. Thank you for listening! Subscribe to Rob Henderson's Newsletter: https://www.robkhenderson.com/ Or check out his Twitter: https://twitter.com/robkhenderson If You’d Like To Help Support The Podcast: http://www.patreon.com/charismaoncommand If you enjoy the podcast please SUBSCRIBE and Click the Notification bell 🔔 ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 INTRO 0:12 Every Name Has a Story to Tell 02:48 Becoming Successful Against All Odds 07:39 Poverty Comes in Many Forms 11:06 Why Young People Like Jordan Peterson 15:00 Finding Meaning in Serving Others 17:59 The Nuclear Family vs Community Parenting 21:03 The West Has Lost Community 25:30 Individualism and the Pursuit of “Happiness” 28:41 The 1% Rule: People Who Post Online Are Weird 36:06 Being “High Class” Is More Than Being Wealthy 39:33 Why Should You Care About Your Social Class? 41:48 “Status Is at Least as Important as Money” 44:37 Should You Pursue Status? 49:20 How the Classes Think About Wealth Differently 55:05 Luxury Beliefs: The New Way to Show Status 59:56 The Real Consequences of “Defund the Police” 1:05:47 The Hypocrisy of the Covid Lockdowns 1:09:08 The Dark Side of Promoting Promiscuity 1:15:34 The Elites Are Setting a Bad Example for Society 1:21:04 The Truth About “Class Warfare” 1:25:40 What Can We Do to Bring People Together? 1:27:57 Is It Worth It to Work in Politics? 1:30:26 Check Out Rob on Substack Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy