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A narrative on my thoughts and perception on various topics that cuts across different aspects of life

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United States

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A narrative on my thoughts and perception on various topics that cuts across different aspects of life

Language:

English


Episodes
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Sexual Compactibility

11/15/2022
A myth,reality or necessity?

Duration:00:16:05

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The beauty of the African Dialects…

10/31/2022
Do you hear an African man speak and you mentally think she/he should erase their dialects in other or be politically correct? Jokes on you…The various African dialects in all its diversities are beautiful languages that ought to be embraced in its totality.

Duration:00:20:58

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Inconsistency

10/7/2022
If she/he is inconsistent, that’s all there is to it. There’s no hidden reason to it it other than “YOU ARE NOT A PRIORITY AND NOTHING OF YOUR DOING CAN EVER MAKE YOU BE”… don’t be the perfect package at the wrong address
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Psychotherapy, Trauma and Nigerians

9/30/2022
The way Nigerians reason should be studied! How do we act? Our reactions? Slangs and coping mechanisms…We definitely a different specie lol
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Secrecy

9/23/2022
People are being advised to keep their relationships private… To keep it off social media but how coded is too coded? Where do draw the line?
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Marrying Single Parents

9/9/2022
The stigmatization around marrying single Parents in the African society should be discussed
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Body Count

9/2/2022
Knowing your partners sexual history really important to you/relationship?
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Birth Control, Abortions and Vasectomy.

8/26/2022
The unspoken struggles a typical African girl faces as a result of using birth control pills or the lack of access it to her, having an abortion or educating her African male partner to have a vasectomy is never spoken and based mainly or hinged on hypocrisy. What then is the ripple effect of these behaviors and policies…
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First date experiences

3/18/2022
What should you do or expect from your first date experience
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Love at first sight

3/11/2022
Love at first sight exits?
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Age differences

3/4/2022
Love conquers all but some would disagree….I hear it’s not enough or the package matters…
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Japa!

2/25/2022
How most Nigerians act when emigrating… the secrecy is commendable
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The uniqueness of the Yoruba language

2/18/2022
Language is an essential part of culture…It helps promote your identity however its essence can become lost if not passed down to generations after. Speak it … embrace it … love it. Everything about it makes you… YOU!
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Breakfast… Not the meal but the heartbreak

2/14/2022
Breakfast is the most important meal of the day… little wonder why my Lagos people use it to describe heat breaks …
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Valentine 2022

2/4/2022
Love is in the air… ❤️
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Extended Families

2/4/2022
The concept of an Extended family to the Africans (Yorubas as base line) is a very fluid notion and sometimes the boundaries become blurred or totally extinct. At what point does it really end?
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Nudity or Trendy?

1/28/2022
Is it really nudity or people are just getting along with the trends of time…
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Dating Apps 😈

12/10/2021
Navigating the dating Apps world as a single African girl… Stereotypes and what have you…
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Paternity Fraud

11/30/2021
The outrage, sentiments and cultural implications of paternity fraud from a Nigerian male and female perspective, well discussed.
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Nightlife and the Lowlives

11/12/2021
There’s a world existing outside your bubble… Be kind or Be quiet 🤫

Duration:00:12:10