An Evolving Man Podcast

I have felt pretty shocked listening to reports about the Blood Scandal. I was horrified to hear what had happened at the boarding school, Treloar's where many people died. It is another cover up. Grenfell Tower, Windrush, Post Office Enquiry, Hillsborough... Repeated calls for justice and recognition were ignored for years. In today's podcast I talk about cover ups and the psychology of where many of our leaders learned to cover up, to hide, to mask the truth. I draw upon the briliant work of Caroline Elkins and her book Legacy of Violence, about the British Empire, Nick Duffell's Wounded Leaders and Will Hutton. Take care, Piers hashtag#bloodscandal hashtag#coverup hashtag#boardingschool hashtag#colonialism --- Piers is an author and a men's transformational coach and therapist who works mainly with trauma, boarding school issues, addictions and relationship problems. He also runs online men's groups for ex-boarders, retreats and a podcast called An Evolving Man. He is also the author of How to Survive and Thrive in Challenging Times. To purchase Piers first book: https://www.amazon.co.uk/How-Survive-Thrive-Challenging-Times/dp/B088T5L251/ref=sr_1_1?dchild=1&keywords=piers+cross&qid=1609869608&sr=8-1 For more videos please visit: http://youtube.com/pierscross For FB: https://www.facebook.com/pierscrosspublic For Piers' website and a free training How To Find Peace In Everyday Life: https://www.piers-cross.com/community Many blessings, Piers Cross http://piers-cross.com/

What is the government doing regarding mandatory sexual reporting? After £200 million spent on IICSA, Independent Inquiry into Child Sexual Abuse, what has been the outcome? Today's conversation is with two of the leading voices campaigning against child sexual abuse. Lawyer and partner, Dino Nocivelli and author, Alex Renton. What does this new amendment mean? And what can you do? To find out more about Voices Unbound please visit: https://voicesunbound.org.uk/ And Mandate Now: https://mandatenow.org.uk/ For the lastest article from Mandate Now about the new legislation: https://mandatenow.org.uk/the-governments-useless-child-sexual-abuse-reporting-law/ And this is the letter/ press release that you can send to your local MP: https://voicesunbound.org.uk/current-campaigns/ Alex Renton is a writer and journalist whose career has ranged from arts and food writing to politics and the investigation of child abuse. His career as a war reporter and development worker took him to the Middle East, Africa, East Asia and the Balkans. He has worked for The Independent, The Times, Newsweek, and the London Evening Standard and contributed to a host of other newspapers and magazines. He is also the author of the e-book Planet Carnivore: how cheap meat costs the earth (Guardian Shorts, 2015). Dino Nocivelli is a partner in the abuse department at Leigh Day law firm and joined the company in 2022. Dino specialises in actions for child sexual abuse survivors. Dino has appeared in a significant number of media publications providing his expert opinion and commentary, including among others the BBC, ITV and the Guardian. He has also provided evidence to the Independent Inquiry into Child Sexual Abuse (IICSA). Questions for Alex and Dino: What's happening with regards the mandatory reporting, IICSA and the Criminal Justice Bill? --- Piers is an author and a men's transformational coach and therapist who works mainly with trauma, boarding school issues, addictions and relationship problems. He also runs online men's groups for ex-boarders, retreats and a podcast called An Evolving Man. He is also the author of How to Survive and Thrive in Challenging Times. To purchase Piers first book: https://www.amazon.co.uk/How-Survive-Thrive-Challenging-Times/dp/B088T5L251/ref=sr_1_1?dchild=1&keywords=piers+cross&qid=1609869608&sr=8-1 For more videos please visit: http://youtube.com/pierscross For FB: https://www.facebook.com/pierscrosspublic For Piers' website and a free training How To Find Peace In Everyday Life: https://www.piers-cross.com/community Many blessings, Piers Cross http://piers-cross.com/

What does a trauma-informed healthcare system look like? Do we currently have that in the UK? And if not what can we do to start to implement this? Today I am speaking with award winning clinical psychologist, Dr Karen Treisman about becoming trauma-informed not just in healthcare but also in the education system. We talk candidly about her work with looked after children in care and fostering and the cross over to boarding school. And how do we heal? A fascinating and inspiring conversation. --- Dr Karen Treisman, MBE, is an award winning highly specialist clinical psychologist, organizational consultant, trainer, author, and trauma specialist who has worked in the NHS (National Health System) and children’s social services for several years. Karen has also worked cross-culturally in both Africa and Asia with groups ranging from former child soldiers, asylum-seeking young people, to those living with HIV/AIDS, and to survivors of the Rwandan Genocide. She also is the bestselling author of several books and workbooks, Questions for Dr Treisman: #traumainformed #childhoodtrauma #childparentconnection #boardingschooltrauma To find out more about Dr Treisman's work please visit: http://www.safehandsthinkingminds.co.uk/ And to find her on social media: Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dr-karen-treisman-38aa8678/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/dr_treisman --- Piers is an author and a men's transformational coach and therapist who works mainly with trauma, boarding school issues, addictions and relationship problems. He also runs online men's groups for ex-boarders, retreats and a podcast called An Evolving Man. He is also the author of How to Survive and Thrive in Challenging Times. To purchase Piers first book: https://www.amazon.co.uk/How-Survive-Thrive-Challenging-Times/dp/B088T5L251/ref=sr_1_1?dchild=1&keywords=piers+cross&qid=1609869608&sr=8-1 For more videos please visit: http://youtube.com/pierscross For FB: https://www.facebook.com/pierscrosspublic For Piers' website and a free training How To Find Peace In Everyday Life: https://www.piers-cross.com/community Many blessings, Piers Cross http://piers-cross.com/

What is good leadership? What makes a great leader? What is a servant leader? And how does boarding school impact our leaders? Today I am speaking with leadership expert, Zena Me who has worked for decades with CEOs and senior leaders. She talks about the keys of great leadership: the importance of emotional and spiritual intelligence, humility and serving the wider system. A really fascinating conversation. --- Zena works with senior leaders, coaches and constellators who want to transform social systems, making them more just, equitable and eco-conscious. She is an experienced teacher, coach and constellator in the lost art of eldership and leads an online elders community, offering programmes for those who are trapped in mid-life and want to find their unique Eldership niche. Questions for Zena: 13. How do people find out more about you? #leadership #trauma #elders #wisdom #ritesofpassage #greatleadership #jackwelsh #GE To find out more about Zena's work please visit: https://zename.co.uk/ And to find her on social media: LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/zename/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/Zenamee --- Piers is an author and a men's transformational coach and therapist who works mainly with trauma, boarding school issues, addictions and relationship problems. He also runs online men's groups for ex-boarders, retreats and a podcast called An Evolving Man. He is also the author of How to Survive and Thrive in Challenging Times. To purchase Piers first book: https://www.amazon.co.uk/How-Survive-Thrive-Challenging-Times/dp/B088T5L251/ref=sr_1_1?dchild=1&keywords=piers+cross&qid=1609869608&sr=8-1 For more videos please visit: http://youtube.com/pierscross For FB: https://www.facebook.com/pierscrosspublic For Piers' website and a free training How To Find Peace In Everyday Life: https://www.piers-cross.com/community Many blessings, Piers Cross http://piers-cross.com/

A video exploring why it is so important to explore our inner world. What happens when we explore this unexamined life? I talk about Pete Walker and his book Complex PTSD, and Robert Bly's Iron John. Our wound becomes our gift. Warm regards, Piers --- Piers is an author and a men's transformational coach and therapist who works mainly with trauma, boarding school issues, addictions and relationship problems. He also runs online men's groups for ex-boarders, retreats and a podcast called An Evolving Man. He is also the author of How to Survive and Thrive in Challenging Times. To purchase Piers first book: https://www.amazon.co.uk/How-Survive-Thrive-Challenging-Times/dp/B088T5L251/ref=sr_1_1?dchild=1&keywords=piers+cross&qid=1609869608&sr=8-1 For more videos please visit: http://youtube.com/pierscross For FB: https://www.facebook.com/pierscrosspublic For Piers' website and a free training How To Find Peace In Everyday Life: https://www.piers-cross.com/community Many blessings, Piers Cross http://piers-cross.com/

Following on from last week's video I thought that I would share some of the practices and exercises that bring me joy. A subscriber commented on my last podcast: https://youtu.be/NGa-UoRhHWg They mentioned that for some people thinking about what makes them joyful is stressful. So today I share some of the practices that I have learned that have helped me to cultivate joy and happiness. Warm regards, Piers --- Piers is an author and a men's transformational coach and therapist who works mainly with trauma, boarding school issues, addictions and relationship problems. He also runs online men's groups for ex-boarders, retreats and a podcast called An Evolving Man. He is also the author of How to Survive and Thrive in Challenging Times. To purchase Piers first book: https://www.amazon.co.uk/How-Survive-Thrive-Challenging-Times/dp/B088T5L251/ref=sr_1_1?dchild=1&keywords=piers+cross&qid=1609869608&sr=8-1 For more videos please visit: http://youtube.com/pierscross For FB: https://www.facebook.com/pierscrosspublic For Piers' website and a free training How To Find Peace In Everyday Life: https://www.piers-cross.com/community Many blessings, Piers Cross http://piers-cross.com/

Today I talk about the importance of joy. When we begin on the journey of childhood trauma healing it can become all consuming. Life can become really hard - lots of tears, feeling pain. It can feel overwhelming. But part of the healing is to remember the joy. So today I talk about the importance of remembering happiness, gratitude and joy. Warm regards, Piers --- Piers is an author and a men's transformational coach and therapist who works mainly with trauma, boarding school issues, addictions and relationship problems. He also runs online men's groups for ex-boarders, retreats and a podcast called An Evolving Man. He is also the author of How to Survive and Thrive in Challenging Times. To purchase Piers first book: https://www.amazon.co.uk/How-Survive-Thrive-Challenging-Times/dp/B088T5L251/ref=sr_1_1?dchild=1&keywords=piers+cross&qid=1609869608&sr=8-1 For more videos please visit: http://youtube.com/pierscross For FB: https://www.facebook.com/pierscrosspublic For Piers' website and a free training How To Find Peace In Everyday Life: https://www.piers-cross.com/community Many blessings, Piers Cross http://piers-cross.com/

Today I talk about workaholism and childhood trauma. Why can't you stop working? Especially if you had experiences of childhood trauma? I also talk about the link to boarding school. Why is that many who have been to boarding school are workaholics? I talk about some of the techniques that we can use to start stopping. Now. Take care, Piers --- Piers is an author and a men's transformational coach and therapist who works mainly with trauma, boarding school issues, addictions and relationship problems. He also runs online men's groups for ex-boarders, retreats and a podcast called An Evolving Man. He is also the author of How to Survive and Thrive in Challenging Times. To purchase Piers first book: https://www.amazon.co.uk/How-Survive-Thrive-Challenging-Times/dp/B088T5L251/ref=sr_1_1?dchild=1&keywords=piers+cross&qid=1609869608&sr=8-1 For more videos please visit: http://youtube.com/pierscross For FB: https://www.facebook.com/pierscrosspublic For Piers' website and a free training How To Find Peace In Everyday Life: https://www.piers-cross.com/community Many blessings, Piers Cross http://piers-cross.com/

What is the power of grief? What if you can't stop crying? Is this normal? How important is grief on the path to healing? Today I talk about tears and the importance of crying as we start to heal on the recovery journey. I share from the work of Pete Walker and Complex PTSD and from Dr Judith Herman and her book, Trauma and Recovery. Is it important to grieve? Take care, Piers --- Piers is an author and a men's transformational coach and therapist who works mainly with trauma, boarding school issues, addictions and relationship problems. He also runs online men's groups for ex-boarders, retreats and a podcast called An Evolving Man. He is also the author of How to Survive and Thrive in Challenging Times. To purchase Piers first book: https://www.amazon.co.uk/How-Survive-Thrive-Challenging-Times/dp/B088T5L251/ref=sr_1_1?dchild=1&keywords=piers+cross&qid=1609869608&sr=8-1 For more videos please visit: http://youtube.com/pierscross For FB: https://www.facebook.com/pierscrosspublic For Piers' website and a free training How To Find Peace In Everyday Life: https://www.piers-cross.com/community Many blessings, Piers Cross http://piers-cross.com/

Is it common for people who have been to boarding school to have suicidal ideation? And how many people have actually attempted suicide or taken their own life while at boarding school? Today I share stories from Richard Branson's autobiography Losing My Virginity, Sir Ranulph Fiennes' Mad, Bad and Dangerous to Know and Roald Dahl' biography. I also share some quotes from Alex Renton and his book, Stiff Upper Lip and Pete Walker's book, Complex PTSD. If you are feeling suicidal then please do contact Samaritans in the UK: https://www.samaritans.org/how-we-can-help/contact-samaritan/ Or in the US: https://afsp.org/im-having-thoughts-of-suicide/ And for my interview with Charles Spencer: https://youtu.be/NJBGrRdgKm8?si=tXZP5K7rhat1THu3 And for episode #91 with a paediatrician who I went to boarding school with: https://youtu.be/Aa8eicN-G0A?si=x4qbGcVmvcJI-wp6 Take care, Piers --- Piers is an author and a men's transformational coach and therapist who works mainly with trauma, boarding school issues, addictions and relationship problems. He also runs online men's groups for ex-boarders, retreats and a podcast called An Evolving Man. He is also the author of How to Survive and Thrive in Challenging Times. To purchase Piers first book: https://www.amazon.co.uk/How-Survive-Thrive-Challenging-Times/dp/B088T5L251/ref=sr_1_1?dchild=1&keywords=piers+cross&qid=1609869608&sr=8-1 For more videos please visit: http://youtube.com/pierscross For FB: https://www.facebook.com/pierscrosspublic For Piers' website and a free training How To Find Peace In Everyday Life: https://www.piers-cross.com/community Many blessings, Piers Cross http://piers-cross.com/

PLEASE NOTE: We talk about sexual abuse in this episode which some viewers may find triggering. Today's episode is with author Charles Spencer. As I was preparing for the interview a line in his book really jumped out: "many of us left Maidwell with demons sewn into the seams of our souls." What a heart-breaking and powerful turn of phrase. One that I can really resonate with. Today he talks about his childhood sexual abuse at boarding school, bullying, his sister, Diana, going off to boarding school and the impact of boarding school on children. And what about the path of healing - what are the therapies and exercises that he has used to start healing? A very touching and powerful testimony to the legacy of boarding schools. What does he think of under 13 boarding schools? --- Charles Spencer is an author, a broadcaster, a podcaster, a British peer and the younger brother of the late Diana, Princess of Wales. He has recently published a memoir about his time at boarding school called, A Very Private School. Questions for Charles: 1. I would love for you to share what drew you to write your memoir? Why now? 2. When did you first start to realise the impact that your boarding school experiences had had on you? 3. When you think of Maidwell, what's the one word that comes to mind? 4. In your interview with Laura Kuenssberg you mentioned how your sister, Diana, said to your father when she was left at boarding school, “If you loved me, you wouldn't leave me here” How did your sister leaving for boarding school impact you? 5. “What we suffered was not just a separation from all that we knew and loved, but an amputation. ...it lacked the most important quality of a home: it was without love.”(P.9) How did it impact you, to be without love? 6. The physical violence. What went on at Maidwell regarding physical violence and discipline? (P.68) (P.87) 7. “To keep his abusive system intact, Jack relied on concealment, collusion and cunning.” (P101) Could you please explain? 8. Bullying. Could you please talk us through some of the bullying you experienced and witnessed? (P.189-199) 9. Sexual abuse. If you feel comfortable to share, what happened when you were 11? (P.206-216) 10. The political ramifications. How might the decision making of leaders who have been to these schools be affected? 11. “Fascinating aberration” (P.6) What do you feel about boarding now? Do we need to open a debate into this practice? Do we need to abolish early boarding? What are your thoughts? 12. Other topics to talk about: 1. Showing emotions or “blubbing” (P.62) 2. Abandonment (P.64) 3. “I had been sent away because I had somehow fallen short as a son.” (P.107) 4. Making yourself sick in order to get an adult to show me warmth and sympathy (P.108 --- Piers is an author and a men's transformational coach and therapist who works mainly with trauma, boarding school issues, addictions and relationship problems. He also runs online men's groups for ex-boarders, retreats and a podcast called An Evolving Man. He is also the author of How to Survive and Thrive in Challenging Times. To purchase Piers first book: https://www.amazon.co.uk/How-Survive-Thrive-Challenging-Times/dp/B088T5L251/ref=sr_1_1?dchild=1&keywords=piers+cross&qid=1609869608&sr=8-1 For more videos please visit: http://youtube.com/pierscross For FB: https://www.facebook.com/pierscrosspublic For Piers' website and a free training How To Find Peace In Everyday Life: https://www.piers-cross.com/community Many blessings, Piers Cross http://piers-cross.com/

Today I wanted to offer a review of Charles Spencer's new book, A Very Private School. I spoke to Charles on Monday on my podcast which will be going live here on Friday: https://youtu.be/NJBGrRdgKm8 It was a really great conversation where Charles was very open about his boarding school experiences talking about sexual abuse, bullying, corporal punishment, his sister, Diana Princess of Wales and the ending of early boarding school. Here I talk about some of the quotes and segments of the book that really stood out for me. For last week's podcast with a paediatrician who I went to boarding school with please find it here: https://youtu.be/Aa8eicN-G0A #charlesspencer #boardingschool #boardingschoolsyndrome #averyprivateschool Take care, Piers --- Piers is an author and a men's transformational coach and therapist who works mainly with trauma, boarding school issues, addictions and relationship problems. He also runs online men's groups for ex-boarders, retreats and a podcast called An Evolving Man. He is also the author of How to Survive and Thrive in Challenging Times. To purchase Piers first book: https://www.amazon.co.uk/How-Survive-Thrive-Challenging-Times/dp/B088T5L251/ref=sr_1_1?dchild=1&keywords=piers+cross&qid=1609869608&sr=8-1 For more videos please visit: http://youtube.com/pierscross For FB: https://www.facebook.com/pierscrosspublic For Piers' website and a free training How To Find Peace In Everyday Life: https://www.piers-cross.com/community Many blessings, Piers Cross http://piers-cross.com/

PLEASE NOTE: We talk about suicide and sexual abuse in this episode which some viewers may find triggering. What was it like at Piers' boarding school? Today we talk to a man who lived in the same boarding house as Piers, the host of this podcast, for 7 years. Today Dr William Verling, who is a consultant paediatrician, talks about what boarding school was like for him. He also looks at it from his medical background – was there pastoral care, and safeguarding at this school? --- Dr William Verling is a consultant paediatrician who has worked as a doctor for over 20 years. He is the creator of a new app to improve patient experience, the founder of ParentMed, a training resource for new parents and the lead for Chill, Dorset, a not-for-profit organisation that uses cold water therapy to help people with anxiety and depression. Some questions for Will: #safeguarding #boardingschoolsyndrome #abuse #pastoralcare #boardingschool To find out more about Will's work: Parentmed: https://parentmed.co.uk/ Chill: https://chilluk.org/ --- Piers is an author and a men's transformational coach and therapist who works mainly with trauma, boarding school issues, addictions and relationship problems. He also runs online men's groups for ex-boarders, retreats and a podcast called An Evolving Man. He is also the author of How to Survive and Thrive in Challenging Times. To purchase Piers first book: https://www.amazon.co.uk/How-Survive-Thrive-Challenging-Times/dp/B088T5L251/ref=sr_1_1?dchild=1&keywords=piers+cross&qid=1609869608&sr=8-1 For more videos please visit: http://youtube.com/pierscross For FB: https://www.facebook.com/pierscrosspublic For Piers' website and a free training How To Find Peace In Everyday Life: https://www.piers-cross.com/community Many blessings, Piers Cross http://piers-cross.com/

Next week I am interviewing Charles Spencer on my podcast which I am really excited about. Today I talk about the interview and his excellent new book, A Very Private School. To purchase a copy please visit: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Audible-A-Very-Private-School/dp/B0CKWD9Z6M/ref=sr_1_1?crid=3V69A41C2I6FX&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.KaA-g5hp1wccFRcaTahrVm0PzjF8WjkORiLbDQLS7x_oEEqNtDhvQuMStb40qY6Km9SVXOSqLffeVOZbiknegzqzff4LnhjqqT54LsOyrmWdzYzvHXngOxwm3YJS5EuvoeIY9h1W6r5B3RSWEvIUVQ.7oesmfoNitXYIPxItTHs28QMgT0zTRdT6bLorSTjziA&dib_tag=se&keywords=charles+spencer+a+very+private+school&qid=1710925901&sprefix=char%2Caps%2C2312&sr=8-1 Warm regards, Piers --- Piers is an author and a men's transformational coach and therapist who works mainly with trauma, boarding school issues, addictions and relationship problems. He also runs online men's groups for ex-boarders, retreats and a podcast called An Evolving Man. He is also the author of How to Survive and Thrive in Challenging Times. To purchase Piers first book: https://www.amazon.co.uk/How-Survive-Thrive-Challenging-Times/dp/B088T5L251/ref=sr_1_1?dchild=1&keywords=piers+cross&qid=1609869608&sr=8-1 For more videos please visit: http://youtube.com/pierscross For FB: https://www.facebook.com/pierscrosspublic For Piers' website and a free training How To Find Peace In Everyday Life: https://www.piers-cross.com/community Many blessings, Piers Cross http://piers-cross.com/

Charles Spencer's new book about his boarding school experiences has now been released. You can find it here: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Audible-A-Very-Private-School/dp/B0CKWD9Z6M/ref=sr_1_1?crid=320MHELEHEKLN&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.81PdazFBg3A7AleHD-lYQrr8QZXqwIxFOeUQIONnMvaAHp1OOHjwnFPEdjHXdQsGwITpT_DRzoK2CZeOTQBf6pju9k8AlNsIdXDgeRRo2A2zAGIM2OTF9_Yos8wdiXjjj3tSuHppUsQHf2crCpWYHg.w7cW417aM6Ih1AMJTOvr17CVXDJUf89cXELsYnBtbPw&dib_tag=se&keywords=charles+spencer+a+very+private+school&qid=1710330302&sprefix=charles+sp%2Caps%2C262&sr=8-1 On Monday of this week I came across this article from the Telegraph about a fellow pupil and how "it did him the world of good": https://www.telegraph.co.uk/columnists/2024/02/17/boarding-school-princess-diana-earl-spencer-maidwell-hall/ I also received an email from the wife of an ex-boarder last week. In it she talks about how her husband claims to have "loved boarding school". But has real difficulties with emotions and relations So today I wanted to speak to those who loved boarding. I see there are 3 camps. 1. The truth, they loved it and it was good for them. 2. Denial, those that have suppressed or dissociated from what happened 3. Betrayal trauma and the work of Jennifer Freyd. Many of us were betrayed at boarding school and it creates amnesia according to Dr Freyd's work. Warm regards, Piers --- Piers is an author and a men's transformational coach and therapist who works mainly with trauma, boarding school issues, addictions and relationship problems. He also runs online men's groups for ex-boarders, retreats and a podcast called An Evolving Man. He is also the author of How to Survive and Thrive in Challenging Times. To purchase Piers first book: https://www.amazon.co.uk/How-Survive-Thrive-Challenging-Times/dp/B088T5L251/ref=sr_1_1?dchild=1&keywords=piers+cross&qid=1609869608&sr=8-1 For more videos please visit: http://youtube.com/pierscross For FB: https://www.facebook.com/pierscrosspublic For Piers' website and a free training How To Find Peace In Everyday Life: https://www.piers-cross.com/community Many blessings, Piers Cross http://piers-cross.com/

Dive into the intricacies of the Mother Wound with guidance from author, Dr Mark Stibbe. This video unpacks the keys about the Mother Wound. What is it? And what are its symptoms in adults? How does boarding school and the Mother Wound overlap? Dr Mark Stibbe has been writing books since he was 16 and has clocked up over 50 titles. His PhD on storytelling was completed in 1982 and is published by Cambridge University Press. Lately, Mark has been writing novels in the magical realism genre. His novel A Book in Time was picked as the overall winner out of hundreds of entries in the Page Turner Awards. His latest novel is called House of Dreams - a Tudor ghost story once again in the magical realism genre. Questions for Mark: #motherwound #boardingschooltrauma #healingfromtrauma #boardingschool #jamesbond #skyfall To buy Mark's books please visit: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Home-Last-Freedom-Boarding-School/dp/1910786411/ref=sr_1_2?crid=AZTEG7BGA20I&keywords=mark+stibbe&qid=1706004821&sprefix=mark+stibb%2Caps%2C103&sr=8-2 A Book In Time: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Book-Time-Winner-Turner-awards/dp/1399943359/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&dib_tag=se&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.fjcLo9ZiQYbYRoMfinYpKlkiBc2hP-CVV_iMxtu2XnE.HVDPTdOEi7BDfivXU7G51cEX2d8vXCmZS7HCHeIrZxo&qid=1709568876&sr=8-1 Mark's website: https://www.markstibbe.com/ --- Piers is an author and a men's transformational coach and therapist who works mainly with trauma, boarding school issues, addictions and relationship problems. He also runs online men's groups for ex-boarders, retreats and a podcast called An Evolving Man. He is also the author of How to Survive and Thrive in Challenging Times. To purchase Piers first book: https://www.amazon.co.uk/How-Survive-Thrive-Challenging-Times/dp/B088T5L251/ref=sr_1_1?dchild=1&keywords=piers+cross&qid=1609869608&sr=8-1 For more videos please visit: http://youtube.com/pierscross For FB: https://www.facebook.com/pierscrosspublic For Piers' website and a free training How To Find Peace In Everyday Life: https://www.piers-cross.com/community Many blessings, Piers Cross http://piers-cross.com/

How does complex PTSD show up in people's lives? What are the symptoms if people have been through trauma as children or adults and are wondering if they have complex PTSD? Today I share some thoughts from Pete Walker's book Complex PTSD and I share some of the symptoms. I also talk about some of the examples from my own life and that of clients. I link boarding school syndrome to complex PTSD. Warm regards, Piers ✅ Subscribe To My Channel For More Videos: https://www.youtube.com/@pierscross/?sub_confirmation=1 ✅ Important Links: 👉 Website: https://www.piers-cross.com/ ✅ Stay Connected With Me: 👉 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/anevolvingman/ 👉 (X)Twitter: https://twitter.com/PiersCross1 👉 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/pierscrosspublic 👉 Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/piers-cross/ --- Piers is an author and a men's transformational coach and therapist who works mainly with trauma, boarding school issues, addictions and relationship problems. He also runs online men's groups for ex-boarders, retreats and a podcast called An Evolving Man. He is also the author of How to Survive and Thrive in Challenging Times. To purchase Piers first book: https://www.amazon.co.uk/How-Survive-Thrive-Challenging-Times/dp/B088T5L251/ref=sr_1_1?dchild=1&keywords=piers+cross&qid=1609869608&sr=8-1 For more videos please visit: http://youtube.com/pierscross For FB: https://www.facebook.com/pierscrosspublic For Piers' website and a free training How To Find Peace In Everyday Life: https://www.piers-cross.com/community Many blessings, Piers Cross http://piers-cross.com/

In today's video I talk about what is complex PTSD, complex post traumatic stress disorder or CPTSD. I draw upon the work of Dr Judith Herman, Pete Walker and Dr Gabor Mate. What is it? And what are the seven diagnostic criteria for Complex PTSD? I have been reading Pete Walker's book in more depth recently and have been struck by how similar boarding school syndrome is to complex PTSD. Reading the seven diagnostic criteria from the psychiatrist, Dr Herman, really helped me to make that connection. If you would like to me to talk more about complex PTSD please do let me know. Warm regards, Piers --- Piers is an author and a men's transformational coach and therapist who works mainly with trauma, boarding school issues, addictions and relationship problems. He also runs online men's groups for ex-boarders, retreats and a podcast called An Evolving Man. He is also the author of How to Survive and Thrive in Challenging Times. To purchase Piers first book: https://www.amazon.co.uk/How-Survive-Thrive-Challenging-Times/dp/B088T5L251/ref=sr_1_1?dchild=1&keywords=piers+cross&qid=1609869608&sr=8-1 For more videos please visit: http://youtube.com/pierscross For FB: https://www.facebook.com/pierscrosspublic For Piers' website and a free training How To Find Peace In Everyday Life: https://www.piers-cross.com/community Many blessings, Piers Cross http://piers-cross.com/

Tom Greaves is an actor and comedian. He made an award winning show called, Goodbye Uncle Fudgey which was performed during the Edinburgh Fringe in 2023. It will be touring soon showing in London in April. This comedy tells the story of the fall out from boarding school. Tom trained at the world famous Ecole Philippe Gaulier clown school. Questions for Tom: #humour #laughterasmedicine #comedy #trauma #boardingschool #tomgreaves To find out more about Tom's shows please visit: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tom-greaves-a55baa23/?originalSubdomain=uk --- Piers is an author and a men's transformational coach and therapist who works mainly with trauma, boarding school issues, addictions and relationship problems. He also runs online men's groups for ex-boarders, retreats and a podcast called An Evolving Man. He is also the author of How to Survive and Thrive in Challenging Times. To purchase Piers first book: https://www.amazon.co.uk/How-Survive-Thrive-Challenging-Times/dp/B088T5L251/ref=sr_1_1?dchild=1&keywords=piers+cross&qid=1609869608&sr=8-1 For more videos please visit: http://youtube.com/pierscross For FB: https://www.facebook.com/pierscrosspublic For Piers' website and a free training How To Find Peace In Everyday Life: https://www.piers-cross.com/community Many blessings, Piers Cross http://piers-cross.com/

Today I wanted to offer some reflections about the mother wound and boarding school. I share some insights I had from last weekend's boarding school retreat which we were filming for our documentary Boarding on Insanity. I talk today about how boarding school creates a mother wound. Our mothers are no longer there for us. I share some teachings from Joy Schaverien and other experts in the field of the Mother Wound. Take care, Piers #motherwound #trauma #boardingschoolsyndrome --- Piers is an author and a men's transformational coach and therapist who works mainly with trauma, boarding school issues, addictions and relationship problems. He also runs online men's groups for ex-boarders, retreats and a podcast called An Evolving Man. He is also the author of How to Survive and Thrive in Challenging Times. To purchase Piers first book: https://www.amazon.co.uk/How-Survive-Thrive-Challenging-Times/dp/B088T5L251/ref=sr_1_1?dchild=1&keywords=piers+cross&qid=1609869608&sr=8-1 For more videos please visit: http://youtube.com/pierscross For FB: https://www.facebook.com/pierscrosspublic For Piers' website and a free training How To Find Peace In Everyday Life: https://www.piers-cross.com/community Many blessings, Piers Cross http://piers-cross.com/