The Style Strategist for Real Estate Agents

The fashion industry would love for you to believe that being stylish is about buying all the new fashion trends. The pressure to own the latest and greatest. Making you feel like the wonderful wardrobe pieces you have worked hard to earn and love to wear are no longer relevant. Or how about this gem... Wear whatever you love. Like, if you spend enough money on the clothes you like to wear, you will somehow know how to wear them and create beautiful outfits. That is a lie. It doesn't matter if you have the wallet of the King of England, you can't buy style. Money and buying more clothes isn't your problem. It's knowing what to do with the clothes you have bought is what style is all about. That is why I am answering the questions on the podcast today: How can you dress casual and look expensive? Style is Not About Price Tags Style is about how you wear the clothes you love for your body type in the right colors. That is why I always start with color and body type dressing. Quality Over Quantity Investing in a few high-quality pieces that are versatile, comfortable, and fit well can elevate your wardrobe significantly. These key items can be styled in numerous ways, creating a plethora of outfits without needing to constantly buy new clothes. Accessorize Wisely Accessories are your best friend! A simple outfit can be transformed with the right accessories. Belts, scarves, jewelry, and even hats can add that extra oomph to your attire, making it look more polished and put-together. And the best part? You can find stunning accessories at every price point. Thrifting and Upcycling Don't underestimate the power of thrift stores and vintage shops. They are treasure troves of unique pieces that can add character and flair to your wardrobe. Plus, upcycling — the practice of transforming existing pieces into something new — is not only budget-friendly but also environmentally conscious. It's 2024. It's time to erase these outdated myths that are keeping you from feeling stylish For more insights and practical tips on mastering the art of looking expensive yet casual — especially as a realtor braving the warm weather — tune in to this week's podcast episode. We'll deep-dive into how you can put items together that exudes sophistication without emptying your wallet. Your style should be a reflection of who you are, and remember, confidence is your best accessory. Here's to looking fabulous and feeling great, no matter the budget! Also, it's been quiet over on the podcast because I am in the process of rebranding the podcast from the Midlife Style School to Realtor Style School. This is the last of the Midlife Style School podcasts that I have recorded before the rebranding. Take note, I already updated the podcast name. This girl doesn't delay once she makes a decision. Season 4 of the podcast for realtors and entrepreneurs who are ready to elevate their personal brand image is uploading.... You can find Afton on: Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/aftonporter/ Follow me on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCD6_0sJPqQBoa7UJqNUzf8w Join the Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/styleguidesociety LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/aftonporterstyle/

You are successful and you know your great at what you do but business growth has slowed and you're getting price objections at your current price even though you know you need to raise them, you are in the freind zone. You need to showcase your authority in your industry and you do that through your personal brand. Then the Iconic Women Mastermind is for you. This is where everyday industry leaders become Icons. You can join using these links below: Iconic Women Mastermind - Payment Plan Iconic Women Mastermind - Pay In Full You can find Afton on: Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/aftonporter/ Follow me on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCD6_0sJPqQBoa7UJqNUzf8w Join the Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/styleguidesociety LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/aftonporterstyle/

Book you free Style Audit ---> HERE In this podcast you will learn who needs a personal brand and why. The steps you need to take to guide the words you visual brand image is saying. You can find Afton on: Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/aftonporter/ Follow me on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCD6_0sJPqQBoa7UJqNUzf8w Join the Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/styleguidesociety LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/aftonporterstyle/

Is this episode you will learn: Knowing the colors that look best on you will help you shine in your photographs that you use for your marketing materials, website, and social media photos. If you are ready to standout as a category of one in your industry then you need to join us inside the Iconic Women Mastermind in March and elevate your online presence throught style. Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/aftonporter/ Follow me on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCD6_0sJPqQBoa7UJqNUzf8w Join the Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/styleguidesociety

Book Your Call Here ----> 1:1 Consultation with Afton The Makeover Myth Makeovers, while exciting and dramatic, often fail to deliver lasting transformation. This is because they tend to focus on external changes rather than addressing the root causes of dissatisfaction with one's appearance. They create an illusion of change, but beneath the surface, nothing has truly shifted. That is why I coach my style clients, not just style them. Often times it's their own self-doubt and lack of confidnece that keeps them from seeing their own beauty and showing up as a category of one in their industry. Book a complimentry consultation call with me to see how I can help you look and feel like the iconic women that you know you are. Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/aftonporter/ Follow me on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCD6_0sJPqQBoa7UJqNUzf8w Join the Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/styleguidesociety

Lear more about the next Iconic Women Mastermind here ---- > Iconic Women Mastermind In this episode, we'll be exploring the concept of quiet luxury - a minimalist, elegant aesthetic that speaks volumes about your sophisticated taste and powerful persona. Here's what you can expect: Shirt Selection: We'll start by helping you select the perfect shirt from your closet that embodies the quiet luxury aesthetic. Think bias cut satins and soft sweaters. Pants Pairing: Next, we'll move on to choosing the right pants. Tailored trousers are a great choice for a minimalist, luxurious look. Shoe Choices: The right pair of shoes can elevate any outfit. We'll guide you in selecting the right footwear to complement your quiet luxury outfit. Layering Piece: Layering is an integral part of quiet luxury. We'll advise on selecting elevated layering pieces like wool coats and leather-like items. Accessories: Accessories play a critical role in enhancing the luxury aspect of your look. We'll discuss how to choose simple yet impactful accessories. Beauty: Lastly, we'll touch upon makeup choices that go hand-in-hand with the quiet luxury aesthetic, emphasizing natural beauty and effortless elegance. This episode is a must-listen if you're interested in cultivating a personal brand image that exudes sophistication, power, and elegance. It's all about making the most out of your existing wardrobe, embracing the quiet luxury trend without breaking the bank. Stay tuned for this exciting episode. We believe it will inspire you to curate your wardrobe in a way that truly reflects your entrepreneurial spirit and refined taste. Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/aftonporter/ Follow me on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCD6_0sJPqQBoa7UJqNUzf8w Join the Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/styleguidesociety

Book your complimentry Style Audit with Afton Porter: BOOK HERE Find Shelby Purdy on Instagram: HERE Find the jewelry company she mentions: Mountain Sun Creations Join the Iconic Women Mastermind ---> HERE Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/aftonporter/ Join the Free Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/styleguidesociety Follow me on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCD6_0sJPqQBoa7UJqNUzf8w

Join the style challenge Facebook group to watch the style challenge videos: https://www.facebook.com/groups/styleguidesociety How to Style the Little White Dress for a Timeless Luxury Look With the arrival of spring 2024, it's time to refresh your wardrobe and embrace the latest fashion trends. As a woman in midlife, your sartorial elegance is the hallmark of your success in professional and personal spheres. This year's trend of 'quiet luxury' calls for a reimagining of classic pieces, and there's no better canvas than the all-versatile Little White Dress (LWD). Transforming simple into stunning, discover how to infuse timeless elegance and opulence into your LWD this season. Embracing the Little White Dress Your Little White Dress is more than just a seasonal staple; it's a blank canvas of versatility. It embodies sophistication and the purity of style. When chosen thoughtfully, an LWD becomes the cornerstone of a powerful, yet feminine wardrobe. Choosing the Perfect Little White Dress Select a well-tailored LWD that flatters your figure. Look for quality fabrics like cotton, silk, or linen, which not only feel luxurious but also hold their shape. A modest hemline and sleeve length lend a graceful quality, perfectly suitable for your refined image. Connecting with Quiet Luxury The essence of 'quiet luxury' is in the details. Opt for simpler designs with subtle adornment – perhaps a delicate lace overlay or a minimalist beaded neckline. The idea is not to shout elegance but to let the whispers of finer craftsmanship speak volumes. Spring 2024 Trends This spring brings a fresh take on classic styles, focusing on pieces that exude opulence through understated details. Incorporate these trends into your LWD ensemble to strike the perfect balance between modern and timeless. Monochrome Magic Embrace the monochrome trend by pairing your LWD with accessories in similar shades. Rich creams and subtle beige tones play with light to create an effortlessly elegant look. A beige leather belt cinched at the waist complements the dress and emphasizes your silhouette, while a cream-colored handbag or clutch adds a sophisticated touch. Statement Accessories It's all about the accessories this season. A chunky, gold-link bracelet or a pair of chandelier earrings can turn your LWD into a show-stopping ensemble. The key is to let your accessories be the exclamation points in your outfit, anchoring your look in the trends of today without overpowering the timeless essence of the LWD. Comfy-Chic Footwear Comfort meets luxury with the trend of low-heeled, strappy sandals. Opt for nude or metallic tones to keep the focus on your dress. These sandals offer all-day wearability, making them a practical yet stylish choice for your professional engagements and social events alike. Join the Iconic Women Mastermind Waitlist ---> HERE Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/aftonporter/ Follow me on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCD6_0sJPqQBoa7UJqNUzf8w

Remeber to write a review for your chance to win the book, "It's So You: The Joy of Personal Style." I will announce the winner on the first podcast of march. Get on the waitlist for the Iconic Women Mastermind - HERE You know how some fashion books make you feel like there's a right and wrong way to dress? Well, "It's So You: The Joy of Personal Style" by Kate Spade New York is nothing like that. It's like having a chat with your best friend who encourages you to embrace your unique style and not just follow the crowd. Instead of dictating what you should wear, this book guides you on how to build a wardrobe that screams 'you'. It's jam-packed with engaging chats, cool style tips, and out-of-the-box outfit ideas. One thing I absolutely loved about this book is how it spotlights the little personal touches that can totally transform your style. It doesn't matter if you're dressing for a casual day out or a fancy event, this book nudges you to find joy in expressing yourself through your outfits. But it's not all about clothes. This book goes deeper and explores how embracing your personal style can add a dash of joy to your everyday life. It's a holistic approach that makes this book a gem not just for fashion enthusiasts but also for anyone keen on expressing themselves authentically through what they wear. To wrap it up, "It's So You: The Joy of Personal Style" by Kate Spade New York I would not consider a fashion guide but a book celebrating fashion, style, and your personal style. Join the style challenge Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/styleguidesociety Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/aftonporter/ Follow me on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCD6_0sJPqQBoa7UJqNUzf8w

Hello Style Icon! I am starting a new episode every week that is a style challenge to help you make small changes that will make a big impact to help you feel more polished and stylish. Today is Week 1! These will drop on Tuesdays. To join the Iconic Women Mastermind - JOIN HERE One healthy habit: Wash your makeup brushes weekly. I share examples of what soap you can use and how to do it properly. One Style Trend: Red slingback kitten heels and red purse to add a pop of color to your ordinary outfits. Beauty Prediction: Red lipstick to go along with the pops of red accessories Join the style challenge Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/styleguidesociety Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/aftonporter/ Follow me on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCD6_0sJPqQBoa7UJqNUzf8w

Learn More ---> Iconic Women Mastermind What's inside the Iconic Women Mastermind with Afton Porter: Lesson 1: Color Confidence & Headshots (90 Minutes) Group Live Lesson on Color & Coaching Color Analysis Headshot Photo Training Implementation Week : Office Hours (60 minutes) Receive your Color Analysis From Your Submitted Photos Practice the Skills From Week 1 and Receive Feedback Complete Homework Lesson 2: Body Type Analysis (90 Minutes) Group Live Lesson on Silhouettes & Coaching Body Type Analysis Full Body Training Collaboration with Like-minded Women Email Access to Afton Implementation Week : Office Hours (60 minutes) Receive your Body Type Analysis from Your Submitted Photos Practice the Skills From Week 3 and Receive Feedback Complete Homework Lesson 3: Beauty & Camera Confidence Beauty Recommendations Per Color Analysis Camera Confidence Coaching Collaboration with Like-minded Women Email Access to Afton Implementation Week : Office Hours (60 minutes) Practice the Skills From Week 5 and Receive Feedback Complete Homework Here’s what you’re getting when you enroll today: Iconic Women Mastermind - $297 Total Value: $1,250 Plus, you get to meet new women just like you! But, enroll today, you’ll get access to everything for just: $297 JOIN HERE

Register for the workshop starting January 23rd: Register Here I hope you enjoy learning about the color of the year as much as I did. Learn what the new color of the year is, who should wear it and who shouldn't and how you can incorporate it into your home. Follow Afton here: Website: https://aftonporter.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/aftonporter Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/AftonPorterStyle LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/aftonporterstyle

Sign up for the next Style Challnege: HERE Today, I want to touch upon a topic close to our hearts: the profound impact our thoughts about our bodies can have on our personal style journey. In our style evolution, self-awareness is the key that unlocks a wardrobe that truly resonates with who we are. Here's why being mindful of the thoughts we have about our bodies is a game-changer: Style Begins in the Mind: Your perception of your body shapes your style choices. By understanding and reshaping these thoughts, you gain the ability to curate a wardrobe that you really want to wear and not just trying to cover up your body. Confidence Unleashed: Embracing your body thoughts is a path to cultivating unshakeable confidence. When you are aware that the information you think is just feedback of what you really want. There is nothing wrong with you. You are on a path of growth. Fashion as Empowerment: It's not about conforming to societal norms; it's about using fashion as a tool. You will dress intentionally instead of unintentionally. Follow Afton here: Website: https://aftonporter.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/aftonporter Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/AftonPorterStyle LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/aftonporterstyle

Register for the style challenge here ----> STYLE CHALLENGE Challenge yourself to elevate your personal style so you can be seen as the expert you are and have the confidence to rock it! If you’re a professional women who has their own business and wants to attract high-value clients to achieve your big goals in 2024... You already know you need to elevate your style game. HERE'S WHAT YOU MIGHT NOT KNOW How Your Appearance Plays a Crucial Role Scientific Evidence Prove Your Clothes Influence Your Brain You Can Enhance Your Beauty Through Color The Wrong Clothing Distracts Your Brain Don't Dress for the Job You Have Even though the reasons to pursue polished style is obvious, how to do it successfully on your own is anything but... The 5 Myths that Are Killing Your Style I Need to Follow Trends While trends can be fun, they shouldn't dictate your style. Not every trend will suit you. It's important to understand which ones look best on you and what makes you feel confident. I Need to Constantly Update My Wardrobe Some women believe they always need new clothes or accessories to stay fashionable. I teach you how to find gems in your closet and how to incorporated them with the current styles for an updated look. The key to a great wardrobe is knowing how to use the clothes you already love in your closet. I Need to Dress Age Appropriate Sis, you don't need to wear clothes because you reached a certain age. And you don't have to cut your hair either. You can still wear whatever you love. But, you may have emotionally outgrown your clothes and that's okay. Nothing has gone wrong here. Sometimes the clothes in our closets no longer match who we are now. I will help you align your style with the woman you currently are. Style is Inherent Do you believe that to have style you have to be born with it? That is simply not true. Style is something anyone can learn, even you. It's about understanding what works best for your body type, lifestyle and personality. Expensive Equals Stylish Many women believe that spending more money on clothes automatically means you'll look more stylish. However, style isn't about the price tag. It's about how you wear an outfit, not how much it costs. When you know how to dress your body and wear the right colors, you will look like a million bucks. Join the style challenge

Ready to elevate your professional image: Click here ----> Book a 1:1 Consultation As the holiday season approaches, we know that planning for travel, especially deciding what to wear, can be a daunting task. That's why I'm thrilled to invite you to our latest episode of the Midlife Style School podcast - "Journey in Style: Comfortable & Chic Travel Outfits for Holiday". In this episode, we delve into the art of combining comfort and style in your travel outfits, particularly for those warm-weather destinations. I share two outfits that look fallish as you travel via plane or car to a warm destination and you can adapt it to cooler weather climates. When you are traveling but don't want to roll into the hotel or your realtives home looking like a hot mess. Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/aftonporter/ Follow me on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/AftonPorterStyle/

Ready to elevate your personal brand image? Schedule your Complimentry 1:1 Coaching Consultation In the ever-evolving world of personal branding, visibility is key. One of the most effective ways to increase this visibility and elevate your brand image is through professional photography. A well-executed photoshoot can help your brand stand out from the competition and give it a sense of quality and professionalism. But it's not just about taking high-quality pictures. It's also about choosing the right colors for your branding photography. The colors you choose can have a significant impact on how your brand is perceived, and they play a crucial role in forming clear visual identities for marketing materials. Here are two essential tips we discuss: Choosing the Best Colors for Branding Photoshoots: The colors in your photos should align with your brand's aesthetic and message. They should evoke the emotions you want associated with your brand and fit with your visual identity. Finding the Perfect Personal Brand Colors: Your personal brand colors should be consistent across all platforms, including your photos and marketing materials. This helps build a recognizable and unique personal brand. Successful personal brands have mastered the art of using colors strategically in their branding photography. And guess what? You can too! To learn more about this topic, I highly recommend tuning into the newest episode of the Midlife Style School podcast. I have dedicated an entire episode to discuss how to use colors strategically in your personal brand. Remember, your personal brand is a powerful tool that can set you apart from the crowd. With the right approach to professional photography and color selection, you can elevate your brand image and make a lasting impression. Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/aftonporter/ Follow me on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/AftonPorterStyle/

Show Notes Follow Afton on Instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/aftonporter She is answering your style question on Instagram the month of November. Be sure to go give her a follow. In this episode, we dive into the resurgence of wide-leg jeans and how you can incorporate them into your wardrobe. Whether you're 20 or 60, we believe style has no age limit and everyone can rock this trend. We discuss: Additional Points: Remember, fashion is about expressing yourself. Don't be afraid to experiment and make the wide-leg jeans trend your own. Happy styling!

Start your professioinal Glow-up Here: 1:1 Consultation The Professional Glow-Up: Assessment of Your Image Are you feeling stuck in your career? Do you need a change but don't know where to start? A Professional Glow-Up Assessment might be just what you need. In the grand theater of life, each one of us is a protagonist, a leading character with a unique role to play. And just like in any great drama, our costumes - our personal style - can speak volumes about our character before we even utter a single line. The Hunger Games", a dystopian franchise, used costumes as a critical element in illustrating the stark contrast between the impoverished districts and the wealthy Capitol. But beyond mere aesthetics, our personal style choices can significantly impact how we perceive ourselves, make decisions, and ultimately lead our lives. Your personal style is an external reflection of your inner self. When you dress in a way that authentically represents who you are, it boosts your self-confidence. You feel more comfortable in your skin, ready to take on challenges head-on. For example: Vera WangJulia ChildArianna HuffingtonMartha Stewart By transforming our personal style, we can effectively enhance our personal brand and boost self-confidence. This not only improves public perception but also paves the way for professional success and financial growth. If you're trying to determine whether it's time to update your professional image encompassing your attire, style, hair, makeup, and overall personal brand, here are some pointers to consider: Shifts in Goals or ValuesComfort and ConfidenceConsistencyNarrativeProfessionalismCurrent TrendsLife Changes How do you think others perceive you professionally, and does this align with how you want to be perceived? If you love your answer than congratulations. If you know you need to elevate your personal style & image, click the link in the show notes to schedule a 1:1 consultation with me and lets start elevating your personal brand image! Remember, your personal brand isn't just about how you look—it's a reflection of who you are, what you stand for, and how you portray yourself to others. Regularly assessing your personal brand ensures it remains authentic, relevant, and aligned with your current goals.

Book your 1:1 style consultation here: Book a Call Image walking into a crowded room and be noticed, being able to charge what you're worth, and opportunities are coming to you. Sound like a dream? No, it is the power of a Personal Brand Image. A personal brand image is essentially how you present yourself to the world. It's a unique combination of your skills, experiences, and personality that you want others to see. It reflects who you are, what you stand for, and what you offer. It's like your personal signature that distinguishes you from others in your industry or field. In the professional sphere, having a strong personal brand image is invaluable. Here's why: DifferentiationCredibility and TrustCareer AdvancementIncreased ValuePersonal Fulfillment In essence, your personal brand image is a critical component of your professional success. It’s not just about self-promotion, but about establishing your identity, building a reputation, and positioning yourself as a leader in your field. A well-crafted personal brand image allows you to present yourself confidently and authentically. It makes it easier for others to understand your value, which can lead to new professional opportunities. Curate Your Personal Brand Image: The Wardrobe Audit A "wardrobe audit" is a process where you evaluate the clothes you currently own to understand how they align with your personal style and image. It's an essential step when considering a reinvention of your personal brand image. Here's how it works: InventoryEvaluationSortingIdentifying GapsCreating a Shopping List Follow Afton Porter on Instagram Follow Afton Porter on Facebook

Fall is upon us, signaling a time of change in both the weather and our wardrobes. Often, this change includes the addition of a new handbag. Selecting a new handbag can sometimes be overwhelming, given the vast array of choices available. That's why in this week's episode of the Midlife Style School podcast, we're exploring the art of handbag selection. We'll discuss three key factors to consider when choosing a handbag to ensure you always look polished. Listen Here Handbags serve as an extension of our personalities and style, and can even uplift our mood. But did you know that the size and color of your handbag can significantly impact your overall look? Choosing a handbag that is proportional to your body size can enhance your silhouette, making you appear more put-together. Here's a fun tip: match your handbag with your hair color for a unique, coordinated look. Brunettes might opt for rich browns or blacks, blondes could choose pastel shades or bold reds, while redheads could go for greens or earthy tones. In this episode, we delve into these aspects and more. We discuss how different handbag styles can complement various body shapes, and how to select a design that flatters your figure. The Art of Handbag Selection Part 1: Scaling your handbag to your body size When choosing a handbag, it's important to consider your body size. The size of your bag should balance your proportions and not overwhelm your frame. If you're petite, look for smaller bags that won't drown you out. If you're tall or curvy, go for medium to large-sized bags that can balance out your shape. Also, pay attention to the strap length - shorter straps work better for shorter-height body types. Part 2: Matching your handbag to your hair color Did you know that matching your handbag to your hair color can create a cohesive and polished look? If you have blonde hair, try pairing it with pastel shades or bold reds. For brunettes, rich browns or blacks can be a great match. If you've got red hair, greens or earthy tones are the way to go. Part 3: Picking a design that flatters your body shape Different handbag styles can complement different body shapes. For curvier figures, structured bags with clean lines can help streamline your silhouette. If you're more petite, try a bag with vertical designs to elongate your torso. Remember to also take into account the occasion and purpose of the bag - a formal event might require a clutch while an everyday work tote needs to have room for your essentials. Choosing the perfect handbag can seem daunting, but following these simple guidelines on scaling, color and design can make things a whole lot easier. By matching your handbag to your body type, hair color and outfit, you're sure to look and feel your best. Thank you for tuning in to the Midlife Style School, think like a style icon!