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✅ FREE “QUIT-PORN” CASE STUDY VIDEO: Learn the system that has helped HUNDREDS of men around the world realize their potential, restore their relationships, and reconnect with God. One of the most common questions I get is from wives asking how they can support their husbands in recovery. Usually they're asking, "How can I convince my husband that he needs help?" Or sometimes the husband is already in recovery, and they're not sure how best to support or navigate the relationship. So ladies, this one is for you. And men...stick around to the end of the episode, I have something important for you to hear. In this episode, I discuss: 1:40 Answering one of the most common questions from the ladies who listen to the podcast! 4:50 The first hard truth you have to accept 7:48 What to do instead...the question to ask yourself 9:18 The second layer of support you can offer 10:07 What to do if your husband isn't on the recovery journey 12:23 A message to the men listening (about your wife) Resources Mentioned: The Last Relapse (Free Book!) Get Your Question Answered: ❓ Submit Your Question Here LET'S CONNECT ➡️ Free Recovery Resources from Sathiya ➡️ Follow Sathiya on Instagram ➡️ Subscribe on YouTube Please subscribe and review on Apple or Spotify!

Free Call With Lila for The Women Listening, or Your Significant Other: https://calendly.com/lilap-2/30min --- ✅ FREE “QUIT-PORN” CASE STUDY VIDEO: Learn the system that has helped HUNDREDS of men around the world realize their potential, restore their relationships, and reconnect with God. Lila Pisor is a betrayal trauma expert. We spend most of our time on this show talking about the male experience of pornography addiction, but it is absolutely vital that you understand the female experience of addiction and recovery. Lila provided amazing wisdom and insights for you to understand what your significant other is going through, and how to build your relationship back up as you find freedom from pornography. In this episode, we discuss: 0:00 Intro to Lila and why this is an important episode 3:20 Lila's story of betrayal 8:05 Marriage on the other side of reconciliation and recovery 11:45 Why get into this line of work helping other couples 13:32 What prompts people to finally take action and get help? 15:30 What about women who don't see it as their problem - only their husband's? 17:01 The impact on children 22:03 What are the actual steps to working through betrayal trauma? 32:40 What characteristics usually lead to success in recovery? 34:48 How men can heal relationships while they recover from addiction Resources Mentioned: Regener8 Mentoring Adam Young Big Six Adam Young Podcast Your Sexually Addicted Spouse Free Call With Lila for The Women Listening, or Your Significant Other Get Your Question Answered: ❓ Submit Your Question Here LET'S CONNECT ➡️ Free Recovery Resources from Sathiya ➡️ Follow Sathiya on Instagram ➡️ Watch on YouTube Please subscribe and review on Apple or Spotify!

✅ FREE “QUIT-PORN” CASE STUDY VIDEO: Learn the system that has helped HUNDREDS of men around the world realize their potential, restore their relationships, and reconnect with God. One of the most tragic things in the culture today is that so many of us think that our identity is something we have to achieve. Something we get from our performance. But as Christians, you and I need to remember that our identity is given to us already as believers in Christ. It's not about achieving it...it's about discovering it. We all have an infinitely full spiritual "bank account", but we need to constantly grow in how much we can access it. In this episode, I discuss: 0:44 Submit your questions (link below) 3:21 The subject you just can't run away from...identity 4:34 What it actually means to be a "new creation" 5:58 Discover your identity, don't achieve it Get Your Question Answered: ❓ Submit Your Question Here LET'S CONNECT ➡️ Free Recovery Resources from Sathiya ➡️ Follow Sathiya on Instagram ➡️ Watch on YouTube Please subscribe and review on Apple or Spotify!

✅ FREE “QUIT-PORN” CASE STUDY VIDEO: Learn the system that has helped HUNDREDS of men around the world realize their potential, restore their relationships, and reconnect with God. Join Sathiya and DeepClean Head Coach Shawn Bonneteau on today's Q&A episode, where they answer listener-submitted questions! Submit your questions below by clicking on the Submit Your Questions Here link. We kick off this episode by opening a can of worms, discussing submission in marriage and the ideas of complementarianism vs egalitarianism. Then, we answer 3 of your questions on how to move past sexual immorality, whether you should use libido-reducing supplements, and how to help your son when you find out he's struggling with porn. In this episode, we discuss: 1:03 Live coaching on the podcast SOON 6:04 Submission in the context of a marriage (complementarian vs egalitarian?) 16:12 Challenging judgement of non-traditional gender roles 22:57 Question 1: How do I heal from sexual immorality in a past relationship as I pursue a new woman in sexual integrity? 30:48 Question 2: Am I interfering with my recovery by using libido-reducing supplements? 35:33 Question 3: How do I support my teenage son in his recently-revealed struggle with pornography? Get Your Question Answered: ❓ Submit Your Question Here Resources Mentioned Sheila Wray Gregoire Podcasts on Complementarianism Sheila Wray Gregoire IG The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry by John Mark Comer The Last Relapse (Free Book) The Grief Recovery Method Books The Big Six - What Every Child Needs From Their Parents LET'S CONNECT ➡️ Free Recovery Resources from Sathiya ➡️ Follow Sathiya on Instagram ➡️ Watch on YouTube

✅ FREE “QUIT-PORN” CASE STUDY VIDEO: Learn the system that has helped HUNDREDS of men around the world realize their potential, restore their relationships, and reconnect with God. Time to open up a can of worms. On the one hand, sexual sin is equal with other sins insofar as they fall short of God's perfection. However, I'm going to dive into 1 Corinthians 6 with you to show that sexual sin actually IS worse than other sins, and hopefully encourage you to walk in freedom and honour the living God by treating your body as the temple He deserves. In this episode, I discuss: 0:53 Our free resources available to you, including my book (links below) 2:35 Laying out the argument of comparing or ranking sins 4:37 Sexual sin IS NOT worse than any other sin, BUT... 6:26 What 1 Corinthians tells us about sexual sin 8:17 Sexual sin IS worse than other sins, BECAUSE... Resources: The Last Relapse (get my book for free!) Get Your Question Answered: ❓ Submit Your Question Here LET'S CONNECT ➡️ Free Recovery Resources from Sathiya ➡️ Follow Sathiya on Instagram ➡️ Watch on YouTube Please subscribe and review on Apple or Spotify!

✅ FREE “QUIT-PORN” CASE STUDY VIDEO: Learn the system that has helped HUNDREDS of men around the world realize their potential, restore their relationships, and reconnect with God. Greg Oliver’s sexual addiction was exposed in 2009, bringing severe consequences, but also hope for a future free from addiction. God graciously used this exposure to transform Greg’s life, and now the lives of many other men. Greg is the Founder and Executive Director of Awaken, where he uses his own experience and skills to help other men break free from sexual addiction. In this episode, we discuss: 2:43 Greg’s story of being caught in sexual sin and how it led to him now helping men recover from sexual brokenness 8:06 What’s changed over the past 9 years when it comes to helping men with recovery? 16:40 Not just behavior modification…new, better recovery resources 19:33 Challenges men face in the recovery process 22:45 How to build real, meaningful connections with people around you 26:28 Bringing your wife into your recovery for both your benefits (especially after a betrayal of trust) 33:30 What did Greg’s marriage look like during the recovery process? 37:28 What does it really mean to get to the root of the problem? 42:31 How Greg stays clean and free personally after many years in this space Resources Mentioned: Awaken Johann Hari: Everything You Think You Know About Addiction Is Wrong TED Talk Get Your Question Answered: ❓ Submit Your Question Here LET'S CONNECT ➡️ Free Recovery Resources from Sathiya ➡️ Follow Sathiya on Instagram ➡️ Watch on YouTube Please subscribe and review on Apple or Spotify!

✅ FREE “QUIT-PORN” CASE STUDY VIDEO: Learn the system that has helped HUNDREDS of men around the world realize their potential, restore their relationships, and reconnect with God. One of the worst consequences of pornography addiction is the toll it takes on our intimate relationships. We've worked with too many clients who come to us after their wife has threatened divorce...or actually left them. But praise God, there IS hope to repair your relationships, and today I'm going to give you my 3 best tips to do so. In this episode, I discuss: 0:58 Make sure to submit your questions for me and Shawn to answer (link below) 1:54 The huge consequences that porn has on relationships (including indirect ones you might not even realize) 5:05 Mend broken relationships through meaningful connection with others 6:36 Mend broken relationships by learning to trust yourself 8:15 Mend broken relationships through prayer (plus an incredible story of God's grace in answering prayer) Resources: The Last Relapse (get my book for free!) Get Your Question Answered: ❓ Submit Your Question Here LET'S CONNECT ➡️ Free Recovery Resources from Sathiya ➡️ Follow Sathiya on Instagram ➡️ Watch on YouTube Please subscribe and review on Apple or Spotify!

✅ FREE “QUIT-PORN” CASE STUDY VIDEO: Learn the system that has helped HUNDREDS of men around the world realize their potential, restore their relationships, and reconnect with God. Join Sathiya and DeepClean Head Coach Shawn Bonneateau on today's Q&A episode, where they answer listener-submitted questions! Submit your questions below by clicking on the Submit Your Questions Here link. They explain why they're not massive fans of a few of the mainstream porn recovery methods, then answer questions on emotional overwhelm, confessing sexual thoughts to your wife, and understanding the effects of early trauma and how to move on. In this episode, we discuss: 2:05 The three mainstream porn recovery methods and why we're not huge fans 4:11 Willpower 7:47 Internet Filters 14:43 Accountability groups 20:29 Question 1: How do I get better at handling emotional overwhelm so I don't turn to porn as a coping mechanism? 30:00 Question 2: What are some boundaries or guidelines you recommend in confessing sexual thoughts and behaviours to my wife? 39:30 Question 3: How to understand the effects of trauma as a young child, and how to move on Get Your Question Answered: ❓ Submit Your Question Here Resources Mentioned The Feel Wheel in my book, The Last Relapse Unwanted by Jay Stringer LET'S CONNECT ➡️ Free Recovery Resources from Sathiya ➡️ Follow Sathiya on Instagram ➡️ Watch on YouTube

✅ FREE “QUIT-PORN” CASE STUDY VIDEO: Learn the system that has helped HUNDREDS of men around the world realize their potential, restore their relationships, and reconnect with God. Pornography is still such a socially acceptable thing in our culture that the lies and myths surrounding it get perpetuated without nearly enough push back. In this episode, I debunk 7 myths that you've probably heard about porn that you might even believe. It's vital that we know the truth about just how destructive porn is so that we treat our recovery seriously! In this episode, I discuss: 1:01 Free resources for listeners of this show (link below) 1:46 Why myths about pornography get perpetuated so easily 3:15 Myth 1: Porn addiction is only for hyper-sexual people 4:06 Myth 2: Porn is not as bad as other addictions 5:23 Myth 3: Porn addiction is only for people with moral or religious beliefs 7:02 Myth 4: Porn is a useful tool to spice up your sex life 8:09 Myth 5: Porn is educational and informative 10:08 Myth 6: Porn is free 10:39 Myth 7: Ethical porn is better than mainstream porn Get Your Question Answered: ❓ Submit Your Question Here LET'S CONNECT ➡️ Free Recovery Resources from Sathiya ➡️ Follow Sathiya on Instagram ➡️ Watch on YouTube Please subscribe and review on Apple or Spotify!

✅ FREE “QUIT-PORN” CASE STUDY VIDEO: Learn the system that has helped HUNDREDS of men around the world realize their potential, restore their relationships, and reconnect with God. Regular podcast guest Shane O’Neill joins Sathiya once more to dive DEEP into a very nuanced subject…the difference between pornography and masturbation. We discuss whether one is worse than the other, the ways that each individual issue impacts us physically/spiritually/emotionally, some surprising research about fertility, and we even get personal about our own temptations. In this episode, we discuss: 2:48 Life updates from Sathiya and Shane 6:44 Initial thoughts distinguishing pornography use and masturbation 13:21 The deep issues with masturbation, and why pornography still seems worse 21:45 Thoughts on wet dreams…is it your body’s way of regulating? 27:49 Deeper dive into the differences between pornography and masturbation 32:40 What about practicing “distance intimacy” with your spouse (on video or a phone call)? 36:34 Personal temptations…are we more tempted to one issue than the other? 39:45 The clinching piece of evidence: fertility levels 44:20 Prayer requests Resources Mentioned: The Body Keeps The Score by Bessel Van Der Kolk The Naked Gospel Podcast Proven Ministries Get Your Question Answered: ❓ Submit Your Question Here LET'S CONNECT ➡️ Free Recovery Resources from Sathiya ➡️ Follow Sathiya on Instagram ➡️ Watch on YouTube Please subscribe and review on Apple or Spotify!

✅ FREE “QUIT-PORN” CASE STUDY VIDEO: Learn the system that has helped HUNDREDS of men around the world realize their potential, restore their relationships, and reconnect with God. If you're courageous enough to do the work of getting to the root of the issue that's causing you to seek pornography, there's a good chance you'll level up in other areas of your life, including physical fitness. I share a little about my own fitness journey and how it relates to becoming free of pornography, while discussing the fact that you start to look at your body and self-care differently when you quit porn. In this episode, I discuss: 0:52 Please leave a rating or review to help the show! 1:32 The physical side-effects of porn 3:25 Starting to look at your body differently when you quit pornography 6:45 My journey quitting pornography and getting into shape 10:44 We can forget that other areas of our lives are impacted by our pornography addiction Resources: The 5 Physical Side-Effects of Porn Addiction Episode Sal Di Stefano Get Your Question Answered: ❓ Submit Your Question Here LET'S CONNECT ➡️ Free Recovery Resources from Sathiya ➡️ Follow Sathiya on Instagram ➡️ Watch on YouTube Please subscribe and review on Apple or Spotify!

✅ FREE “QUIT-PORN” CASE STUDY VIDEO: Learn the system that has helped HUNDREDS of men around the world realize their potential, restore their relationships, and reconnect with God. Join Sathiya and DeepClean Head Coach Shawn Bonneateau on today's Q&A episode, where they answer listener-submitted questions! Submit your questions below by clicking on the Submit Your Questions Here link. Sathiya and Shawn discuss the hypersexuality that exists in Europe and the broader cultural discussions and backlash around sexuality, then answer your questions about how to master your habits, what to do about traumas that keep you from feeling like a man, and how to actually start dreaming again and create a vision. In this episode, we discuss: 2:00 The hypersexuality of Europe 5:50 Degradation of identity and the backlash against culturally conservative views on sexuality 9:43 How we bring awareness to our coaching in a world that doesn’t even see porn as a problem 16:31 Whether you should quit masturbating 21:52 Question 1: How do I master myself and avoid falling back into bad habits? 28:35 Question 2: I have some traumas that make me feel like less of a man 34:25 Question 3: I struggle with finding a vision, how can I recover the ability to dream? Resources Mentioned The Last Relapse - Get my book for free Get Your Question Answered: ❓ Submit Your Question Here LET'S CONNECT ➡️ Free Recovery Resources from Sathiya ➡️ Follow Sathiya on Instagram ➡️ Watch on YouTube

✅ FREE “QUIT-PORN” CASE STUDY VIDEO: Learn the system that has helped HUNDREDS of men around the world realize their potential, restore their relationships, and reconnect with God. Whether your dad was amazing or absent, one thing is for sure: he wasn't perfect. Because our fathers weren't perfect, most of us have wounds we need to explore and heal related to our dad. This has been one of the biggest areas of growth and freedom in my own life, and in the final minute or so of this episode, I talk about the HUGE reason why you must take this seriously...too many men have inaccurate and harmful views of God because they don't do this work! In this episode, I discuss: 0:40 Watch the case study video linked above and book a call if you're ready to truly get clean once and for all 2:07 My story unraveling the threads of my relationship with my father 5:41 This work shifted my sense of masculinity and even my sense of self 6:45 Healing and freedom from dealing with father wounds 7:59 The relief of being myself and not idolizing my dad 9:36 The BIG reason why we need to deal with our relationship with our father Get Your Question Answered: ❓ Submit Your Question Here LET'S CONNECT ➡️ Free Recovery Resources from Sathiya ➡️ Follow Sathiya on Instagram ➡️ Watch on YouTube Please subscribe and review on Apple or Spotify!

✅ FREE “QUIT-PORN” CASE STUDY VIDEO: Learn the system that has helped HUNDREDS of men around the world realize their potential, restore their relationships, and reconnect with God. Sal Di Stefano joins us today to share deep insights earned over the past few decades as a health and fitness professional. Sal focuses on longevity of healthy habits, the deeper WHY behind health and fitness, the unshakeable fundamentals of living a healthy life, how to keep from falling into either ditch (overtraining or not taking it seriously enough), and more. Check out Sal’s podcast, Mind Pump (links below). In this episode, we discuss: 3:41 What most fitness programs are getting wrong 10:00 The pillars for someone trying to be healthy in a well-rounded way 13:59 Is there one workout regimen that works “forever”, or is it okay to go through seasons where you focus on different things? 17:25 How to tell if you’re overdoing it 19:55 Body dysmorphia, addiction, and developing a healthy relationship with food and fitness 27:11 How to tell if you’ve got a healthy motivation for health and fitness 32:11 The interplay between physical and spiritual wellness 34:43 Practical applications to stay aware of God’s grace 36:49 Balancing universal principles and individual nuanced situations Resources Mentioned: Mindpump Podcast (Apple) Mindpump Podcast (Spotify) Mindpump Podcast (YouTube) Mindpump Instagram Selective Attention Test Video (Basketball passes) Get Your Question Answered: ❓ Submit Your Question Here LET'S CONNECT ➡️ Free Recovery Resources from Sathiya ➡️ Follow Sathiya on Instagram ➡️ Watch on YouTube Please subscribe and review on Apple or Spotify!

✅ FREE “QUIT-PORN” CASE STUDY VIDEO: Learn the system that has helped HUNDREDS of men around the world realize their potential, restore their relationships, and reconnect with God. One of the biggest mistakes I see my clients make is that they get a little bit of success and then they look for something else to take them the rest of the way, or they start to coast. Do not do this! In this episode I share my 2 Question Framework for going to the next level in any area of life. These are NOT complicated questions, guys, but they're transformative when you take them seriously. Apply these to literally any area of your life you'd like to grow in, and let me know how it goes! In this episode, I discuss: 0:40 Follow me on IG (link below!) 2:45 The two biggest mistakes people make when pursuing a goal 3:52 The power of momentum 4:42 The 2 Question Framework I ask my clients when they plateau or get stuck Get Your Question Answered: ❓ Submit Your Question Here LET'S CONNECT ➡️ Free Recovery Resources from Sathiya ➡️ Follow Sathiya on Instagram ➡️ Watch on YouTube Please subscribe and review on Apple or Spotify!

✅ FREE “QUIT-PORN” CASE STUDY VIDEO: Learn the system that has helped HUNDREDS of men around the world realize their potential, restore their relationships, and reconnect with God. Join Sathiya and DeepClean Head Coach Shawn Bonneateau on today's Q&A episode, where they answer listener-submitted questions! Submit your questions below by clicking on the Submit Your Questions Here link. Sathiya and Shawn discuss personal wins and experiences through fasting and journaling, then answer your questions about marriage and porn addiction, feelings of becoming asexual, and how to navigate a relationship where penetrative sex doesn't seem possible. In this episode, we discuss: 2:57 What God is up to in the DeepClean community 4:00 Fasting, including a breakthrough from a clieant 10:16 The power of journaling in Sathiya's life and how God speaks to us 16:45 What to really pay attention to when fasting and how to take it seriously for true relational depth with God 24:24 Question 1: Dating for years, but held off on marriage because of my continual relapses, should I end the relationship? 31:40 Question 2: I've become somewhat asexual as a side effect of trying to quit porn, how do I get over it? 37:47 Question 3: Due to ED, low testosterone, wife's beliefs, etc., I find the only way to orgasm is by spending too much time with porn and masturbation...what should I do? Get Your Question Answered: ❓ Submit Your Question Here LET'S CONNECT ➡️ Free Recovery Resources from Sathiya ➡️ Follow Sathiya on Instagram ➡️ Watch on YouTube

✅ FREE “QUIT-PORN” CASE STUDY VIDEO: Learn the system that has helped HUNDREDS of men around the world realize their potential, restore their relationships, and reconnect with God. The overabundance of mental illness diagnoses could be one of the defining issues of our day. Diagnoses should inform us, but they shouldn't define us. I share a personal story about my experience with this issue, and talk about how identifying with our diagnoses could be keeping us from truly living out our God-given identities. In this episode, I discuss: 0:44 Get my book for free (The Last Relapse) 2:20 Western medicine and what happens when a diagnosis becomes an identity 5:30 Diagnosis rarely discusses the cause of the issue 7:46 Why we don't like labeling ourselves or clients as "porn addicts" 8:32 Let diagnoses inform you, not define you Resources: The Last Relapse Get Your Question Answered: ❓ Submit Your Question Here LET'S CONNECT ➡️ Free Recovery Resources from Sathiya ➡️ Follow Sathiya on Instagram ➡️ Watch on YouTube Please subscribe and review on Apple or Spotify!

✅ FREE “QUIT-PORN” CASE STUDY VIDEO: Learn the system that has helped HUNDREDS of men around the world realize their potential, restore their relationships, and reconnect with God. Paul Louis Cole is a husband, father, grandfather, President of the Christian Men’s Network Worldwide, and Founding Pastor of C3 Church in Dallas, Texas. With an extensive network and experience around the world speaking into mens' lives, he brings a deep wisdom to the conversation about discipling men, cross-cultural communication, trauma, and how to find peace in an age of noise. In this episode, we discuss: 3:30 1 million men discipled in Indonesia alone 6:07 The full discipleship process, "shoulder to shoulder" 10:03 Jesus didn't pick disciples who were just "hanging out"...they were all busy working, doing, building 16:42 Appealing to men all over the world through the universal character and temptation to sin of men 22:58 Why trauma informs our addictions and what we do to escape from pain 29:45 What men are hung up on today 35:04 The noise of the industrial age and how to find peace and quiet 40:10 How to slow down Resources Mentioned: Christian Men's Network Get Your Question Answered: ❓ Submit Your Question Here LET'S CONNECT ➡️ Free Recovery Resources from Sathiya ➡️ Follow Sathiya on Instagram ➡️ Watch on YouTube Please subscribe and review on Apple or Spotify!

✅ FREE “QUIT-PORN” CASE STUDY VIDEO: Learn the system that has helped HUNDREDS of men around the world realize their potential, restore their relationships, and reconnect with God. Very few things are more important these days for a man than being confident. But from my personal experience, and the experience of many of our clients, I know that pornography addictions CRUSHES confidence. You might think it's no big deal, that pornography addiction doesn't actually hurt you or anyone around you...but when you count the wasted potential? It's enormous. Confidence is truly developed from the habitual demonstration of courage...so I encourage you today to stay clean and do the right, hard things necessary to build courage across all areas of your life! In this episode, I discuss: 1:19 Answering your questions! How to submit for upcoming episodes 2:12 Our new program...what next? 3:01 How porn crushes confidence 4:30 Taking more risks for greater rewards 6:10 Confidence comes from the habitual demonstration of courage 8:06 What Halo 2 teaches about confidence Get Your Question Answered: ❓ Submit Your Question Here LET'S CONNECT ➡️ Free Recovery Resources from Sathiya ➡️ Follow Sathiya on Instagram ➡️ Watch on YouTube Please subscribe and review on Apple or Spotify!

✅ FREE “QUIT-PORN” CASE STUDY VIDEO: Learn the system that has helped HUNDREDS of men around the world realize their potential, restore their relationships, and reconnect with God. Join Sathiya and DeepClean Head Coach Shawn Bonneateau on today's Q&A episode, where they answer listener-submitted questions! Submit your questions below by clicking on the Submit Your Questions Here link. They start off with some life updates including a discussion on sleep training (which actually relates to attachment theory and emotional regulation, which are very important topics in recovery), then answer questions related to next steps after taking huge action for recovery accountability, as it relates to dating, and how to actually find the underlying cause of your porn usage. In this episode, we discuss: 0:35 Life updates from Sathiya and Shawn 4:58 Sleep training for babies (including attachment and emotional regulation) 10:24 The cancel culture in Canada, breakups, and Covid craziness 19:07 Question 1: How do I deal with my struggle with pornography in my dating relationship? 28:17 Question 2: How to find out what the underlying cause of my porn use is? Get Your Question Answered: ❓ Submit Your Question Here Resources Mentioned Matt Cline, Restored Ministries LET'S CONNECT ➡️ Free Recovery Resources from Sathiya ➡️ Follow Sathiya on Instagram ➡️ Watch on YouTube