Marriage Quick Tips: Affairs, Communication, Avoiding Divorce, and Saving Your Marriage

If you’ve made the mistake of cheating and are looking for ways to mend your marriage, this video is your first step towards healing. Dr. Joe Beam, a relationship expert from Marriage Helper, guides you through the complex emotions and decisions you face after an affair. Whether it was a brief slip or an ongoing issue, understanding the type of affair and how to approach reconciliation is crucial. Dr. Beam provides expert advice on communicating effectively with your spouse, taking responsibility, and the essential steps to rebuild trust and love. Watch to learn how to restore your marriage and turn a crisis into a strengthening journey for you and your spouse. Click here to get in contact with someone on our team at Marriage Helper

In this heartfelt video, Scott and Ruth delve deep into the essential elements that have kept their marriage strong and thriving: forgiveness and commitment. Their journey hasn’t been easy; they’ve faced significant challenges, including infidelity, but they’ve emerged stronger on the other side. Through open communication, trust-building, and unwavering dedication, Scott and Ruth discovered that true forgiveness and steadfast commitment are the foundation of a lasting, fulfilling marriage. They share personal anecdotes and practical advice that have helped them navigate through tough times, emphasizing the importance of emotional and spiritual connection. Whether viewers are facing similar struggles or simply looking to strengthen their relationships, Scott and Ruth’s story offers hope and practical insights. Join Scott and Ruth as they discuss: • The transformative power of forgiveness and how it benefits both partners. • The role of commitment in overcoming marital challenges. • Practical steps to rebuild trust after infidelity. • The importance of maintaining emotional and spiritual connections in a marriage. • How to cultivate a resilient and loving relationship through ongoing growth and communication. They hope their experiences can inspire and guide others who may be facing difficulties in their marriages. Remember, a strong and lasting marriage is possible with the right mindset and actions. Click here to get in contact with someone on our team at Marriage Helper

Get ready for a powerful and inspiring conversation! Alice Beam opens up about the most challenging chapter of her life - her divorce. You'll hear the raw emotions of a marriage breakdown, the struggles of single motherhood, and the road to rediscovering her strength. But this isn't just a story of heartbreak. It’s a story of profound hope. Alice shares how she picked up the pieces, found her voice, and ultimately made a life-changing decision to reconcile her marriage with Dr. Joe Beam. This episode is for you if: - You're going through a divorce or separation - You're a single parent feeling overwhelmed - You're looking for hope and inspiration to rebuild your life Alice's story is a testament to the human spirit's resilience. Get ready to be encouraged and empowered! Plus, you'll hear about: - How she navigated the emotional rollercoaster of divorce - The support system that helped her get back on her feet - The surprising decision that led to the creation of Marriage Helper - Advice for parents going through a tough time Don't miss this incredible episode! 📺 Watch the full episode here: https://youtu.be/Az_8Ds_cJCY?si=tYFOK5cGCG2pziUA Click here to get in contact with someone on our team at Marriage Helper

Discovering infidelity in your marriage is a heart-wrenching experience, leaving you with a whirlwind of emotions and uncertainties. But how do you confront your cheating spouse without escalating the situation? In this insightful video, Dr. Joe Beam, renowned marriage expert from Marriage Helper, offers invaluable guidance on navigating the challenging terrain of confronting infidelity and rebuilding trust. Dr. Beam shares practical wisdom gained from over 30 years of experience in helping thousands of couples overcome marital crisis. He emphasizes the importance of verifying the reliability of information before confronting your spouse about suspected infidelity. Drawing from real-life anecdotes, Dr. Beam highlights the potential pitfalls of impulsive confrontations and offers strategic approaches to address marital issues with sensitivity and clarity. Key Insights: - Understanding the significance of reliable information in confronting infidelity. - Learning from real-life anecdotes to avoid common pitfalls in confrontation. - Strategically approaching marital issues with sensitivity and clarity. Who is this for: This episode is for anyone facing the painful reality of infidelity in their marriage, seeking guidance on how to confront a cheating spouse, rebuild trust, and navigate the path to healing and reconciliation. If you're grappling with the devastating impact of betrayal and looking for expert advice from Dr. Joe Beam and Marriage Helper, this video is for you. Whether you're grappling with suspicions of infidelity or seeking to rebuild trust in your marriage, this video provides essential insights into effective communication, setting boundaries, and fostering emotional healing. Dr. Beam's compassionate yet pragmatic advice empowers couples to navigate the complexities of betrayal and chart a path towards reconciliation. Click here to get in contact with someone on our team at Marriage Helper

🌟 Welcome to a transformative journey towards healing and strengthening your marriage. In this video, we dive deep into the foundational step of regaining peace and clarity amidst marital challenges. Learn why achieving calmness is not just beneficial but essential in paving the way for effective communication and problem-solving with your spouse. 👫 What you'll discover: The Importance of Calm: Understand how staying calm impacts your ability to think clearly and respond rather than react during intense emotional moments. Strategies for Reducing Stress: Get practical tips and exercises designed to help you manage anxiety and depression, which are common barriers in resolving marital conflicts. Real-Life Applications: Hear insightful examples and parables that illustrate how you can apply these techniques in everyday life to improve your marital relationship. 💡 Whether you're navigating the aftermath of an affair, dealing with financial stress, or simply looking to enhance your communication, this video offers crucial advice on starting with yourself to create a positive ripple effect in your marriage. 🔔 Subscribe to our channel for more helpful tips and insights on maintaining a healthy and loving marriage. Don't forget to like this video and share it with someone who could benefit from these life-changing strategies! Click here to get in contact with someone on our team at Marriage Helper

Sometimes, saving your marriage feels impossible. Maybe your spouse has checked out, fallen out of love, or is tangled in something that's breaking your bond. But here's the thing: we at Marriage Helper have witnessed incredible transformations. Couples facing what SEEMED like hopeless situations have reignited their love. How? Well, it starts with one simple thing: refusing to give up hope. In this video, Dr. Joe Beam cuts through the despair. He explains what hope truly means in the context of marriage. It's not just wishful thinking, it's the belief that even in the darkest moments, there's a path forward. He shares practical steps you can take to cultivate hope, even when things feel overwhelming. If deep down you want a chance at happiness in your marriage, this message is for you. You CAN save your marriage. Click here to get in contact with someone on our team at Marriage Helper

Join Kimberly Beam Holmes, CEO of Marriage Helper, as she dives deep into relationship challenges posted on the Reddit relationship advice forum. In this insightful episode, Kimberly addresses complex situations with practical advice, focusing on the importance of understanding and support over ultimatums in a marriage. Discover how to handle marital issues with compassion and teamwork, and why seeing your spouse as your ally is crucial for a healthy relationship. Kimberly provides expert advice on navigating these sensitive issues. Learn why supporting a spouse through depression is more constructive than issuing demands and how mutual respect is the cornerstone of any strong relationship. Whether you're facing similar challenges or seeking to strengthen your marriage, this video offers valuable insights and actionable tips. Click here to get in contact with someone on our team at Marriage Helper

Are you paralyzed by fear in your marriage? Feeling helpless, hopeless, and confused about how to fix things? Relationship expert Dr. Joe Beam understands the destructive power of fear and how it can sabotage even the most well-intentioned efforts to save a marriage. In this eye-opening video, Dr. Joe Beam discusses: - How fear prevents you from taking action to improve your relationship. - Why the things you think will help may actually be making things worse. - The simple yet powerful "push pull" principle that can transform your marriage. Dr. Beam has helped thousands of couples worldwide overcome their challenges and create stronger, more fulfilling relationships. He shares his wisdom and insights gained from 30 years of experience to help you: Replace fear with confidence. Learn how to influence positive change in your spouse. Break free from destructive patterns. If you're ready to take control of your life and your marriage, click the link below to connect with one of Dr. Joe Beam's intake specialists and discover the best path forward for your unique situation. Remember, you are not alone. Hope and help are within reach. Take the first step towards a happier, healthier marriage today! Click here to get in contact with someone on our team at Marriage Helper

Is physical attraction essential for a lasting marriage? The answer might surprise you! In this video, viewers will explore the role of physical attraction alongside the four areas of attraction from Marriage Helper: physical, intellectual, emotional, and spiritual (PIES). While physical attraction often sparks initial interest, it's the other forms of attraction that truly sustain a marriage. This video discusses: - How to become the most attractive version of yourself - The importance of shared interests, emotional connection, and aligned values - What to do if you're currently not physically attracted to your spouse - Strategies for focusing on the other aspects of attraction Remember, becoming our best selves benefits not only our marriage but all our relationships. 🎧 Click here to subscribe to the It Starts With Attraction Podcast! https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/it-starts-with-attraction/id1510016468 Click here to subscribe to Kimberly Beam Holmes on YouTube! https://youtube.com/@kimberlybeamholmes Click here to get in contact with someone on our team at Marriage Helper

Is your marriage suffering from silent treatment and misunderstandings? Communication problems are common, but don't despair! Kimberly Beam Holmes, CEO of Marriage Helper, shares how to rebuild connection and bring back intimacy in marriage with 3 essential tips. In this video, you'll discover: The Friendship Fix: Rekindle the spark with marriage communication exercises that build closeness and trust. Open and Honest: Learn to address those unspoken needs for less resentment and a happy marriage. Empathy Over Arguments: Transform conflict with communication in marriage strategies that prioritize love and understanding. Whether you're facing small disconnects or major communication breakdowns, these tips are your roadmap to healing. Get ready to find your voice, strengthen your bond, and rediscover the joy of intimacy in marriage. Want 25% off your first month of your Save My Marriage membership? Click the link and apply code "YOUTUBE" at checkout! 🔥 https://bit.ly/3OOUONQ 🔥 Marriage Helper Couples Workshop - Over 70% Success Rate: http://bit.ly/3Vjpad9 Click here to get in contact with someone on our team at Marriage Helper

Explore the "PIES of Attraction" with Kimberly Beam Holmes in this enlightening video. As the CEO of Marriage Helper, Kimberly delves into the four pillars of attraction: Physical, Intellectual, Emotional, and Spiritual. Learn how each aspect contributes to a strong, vibrant relationship with your spouse. She emphasizes the often-overlooked role of intellectual and spiritual attraction, providing practical tips to nurture these areas in your marriage. This video is perfect for couples seeking to understand and improve their mutual attraction, leading to a more fulfilling and loving partnership. Kimberly's Podcast: apple.co/3O4JiON Kimberly Beam Holmes on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@kimberlybeamholmes Click here to get in contact with someone on our team at Marriage Helper

If you want to know what a toxic relationship is, or how to deal with it, we’re here to help. We want to give you some guidelines to think about and provide you with truth, hope, and plan going forward. To start, we’ll cover these two questions: 1. What do people say about toxic relationships? 2. What is a toxic relationship clinically? “Toxic Relationships” are a difficult topic to approach because there are many varying opinions and experiences surrounding it. It seems like everyone has a different definition of what a toxic relationship is. For example, people will say a relationship is toxic when "you can't agree on things." Or, there’s “passive aggressive behavior." Maybe they "can't resolve conflict," or, "avoid conflict because they can't solve it." It could also be that "one person doesn't give any effort to the relationship." Now hear me out- these definitions are not healthy for a relationship, but they aren't toxic. They aren't great, but they can be fixed. You see, toxic literally means poisonous. Eating or ingesting something that is toxic will kill you. It’s not just that you don’t like the taste. No. Toxic is poisonous. From a professional point of view, toxic relationships are abusive relationships physically, verbally or emotionally. If you are in a situation where you’re experiencing abuse physically, verbally, or emotionally, feel unsafe/scared, or your rights/freedoms are taken away from you, please get help IMMEDIATELY. The Hotline: https://www.thehotline.org/ helps you understand what abuse is and how to get help and get safe. I don't know your situation, but I'm giving you guidelines to think about. If you feel like your relationship is abusive or harmful to you, find someone to help you get safe. After you get safe, only then can you start thinking about the relationship. After this, if there is any way we can help, we would be honored to. Like we said before, there is a difference between how some people define toxic relationships. If you're in a relationship where you're fighting, can't compromise or you stopped putting effort in, while it's not a good situation, there is help for that! And we have worked with thousands of couples to grow, fix, and rebuild their marriage. However, if you’re in a truly toxic and abusive relationship (physically, emotionally, or verbally) please get help. You can start here: https://www.thehotline.org/ We really do care about you. For more information about courses and workshops, visit marriagehelper.com. Click here to get in contact with someone on our team at Marriage Helper

If feeling emotionally or sexually rejected has stolen your joy and made you feel like less of a person, then you're not crazy and you're not alone. You're wanting to try and turn your marriage around, but you don't know how. In this video, Kimberly Holmes (CEO Of Marriage Helper) is going to share with you the next steps that you can take to feel like yourself again. by going through these steps, we hope you find that you DO have worth, you DO have value and you CAN turn your relationship around. We have helped thousands and thousands of marriages in situations just like this, where there is a spouse like you, who feels like you are being ignored emotionally or sexually. We have an amazing success rate at working with these marriages and creating a stronger marriage than ever before. Visit marriagehelper.com for more information for your marriage situation. Click here to get in contact with someone on our team at Marriage Helper

So your spouse said they’re in love with someone else? Here are 3 things you can do to get them to fall in love with you again & restore trust in the relationship. See how to avoid accidentally pushing your spouse further into the arms of this other person, and how you can react in a way that will make them attracted to you instead. Visit marriagehelper.com for more resources that apply to your situation. Click here to get in contact with someone on our team at Marriage Helper

You've been betrayed by your husband. Maybe they they hid an addiction from you. Maybe they have been living a lifestyle that you didn't even know about. Or worse, they had an affair with another woman and you just found out about it. It could be that your husband knows that you know, but maybe they don't. You may be contemplating how you plan to approach him about it. But before you do anything, you need to understand a few things. In today's episode of Quick Tips, Kimberly Beam Holmes talks about what to do when you find out that your husband has betrayed you. Kimberly will explain the two different types of betrayals and where they stem from, as well as give you helpful advice on how to heal the pain and work through it with your husband. There's still hope for your marriage, and rebuilding trust is definitely possible. Sign up for our FREE online course designed to teach you what to do in order to get your spouse back: https://bit.ly/3AgW8C1 Click here to get in contact with someone on our team at Marriage Helper

It's scary to feel alone. From birth, we are wired for connection. We strive to feel seen, loved and heard. When you first got married, you likely felt as though your partner was your best friend. Over the years, you have drifted apart. What once felt like a deep longing for one another has now turned into a numbness to the relationship. Because of this, you feel more alone now than you did before you got married. Although you may feel like you are completely by yourself in your marriage, we have good news for you. You are not alone. In this episode of Marriage Helper Quick Tips, Kimberly Beam Holmes gives you 3 practical tips on how to regain connection with your spouse if you are starting to feel like there is no hope for the future. You don't want to miss it. Sign up for our FREE online course designed to teach you what to do in order to get your spouse back: https://bit.ly/3AgW8C1 Click here to get in contact with someone on our team at Marriage Helper

If you feel as though you are no longer a priority in your husbands life, then this is for you. It’s important that we define what type of neglect we are referring to. For this episode, we are talking about being neglected in the form of intimacy, lack of sex, or feeling like you are no longer a priority. If you are being neglected in the form of feeling unsafe, not provided for, not fed, or abused then you need to call the National Domestic Abuse Hotline at this phone number: 800-799-7233 But if you are like one of the millions of women who feel as though your husband doesn’t love you anymore, and you’re desperately trying to get his attention in order to rebuild intimacy, passion and have a great marriage, then you need to take notes. Learn how to get your husband to fall back in love with you with our FREE mini course: https://bit.ly/3pAVpGA Click here to get in contact with someone on our team at Marriage Helper

Your marriage is about to end. At least, it feels that way. You've desperately searched for answers, but you're worried that anything you do might only make the situation worse. You want things to go back to the way they were before this crisis happened, but you don't know how to get there. It seems like if you don't do something now, that all hope will be lost. Well, we are here to tell you that there IS hope. In today's episode, Kimberly Beam Holmes shares 3 ways to REVERSE the bad things that have happened in your marriage and gives you practical tips that will help you to begin rebuilding the love that has been lost. You won't want to miss this episode. As a gift to you for listening t this podcast, we would like to give you access to this free course: Click here to access our mini-course to learn HOW to get your spouse back. Click here to get in contact with someone on our team at Marriage Helper

Jealousy happens when we are insecure. It comes from the insecurity about not being good enough, attractive enough, or intelligent enough. And we all know that jealousy is the thief of joy. And it will steal the joy in your marriage, too. Why? Because it keeps you focused on what is not enough, how you are not enough, and how your relationship is not good enough. And if you are struggling with your relationship, then you're not alone. But jealousy will wreak havoc, and it probably already has in your marriage. Here's what you need to know about jealousy. Click here to access your free mini-course! Click here to get in contact with someone on our team at Marriage Helper

Not all counselors believe that you should stay married. This statement may surprise you, but you should consider that not all counselors are pro-marriage. And sometimes, they may say something that goes against what you want. You know this though, because to your shock, your counselor has said that you should divorce. So what now? At Marriage Helper, we still believe that you can save your marriage. Here's what you need to know if your counselor is saying that your marriage is over. Click here to get your free mini-course today! Click here to get in contact with someone on our team at Marriage Helper