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Mindset, movement, and faith after 40—because midlife isn’t a crisis, it’s your comeback. Welcome to Doing Life Different with Lesa Koski, the podcast for women over 40 who are ready to rewrite the rules, reclaim their joy, and rediscover their purpose. Whether you're navigating divorce, rediscovering your health, deepening your faith, or learning how to have fun again—you’re in the right place. Host Lesa Koski—wife, mom, coach, and seasoned mediator—brings real talk, relatable wisdom, and expert interviews to guide you through midlife reinvention with grace and grit. In each episode, you’ll get practical tools and empowering conversations on: Mindset & personal growth Faith & spiritual connection Fitness, movement & health Divorce, marriage & relationships Fun, purpose & starting fresh in the second half of life This isn’t just self-help. It’s soul-level transformation. Get ready to do life different—because your next chapter starts now. Lesa also explores the emotional and physical changes that often accompany midlife and major life shifts. From navigating the impact of menopause on your health, marriage, and mood, to dealing with the loneliness that can come after divorce or empty nesting, you’ll find honest conversations that don’t shy away from real-life challenges. And for those of you in your 40s, 50s, or beyond, you’ll discover what it means to truly build a better life after 40. Health and wellness are deeply integrated into this journey. Lesa shares insights on the benefits of rest, joy, nutrition, fasting, protein, and bone health, along with the power of movement, community, and exercise to support mental clarity and physical strength. You’ll learn how to take care of yourself with intention—because healing isn’t just emotional, it’s also biological. Mindset work and self-coaching are recurring tools offered in episodes to help you reframe your story and shift from fear to freedom. And through it all, the show honors the role of faith, spiritual surrender, and letting God lead you through every season. Whether you're leaning into your relationship with God for the first time or deepening a lifelong practice, you’ll hear how surrender can bring peace even in the hardest moments. You’ll hear real stories from people who have done divorce differently, saved their marriages, or found new love and purpose on the other side. Lesa also brings in conversations about marriages that have stood the test of time, co-parenting through complex seasons, and the realities of parenting after separation while maintaining stability for your kids. This is a podcast about thriving through Cancer, taking back your life, rewriting your future, and trusting that you’re not starting over, you’re starting better. If you’re craving practical advice, soul-level encouragement, and real conversations about creating a healthy, joyful, purpose-driven life, you’ve found your community. Subscribe now and join Lesa Koski for weekly episodes that will help you grow stronger in your relationships, your health, and your faith, no matter where you’re starting from. About the Host: I’ve spent over 25 years helping families navigate amicable divorce as a lawyer and mediator, always focused on protecting what matters most—your kids and your peace of mind. But my mission has expanded. Today, I support women over 40 not just through endings, but in building stronger relationships—and sometimes even saving their marriages. I’m a breast cancer survivor, a cowgirl at heart, a wellness advocate, and a follower of Jesus. My life and faith fuel my passion for helping women thrive.

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Mindset, movement, and faith after 40—because midlife isn’t a crisis, it’s your comeback. Welcome to Doing Life Different with Lesa Koski, the podcast for women over 40 who are ready to rewrite the rules, reclaim their joy, and rediscover their purpose. Whether you're navigating divorce, rediscovering your health, deepening your faith, or learning how to have fun again—you’re in the right place. Host Lesa Koski—wife, mom, coach, and seasoned mediator—brings real talk, relatable wisdom, and expert interviews to guide you through midlife reinvention with grace and grit. In each episode, you’ll get practical tools and empowering conversations on: Mindset & personal growth Faith & spiritual connection Fitness, movement & health Divorce, marriage & relationships Fun, purpose & starting fresh in the second half of life This isn’t just self-help. It’s soul-level transformation. Get ready to do life different—because your next chapter starts now. Lesa also explores the emotional and physical changes that often accompany midlife and major life shifts. From navigating the impact of menopause on your health, marriage, and mood, to dealing with the loneliness that can come after divorce or empty nesting, you’ll find honest conversations that don’t shy away from real-life challenges. And for those of you in your 40s, 50s, or beyond, you’ll discover what it means to truly build a better life after 40. Health and wellness are deeply integrated into this journey. Lesa shares insights on the benefits of rest, joy, nutrition, fasting, protein, and bone health, along with the power of movement, community, and exercise to support mental clarity and physical strength. You’ll learn how to take care of yourself with intention—because healing isn’t just emotional, it’s also biological. Mindset work and self-coaching are recurring tools offered in episodes to help you reframe your story and shift from fear to freedom. And through it all, the show honors the role of faith, spiritual surrender, and letting God lead you through every season. Whether you're leaning into your relationship with God for the first time or deepening a lifelong practice, you’ll hear how surrender can bring peace even in the hardest moments. You’ll hear real stories from people who have done divorce differently, saved their marriages, or found new love and purpose on the other side. Lesa also brings in conversations about marriages that have stood the test of time, co-parenting through complex seasons, and the realities of parenting after separation while maintaining stability for your kids. This is a podcast about thriving through Cancer, taking back your life, rewriting your future, and trusting that you’re not starting over, you’re starting better. If you’re craving practical advice, soul-level encouragement, and real conversations about creating a healthy, joyful, purpose-driven life, you’ve found your community. Subscribe now and join Lesa Koski for weekly episodes that will help you grow stronger in your relationships, your health, and your faith, no matter where you’re starting from. About the Host: I’ve spent over 25 years helping families navigate amicable divorce as a lawyer and mediator, always focused on protecting what matters most—your kids and your peace of mind. But my mission has expanded. Today, I support women over 40 not just through endings, but in building stronger relationships—and sometimes even saving their marriages. I’m a breast cancer survivor, a cowgirl at heart, a wellness advocate, and a follower of Jesus. My life and faith fuel my passion for helping women thrive.

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The Truth About Weight Loss Medications: Insights from Functional Practitioner Marie Simpson

9/4/2025
Episode Description Weight loss medications are everywhere—but do they really work, and are they safe? Functional practitioner Marie Simpson shares expert insights, side effects, and natural alternatives. In this Saddle Up segment of Doing Life Different, I recap my powerful conversation with Marie Simpson, a trusted functional assessment practitioner, about the rise of weight loss medications. We explore whether these drugs are truly necessary, their impact on muscle and bone health, and how lifestyle habits like high-protein nutrition, strength training, and joy-filled living can support lasting results. Marie provides a functional medicine perspective on weight loss medications—what they do, when they’re helpful, what risks to watch for, and how to combine them with smarter health strategies. Whether you’re considering medication or looking for natural ways to boost weight loss, this episode gives you the clarity you need. Timestamps (00:00) Introduction to weight loss medications and functional health (02:15) What functional practitioners are saying about weight loss drugs (05:12) Side effects and long-term considerations for patients (08:40) The importance of muscle, protein, and bone density on these medications (11:27) Lifestyle habits that mimic medication effects naturally (14:05) Joy, stress reduction, and hormone balance for sustainable weight loss (16:20) Final thoughts: better vs. best approaches to lasting health Key Takeaways Guest Bio Marie Simpson is a Functional Assessment Practitioner who helps clients uncover root causes of health challenges through a holistic approach. She integrates functional testing, personalized nutrition, and lifestyle strategies to support sustainable health and healing. Marie brings a balanced perspective to weight loss medications, blending science, practicality, and functional medicine wisdom. Resource Links Doing Life Different Tags/Keywords weight loss medications, weight loss drugs, functional medicine, holistic health, sustainable weight loss, protein nutrition, strength training, muscle loss, bone density, Marie Simpson, Lesa Koski, Doing Life Different podcast, Saddle Up segment, midlife weight loss, natural weight loss alternatives

Duration:00:07:04

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GLP-1 Weight Loss Meds Explained: Risks, Results & Real Alternatives with Functional Medicine

9/2/2025
Episode Description Weight loss medications, GLP-1, Ozempic alternatives, side effects, and sustainable weight loss—functional medicine practitioner Marie Simpson breaks it down. In this episode, we unpack how weight loss medications (GLP-1 receptor agonists) actually work, who they help, and where they can go wrong. We also share practical ways to boost satiety hormones naturally so you can see results—on or off meds. If you’re curious about weight loss medications, confused about the hype, or want a safer path, you’ll love Marie’s clear, balanced take on GLP-1 weight loss and real-world habits that last. Timestamps (in parentheses) (00:00) Introduction to weight loss medications & why everyone’s talking GLP-1 (02:18) How GLP-1s work: satiety, insulin, stomach emptying (05:01) Why some were pulled; today’s versions & indications (07:22) Bad → Better → Best: medication vs root-cause approach (10:10) Caution on quick online prescribing & one-size-fits-all care (12:04) Who benefits most from GLP-1 weight loss medications (15:30) Muscle loss risk: why resistance training is non-negotiable (18:15) What happens when you stop: rebound weight gain explained (21:42) Natural ways to raise GLP-1: protein, fiber, healthy fats, meal order (25:05) Slow carbs, cravings, and blood sugar balance (28:17) Joy, stress & dopamine: your brain’s role in eating (31:33) Post-meal 10-minute walks: small habit, big impact (34:02) Side effects to know: GI issues, gallbladder, bowel obstruction, mood (37:21) If you use meds, do this: training, protein targets, plan your exit (40:00) Faith, grace & sustainable health: why “not perfect” still works Key Takeaways GLP-1 weight loss meds help satiety and blood sugar Stopping can regain 75–80% of lost weight 25–40% of scale loss to be lean mass boost GLP-1 naturally10-minute walk after meals Side effects are real Guest Bio Marrie Simpson, FNP, Functional Medicine Practitioner — Founder of Elevate Health & Wellness, Marrie blends conventional and functional medicine to address root causes. She helps clients personalize nutrition, movement, and smart medication use (when needed) to create sustainable metabolic health and real-world results. Resource Links Find More From Lesa Here! marriesimpson.com Tags/Keywords weight loss medications, GLP-1 weight loss, GLP-1 receptor agonist, Ozempic alternatives,...

Duration:00:45:42

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Saddle Up Segment: From Struggle to Purpose: Attorney Mark Astor on Mental Health, Addiction & Taking Responsibility

8/28/2025
Attorney Mark Astor reveals how mental health law and the Florida Marchman Act save lives. Learn how taking responsibility, overcoming setbacks, and finding purpose can transform both families and communities. This episode highlights addiction recovery, mental health intervention, and the power of resilience. Mark shares his personal story of failure, growth, and reinvention, plus his unique work helping families nationwide through Florida’s Marchman Act. If you or a loved one struggles with mental illness or addiction, this conversation offers both hope and actionable insight. Timestamps (00:00) Welcome to the Saddle Up Segment (01:10) Highlight from Tuesday’s full episode with Mark Astor (03:45) Comparing mental illness to other health challenges (06:12) Mark Astor’s turning point: failure, responsibility, and growth (09:24) Discovering purpose in helping families with addiction and mental health (12:36) The Florida Marchman Act: a powerful legal tool for families (16:52) Lessons for resilience, self-leadership, and service Key Takeaways Guest Bio Mark Astor, Esq. is the only attorney in the United States who exclusively handles mental health and addiction-related legal cases. Based in Florida, he helps families nationwide navigate the Marchman Act and find pathways to recovery. His work combines legal strategy with compassion, giving families hope in their darkest moments.

Duration:00:06:32

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Breaking the Stigma: How Attorney Mark Astor Helps Families Fight Addiction & Mental Health Battles

8/26/2025
📄 Episode Description Addiction and mental health law in Florida are changing lives—and Attorney Mark Astor is leading the way. In this episode, we uncover how families can navigate substance abuse, involuntary treatment, and the legal system to save their loved ones. For over 30 years, Mark has dedicated his career to mental health and addiction law, empowering families to find solutions when recovery feels impossible. From his journey as a prosecutor to founding the only U.S. law firm focused exclusively on addiction and mental health, Mark shares why treatment, not punishment, is the real key to healing. If you’ve ever struggled with addiction, mental illness, or watched a loved one suffer, this episode will open your eyes to new possibilities. Learn about Florida’s Marchman Act, Baker Act defense, and how families across the country are finding hope through legal intervention. 👉 Tune in now to discover how legal advocacy can transform recovery—and why mental health law matters more than ever. ⏱️ Timestamps (00:00) Introduction to Attorney Mark Astor and his unique law firm (04:52) Mark’s journey from prosecutor to addiction & mental health advocate (10:15) The Marchman Act and how families can intervene legally (18:33) Creative use of guardianship for substance abuse cases (25:40) The rise of Baker Act defense in Florida (34:20) COVID, marijuana legalization, and the changing addiction landscape (42:05) How families nationwide can access help through Florida law (50:16) The emotional toll of addiction on families and parallels to cancer recovery (01:02:10) Resources, costs, and real-world outcomes for families in crisis 💡 Key Takeaways Marchman ActBaker Act 👤 Guest Bio Mark Astor, Esq. is the founder of the Law Offices of Mark Astor, the only U.S. law firm focused exclusively on mental health and addiction law. With over 30 years of legal experience, including five years as a prosecutor, Mark has pioneered the use of the Marchman Act, Baker Act defense, and guardianship strategies to help families intervene when addiction and mental illness take over. He and his team are recognized leaders in protecting families and advocating for treatment over punishment. 🔗 Resource Links YouTube Channel 🏷️ Tags/Keywords addiction recovery, mental health law, Mark Astor, Florida Marchman Act, Baker Act defense, substance abuse law, involuntary commitment, addiction help Florida, family intervention legal, mental illness legal help, guardianship addiction, drug court Florida, mental...

Duration:00:45:57

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Why Selfishness Is a Superpower: Key Takeaways from The Selfish Year with Val Jones

8/21/2025
Episode Description Selfishness can actually make you stronger. In this Saddle Up episode of Doing Life Different, Lesa Koski unpacks key takeaways from her conversation with Val Jones, author of The Selfish Year and host of The Selfish Woman Podcast. Discover why being “selfish” is not only healthy but necessary for women over 40 navigating midlife, faith, and personal reinvention. Lesa shares insights about people-pleasing, authenticity, and how small micro-steps of courage help women thrive after divorce, in midlife, and beyond. If you’ve ever felt guilty about putting yourself first, this episode will inspire you to see selfishness as a gift that leads to impact, joy, and freedom. Keywords: selfishness as a superpower, women over 40, midlife reinvention, people-pleasing, The Selfish Year Timestamps (00:00) Introduction to the Saddle Up segment (01:15) Why selfishness isn’t bad—it’s powerful for women (03:05) Key insight from Val Jones: helping more by putting yourself first (05:12) How faith and authenticity connect to serving others (07:00) The people-pleasing trap: superpower or downfall (09:08) Using micro steps of courage to rewire old patterns (11:22) Lesa’s real-life story of speaking truth with her daughters (13:00) Call to action: take Val’s free quiz and reclaim your power Key Takeaways Guest Bio Val Jones is a women’s empowerment coach, podcast host, and author of The Selfish Year. She helps women move past guilt, people-pleasing, and perfectionism to embrace their authentic selves. Val hosts The Selfish Woman Podcast and offers resources and retreats designed to empower women in midlife and beyond. Resource Links The Selfish Year The Selfish Woman Podcast Tags/Keywords selfishness as a superpower, the selfish year Val Jones, selfish woman podcast, midlife reinvention, people pleasing women, women over 40 podcast, self-care for women, faith and authenticity, women empowerment coaching, doing life different podcast, Lesa Koski

Duration:00:03:49

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Why Being Selfish Can Save Your Life: Empowering Women After Divorce & Midlife Reinvention

8/19/2025
Episode Description Being selfish isn’t wrong—it’s essential. In this episode of Doing Life Different, divorce coach and author Valerie Jones (“Val”) joins Lesa Koski for a raw, authentic conversation about why women must reclaim the word selfish to thrive after divorce, during midlife transitions, and beyond. Discover how prioritizing yourself leads to deeper connections, stronger faith, and greater service to others. Val shares her journey of “The Selfish Year,” how she broke free from people-pleasing, and why midlife is the perfect invitation to reinvent your life. If you’ve ever felt guilty for putting yourself first, this conversation will help you shift your mindset, embrace your worth, and live with joy and purpose. Keywords used naturally: selfish women, empowerment after divorce, midlife reinvention, self-care for women, healing after divorce. Timestamps (00:00) Introduction: Why selfish isn’t a dirty word for women (05:10) Val’s story: Two divorces, breaking cycles, and her “sofa moment” (12:45) What “The Selfish Year” taught Val about self-care and service (20:32) Midlife reinvention: Women in their 40s, 50s, and 60s rewriting their story (28:05) People-pleasing, perfectionism, and the masks women wear (35:40) Micro changes: How to build courage and create inner safety (44:18) Becoming the queen of your life (or daughter of the King) (53:12) Authenticity, humility, and learning to connect without fear (59:50) Final reflections on joy, faith, and living differently Key Takeaways queen of your lifedaughter of the King Guest Bio Valerie Jones is a women’s empowerment coach, podcast host, and author of The Selfish Year. After navigating two divorces and healing from an emotionally abusive marriage, Val redefined her life by choosing herself for the first time. She now helps women after divorce and midlife transitions break free from people-pleasing, reclaim their identity, and step into their power. She hosts The Selfish Woman Podcast and leads retreats and coaching programs worldwide. Resource Links The Selfish Year The Selfish Woman Podcast Tags/Keywords selfish women, empowerment after divorce, midlife reinvention, self-care for women, healing after divorce, people-pleasing, perfectionism in women, midlife mindset, women over 40 podcast, women’s empowerment...

Duration:00:32:52

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How to Divorce Smarter: Avoid Court, Save Money & Protect Your Peace

7/29/2025
📄 Episode Description: Divorce mediation and flat-fee legal strategies can help you avoid court, save thousands, and protect your peace. Learn how to divorce smarter today. In this episode of Doing Life Different, Lesa Koski interviews New Jersey attorney, mediator, and men’s divorce strategist John Nachlinger. Together, they reveal how the traditional divorce system often profits from your pain—and how you can take back control. John shares how his flat-fee law firm helps couples resolve their divorce quickly, without unnecessary drama or legal costs. From emotional regulation to co-parenting and coaching, this episode explores how divorce can be done differently—with dignity, strategy, and support. Whether you’re just starting the divorce process or want to avoid court altogether, this episode will help you understand how to divorce smarter, protect your children, and heal with purpose. ⏱️ Timestamps: (00:00) Introduction to guest John Nachlinger (02:48) Why John left traditional divorce litigation (05:35) Flat-fee divorce services vs. hourly billing (09:12) How mediation speeds up the divorce process (12:45) When divorce becomes a war—and how to stop it (17:20) John's personal story of divorce, adoption, and co-parenting (21:33) Are all exes narcissists? Understanding emotional dynamics (27:58) Coaching men through divorce and emotional readiness (32:49) Common mistakes men make during divorce (37:20) How women can benefit when their ex has a coach (40:05) The rise of mediation and decline of court dependency (45:10) Final thoughts on divorce strategy and healing 💡 Key Takeaways: 👤 Guest Bio: John Nachlinger is a New Jersey attorney, mediator, and founder of Net Squire, a flat-fee law firm designed to help clients divorce without destructive court battles. He’s also the creator of the Men’s Divorce Network and host of the podcast Get Divorced Without Getting Screwed. John specializes in coaching men through the emotional and legal complexities of divorce to reach faster, healthier resolutions. 🔗 Resource Links: 🏷️ Tags/Keywords: divorce mediation, flat fee divorce, amicable divorce, divorce strategy, men’s divorce coach, co-parenting support, family law reform, John Nachlinger, Lesa Koski podcast, real talk after 40, get divorced without getting screwed, Net Squire, Men’s Divorce Network, emotional divorce support, collaborative divorce alternatives, doing life different podcast, divorce without court, divorce...

Duration:00:33:23

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Saddle Up and Do Life Different: The Healing Power of Hope: How Mindset and Faith Help Us Through Life’s Hardest Moments

7/24/2025
The Healing Power of Hope: How Mindset and Faith Help Us Through Life’s Hardest Moments 📝 Episode Description: Hope isn't just wishful thinking—it’s a mindset that shapes our outcomes. Discover how hope, mindset, and faith can guide you through divorce, illness, or any hardship. In this powerful Saddle Up segment, Lesa Koski reflects on the healing power of hope—how it played a role in her breast cancer journey and how it’s backed by research from William Miller’s 8 Ways to Hope. Learn how mindset, belief, and the words we speak can shift the atmosphere around pain and fear into one of resilience, clarity, and gratitude. Whether you're going through a divorce, facing a diagnosis, or walking through hardship with a loved one, this episode will equip you to hold onto hope and take your next step forward. ⏱️ Timestamps: (00:00) Introduction: Finding hope in hard times (01:10) What the Bible and psychology say about hope (02:28) Lesa’s cancer story and the power of her doctor’s words (05:12) Why hope matters: mindset, healing, and resilience (07:00) Hope vs. fear: how gratitude creates space for peace (08:45) A quick plug for Tuesday’s episode on postnuptial agreements (09:20) Final encouragement: pass hope on to someone today ✅ Key Takeaways: 👤 Host Bio: Lesa Koski is a divorce attorney turned mediator, coach, and podcast host of Doing Life Different. Her mission is to help women over 40 find faith, healing, and fresh starts—whether in divorce, marriage, or life transitions. Her Saddle Up segments offer bite-sized wisdom to help listeners do life better every week. 🔗 Resource Links: Tuesday’s Episode on Postnuptial Agreements 8 Ways to Hope 🔍 Tags/Keywords: hope and healing, mindset in hard times, faith and breast cancer, power of words, resilience podcast, doing life different, women over 40, gratitude and hope, divorce support, Lesa Koski podcast, breast cancer encouragement, 8 ways to hope

Duration:00:07:21

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Postnups That Protect: Strengthening Marriage with Legal Clarity and Collaborative Agreements

7/21/2025
🎧 Episode Description: Discover how postnuptial agreements can help strengthen your marriage, clarify finances, and protect your future—whether you're navigating a life shift, building a business, or staying at home to raise kids. In this follow-up episode, collaborative attorney Melissa Miroslavich joins us again to explore how postnups work, when they make sense, and why they’re about resilience—not failure. This is essential listening for women planning wisely, staying married, or preparing for what-ifs. Learn how postnups provide financial transparency, reduce conflict, and empower couples to create a shared vision. Whether you're already married or want to build your marital estate plan, this episode will give you new tools and insights for Doing Life Different. Timestamps: (00:00) Welcome back to Melissa Miroslavich (01:42) What is a postnuptial agreement? (04:08) When postnups make sense during marriage (06:32) Financial transparency and disclosure (10:15) Postnups and stay-at-home spouses (13:28) Collaborative law vs traditional attorneys (17:55) Why postnups are about resilience, not divorce (21:40) Key limitations around custody and child support (24:00) Legal enforceability and the 2-year rule (28:43) Final thoughts and how to contact Melissa 🔑 Key Takeaways: 👩‍⚖️ Guest Bio: Melissa Miroslavich is a collaborative attorney based in Woodbury, Minnesota, specializing in estate planning, prenuptial, and postnuptial agreements. Her heart-centered, education-focused approach helps couples create clarity and protect their values, whether staying married or planning for the future. She blends legal expertise with compassion, offering collaborative solutions for modern relationships. 🔗 Resource Links: 📌 Tags/Keywords: postnuptial agreements, collaborative law, marriage contracts, marital estate planning, prenuptial agreements, family law Minnesota, stay-at-home mom protection, divorce planning, marriage tools, financial planning marriage, Doing Life Different, Lesa Koski podcast, women and marriage, relationship transparency, legal tips for marriage

Duration:00:35:12

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Saddle Up: Why a Prenup Might Be the Best Gift You Give Your Marriage

7/17/2025
📝 Episode Description: Can a prenup actually help prevent divorce? In this quick Saddle Up segment, Lesa Koski breaks down Tuesday’s episode with attorney Melissa Miroslavich and shares why prenuptial agreements might be one of the best ways to build a stronger, smarter marriage. Whether you're single, engaged, divorced, or remarried, this 5-minute episode challenges the myths about prenups and explains how they set couples up for deeper commitment and clearer communication. ⏱️ Timestamps: (00:00) Recap of full episode with Melissa Miroslavich (01:20) Why prenups get a bad rap (02:05) How prenups clarify your commitment legally and spiritually (03:18) What most couples don’t realize about marriage and the law (04:35) Final encouragement to think differently about prenups ✅ Key Takeaways: 🎧 Listen to Tuesday’s Full Episode: Can a Prenup Actually Strengthen Your Marriage? – with Melissa Miroslavich 🏷️ Tags/Keywords: prenup, marriage advice, relationship tips, divorce prevention, marriage mindset, legal marriage planning, saddle up segment, Lesa Koski, Doing Divorce Different, faith and marriage, communication tools, premarital preparation

Duration:00:06:38

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Should You Get a Prenup? How Legal Planning Can Strengthen (Not Sabotage) Your Marriage

7/15/2025
Should You Get a Prenup? How Legal Planning Can Strengthen (Not Sabotage) Your Marriage 📝 Episode Description: Prenuptial agreements aren’t just for the rich and famous—they’re a powerful tool for protecting your marriage and your peace of mind. In this episode of Doing Life Different, attorney Melissa Miroslavich breaks down what a prenup is, why more couples should consider one, and how legal planning can actually reduce the chance of divorce. Whether you're getting married, remarried, or just want to understand what you're committing to legally, this conversation will change the way you see prenuptial agreements. We also explore the emerging role of postnuptial agreements and the power of collaborative law to create respectful resolutions—even when emotions run high. Melissa shares how couples can use prenups to clarify their financial values, communicate more openly, and avoid costly legal battles down the road. This episode is especially valuable if you're navigating divorce, thinking about marriage, or want to set your relationship up for long-term success. ⏱️ Timestamps: (00:00) Quick intro: Why this turned into a two-part series (01:10) Meet Melissa Miroslavich and her path to collaborative law (04:42) What is collaborative law and why it matters (08:00) How collaborative divorce protects families and kids (11:33) The value of financial neutrals and family specialists (14:25) What is a postnup? And how does it help married couples? (15:10) Introduction to prenuptial agreements (18:00) Why prenups are misunderstood—and how they strengthen marriage (22:01) Financial transparency and setting expectations (25:32) Are prenups enforceable in every state? (27:50) Can prenups be challenged in court? (32:05) Melissa’s advice for using prenups to reduce divorce conflict (36:40) Why prenups are more about communication than control (40:12) Final thoughts: Empowerment through legal clarity ✅ Key Takeaways: prenuptial agreement Collaborative law 👩‍⚖️ Guest Bio: Melissa Miroslavich is a Minnesota-based attorney specializing in collaborative law, prenuptial/postnuptial agreements, and estate planning. With a background in business and a passion for client-centered solutions, Melissa helps families navigate legal planning with empathy and integrity. She serves on the board of the Collaborative Law Institute of Minnesota and is dedicated to helping couples resolve issues without unnecessary conflict. 🔗 Resource Links:

Duration:00:20:36

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From Divorce to Deadlifts: How Kristina Ganow Transformed Her Life Through Fitness

7/8/2025
After divorce and burnout, Kristina Ganow lost 70 pounds, rebuilt her health, and found purpose through fitness coaching. Discover how small changes can reshape your future. In this episode of Doing Life Different with Lesa Koski Divorce, Love & Reinvention After 40, Lesa Koski sits down with health coach Kristina Ganow to unpack her inspiring story of post-divorce transformation. From emotional burnout to competing in powerlifting competitions at 40+, Kristina shares how focusing on simple nutrition, weight training, and habits of health helped her lose 70 pounds and rediscover joy. This conversation is full of real-life tools and mindset shifts for any woman navigating a hard season—especially in midlife. Whether you’re dealing with divorce, parenting stress, or feeling stuck in your health journey, Kristina’s practical advice and authentic vulnerability will inspire you to start small and build a strong, sustainable life. ⏱️ Timestamps: (00:00) Introduction to Kristina Ganow and her transformation journey (04:45) Life after divorce: juggling motherhood, burnout, and big changes (09:20) How Kristina lost 70 pounds and changed her mindset (14:10) From car crash to coaching: rediscovering fitness after 40 (17:58) Why Kristina started lifting weights and joined a powerlifting team (23:40) The truth about muscle loss, protein, and aging well (29:18) Healthy habits: sleep, stress, and smart food swaps (34:05) How community, coaching, and accountability changed everything (40:25) Best tips for women going through divorce or life transitions (47:02) How to connect with Kristina and start your health journey 🔑 Key Takeaways: lifting weights start with one habit 👩‍⚕️ Guest Bio: Kristina Ganow is a certified health coach, former social worker and teacher, and mom of four. After navigating divorce, motherhood, and burnout, she lost 70 pounds and found her passion for fitness. Now she coaches women 35+ in creating lasting health through nutrition, strength training, and community. Her mission is to help women feel strong, empowered, and ready for what’s next. 🔗 Resource Links: Follow Kristina on Instagram lesakoski.com

Duration:00:34:15

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Saddle Up Segment: Embracing Imperfect Parenting with Love & Grace

6/26/2025
Parenting Through Challenges: A Personal Story and Helpful Insights In this episode of the Saddle Up segment, the Lesa shares a personal story about parenting differences with her husband, illustrating how each parent can contribute uniquely, even when approaches differ. She emphasizes that her podcast is for women facing various hardships, not just divorce. Reflecting on a past conversation with attorneys about parenting through divorce, she reassures listeners that having one healthy, caring parent is enough for children to thrive. The host also highlights the importance of not making situations scarier than they need to be and encourages listeners to live a happy, fun life while recapping her previous podcast episode. 00:00 Introduction and Welcome 00:12 About the Podcast 00:29 Parenting Through Divorce 01:36 Personal Parenting Story 02:56 Parenting Differences and Advice 03:51 Final Thoughts and Encouragement DIY Parenting Plan Course

Duration:00:05:05

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Divorce Done Right: Empathy, Boundaries, and Co-Parenting Wisdom

6/24/2025
in this episode, host Lesa Koskiis joined by matrimonial attorneys Morgan Mazor and Lauren Crane from New York City to discuss the complex topics of co-parenting and divorce. The discussion covers practical tips for managing summer custody arrangements, the importance of forward-thinking in divorce proceedings, and the need for creative and collaborative approaches to achieve the best outcomes for families. Both attorneys share their personal journeys into matrimonial law and emphasize the significance of controlling emotions and communication during divorce. They also provide insights into the lengthy divorce process in New York and stress the effectiveness of mediation and coaching to facilitate smoother divorces. 00:00 Introduction and Technical Difficulties 00:33 Meet the Guests: Morgan Mazor and Lauren Crane 01:36 Lauren's Journey into Matrimonial Law 03:42 Morgan's Path and the Importance of Creativity in Law 08:06 The Challenges of Co-Parenting During Summer 12:01 The Importance of Mediation and Creative Solutions 20:31 The Lengthy Divorce Process in New York 25:59 The Role of Mediation in Resolving Cases 31:26 Conclusion and Contact Information Bender & Crane DIY Parenting Plan Course Find More From Lesa Here!

Duration:00:33:50

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Saddle Up Segment: Why Self-Sacrifice Isn’t Love: A Real Talk on Boundaries

6/19/2025
In this week's Saddle Up segment, Lesa shares key takeaways from Tuesday's special episode. Despite being stood up by a guest for the first time on the podcast, Lesa reflects on her personal experiences, including her 34-year marriage and battle with stage one breast cancer, to discuss the importance of setting boundaries and reigniting passions from childhood. She emphasizes that self-sacrifice should not come at the cost of one's own well-being. The episode encourages listeners to take responsibility for their choices, set boundaries, and nurture self-love to better serve others. 00:00 Introduction and Recap of Tuesday's Episode 01:12 The Importance of Setting Boundaries 02:22 Personal Experiences and Lessons Learned 02:39 Reigniting Passions and Self-Care 03:47 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

Duration:00:04:38

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The Power of Boundaries: Self-Care Lessons from 34 Years of Marriage

6/17/2025
In this unique episode of 'Doing Divorce Different,' Lesa navigates an unexpected situation and shares profound insights on self-care and its importance in building stronger marriages. Drawing from her own experiences, including a 34-year marriage, a breast cancer journey, and personal growth, she discusses self-sacrifice, setting boundaries, and reconnecting with personal passions. Highlighting the significance of taking care of oneself to improve overall happiness and relationships, she offers practical advice and reflections aimed at both married and divorced listeners. This heartfelt and candid episode emphasizes the value of self-awareness, fun, and joy in life and relationships. 00:00 Introduction and Unexpected Situation 00:31 Reflecting on Personal Experiences 01:34 The Importance of Self-Care 03:03 Discovering Personal Joys 08:55 Setting Boundaries in Marriage 11:51 Building a Healthy Relationship 16:50 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

Duration:00:19:15

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Saddle Up Segment: Keeping the Spark Alive

6/12/2025
In this episode of Doing Divorce Different's Saddle Up Segment, Lesa welcomes relationship expert Laurie Gerber to discuss how to keep the fire burning in long-term marriages. The conversation covers personal realizations about prioritizing marriage, Laurie's journey from business coaching to relationship coaching, and practical advice for improving intimacy and connection with your partner. Listeners are encouraged to set relationship goals, self-reflect, and consider practical steps to strengthen their marriages. Lori also shares her personal experiences and strategies that have helped her maintain a strong, intimate connection with her husband. 00:00 Introduction and Guest Welcome 01:08 Laurie Gerber's Journey to Relationship Coaching 02:03 The Turning Point in Lori's Marriage 03:31 Communication Breakdown and Breakthrough 10:14 Writing Your Relationship Dream 11:52 Personal Accountability and Self-Improvement 12:56 Balancing Marriage and Personal Life 21:21 Concluding Thoughts and Contact Information DIY Parenting Plan Course Find More From Lesa Here!

Duration:00:24:01

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Love Lessons After Divorce: Heidi Friedman’s Path to True Partnership

6/10/2025
In this episode, the Lesa greets a new guest, attorney and author Heidi Friedman, whose recent book, *Love Lessons 104 Dates, and the Stories That Led Me to True Love*, provides insightful wisdom on relationships. Heidi shares her journey post-divorce, her decade-long dating experiences, and the 11 core lessons she identified through research and personal development. These lessons include themes like the importance of self-improvement, staying open to opportunities, not settling, and finding a partner who helps you become your best self. The discussion dives deep into maintaining authentic relationships, mutual support in partnerships, and embracing personal growth both before and during a marriage. 00:00 Introduction and Guest Introduction 01:35 Heidi's Personal Journey and Divorce 02:05 Dating and Finding True Love 03:56 Writing the Book and Lessons for Her Kids 04:26 Impact of the Book on Readers 06:56 Discussing the 11 Lessons 10:44 Key Lessons: Putting Yourself Out There and Not Settling 15:57 The Importance of Mutual Support in Relationships 17:34 Starting the Day with Balance 17:54 Moving to California and the Bar Exam 18:31 Teamwork in Modern Marriages 19:42 Themes of Great Marriages 20:02 The Importance of Feeling Safe 21:35 Embracing Authenticity in Relationships 24:06 Supporting Each Other's Best Self 25:21 Valentine's Day and Self-Love 27:06 Navigating Dating and Relationships 29:06 Concluding Thoughts and Future Plans Heidi Friedman Bio Heidi B. Friedman, formerly Goldstein and born Eisman, is a successful attorney and partner at a large law firm specializing in all areas of environmental law and environmental, social and governance (ESG) based counseling. Love Lessons is her first book, but Heidi has written regularly for Bloomberg, Law 360, and other publications related to her professional life and experience as a female lawyer. Heidi lives in Cleveland Heights, Ohio, with her husband Will, and their joint baby, Felix, a cur mix they rescued. Will is Heidi's do-over after being single for almost 10 years and surviving 104 dates. Heidi has four children. Two children she birthed, Morgan (25) and Zach (21) and two are her bonus children, Max (28) and Ben (26). Heidi and Will greatly enjoy traveling as well as spending time with friends. Heidi likes walks around Shaker Lakes, her time at yoga and Pilates, and date nights at a bar with Will. In her life, she has a strong network of amazing women who she treasures and who provide support, guidance and company for drinking wine. https://heidifriedman.com http://www.instagram.com/lovelessons104 DIY Parenting Plan Course Find More From Lesa Here! Marrie Simpson’s Metabolic Reset jjflizanes.com/lesa

Duration:00:30:44

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Saddle Up Segment: Supporting Families Through Divorce and Special Needs Challenges

6/5/2025
This week's Saddle Up segment emphasizes the importance of amicable cooperation in divorce, especially when children are involved. Key takeaways from Tuesday's 'Doing Divorce' episode with Dr. Peggy Price, who is both an attorney and a mother of a special needs child, were discussed. The segment highlights the critical need for detailed parenting plans, particularly for special needs children, considering financial support and caregiving challenges. Dr. Peggy Price's book, available on Amazon, is recommended for further guidance. Listeners are encouraged to reach out for more information and to revisit the informative Tuesday episode. 00:00 Introduction to Saddle Up Segment 00:16 Key Takeaway: Amicable Divorce 00:34 Support Systems in Divorce 00:47 Focus on Children 01:13 Special Needs Children in Divorce 02:15 Financial Considerations 03:21 Parenting Plans and Flexibility 03:57 Conclusion and Resources

Duration:00:04:55

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Navigating Divorce with Special Needs Challenges: Dr. Price’s Insights on Justice and Inclusion

6/3/2025
In this episode of Doing Divorce Different, host Lesa Koski welcomes Dr. Price—a trailblazing attorney, educator, and autism therapist—who shares her extraordinary journey of combining legal expertise with a deep commitment to justice and special needs advocacy. With over 25 years of experience as a civil trial attorney and prosecutor, Dr. Price has served as an expert witness and consultant in more than 75 cases involving special needs issues. She brings a unique perspective to the table, highlighting the intersection of law, public service, and personal advocacy. Now an esteemed professor and Academic Program Director at National University, Dr. Price continues to shape future leaders, drawing on her award-winning teaching skills and unparalleled dedication. She’s also trained in the Judevine method for autism therapy, providing an added layer of insight into the needs of individuals with special needs. Tune in for an inspiring conversation about breaking barriers, finding purpose, and leading with compassion. Key Takeaways: 00:00 Introduction and Guest Welcome 00:18 Peggy's Background and Personal Story 02:36 Challenges of Divorcing with Special Needs Children 07:11 Financial and Legal Considerations 11:22 Parenting Plans and Custody Arrangements 15:26 Support Systems and Resources 31:33 Conclusion and Resources Dr. Price’s legal background intersects with special needs advocacy DIY Parenting Plan Course Find More From Lesa Here!

Duration:00:34:40