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Welcome to the Heal the Hurt podcast. As a Relationship, Communication & Trauma Recovery Specialist. I help you turn your relationship misery into relationship mastery by calming the communication chaos and resolving the root cause that others can't see. Through my Worst Day Cycle™, Authentic Self Cycle™, & Emotional Authenticity Method™, you'll be able to communicate with clarity and rebuild your connection, break free from codependency, resolve old emotional wounds, and stop toxic patterns for good. Restoring the trust, intimacy, connection, and closeness your relationship is missing.

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Welcome to the Heal the Hurt podcast. As a Relationship, Communication & Trauma Recovery Specialist. I help you turn your relationship misery into relationship mastery by calming the communication chaos and resolving the root cause that others can't see. Through my Worst Day Cycle™, Authentic Self Cycle™, & Emotional Authenticity Method™, you'll be able to communicate with clarity and rebuild your connection, break free from codependency, resolve old emotional wounds, and stop toxic patterns for good. Restoring the trust, intimacy, connection, and closeness your relationship is missing.

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Your Childhood Blueprint: When Love Became Performance

2/21/2026
It’s Not Your Ambition. It’s Your Trauma. (The High Achiever’s Curse: Part 2) You weren’t born chasing gold stars. You weren’t born thinking, "If I slow down, I’ll be forgotten." You were trained. Welcome to Part 2 of "The High Achiever’s Curse: Healing The Void." In the last lesson, we identified that your success is a survival response. Today, we are going to find the source code. In this lesson, I’m showing you exactly how your "Childhood Blueprint" was written. You will learn the specific emotional rules you absorbed from your "perfectly imperfect" caregivers and why you are currently trying to rewrite your history by re-enacting your worst day over and over again. IN THIS EPISODE: 1- The 3 High-Achiever Blueprints: Which one are you running? 2- Why you are not chasing a bigger goal—you are chasing a different childhood. 3- How to stop blaming yourself (and your parents) by understanding the mechanics of the "Worst Day Cycle." 📓 YOUR REPAIR WORK (The De-Programming Journal) To change the blueprint, you first have to see it. Grab your journal and answer the 3 questions from this lesson: 1- When I was growing up, what did I feel I had to be or do to get love, attention, or approval? Complete the sentence: “I learned I had to ___________ to be loved.” 2- What did I feel I had to hide or never show if I wanted to stay connected and safe? Complete the sentence: “I learned I had to hide ___________ to stay safe.” 3- Looking at my life right now, how am I still living by those same rules? Be specific: where do you still perform, over-function, or abandon your needs to keep connection (work, relationships, parenting, friendships, even your relationship with yourself)? 0:00 Why High Achievers Feel Empty After Success 0:38 Your Emotional Blueprint Was Formed in Childhood 1:59 Perfectionism and Shame: “If I’m Not Perfect, I’m a Problem” 3:09 Why Rest Feels Unsafe for High Performers 4:05 “My Needs Are Too Much” – Emotional Suppression Explained 4:48 The Overfunctioning Trap: The Responsible One Who Never Rests 5:55 Why Your Brain Repeats Old Emotional Patterns 6:43 Success Can’t Heal a Childhood Wound 8:20 You’re Not Chasing Bigger Goals. You’re Chasing a Different Childhood 9:00 Stop Blaming Yourself (And Stop Blaming Your Parents) 10:05 Why Success Will Never Fill the Void 11:06 Journal Questions to Break the High Achiever Pattern 13:14 The Shame Voice That Keeps You Running ▶️ WATCH THE Previous LESSON Click here to watch Part 1: https://youtu.be/5mmnxxa2wB4 🚀 READY TO GO DEEPER? 1. Take the Individual Freedom Assessment. Get a personalized snapshot of your patterns so you know exactly what to work on. 👉 Take the assessment- https://calendly.com/kennyweiss/emotional-freedom-assessment-779 2. Read the Books Dive deep into the mechanics of the Worst Day Cycle™ and Emotional Authenticity. 📚 Your Journey To Success: https://amzn.to/3nfVp 📚 Your Journey To Being Yourself: https://amzn.to/3U1IGNZ 3. Work With Me Directly For high achievers ready for individualized, trauma-informed support. 👉 Private Coaching: https://calendly.com/kennyweiss/single-session-350 👉 On-Demand Classes: https://thegreatnessu.com/courses 📣 CLIENT REVIEWS: https://bit.ly/30zFTBN 🌍 My Website: https://www.kennyweiss.net Heal The Hurt Weekly Podcast 🎙https://spoti.fi/46FSmAj Instagram 📸 @kennyweiss.kw Facebook 👥 https://www.facebook.com/kennyweiss.net Newsletter 💌 https://geni.us/kennyweissnewsletter ⚠️ IMPORTANT DISCLAIMER This course and all related content are for educational and personal growth purposes only. They are NOT therapy, mental health treatment, or medical advice, and they do not replace working with a licensed mental health or medical professional. If you are in crisis or experiencing thoughts of self-harm, please contact your local emergency services or a qualified mental health professional immediately. #kennyweiss #childhoodtrauma #highfunctioninganxiety #childhoodemtionalneglect...

Duration:00:14:02

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Your Success Is A TRAUMA Response!

2/17/2026
Your success might be a trauma response. Before you react — listen. High achievers aren’t driven by ambition alone. Many are driven by shame, fear of not being enough, or early emotional wounds they never knew were shaping their lives. This video explains: • Why achievement never feels like arrival • Why the void comes back after every win • What the “Worst Day Cycle” is • How shame becomes rocket fuel • And what actually fills the void If you’ve ever thought: “Why doesn’t any of this feel like enough?” 🕺🏼SCHEDULE A SESSION: https://calendly.com/kennyweiss/single-session-350 📣 CLIENT REVIEWS: https://bit.ly/30zFTBN 📚 Purchase MY NEW BOOK: Your Journey To Being Yourself; https://amzn.to/3U1IGNZ 📚 MY FIRST BOOK: 'Your Journey To Success': https://amzn.to/3nfVphr 🌍 My Website: https://www.kennyweiss.net 🎓ONLINE MASTERCLASSES: https://thegreatnessu.com/courses 🕺CONNECT WITH ME: Heal The Hurt Weekly Podcast 🎙https://spoti.fi/46FSmAj Instagram 📸 @kennyweiss.kw Facebook 👥 https://www.facebook.com/kennyweiss.net Newsletter 💌 https://geni.us/kennyweissnewsletter Are you repeating the same relationship patterns — chasing, shutting down, feeling unseen, or choosing emotionally unavailable partners? It’s not your fault. It’s your childhood emotional blueprint. In this video, we go deep into: ✓ why your nervous system reacts the way it does ✓ how the Worst Day Cycle™ drives your relationships ✓ why conflict feels dangerous ✓ why you chase or shut down ✓ how trauma chemistry shapes attraction ✓ and how to finally break the pattern wIth Emotional Authenticity and the Authentic Self Cycle Whether you’re single, in a relationship, or quietly exhausted by the war inside your own heart, mind, and body, I help you map and heal the childhood emotional blueprint that’s been training your Survival Persona. So your relationships—and your relationship with yourself—can finally feel emotionally safe, and you can live from your authentic self instead of old programming. If you’re a high-functioning, emotionally exhausted adult who’s tried therapy, communication tools, or emotional intelligence — but nothing has created lasting change — you’re in the right place. This channel teaches root-cause emotional healing, using: 🔥 The Emotional Authenticity Method™ 🔥 The Worst Day Cycle™ 🔥 The Authentic Self Cycle™ 🔥 The Relationship Repair & Reconnection Method™ It’s time to break the cycle, heal the blueprint, and build the emotionally safe, connected relationship you deserve. You’re not broken — you’re patterned. And patterns can be rewired. success and emptiness, why success feels empty, emotional burnout, successful but unhappy, achievement addiction, trauma and success, childhood trauma effects, inner child healing, nervous system healing, emotional authenticity, shame driven success, overachiever mindset, performance based self worth, fear of not being enough self development, personal growth, emotional intelligence, mindset transformation, healing journey #kennyweiss #worstdaycycle #kennyweisslifecoach #EmotionalHealing #SuccessMindset #InnerWork #BreakTheCycle #TraumaHealing #SelfWorth #PersonalGrowth #EmotionalAuthenticity #Overachiever #EntrepreneurLife #LeadershipMindset #FounderBurnout #PerformanceDriven #Workaholic

Duration:00:17:54

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Why You Shut Down During Conflict — The Real Reason It’s Not Your Fault

2/10/2026
If you go quiet, blank, or distant during conflict, this video is for you. When tension rises and the words disappear… when your chest tightens or your throat closes… that isn’t avoidance. It’s your nervous system trying to keep you safe. Shutting down isn’t a flaw. It’s something your body learned when conflict felt dangerous. In this video, we gently explore: ✓ Why freezing in conflict is a survival response ✓ What’s happening in your body when you shut down ✓ How childhood experiences teach the rule “silence = safety” ✓ Why shame makes your voice disappear ✓ How healing can start without forcing yourself to talk If you’ve ever wondered, “What’s wrong with me?” — there’s nothing wrong with you. You’re not broken. You’re not avoidant. You’re overwhelmed — and that can be healed. This is a soft reminder that your reactions make sense, and your voice can return when it feels safe again. 🕺🏼SCHEDULE A SESSION: https://calendly.com/kennyweiss/single-session-350 📣 CLIENT REVIEWS: https://bit.ly/30zFTBN 📚 Purchase MY NEW BOOK: Your Journey To Being Yourself; https://amzn.to/3U1IGNZ 📚 MY FIRST BOOK: 'Your Journey To Success': https://amzn.to/3nfVphr 🌍 My Website: https://www.kennyweiss.net 🎓ONLINE MASTERCLASSES: https://thegreatnessu.com/courses 🕺CONNECT WITH ME: Heal The Hurt Weekly Podcast 🎙https://spoti.fi/46FSmAj Instagram 📸 @kennyweiss.kw Facebook 👥 https://www.facebook.com/kennyweiss.net Newsletter 💌 https://geni.us/kennyweissnewsletter Are you repeating the same relationship patterns — chasing, shutting down, feeling unseen, or choosing emotionally unavailable partners? It’s not your fault. It’s your childhood emotional blueprint. In this video, we go deep into: ✓ why your nervous system reacts the way it does ✓ how the Worst Day Cycle™ drives your relationships ✓ why conflict feels dangerous ✓ why you chase or shut down ✓ how trauma chemistry shapes attraction ✓ and how to finally break the pattern wIth Emotional Authenticity and the Authentic Self Cycle Whether you’re single, in a relationship, or quietly exhausted by the war inside your own heart, mind, and body, I help you map and heal the childhood emotional blueprint that’s been training your Survival Persona. So your relationships—and your relationship with yourself—can finally feel emotionally safe, and you can live from your authentic self instead of old programming. If you’re a high-functioning, emotionally exhausted adult who’s tried therapy, communication tools, or emotional intelligence — but nothing has created lasting change — you’re in the right place. This channel teaches root-cause emotional healing, using: 🔥 The Emotional Authenticity Method™ 🔥 The Worst Day Cycle™ 🔥 The Authentic Self Cycle™ 🔥 The Relationship Repair & Reconnection Method™ It’s time to break the cycle, heal the blueprint, and build the emotionally safe, connected relationship you deserve. You’re not broken — you’re patterned. And patterns can be rewired. shutting down in conflict, freeze response trauma, nervous system shutdown, childhood emotional trauma, conflict avoidance trauma response, shame and nervous system, dissociation in relationships, emotional neglect childhood, trauma informed communication, dorsal vagal shutdown #kennyweiss #worstdaycycle #kennyweisslifecoach #nervoussystemhealing #whyishutdowninconflict #howchildhoodaffectscommunication #whysilencefeelssafer #howshameimpactsrelationships #whyifreezeemotionally #howtohealemotionalshutdown

Duration:00:27:27

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Why You Chase Love (and They Pull Away)

2/3/2026
🔥 It’s your childhood emotional blueprint replaying itself. In this video, I explain why chasing love doesn’t start in adulthood—and why boundaries, willpower, and “just stop texting” advice don’t work when your nervous system is hijacked. You’ll learn: ✓ Why emotionally unavailable people feel magnetic ✓ How inconsistent or conditional love wires your nervous system ✓ What trauma bonding actually is ✓ How the Worst Day Cycle™ keeps repeating ✓ Why chasing is a survival persona, not a flaw ✓ And how to begin healing this pattern using Emotional Authenticity and the Authentic Self Cycle™ If you grew up feeling unseen, unchosen, or loved only when you performed, then of course your body panics when love feels like it’s disappearing. This video breaks down—at the nervous-system level—why distance feels intoxicating, stability feels boring, and how to finally stop chasing love by healing the original wound. You deserve to be chosen—by others and by yourself. 🕺🏼SCHEDULE A SESSION: https://calendly.com/kennyweiss/singl... 📣 CLIENT REVIEWS: https://bit.ly/30zFTBN 📚 Purchase MY NEW BOOK: Your Journey To Being Yourself; https://amzn.to/3U1IGNZ 📚 MY FIRST BOOK: 'Your Journey To Success': https://amzn.to/3nfVphr 🌍 My Website: https://www.kennyweiss.net 🎓ONLINE MASTERCLASSES: https://thegreatnessu.com/courses 🕺CONNECT WITH ME: Heal The Hurt Weekly Podcast 🎙https://spoti.fi/46FSmAj Instagram 📸 @kennyweiss.kw Facebook 👥 / kennyweiss.net Newsletter 💌 https://geni.us/kennyweissnewsletter Are you repeating the same relationship patterns — chasing, shutting down, feeling unseen, or choosing emotionally unavailable partners? It’s not your fault. It’s your childhood emotional blueprint. In this video, we go deep into: ✓ why your nervous system reacts the way it does ✓ how the Worst Day Cycle™ drives your relationships ✓ why conflict feels dangerous ✓ why you chase or shut down ✓ how trauma chemistry shapes attraction ✓ and how to finally break the pattern wIth Emotional Authenticity and the Authentic Self Cycle Whether you’re single, in a relationship, or quietly exhausted by the war inside your own heart, mind, and body, I help you map and heal the childhood emotional blueprint that’s been training your Survival Persona. So your relationships—and your relationship with yourself—can finally feel emotionally safe, and you can live from your authentic self instead of old programming. If you’re a high-functioning, emotionally exhausted adult who’s tried therapy, communication tools, or emotional intelligence — but nothing has created lasting change — you’re in the right place. This channel teaches root-cause emotional healing, using: 🔥 The Emotional Authenticity Method™ 🔥 The Worst Day Cycle™ 🔥 The Authentic Self Cycle™ 🔥 The Relationship Repair & Reconnection Method™ It’s time to break the cycle, heal the blueprint, and build the emotionally safe, connected relationship you deserve. You’re not broken — you’re patterned. And patterns can be rewired. #kennyweiss #worstdaycycle #kennyweisslifecoach #AttachmentHealing, #WhyIChaseLove, #WhyEmotionallyUnavailablePartnersAttractMe, #HowTraumaBondingWorks, #WhyDistanceFeelsAttractive, #HowChildhoodTraumaAffectsRelationships, #HowToStopChasingLove

Duration:00:28:46

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Why You Keep Having The Same Fight with Every Partner

1/27/2026
🔥 Are you tired of having the same fight in every relationship? The tone is different, the face is different, and the moment is different… but the feeling is always the same. That’s because the fight isn’t about dishes, tone, timing, or responsibilities. It’s about your childhood emotional blueprint and the Worst Day Cycle™ running the show. In this video, you’ll learn: ✔ Why you repeat the same argument with every partner ✔ Why pursuers escalate and distancers shut down ✔ How fear, shame, and old wounds get triggered in the moment ✔ Why communication skills don’t work when the blueprint is activated ✔ Why the fight feels so big (your child self vs their child self) ✔ How Emotional Authenticity reveals the real root of the conflict ✔ How the Authentic Self Cycle™ breaks the old patterns ✔ And how to finally experience repair, connection, and emotional safety If you’re a high-functioning, emotionally exhausted adult who keeps repeating relationship patterns, this video will finally make everything make sense. You’re not broken — you’re patterned. And patterns can be rewritten 🕺🏼SCHEDULE A SESSION: https://calendly.com/kennyweiss/single-session-350 📣 CLIENT REVIEWS: https://bit.ly/30zFTBN 📚 Purchase MY NEW BOOK: Your Journey To Being Yourself; https://amzn.to/3U1IGNZ 📚 MY FIRST BOOK: 'Your Journey To Success': https://amzn.to/3nfVphr 🌍 My Website: https://www.kennyweiss.net 🎓ONLINE MASTERCLASSES: https://thegreatnessu.com/courses 🕺CONNECT WITH ME: Heal The Hurt Weekly Podcast 🎙https://spoti.fi/46FSmAj Instagram 📸 @kennyweiss.kw Facebook 👥 https://www.facebook.com/kennyweiss.net Newsletter 💌 https://geni.us/kennyweissnewsletter Are you repeating the same relationship patterns — chasing, shutting down, feeling unseen, or choosing emotionally unavailable partners? It’s not your fault. It’s your childhood emotional blueprint. In this video, we go deep into: ✓ why your nervous system reacts the way it does ✓ how the Worst Day Cycle™ drives your relationships ✓ why conflict feels dangerous ✓ why you chase or shut down ✓ how trauma chemistry shapes attraction ✓ and how to finally break the pattern wIth Emotional Authenticity and the Authentic Self Cycle Whether you’re single, in a relationship, or quietly exhausted by the war inside your own heart, mind, and body, I help you map and heal the childhood emotional blueprint that’s been training your Survival Persona. So your relationships—and your relationship with yourself—can finally feel emotionally safe, and you can live from your authentic self instead of old programming. If you’re a high-functioning, emotionally exhausted adult who’s tried therapy, communication tools, or emotional intelligence — but nothing has created lasting change — you’re in the right place. This channel teaches root-cause emotional healing, using: 🔥 The Emotional Authenticity Method™ 🔥 The Worst Day Cycle™ 🔥 The Authentic Self Cycle™ 🔥 The Relationship Repair & Reconnection Method™ It’s time to break the cycle, heal the blueprint, and build the emotionally safe, connected relationship you deserve. You’re not broken — you’re patterned. And patterns can be rewired. relationship conflict patterns, pursuer distancer cycle, anxious avoidant attachment, childhood trauma in relationships, emotional triggers in relationships, repeating relationship patterns, emotional authenticity method, healing childhood wounds #kennyweiss #worstdaycycle #kennyweisslifecoach #EmotionalAuthenticityMethod #RelationshipHealing #WhyWeRepeatPatterns #HowChildhoodShapesLove #WhyConflictFeelsSoBig #HowEmotionsDriveReactions #WhyAttachmentPatternsForm #HowToBreakRelationshipCycles

Duration:00:25:14

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It’s Not Too Late Why Couples Lose Hope — And How to Rebuild Real Connection

1/21/2026
If your relationship feels like it’s falling apart, this video will show you the real reason: you’re not fighting each other — you’re fighting your childhood emotional blueprints. The shutdowns, distance, resentment, and repeated arguments aren’t signs your relationship is broken. They’re signs your emotional wiring is running the show. In this video, you’ll learn: 🔥Why couples lose hope even when they still love each other 🔥How childhood emotional survival patterns shape adult fights 🔥Why communication tools and therapy haven’t worked 🔥How the Worst Day Cycle™ keeps you repeating the past 🔥How Emotional Authenticity™ reveals the real injury 🔥The path back using the Authentic Self Cycle™ If you and your partner are on the edge but still want to try, this root-cause explanation canchange everything. Your relationship isn’t over. Your blueprint is just unhealed — and it can be rewritten. 🕺🏼SCHEDULE A SESSION: https://calendly.com/kennyweiss/single-session-350 📣 CLIENT REVIEWS: https://bit.ly/30zFTBN 📚 Purchase MY NEW BOOK: Your Journey To Being Yourself; https://amzn.to/3U1IGNZ 📚 MY FIRST BOOK: 'Your Journey To Success': https://amzn.to/3nfVphr 🌍 My Website: https://www.kennyweiss.net 🎓ONLINE MASTERCLASSES: https://thegreatnessu.com/courses 🕺CONNECT WITH ME: Heal The Hurt Weekly Podcast 🎙https://spoti.fi/46FSmAj Instagram 📸 @kennyweiss.kw Facebook 👥 https://www.facebook.com/kennyweiss.net Newsletter 💌 https://geni.us/kennyweissnewsletter Are you repeating the same relationship patterns — chasing, shutting down, feeling unseen, or choosing emotionally unavailable partners? It’s not your fault. It’s your childhood emotional blueprint. In this video, we go deep into: ✓ why your nervous system reacts the way it does ✓ how the Worst Day Cycle™ drives your relationships ✓ why conflict feels dangerous ✓ why you chase or shut down ✓ how trauma chemistry shapes attraction ✓ and how to finally break the pattern wIth Emotional Authenticity and the Authentic Self Cycle Whether you’re single, in a relationship, or quietly exhausted by the war inside your own heart, mind, and body, I help you map and heal the childhood emotional blueprint that’s been training your Survival Persona. So your relationships—and your relationship with yourself—can finally feel emotionally safe, and you can live from your authentic self instead of old programming. If you’re a high-functioning, emotionally exhausted adult who’s tried therapy, communication tools, or emotional intelligence — but nothing has created lasting change — you’re in the right place. This channel teaches root-cause emotional healing, using: 🔥 The Emotional Authenticity Method™ 🔥 The Worst Day Cycle™ 🔥 The Authentic Self Cycle™ 🔥 The Relationship Repair & Reconnection Method™ It’s time to break the cycle, heal the blueprint, and build the emotionally safe, connected relationship you deserve. You’re not broken — you’re patterned. And patterns can be rewired. emotional safety in relationships, relationship disconnection, childhood trauma relationships, couples emotional intimacy, relationship healing #kennyweiss #worstdaycycle #kennyweisslifecoach #emotionalsafetyinrelationships #relationshipdisconnection #childhoodtraumarelationships #couplesemotionalintimacy #relationshiphealing

Duration:00:25:52

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Neuroscience: The 'Spark' Is Actually Trauma (Not Chemistry)

1/17/2026
The “spark” isn’t always love. Sometimes it’s your nervous system recognizing an old emotional environment and calling it chemistry. If you keep feeling intense butterflies with the wrong person—then later feeling fear, confusion, powerlessness, or that stomach-drop “they’re not fully in this” sensation—this video will help you finally understand what’s happening underneath the surface. You’ll learn: ✓ Why chemistry feels intense but often leads to anxiety, confusion, or heartbreak ✓ How early emotional experiences shape adult attraction ✓ What the “worst day cycle” is and why it keeps repeating ✓ Why chasing or pulling away are survival responses—not personality flaws ✓ How emotional authenticity helps rewire your emotional blueprint ✓ The difference between trauma-based attraction and adult love You’ll also learn why butterflies often activate your Worst Day Cycle™ (Trauma → Fear → Shame → Denial), why chasing or shutting down isn’t “who you are,” and how to begin rewiring your emotional blueprint with the Authentic Self Cycle™ (Truth → Responsibility → Healing → Forgiveness). And no—this doesn’t automatically mean you should run away from someone just because they activate your wounds. The deciding factor is simple: are you both willing to develop Emotional Authenticity so that the relationship becomes a place of healing rather than a cycle of repetition? 🕺🏼SCHEDULE A SESSION: https://calendly.com/kennyweiss/single-session-350 📣 CLIENT REVIEWS: https://bit.ly/30zFTBN 📚 Purchase MY NEW BOOK: Your Journey To Being Yourself; https://amzn.to/3U1IGNZ 📚 MY FIRST BOOK: 'Your Journey To Success': https://amzn.to/3nfVphr 🌍 My Website: https://www.kennyweiss.net 🎓ONLINE MASTERCLASSES: https://thegreatnessu.com/courses 🕺CONNECT WITH ME: Heal The Hurt Weekly Podcast 🎙https://spoti.fi/46FSmAj Instagram 📸 @kennyweiss.kw Facebook 👥 https://www.facebook.com/kennyweiss.net Newsletter 💌 https://geni.us/kennyweissnewsletter Are you repeating the same relationship patterns — chasing, shutting down, feeling unseen, or choosing emotionally unavailable partners? It’s not your fault. It’s your childhood emotional blueprint. In this video, we go deep into: ✓ why your nervous system reacts the way it does ✓ how the Worst Day Cycle™ drives your relationships ✓ why conflict feels dangerous ✓ why you chase or shut down ✓ how trauma chemistry shapes attraction ✓ and how to finally break the pattern wIth Emotional Authenticity and the Authentic Self Cycle Whether you’re single, in a relationship, or quietly exhausted by the war inside your own heart, mind, and body, I help you map and heal the childhood emotional blueprint that’s been training your Survival Persona. So your relationships—and your relationship with yourself—can finally feel emotionally safe, and you can live from your authentic self instead of old programming. If you’re a high-functioning, emotionally exhausted adult who’s tried therapy, communication tools, or emotional intelligence — but nothing has created lasting change — you’re in the right place. This channel teaches root-cause emotional healing, using: 🔥 The Emotional Authenticity Method™ 🔥 The Worst Day Cycle™ 🔥 The Authentic Self Cycle™ 🔥 The Relationship Repair & Reconnection Method™ It’s time to break the cycle, heal the blueprint, and build the emotionally safe, connected relationship you deserve. You’re not broken — you’re patterned. And patterns can be rewired. #kennyweiss #worstdaycycle #kennyweisslifecoach #ChemistryVsLove #TraumaBonding #RelationshipPsychology #AttachmentHealing #EmotionalAuthenticity #HealingRelationships #NervousSystem #EmotionalHealing #SelfAwareness #InnerWork #NeuroscienceOfAttraction #EmotionalBlueprint #BrainScience #PsychologyOfLove #AttachmentTrauma #SurvivalBrain #Neuroplasticity #TraumaResponse #WhyWeRepeatPatterns #ToxicAttraction #RelationshipPatterns #TraumaAttraction #WhyLoveHurts #DatingPatterns #RelationshipCycles #WorstDayCycle

Duration:00:45:13

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Why High Achievers Fail At Love

1/3/2026
Ever wonder why high-achieving, successful people fail at love and struggle in relationships? This video reveals the root cause: your childhood emotional blueprint. If you shut down, disconnect, or feel like you can fix everything except your relationship, this explains why. You’ll learn Why and How: • High achievers repeat the same relationship patterns • Childhood programming shapes conflict and shutdown • The Worst Day Cycle™ drives your reactions • Emotional Authenticity™ rewrites your blueprint This is the root-cause relationship solution for high performers who want real connection—not surface tools. 🕺🏼SCHEDULE A SESSION: https://calendly.com/kennyweiss/single-session-350 📣 CLIENT REVIEWS: https://bit.ly/30zFTBN 📚 Purchase MY NEW BOOK: Your Journey To Being Yourself; https://amzn.to/3U1IGNZ 📚 MY FIRST BOOK: 'Your Journey To Success': https://amzn.to/3nfVphr 🌍 My Website: https://www.kennyweiss.net 🎓ONLINE MASTERCLASSES: https://thegreatnessu.com/courses 🕺CONNECT WITH ME: Heal The Hurt Weekly Podcast 🎙https://spoti.fi/46FSmAj Instagram 📸 @kennyweiss.kw Facebook 👥 https://www.facebook.com/kennyweiss.net Newsletter 💌 https://geni.us/kennyweissnewsletter Are you repeating the same relationship patterns — chasing, shutting down, feeling unseen, or choosing emotionally unavailable partners? It’s not your fault. It’s your childhood emotional blueprint. In this video, we go deep into: ✓ why your nervous system reacts the way it does ✓ how the Worst Day Cycle™ drives your relationships ✓ why conflict feels dangerous ✓ why you chase or shut down ✓ how trauma chemistry shapes attraction ✓ and how to finally break the pattern If you’re a high-functioning, emotionally exhausted adult who’s tried therapy, communication tools, or emotional intelligence — but nothing has created lasting change — you’re in the right place. This channel teaches root-cause emotional healing, using: 🔥 The Emotional Authenticity Method™ 🔥 The Worst Day Cycle™ 🔥 The Authentic Self Cycle™ 🔥 The Relationship Repair & Reconnection Method™ It’s time to break the cycle, heal the blueprint, and build the emotionally safe, connected relationship you deserve. You’re not broken — you’re patterned. And patterns can be rewired. #kennyweiss #worstdaycycle #kennyweisslifecoach

Duration:00:27:22

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Why You Keep Having The Same Fight With Every Partner

12/27/2025
🕺🏼SCHEDULE A SESSION: https://calendly.com/kennyweiss/single-session-350 📣 CLIENT REVIEWS: https://bit.ly/30zFTBN 📚 Purchase MY NEW BOOK: Your Journey To Being Yourself; https://amzn.to/3U1IGNZ 📚 MY FIRST BOOK: 'Your Journey To Success': https://amzn.to/3nfVphr 🌍 My Website: https://www.kennyweiss.net 🎓ONLINE MASTERCLASSES: https://thegreatnessu.com/courses 🕺CONNECT WITH ME: Heal The Hurt Weekly Podcast 🎙https://spoti.fi/46FSmAj Instagram 📸 @kennyweiss.kw Facebook 👥 https://www.facebook.com/kennyweiss.net Newsletter 💌 https://geni.us/kennyweissnewsletter Why do small relationship issues trigger such big emotional reactions? This video explains how unresolved emotional experiences from childhood shape adult nervous system responses and why certain moments feel overwhelming or threatening. In this video, you’ll learn: ✓ Why emotional triggers feel automatic and intense ✓ How childhood experiences condition emotional reactions ✓ What’s happening in your body during conflict ✓ Why awareness reduces emotional overwhelm ✓ How to slow down reactive patterns These insights offer a practical way to understand your emotional responses without suppressing them. Are you repeating the same relationship patterns — chasing, shutting down, feeling unseen, or choosing emotionally unavailable partners? It’s not your fault. It’s your childhood emotional blueprint. In this video, we go deep into: ✓ why your nervous system reacts the way it does ✓ how the Worst Day Cycle™ drives your relationships ✓ why conflict feels dangerous ✓ why you chase or shut down ✓ how trauma chemistry shapes attraction ✓ and how to finally break the pattern If you’re a high-functioning, emotionally exhausted adult who’s tried therapy, communication tools, or emotional intelligence — but nothing has created lasting change — you’re in the right place. This channel teaches root-cause emotional healing, using: 🔥 The Emotional Authenticity Method™ 🔥 The Worst Day Cycle™ 🔥 The Authentic Self Cycle™ 🔥 The Relationship Repair & Reconnection Method™ It’s time to break the cycle, heal the blueprint, and build the emotionally safe, connected relationship you deserve. You’re not broken — you’re patterned. And patterns can be rewired. #kennyweiss #worstdaycycle #kennyweisslifecoach #kennyweiss #worstdaycycle #kennyweisslifecoach #Relationships #RelationshipAdvice #LoveAndRelationships #HealthyRelationships #CommunicationInRelationships #EmotionalAwareness #PersonalGrowth #SelfAwareness #RelationshipPatterns #BreakTheCycle #ToxicCycles #SameFightAgain #RelationshipStruggles #WhyWeFight #LoveProblems #CouplesIssues #HealingJourney #InnerWork #KnowYourPatterns #DoTheWork #RelationshipCoach #RelationshipTips #MentalHealthAwareness #EmotionalIntelligence #TraumaResponses #AttachmentStyles #CouplesTherapy #ConflictResolution #SelfDevelopment #LearnAndGrow #relationships #love #healing #couples #growth #selfawareness #toxicpatterns #breakthecycle #mentalhealth #communication

Duration:00:23:36

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Why You Keep Choosing the Wrong Partner No Matter What You Promise Yourself

12/25/2025
🕺🏼SCHEDULE A SESSION: https://calendly.com/kennyweiss/single-session-350 📣 CLIENT REVIEWS: https://bit.ly/30zFTBN 📚 Purchase MY NEW BOOK: Your Journey To Being Yourself; https://amzn.to/3U1IGNZ 📚 MY FIRST BOOK: 'Your Journey To Success': https://amzn.to/3nfVphr 🌍 My Website: https://www.kennyweiss.net 🎓ONLINE MASTERCLASSES: https://thegreatnessu.com/courses 🕺CONNECT WITH ME: Heal The Hurt Weekly Podcast 🎙https://spoti.fi/46FSmAj Instagram 📸 @kennyweiss.kw Facebook 👥 https://www.facebook.com/kennyweiss.net Newsletter 💌 https://geni.us/kennyweissnewsletter Why you keep choosing the wrong partner has nothing to do with you being broken. It’s your childhood emotional blueprint and Worst Day Cycle quietly choosing for you. In this video, I show you why you keep attracting emotionally unavailable, toxic, inconsistent partners—no matter how many times you say, “Never again.” We’ll break down how your nervous system confuses familiarity with love, how trauma chemistry feels like attraction, and why calm, stable, healthy people feel “boring” compared to the chaos you’re addicted to. You’ll see how your childhood wound, fear, shame, and denial have been running your love life on autopilot—and what it actually takes to finally choose from your Authentic Self, not your past. 👉 In this video you’ll learn: Why you keep choosing the same toxic or emotionally unavailable partners What your childhood emotional blueprint really is (and how it runs your relationships) How trauma bonding, chemistry, and anxiety get mistaken for love How the Worst Day Cycle™ secretly picks your partners for you The 4 steps of Emotional Authenticity to finally break the pattern 🔹 Ready to stop repeating this in your relationships? Start your healing here: 📚 Kenny’s books – Your Journey to Success & Your Journey to Being Yourself 🎓 Classes & programs – Learn Emotional Authenticity and break your Worst Day Cycle 🧭 1:1 work with Kenny – For those ready for deep, personalized transformation #relationships #toxicrelationships #codependency #emotionallyunavailable #traumabonding #attachment #childhoodtrauma #datingadvice #selfworth #kennyweiss Hi, I'm Kenny Weiss A Relationship, Communication & Trauma Recovery Specialist I created this channel to help you break repeating relationship patterns, fix communication problems, and heal unresolved childhood trauma. If you struggle with conflict, emotional triggers, shutdowns, anxious–avoidant cycles, codependency, or feeling unseen, you’ll learn trauma-informed tools to repair relationships and rebuild emotional safety. My videos focus on relationship repair, communication skills, emotional regulation, attachment styles, nervous-system healing, trauma recovery, conflict de-escalation, intimacy issues, and emotional blueprint rewiring. They are designed for high-functioning adults who want healthier relationships, stronger communication, attachment healing, pursuer–distancer solutions, codependency recovery, and intimacy rebuilding and real emotional healing. This channel gives you step-by-step guidance to understand your patterns, change them, and create secure, connected love. I help you turn your relationship misery into relationship mastery by calming the communication chaos and resolving the root cause that others can't see. Through my Worst Day Cycle™, Authentic Self Cycle™, & Emotional Authenticity Method™, you'll be able to communicate with clarity and rebuild your connection, break free from codependency, resolve old emotional wounds, and stop toxic patterns for good. Restoring the trust, intimacy, connection, and closeness your relationship is missing. If you’ve tried everything & still feel stuck, it’s not your fault— the real root issue simply hasn’t been uncovered. Uncovering, resolving & repairing the root issues are my specialities. #kennyweiss #worstdaycycle #kennyweisslifecoach

Duration:00:24:10

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Relationship Problems Aren’t About Communication — Here’s the Real Cause

12/20/2025
🕺🏼SCHEDULE A SESSION: https://calendly.com/kennyweiss/single-session-350📣 CLIENT REVIEWS: https://bit.ly/30zFTBN📚 Purchase MY NEW BOOK: Your Journey To Being Yourself; https://amzn.to/3U1IGNZ📚 MY FIRST BOOK: 'Your Journey To Success': https://amzn.to/3nfVphr🌍 My Website: https://www.kennyweiss.net🎓ONLINE MASTERCLASSES: https://thegreatnessu.com/courses🕺CONNECT WITH ME:Heal The Hurt Weekly Podcast 🎙https://spoti.fi/46FSmAjInstagram 📸 @kennyweiss.kwFacebook 👥 https://www.facebook.com/kennyweiss.netNewsletter 💌 https://geni.us/kennyweissnewsletter Are you repeating the same relationship patterns — chasing, shutting down, feeling unseen, or choosing emotionally unavailable partners? It’s not your fault. It’s your childhood emotional blueprint.In this video, we go deep into:✓ why your nervous system reacts the way it does✓ how the Worst Day Cycle™ drives your relationships✓ why conflict feels dangerous✓ why you chase or shut down✓ how trauma chemistry shapes attraction✓ and how to finally break the patternIf you’re a high-functioning, emotionally exhausted adult who’s tried therapy, communication tools, or emotional intelligence — but nothing has created lasting change — you’re in the right place.This channel teaches root-cause emotional healing, using:🔥 The Emotional Authenticity Method™🔥 The Worst Day Cycle™🔥 The Authentic Self Cycle™🔥 The Relationship Repair & Reconnection Method™It’s time to break the cycle, heal the blueprint, and build the emotionally safe, connected relationship you deserve.You’re not broken — you’re patterned.And patterns can be rewired.#kennyweiss #worstdaycycle #kennyweisslifecoach This video breaks down how emotional blueprints formed in childhood create predictable relationship cycles in adulthood. These patterns shape how you interpret tone, silence, closeness, and emotional risk, long before your partner even finishes speaking.You’ll discover why:Silence feels like abandonment for one partnerCloseness feels dangerous for the otherConflict escalates so quicklyThe same fights keep repeatingEmotional reactions feel out of your controlHi, I'm Kenny WeissA Relationship, Communication & Trauma Recovery SpecialistI created this channel to help you break repeating relationship patterns, fix communication problems, and heal unresolved childhood trauma. If you struggle with conflict, emotional triggers, shutdowns, anxious–avoidant cycles, codependency, or feeling unseen, you’ll learn trauma-informed tools to repair relationships and rebuild emotional safety. My videos focus on relationship repair, communication skills, emotional regulation, attachment styles, nervous-system healing, trauma recovery, conflict de-escalation, intimacy issues, and emotional blueprint rewiring. They are designed for high-functioning adults who want healthier relationships, stronger communication, attachment healing, pursuer–distance solutions, codependency recovery, and intimacy rebuilding and real emotional healing.I help you turn your relationship misery into relationship mastery by calming the communication chaos and resolving the root cause that others can't see.Through my Worst Day Cycle™, Authentic Self Cycle™, & Emotional Authenticity Method™, you'll be able to communicate with clarity and rebuild your connection, break free from codependency, resolve old emotional wounds, and stop toxic patterns for good. #RelationshipAdvice,#RelationshipPsychology,#CouplesTherapy,#WhyWeFight,#AttachmentPatterns,#EmotionalBlueprint,#RelationshipHealing,#HealthyRelationships,#CouplesConflict,#RelationshipConflict,#ChildhoodPatterns,#EmotionalSafety,#EmotionalIntimacy,#RelationshipPatterns,#RelationshipCycles,#RebuildingConnection,#EmotionalDistance,#ModernRelationships,#LoveAndRelationships

Duration:00:14:45

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How Childhood Trauma Shapes Your Relationships (And How To Break The Pattern)

12/18/2025
🕺🏼SCHEDULE A SESSION: https://calendly.com/kennyweiss/single-session-350 📣 CLIENT REVIEWS: https://bit.ly/30zFTBN 📚 Purchase MY NEW BOOK: Your Journey To Being Yourself; https://amzn.to/3U1IGNZ 📚 MY FIRST BOOK: 'Your Journey To Success': https://amzn.to/3nfVphr 🌍 My Website: https://www.kennyweiss.net 🎓ONLINE MASTERCLASSES: https://thegreatnessu.com/courses 🕺CONNECT WITH ME: Heal The Hurt Weekly Podcast 🎙https://spoti.fi/46FSmAj Instagram 📸 @kennyweiss.kw Facebook 👥 https://www.facebook.com/kennyweiss.net Newsletter 💌 https://geni.us/kennyweissnewsletter Are you repeating the same relationship trigger patterns — chasing, shutting down, feeling unseen, or choosing emotionally unavailable partners, toxic relationship and relationship problems? It’s not your fault. It’s your childhood emotional blueprint. You’re not “bad at relationships” — you’re replaying an emotional blueprint that started in childhood. In this video, we go deep into: ✓ why your nervous system reacts the way it does ✓ how the Worst Day Cycle™ drives your relationships ✓ why conflict feels dangerous ✓ why you chase or shut down ✓ how trauma chemistry shapes attraction ✓ and how to finally break the pattern If you’re a high-functioning, emotionally exhausted adult who’s tried therapy, communication tools, or emotional intelligence — but nothing has created lasting change — you’re in the right place. This channel teaches root-cause emotional healing, using: 🔥 The Emotional Authenticity Method™ 🔥 The Worst Day Cycle™ 🔥 The Authentic Self Cycle™ 🔥 The Relationship Repair & Reconnection Method™ It’s time to break the cycle, heal the blueprint, and build the emotionally safe, connected relationship you deserve. You’re not broken — you’re patterned. And patterns can be rewired. #kennyweiss #worstdaycycle #kennyweisslifecoach #childhoodtrauma #traumahealing #attachmentstyles #relationshipadvice #emotionalhealth #worstdaycycle

Duration:00:42:51

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Feel Them Pulling Away? DO NOT Chase; Do THIS Instead!

12/13/2025
🕺🏼SCHEDULE A SESSION: https://calendly.com/kennyweiss/single-session-350📣 CLIENT REVIEWS: https://bit.ly/30zFTBN📚 Purchase MY NEW BOOK: Your Journey To Being Yourself; https://amzn.to/3U1IGNZ📚 MY FIRST BOOK: 'Your Journey To Success': https://amzn.to/3nfVphr🌍 My Website: https://www.kennyweiss.net🎓ONLINE MASTERCLASSES: https://thegreatnessu.com/courses🕺CONNECT WITH ME:Heal The Hurt Weekly Podcast 🎙https://spoti.fi/46FSmAjInstagram 📸 @kennyweiss.kwFacebook 👥 https://www.facebook.com/kennyweiss.netNewsletter 💌 https://geni.us/kennyweissnewsletterWhat if your fear of losing someone has nothing to do with compatibility — and everything to do with a survival instinct you learned as a child?In this video, Kenny explores why your body reacts so intensely when someone becomes distant, and how old attachment wounds convince you to hold on even when the relationship isn’t good for you.You’ll learn: • Why your nervous system treats distance like a threat • How early emotional instability creates adult cling-and-chase cycles • Why your mind overlooks red flags when shame gets triggered • What happens in your brain the instant you sense disconnection • How to rebuild a relationship pattern that doesn’t rely on fearBy the end of this video, you’ll understand the science behind your panic — and how to reclaim your emotional stability.Hi, I'm Kenny WeissA Relationship, Communication & Trauma Recovery SpecialistI created this channel to help you break repeating relationship patterns, fix communication problems, and heal unresolved childhood trauma. If you struggle with conflict, emotional triggers, shutdowns, anxious–avoidant cycles, codependency, or feeling unseen, you’ll learn trauma-informed tools to repair relationships and rebuild emotional safety. My videos focus on relationship repair, communication skills, emotional regulation, attachment styles, nervous-system healing, trauma recovery, conflict de-escalation, intimacy issues, and emotional blueprint rewiring. They are designed for high-functioning adults who want healthier relationships, stronger communication, attachment healing, pursuer–distance solutions, codependency recovery, and intimacy rebuilding and real emotional healing.This channel gives you step-by-step guidance to understand your patterns, change them, and create secure, connected love.I help you turn your relationship misery into relationship mastery by calming the communication chaos and resolving the root cause that others can't see.Through my Worst Day Cycle™, Authentic Self Cycle™, & Emotional Authenticity Method™, you'll be able to communicate with clarity and rebuild your connection, break free from codependency, resolve old emotional wounds, and stop toxic patterns for good. Restoring the trust, intimacy, connection, and closeness your relationship is missing.If you’ve tried everything & still feel stuck, it’s not your fault— the real root issue simply hasn’t been uncovered.Uncovering, resolving & repairing the root issues are my specialties.#MindsetShift,#LifeLessons,#SelfHelp,#PersonalGrowth,#KnowYourWorth,#GrowthMindset,#EmotionalWellness,#HealingVideos,#MotivationDaily,#InspirationDaily,#EmotionalHealing,#InnerChildWork,#RelationshipTrauma,#AttachmentStyle,#TraumaBonding,#HealingJourney,#EmotionalAwareness,#BreakTheCycle,#AnxiousAttachment,#ChildhoodWounds,#RelationshipAdvice,#HealingRelationships,#ToxicPatterns,#EmotionalIntelligence,#WhyWeChase,#RelationshipTriggers,#AbandonmentWound,#FearOfAbandonment,#CodependencyRecovery,#selfworthhealing

Duration:00:20:45

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Why You Shut Down During Conflict - Emotional Blueprint Breakdown | Kenny Weiss

12/6/2025
🕺🏼SCHEDULE A SESSION: https://calendly.com/kennyweiss/single-session-350 📣 CLIENT REVIEWS: https://bit.ly/30zFTBN 📚 Purchase MY NEW BOOK: Your Journey To Being Yourself; https://amzn.to/3U1IGNZ 📚 MY FIRST BOOK: 'Your Journey To Success': https://amzn.to/3nfVphr 🌍 My Website: https://www.kennyweiss.net 🎓ONLINE MASTERCLASSES: https://thegreatnessu.com/courses 🕺CONNECT WITH ME: Heal The Hurt Weekly Podcast 🎙https://spoti.fi/46FSmAj Instagram 📸 @kennyweiss.kw Facebook 👥 https://www.facebook.com/kennyweiss.net Newsletter 💌 https://geni.us/kennyweissnewsletter If you shut down during conflict, go blank in arguments, or feel yourself freezing the moment emotions rise, this video reveals the real reason it happens — and why it’s not your fault. Your nervous system learned long ago that conflict equals danger, and what looks like avoidance is actually a powerful survival response. In this video, we break down why your mind goes blank, why your voice disappears, and how your childhood emotional blueprint still shapes your reactions today. You’ll learn how the amygdala alarm, dorsal vagal freeze, and shame-based patterns hijack communication — and how to begin rewiring your emotional programming through deeper healing work. If you’ve ever wondered, “Why do I shut down during arguments?” or “Why can’t I speak when things get tense?” This breakdown will finally make it make sense. Topics Covered: • Why you freeze during conflict • The neuroscience behind emotional shutdown • Childhood patterns that shape adult communication • How shame triggers the freeze response • How to reconnect with your authentic self This is your roadmap to understanding your freeze response — and finally taking back your voice. Hi, I'm Kenny Weiss A Relationship, Communication & Trauma Recovery Specialist I created this channel to help you break repeating relationship patterns, fix communication problems, and heal unresolved childhood trauma. If you struggle with conflict, emotional triggers, shutdowns, anxious–avoidant cycles, codependency, or feeling unseen, you’ll learn trauma-informed tools to repair relationships and rebuild emotional safety. My videos focus on relationship repair, communication skills, emotional regulation, attachment styles, nervous-system healing, trauma recovery, conflict de-escalation, intimacy issues, and emotional blueprint rewiring. They are designed for high-functioning adults who want healthier relationships, stronger communication, attachment healing, pursuer–distance solutions, codependency recovery, and intimacy rebuilding and real emotional healing. This channel gives you step-by-step guidance to understand your patterns, change them, and create secure, connected love. I help you turn your relationship misery into relationship mastery by calming the communication chaos and resolving the root cause that others can't see. Through my Worst Day Cycle™, Authentic Self Cycle™, & Emotional Authenticity Method™, you'll be able to communicate with clarity and rebuild your connection, break free from codependency, resolve old emotional wounds, and stop toxic patterns for good. Restoring the trust, intimacy, connection, and closeness your relationship is missing. #SelfImprovement, #GrowthMindset, #PersonalGrowth, #YourJourneyToBeingYourself, #EmotionalAuthenticity, #EmotionalSelfHelp, #KennyWeissYouTube, #KennyWeissLifeCoach, #AuthenticSelfCycle, #Relationships, #Communication, #RelationshipAdvice, #CommunicationSkills, #CommunicationBreakdown, #Conflict, #RelationshipConflict, #RelationshipConflictBreakdown, #freezeresponse, #shutdownresponse, #emotionalshutdown, #conflictavoidance, #conflictresponse, #stonewalling, #relationshippatterns, #nervoussystemregulation, #traumainformed, #fightflightfreeze, #dorsalvagal, #polyvagaltheory, #emotionaltriggers, #survivalmode, #innerchildhealing, #childhoodtrauma, #childhoodwounds,

Duration:00:15:29

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The Real Reason Your Conversations Keep Turning Into Fights | Why Your Partner’s Words Hurt So Much

11/29/2025
Are you repeating the same relationship patterns — chasing, shutting down, feeling unseen, or choosing emotionally unavailable partners? It’s not your fault. It’s your childhood emotional blueprint.🕺🏼SCHEDULE A SESSION: https://calendly.com/kennyweiss/single-session-350📣 CLIENT REVIEWS: https://bit.ly/30zFTBN📚 Purchase MY NEW BOOK: Your Journey To Being Yourself; https://amzn.to/3U1IGNZ📚 MY FIRST BOOK: 'Your Journey To Success': https://amzn.to/3nfVphr🌍 My Website: https://www.kennyweiss.net🎓ONLINE MASTERCLASSES: https://thegreatnessu.com/courses🕺CONNECT WITH ME:Heal The Hurt Weekly Podcast 🎙https://spoti.fi/46FSmAjInstagram 📸 @kennyweiss.kwFacebook 👥 https://www.facebook.com/kennyweiss.netNewsletter 💌 https://geni.us/kennyweissnewsletterHi, I'm Kenny WeissA Relationship, Communication & Trauma Recovery SpecialistI created this channel to help you break repeating relationship patterns, fix communication problems, and heal unresolved childhood trauma. If you struggle with conflict, emotional triggers, shutdowns, anxious–avoidant cycles, codependency, or feeling unseen, you’ll learn trauma-informed tools to repair relationships and rebuild emotional safety. My videos focus on relationship repair, communication skills, emotional regulation, attachment styles, nervous-system healing, trauma recovery, conflict de-escalation, intimacy issues, and emotional blueprint rewiring. They are designed for high-functioning adults who want healthier relationships, stronger communication, attachment healing, pursuer–distancer solutions, codependency recovery, and intimacy rebuilding and real emotional healing.This channel gives you step-by-step guidance to understand your patterns, change them, and create secure, connected love.I help you turn your relationship misery into relationship mastery by calming the communication chaos and resolving the root cause that others can't see.Through my Worst Day Cycle™, Authentic Self Cycle™, & Emotional Authenticity Method™, you'll be able to communicate with clarity and rebuild your connection, break free from codependency, resolve old emotional wounds, and stop toxic patterns for good. Restoring the trust, intimacy, connection, and closeness your relationship is missing.If you’ve tried everything & still feel stuck, it’s not your fault— the real root issue simply hasn’t been uncovered.Uncovering, resolving & repairing the root issues are my specialties.I will do my best to provide you with the knowledge, skills, and tools to master communication, heal childhood trauma, childhood emotional neglect, codependency, narcissistic abuse, stress, shame, fear, anger, sadness, self-deception, self-sabotage, depression, divorce, relationship problems, parenting, parental alienation, estrangement, addiction, mental health, self-love, and the worst day cycle so you can reclaim your authentic self. #kennyweiss #worstdaycycle #kennyweisslifecoachAre you repeating the same relationship patterns — chasing, shutting down, feeling unseen, or choosing emotionally unavailable partners? It’s not your fault. It’s your childhood emotional blueprint.In this video, we go deep into:✓ why your nervous system reacts the way it does✓ how the Worst Day Cycle™ drives your relationships✓ why conflict feels dangerous✓ why you chase or shut down✓ how trauma chemistry shapes attraction✓ and how to finally break the patternIf you’re a high-functioning, emotionally exhausted adult who’s tried therapy, communication tools, or emotional intelligence — but nothing has created lasting change — you’re in the right place.This channel teaches root-cause emotional healing, using:🔥 The Emotional Authenticity Method™🔥 The Worst Day Cycle™🔥 The Authentic Self Cycle™🔥 The Relationship Repair & Reconnection Method™You’re not broken — you’re patterned.And patterns can be rewired.

Duration:00:26:57

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The Real Reason Couples Keep Fighting: The #1 Communication Mistake No One Talks About

11/21/2025
What if every conversation with your partner keeps turning into arguments, misunderstandings, shutdowns, or full-blown fights — no matter how small the topic is? 🕺🏼SCHEDULE A SESSION: https://calendly.com/kennyweiss/single-session-350📣 CLIENT REVIEWS: https://bit.ly/30zFTBN📚 Purchase MY NEW BOOK: Your Journey To Being Yourself; https://amzn.to/3U1IGNZ📚 MY FIRST BOOK: 'Your Journey To Success': https://amzn.to/3nfVphr🌍 My Website: https://www.kennyweiss.net🎓ONLINE MASTERCLASSES: https://thegreatnessu.com/courses🕺CONNECT WITH ME:Heal The Hurt Weekly Podcast 🎙https://spoti.fi/46FSmAjInstagram 📸 @kennyweiss.kwFacebook 👥 https://www.facebook.com/kennyweiss.netNewsletter 💌 https://geni.us/kennyweissnewsletter Hi, I'm Kenny WeissA Relationship, Communication & Trauma Recovery SpecialistI help you turn your relationship misery into relationship mastery by calming the communication chaos and resolving the root cause that others can't see.Through my Worst Day Cycle™, Authentic Self Cycle™, & Emotional Authenticity Method™, you'll be able to communicate with clarity and rebuild your connection, break free from codependency, resolve old emotional wounds, and stop toxic patterns for good. Restoring the trust, intimacy, connection, and closeness your relationship is missing.If you’ve tried everything & still feel stuck, it’s not your fault— the real root issue simply hasn’t been uncovered.Uncovering, resolving & repairing the root issues are my specialties.I will do my best to provide you with the knowledge, skills, and tools to master communication, heal childhood trauma, childhood emotional neglect, codependency, narcissistic abuse, stress, shame, fear, anger, sadness, self-deception, self-sabotage, depression, divorce, relationship problems, parenting, parental alienation, estrangement, addiction, mental health, self-love, and the worst day cycle so you can reclaim your authentic self. #kennyweiss #worstdaycycle #kennyweisslifecoachWhat if every conversation with your partner keeps turning into arguments, misunderstandings, shutdowns, or full-blown fights — no matter how small the topic is?What if the real problem isn’t what you’re fighting about… but a hidden pattern neither of you even knows you’re stuck in?Watch this video to finally break that cycle.In this eye-opening lesson, Kenny Weiss reveals the two invisible dynamics destroying relationships from the inside out:Reality Arguments — when both partners believe they’re right and can’t see why the other person doesn’t understandTaking Each Other’s Inventory — the subtle behavior that instantly triggers defensiveness, control, and emotional shutdownMost couples have no idea these patterns are the real reason communication collapses and fights escalate.But once you learn Kenny’s Tennis Court Method, everything changes.This powerful analogy shows you exactly how to:Stop reacting emotionallyStay on your side of the “court”Understand your partner’s reality without trying to change itBreak codependent habitsCommunicate without triggering argumentsReconnect — even when you disagreeCouples who learn this often feel the “temperature drop” in their relationship almost immediately.

Duration:00:21:11

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5 SHOCKING Facts About Gift Loving Women in Relationships

11/16/2025
🕺🏼SCHEDULE A SESSION:https://calendly.com/kennyweiss/single-session-350 📚 Purchase MY NEW BOOK: Your Journey To Being Yourself; https://amzn.to/3U1IGNZ📚 MY FIRST BOOK:'Your Journey To Success': https://amzn.to/3nfVphr🌍 My Website: https://www.kennyweiss.net🎓ONLINE MASTERCLASSES: https://thegreatnessu.com/courses🕺CONNECT WITH ME:Heal The Hurt Weekly Podcast 🎙https://spoti.fi/46FSmAjInstagram 📸 @kennyweiss.kwFacebook 👥 https://www.facebook.com/kennyweiss. Many people misunderstand women whose primary love language is receiving gifts in dating and relationships. This video reveals the dark psychological truth behind it — not to judge, but to understand. In this powerful talk, Kenny Weiss dives deep into childhood trauma, emotional detachment, and learned love patterns, and how they play a role in relationships and a person's love languages. You’ll see why some women associate love with material things rather than emotional connection, and how these patterns are born from unmet childhood needs. 💡 Learn: • Why some people equate love with gifts • The role of childhood invalidation in adult relationships • How emotional avoidance shapes attraction • The “pizza topping” metaphor that changes how you see relationships Whether you’re a man trying to understand your partner or a woman exploring your emotional patterns, this talk will open your eyes to the real psychology of relationships, dating, love, validation, and self-worth. Relationship psychology, relationship problems, love languages, dating, receiving gifts love language, childhood trauma, emotional detachment, self worth, relationships and trauma, why she loves gifts, transactional love, emotional avoidance, relationship coach, relationship advice, Kenny Weiss, emotional healing, inner child healing, understanding women, attachment style, trauma recovery, self esteem, codependency

Duration:00:19:51

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5 Surprising Ways Pets Can Damage Relationships

11/14/2025
Pets can sometimes complicate our relationships, especially for women navigating the dating scene. This video explores how having animals might unintentionally create relationship problems, offering dating and relationship advice tailored for her and for him. It touches on the delicate balance between love for pets and the needs of human relationships.emotional healing, childhood trauma, emotional authenticity, Kenny Weiss podcast, parenting trauma, healing inner child, self-healing, authentic self, worst day cycle, relationship coach, healing relationships, emotional awareness, emotional intelligence, childhood wounds, pets#EmotionalHealing #HealingJourney #TraumaRecovery #InnerHealing #EmotionalGrowth #Pets #SelfHealing #HealingFromWithin #EmotionalAwareness #RelationshipHealing #HealingProcess📚 Purchase MY NEW BOOK: Your Journey To Being Yourself; https://amzn.to/3U1IGNZ📚 MY FIRST BOOK:'Your Journey To Success': https://amzn.to/3nfVphr🌍 My Website: https://www.kennyweiss.net🕺🏼SCHEDULE A SESSION:https://calendly.com/kennyweiss/single-session-350🎓ONLINE MASTERCLASSES: https://thegreatnessu.com/courses🕺CONNECT WITH ME:Heal The Hurt Weekly Podcast 🎙https://spoti.fi/46FSmAjInstagram 📸 @kennyweiss.kwFacebook 👥 https://www.facebook.com/kennyweiss.netNewsletter 💌 https://geni.us/kennyweissnewsletter

Duration:00:24:48

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Why Narcissists Can’t Handle Authentic People | Childhood Trauma Explained | Kenny Weiss

10/13/2025
What really happens when a narcissist encounters an authentic person?In this video, Kenny Weiss breaks down the psychology behind narcissistic behaviour, authenticity, and how unresolved childhood trauma shapes both.Learn how to:* Recognize the signs of codependence and false empowerment* Understand the roots of narcissism in childhood* Heal your inner child and reclaim your authentic self* Detach from toxic dynamics and rebuild self-worthThis isn’t just theory — it’s about real transformation.If you’ve ever asked:👉 Why do I attract narcissists?👉 How can I live authentically after childhood trauma?👉 What does true healing look like?This video is for you.📘 Explore more insights and free resources: https://kennyweiss.net📚 Purchase MY NEW BOOK: Your Journey To Being Yourself; https://amzn.to/3U1IGNZ📚 MY FIRST BOOK:'Your Journey To Success': https://amzn.to/3nfVphr🌍 My Website: https://www.kennyweiss.net🕺🏼SCHEDULE A SESSION:https://calendly.com/kennyweiss/single-session-350🎓ONLINE MASTERCLASSES: https://thegreatnessu.com/courses🎧 Subscribe for weekly videos on emotional mastery, trauma recovery, and authentic living.#ChildhoodTrauma #Narcissism #Authenticity #HealingJourney #SelfWorth #InnerChildHealing #CodependencyRecovery #EmotionalIntelligence #PersonalGrowth #LifeCoach🕒 Chapters (Timestamp Outline)0:00 – What happens when a narcissist meets an authentic person0:46 – Why narcissists avoid authentic people1:40 – Authenticity and childhood trauma3:00 – The difference between needs and wants4:00 – How childhood shame creates false empowerment5:00 – Recognizing your inherent value and worth6:30 – Why narcissists can’t manipulate authentic people8:00 – The “pizza” metaphor: learning to accept rejection10:00 – Authentic people embrace criticism and feedback12:00 – Why the need to be right destroys connection13:30 – The power of being wrong and emotionally mature15:00 – How emotional immaturity keeps us stuck16:30 – The path to authenticity through healing and growth18:00 – Vulnerability and the power of showing imperfections#Narcissist #AuthenticPerson #ChildhoodTrauma #HealingJourney #EmotionalHealing #TraumaRecovery #MentalHealthAwareness #SelfAwareness #BreakTheCycle #HealingFromNarcissism #TruthHurts #InnerPeace #SelfLoveJourney #ToxicRelationships #PowerOfAwareness #KnowYourWorth #NarcissisticAbuseRecovery #HealingChildhoodWounds#EmotionalIntelligence #AuthenticityMatters #MindsetShift #PersonalGrowth🕺CONNECT WITH ME:Heal The Hurt Weekly Podcast 🎙https://spoti.fi/46FSmAjInstagram 📸 @kennyweiss.kwFacebook 👥 https://www.facebook.com/kennyweiss.netNewsletter 💌 https://geni.us/kennyweissnewsletter Hi, I'm Kenny Weiss 👋I teach the four pillars of the Authentic Self Cycle: Truth, Responsibility, Healing, and Forgiveness. I will do my best to provide you with the knowledge, skills, and tools to heal childhood trauma, childhood emotional neglect, codependency, narcissistic abuse, stress, shame, fear, anger, sadness, self-deception, self-sabotage, depression, divorce, relationship problems, parenting, parental alienation, estrangement, addiction, mental health, mindset, self-love, and the worst day cycle so you can reclaim your authentic self. #kennyweiss #worstdaycycle #kennyweisslifecoach

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The Consequences of Leaving a Narcissist: What Really Happens When You Walk Away | Kenny Weiss

10/4/2025
What really happens when you leave a narcissist? Whether you’re stepping away for a few days or ending the relationship for good, the consequences can be life-changing — and often overwhelming.In this video, I explain:* The difference between a narcissist and a falsely empowered codependent (many people confuse the two).* What you’ll experience when you leave temporarily vs permanently.* How narcissists use anger, abandonment wounds, and manipulation when you separate.* The dangers of parental alienation if children are involved.* Why trying to “fix” a narcissist always backfires.* How to protect yourself emotionally, financially, and legally when leaving.👉 If you’re unsure whether you’re with a narcissist or a falsely empowered codependent, watch my video: “Are They a Narcissist or Codependent?”👉 If you’re leaving a narcissist and have children, please learn about parental alienation. It could save your child years of pain.This video isn’t just about survival — it’s about clarity, boundaries, and protecting your healing journey.📌 Share your experience in the comments. You’re not alone.🕺🏼SCHEDULE A SESSION:https://calendly.com/kennyweiss/single-session-350📚 Purchase MY NEW BOOK: Your Journey To Being Yourself; https://amzn.to/3U1IGNZ📚 MY FIRST BOOK:'Your Journey To Success': https://amzn.to/3nfVphr🌍 My Website: https://www.kennyweiss.net🎓ONLINE MASTERCLASSES: https://thegreatnessu.com/courses🕺CONNECT WITH ME:Heal The Hurt Weekly Podcast 🎙https://spoti.fi/46FSmAjInstagram 📸 @kennyweiss.kwFacebook 👥 https://www.facebook.com/kennyweiss.netNewsletter 💌 https://geni.us/kennyweissnewsletter 0:00 – Introduction: The consequences of leaving a narcissist0:20 – Are they truly a narcissist or a falsely empowered codependent?1:20 – Key difference: Narcissist vs falsely empowered codependent3:59 – Short separation: What happens when you leave temporarily4:48 – Abandonment wounds & anger response6:50 – The “savior trap” and codependent cycle9:00 – Childhood wounds that keep you stuck12:07 – Gaslighting and manipulation tactics12:23 – Permanent separation: What really happens when you leave13:31 – Parental alienation explained16:04 – Protecting yourself financially and legally17:19 – Character assassination and smear campaigns17:47 – Final advice & next stepsHi, I'm Kenny Weiss 👋I teach the four pillars of the Authentic Self Cycle: Truth, Responsibility, Healing, and Forgiveness. I will do my best to provide you with the knowledge, skills, and tools to heal childhood trauma, childhood emotional neglect, codependency, narcissistic abuse, stress, shame, fear, anger, sadness, self-deception, self-sabotage, depression, divorce, relationship problems, parenting, parental alienation, estrangement, addiction, mental health, mindset, self-love, and the worst day cycle so you can reclaim your authentic self. leaving a narcissist, consequences of leaving a narcissist, breakup with narcissist, narcissist consequences, narcissist relationship, narcissist manipulation, narcissist vs codependent, falsely empowered codependent, parental alienation narcissist, narcissist recovery, narcissist abuse healing, narcissist separation#Narcissist #NarcissisticAbuse #LeavingANarcissist #HealingFromNarcissist #ToxicRelationships #EmotionalHealing #NarcissistRecovery #ParentalAlienation #Codependency #BreakFree #HealingJourney #RelationshipAdvice #StopTheCycle#kennyweiss #worstdaycycle #kennyweisslifecoach

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