Around The Way Curls

In this conversation, Dating Coach Anwar discusses the challenges faced by Black and Brown women in dating and relationships. He emphasizes the importance of vulnerability and setting boundaries then addresses the issue of self-sabotage. Anwar also explores the concept of masculine and feminine energy and how it impacts relationships. He provides insights into when someone is ready to date and offers advice for women navigating the dating world. The conversation explores the difference between walls and boundaries, the perception of men in relationships, the challenges faced by Black women in dating, and strategies for navigating courtship. The main themes include the importance of boundaries, the impact of societal expectations on men and women, the economic disparities affecting dating dynamics, and the need for self-actualization and self-centeredness in relationships. Join us. Follow Dating Coach Anwar: Website: https://www.getyourguycoaching.com/ IG: https://www.instagram.com/datingcoachanwar/ Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@datingcoachanwar?lang=en Contact us: Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Discord: https://discord.gg/ehvKtK6R Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus content See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In this week's episode, Shanti announces a much-needed mental health break, while Antoinette shares her gratitude for her 2 Webby Wins for her other podcast "Can't Afford Therapy". Together we discuss the recent political events and mass graves uncovered in Gaza and highlight the funding bill signed by President Biden, which includes aid for Ukraine, Israel, and humanitarian aid for conflict zones worldwide. On a lighter note, for pop-culture, we discuss Beyoncé's long hair and the way she silenced all the skeptics. In the final part of the conversation, delve into a detailed analysis of an episode of Jerrod Carmichael's show, exploring themes of family dysfunction, infidelity, and the search for connection and healing. The conversation ends with a reflection on the complexity of the relationships and the potential for growth and understanding. Join us. Contact us: Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Discord: https://discord.gg/ehvKtK6R Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus content Al Otro Lado I recently learned about an organization called Al Otro Lado, which works to reunify families– they provide holistic legal and humanitarian support to refugees, deportees, and other migrants in the US and Tijuana through a multidisciplinary, client-centered, harm reduction-based practice. Since 2018, they’ve reunified over 100 refugee families ripped apart by Trump’s “Zero Tolerance” policy. Once reunited, Al Otro Lado helps each family to find legal representation, housing, and the counseling that they need in order to heal and get on their feet. The best way to get involved is by filling out an application on their website at https://alotrolado.org/volunteer See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

This week Shanti is away so Crissle & Jade came to play. We talk cinnamon apples, sports, and playful banter including the times Antoinette “accidentally” play slapped Jade in the club and bit Crissle during the Superbowl. We then shift to listener voicemails where we revisit passion vs duty in the context of work and financial security. Finally, we dive into Therapy 101 where Crissle imparts some much-needed clinical psychology wisdom & gives Antoinette a good read. join us. Follow Jade: Personal IG: https://www.instagram.com/jadeofalljades/?hl=en Gettin Grown: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/gettin-grown/id1220265487 Jade and XD: https://podcasts.apple.com/gh/podcast/jade-x-d/id1578749770 Follow Crissle: Personal IG: https://www.instagram.com/crissle/?hl=en X: https://twitter.com/crissles?ref_src=twsrc%5Egoogle%7Ctwcamp%5Eserp%7Ctwgr%5Eauthor The Read:https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-read/id619369512 Contact us: Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Discord: https://discord.gg/ehvKtK6R Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus content See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

This week Shanti is away so Crissle & Jade came to play! The hosts discuss various topics including their personal updates, the state of the world, therapy, and upcoming events. The conversation then transitions into Politics As Usual where we focus on the Middle East and the right to protest. Together we explore the complexities of the Israel-Palestine war/genocide, the role of the United States in the region, and the importance of protests and the potential consequences of speaking out against injustice. Join us. Follow Jade: Personal IG: https://www.instagram.com/jadeofalljades/?hl=en Gettin Grown: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/gettin-grown/id1220265487 Jade and XD: https://podcasts.apple.com/gh/podcast/jade-x-d/id1578749770 Follow Crissle: Personal IG: https://www.instagram.com/crissle/?hl=en X: https://twitter.com/crissles?ref_src=twsrc%5Egoogle%7Ctwcamp%5Eserp%7Ctwgr%5Eauthor The Read:https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-read/id619369512 Contact us: Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Discord: https://discord.gg/ehvKtK6R Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus content Read the list of Columbia University Students' divest in Israel demands here: chrome-extension://efaidnbmnnnibpcajpcglclefindmkaj/https://www.finance.columbia.edu/sites/default/files/content/ACSRI/12.1.2023%20CUAD%20ACSRI%20Divestment%20Proposal.pdf See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In this week's episode, Shanti shares her growing obsession for Jerrod Carmichael and Willow Smith while Antoinette finishes her Walking Dead Era and seeks a new TV series to watch. For our main topic, we are inspired by a listener's call. We discuss the dilemma of choosing between passion and duty in one's life. Together we explore the logistical details of managing both and the sacrifices that come with it. We discuss the concept of safety and how it relates to financial security and personal fulfillment from each of our unique perspectives. Join us... Contact us: Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Discord: https://discord.gg/ehvKtK6R Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus content See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In this week's episode, Shanti shares her current condition of "badmouth" while Antoinette corrects her mistake from last week. Together we recap our trip to Canada and our ATWC meet up. For politics we discuss the recent ruling by the Arizona Supreme Court that upholds a near-total abortion ban in the state and the bird-flu epidemic amongst birds and now mammals. For pop-culture we discuss, the beef between Kendrick Lamar, J. Cole, and Drake, and the accomplishments of basketball coach Dawn Staley. The conversation then shifts to the legacy of O.J. Simpson, with a focus on his athletic achievements, domestic abuse history, and the infamous murder trial and how O.J should be remembered. Join us... VOTE FOR CAN"T AFFORD THERAPY FOR BEST INDIE PODCAST FOR THE WEBBY AWARDS! Vote now! Vote from multiple accounts! They are in first place right now! https://vote.webbyawards.com/PublicVoting#/2024/podcasts/features/best-indie-podcast Contact us: Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Discord: https://discord.gg/ehvKtK6R Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus content See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In this week's episode, Shanti shares her discovery of a dating coach on TikTok which inspires her deep dive into the biology of falling in love for men and women. The conversation explores the different stages of love and attraction, highlighting the role of hormones in bonding and attachment. Lust, attraction, and attachment are discussed as distinct phases, each driven by specific chemicals in the brain. Can we make better choices about love if we understand our biology? Join us... VOTE FOR CAN"T AFFORD THERAPY FOR BEST INDIE PODCAST FOR THE WEBBY AWARDS! Vote now! Vote from multiple accounts! They are in first place right now! https://vote.webbyawards.com/PublicVoting#/2024/podcasts/features/best-indie-podcast Around The Way Getaway Survey Link https://my.trovatrip.com/public/l/survey/antoinette--shanti- Contact us: Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Discord: https://discord.gg/ehvKtK6R Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus content See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In this week's episode, Shanti asks for hair help from the community while Antoinette requests your votes for her podcast "Can't Afford Therapy" for The Webby Awards. For politics, we discuss the recent killing of 7 aid workers in Gaza by Israel's IDF, the selling of Bibles by Trump, and the new abortion law in Florida. For pop culture, we react to the premiere of Jerrod Carmichael's reality show and the complexities of relationships and unrequited love. The conversation takes a humorous turn when we discuss the viral conjoined twins and their intimate lives, and Jennifer Hudson stealing Cher's shine during the iHeart Radio Awards. Join us.... VOTE FOR CAN"T AFFORD THERAPY FOR BEST INDIE PODCAST FOR THE WEBBY AWARDS! Vote now! Vote from multiple accounts! They are in first place right now! https://vote.webbyawards.com/PublicVoting#/2024/podcasts/features/best-indie-podcast Around The Way Getaway Survey Link https://my.trovatrip.com/public/l/survey/antoinette--shanti- Contact us: Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Discord: https://discord.gg/ehvKtK6R Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus content See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In this week's episode, we are excited to be in conversation with pediatric and adolescent GYN, Dr. Charis Chambers. Together, we discuss the importance of our reproductive health and the factors that contribute to misdiagnosis. She also provides invaluable guidance on guiding adolescent girls through puberty and addresses the disconnection and trauma that some women may feel toward their bodies. In this episode, we are invited to become more knowledgeable and proactive rather than reactive about our reproductive health. Join us. To learn more about Dr. Charis Chambers follow her: Instagram https://www.instagram.com/theperioddoctor/?hl=en Website https://theperioddoctor.com/ Twitter https://twitter.com/theperioddoctor?lang=en WANT TO SEE US IN TORONTO? Come meet up with us on Saturday, April 6. We will be leaving Java House at 2 pm (537 Queen St W, Toronto,) to explore Graffiti Alley Together! VOTE FOR CAN"T AFFORD THERAPY FOR BEST INDIE PODCAST FOR THE WEBBY AWARDS! Vote now! Vote from multiple accounts! They are in first place right now! https://vote.webbyawards.com/PublicVoting#/2024/podcasts/features/best-indie-podcast Around The Way Getaway Survey Link https://my.trovatrip.com/public/l/survey/antoinette--shanti- Contact us: Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Discord: https://discord.gg/ehvKtK6R Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus content See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Forgive us. Antoinette's has serious technical difficulties which is why her audio sounds a but... tricky In this week's episode, Shanti tries to keep her head above water as she juggles motherhood and other responsibilities while Antoinette recovers from a medical procedure she was not expecting to be as painful as it was. For politics, we discuss Candace Owens by diving deep into her history and what influenced her controversial beliefs. We question the responsibility of Black media outlets when engaging with folks similar to Owens and whether or not she should be platformed at all if her message is in direct conflict with the mission & vision of said platform. For pop culture, Shanti checks out the new "Good Times" reboot by Netflix & has a strong reaction. We then discuss Diddy's homes being raided by Homeland Security and the defamation lawsuit against Russell Simmons. Then we hurriedly stop recording to listen to Beyonce's newest album "Cowboy Carter". Join us... Around The Way Getaway Survey Link: https://my.trovatrip.com/public/l/survey/antoinette--shanti- Contact us: Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Discord: https://discord.gg/ehvKtK6R Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus content See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In this episode, Shanti recalls stealing hoagies from the corner store & childhood eating habits while Antoinette readies herself for an upcoming GYN visit. The ladies answer voicemails that range from The Roots Picnic attendance to dealing with a friend's infidelity. For our main topic, we are joined by Dr. Kelli Ruglass. Dr. Kelly, a licensed clinical psychologist and certified eating disorder specialist, discusses the prevalence and impact of eating disorders, particularly among Black and Brown women. She challenges the perception of eating disorders as solely affecting thin individuals and highlights the importance of understanding the spectrum of eating disorders. She emphasizes the damaging societal beauty standards and the role of trauma in shaping our relationship with food. Lastly, she challenges the notion of food addiction and highlights the importance of mindful eating and self-compassion. Join us. Follow Dr. Kelli IG: https://www.instagram.com/dr.kellirugless?igsh=MWl5OTQ5dDQ5MDludQ== Project Heal: https://www.instagram.com/projectheal/?igsh=MWU2Y253dnlocnB3eQ%3D%3D Flourish Psychology: https://www.instagram.com/weflourishpsychology/?igsh=MTF4ZnpoN3dxZGlnZQ%3D%3D Contact us: Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Discord: https://discord.gg/ehvKtK6R Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus content See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In this week's episode, we discuss our upcoming trip to Canada! We are looking for suggestions of where to have a meetup so please feel free to share recommendations! Antoinette shares her fear of Apple's AirPods, and the controversial history of Joni Mitchell. For politics, we get into Texas law on immigration and the threat to unions by major corporations. For pop culture, we delve into Amanda Seales' experience of not being recognized in black spaces and question whether there is a beef between Erykah Badu and Beyoncé. Join us... Contact us: Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Discord: https://discord.gg/ehvKtK6R Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus content See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In this week's episode, Shanti doesn't eat meat for a week and now considers herself a vegan while Antoinette continues her dissociative streak to manage her overload. For our main topic, we delve into the concept of "nice guys". Are we truly ready for the "nice guy"? Are we ready for the ways our identities may have to change once we are no longer identifying with struggle and rejection? Are we ready to begin the work of real self-worth when we finally get what we want in relationships? Join us... Why Nice People Repel Us by The School of Life video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=65Yl0bIoepc Why Women Choose Nice Guys or Bad Boys: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-attraction-doctor/202212/why-women-choose-nice-guys-or-bad-boys Contact us: Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Discord: https://discord.gg/ehvKtK6R Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus content Timestamps 00:00 Updates 21:59 Voicemails: Insight on Mia Coppa Scene and Threesome Question 24:49 Advice on Approaching a Threesome 35:38 Exploring the Concept of Nice Guys 49:47 Different Types of Attraction 01:03:37 The allure of complicated love 01:22:01 Playful banter and personal anecdotes 01:23:08 Reflecting on embarrassing moments and leaving certain people behind See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In this week's episode, Shanti shares her misadventures in New York while Antoinette tries to recover from the violation of having her food stolen by her Super. For politics, we review the recent State of the Union address, the Boeing whistleblower and corporate power, the battle over TikTok and censorship, the Nigerian kidnappings, and the crisis in Haiti. For pop culture, we discuss the Oscars, representation of Black culture in film, and Regina King's interview where she addresses her son's suicide and the right-to-die movement. Join us... Contact us: Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Discord: https://discord.gg/ehvKtK6R Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus content See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In this week's episode, Shanti puts herself in harm's way for fried chicken while Antoinette does her best to talk Shanti off the ledge as she navigates her single life. After listening to voicemails, we delve into our main topic: We discuss the role our egos play when it comes to self-defense. When should we ignore untruths vs fighting back to set the record straight? How do we navigate the complexities of personal and public perceptions? Controlling our own narrative is everything right? But is that even possible? In the words of Marlo Stanfield, “My name is My Name”. Join us... Contact us: Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Discord: https://discord.gg/ehvKtK6R Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus content See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In this week's episode, Shanti discusses aging without much grace and how she has been exploring aesthetics and personal style and its connection to emotional well-being while Antoinette's updates are deeply connected to the current political climate and her growing concerns. For politics, we review the past week's Super Tuesday and the relevancy of the growing "uncommitted vote" in Michigan as a form of protest. For pop culture, we applaud Michelle from Destiny's Child going viral in an Uber commercial, Gerard Carmichael's upcoming docu-series on HBO Max as well as Oprah's decision to part ways with Weight Watchers. Join us... Contact us: Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Discord: https://discord.gg/ehvKtK6R Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus content Timestamps 00:00 Introduction and Personal Updates 25:58 Women's History Month and Global Issues 27:58 Hot Ish 33:08 Politics As Usual- Super Tuesday and the primary elections 54:11 Increase in violence on New York subways 01:05:17 Pop Culture See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In this episode, Shanti discusses a week of emotional distancing and self-soothing while Antoinette shares the importance of receiving and giving constructive criticism. For this episode, we catch up on voicemails from listeners who delve into topics of queerness and polyamory and share personal experiences in making decisions about discarding frozen embryos. To end the episode together we watch and share our reaction to Mea Culpa's sex scene. Join us... Contact us: Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Discord: https://discord.gg/RPpU2H8v Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus content See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In this week's episode, we are joined by Monty our beloved audio editor of the podcast! For updates, Shanti shares her sexual revelation about coffee while Antoinette manages a busy week and Monty prepares for his coming birthday. Together we discuss the self-immolation and act of protest of Aaron Bushnell, Trump's immunity claim and Mitch McConnell's recent retirement announcement. For pop culture, we delve into the "Big Back" controversy surrounding Ressa Tessa. The conversation touches on the importance of accountability and responsibility in relationships, as well as the dangers of enabling. We end with more allegations against Diddy and the focus on homophobia rather than addressing the harm caused and the harmful behavior in Hollywood and the music industry. Join Us... Monty: To follow Monty's Podcast, check him out: https://thepeopletalkingpodcast.com/ To inquire about his services contact: monty@thepeopletalkingpodcast.com Check out Good Mom's Bad Choice's Tour here: https://goodmomsbadchoices.com/tour Contact us: Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Discord: https://discord.gg/8X7dDt5j Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus content Timestamps: 05:12 Coffee and Oral Sex 26:02 Good Mom’s Bad Choices Pod Tour 35:03 The Ultimate Act of Protest for Gaza 49:26 Trump's Immunity Claim/The Crumbling American Dream 01:04:42 Biden's Hope for Ceasefire/ Mitch McConnell's Retirement 01:10:12 Charlamagne's Controversial Big Back Comments 01:28:00 Diddy Getting Sued Again & We Focus on Homophobia instead of the Harm 01:54:10 Monty's Services and Expertise/ Acknowledging Monty's Contributions See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In this week's conversation, we are joined by podcaster and educator Marquise Richards. Together, we discuss restorative justice. We explore the challenges and criticisms of restorative justice, including the role of the harmed and the perpetrator in the restoration process. We question the impact of social media and how cancel culture may not always lead to true accountability and change. Using Chris Brown and Monique as examples we wrestle with the importance of understanding the root causes of harm without throwing anyone away. Join us. Follow Marquise Twitter: https://twitter.com/MarquiseDavon IG: https://www.instagram.com/MarquiseDavon/ Listen to Keepin It A Bean Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/keepin-it-a-bean/id1584916815 Contact us: Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Discord: https://discord.gg/8X7dDt5j Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus content See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In this week's episode, Shanti shares a recent gym mishap, while Antoinette updates us on the health of her beloved cat, Blue. For politics, we discuss the Alabama State Supreme Court's ruling on embryos being children, a nonbinary teen killed in Oklahoma, and Trump's recent release of sneakers that sold out in Philly. For pop culture, we talk about Beyoncé's new haircare line and Wendy William's struggles with dementia and aphasia. Join us... (00:00) Updates (09:00) Merchandise Update and Roots Picnic Lineup (24:19) Politics is Usual- Trump's Legal Troubles (34:39) Alabama State Supreme Court Ruling- Discussion on Embryos and IVF (49:02) Transgender Teen Killed in Oklahoma (54:20) Who the Fuck Did I Marry TikTok Series (01:06:17) Beyoncé's New Haircare Line (01:16:08) Wendy Williams' Struggles (01:21:07) Kelly Rowland's Career and Controversy (01:26:42) Remembering Hydeia Broadbent and Her Impact Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Discord: https://discord.gg/8X7dDt5j Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus content See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.