Living In The Third Degree With BPD

This episode focuses on rational reasoning when people with BPD don't know how to reason rationally. Some examples of effective ways that has worked in my relationship situation. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/krazy-papa/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/krazy-papa/support

This episode has to do with if you have a particular situation that includes something that is similar related to a deep-seated fear with the person with BPD you could possibly jump over the extra situation at hand and late night the deep-seated fiera within the person with BPD and after you fight more about that than the issue than the issue at hand. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/krazy-papa/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/krazy-papa/support

This episode pertains to my experience when you have the absence of compassion and that closeness and loving words can lead to the thoughts Of infidelity from the person with BPD because they figure if you're not acting loving towards them and offering loving words that you must be offering all that to somebody else so that can be a huge trigger and either end up with them splitting or slowly leading into a much bigger and explosive argument either lasting the normal time that your person splits or any longer period of time. So this is views and suggestions for my personal experiences in regards to the subject. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/krazy-papa/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/krazy-papa/support

These are suggestions that I have used as well as read about and watch videos when it comes to splitting on how to take control of the argument to avoid the person with BPD of them deflecting and getting off track when it comes to the matter at hand but as well as effective ways to show empathy and validate their feelings. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/krazy-papa/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/krazy-papa/support

This episode is about people with BPD lying deflecting and not saying sorry for things they say and things they do --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/krazy-papa/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/krazy-papa/support

This episode deals with people who have BPD and are experiencing anhedonia as well. I talk about what I have learned involving the symptoms what causes antedonia the medical procedures and procedures you can do on your own at home with my suggestions and educating yourself from what you can find online through YouTube videos and podcasts. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/krazy-papa/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/krazy-papa/support

This episode is in addition to one I had done last year in regards to somebody with BPD who has a favorite person. This episode is specifically around someone who has BPD and builds their favorite person up to the point of perfection in a distorted way to get them in their life but this might also be helpful for somebody who doesn't have BPD so they might recognize if they are becoming a favorite person. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/krazy-papa/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/krazy-papa/support

This episode clearly outlines even if somebody with BPD can do a 180 they still have the instincts embedded in them from BPD where they split and still have the BPD characteristics of an argument. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/krazy-papa/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/krazy-papa/support

This episode is about an unconventional approach as far as unconventional in mental health standards for the loving tactic if you have the patience and the love for the person in your life who has BPD you can apply this tactic and approach that I have and have a smooth relationship with a person in your life who has BPD. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/krazy-papa/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/krazy-papa/support

Any site that you look up and regards to BPD you always find information about triggers of BPD when it comes to episodes and splitting but very rarely will you find one that involves triggers of love so I want to do this episode involving triggers of love as well as hate. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/krazy-papa/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/krazy-papa/support

This episode is about what I've noticed there are certain characteristics of somebody with BPD specifically during an argument so I'm offering my experience with my wife dating back to when she had full blown BPD starting in 2012 and how she reacts now during full blown argumentative since she has done a 180 almost 6 months ago. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/krazy-papa/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/krazy-papa/support

This is suggestions on what I tried with my wife which helped turn her BPD 180° but I can also help any relationship that he's become stale.... --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/krazy-papa/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/krazy-papa/support

This episode proves that people with BPD can do a 180° change proven it with my wife who has had BPD since 2011 and after all this time I have seen a 180° changing her so with that being said enjoy this episode and hopefully if you have somebody in your life with BPD or if you have BPD yourself there is hope I guarantee you there is 100% hope --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/krazy-papa/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/krazy-papa/support

I would invite EVERYONE who has BPD or involved with someone who has BPD to understand that after knowing my wife and her disorder getting progressinly worse since 2012 to the point that she was so consumed by her disorder she became someone I did not know anymore, she was not the woman I fell in love with and not the person that was such a loving, kind and caring person not only to me and loved ones but to strangers as well.... I DO NOT have any answer at all, I have not researched yet how this is possible but in the past and as with anyone with BPD, when stress or emotions are introduced they are known to split to avoid, deflect and distort reality to avoid dealing with the emotion, BUT to my surprise with her and to my surprise to how BPD works, she had experienced the most traumatic events over the past 6 months which she was turned away, abandoned, pushed away by friends, family and even her children... She lost every material possession she owned including her place to live, her and there can be a significant change for the better for themselves and for the people involved in the life of the BPD because I have seen the sadness of the worst for my wife being inflicted with BPD and seeing such a good human being with so much love and caring not only for me but everyone in her life including strangers! There has been over a 100 things I have said and done weather it was actions, words, songs etc. that in the past would have triggered an episode being small to a full blown episode which in the past made me walk on eggshells and even then it was a crap shoot, and with the most traumatic events she sustained over the past 6 months from losing her home, every possession she owned including her pets, being homeless, being pushed out and abandoned by her friends and even own child and feeling lower than ever in her life and finally contemplating suicide and landing in the behavioral health ward twice at 2 separate hospitals in less than a month and coming out of it being the most thoughtful, amazing human being that I have know and grown to love then being robbed of all that because of BPD taking over her mind, but if all this that happened to her, someone diagnosed with full blown BPD, even I thought it was could to either suicide or that I would be the devil in her mind to hate and see to it that her presence was never to be around me and forget me forever, yet to my surprise she has subsided her BPD and has been more loving, thoughtful and super amazing than I remember ever in years and years even before her diagnosis of BPD, I cant explain it... I have to research more on how this might have turned a 180 for the better, but until then, Im ever so grateful and thankful and want to take advantage of every blessed minute of this amazing woman that I gave my heart to 34 years ago, and if her BPD surfaces I still will be there there to love her and support her as I have always tried my best, but even more now than ever! THERE IS HOPE OUT THERE! Trust me when I tell you that if she is capable of Turing a 180 ANYONE can do it! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/krazy-papa/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/krazy-papa/support

This is a cross between one of my older episodes of every time we fought she sound like a broken record along with a couple of new ideas that I had read in a couple of magazines and books about borderline personality disorder and how they perceive you with their last interaction. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/krazy-papa/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/krazy-papa/support

This episode is about somebody who has BPD when they're splitting they have a 360° circle of emotions they will attack everything that you are to them a father a husband a lover a friend or anything that they ever said good about you they will reverse it when they're splitting. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/krazy-papa/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/krazy-papa/support

This episode is called feeling the demon and I'm trying to teach people how to not feed the BPD side of your loved one the more you feed into it the more it fuels them that's what they're looking for there's certain characteristics of BPD that you can fight by different actions for every action there's a reaction so I'm offering a suggestion that works for me hopefully it'll work for you --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/krazy-papa/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/krazy-papa/support

After receiving an email from a listener asking if I thought my relationship with my wife was a trauma Bond relationship but I had never heard of that before so I had done some reading and figured I would bring to you what I learned about a drama relationship. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/krazy-papa/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/krazy-papa/support

This is the worst episode of recorded to date... My wife just went through extremely tragic event and because we were fighting she refused to allow me to be involved in this incident and pushed me away and I haven't spoken to her and afraid of going to be a long time they're so sweet to me and that's even if she ever will again. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/krazy-papa/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/krazy-papa/support

**(To date part 2 has still not been recorded...) This is very special episode I never ever thought that I could get my wife Michelle to have an interview with me, considering I kept this podcast hidden from her for over a year!!! Unfortunately there was supposed to be a part 2 to her interview but there was an argument after part one, but at least I want to put up what I could get out of her for now... --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/krazy-papa/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/krazy-papa/support