Under The Sheets with Tatiana Ashborn and Friends

In this heartfelt episode, we delve into the captivating story of Gail, a woman whose life has been marked by profound experiences of love, loss, and self-discovery. From her childhood love to grappling with the pressures of motherhood she never desired, Gail shares her raw emotions and insightful reflections on navigating the complexities of life. As her children grow and spread their wings, Gail embarks on a solo journey, traveling the world in search of herself. Along the way, she confronts the weight of grief, coping with the loss of her beloved husband, and finding solace in the process of healing. But it's not just about overcoming tragedy; Gail's story is one of transformation and empowerment developing a company called - 'Glow up & Love Yourself' to help others in the discovery or rebuilding self-love. Yet, the path to self-love is fraught with challenges, including the pain of betrayal and the struggle to release pent-up anger. Join us as Gail honestly shares her experiences of feeling disillusioned by love, grappling with infidelity, and ultimately emerging with newfound resilience and hope. Her journey serves as a powerful reminder that even in our darkest moments, there is always the possibility of finding light and rediscovering love – within ourselves and in the world around us. To get involved with her program and keep up to date with everything Gail, head to https://glowupandloveyourself.com/home To make a donation to the Fijian school; https://www.justgiving.com/crowdfunding/underthesheetswithtatianaashborninfiji To find out more before you donate - watch the last episode with Naomi; https://youtu.be/xItz9cMJ4C0?si=KMxIZqc5t8bL7L1s thank you!! You may find some of these issues troubling. Viewer discretion advised. Please visit our website: www.dirtytalkofficial.com for finding information and resources. We love you and you are needed.

I am so lucky to have met & live with someone like Naomi in Fiji. I have never felt so useless until I met her and realised she does more work than most of us put together. Naomi is an exceptional Mum, Daughter, Friend and Voice of Reason. Speaking to Naomi in this episode is just a tiny insight to what she actually does day to day. Apologies for any audio disturbances and crack within this episode. We were dealing with children & lawn mowers! We discuss EVERYTHING from the superstitions in her family regarding death meaning she has to have more children, to the scariest idea I think about; when you have no idea you are pregnant until the baby comes because your menstruation has been normal!! In Fiji culture it is more likely the women are the breadwinners & feel pressure around being a mum and a 'good' woman. It was also interesting learning how they view women body image compared to the western society which is an absolute plus. And did you know we now have a thing called human rights? Naomi you are one in a million and you've been through it all but boy do you have an amazing sense of humour and I cannot thank you nor your family enough for letting me come into your home - (https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100080373706605) If anyone is planning to head to Fiji. I hope you get to the end of this episode and see that we are raising money for Naomi's family and village. It would mean so much to me and all of them if you were able to donate anything you can for their school in order to have another teacher. Please view how to donate here... https://www.justgiving.com/crowdfunding/underthesheetswithtatianaashborninfiji?utm_term=YYM4xVnVE

In this episode I talk to founder Sophie of Our Guilty Pleasures, a business that has curated the best toys from around the world, all in one place. Not only do we get BTS of the store but we also get amazing advice on how to work alongside a partner in business, sex and friendships. I get gifted my first personal vibrator which is super exciting and have a much needed conversation about female pleasure.

Diggory Waite is my new favourite human. He is possibly the funniest and kindest person I have been lucky enough to meet and this episode is an absolute corker. Diggory has many anecdotes, mostly about having a sex therapist as a mum but not long after that, he talks about his porn relapse by Samuel L. Jackson's Twitter, making waves in his recovery journey. Waite discusses why he’s struggled when getting into relationships and gives us a step by step guide to navigating attachment styles, therapy sessions & what dating apps are best for working out who’s up for anal this christmas. I cannot wait for you all to listen to this!!

Sonny is a man of many colours and we have to celebrate his charming self with all his quirkiness and perhaps his indifference of opinions at times. From the christian upbringing and personal exploration to questioning the ease of obtaining sex, Sonny opens ups about his sex life and where he is now as an 18 year old. Join the conversation as we dive into the world of personal preferences, from red trousers to an unexpected love for chicken nuggets, creating a space where no topic is off-limits. This episode evolves into an exploration of first times, contrasting the blurry haze of drunk encounters with the clarity of sober experiences, and addresses the lingering emotions that sometimes follow moments of intimacy. We explore the power dynamics of control versus submission, daringly using provocative language like "slag" to ignite discussions about personal choices and societal expectations. Have you ever felt like a sheep following the herd in the realm of relationships? We discuss the idea of masculinity and I break his heart when I tell him that women do fake orgasm and a toy should be celebrated rather than thinking you're not good enough. Tune in for an episode that challenges norms, sparks conversations, and ultimately celebrates the diversity of human interaction.

If you were told that if you have sex, you'd lose your special glue, how would you react? Sophia wrote a book. This is one of the most interesting conversations I have ever had exploring such in depth topics about vaginismus, hymen repair & the idea of having a 'tight' vagina. Sex education isn't taken seriously and can lead to serious health issues. If you don't know, get to know. I didn't realise a lot about the world of sex before I started this podcast - Sophia helped me through it x You may find some of these issues troubling. Viewer discretion advised. Please visit our website: www.dirtytalkofficial.com for finding information and resources. We love you and you are needed.

James disscusses what love means to him. How autism plays a part in his love life and what he’s truly looking for (not just Beyonce). He opens up about his sexuality and how he hasn’t come out to his parents yet & that religion plays a big part in how he remains positive. James you were a pleasure to have on the show, thank you for being kind 💜

I met Steve at the pub & asked if he wouldnt mind hopping on the show and as nervous as he was he did a fantastic job and gave a lot of insight into the world of Steve. We discuss growing up in an all boys household to later, boarding school. The challenges of expressing emotion & how first time experiences can affect your later years. Having spent time living in Ibiza, he’s had quite the life, now with kids and two divorces I ask the question of whose next? Thank you for sharing your story, I am grateful to have met you x

This is Kirsty, she is an absolute legend of a person, strong, independent woman and I have so much love for her. We discuss how she has managed to become sober after a sex life of alcohol and drugs, raising children in an open environment, safeguarding & the process of having hysterectomy, the challenges of endometriosis and how it felt to go through menopause early. There is so much content and I would so love to delve in more. Thank you Kirsty for allowing me an insight of what you have been through 💜 I hope you get your sex swing! You may find some of these issues troubling. Viewer discretion advised. Please visit our website: www.dirtytalkofficial.com for finding information and resources. We love you and you are needed.

Model, Del Winder, dresses to impress at all occasions even when asked to hop into my bed. We talk the walk, delve into the assumptions of the industry with eating disorders and judging your own weight due to performance, not only as a model but a boxer. Del is from Thailand, so we chat Thai culture & ping pong shows and what people actually mean by 'lady boys.' Watch now for tongue techniques, math problems and have you ever wondered how much sex you could buy for 10 million pounds? You may find some of these issues troubling. Viewer discretion advised. Please visit our website: www.dirtytalkofficial.com for finding information and resources. We love you and you are needed.

Having Danielle on my bed was the greatest pleasure and not just in one way. Danielle takes us on the ride of our lives and I don’t think I can write something for this other than you must watch this yourselves. You will cry, you will laugh and you will be speechless and you will all know that Danielle is ‘just a natural at it’ Your stories are incredible and a lot I wish were very different for you Danielle because you deserved better but atleast you are here to tell the tales and educate the rest of us, plus you don’t half tell them well! Thank you for sharing, your story matters. You may find some of these issues troubling. Viewer discretion advised. Please visit our website: www.dirtytalkofficial.com for finding information and resources. We love you and you are needed.

Welcome to Craig's episode where we talk - being able to find the right person, that spending too much time with a partner can cause strain, sex playlists, and how long it took to realise he was being walked all over and I cannot believe I nearly forgot... GUITARS.Lets all go #gayformayer You may find some of these issues troubling. Viewer discretion advised. Please visit our website: www.dirtytalkofficial.com for finding information and resources. We love you and you are needed.

Leo is a true Greek God, talking sex-ed, first times, how working in hospitality can be challenging with inappropriate customers, getting himself into situations he wanted out from and what it means to be bi-sexual in todays world. All this and more, including how Leo likes to spend his Fridays… being proper feral! Leo, it was nice to hear such a fresh outlook, keep being you and thanks letting me ask about some of my new revelations!! Also a massive thank you to the girl in your year that kept you going 💕 As always its good to be brave.

Amélie is a Natural born theatre kid with what sounds like some commitment issues. She delves into talking about being exposed to sexual things from a young age, to how she questioned her sexuality with then never being able to commit after only ever having casual sex. We discuss drag shows, what it means to have a high following and how doesn’t everyone wish they had a sugar daddy? You may find some of these issues troubling. Viewer discretion advised. Please visit our website: www.dirtytalkofficial.com for finding information and resources. We love you and you are needed.

We bring you the steamiest episode yet! And the last episode in the LA season :( Lydia has become one of my closest friends when meeting her in L.A. She brings the jokes to a whole new level and I cannot stop laughing when I watch it (and I’ve watched it about 9 times). Believe me, this is worth watching. She’s a film enthusiast, horror obsessed and a wanna-be vibrator owner. We talk celebrity crushes, why she cried after her first time, what it means to be labelled ‘frigid’ in school, how to put in an implant and to really get you all going, she describes a sex scene she’d really want in a film 😬 eeek. Watch out for this film maker….

The next location in this L.A. Season is a bedroom and it feels great to be back in normality. This is Johnny and he is a film maker and such a loving, open guy that really deserves happiness and everything he works for. He is brave enough to discuss, coming from a broken home and how that effects relationships, suicide, irrational fears and the want to get a versectomy in prevention of having a child. Through all this he continues to smile and most of all understands the importance of telling your friends you love them. You may find some of these issues troubling. Viewer discretion advised. Please visit our website: www.dirtytalkofficial.com for finding information and resources. We love you and you are needed.

Welcome to the first episode of the L.A specials season The first location is: the living room and I’m catching up with my new friend Paige. Paige opens up about the cycle of being in a toxic relationship, how she dealt with the betrayal of men from a young age, the dream wedding, what having a gorilla dick really means and instead of a book circle, a dildo swapping one. This episode is full of highs and lows and I have to thank Paige for her opinions and knowledge on life so far. I would like to thank the team; Tyler Townsend, Lydia B-Wills and Oscar Geraldo for helping me out to make this happen. You may find some of these issues troubling. Viewer discretion advised. Please visit our website: www.dirtytalkofficial.com for finding information and resources. We love you and you are needed.

A Christmas Special for everyone - bringing the archives back. This ones my brother!!! We talk first time sex, painful sex, sex-tape & how to make a vagina smell nice? Including something that makes my heart break - someone used the wrong name in bed!

Sammy Sunshine is television presenter and actor who has appeared in Indonesian movies and soap operas. He is publicly known for changing his gender into a woman and participating in the Big Brother reality show as Samantha Brodie. However, a few years later decided to return to his identity as a man and married his wife and had two daughters. He discusses losing his virginity at 30, abandonment issues, being a survivor of sexual assault and what it actually means to open your vagina wallets. You may find some of these issues troubling. Viewer discretion advised. Please visit our website: www.dirtytalkofficial.com for finding information and resources. We love you and you are needed.

Beth & Josh have been best friends through it all and have come to chat in bed with me about Beth's long-term relationships and Josh's sex scandals. They discuss how important it is to keep your friends through a relationship, not being able to orgasm, dealing with gambling addiction & how to maybe look at your bus driver a bit differently? You may find some of these issues troubling. Viewer discretion advised. Please visit our website: www.dirtytalkofficial.com for finding information and resources. We love you and you are needed.