To Be Wed - Wedding Planning Podcast

Sometimes Wedding Planning can really take a toll on you but you never hear anyone else talk about it. This episode is all about our experience with Perfectionism while planning our Wedding. We talk about how to have the best day possible whilst realising it could never be our dream day due to finncial constraints. Plus what about People Pleasing. Who are we trying to impress with our Weddings? There is always some aspect of wanting to impress your friends and family so we dive into how we managed that during our wedding planning process. I hope this is a super helpful episode and can help you start a conversation with your partner to put the right practices in place a long time before your Wedding Day! If you enjoyed this episode please consider sharing this episode with friends or family members who you think would also enjoy it! Another way you can support our show is by leaving a rating or review on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Spotify⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Apple Podcasts⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. This really helps us get our show out to a new audience of people planning their wedding just like yourself! Be sure to follow us on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@tobewed_ podcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ for all the inside Goss, extra tips and tricks and to vote on what episode you think we should do next. We would like to pay our respects to the Darug People whose land on which this podcast is recorded. We acknowledge that their custodianship of this land was never ceded and we pay our respects to Elders past and present of the Darug Nation.

On this weeks episode we open a can of worms and discuss having children at your wedding. We dive into the challenges of having kids at your wedding and some things to consider if you are having kids at your wedding. If you are on the fence about having kids at your wedding , definitely want kids at you wedding or don't want kids at your wedding at all- then this is the episode for you! If you enjoyed this episode please consider sharing this episode with friends or family members who you think would also enjoy it! Another way you can support our show is by leaving a rating or review on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Spotify⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Apple Podcasts⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. This really helps us get our show out to a new audience of people planning their wedding just like yourself! Be sure to follow us on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@tobewed_ podcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ for all the inside Goss, extra tips and tricks and to vote on what episode you think we should do next. We would like to pay our respects to the Darug People whose land on which this podcast is recorded. We acknowledge that their custodianship of this land was never ceded and we pay our respects to Elders past and present of the Darug Nation.

This short and sharp episode is all about how to create the best atmosphere for the Dancefloor at your Wedding. From what songs to play, how to arrange the room and even the perfect length of time. We go through everything we learned from our Wedding Dancefloor and tips we have seen from other peoples Weddings. Plus we give you a list of things to avoid that could make your Wedding Dancefloor flop! Hope you guys love this one :) If you enjoyed this episode please consider sharing this episode with friends or family members who you think would also enjoy it! Another way you can support our show is by leaving a rating or review on ⁠⁠⁠⁠Spotify⁠⁠⁠⁠ or ⁠⁠⁠⁠Apple Podcasts⁠⁠⁠⁠. This really helps us get our show out to a new audience of people planning their wedding just like yourself! Be sure to follow us on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠@tobewed_ podcast⁠⁠⁠⁠ for all the inside Goss, extra tips and tricks and to vote on what episode you think we should do next. We would like to pay our respects to the Darug People whose land on which this podcast is recorded. We acknowledge that their custodianship of this land was never ceded and we pay our respects to Elders past and present of the Darug Nation.

This week we expose the hidden side of Pinterest & Instagram's impact on Weddings, specifically how they promote fake wedding photos and distort the expectations of newly-engaged couples. Have you ever heard of Styled Shoots? They are elaborately planned and carefully orchestrated 'Fake Weddings' run by industry professionals designed to capture awe-inspiring wedding imagery. Well we recently created our own Styled Photoshoot and thought this was a great chance to discuss the pros & cons of such a Photoshoot. Like we love the opportunity for couples to express their creativity, discover unique ideas, and collaborate with talented professionals. However, we also fear the potential for heightened expectations, the pressure to replicate the styled look in real-life weddings, and the risk of losing sight of authenticity when almost all the photos on Pinterest these days use models and not a real couples. We finish off the episode with some practical advice on navigating Pinterest's influence, managing expectations, and embracing the uniqueness of each couple's love story. By shedding light on the Pinterest paradox, we hope to empower couples to prioritise their happiness and authenticity over unattainable perfection. So join us as we dive into the world of picture-perfect Wedding Photos/Make-up and the detrimental effects they can have on your expectations. If you enjoyed this episode please consider sharing this episode with friends or family members who you think would also enjoy it! Another way you can support our show is by leaving a rating or review on ⁠⁠⁠Spotify⁠⁠⁠ or ⁠⁠⁠Apple Podcasts⁠⁠⁠. This really helps us get our show out to a new audience of people planning their wedding just like yourself! Be sure to follow us on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠@tobewed_ podcast⁠⁠⁠ for all the inside Goss, extra tips and tricks and to vote on what episode you think we should do next. We would like to pay our respects to the Darug People whose land on which this podcast is recorded. We acknowledge that their custodianship of this land was never ceded and we pay our respects to Elders past and present of the Darug Nation.

This week we explore the ups and downs of needing a spark when dating. On one hand, that initial attraction and chemistry can be incredibly exciting and lead to a powerful connection with someone. It can create a sense of excitement and anticipation that keeps the relationship fresh and interesting. However, relying solely on a spark can also be problematic. It can lead to dismissing potential partners who may not initially light that fire, but who could be wonderful matches in the long run. Join us as we dive into the pros and cons of needing a spark when dating, and explore strategies for finding balance and building meaningful relationships. Whether you're single and searching, or in a committed relationship, this episode will provide valuable insights into the role of attraction in finding and maintaining love. In addition to discussing the initial spark in dating, we'll also dive into ways to keep that spark alive during a relationship. It's common for the excitement and intensity of a new relationship to fade over time, but there are strategies that can help maintain that connection. We'll explore the importance of communication, both in expressing appreciation and addressing challenges. We'll also talk about ways to keep the romance and intimacy alive, such as date nights and trying new activities together. Join us as we discuss practical tips for reigniting the flame and creating a lasting, fulfilling relationship. If you enjoyed this episode please consider sharing this episode with friends or family members who you think would also enjoy it! Another way you can support our show is by leaving a rating or review on ⁠⁠Spotify⁠⁠ or ⁠⁠Apple Podcasts⁠⁠. This really helps us get our show out to a new audience of people planning their wedding just like yourself! Be sure to follow us on Instagram ⁠⁠@tobewed_ podcast⁠⁠ for all the inside Goss, extra tips and tricks and to vote on what episode you think we should do next. We would like to pay our respects to the Darug People whose land on which this podcast is recorded. We acknowledge that their custodianship of this land was never ceded and we pay our respects to Elders past and present of the Darug Nation.

Spoiler: It was the one thing that didn't go so well with our Wedding... On this week's episode we tell the story that we have been gatekeeping about our wedding. We discuss our Wedding Photographer. What we loved, what we didn't and what we could have done better. From finding your Wedding Photographer to getting your photos back, we let you in on some of the lessons we learnt and what we would do differently. If you enjoyed this episode please consider sharing this episode with friends or family members who you think would also enjoy it! Another way you can support our show is by leaving a rating or review on ⁠⁠Spotify⁠⁠ or ⁠⁠Apple Podcasts⁠⁠. This really helps us get our show out to a new audience of people planning their wedding just like yourself! Be sure to follow us on Instagram ⁠⁠@tobewed_ podcast⁠⁠ for all the inside Goss, extra tips and tricks and to vote on what episode you think we should do next. We would like to pay our respects to the Darug People whose land on which this podcast is recorded. We acknowledge that their custodianship of this land was never ceded and we pay our respects to Elders past and present of the Darug Nation.

Wedding Planners, Wedding Day of Coordinators, Venue Coordinators - What's the difference and do you need one for your Wedding? Hint, the answer is yes but maybe you can just give this job to a friend or family member. In this episode we are going through the roles and responsibilities of a Wedding Day Coordinator and help you decide whether you need to hire a specific vendor to do the job or if you can just ask a friend. There are so many things to consider with this and like most things we talk about, if you haven't planned a wedding day before it is so hard to know what it all means. This is the type of episode we wish we had of listened to before we got married because trust me there are a few big things we would change to make our day less stressful! We also talk about Wedding Proposals in this episode and give our take on whether proposals are going to far and becoming more about the spectacle than the couple themselves! If you enjoyed this episode please consider sharing this episode with friends or family members who you think would also enjoy it! Another way you can support our show is by leaving a rating or review on ⁠Spotify⁠ or ⁠Apple Podcasts⁠. This really helps us get our show out to a new audience of people planning their wedding just like yourself! Be sure to follow us on Instagram ⁠@tobewed_ podcast⁠ for all the inside Goss, extra tips and tricks and to vote on what episode you think we should do next. We would like to pay our respects to the Darug People whose land on which this podcast is recorded. We acknowledge that their custodianship of this land was never ceded and we pay our respects to Elders past and present of the Darug Nation.

Mike interviews Emily about her New Career move into Make-up Artistry. Emily worked as a Make-up Artist at her first ever Wedding over the past weekend and we speak about that experience and what her plans are into the future. We talk about how she got into make-up as well as how she is starting her business in 2023. Emily is undertaking professional training for make-up so we dive into the Pros and Cons of learning a creative skill in a classroom verses online through YouTube videos and tutorials. We hope you guys love this interview style of episode and that it's a great insight for anyone wanting to start a business in the Wedding Industry! Follow Emily's Make-Up journey on Instagram @emilyjeffrey_makeup If you enjoyed this episode please consider sharing this episode with friends or family members who you think would also enjoy it! Another way you can support our show is by leaving a rating or review on Spotify or Apple Podcasts. This really helps us get our show out to a new audience of people planning their wedding just like yourself! Be sure to follow us on Instagram @tobewed_ podcast for all the inside Goss, extra tips and tricks and to vote on what episode you think we should do next. We would like to pay our respects to the Darug People whose land on which this podcast is recorded. We acknowledge that their custodianship of this land was never ceded and we pay our respects to Elders past and present of the Darug Nation.

One of the most challenging things when it comes to planning your Wedding is knowing how your Wedding Day Timeline will run. It is super important to have a detailed plan from Sunrise to Sunset on your Wedding Day but how do you know what that looks like if you've never been to a Wedding before. Every Wedding is different but in this episode we are trying to go through some of the nuances when it comes to your big day because these unspoken things are often the things people forget to plan and will catch them out on their day. We don't want that stress for you guys so hopefully this helps :) Also check out Episode #10 - The Ultimate Wedding Day Timeline for more helpful tips!!! If you enjoyed this episode please consider sharing this episode with friends or family members who you think would also enjoy it! Another way you can support our show is by leaving a rating or review on Spotify or Apple Podcasts. This really helps us get our show out to a new audience of people planning their wedding just like yourself! Be sure to follow us on Instagram @tobewed_ podcast for all the inside Goss, extra tips and tricks and to vote on what episode you think we should do next. We would like to pay our respects to the Darug People whose land on which this podcast is recorded. We acknowledge that their custodianship of this land was never ceded and we pay our respects to Elders past and present of the Darug Nation.

With every relationship there are growing pains and in this episode we go through some of ours. As a married couple you can easily forget how important it is to reflect on days gone by and look back at where you've come from. In that spirit, we are going right back to the start and letting you in on how we got together, when and why we moved in together and how things progressed. Spoiler alert, it wasn't all sunshine and rainbows but we made it work and are here to share some helpful tips we learnt along the way. This is the first of our "Relationship" based episodes so we hope you guys can enjoy it, have a laugh and maybe gain some new insights into our marriage! Be sure to follow us on Instagram @tobewed_ podcast for all the inside Goss, extra tips and tricks and to vote on what episode you think we should do next. If you enjoyed this episode please consider sharing this episode with friends or family members who you think would also enjoy it! Another way you can support our show is by leaving a rating or review on Spotify or Apple Podcasts. This really helps us get our show out to a new audience of people planning their wedding just like yourself! We would like to pay our respects to the Darug People whose land on which this podcast is recorded. We acknowledge that their custodianship of this land was never ceded and we pay our respects to Elders past and present of the Darug Nation.

This week we dive into your worst fears when it comes to Wedding Planning. But no need to fear this episode, as we give you all our best advice on how deal with those things you worry about going wrong. We discuss getting left at the alter, family drama, the dreaded weather and your outfit fitting you. If you're waking up in the middle of night thinking about wedding catastrophes- then this may be the episode for you! If you did like this episode share it with a friend, your spouse or the freaked out person getting married soon! Wanna see more content and have a day on future episodes- then head to our Instagram @tobewed_podcast. And if you love this podcast as much as we do, then let the world know by leaving us a rating or review. Until next time, happy planning. We would like to acknowledge the Darug people, the traditional owners of the Country where this podcast was recorded. We would like to extend that respect to all First Nations people listening to this episode today. If this week's episode or any other episode brought anything up for you, we encourage to seek out help and support. Some suggestions for support are: https://www.healthdirect.gov.au/mental-health-helplines *please note these are Australian Numbers only, if you are from another Country please seek out your local information, hotline and support numbers. Centre for Disease Control and prevention suggestions for seeking help: https://www.cdc.gov/mentalhealth/tools-resources/individuals/index.htm New Zealand Ministry of Health information about Mental Health Services: https://www.health.govt.nz/your-health/services-and-support/health-care-services UK National Health Service (NHS) information on Mental Health Services: https://www.nhs.uk/nhs-services/mental-health-services/ Government of Canada's information on Mental Health Support: https://www.canada.ca/en/public-health/services/mental-health-services/mental-health-get-help.html

Have you ever felt lonely during the wedding planning process? Then this episode is for you. On this week's episode of the To Be Wed podcast we discuss loneliness and isolation from the moment you get engaged until the wedding day. We discuss the lack of excitement from friends and family, knowing who is really there for you, comparing your choice to others and being the only partner helping to plan the wedding. We gie you insight into our experience and also give you some helpful tips. Be sure to follow us on Instagram @tobewed_ podcast for all the inside Goss, extra tips and tricks and to vote on what episode you think we should do next. If this week's episode brought anything up for you, we highly encourage you to seek out professional support and to speak to someone. Some suggestion as to where you can find support are: https://www.healthdirect.gov.au/mental-health-helplines *please note these are Australian Numbers only, if you are from another Country please seek out your local information, hotline and support numbers. Centre for Disease Control and prevention suggestions for seeking help: https://www.cdc.gov/mentalhealth/tools-resources/individuals/index.htm New Zealand Ministry of Health information about Mental Health Services: https://www.health.govt.nz/your-health/services-and-support/health-care-services/mental-health-services UK National Health Service (NHS) information on Mental Health Services: https://www.nhs.uk/nhs-services/mental-health-services/ Government of Canada's information on Mental Health Support: https://www.canada.ca/en/public-health/services/mental-health-services/mental-health-get-help.html If you enjoyed this episode please consider sharing this episode with friends or family members who you think would also enjoy it! Another way you can support our show is by leaving a rating or review on Spotify or Apple Podcasts. This really helps us get our show out to a new audience of people planning their wedding just like yourself! We would like to pay our respects to the Darug People whose land on which this podcast is recorded. We acknowledge that their custodianship of this land was never ceded and we pay our respects to Elders past and present of the Darug Nation.

On this week's episode, we discuss the future of the podcast. As we go in to 2023, we sit down to discuss some of our goals and hopes for the next year. Grab a drink or some food and listen to our candid chat. From changing up the topics we cover to including interviews, this episode gives you a sneak peak into our thought process for the future. Be sure to follow us on Instagram @tobewed_ podcast for all the inside Goss, extra tips and tricks and to vote on what episode you think we should do next. If you enjoyed this episode please consider sharing this episode with friends or family members who you think would also enjoy it! Another way you can support our show is by leaving a rating or review on Spotify or Apple Podcasts. This really helps us get our show out to a new audience of people planning their wedding just like yourself! We would like to pay our respects to the Darug People whose land on which this podcast is recorded. We acknowledge that their custodianship of this land was never ceded and we pay our respects to Elders past and present of the Darug Nation.

It's Christmas time and one topic of discussion that is sure to come up around the Christmas table is your Wedding. Whether this discussion is pleasant or painful depends entirely on your family dynamics and how prepared you are beforehand. In this episode we wanted to give you some tips on how to share exciting wedding planning things with your family and friends but also how to squirm out of those icky conversations that are going to ruin your day. It's human nature for people to have opinions on the way they think your Wedding should go but only you can control what you share or how you react to their opinions. We hope this episode helps :) Be sure to follow us on Instagram @tobewed_ podcast for all the inside Goss, extra tips and tricks and to vote on what episode you think we should do next. If you enjoyed this episode please consider sharing this episode with friends or family members who you think would also enjoy it! Another way you can support our show is by leaving a rating or review on Spotify or Apple Podcasts. This really helps us get our show out to a new audience of people planning their wedding just like yourself! We would like to pay our respects to the Darug People whose land on which this podcast is recorded. We acknowledge that their custodianship of this land was never ceded and we pay our respects to Elders past and present of the Darug Nation.

Your Wedding Day is one of the biggest highs in your life and anyone who has ever been married knows the feeling of sadness that can come along after your big day is over. This is totally normal and happens to everyone after such a big life event. In this episode we want to share some ways that you can pick yourself back up from that post wedding slump and help you find purpose in life again. Plus we also give all the engaged couples some proactive tips that might prevent you feeling those post wedding blues months before your wedding day!! The biggest takeaway from this episode is that Post Wedding Blues are perfectly normal and they shouldn't be something you feel ashamed about feeling or talking about with others. Marriage is tough and sometimes it can feel like you are in it alone so definitely reach out to friends and family if things ever start to get hard. Be sure to follow us on Instagram @tobewed_ podcast for all the inside Goss, extra tips and tricks and to vote on what episode you think we should do next. If you enjoyed this episode please consider sharing this episode with friends or family members who you think would also enjoy it! Another way you can support our show is by leaving a rating or review on Spotify or Apple Podcasts. This really helps us get our show out to a new audience of people planning their wedding just like yourself! We would like to pay our respects to the Darug People whose land on which this podcast is recorded. We acknowledge that their custodianship of this land was never ceded and we pay our respects to Elders past and present of the Darug Nation.

Can you uphold Feminist ideals and have a Wedding in 2022? This week we discuss whether feminism can co-exist with weddings and marriage. We explore ways that Weddings have and continue to exclude Women and how you can change that by embedding feminism into your wedding and marriage. If you are feminist and wonder how you can get married, then this episode is for you. Be sure to follow us on Instagram @tobewed_ podcast for all the inside Goss, extra tips and tricks and to vote on what episode you think we should do next. If you enjoyed this episode please consider sharing this episode with friends or family members who you think would also enjoy it! Another way you can support our show is by leaving a rating or review on Spotify or Apple Podcasts. This really helps us get our show out to a new audience of people planning their wedding just like yourself! We would like to pay our respects to the Darug People whose land on which this podcast is recorded. We acknowledge that their custodianship of this land was never ceded and we pay our respects to Elders past and present of the Darug Nation.

This episode is super steamy!!! We give our opinions on some Hot Takes that we have seen online about the Wedding Industry. Do you think the Bride & Groom should pay for Bridesmaids/Groomsmen? Who is the most important vendor at a Wedding?? Are cash bars Tacky? What do you think about long engagement periods?? And don't even get me started on the Garter Toss.... Tune in to here us rant and hopefully you will get some ideas of what not to do for your Wedding!!! Be sure to follow us on Instagram @tobewed_ podcast for all the inside Goss, extra tips and tricks and to vote on what episode you think we should do next. If you enjoyed this episode please consider sharing this episode with friends or family members who you think would also enjoy it! Another way you can support our show is by leaving a rating or review on Spotify or Apple Podcasts. This really helps us get our show out to a new audience of people planning their wedding just like yourself! We would like to pay our respects to the Darug People whose land on which this podcast is recorded. We acknowledge that their custodianship of this land was never ceded and we pay our respects to Elders past and present of the Darug Nation.

This episode has been 30 weeks in the making since we released our first Budgeting Episode over 6 months ago. It has also been our most requested episode so this week we are sharing the total cost of our Wedding with the world! We broke it down for you guys into categories such as Venue Hire, Attire Costs, Vendors, Food, Decor & More so hopefully that will make it easily digestible and let you see what all of the individual costs were. Everything is in here and this is as open and honest as we can possibly be with just how expensive our Wedding was. I am sure the final number will shock people (in both a good and bad way) but we hope it can open your eyes to the costs of getting married and all the little expenses you should be prepared for. We also dive into some of the ways we saved money on our Wedding so definitely listen through until the end to hear those little gems. Enjoy and Happy Budgeting :) Be sure to follow us on Instagram @tobewed_ podcast for all the inside Goss, extra tips and tricks and to vote on what episode you think we should do next. If you enjoyed this episode please consider sharing this episode with friends or family members who you think would also enjoy it! Another way you can support our show is by leaving a rating or review on Spotify or Apple Podcasts. This really helps us get our show out to a new audience of people planning their wedding just like yourself! We would like to pay our respects to the Darug People whose land on which this podcast is recorded. We acknowledge that their custodianship of this land was never ceded and we pay our respects to Elders past and present of the Darug Nation.

The first thing that comes to mind when most people thing of Weddings is Family Drama and unfortunately the stereotype is true. A majority of Wedding Days (ours included) are plagued with family drama so in this episode we wanted to talk about some of the common causes and how you an get around them. We also touch on some coping strategies just in case the unthinkable does come to life for you. Fingers crossed it doesn't! Follow us on Instagram @tobewed_ podcast for all the inside Goss, extra tips and tricks and to vote on what episode you think we should do next. If you enjoyed this episode please consider sharing this episode with friends or family members who you think would also enjoy it! Another way you can support our show is by leaving a rating or review on Spotify or Apple Podcasts. This really helps us get our show out to a new audience of people planning their wedding just like yourself! We would like to pay our respects to the Darug People whose land on which this podcast is recorded. We acknowledge that their custodianship of this land was never ceded and we pay our respects to Elders past and present of the Darug Nation.

Have you noticed that as soon as you say the word WEDDING, prices sky rocket!!! You might be experiencing what us fellow wedding planners like to call the Wedding Tax! On this week's episode we discuss the wedding tax, what is it, when you have to pay it and how to get around it. Mike also gives us a vendors perspective on why the Wedding Tax exists and how it can be important in some cases. Follow us on Instagram @tobewed_ podcast for all the inside Goss, extra tips and tricks and to vote on what episode you think we should do next. If you enjoyed this episode please consider sharing this episode with friends or family members who you think would also enjoy it! Another way you can support our show is by leaving a rating or review on Spotify or Apple Podcasts. This really helps us get our show out to a new audience of people planning their wedding just like yourself! We would like to pay our respects to the Darug People whose land on which this podcast is recorded. We acknowledge that their custodianship of this land was never ceded and we pay our respects to Elders past and present of the Darug Nation.