Wanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories

Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Lifestyle Stories EP216 – Apple Banned Us, Lifestyle Dating Ghosting, 55 Wild Kinks & Nevada Brothel Union Drama After 11 years on Apple Podcasts, we’ve suddenly been removed from the US Apple directory and we’re still trying to figure out why We also share a real update on shooting our shot in the lifestyle after sending 13 messages to potential matches on SDC. We break down the results (including ghosting statistics), and debate whether people actually owe a “no thank you” response on dating sites Plus, a kink guessing game based on Cosmopolitan’s list of 55 kinks, and a fascinating story out of Nevada where workers at a legal brothel are attempting to unionize over controversial contract terms involving likeness and content rights Rate our dating profile photos on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/SwingingDownunder Links Cosmo Kink List https://sex.cosmopolitan.com/pleasure/a24481923/kinks-fetish-list/ Join us at a Swingers Event https://wanderlustswingers.com/swingers-events/ Join SDC – Find swingers near you & explore events https://www.sdc.com/?ref=32122 The Ultimate Guide to STI Testing For Swingers https://wanderlustswingers.com/swinger-education/swingers-sti-testing/ Support Our Amazing Sponsors Comprehensive STI testing (USA Only) with STD Hero Get 10% off use code Libertine https://mybls.com/Libertine Promescent – Sexual Wellness Products Get 15% off using code wanderlust26 https://www.promescent.com/wanderlust26 Shivers - Intimacy Gummies Get 10% off using code Libertine https://shivers.store/?ref=libertine apple podcast removed, swinger podcast, lifestyle dating ghosting, SDC swingers, swinger dating etiquette, kink list explained, figging kink, mirror arousal, vore kink, Sheri’s Ranch brothel, Nevada sex workers union, adult content censorship, non monogamy podcast, swinger travel, Wanderlust Swingers podcast.

Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Lifestyle Stories EP215 – Playroom Etiquette, Grey Areas & A Hotwife Onboard the Bliss Cruise In this episode, we dive into a lifestyle topic that sparks massive debate: playroom etiquette and the “grey areas” that aren’t written in the rules. We share a real experience from Fata Morgana (Netherlands) where another couple began having sex very close to us (around 20cm) in a small open playroom. No rules were broken, nobody touched anyone… but the vibe shifted fast, mainly due to proximity and intense watching. That led to the real question: When something is technically allowed, can it still be socially tone-deaf? We also share highlights from the Reddit discussion (yes, some people roasted us), unpack the difference between rules vs social awareness, and give practical advice for navigating open play spaces when everyone’s boundaries are different. Plus: Cate’s upcoming Bliss Cruise hotwife adventure, and our latest attempt at making new local lifestyle friends (with very Dutch planning timelines). In This Episode - Playroom etiquette vs “grey area” social awareness - Parallel play, proximity, and when it feels invasive - Why eye contact can change the dynamic fast - Reddit reactions: “technically allowed but socially tone-deaf” vs “open room means accept it” - Newbie advice: you can’t control others, only your response - Cate’s Bliss Cruise plans with Mallory (two hotwives on the loose) - Unicorn/hotwife dynamics + messages on the Bliss app - Seasickness tips wanted + the drink package debate - Finding new swinger friends: Cate sent 13 local messages and is tracking replies Join Cate on Bliss Cruise – April 2026 Cate will be sailing on the April 2026 Bliss Cruise, including the beach parties in Jamaica and Cozumel. Book here to join Cate and receive exclusive cashback: https://wanderlustswingers.com/bliss-cruise-april-2026/ - $750 cashback for international guests - $300 cashback for North American guests Useful Links Join us at a Swingers Event: https://wanderlustswingers.com/swingers-events/ Wanderlust Swingers Website: https://wanderlustswingers.com/ Patreon – Event photos, behind-the-scenes & extra content: https://www.patreon.com/SwingingDownunder Join SDC – Find swingers near you & explore events: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=32122 Sponsors Comprehensive STI testing (USA Only) with STD Hero Get 10% off, use code Libertine https://mybls.com/Libertine Promescent – Sexual Wellness Products Get 15% off using code wanderlust26 https://www.promescent.com/wanderlust26 Playroom etiquette, swinger club rules, open playroom, parallel play, voyeur etiquette, lifestyle consent, swingers Netherlands, Fata Morgana swingers, Bliss Cruise, hotwife lifestyle, non-monogamy podcast, swinger travel, Wanderlust Swingers podcast.

Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Lifestyle Stories EP214 – Swinger Cruises: Inside Bliss Cruise with CEO Russell Stephens In this episode, we’re joined by Russell Stephens, CEO and part owner of Bliss Cruise, the world’s largest and most influential lifestyle cruise brand, for an unfiltered conversation about the past, present, and future of Bliss Cruise. Russell shares how Bliss Cruise was acquired, why the ownership structure changed, and how decisions are actually made behind the scenes. We talk candidly about community concerns, guest privacy, pricing, drink packages, sponsorships, and the realities of working with major cruise lines while protecting a sex-positive lifestyle experience. Join Cate on Bliss Cruise – April 2026 Cate will be sailing on the April 2026 Bliss Cruise, including the beach parties in Jamaica and Cozumel. Book here to join Cate and receive exclusive cashback: https://wanderlustswingers.com/bliss-cruise-april-2026/ - $750 cashback for international guests - $300 cashback for North American guests We also dive deep into what most guests never see, the logistics, planning, staffing, and production required to transform a “vanilla” cruise ship into a full-scale lifestyle event with thousands of guests. If you’ve ever wondered: - Who actually owns Bliss Cruise and how decisions are made - How a cruise ship is converted into a swinger cruise in under 24 hours - Why drink packages cost what they do - What happened with cameras, videography, and privacy concerns - How Bliss balances legacy guests with modernizing the experience - Whether West Coast Bliss cruises are ever coming - What goes into playrooms, music programming, and themed cruises In This Episode - Why Bliss Cruise was acquired and what changed with new ownership - Russell’s personal history in the lifestyle and why that matters - How guest feedback and surveys directly shape future cruises - Privacy, consent, videography, and lessons learned - Drink packages, pricing realities, and why sneaking alcohol hurts the community - Sponsorship decisions and why some partnerships won’t happen again - Behind-the-scenes logistics: staffing, playrooms, AV, decor, and scheduling - How Royal Caribbean crews actually feel about Bliss sailings - What makes Bliss Cruise different from resorts, clubs, and land-based events Useful Links Join us at a Swingers Event: https://wanderlustswingers.com/swingers-events/ Wanderlust Swingers Website: https://wanderlustswingers.com/ Patreon – Event photos, behind-the-scenes & extra content: https://www.patreon.com/SwingingDownunder Join SDC – Find swingers near you & explore events: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=32122 Sponsors Comprehensive STI testing (USA Only) with STD Hero Get 10% off, use code Libertine https://mybls.com/Libertine Promescent – Sexual Wellness Products Get 15% off using code wanderlust26 https://www.promescent.com/wanderlust26 Swinger Cruises, Bliss Cruise, Lifestyle Travel, Swinger Podcast, Adult Cruises, Non-Monogamy, Sex Positive Travel, Lifestyle Events, Swinger Community, Wanderlust Swingers Podcast, Swinger cruises, lifestyle travel, Bliss Cruise, adult cruises, playrooms, sex-positive vacations, privacy, pricing, behind-the-scenes logistics, and what it really takes to run a floating lifestyle city.

Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Lifestyle Stories EP213 – Sexual Wellness, Performance Anxiety & Pleasure Products for Better Sex in the Swinger Lifestyle (Promescent CEO) Sex toys, delay sprays, arousal gels, performance anxiety, libido, orgasms, and why using sexual wellness products does not mean you’re “bad in bed.” In this episode, we’re joined by Jeff Abraham, CEO of Promescent, one of the world’s most trusted sexual wellness brands, to talk about the real science, real psychology, and real-world use of pleasure products — especially in the swinger and non-monogamous lifestyle. Premature Ejaculation Spray, Delay Wipes, Arousal Gels & Sexual Wellness Products with Promescent Get 15% off using code wanderlust26 https://www.promescent.com/wanderlust26 We dive deep into premature ejaculation, the arousal gap, performance pressure, female pleasure, and why the best lovers in the world use tools. We also explore the incredible backstory of Promescent, including clinical trials, urologists, turning down a $30M pharma buyout, and why Jeff was determined to keep these products available next to condoms, not behind a prescription counter. If you’ve ever wondered: - Is using a delay spray cheating? - Is performance anxiety mental or physical? - Do arousal gels actually work? - What should be in a swinger’s hoe-on-the-go bag? - How do you last longer with multiple partners? In This Episode - The biggest myths about sexual wellness products and what they really mean - Why the best lovers in the world use performance and pleasure aids - The real science behind premature ejaculation (and why it’s mostly physiological) - The “arousal gap” and why most women need more time than most men - Performance anxiety vs physical dysfunction — which is more common? - The true story of turning down a $30M pharma acquisition - How Promescent went from one product to 20,000+ retail stores (Target, Walgreens, CVS, etc.) - Spray vs wipes: which works best and when to use each - How long delay spray lasts and how to reapply in multi-partner scenarios - What swingers should actually carry in their hoe-on-the-go bag - Female pleasure, arousal gels, blood flow, and why warming/buzzing gels work Useful Links from This Episode: Join us at a Swingers Event: https://wanderlustswingers.com/swingers-events/ Wanderlust Swingers Website: https://wanderlustswingers.com/ Patreon – Event photos, behind-the-scenes & extra content: https://www.patreon.com/SwingingDownunder Join SDC – Find swingers near you & explore events: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=32122 Sponsors Comprehensive STI testing (USA Only) with STD Hero Get 10% off, use code Libertine https://mybls.com/Libertine Premature Ejaculation Spray, Delay Wipes, Arousal Gels & Sexual Wellness Products with Promescent Get 15% off using code wanderlust26 https://www.promescent.com/wanderlust26 Sexual Wellness, Performance Anxiety, Premature Ejaculation, Delay Spray, Pleasure Products, Swingers, Swinger Podcast, Better Sex, Non-Monogamy, Open Relationships, Lifestyle Sex, Arousal Gel, Female Pleasure, Male Performance, Last Longer in Bed, Sex Toys for Couples, Promescent, Urologist-Backed Sex Products, Sexual Health Podcast, Wanderlust Swingers Podcast

Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories EP212 – Hot Takes: The Hotwife Boom – Trend, Evolution or Opportunism? (Bonus Episode) Hotwife is everywhere right now, searches are rising, events are multiplying, creators are rebranding, and porn studios are showing up in lifestyle spaces looking for “talent.” So is this a genuine shift in the lifestyle… or is porn culture and trend chasing bleeding into swinging? Our Hottakes bonus episode, we unpack what hotwifing actually is (and isn’t), why the label is suddenly trending, and whether separate play dynamics are becoming more normal at couples events, or if it’s mostly just branding and algorithms. In this Episode: Useful Links from this Episode: Join us in 2026 at a Swingers Event https://wanderlustswingers.com/swingers-events/ Wanderlust Swingers Website: https://wanderlustswingers.com/ Patreon – Event photos, behind-the-scenes & extra content: https://www.patreon.com/SwingingDownunder Join SDC – Find swingers near you & explore events: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=32122 Sponsors Comprehensive STI testing (USA Only) with STD Hero Get 10% off, use code Libertine https://mybls.com/Libertine Premature Ejaculation Spray/Wipes + more sexual wellness products with our partner Promescent Get 15% off their amazing products, use code wanderlust26 https://www.promescent.com/wanderlust26 Hotwife Boom, Hotwifing, Hotwife Podcast, Hot Takes, Swinger Podcast, Non-Monogamy, Lifestyle Trends, Separate Play, Hall Pass, Porn and Swinging, Lifestyle Events, Wanderlust Swingers Podcast

Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories EP211 – Club Rejection, MFM Lessons & Lifestyle Drama at a Swingers Club What happens when you get rejected from a swingers club, have an MFM at home that doesn’t quite land, and then walk into one of the most chaotic club nights you’ve had in 10 years? In this episode, Cate and Darrell kick off 2026 by unpacking getting denied entry to a Belgium club, lessons from a recent MFM, and a wild swingers club night that included a consent violation, staff intervention, and a serious conversation about safety and responsibility in lifestyle spaces. They wrap up with a quick 2025 recap, 2026 goals, and why “approaching the unapproachable” (and being the ugliest one in the orgy) might be the new vibe. In this Episode: Useful Links from this Episode: Club Eroxx Review (Belgium): https://wanderlustswingers.com/swingers-club-review/club-eroxx-review/ Join us in 2026 at a Swingers Event https://wanderlustswingers.com/swingers-events/ Wanderlust Swingers Website: https://wanderlustswingers.com/ Patreon – Event photos, behind-the-scenes & extra content: https://www.patreon.com/SwingingDownunder Join SDC – Find swingers near you & explore events: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=32122 Swingers Club Drama, Swingers Club Consent, Club Rejection, MFM Threesome, Hotwife Podcast, Swinger Podcast, Non-Monogamy, Lifestyle Podcast, Swingers Club Safety, Lifestyle Boundaries, Swinger Travel, Wanderlust Swingers Podcast, Belgium Swingers Club, Libertine Events

Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories EP210 – Inside a Swingers Hotel Takeover: Real Couple Stories, Playroom Nerves & First Timer Tips What really happens inside a swingers hotel takeover? In this episode, Cate sits down with multiple attendees from our recent Libertine Events takeover to share raw, funny, and deeply honest stories from inside a lifestyle weekend. You’ll hear from brand-new swingers, long-term lifestyle couples, empty nesters, solo explorers, and couples still finding their dynamic — all discussing their playroom experiences, nerves, sexy wins, confidence breakthroughs, and what they wish they’d known before their first event. Expect heartfelt conversations, hilarious confessions (including an accidental cock-block and a 12-hand massage), and genuinely useful advice for navigating hotel takeovers with confidence, clarity, and connection. In this Episode: Useful Links from this Episode https://libertineevents.com/https://wanderlustswingers.com/https://www.patreon.com/SwingingDownunderhttps://www.sdc.com/?ref=32122https://www.instagram.com/anything.but.vani11a/https://open.spotify.com/show/0egGy8ukwpdUVfUAndCV2V Swingers Hotel Takeover, Swinger Event Stories, Lifestyle Takeover Review, What Happens at a Swingers Hotel Takeover, Swinger Podcast, Hotwife Podcast, Non-Monogamy Tips, First Swingers Event Advice, Playroom Etiquette, Swinger Confidence Tips, Meeting Couples at Events, Swinger Lifestyle Interviews, How to Survive a Swingers Takeover, Soft Swap Story, Group Play Story, Swinger Couple Dynamics, Swinger Travel Podcast, Wanderlust Swingers Podcast, Libertine Events Review.

Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories EP209 – Londons Hottest Halloween Swingers Party – Le Boudoir Swingers Club London What really happens inside a Halloween swingers party in central London? In this episode we share our two-night Halloween weekend at Le Boudoir Swingers Club. From Friday’s single-male night to Saturday’s couples-heavy chaos, plus a very hot dungeon “wine cellar” soft swap. We talk club vibes, playroom etiquette, and the not-so-sexy realities (hello BV) that can kill the mood, along with practical tips for getting more out of your swinger club nights. In this episode: Our Halloween weekend at Le Boudoir Swingers Club London, logistics, location, and first impressions. Friday single-male night vs Saturday’s more couples-heavy energy. Dungeon play: a sensual, soft-swap session in the catacombs and how we navigated boundaries. Why dress down rules and playroom etiquette matter more than most people think. Dealing with vibe-killers (like BV and fully clothed spectators) without shaming anyone. Swinger success tips: dressing down, mingling beyond your friend group, and following up on missed connections. Watch the Le Boudoir YouTube Club Tour https://youtu.be/2aRB5d64lPg?si=mtw9QtXS8k4m02x7 Useful Links from this Episode Libertine Events – Lifestyle takeovers & events: https://libertineevents.com/ Patreon – See the Dress Down Lingerie Cate wore: https://www.patreon.com/SwingingDownunder Wanderlust Swingers Website: https://wanderlustswingers.com/ Join SDC – Meet other swingers in your area: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=32122 Le Boudoir Swingers Club London, Halloween Swingers Party, London Swingers Club, Soft Swap Story, Dungeon Play, Hotwife Podcast, Non-Monogamy Tips, Swinger Travel, Wanderlust Swingers Podcast

Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories EP208 – Are Dirty Vanillas a Swingers Lifestyle Epidemic? (Sexy Parties vs Swinger Parties) Bonus Episode: HotTakes with Wanderlust Swingers Are “dirty vanillas” ruining swinger parties… or are we just old and grumpy? In this HotTakes bonus episode, we unpack the rise of sexy parties vs swinger parties — couples who love the lingerie, lights, drugs and dance floor, but have zero intention of swapping or playing. From empty playrooms at Dutch “takeovers” to US events that feel more MDMA than moaning, we ask: is this evolution, dilution, or just a different lane of fun? We wrap by asking the big question: are dirty vanillas a lifestyle epidemic… or is this just what evolution looks like in a more fluid, less-stigmatized, sex-positive world? Coming Up Next EP209 - Halloween weekend in London, MFMs, costumes, and chaos: stories from the playroom and beyond. Useful Links from this Episode Libertine Events – 2026 takeovers (Miami, Scottsdale, France): https://libertineevents.com/ Patreon – BTS outfits, bonus audio & polls: https://www.patreon.com/SwingingDownunder Wanderlust Swingers Website: https://wanderlustswingers.com/ Join SDC – Meet other swingers in your area: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=32122 Swinger Podcast, Dirty Vanilla, Sexy Parties vs Swinger Parties, Lifestyle Event Politics, Swinger Clubs Europe, Non-Monogamy Tips, Hotwife Podcast, Sex-Positive Events, Consent & Drugs in the Lifestyle, Fetish vs Swinger Culture, Hotel Takeovers, Lifestyle Travel, Libertine Events

Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories EP207 – How to Not Get Laid at Swingers Events (aka: are you “social-sexual”ing your way out of play?) Ever left a lifestyle party with a sore throat from talking…and nothing else? In this episode we unpack why being a charismatic, chatty social butterfly can accidentally cock-block your own fun. Social sexual vs. DTF energy, how mixed signals stall momentum, and the exact moves to shift from talk to touch, without being creepy. Yes, there are wombat and platypus facts. No, we’re not sorry. Coming Up Next EP208 – Sex Parties vs. Sexy Parties & the Dirty Vanilla Epidemic: how to read formats, avoid “no playroom” traps, and set expectations. Useful Links from this Episode https://libertineevents.com/https://www.patreon.com/SwingingDownunderhttps://wanderlustswingers.com/https://www.sdc.com/?ref=32122 Swinger Podcast, Social Sexual, How to Flirt at Swingers Parties, Consent in the Lifestyle, Playroom Etiquette, Dress-Down Rules, Swinger Clubs Europe, Non-Monogamy Tips, Hotwife Podcast, Wingwoman Strategies, Talk Blocking, Lifestyle Event Planning

Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories EP206 – Cap d’Agde & Recent Swingers Parties Is Cap d’Agde still the planet’s wildest swingers playground… or did we just hit it on extra-chaotic mode? In this on-the-road episode (recorded from a very “upgraded” Las Vegas suite), we recap our second 2025 run at Cap d’Agde — from Babylone poolside antics to a Le Glamour Beach foam party so packed you could crowd-surf — plus two very different European events: Flamigo Events in Belgium and the SDC 25th Anniversary World Party in the Netherlands. We talk wins, fails, costs, dress codes, and why playrooms (or the lack of them) can make or break your night. Cate also shares a real-life health check-in on managing recurring UTIs in the lifestyle and the impact on travel, play, and partnership. What You’ll Hear in This Episode Cap d’Agde, Round Two: language barriers, daytime soloing while your partner works, poolside flirtation, and making the most of peak-season crowds Babylone Pool Party: why it still tops our list for “sex-charged pool vibes” (and how to navigate it as a couple) Foam Party at Le Glamour Beach: shoulder-to-shoulder mayhem, VIP bed sticker shock, and strategies when you can’t secure a cabana Flamigo Events (Belgium): great DJs, pricey drinks, token systems, and why “sexy party” ≠ “swingers party” if there’s nowhere to play SDC World Party (Netherlands): last-minute municipal restrictions, and how to salvage a night out Costs & Value: what we actually spent vs. what we got (tickets, hotels, water, and those sneaky cup fees) Safety & Autonomy: why Cate feels safer at lifestyle events than at normal clubs — and how to set boundaries when attending with friends or a single guy Travel Planning for Lifestyle Events: don’t over-commit for unproven parties, read past reviews, and always have a Plan B (after-parties, club backups, pre-arranged connections) Quick Tips & Takeaways Verify the format (swingers club vs. sexy dance party) before you book suites and tailor outfits. Have a backup plan: pre-message on dating sites, line up an after-party, or keep a reputable club in your pocket Mind the logistics: token drink systems, locker processes, heat/AC, and dress-down rules can heavily affect your night. Health in the lifestyle: proactive UTI management, pacing your play, and honest partner communication. Trip length matters: 4 days vs. 6 days at Cap d’Agde — what actually feels good for different personalities. Coming Up Next EP207 – How Not to Get Laid at Lifestyle Events (aka: are you “social swinging” your way out of play?). Useful Links from this Episode Libertine Events – U.S. & EU Takeovers (Miami, Scottsdale and France in 2026) Patreon – BTS photos, outfits & bonus audio Wanderlust Swingers Website Join SDC Swinger Podcast, Cap d’Agde Swingers, Cap d’Agde Naturist Village, Babylone Pool Party, Glamour Beach Foam Party, European Swingers Parties, SDC World Party, Ethical Non-Monogamy, Hotwife Podcast, Swingers Travel, Lifestyle Events Europe, Non-Monogamy Tips, Swinger Clubs Netherlands, Belgium Swingers Party Review, Libertine Events, Wanderlust Swingers

Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories EP205 – Sexual Health Awareness Month: STI Testing for Swingers with STD Hero (and why “safer sex” beats “safe sex”) Is oral sex “low risk”? How long should you wait to test after a hotel takeover or cruise? And what’s the real deal with HSV and HPV in the lifestyle? We brought receipts—and two experts. Today we’re joined by Alan Brock, founder of STD Hero, and Dr. William Budd, CEO of Alliant Lab Consulting, to talk real-world STI testing for swingers, myths that need to die (no, you can’t blame a truck-stop toilet seat), incubation windows, oral vs. penetrative risk, site-specific swabs, and why regular screening plus straight-up conversations make play hotter and safer. Sponsor (and a Perk for You) STD Hero — discreet, at-home STI testing built for the lifestyle. Use code Libertine for 10% off: https://mybls.com/Libertine Segments: Myth Busting 101 – Toilet seats, “clinic tests are the only real tests,” and the HSV antibody red-X problem Incubation Windows – Why most results are meaningful at ~2 weeks, and Mgen needs ~3–4 Oral vs Penetrative Risk – Where gonorrhea shows up most, when dental dams matter, and “safer” vs “safe” HPV Deep Dive – Vaccines, oral HPV, head & neck cancer screening, and when to add annual checks Lifestyle Scenarios – Two couples, two play patterns: what to test, and how often Hot Seat – Why STD Hero includes site-specific swabs and keeps prices lower (hint: they’re the lab) Fact or Fiction Lightning Round – Condoms, syphilis from oral, monthly testing, and cruise-week “clearance” fantasies What You’ll Hear in This Episode Why quarterly testing works for low-frequency, barrier-using couples—and why monthly makes sense for frequent players The 2-week rule (and 3–4 weeks for Mycoplasma genitalium) after events before you rely on a negative Why site-specific swabs (throat/anal) catch infections urine-only panels miss HSV & HPV realities: antibodies ≠ contagious today; why HPV screening still matters even if vaccinated How to talk about risk appetite and recent play with new partners without killing the vibe The truth about at-home vs clinic testing (licensed lab methods are the same; cheaters can cheat anywhere) Practical cue: if an oral sore sticks around beyond a few days, get it checked Useful Links from this Episode STD Hero – 10% Off with code Libertine - https://mybls.com/Libertine Join our community & events – https://libertineevents.com/ https://wanderlustswingers.com/ Quick Tips & Takeaways Language matters: say safer sex, not safe sex—there’s always some risk. After big events: wait ~2 weeks (Mgen: 3–4 weeks) for the most reliable results; test sooner only if you’ll retest. Oral counts: expect more oral gonorrhea than other oral STIs; don’t skip throat swabs. HPV plan: screen annually; if positive, recheck in 6 months + ask your dentist about fluorescent oral screenings. Don’t alternate testing between partners to “save money”—immune responses vary by person. Transparency turns people on: share dates of last test, where you played, and what you’re comfortable with now. Not Medical Advice This episode shares expert perspectives and practical lifestyle strategies. For personal healthcare decisions, consult your clinician. Tags: Swinger Podcast, STI Testing for Swingers, Sexual Health Awareness Month, Ethical Non-Monogamy, Non-Monogamy Podcast, HSV Myths, HPV Oral Cancer, Mycoplasma Genitalium, Site-Specific Swabs, Oral Gonorrhea, Lifestyle Safety, At-Home STI Testing, Wanderlust Swingers, Hotwife Podcast, Safer Sex Communication, Swinger Health Tips, STD Hero Discount, Swingers Cruise Prep, Lifestyle Event Safety

Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories EP204 – Cap d’Agde Swingers Vacation 2025: Champagne Pussies, Foam Parties & Beach Orgies Is Cap d’Agde still the world’s most infamous swingers paradise — or is it just overpriced rosé, half-empty nightclubs, and sunburnt nudists with GoPros? We’re back from France with 69 sexy humans in tow, ready to spill the champagne (literally) on what really went down at Europe’s biggest lifestyle playground. From Paris club nights to poolside anal, missed connections, VIP beach beds, and a finale party involving German neighbors, cheese, and pop rocks blowjobs — this trip had it all. Stick around for the segments: Paris Stopover Shenanigans – Les Chandelles on a Sunday, Darrell’s multi-orgasmic play, and why our group rocked the dress code fit Babylone Nights – The champagne pussy, Cate’s open-crotch challenge, and poolside daisy chains Pool Parties & Orgies – Floating blowjobs, public anal, and our DIY beachside orgy Foam Party Madness – cancelled, then back on, then VIP bed debauchery with a Canadian twist Finale Night – cheese, wine, pop rocks, and bouncy ball dick riding What You’ll Hear in This Episode: Why Cap isn’t luxury… but it is unforgettable Public sex etiquette at pool parties The difference between French and Canadian play styles Cate’s inevitable UTI (yes, again) Tips for booking VIP beds, blending in, and keeping the vibe fun Useful Links from this Episode: Cap d’Agde: The Ultimate Swingers Guide Le Glamour Swingers Club Cap d’Agde Review Patreon – Behind the Scenes Costumes & Photos Join Us at Cap d’Agde 2026 – Libertine Events Newsletter Tags: Swinger Podcast, Cap d’Agde Swingers, Cap d’Agde Naturist Village, Ethical Non-Monogamy, Cap d’Agde Nudist Travel, Lifestyle Travel Podcast, Non-Monogamy Podcast, European Swingers Resorts, Swingers France, Wanderlust Swingers, Swinger Vacations, Hotwife Podcast, Lifestyle Group Play, Foam Party Stories, Sex Club Adventures

Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories EP204 – Cap d’Agde: A UK Swingers Experience Is Cap d’Agde the ultimate swingers paradise... or an overhyped nudist town with overpriced rosé and questionable club decor? We’re diving into France’s infamous "Naked City" with first-timers Ben & Kate from the UK—sharing what it’s really like to strip down, party hard, and play freely in one of the world’s most iconic non-monogamous travel destinations. From body confidence wobbles to naked grocery runs, group foam party flings, and boundary-testing solo play, this episode is equal parts hilarious, sexy, and honest AF. Stick around for the segments: Hot Seat Quickies – foam or finesse? Nudity or nightlife? Sexy surprises and flirty regrets. Guess Who: Cap d’Agde Edition – is that a mesh thong and too much cologne, or are we imagining things? Prison Wallets & Pool Parties – yes, that’s a thing. Yes, we explain it. No, you won’t forget it. The Moose Party & Babylon Vibes – what to expect, what to pack, and why you might never want to leave. Tips for Cap First-Timers – boundaries, blunders, solo moments, sneaky threesomes, and finding your tribe (while naked). Whether you're Cap-curious, dreaming of your first naked beach walk, or just here for the stories of awkward sex club tunnels and golden body jewelry envy—this episode delivers everything you didn’t read on the Cap d’Agde travel forums. What You’ll Hear in This Episode: The surprising psychology of public nudity Body image vs. body liberation Sexy moments, awkward encounters, and one creepy Dutch guy Connection vs. compersion in foursomes and solo play Why Cap is not just for swingers—and who it’s definitely not for Top Cap tips: what to pack, what to book, and what to avoid Useful Links from this Episode: Cap d’Agde The Ultimate Swingers Guide – https://wanderlustswingers.com/cap-dagde-the-ultimate-swingers-guide/ Libertine Events 2025 / 2026 Takeovers – https://libertineevents.com/ Join the Conversation on Instagram – https://www.instagram.com/swingingdownunder Support the show + get exclusive bonus content: 👉 Patreon – Wanderlust Swingers https://www.patreon.com/c/SwingingDownunder Tags: Swinger Podcast, Cap d’Agde Swingers, Cap d’Agde Naturist Village, Ethical Non-Monogamy, Cap d’Agde Nudist Travel, Lifestyle Travel Podcast, Non-Monogamy Podcast, European Swingers Resorts, Swingers France, Wanderlust Swingers, Swinger Vacations, Lifestyle Boundaries, Hotwife Travel, Group Play Stories, Lifestyle Tips

Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories EP202 – Solo Hotwife Play Date: From Lingerie Nerves to a CU-soaked Finish Welcome to a juicy bonus episode of Wanderlust Swingers! In this unscheduled, unfiltered conversation, Cate takes us behind the scenes of her most recent solo hotwife play date—a sexy, nerve-wracking, pounding-filled night that left everyone hot, wet, and just a little bit awkward. From lingerie mishaps to ben wa balls, awkward flirting to explosive orgasms, this episode is a raw (sometimes hilariously chaotic) look at what it’s really like to go on a solo hotel date with a single guy. Darrell weighs in with his thoughts on compersion, the thrill of being included before and after, and what it's like when your partner comes home smelling like someone else’s cologne. Plus, a listener question dives into whether solo play still counts if it's only with people you've previously played with—and how to handle that tricky dynamic when it feels like freedom with limitations. In This Episode: 🔹 The real logistics of setting up a hotwife solo date 🔹 How it feels to include your partner without them being there 🔹 Play anxiety, body compliments, and sensual 69s 🔹 The five-hour play session, the pounding, and the cum-soaked ending 🔹 Why this listener’s question about “controlled solo play” hits close to home 🔹 Red vs Black lingerie: how to ruin a sexy setup in two sentences 🔹 Reclaiming sex or just raw excitement? Quick Links & Goodies: https://www.patreon.com/c/SwingingDownunderhttps://libertineevents.com/https://wanderlustswingers.com/swingers-events/ Coming Soon: August 6th: Our Paris & Cap d’Agde travel episode, recorded just before our return to the naked city! Whether you're hotwife curious, deep into the lifestyle, or just here for the chaos and chemistry—this episode is pure swinger gold. Tags: Hotwife Lifestyle, Hotwife Podcast, Solo Play in Swinging, Ethical Non-Monogamy, Compersion, Swinger Podcast, Wanderlust Swingers, Non-Monogamy Stories, Hotwife Playdate, Cuckquean, Open Relationship Podcast, Swinger Advice, Swinger Diary, Swinger Lifestyle Humor, Libertine Events

Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories EP201 – Swinger Event Hosting Isn’t for the Weak Ever wondered what it really takes to host a swingers lifestyle event? From clogged toilets in lingerie to DJ sets soaked in sweat, this candid crossover with Mickey & Mallory from the Casual Swinger Podcast exposes the highs, lows, and hilariously gross realities of being a swingers event host. We’re pulling back the velvet curtain to share our wildest stories from hosting major lifestyle takeovers like Casual Swinger Week at Hedonism Jamaica and Libertine Events Miami. You'll hear about guests gone rogue, glow-stick overkill, questionable hotel staff, and the unexpected emotional weight of managing relationship drama at sex-positive parties. Stick around for the segments: Top 5 Unsexiest Things We’ve Done at a Sexy Event What’s in Our Swinger Event Survival Kits? True or Trope? — a rapid-fire myth-busting game about lifestyle stereotypes If One More Person Asks Me To… (You know who you are) Toast, No Roast — our heartfelt shoutouts to guests who made it all worth it Tipsy Takeaways — advice for nervous newbies, returning guests & aspiring event hosts Whether you're a seasoned swinger, an aspiring event planner, or just here for the behind-the-scenes chaos, this episode is a laugh-out-loud, learn-a-lot look at what it takes to run the sexiest events on earth—without losing your mind (or your vibrator). What You’ll Hear in This Episode: Condom carnage and playroom clean-ups Conflict resolution and crying girls in the hallway Lifestyle myths: fact or fiction? Our ultimate swinger event survival kits (snacks, lube, Narcan, and more) How to be a better guest at lifestyle takeovers Gold-star hosting advice from three lifestyle veterans Useful Links from this Episode: Casual Swinger Podcast – https://casualswinger.com/ Libertine Events Miami Swingers Takeover – https://libertineevents.com/miami/ Libertine Events San Antonio Takeover – https://libertineevents.com/sanantonio/ Support the show + get exclusive bonus content: 👉 Patreon – Wanderlust Swingers Tags: Swinger Podcast, Swingers Lifestyle Events, Hotwife Lifestyle, Casual Swinger Podcast, Libertine Events, Ethical Non-Monogamy, Non-Monogamy Podcast, Swingers Hotel Takeover, Lifestyle Hosting, Behind the Scenes, Hedonism Events, Swinger Myths, Playroom Stories, Open Relationships, Swinger Advice, Conflict Resolution in Swinging, Hotwife Fantasy, Lifestyle Survival Tips

Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories EP200 – Hotwife Glory Hole Experience & 3 New Swingers Clubs in 3 Weeks In our 200th episode, Cate and Darrell reflect on a decade in the lifestyle — and ask: can old swingers learn new tricks? From awkward dress-downs and single-guy overloads to sexy vibes, secret blowjobs, and diverse party crowds, this one is packed. We hit up three different swingers clubs in three weeks, including CitySwingers in Copenhagen (a real let down), Party Players in the Netherlands (a sexy swingers club but not a swingers event), and finally the X Club in Toronto — where a hotwife glory hole scene played out in real-time. You’ll also hear about: What makes a club feel sexy (or not) Swingers vs. sex clubs: what’s the difference? Party diversity, drug culture at events, and the illusion of no-phone policies Cate’s secret hotwife escapade: from business-bitch lingerie to anonymous cock sucking Plus, we tease what’s ahead for Cap d’Agde, share a major Libertine Events milestone, and celebrate hitting 200 episodes without a single piña colada spilled on the mic. Cheers, you filthy animals. What You’ll Hear in This Episode: Swingers Clubs Reviewed – CitySwingers (Copenhagen), Party Players (NL), and The X Club (Toronto) Dress Down Disasters – From mismatched underwear to sensory shutdowns Hotwife Glory Hole Fantasy – Cate and a stranger's cock, one hole, zero hesitation Diversity Wins – Why inclusive swinger parties feel better Behind the Curtain – Real talk on party rules, event polish, and the drug-vibe spectrum Useful Links from this Episode: https://patreon.com/swingingdownunderhttps://youtu.be/YFmlAlm42E0?si=-h1iBPwUTnIVoI63https://www.thexclub.net/ - https://partyplayers.nl/ - https://www.swingeren.dk/ - https://libertineevents.comemail@wanderlustswingers.com Tags: Swinger Podcast, Hotwife Lifestyle, Glory Hole Story, Swingers Club Reviews, Wanderlust Swingers, Ethical Non-Monogamy, Non-Monogamy Podcast, Lifestyle Events, Open Relationships, Party Players, X Club Toronto, CitySwingers, Sex Club vs Swingers Club, Hotwife Fantasy, Diversity in Swinging, Libertine Events

Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories EP199 – Spontaneous vs. Responsive Desire in the Swingers Lifestyle In this episode, Cate and Darrell dive into the psychology and practicality of spontaneous vs. responsive desire — and how this can make or break your experiences in the lifestyle. Whether you're the one who’s ready to go at the first flash of lingerie or someone who needs the right mood, connection, or even lunch before feeling sexy, we explore what it all means for swingers navigating clubs, hotel takeovers, and multi-day events. We also update you on the notorious dildo from the last episode — yes, Cate used it. Was it sexy? Science-y? Did it cause a UTI? (Spoiler: yes to all of the above). Plus, you’ll hear about Cate’s surprise visit to a Canadian club, her puffed-up chipmunk face courtesy of the Dutch healthcare system, and a viral Facebook video that got her slapped with a ‘bullying’ violation. You can’t make this stuff up. Finally, we tackle a fantastic listener question: Why are we pickier on dating sites than in real life? Is it about spontaneity, judgment, or just too many filters? What you’ll hear in this episode: The Dildo Debrief – Cate puts the giant toy to the test (with help) and shares the honest, messy aftermath Spontaneous vs. Responsive Desire – What it means, how to spot it in yourself or your partner, and how it plays out at lifestyle events Desire Mismatches – What to do when one partner is ready to pounce and the other needs time to warm up Listener Q&A – Why are we all trolls online? Cate reflects on being pickier in apps than IRL, and what that says about connection Be A Better Swinger Tips – Learn your desire style and how to meet each other in the middle (without pressure) Links: Website: www.wanderlustswingers.com YouTube: Wanderlust Swingers on YouTube Libertine Events – Texas Takeover: https://libertineevents.com/sanantonio Email: email@wanderlustswingers.com Support us & see the uncensored dildo pics: patreon.com/swingingdownunder Are you spontaneous or responsive? Tell us what turns you on, how you navigate mismatched desire with your partner, or what you’ve learned in your own lifestyle journey — we love hearing your stories and insights. Tags: Spontaneous Desire, Responsive Desire, Swinger Podcast, Hotwife Lifestyle, Non-Monogamy, Lifestyle Events, Ethical Non-Monogamy, Hotel Takeovers, Sex Toy Reviews, Open Relationships, Lifestyle Club Tips, Group Play, Swingers Communication, Wanderlust Swingers Podcast, Desire Mismatch, Cap d’Agde, Sexual Compatibility

Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories EP198 – Cap D Agde Desires, What’s in the Box and How to Small Talk Cate’s fresh back from Miami (just her this time!) and while we only touch on that wild weekend, we’re diving deep into what’s really heating things up: our return to Cap d’Agde in 2025, a brand new sex toy, and Darrell’s spicy fantasy. In this episode, Darrell receives a mystery box that leaves Cate both suspicious and very curious. Spoiler alert: it’s a new toy — but it’s not one we’ve ever used before. Unboxing it live kicks off a conversation about impulse sexy buys, techy pleasure, and how this toy might play into fantasy fufillment. We’re also answering a great listener question from a hotwife couple in New Zealand: How do you make small talk in the lifestyle when talking about work and kids feels out of place? From flirting in loud clubs to deep connection at weekend events, we’ve got practical tips, sexy one-liners, and a few hilarious fails to share. And finally — we’re going back to the Naked City! Cap d’Agde 2025 is on the horizon and we’re already fantasizing about beachside play, group massages, and balcony sex in the hot Mediterranean sun. This isn’t just a trip — it’s a sexual state of mind. What you’ll hear in this episode: Mystery Box Reveal: Darrell’s new toy arrives and Cate’s imagination runs wild Lifestyle Small Talk: Flirty questions, fun energy, and how to connect without asking about someone’s 9–5 Cap d’Agde Desires: Why we’re going back and what (or who) we want to do when we get there Darrell’s Fantasy: How we're fulfilling it without putting anyone at risk Be A Better Swinger Tips: Mindset matters — whether it’s packing for Cap or chatting up couples at a club Links: Website: www.wanderlustswingers.com YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@WanderlustSwingers Libertine Events – Texas Takeover: https://libertineevents.com/sanantonio Email: email@wanderlustswingers.com Are you coming to Cap d’Agde in 2025? Do you have a fantasy you’re dying to try? Or want to see what was in the box? Drop us a line — we love hearing from you! Tags: Cap d’Agde, Swinger Podcast, Non-Monogamy, Hotwife Lifestyle, Sex Toy Reviews, Fantasy Play, Open Relationships, Swingers Club Tips, Lifestyle Small Talk, Hotel Takeovers, Ethical Non-Monogamy, Wanderlust Swingers Podcast, Libertine Events, Voyeurism, Group Play, New Sex Toys

How does sexual trauma affect your lifestyle journey? Trigger warning: This episode includes discussion of sexual trauma, abuse, and emotional triggers. Please take care while listening. In this vulnerable and powerful episode, Cate is joined by trauma-informed coach Meshai from Expansive Connection to explore what happens when past trauma meets lifestyle play. Cate also shares her personal experience with sexual trauma — opening up publicly for the first time. Whether you’re navigating your own healing, supporting a partner, or just want to be a more compassionate and informed member of the lifestyle, this conversation is essential. What we cover: ✔ What sexual trauma looks like in lifestyle spaces ✔ Common triggers during play or events ✔ What partners and playmates need to understand ✔ Cate’s story ✔ How to create trauma-aware swinger environments ✔ Supporting survivors without needing every detail ✔ Why trauma must be part of the conversation ✔ Real tools for safer play and stronger connections Resources & Support: 1800Respect – www.1800respect.org.au | 1800 737 732 RAINN – www.rainn.org | 800-656-HOPE Rape Crisis UK – www.rapecrisis.org.uk SurvivorsUK (for men) – www.survivorsuk.org Let’s talk about it. Share this episode with your partner, club community, or friends in the lifestyle. The more we talk, the safer we all become. Join us in Texas https://libertineevents.com/sanantonio/ Website: www.wanderlustswingers.com Instagram https://www.instagram.com/swingingdownunder Twitter https://twitter.com/swingdownunder TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@wanderlustswingers YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/ShamelessNonMonogamywithSDU Tags: Sexual Trauma, Swinger Lifestyle, Trauma-Informed Play, Non-Monogamy, Consent Culture, PTSD and Sex, Ethical Swinging, Open Relationships, Trauma Support, Wanderlust Swingers Podcast