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While everyone wants to make themselves and their lives better, it has been hard to find specific, actionable steps to accomplish that. Until now... Patrick King is a Social Interaction Specialist, in other words, a dating, online dating, image, and communication, and social skills coach based in San Francisco, California. He’s also a #1 Amazon best-selling dating and relationships author with the most popular online dating book on the market and writes frequently on dating, love, sex, and relationships. He focuses on using his emotional intelligence and understanding of human interaction to break down emotional barriers, instill confidence, and equip people with the tools they need for success. No pickup artistry and no gimmicks, simply a thorough mastery of human psychology delivered with a dose of real talk.

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While everyone wants to make themselves and their lives better, it has been hard to find specific, actionable steps to accomplish that. Until now... Patrick King is a Social Interaction Specialist, in other words, a dating, online dating, image, and communication, and social skills coach based in San Francisco, California. He’s also a #1 Amazon best-selling dating and relationships author with the most popular online dating book on the market and writes frequently on dating, love, sex, and relationships. He focuses on using his emotional intelligence and understanding of human interaction to break down emotional barriers, instill confidence, and equip people with the tools they need for success. No pickup artistry and no gimmicks, simply a thorough mastery of human psychology delivered with a dose of real talk.

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We Are On A Break - The Science of Self

10/13/2025
Brief Break, Back Soon Louisa: [00:00:00] Hello everyone, and thank you so much for tuning in to our series. We wanted to take a moment to express our heartfelt gratitude for your continued support and engagement. Your enthusiasm inspires us to keep creating and sharing meaningful content with you. As you may already know, we'll be taking a short break. But don't worry, this pause is just an opportunity for us to recharge, gather new ideas, and come back with even more exciting episodes that we know you'll love. We anticipate returning with fresh and inspiring content in just a few weeks. In the meantime, feel free to catch up on any episodes you might have missed or revisit your favorites. We’ll be back before you know it, ready to explore new topics and share even more amazing stories. Your support means the world to us, and we can't wait to embark on this next chapter together. Stay tuned for updates, and until then, take care and keep being amazing. Thank you once again for listening. [00:01:00] See you soon!

Duration:00:01:07

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From Felon to Mentor: Ken Miller's Journey

9/18/2025
From Addiction to Entrepreneur: Ken Miller's Inspiring Journey Hear the full conversation at https://player.captivate.fm/episode/73428ea9-244c-473c-ab9f-63f9144490a9/ See the full conversation at https://youtu.be/fZy3UJpjDII In this episode of Social Skills Coaching, join us as we dive into the incredible story of Ken Miller, a three-time convicted felon turned successful entrepreneur and mentor. Ken shares his journey from a tumultuous childhood and years of addiction and imprisonment to becoming a renowned author, speaker, and businessman. He discusses the importance of mentorship in the Black male community, overcoming shame and guilt, the power of transparency, and the significance of having dreams and aspirations. Ken also offers practical advice on finding a mentor and maintaining focus and order in life. Tune in to hear Ken's inspiring message and learn how he transformed his life against all odds. 00:00 Introduction and Personal Background 00:47 Welcome to Social Skills Coaching 01:24 Ken Miller's Early Life and Education 03:01 Struggles and Redemption 03:57 Life in Ecuador 04:36 Ken's Book and the Power of Transparency 07:52 Mentorship and Its Importance 12:14 The Speaking Circuit 14:09 Daily Routine and Final Advice

Duration:00:21:10

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From Indecision to Action: Strategies for Making High-Impact Decisions

9/18/2025
00:01:11 Colin Powell, former Secretary of State 00:08:17 Beat Indecision 00:18:36 Here are primary takeaways from today's episode. Take Rapid Action: Get Productive, Motivated, Energized; Stop Overthinking and Procrastinating By Patrick King Hear it Here - https://bit.ly/takerapidactionking https://www.amazon.com/dp/B082YZ95LV Practical, psychological methods to turn your thoughts into reality, instead of endless avoidance and laziness. Transform from struggling with getting off your butt, to a machine of productivity and self-discipline. Create an action bias in your life -- starting now. How to break inertia, overthinking, paralysis, sloth, and insecurity. Take Rapid Action deconstructs the psychology of laziness and why tomorrow always sounds like a better idea. This book is many things at once: a shot of motivation, a spark of fire, an understanding of your brain, and a list of techniques to get into motion. This is one of the most valuable skills you’ll ever gain, because only action matters in life, not good intentions. Gain the ability to get things done and hit your goals, no matter the circumstances. Patrick King is an internationally bestselling author and social skills coach. His writing draws of a variety of sources, from scientific research, academic experience, coaching, and real life experience. Stop saying I’ll do it later/tomorrow… and overhaul your mindset for productivity and efficiency. •The Premortem Analysis and the Ostrich Theory -- how they can quiet your overthinking.•How comfortable inaction is sabotaging you.•Actionable and applicable rules to get started before you feel 100% ready. How to create motion and take the first step from complete stillness. •How to defeat procrastination by bundling.•Strategically plan your days to prevent laziness and distraction.•What you think is action, but is actually a waste of time. Become a machine of proactive energy and activity. Action and results are the only things that matter in the world. Not your planning, intentions, or nice thoughts. This book puts action at the forefront of your brain and makes it nearly impossible to stay still. That’s precisely what will get you ahead in life. Taking that first step is always hard, but it doesn’t have to be. Photo by Andres Ayrton: https://www.pexels.com/photo/thoughtful-woman-choosing-between-green-apple-and-donut-6550808/

Duration:00:20:57

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Integrating Fun for Growth: Jolynn Ledgerwood on Playful Practices

9/15/2025
Unlock Productivity with Play: A Conversation with Jolyn Ledgerwood Join us on Social Skills Coaching as we delve into an insightful conversation with Jolyn Ledgerwood, a consultant, coach, and founder of Elevate Your Talent. Discover how Jolyn transitioned from corporate training to personal coaching, using innovative methodologies like Lego Serious Play and Clifton Strengths. Learn about the importance of play in the workplace, the value of mental health, and practical tips for personal and professional growth. Tune in for an engaging discussion on how embracing playfulness can make you more productive and fulfilled. 00:00 Introduction and Welcome 00:36 Meet Jolyn Ledgerwood 02:10 Discovering Lego Serious Play 03:33 The Power of Play in the Workplace 05:30 Jolyn's Background and Methodologies 10:24 Advocating for Mental Health 12:50 Connecting and Coaching with Jolyn 14:38 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

Duration:00:15:08

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Unlocking Potential: Mentorship, Coaching, and Personal Growth ***HIGHLIGHTS from Sonya Figueiredo*** - The Science of Self

9/6/2025
Unlocking Deeper Connections & Overcoming Trauma with Sonya Figueiredo See the full conversation at https://youtu.be/JFLM-8xD07Y In this insightful episode of The Science of Self, host Russell interviews Sonya Figueiredo, founder of Mindful Transitions. Sonya shares her personal journey that led her to start her coaching business, focusing on professional women in the corporate world. She emphasizes the importance of addressing deeper issues, breaking through personal barriers, and fostering genuine connections in all facets of life. Sonya discusses the difference between coaching and therapy, the significance of understanding one's 'why,' and practical tips for self-improvement and daily routines. Learn how to navigate life's challenges and improve your relationships from the inside out. 00:00 Introduction and Guest Welcome 00:22 Sonya's Journey to Mindful Transitions 02:26 Understanding Trauma and Coaching 04:25 Purpose and Self-Discovery 06:32 Self-Improvement Courses and Techniques 13:20 Daily Routines and Habits 16:13 Final Thoughts and Closing

Duration:00:18:00

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Thinking Beyond Intuition: Unpacking System 1 and System 2 Thinking

9/4/2025
00:00:25 Welcome to Social Skills Coaching 00:00:37 Our featured book today is Practical Intelligence 00:05:05 Two Systems of Thought 00:08:25 Skepticism and critical thinking 00:16:30 Takeaways Practical Intelligence: How to Think Critically, Deconstruct Situations, Analyze Deeply, and Never Be Fooled By Patrick King Hear it Here - https://bit.ly/practicalintelligenceking https://www.amazon.com/dp/B08263KGHK Neuroscience-proven guidelines to think, act, and become smarter ASAP. It’s not what you know, it’s how you think. You've been fooled before. You've missed things. You've been slow on the uptake and others have passed you by. Radically transform your thinking for both speed AND accuracy. Think quickly on your feet to solve problems, overcome obstacles, and win arguments. Practical Intelligence is not a common “think smarter” book. No, it starts from biological bases of analytical thinking, and how we can re-program ourselves for deep insight. This book provides real, actionable tool after tool, because smart thinking is all about HOW, and not why or what. The bottom line is that you’ll be able to apply this book’s thinking models immediately, until they become habit. Better decision-making, smarter reasoning, and greater mental clarity. Patrick King is an internationally bestselling author. He has sold over a million books. His writing draws of a variety of sources, from research, academic experience, coaching, and real life experience. Learn to ask the intelligent questions, draw insight, and analyze situations. •How the body and brain must work together for quick thinking.•What it truly means to think deeply and analyze.•How to think about your thinking, and the obstacles that short circuit your good intentions. Science-based techniques to train your brain for optimal performance. •Mental models for optimal decision-making. •How to train your brain for speed. •Tips for divergent and creative thinking - generating ideas. Never get fooled again and find the truth in situations quickly. At first glance, most things seem fine. And maybe ignorance is bliss. But to think clearly, deeply, quickly, and effectively - you’ll discover just how much of your life you have been missing, for better or worse. This is the fourth book in the “Clear Thinking and Fast Action” series as listed below:1. The Science of Getting Started: How to Beat Procrastination, Summon Productivity, and Stop Self-Sabotage2. The Art of Clear Thinking: Mental Models for Better Reasoning, Judgment, Analysis, and Learning. Upgrade Your Intellectual Toolkit.3. 10-Minute Philosophy: From Buddhism to Stoicism, Confucius and Aristotle - Bite-Sized Wisdom From Some of History’s Greatest Thinkers4. Practical Intelligence: How to Think Critically, Deconstruct Situations, Analyze Deeply, and Never Be Fooled5. Learn To Think Using Thought Experiments: How to Expand Your Mental Horizons, Understand Metacognition, Improve Your Curiosity, and Think Like a Philosopher6. Take Rapid Action: Get Productive, Motivated, & Energized; Stop Overthinking & Procrastinating7. Relentless Focus: 27 Small Tweaks to Beat Procrastination, Skyrocket Productivity, Outsmart Distractions, & Do More in Less Time.

Duration:00:18:43

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Transformative Wellness: From Self-Care to Other Care ***HIGHLIGHTS from Iuri Melo*** - The Science of Self

8/29/2025
Finding Joy through Helping Others: Insights from Iuri Melo on Wellness and Prevention See the full conversation at https://youtu.be/S8-vJTRqQHw In this episode, Iuri Melo, a licensed clinical social worker and co-founder of School Pulse, shares valuable insights on improving wellness through 'other care' and proactive prevention. He discusses the impactful journey of creating School Pulse in response to a student suicide crisis in Utah, emphasizing the importance of connection and proactive engagement. The conversation also touches on the significance of maintaining a positive mindset, the power of relationships, and key habits for personal success. Tune in to learn strategies for fostering joy, meaning, and resilience in life. 00:00 Introduction to Creating Misery and Wellness 00:46 Meet Iuri Melo: Licensed Clinical Social Worker 01:30 The Genesis of School Pulse 03:18 Proactive Engagement and Support 05:10 The Power of Optimism and Relationships 08:03 Habits for Success and Well-being 11:19 Final Thoughts and Parting Words How Proactive Mental Health Strategies Can Transform Lives | Interview with Iuri Melo Join us in this insightful episode where we talk to Iuri Melo, a licensed clinical social worker and co-founder of School Pulse. Iuri shares his transformative journey from working as a psychotherapist to co-founding a proactive mental health service aimed at improving student wellness. He delves into the importance of shifting from just intervention to proactive care, the role of positive psychology, and how involving students in engaging activities like adventure therapy can significantly improve their mental health. Discover how other-care can be a more effective mood booster than self-care and the unparalleled importance of community and connections in fostering wellbeing. Join us for a lively conversation as Russell Newton sits down with Iuri Melo, a licensed clinical social worker and co-founder of School Pulse, to explore the world of positive psychology, growth mindset, and personal development. We dive into how social skills, charisma, and emotional wellness can transform student success and everyday life. Throughout the episode, we touch on the power of CBT (cognitive behavioral therapy), the importance of relationships, and how being proactive about mental health and wellness can make a real difference. Iuri shares insights from his experience with adventure therapy and climbing therapy, and we discuss practical ways to build resilience, presence, and likability. We also chat about the influence of thought leaders like Eckhart Tolle (The Power of Now), Viktor Frankl, Stephen Covey (Seven Habits), and Tony Robbins, and how their ideas can inspire self-improvement, leadership, and empowerment. Whether you’re interested in habit stacks, miracle mornings, or just want to boost your productivity and emotional wellness, this episode is packed with evidence-based advice and real-world stories. Tune in for a casual, inspiring discussion that will leave you ready to thrive, not just survive! PositivePsychology #GrowthMindset #CBT #SocialSkills #Charisma #Productivity #Likability #IuriMelo #RussellNewton #SchoolPulse #MentalHealth #EmotionalWellness #StudentSuccess #Therapy #AdventureTherapy #ClimbingTherapy #Proactive #Wellness #Relationships #Presence #ThePowerOfNow #EckhartTolle #ViktorFrankl #StephenCovey #SevenHabits #TonyRobbins #MiracleMorning #HabitStack #Altruism #Resilience #Thriving #PersonalDevelopment #SelfImprovement #Leadership #Empowerment

Duration:00:13:08

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🤯 **Unlock Your Mind's Potential: Riddles That Will BLOW YOUR MIND! (Learn To Think Using Riddles by Patrick King)**

8/28/2025
00:01:16 Chapter 2. Situational Riddles 00:02:23 The Man in the Bar 00:06:14 Death in a Field 00:10:10 An Unusual Birth 00:13:49 Adam and Eve 00:16:44 A Woman Shoots her Husband 00:23:06 Takeaway Learn to Think Using Riddles, Brain Teasers, and Wordplay: Develop a Quick Wit, Think More Creatively and Cleverly, and Train your Problem-Solving instincts By Patrick King Hear it Here - https://bit.ly/usingriddles https://www.amazon.com/dp/B08CD33V2S Tired of thinking in the same old box? Want to sharpen your mind and become a creative problem-solving powerhouse? 🧠 Then you NEED to dive into the world of riddles, brain teasers, and wordplay! In this video, we're exploring the incredible power of "Learn To Think Using Riddles" by Patrick King, a book that will revolutionize the way you approach challenges. We'll tackle some mind-bending riddles, like the classic "Newton's Magicians," which force us to question our assumptions and think outside the box (literally!). Prepare to be challenged as we explore:

Duration:00:25:37

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From Sleepwalking to Self-Awareness: Life Lessons with Cary Prejean ***HIGHLIGHTS*** - The Science of Self

8/24/2025
Discover Your Inner Satisfaction with Cary Prejean | The Science of Self Podcast See the full conversation at https://youtu.be/9Eva0A2oKRI In this episode of 'The Science of Self,' we welcome Cary Prejean, an experienced business consultant and CPA, to talk about personal satisfaction and growth. Cary shares his journey from the financial world to coaching business owners on doubling profits and structuring successful businesses. However, this episode is not just about business; it's about discovering what truly satisfies you in life. Cary explains the importance of defining satisfaction, being your authentic self, valuing environments where you're appreciated, and distinguishing the narratives that shape you. He provides valuable insights on living a fulfilling life filled with joy, gratitude, and ambition. Learn how to cultivate a mindset that empowers you to achieve personal and professional growth. Tune in to redefine your life's satisfaction! 00:00 Embrace Your True Self 00:37 Introduction to Our Guest: Cary Prejean 01:05 The Importance of Financial Literacy for Business Owners 02:39 Connecting Business Strategies to Personal Growth 02:56 Defining Satisfaction and Happiness 06:16 The Role of Coaches in Personal and Professional Development 09:37 Understanding Your Unique Value 14:28 Habits for a Rewarding Life 18:16 Final Thoughts and Farewell

Duration:00:18:54

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How to Cultivate the Single Most Important Relationship

8/22/2025
00:03:33 A 2009 paper by Aram and Aviram 00:04:11 A 2014 Journal of Applied Social Psychology article by Capozza 00:09:38 Tip 1: Choose Your Fiction Wisely 00:11:10 Tip 2: Sample Widely 00:12:52 Tip 3: Read ACTIVELY 00:15:39 Tip 4: Be Discerning Train Your Empathy: How to Cultivate the Single Most Important Relationship Skill By: Patrick King Hear it Here - https://adbl.co/3shIydQ https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0BDXLTRD2 This video dives deep into the profound insights from Patrick King's book, Train Your Empathy: How to Cultivate the Single Most Important Relationship Skill. In a world increasingly defined by digital distance and misunderstanding, King offers a powerful and practical guide to enhancing our capacity for emotional intelligence and human connection. This is more than just a book recommendation; it's a call to action to develop the foundational skill that underpins all successful relationships, both personal and professional. Drawing on concepts from psychology and brain science, King breaks down complex ideas into actionable steps. He emphasizes that empathy isn't an innate trait but a skill that can be trained and honed, much like any other. This video explores key themes from the book, including the distinction between emotional empathy, cognitive empathy, and compassionate empathy. We look at how understanding these different forms can dramatically improve our social intelligence and our ability to navigate diverse perspectives. One of the most compelling aspects of King’s approach is his focus on applied social psychology. He moves beyond theory to provide concrete exercises and frameworks. For instance, he discusses the role of storytelling and literary fiction as powerful tools for developing perspective-taking. He argues that by actively engaging with well-developed characters, we can practice stepping into someone else's shoes, a process that strengthens the same neural pathways we use for real-life understanding. This perspective is echoed in the work of Doctor Sara Konrath, whose research highlights the neurological benefits of reading and its link to increased empathy. This video also touches on how to apply these principles in various contexts. For social skills coaching, the book provides a robust framework for improving communication and building rapport. Whether you're a leader aiming to foster a more compassionate and understanding team culture or an individual seeking to deepen your personal relationships, the lessons from Train Your Empathy are invaluable. King’s insights are practical, helping us to move beyond passive understanding and into active compassion. We also explore the connections between empathy and diversity. The book illustrates how a heightened sense of empathy allows us to bridge gaps and connect with individuals from different backgrounds and experiences. This capacity for understanding is crucial for building a more inclusive and harmonious society. The work of Russell Newton and Saffron Dreams, along with Faizan and Shaila Abdullah, highlights the importance of cultural understanding and the power of narrative in fostering human connection. Their literary fiction often serves as a powerful medium for developing these very skills, showcasing the practical application of reading psychology. The video outlines several techniques presented in the book, such as "read actively" exercises, which encourage us to analyze characters and their motivations to build empathy. We also discuss how to overcome common obstacles to empathy, such as confirmation bias and egocentrism. Patrick King Consulting’s philosophy, which is embedded in the book, is all about transforming theoretical knowledge into real-world results. By the end of this video, you will have a clear understanding of why empathy is not just a...

Duration:00:19:53

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Endless Possibilities: Unlocking the Growth Mindset with Dr. Carmen Bell-Ross ***HIGHLIGHTS*** - The Science of Self

8/17/2025
The Mindset of Lifelong Learning with Dr. Carmen Bell See the full conversation at https://youtu.be/v9nuF6CBdic In this episode of The Science of Self, host Russell welcomes Dr. Carmen Bell to discuss the importance of maintaining a mindset of continuous learning and growth throughout life. Dr. Carmen shares insights on professional and personal development, emphasizing the value of always being open to new opportunities and knowledge. She highlights the differences between formal continuing education and a lifelong learner's mindset. Additionally, Dr. Carmen dives into how to identify and overcome blind spots in your career and personal life, as well as tips for effectively seeking feedback and striving for true leadership. The episode concludes with personal anecdotes about Dr. Carmen's daughter, a successful Harvard student, showcasing the impact of a strategic and supportive upbringing. 00:00 Introduction to Lifelong Learning 00:37 Welcoming Dr. Carmen Bell 01:55 Defining Continuing Professional Education 03:42 The Growth Mindset 04:54 Identifying and Overcoming Blind Spots 07:02 Leadership and Career Advancement 09:33 Discussing Personal Development 12:20 Dr. Carmen's Daughter and Parenting Insights 14:10 Navigating College Admissions

Duration:00:16:32

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Overcome Insecurity and Boost Self-Esteem

8/13/2025
00:02:14 Chapter 2. Core Beliefs and Automatic Thoughts 00:05:15 Where Lack of Confidence Comes 00:13:31 See if you can notice any of these patterns in your own thinking 00:23:27 Takeaway The Confidence Formula: May Cause: Lower Self-Doubt, Higher Self-Esteem, and Comfort In Your Own Skin (Be Confident and Fearless Book 8) By: Patrick King Hear it Here - https://bit.ly/ConfidenceFormulaKing https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0994VF5XH Join us as we dive into Patrick King's book, "The Confidence Formula: A Cognitive Model for Building Unshakable Self-Confidence." In this episode, host Russell Newton, of Russell Newtown MG, explores the roots of insecurity and how to transform negative self-beliefs into a solid foundation of confidence. Learn practical strategies from Dr. David M. Clark's cognitive model to identify and challenge your insecurities, such as rumination, lack of confidence, social anxiety, and fear of public speaking. Understand the importance of self-monitoring and safety behaviors while exploring the role of automatic thoughts in shaping our expectations and core beliefs. Discover how to reframe your negative bias filter to embrace positive communication skills and strengthen your emotional immune system. If you struggle with self-doubt, fear of social interactions, or a lack of confidence, this episode is for you. Learn how The Confidence Formula can help you break free from the cycle of insecurity and live a more confident and fearless life. Tags: #NewtonMG #Insecurity #Rumination #SelfEsteem #AdrianWells #CoreBeliefs #Expectations #PatrickKing #DavidMClark #MentalHealth #SocialPhobia #RussellNewton #SocialAnxiety #CognitiveModel #SelfMonitoring #SafetyBehaviors #AutomaticThoughts #LackOfConfidence #SocialInteractions #CommunicationSkills #NegativeBiasFilter #SelfFulfillingProphecy.

Duration:00:24:41

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Mind-Body Synergy: Exploring Therapy, Hypnosis, and Healing

8/9/2025
The Interplay of Mind and Body with Dr. Margaret Cochran: Overcoming Fear and Inflammation See the Full Interview at https://youtu.be/PMnQIw7fNEw Dr. Margaret Cochran is a licensed clinical social worker, life coach, hypnotherapist, educator, social media personality, and author with over 25 years of experience in helping individuals achieve their personal and professional goals. Throughout her career, Dr. Cochran has been featured in numerous media outlets nationwide, and she regularly contributes to the Huffington Post, appears on NBC Sacramento’s morning show, and has hosted radio programs such as “Wisdom, Love and Magic” and “A Mental Health Moment.” Dr. Cochran is a transpersonal psychologist, licensed clinical social worker, life coach, hypnotherapist, educator, social media personality and author with more than 25 years of clinical experience. A seasoned professional dedicated to the health and well-being of all her patients, Dr. Cochran takes a whole person approach to mental health and wellness. She seamlessly interweaves traditional ego psychology, transpersonal psychology and energy psychology affording her patients every tool possible to achieve their goals and make their dreams a reality. Dr. Cochran has been featured in a range of media outlets throughout the country including BBC, ABC, CBS, NBC and FOX affiliates, CBS Radio, Healthline, Yahoo Life, Total Beauty, Media News Group, Mercury News, and many additional outlets. In addition to the Huffington Post, she has also been featured regularly on NBC Sacramento’s morning show and hosted radio programs such as, “Wisdom, Love and Magic” and “A Mental Health Moment.” In this insightful episode, Dr. Margaret Cochran, also known as 'the relationship doctor,' delves into the intricate connection between the mind and body. She explains how fear and inflammation work hand in hand to affect our health and shares powerful methods to mitigate these effects. Dr. Cochran discusses her unique background in clinical social work, psychology, metaphysics, and wildlife rehabilitation, offering fascinating stories and practical advice. Learn about energy psychology, hypnotherapy, and the transformative power of gratitude. Discover how to challenge 'shoulds,' cultivate empathy, and rewire your brain for resilience. 00:00 Introduction: The Two Causes of Sickness 00:30 Meet Dr. Margaret Cochran 01:10 Exploring Metaphysics and Traditional Physics 01:50 Therapeutic Approaches and Fear 03:32 The Interplay of Mind and Body 04:31 Hypnosis and Its Applications 05:45 Understanding Trance and Hypnosis 08:15 Anchoring Techniques for Compulsive Behaviors 11:26 Teaching Compassion and Empathy 14:59 Dr. Cochran's Books and Their Themes 18:41 Daily Practices for Self-Development 20:07 Conclusion and Final Thoughts In this insightful episode featuring **Dr. Margaret Cochran**, a **relationship doctor** with a unique background in **wildlife rehabilitation**, we explore the profound **mind-body connection**. Dr. Cochran delves into how **fear** and **inflammation** are deeply intertwined, affecting our **holistic health** and **wellness**. She discusses practical ways to achieve **resilience** and personal growth by utilizing techniques from **transpersonal psychology**, **energy psychology**, and **hypnotherapy**. The conversation highlights the importance of **gratitude**, **empathy**, and **compassion** as powerful tools for rewiring the brain. The discussion also touches upon deeper metaphysical concepts, such as **quantum entanglement** and the **interconnectedness of humanity**, and how they relate to healing and personal transformation. By understanding the brain's role and challenging limiting beliefs, listeners are equipped to overcome fear, mitigate stress, and foster a stronger sense of

Duration:00:21:09

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The Zombie Cat, The Runaway Trolley, and Einstein’s Elevator: How to Master Your Mind with Thought Experiments

8/6/2025
00:00:26 Welcome back to Social Skills Coaching with Patrick King. 00:02:26 Thinking About Thinking 00:11:42 The Problem of the Runaway Trolley 00:16:16 The Zombie Cat 00:20:15 Physics First 00:25:27 Takeaways Learn To Think Using Thought Experiments: How to Expand Your Mental Horizons, Understand Metacognition, Improve Your Curiosity, and Think Like a Philosopher (Clear Thinking and Fast Action Book 5) By Patrick King Hear it Here - https://bit.ly/ThoughtExpKing The Zombie Cat, The Runaway Trolley, and Einstein’s Elevator: How to Master Your Mind with Thought Experiments Welcome to a journey into the deepest corners of your mind, inspired by the groundbreaking book, "Learn to Think Using Thought Experiments: How to Expand Your Mental Horizons, Understand Metacognition, Improve Your Curiosity, and Think Like a Philosopher." In this video, we're going to explore the incredible power of gedankenexperiments, or thought experiments, and how they can fundamentally change the way you think. Do you want to unlock your creativity, sharpen your critical thinking skills, and foster a deeper sense of curiosity? Thought experiments are powerful mental tools used by the greatest minds in history, from Albert Einstein and Isaac Newton to Werner Heisenberg and Niels Bohr. They are mental simulations designed to explore the implications and consequences of a hypothesis without a real-world setup. They force you to confront your assumptions and challenge your preconceived notions. It's the ultimate exercise in problem solving. Think about Isaac Newton's cannon: he imagined a cannonball fired from a mountain to understand orbital mechanics. This simple hypothetical laid the groundwork for our understanding of gravity. Or consider Schrödinger's cat, the "zombie cat" paradox proposed by Erwin Schrödinger. He used this bizarre scenario not to suggest a cat could be both alive and dead, but to highlight the strange interpretation of quantum mechanics. It's a brilliant example of using an outlandish idea to provoke deeper inquiry. The most famous moral dilemma of all is the trolley problem. You see a runaway trolley speeding toward five people. You can pull a lever to divert it, killing only one person. This scenario has no easy answer; it's designed to make you examine your own ethical frameworks and understand concepts of responsibility. The book "Learn to Think Using Thought Experiments" by Patrick King is a comprehensive guide to mastering this invaluable skill. It’s a practical guide to using these mental tools for your own cognitive development and intellectual growth. You'll learn how to create your own thought experiments and use them to improve everything from your career to your personal relationships. Imagine using a thought experiment to test a new business idea or to make a difficult life decision. The book equips you with the tools for these mental simulations. The book delves into a wide range of thought experiments, from those of physicists like Werner Heisenberg and Niels Bohr to philosophical puzzles that challenge our understanding of consciousness and free will. It even touches on concepts from other fields, such as the famous Geiger counter, used in a way to illustrate randomness and probability. This isn't about memorizing facts; it's about cultivating metacognition—the ability to think about your own thinking. By using thought experiments, you learn to question everything, explore every possibility, and think like a philosopher. You'll move beyond simple facts and into the realm of deeper understanding, honing your imagination and learning to see the world not just as it is, but as it could be. If you’re ready to expand your mental horizons, improve your problem-solving skills, and ignite your...

Duration:00:28:56

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From Syria to Success: Hussein Hallak's Inspirational Path - Voice over Work - An Audiobook Sampler

8/1/2025
Hussein Halak on Embracing Life's Diversity and Mastering Your True Purpose | The Science of Self Podcast See the entire conversation at https://youtu.be/wOMJATWcOkU In this episode of 'The Science of Self,' host Russell dives deep with guest Hussein Halak, an accomplished entrepreneur, strategist, and author. Hussein shares his journey from Syria to Dubai, discussing his experiences growing up amid economic sanctions, exploring multiple creative ventures, and the importance of living a life full of exploration. He elaborates on the concept of 'Life Mastery' as a dark art that requires personal touch and adaptability. Hussein also emphasizes the value of uncomfortable growth, continuous learning, and the importance of contributing to and teaching others. Join us for an insightful conversation that bridges personal values, cultural experiences, and life mastery. 00:00 Introduction and Welcome 00:49 Meet Hussein Halak: Entrepreneur and Author 01:40 Growing Up in Syria 04:32 Life During Sanctions and Moving to Dubai 05:57 Passion for Music and Art 07:04 Philosophy on Life and Success 07:34 The Dark Art of Life Mastery 08:26 Embracing True Purpose 09:12 The American Dream and Personal Values 12:59 The Importance of Feedback 13:55 Final Thoughts and Advice

Duration:00:18:36

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Communication Amidst Noise

7/30/2025
00:03:30 Physical Noise 00:04:41 Physiological Noise 00:05:31 Semantic Noise 00:06:56 Psychological Nois 00:09:14 Overcoming Noise 00:10:15 Understand the Noise and How It’s Impacting You 00:13:16 Plan Ahead and Minimize Obstacles 00:15:11 Takeaways Mindful Listening: How To Be Present, Intentional, and Empathetic (How to be More Likable and Charismatic Book 35) By Patrick King https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CX1F3HFX In this video, we dive into the art of mindful listening as discussed in the book "Mindful Listening: How To Be Present, Intentional, and Empathetic." We'll explore various types of noise that hinder effective communication: physical noise, physiological noise, semantic noise, and psychological noise. By understanding these distractions and how they impact us, we can learn to identify them, plan ahead, and minimize their obstacles in our daily conversations. Improve your listening skills and deepen relationships through empathetic perspective. **Tags:** #MindfulListening #CommunicationSkills #EmpathicListening #Relationships #OvercomingNoise #ListeningTips #PatrickKing

Duration:00:16:25

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Highlights of "The Path to Teaching on Your Own Terms with Elliot Phillips" - Voice over Work - An Audiobook Sampler

7/28/2025
Empowering Teachers to Become Entrepreneurs with Elliot Phillips | The Science of Self See the entire conversation at https://youtu.be/NR4sjX7AetU In this episode of The Science of Self, host Russell welcomes Elliot Phillips, a former UK PE teacher turned entrepreneur. Elliot shares his journey from teaching to launching a business that helps teachers build online tutoring businesses. He provides insights into his bestselling book, 'Teaching on Your Own Terms,' and details his 'Five to Thrive' routine. The conversation dives into the inception of his Teacher Fit Project, his experience during the pandemic, and valuable advice for personal development. Elliot also discusses his morning routines, emphasizing the importance of gratitude, learning, and physical exercise for overall well-being. Tune in to learn how to achieve greatness by helping others and fostering a growth mindset. 00:00 Welcome and Introduction 00:26 Meet Elliot Phillips: From PE Teacher to Entrepreneur 00:35 The Journey to Online Tutoring 01:12 Mindset and Success Principles 02:34 Elliot's Background and Path to Teaching 04:01 Teaching on Your Own Terms: The Book 05:25 The Teacher Project: Origin and Growth 07:47 Recommended Reads and Final Thoughts 10:27 Elliot's Daily Habits and Advice 13:58 Closing Remarks and Farewell

Duration:00:15:16

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The Invalidation Trap: How to Validate Others & Yourself

7/24/2025
Uncover the secrets to building deep, meaningful connections with Patrick King's latest book, "How to Listen, Hear, and Validate." This insightful guide explores the art of effective communication, focusing on the fine line between reacting and responding. In Chapter 3, we dive into the concept of invalidation and its impact on our relationships. Learn to recognize invalidating behaviors and discover powerful techniques to avoid them. King provides practical strategies for overcoming invalidation and embracing self-validation, ensuring your conversations leave a lasting positive impression. 00:05:38 What Is Invalidation? 00:12:41 Being a Good Communicator: How to Avoid Invalidating Others 00:25:22 Overcoming Invalidation 00:33:17 Takeaways With this book, you'll transform your communication style, prevent conflicts, and cultivate the intimate connections you desire. Say goodbye to misunderstandings and hello to charismatic, empathetic interactions. Join us on this journey towards becoming a natural communicator! [Keywords: Communication, Invalidation, Self-Validation, Relationships, Charisma, Empathy] Get your copy now: [Book Link](https://bit.ly/listenhearvalidateking)

Duration:00:36:21

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ADHD, Entrepreneurship, and Mindfulness: An Unconventional Path to Success

7/20/2025
From ADHD to Mindfulness: Entrepreneur Rick Culleton's Journey to Happiness In this episode of Social Skills Coaching, host Russell welcomes entrepreneur, author, and mindfulness advocate Rick Culleton. They delve into Rick's life journey from growing up with ADHD, to his entrepreneurial ventures across multiple countries, to his amazing accidental sobriety story, and his ongoing pursuit of mindfulness and happiness. Rick shares his experiences with meditation, creating a 'morning stack,' and the impact of cold plunges on his life. Tune in for insights on building a successful team, overcoming personal struggles, and living a fulfilling life. 00:00 Introduction 01:11 Rick Culleton's Background and Entrepreneurial Journey 02:29 Challenges and Experiences with ADHD 07:26 Building and Managing Successful Teams 14:52 Accidental Sobriety and Mindfulness Practices 21:24 Developing a Morning Routine for Success 26:25 Balancing Fitness and Recovery 27:19 The Importance of Techno Fasting 27:55 Optimizing Sleep and Recovery 29:37 Morning Routine Efficiency 32:26 Cold Plunge Benefits 34:08 Martial Arts Journey 41:02 Building a Morning Stack 44:16 Cold Plunge Alternatives 47:51 Influential Books and Final Thoughts #SocialSkillsCoaching #RickCulleton #Entrepreneurship #ADHD #Mindfulness #Happiness #Sobriety #Meditation #MorningRoutine #MorningStack #ColdPlunge #Fitness #Recovery #TechnoFasting #SleepOptimization #MartialArts #PersonalGrowth #SuccessMindset #Leadership #Productivity #WellnessJourney

Duration:00:51:14

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Murphy's Law is your secret weapon!

7/17/2025
00:09:30 For example, take the Pareto Principle 00:12:37 Models in Brief 00:14:11 Satisficing. 00:15:34 Distinguish feeling or thinking. 00:17:13 Prioritize motion. 00:19:14 Whatever Can Go Wrong Will Go Wrong. 00:21:00 Here are the takeaways from today's episode. Practical Intelligence: How to Think Critically, Deconstruct Situations, Analyze Deeply, and Never Be Fooled By Patrick King Hear it Here - https://bit.ly/practicalintelligenceking https://www.amazon.com/dp/B08263KGHK In this episode, we dive into the fascinating world of practical intelligence as outlined by author Patrick King. Discover the neuroscience-backed strategies to enhance your critical thinking skills and never be fooled again! Chapter 3 unveils the power of 'thinking in models' - a game-changing approach to problem-solving. Learn how to create mental models for faster, more accurate decision-making. We'll explore concepts like satisficing, the difference between feeling and thinking, and the importance of motion. Plus, uncover why Murphy's Law is your secret weapon! Join us as we deconstruct these powerful insights and learn how to analyze deeply, think critically, and transform our thinking for a smarter future.

Duration:00:22:18