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A Man's Journey Through Divorce

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“A Man’s Journey Through Divorce” Podcast studies various aspects of divorce, the common challenges and pitfalls, and shares tools and strategies to help divorcees achieve the best possible outcome. Hosted by Steve Schleupner, Certified Divorce Coach® and Financial Advisor, the podcast shares insights from someone whose been there. New Episodes air every Monday

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Marriage

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“A Man’s Journey Through Divorce” Podcast studies various aspects of divorce, the common challenges and pitfalls, and shares tools and strategies to help divorcees achieve the best possible outcome. Hosted by Steve Schleupner, Certified Divorce Coach® and Financial Advisor, the podcast shares insights from someone whose been there. New Episodes air every Monday

Language:

English


Episodes
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Ep 117 Allowing the Past to Influence Your Choice Now

5/24/2024
In this podcast episode, we explore the transformative power of asking, "What would love do now?" during the challenging experience of divorce. Through personal stories and practical advice, we delve into how this guiding question can help you make positive choices, practice forgiveness, and turn pain into a journey of healing and growth. Join us as we uncover ways to navigate divorce with grace, embrace love in non-traditional forms, and create a foundation for a brighter future. Transform your divorce experience for long-term success. Learn how to manage conflict, elevate relationship dynamics, and enhance financial savvy. Visit www.youtreecoaching.com now. "A Man's Journey Through Divorce" Patreon page gives listeners access to target support that matches where they are in the divorce process. Support Resources on Patreon Find my poetry book Spirit Poems on Amazon.

Duration:00:30:31

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Ep 116 Shifting Your Divorce Through the 7 Universal Laws

5/16/2024
In this enlightening episode, we delve into the transformative power of divorce, often viewed only as a challenging phase, but actually a profound opportunity for personal growth and change. Our discussion centers around how the application of universal laws can not only help you navigate your divorce with resilience but also enable you to adopt a proactive strategy for positive transformation in your life. We explore the seven universal laws starting with the Law of Mentalism, emphasizing that everything begins in the mind; what you envision, you can manifest. The Law of Correspondence tells us that our external reality reflects our internal state, setting the stage for understanding how our thoughts influence our life trajectory. The Law of Vibration reminds us that everything is energy and resonates at specific frequencies, which attracts like energies—highlighting the importance of maintaining a positive energy even in tough times. We also discuss the Law of Cause and Effect and how this plays out in the dynamics of relationship conflicts, the Law of Polarity and its role in overcoming self-sabotage through understanding, and the Law of Rhythm that teaches us to find peace in the natural cycles of life. The Law of Gender emphasizes the balance of masculine and feminine energies within us, crucial for holistic healing during and after a divorce. Finally, we walk through the Sequence of Transformation—how watching your thoughts, words, actions, habits, and ultimately your character, can lead to a destiny filled with positivity and prosperity. This episode is packed with insights on making your divorce a pathway to a stronger, wiser you. Join us to discover how to plant the seeds of your desired destiny during one of life’s most significant transitions. Transform your divorce experience for long-term success. Learn how to manage conflict, elevate relationship dynamics, and enhance financial savvy. Visit www.youtreecoaching.com now. "A Man's Journey Through Divorce" Patreon page gives listeners access to target support that matches where they are in the divorce process. Support Resources on Patreon Find my poetry book Spirit Poems on Amazon.

Duration:00:31:44

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Ep 115 Taking Control of Divorce Decisions Through Mediation

4/25/2024
In this episode, we explore the transformative potential of Alternative Dispute Resolution (ADR), particularly mediation, in divorce proceedings. While litigation offers a formal trial, ADR methods provide couples with greater control over the process. However, success in mediation relies on proactive engagement and addressing underlying conflicts. A recent client's story highlights common pitfalls, emphasizing the importance of thorough preparation and communication. True empowerment in divorce comes from taking responsibility for actions and decisions. By embracing mediation with commitment, individuals can shape a smoother transition and a more fulfilling post-divorce future. Transform your divorce experience for long-term success. Learn how to manage conflict, elevate relationship dynamics, and enhance financial savvy. Visit www.youtreecoaching.com now. "A Man's Journey Through Divorce" Patreon page gives listeners access to target support that matches where they are in the divorce process. Support Resources on Patreon Find my poetry book Spirit Poems on Amazon

Duration:00:24:51

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Ep 114 Ending with Un-Equal Fears

4/7/2024
In this episode, we unravel the complexities of divorce fear and the transformative power of personalized support. Delving into the concept of weak spots, we uncover how these areas of vulnerability can hinder our journey through divorce. From the illusion of security surrounding material possessions to the importance of action-based and supernatural faith, we explore strategies to navigate fear and uncertainty. Joined by a specialized divorce coach, we discuss the pivotal role of personalized support in identifying and addressing these fears, offering actionable strategies for a seamless transition. Tune in to gain insights on overcoming divorce fear and unlocking a sense of peace and empowerment through personalized divorce support. Transform your divorce experience for long-term success. Learn how to manage conflict, elevate relationship dynamics, and enhance financial savvy. Visit www.youtreecoaching.com now. "A Man's Journey Through Divorce" Patreon page gives listeners access to target support that matches where they are in the divorce process. Support Resources on Patreon Find my poetry book Spirit Poems on Amazon.

Duration:00:31:02

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Ep 113 Building Immunity to Pain

3/17/2024
Explore the profound insights uncovered in this podcast episode as we delve into the transformative journey of healing emotional pain during divorce. Discover strategies to navigate conflict, elevate relationships, and enhance financial acumen for a brighter future. Tune in for empowering guidance on creating the divorce outcome you truly desire. Transform your divorce experience for long-term success. Learn how to manage conflict, elevate relationship dynamics, and enhance financial savvy. Visit www.youtreecoaching.com now. "A Man's Journey Through Divorce" Patreon page gives listeners access to target support that matches where they are in the divorce process. Support Resources on Patreon Find my poetry book Spirit Poems on Amazon.

Duration:00:30:07

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Ep. 112 Making the Most Progress in the Shortest Amount to Time

3/17/2024
In this episode, Steve challenges the instinct to rely solely on thriftiness during major life changes such as divorce, emphasizing the importance of investing in oneself instead. He explores strategies for elevating personal and relationship capacities swiftly, even amidst the timeline and procedural intricacies of divorce. Tune in as we discover how to shift from thriftiness to strategic investment, ensuring not just stability but growth during transformative life events. Visit to learn more about Prosperity Coaching. "A Man's Journey Through Divorce" Patreon page gives listeners access to target support that matches where they are in the divorce process. https://www.patreon.com/bePatron?u=72246018&redirect_uri=https%3A%2F%2Fyoutreecoaching.com%2Fsupport-tools%2F&utm_medium=widget Find my poetry book Spirit Poems on Amazon.

Duration:00:30:55

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Ep. 111 Setting Aspirations

2/23/2024
Listen to Steve talk about the three stages of personal transition, and the transition a couple makes as they divorce. Steve talks about the importance of setting aspirations for each type of transition - personal and relationship. Find my poetry book Spirit Poems on Amazon. Visit to learn more about Prosperity Coaching. "A Man's Journey Through Divorce" Patreon page gives listeners access to target support that matches where they are in the divorce process. https://www.patreon.com/bePatron?u=72246018&redirect_uri=https%3A%2F%2Fyoutreecoaching.com%2Fsupport-tools%2F&utm_medium=widget

Duration:00:29:48

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Ep 110 Alternative Divorce Options

2/1/2024
The way to a final divorce decree can follow several paths. The traditional, or socially branded, path is the path of litigation. Many have found litigation not the right fit and even have regrets with the outcome it produced. Alternative divorce methods, like mediation, pro-se (or kitchen table), and arbitration, are becoming more prevalent. In this episode, Steve compares the traditional and alternative paths, and shares both benefits and weaknesses of Alternative Dispute Resolution (ADR) methods. Find my poetry book Spirit Poems on Amazon. Visit to learn more about Prosperity Coaching. "A Man's Journey Through Divorce" Patreon page gives listeners access to target support that matches where they are in the divorce process. https://www.patreon.com/bePatron?u=72246018&redirect_uri=https%3A%2F%2Fyoutreecoaching.com%2Fsupport-tools%2F&utm_medium=widget

Duration:00:32:36

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Ep. 109 Why is this so Friggin' Hard?

1/15/2024
You ask, “Why is this so friggin’ hard?” Is it? Arguing against the truth is hard. Resisting things that you wish were different is hard. Becoming aware of how you create self-imposed suffering is simple. In this episode, Steve talks about struggle and its purpose and brings to light the lessons inside the toxic dance within a couple. Find my poetry book Spirit Poems on Amazon. Visit to learn more about Prosperity Coaching. "A Man's Journey Through Divorce" Patreon page gives listeners access to target support that matches where they are in the divorce process. https://www.patreon.com/bePatron?u=72246018&redirect_uri=https%3A%2F%2Fyoutreecoaching.com%2Fsupport-tools%2F&utm_medium=widget

Duration:00:25:38

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Ep 108 Can You Make Forgiveness Your Resolution?

1/1/2024
Setting a resolution to forgive may seem daunting. In this episode, Steve simplifies the process of forgiveness and explains how it can be a resolution capable of meeting. Find my poetry book Spirit Poems on Amazon. Visit to learn more about Prosperity Coaching. "A Man's Journey Through Divorce" Patreon page gives listeners access to target support that matches where they are in the divorce process. https://www.patreon.com/bePatron?u=72246018&redirect_uri=https%3A%2F%2Fyoutreecoaching.com%2Fsupport-tools%2F&utm_medium=widget

Duration:00:23:21

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Ep 107 The Devil in Divorce

12/25/2023
It’s easy to drift into the negative energy of divorce. Fear, doubt, worry, resentment, vengeance, and other trappings fuel the devil within. It’s these emotions that are very much in our control. Yet so many fail to properly manage them. In this episode, I share a poem titled “A Man’s Heart” which you can find in my book Spirit Poems. Find my poetry book Spirit Poems on Amazon. Visit to learn more about Prosperity Coaching. "A Man's Journey Through Divorce" Patreon page gives listeners access to target support that matches where they are in the divorce process. https://www.patreon.com/bePatron?u=72246018&redirect_uri=https%3A%2F%2Fyoutreecoaching.com%2Fsupport-tools%2F&utm_medium=widget

Duration:00:23:05

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Ep 106 Finding Peace Now

12/23/2023
The holidays are a time of gathering, joy, and peace. Those finding it hard to connect with these important parts may find that their chance for peace is being stolen. In this episode, I speak about how we allow self-imposed chaos, or suffering, to steal our chance for peace this instant. I share a poem is titled “Peace Instant” which you can find in my book Spirit Poems. Find my poetry book Spirit Poems on Amazon. Visit to learn more about Prosperity Coaching. "A Man's Journey Through Divorce" Patreon page gives listeners access to target support that matches where they are in the divorce process. https://www.patreon.com/bePatron?u=72246018&redirect_uri=https%3A%2F%2Fyoutreecoaching.com%2Fsupport-tools%2F&utm_medium=widget

Duration:00:19:35

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Ep 105 Look at the Meaning You Assign to Things

12/21/2023

Duration:00:15:54

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Ep. 104 Cultivate the Hidden Miracle

11/13/2023
In this episode, I share a true story about my hidden miracle as an example of how you might be hiding your own miracle cultivation. I also share the poem “Cultivate Miracles” from my book Spirit Poems. Find my poetry book Spirit Poems on Amazon. Visit to learn more about Prosperity Coaching. "A Man's Journey Through Divorce" Patreon page gives listeners access to target support that matches where they are in the divorce process. https://www.patreon.com/bePatron?u=72246018&redirect_uri=https%3A%2F%2Fyoutreecoaching.com%2Fsupport-tools%2F&utm_medium=widget

Duration:00:23:25

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Ep 103 The Worst Possible Outcome Happened

10/23/2023
In the episode, I speak to the recent event where a family court judge tragically lost his life, and highlight the dire importance of revamping the way couples divorce. Find my poetry book Spirit Poems on Amazon. Visit to learn more about Prosperity Coaching. "A Man's Journey Through Divorce" Patreon page gives listeners access to target support that matches where they are in the divorce process. https://www.patreon.com/bePatron?u=72246018&redirect_uri=https%3A%2F%2Fyoutreecoaching.com%2Fsupport-tools%2F&utm_medium=widget

Duration:00:39:01

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Ep 102 Rock Bottom

10/16/2023
In Season 3, I share poetry that came to me during my healing process. Each poem helped me understand the complex emotions and life change I was facing. Today’s poem, “Rock Bottom,” speaks to building awareness around the archetype driving the way we live and how the divorce provides a lesson that breaks this futile belief system. Find my poetry book Spirit Poems on Amazon. Visit to learn more about Prosperity Coaching.

Duration:00:17:07

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Ep. 101: Cherish Thorns

10/9/2023
In Season 3, I share poetry that came to me during my healing process. Each poem helped me understand the complex emotions and life change I was facing. Today’s poem, “Cherish Thorns,” speaks to embracing the thorns so your garden from here forth can produce beautiful fruit. Find my poetry book Spirit Poems on Amazon. Visit to learn more about Prosperity Coaching. "A Man's Journey Through Divorce" Patreon page gives listeners access to target support that matches where they are in the divorce process. https://www.patreon.com/bePatron?u=72246018&redirect_uri=https%3A%2F%2Fyoutreecoaching.com%2Fsupport-tools%2F&utm_medium=widget

Duration:00:19:49

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Ep 100 Allowing Children to Divorce the Dream

9/24/2023
The “divorce of the dream” is a process divorcees move through. However, it’s not just the couple who faces the loss of dreams. So to do children. In this episode, I speak to the importance of practicing patience as children move through the family’s changing dynamic. Visit to learn more about Prosperity Coaching. "A Man's Journey Through Divorce" Patreon page gives listeners access to target support that matches where they are in the divorce process. https://www.patreon.com/bePatron?u=72246018&redirect_uri=https%3A%2F%2Fyoutreecoaching.com%2Fsupport-tools%2F&utm_medium=widget

Duration:00:33:48

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Ep 99 Things Don't Turn Out Like You Expect...So What?

9/11/2023
When things don’t turn out as we expect, we can either speak a version of “poor me,” or we can say a more freeing “so what?”. In this episode, I talk describe the shift to so what, irrespective of the expectation that didn’t unfold like we wanted. Visit to learn more about Prosperity Coaching. "A Man's Journey Through Divorce" Patreon page gives listeners access to target support that matches where they are in the divorce process. https://www.patreon.com/bePatron?u=72246018&redirect_uri=https%3A%2F%2Fyoutreecoaching.com%2Fsupport-tools%2F&utm_medium=widget

Duration:00:23:20

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Ep 98 Giving Away Your Power

9/5/2023
In this episode, I cover how we can easily give away our energy, otherwise known as our power, when we allow the “divorce process,” and the players within, to have power over us. Visit to learn more about Prosperity Coaching. "A Man's Journey Through Divorce" Patreon page gives listeners access to target support that matches where they are in the divorce process. https://www.patreon.com/bePatron?u=72246018&redirect_uri=https%3A%2F%2Fyoutreecoaching.com%2Fsupport-tools%2F&utm_medium=widget

Duration:00:31:11