Spank U, Next: A Fetish & BDSM Podcast

Listen to one of our most successful episodes ever where we talk to a male ProDom who caters to female clients only. Christian Grey, your time is up! This episode, Anna and Gregor talk to London's most prolific pro Dominant, Master Peter. Hear about the women who pay for a good spanking, and why sex work catered to female pleasure is so rare (the patriarchy!). Treat yourself to titillating tales from the BDSM underground, as Master Peter reflects on moving away from SSC (Safe, Sane & Consensual) towards RACK (Risk Aware Consensual Kink). Because, really, can BDSM ever be safe?

This episode's topic has had such an impact on our show that we couldn't ignore it any longer: We're gonna talk about spanking and why so many people enjoy having their booty beaten. Join Anna and Gregor as they explore a kink that's found its way into many people's bedrooms and get inspired to spice up your own sex life. 00:03:27 - Dynamics of submission and domination 00:04:29 - Different preferences in spanking 00:10:26 - Men struggling with feminism in BDSM 00:14:30 - Checking in with body boundaries 00:17:20 - Aftercare in BDSM 00:19:10 - Keep it kinky Follow Spank U, Next and send us a DM on Instagram and Twitter. Sign up to Fetish.com and meet other kinky people like you! Email us with feedback and show suggestions to spankunext@playamedia.com. .

Welcome to the podcaster showdown! Anna and Gregor interview veteran podcasters Dan and Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast and discuss their 20 years of experience in the BDSM and fetish world. Dan and Dawn share stories of life on the road living in an RV, power exchange, polyamory, and thriving in alternative lifestyles. Timestamps: 00:01:45 - Dan and Dawn's Polyamorous and Kink Journey 00:02:20 - Open Relationships vs. Polyamory 00:02:47 - The Health of Polyamorous Relationships 00:03:20 - Discussing Polyamory and Power Dynamics 00:03:51 - Misconceptions About Submissiveness 00:04:49 - Dan and Dawn's Introduction and Background 00:05:29 - Celebrating a Collaring Anniversary 00:06:47 - The Need for Polyamory Tools 00:07:16 - How Dan and Dawn Avoid Getting Sick of Each Other 00:10:04 - The Separation of Vanilla Life and Kink Life 00:12:46 - The 24/7 Power Exchange Dynamic 00:14:23 - The Evolution of Kinks and BDSM Interests 00:15:09 - Exploring Hypnosis Kink and Chemical Play 00:16:07 - The Meaning of Polyamory for Dan and Dawn 00:17:53 - Navigating Long-Distance Polyamorous Relationships 00:19:13 - Dealing with Personal Limits and Space 00:20:05 - Kinks That Sparked Interest in BDSM 00:23:37 - The Role of Jealousy in Polyamory 00:25:58 - Misconceptions About Polyamory 00:35:16 - The Role of Honesty in Polyamorous Relationships 00:39:38 - Exploring Celibacy and Spiritual Paths Listen to Erotic Awakening Podcast on Dan & Dawn's website here. And check out some of their fabulous books here. Follow Spank U, Next and send us a DM on Instagram and Twitter. Sign up to Fetish.com and meet other kinky people like you! Email us with feedback and show suggestions to spankunext@playamedia.com.

Listen to an old fan favourite about DDLG (daddy Dom/little girl), littlespace, age play, and so much more! You're invited to explore the much-misunderstood world of age play and DDLG (Daddy Dom/Little Girl) with hosts Anna and Gregor. They are joined by Shaun and Sarah, a couple who met on Fetish.com, to talk littlespace, consent, sensual domination, aftercare, and funishment vs. punishment. Get educated on the BDSM community's move towards the gender-inclusive term Caregiver/little, and let them debunk some misconceptions you may have about Daddy Doms and their littles.

In this episode of BDSM Basics, we're taking it back to basics... literally. Sadomasochism: what is it? Where did it come from? How can you explore it? Listen now, you sadistic/masochistic freaks! Timestamps: 00:00:03 - Introduction to BDSM Basics 00:01:44 - Defining Sadism and Masochism 00:02:32 - Origins of Sadism 00:03:46 - Marquis de Sade's Novel "Justine" 00:04:30 - Historical Context of Sadism 00:05:36 - Marquis de Sade's Reputation 00:06:21 - Origins of Masochism 00:07:25 - Psychiatry and BDSM in History 00:08:11 - Therapy and BDSM Today 00:09:07 - Power Dynamics in Sadism 00:09:38 - Control and Submission in Masochism 00:11:00 - The Sensation of Pain in BDSM 00:12:04 - Differentiating BDSM Pain from Other Pain 00:12:44 - Importance of Consent and Control 00:13:48 - Psychological Aspects of Pain Enjoyment 00:14:53 - Sexual Arousal and Pain 00:15:28 - BDSM Play Without Sexual Context 00:16:09 - Advice for Exploring BDSM 00:17:02 - Choosing the Right Play Partner 00:17:38 - Blood Play and Safety Precautions 00:18:19 - Closing Remarks and Contact Information Follow Spank U, Next and send us a DM on Instagram and Twitter. Sign up to Fetish.com and meet other kinky people like you! Email us with feedback and show suggestions to spankunext@playamedia.com.

Delve into the dynamic and evolving landscape of porn with the multifaceted adult performer and activist, Mickey Mod. Hosts Anna and Gregor chat to the seasoned porn performer – who is not only passionate about his craft, but also deeply invested in advocating for the rights of sex workers – about ethical adult content, race, sex work, and so much more. Mickey Mod is an industry icon – enjoy his wisdom here. Timestamps: 00:04:18 - Mickey's entry into the porn industry 00:06:05 - BDSM community and performance spaces 00:07:01 - Changes in the porn industry and online spaces 00:08:09 - Performer empowerment 00:09:02 - The impact of ranking systems and social media 00:10:02 - Success on OnlyFans 00:11:26 - The Effects of FOSTA/SESTA on sex work 00:13:18 - Collective Corruption 00:14:38 - Stigma and career challenges post-adult industry 00:16:07 - Decriminalization of sex work 00:17:33 - Mickey's work behind the scenes 00:18:40 - Fluidity and labels 00:21:02 - Skills from the adult industry and mainstream rejection 00:22:09 - Shadow banning and its impact 00:24:54 - Ethical content creation 00:27:02 - Consent and power dynamics in BDSM 00:30:05 - Mickey's personal kinks and hard limits 00:33:04 - Consent and misunderstandings in online interactions 00:35:05 - Race play and its complexities 00:37:13 - Exploring power dynamics and submissive roles 00:38:19 - Butt stuff and societal stigmas Follow Mickey on X (formerly Twitter) at @theMickeyMod. Check out Collective Corruption here. Follow Spank U, Next and send us a DM on Instagram and Twitter. Sign up to Fetish.com and meet other kinky people like you! Email us with feedback and show suggestions to spankunext@playamedia.com.

Sun salutations, Tantra, the inner goddess... and kink. Sound like a strange mix? Not for Alice and Pau, two yoga coaches and instructors bringing kinky yoga to women and couples looking to do some self-discovery. They tell Anna and Gregor why yoga and BDSM are a heady mix that opens up the sensual and sexual self. Timestamps: 0000:00 - Intro 00:04:40 - Discovery of Kinky Yoga 00:07:29 - Rise Women Rise Collective and Retreats 00:08:46 - Concept of Holy Whore Retreat 00:11:30 - Explaining Tantra 00:14:53 - Hosts' Background in Kink 00:18:03 - Creating Safe Spaces in Kinky Workshops 00:19:17 - Consent and Boundaries in Workshops 00:20:01 - Introducing Toys in Kinky Yoga 00:23:01 - Demystifying Feminine Sexuality 00:25:29 - Empowerment and Performance in Sexuality 00:26:12 - Kinky Yoga Experience for Newcomers 00:27:48 - Partner Work in Kinky Yoga 00:29:00 - Feedback from Workshop Participants 00:32:06 - Aftercare and Upcoming Workshops 00:33:49 - Inviting Experts to Kinky Workshops 00:34:07 - Hosts' Interest in Attending a Workshop 00:35:00 - Accessibility of Kinky Yoga for Beginners 00:37:42 - Where to Find Kinky Yoga and Contact Info 00:39:32 - Barcelona's Sex-Positive Scene 00:40:03 - Mainstreaming BDSM and Sensual Kink 00:41:16 - Importance of Communication in Sex 00:42:10 - Closing Remarks and Podcast Promotion Attend their next kinky yoga retreat in Barcelona on 21st January by signing up here. Also, check out their Wholly Whore retreats and Rise Women Rise collective and retreats. For more info about the founders, visit Alice's website and Pau's website. Follow Spank U, Next and send us a DM on Instagram and Twitter. Sign up to Fetish.com and meet other kinky people like you! Email us with feedback and show suggestions to spankunext@playamedia.com.

Dominatrix and kinky influencer Eva Oh is in the studio with Anna and Gregor to talk about her fascinating journey to sex work. She went from working in strategic consulting to becoming a highly successful dominatrix, now earning up to $10,000 a day with an online following in the hundreds of thousands. Eva shares the psychological aspects of her work – particularly her interest in power dynamics and emotional masochism – and misconceptions surrounding sex work and the BDSM community. Timestamps: 00:06:12 - Learning the Ropes of Domination 00:07:59 - First Session Experience 00:09:08 - Emotional Connection in Domination 00:10:23 - The Financial Aspects of Being a Dominatrix 00:12:05 - Rates and Earnings as a Dominatrix 00:14:32 - Transitioning from Dungeon to Online Presence 00:16:32 - Personal Life and Boundaries 00:18:25 - Misconceptions About Sex Work and Domination 00:20:03 - Communication and Societal Expectations 00:21:07 - Prejudices and Learning New Kinks 00:23:30 - Understanding Age Play 00:24:13 - Public Perception and Acceptance of Kink 00:25:09 - Family Reactions to Sex Work 00:27:54 - Mainstream Interest in Fetish and BDSM 00:29:30 - Career Limitations After Sex Work 00:30:57 - Promoting Eva O's Podcast and Work 00:32:24 - Post-Interview Reflections 00:34:23 - Podcast Outro and Credits Visit Eva's official website here. You can also follow her on Instagram and Twitter and listen to her podcast #teakink wherever you get your podcasts. Follow Spank U, Next and send us a DM on Instagram and Twitter. Sign up to Fetish.com and meet other kinky people like you! Email us with feedback and show suggestions to spankunext@playamedia.com.

BDSM often gets a bad rap in pop culture, notably exacerbated by the problematic portrayal in 'Fifty Shades of Grey'. Determined to shift the narrative, Anna and Gregor sit down with kinky documentary director Todd Max Carey to talk about his latest project, 'Touch Kink,' a film that explores real-world BDSM and fetishism. Carey tells the story of how he got into BDSM and why it was so important for him to bring the stories of other kinky people to the big screen. Tune in as they navigate through Carey's personal journey, the importance of authentic representation, and the impact of his work in normalizing kink within the community. Timestamps: 00:01:14 Istanbul and LGBTQ+ experiences. 00:03:40 Kink in conservative countries. 00:09:07 Discovering personal identity. 00:11:38 Touch Kink documentary and characters. 00:15:27 Stigmatization of kink. 00:20:10 Kinky fashion throughout history. 00:20:41 Fetish and desires. 00:24:21 Building trust in the community. 00:27:35 Male vs. female Dom ratios. 00:33:08 Normalizing kink in mainstream media. 00:34:53 BDSM training school on fetish.com. Visit the official website of 'Touch Kink' here. Follow Spank U, Next and send us a DM on Instagram and Twitter. Sign up to Fetish.com and meet other kinky people like you! Email us with feedback and show suggestions to spankunext@playamedia.com.

It's all about leather in this episode of Spank U, Next... and quite frankly, it's long overdue. The leather fetish community is perhaps the most well-known aesthetic of the queer kinky community – but where is at today? Once thriving leather bars in New York, San Francisco and beyond have closed their doors as dating apps fill the supply and demand of queer and kinky sex. Artist Steven Harwick, a Brooklyn-based artist, has been photographing modern leather kink culture and how the subculture has evolved in his zine Bound Leather and on his Instagram page. He is in the studio with Anna and Gregor to talk about his work, as well as his personal experiences as a member of the queer leather community. Check out Steven's Bound Leather zine here. Follow him on Instagram here. Steven's website can be found here. Follow Spank U, Next and send us a DM on Instagram and Twitter. Sign up to Fetish.com and meet other kinky people like you! Email us with feedback and show suggestions to spankunext@playamedia.com.

It's the spooky season – the demons are among us. So Anna and Gregor dive into the realm of vampire fetishism and blood play in this special Halloween episode. They talk Buffy the Vampire Slayer and gothic influences, how vampire fetishists play with their prey, and their recent trip to New Orleans, a city with a vibrant vampire community. Follow Spank U, Next and send us a DM on Instagram and Twitter. Sign up to Fetish.com and meet other kinky people like you! Email us with feedback and show suggestions to spankunext@playamedia.com.

Listen to an old fan favourite about the world of full-time BDSM with fellow podcasters and IRL couple Kayla Lords and John Brownstone (JB). The husband and wife duo met on the internet before sparking up a 24/7 Daddy Dom/sub dynamic in their shared home in Florida. Hosts Anna & Gregor get the lowdown on what it takes to make a kinky partnership work all day – every day. From the domestic to the downright dirty, Kayla (affectionately dubbed the ‘coffee sub’) and JB lift the lid on round-the-clock BDSM. Check out Kayla and John's podcast Loving BDSM here. Follow Spank U, Next and send us a DM on Instagram and Twitter. Sign up to Fetish.com and meet other kinky people like you! Email us with feedback and show suggestions to spankunext@playamedia.com.

Spank U, Next is back after a summer hiatus and you're in for a treat. World-renowned sex therapist and kink specialist Dr. Stefani Goerlich is in the studio to talk about BDSM and psychology. Early into her work, Stefani was struck by the kink-shaming she saw among other sex therapists and decided to do things differently. She takes an empathetic and non-stigmatising approach to help kinky people (and their partners) enjoy good sexual health and happiness. In this episode, Stefani tells Anna and Gregor about how BDSM is pathologised in mainstream therapy, ways to practice good communication with a vanilla partner, and the perks and pitfalls of polyamory. Check out Stefani's website here. Pre-order her new book 'With Sprinkles on Top' here. Follow Spank U, Next and send us a DM on Instagram and Twitter. Sign up to Fetish.com and meet other kinky people like you! Email us with feedback and show suggestions to spankunext@playamedia.com.

All anyone is talking about is AI. How it’s coming for our jobs, our minds, and our sex lives. But does ChatGPT know a thing or two about BDSM? It appears so. New AI tools tend to swerve sexual and adult content – including anything about kinks – but Anna & Gregor hacked ChatGPT to become a curious kinkster. They were surprised about its sophistication – as you will be, too. Follow Spank U, Next and send a DM on Instagram and Twitter. Sign up to Fetish.com and meet other kinky people like you! Email us with feedback and show suggestions to spankunext@playamedia.com.

In this episode of BDSM Basics, Anna and Gregor explore the world of foot fetishes and how the allure of feet may be tied to their taboo nature, often associated with dirt and sweat. Listen as they make biblical references to foot worship and discuss the symbolism of submission and adoration tied up with these fetishes. If 1 in 3 people have a fetish, and foot fetishes are the most common, that's a lot of people into feet. Timestamps: Follow Spank U, Next and send a DM on Instagram and Twitter. Sign up to Fetish.com and meet other kinky people like you! Email us with feedback and show suggestions to spankunext@playamedia.com.

Have you ever found yourself in a relationship where sex goes from hot to hardly ever? It's a tale as old as the orgasm gap, but there's actually a lot you can do about it. The UK’s leading psychosexual therapist Kate Moyle is in the studio with Anna and Gregor to talk about desire, sex and the therapist's couch. They dive into topics like why sex dwindles in long-term relationships, how mums can get their groove back after maternity, prioritising pleasure over penetration, and exploring BDSM with the help of a therapist. Timestamps: 00:05:00 Why sex therapy is crucial and ever-evolving 00:07:08 How psychosexual therapy is nuanced and individual 00:14:01 The importance of communication to enjoy a better sex life 00:15:12 Prioritise physical intimacy and pleasure even if you don't feel like it 00:20:00 On how to reconnect sexually after childbirth 00:27:43 Sexual satisfaction is subjective and individual 00:34:25 There is no objective measure of good sex 00:39:31 Why kink-aware therapists are so vital Check out Kate's website here. You can also listen to her podcast The Sexual Wellness Sessions on Apple and Spotify. And follow her on Instagram. Follow us and send a DM on Instagram and Twitter. Sign up to Fetish.com and meet other kinky people like you! Email us with feedback and show suggestions to spankunext@playamedia.com.

Been ghosted by your Dom? Did a kinky relationship end abruptly and you're left pining? Breakups are always tough – in BDSM, they're tougher. Trust and consent are such fundamental components of any dynamic that a rupturing of these things can feel devastating. It's abandonment, but without the play. Don't fret, though, co-hosts Anna and Gregor are here to walk you through the healing process, so you can get back to indulging the kinks you love. Timestamps: Follow Spank U, Next and send a DM on Instagram and Twitter. Sign up to Fetish.com and meet other kinky people like you! Email us with feedback and show suggestions to spankunext@playamedia.com.

Today, BDSM podcast royalty is in the studio with co-hosts Anna and Gregor. Tina Horn’s podcast ‘Why are people into that?!’ – where she has candid, thoughtful and steamy conversations with people about sex, kink, gender and love – is a go-to audio bible for fetishists everywhere. Horn found the kink community through sex work and Domming and is now a world-renowned author and creator of sci-fi sex work comics, a diehard queer punk, and an “educatrix”. Don’t miss this one. Timestamps: Listen to Why are people into that?! on Apple, Spotify, Google or wherever you get your podcasts. Check out Tina's website here. Her Twitter is @tinahornsass. And find her on Instragram here. Follow Spank U, Next and send a DM on Instagram and Twitter. Sign up to Fetish.com and meet other kinky people like you! Email us with feedback and show suggestions to spankunext@playamedia.com.

"The butt is the new pussy", says co-host and anal aficionado Gregor. In this new episode of BDSM Basics, he gives Anna the lowdown on all things anal, prostate stimulation and the gateway to new forms of pleasure. Expect expert anal-ysis on preparation and practice, how to try butt play for the first time, and why everyone should be using lube. Straight, gay, bi or anything in-between, the bum is for everyone. Welcome to anal 101. Timestamps: Follow us and send a DM on Instagram and Twitter. Sign up to Fetish.com and meet other kinky people like you! Email us with feedback and show suggestions to spankunext@playamedia.com.

On the perks of being a bisexual boyslut!! New York columnist, author, and sex expert Zachary Zane is in the studio with hosts Anna and Gregor to talk about his bisexual journey and how the community has got stronger over the last ten years. They talk ethical non-monogamy, struggling to exist in both queer and straight culture, and why being slutty is the best way. Timestamps: 00:00:00 Intro 00:04:44 Bisexuals need acceptance and support. 00:09:09 Men need sex positivity too. 00:10:41 Create inclusive sexual communities. 00:16:18 Bi people are valid and accepted. 00:21:27 Embrace and love each other. 00:29:10 Straight people welcome in queer spaces. 00:33:53 Kink community is tolerant. 00:35:00 Rejecting people is tough. 00:40:38 Explore your kinks freely. Check out Zachary's website here. His new book is called Boyslut and you can buy it wherever books are sold. Follow us and send a DM on Instagram and Twitter. Sign up to Fetish.com and meet other kinky people like you! Email us with feedback and show suggestions to spankunext@playamedia.com.