THE REAL SEX EDUCATION

*TRIGGER WARNING* - Discussion of rape and sexual assault. If you've been affected by any issues brought up in this episode, please find links to support services below. Accredited sex and relationships therapist Cate Campbell and son Diggory Waite go through some follow-ups, sent in from listeners who've had their questions answered. These include questions around giving sexual feedback to partners you're ending it with, what to say to your parents if they're unhappy with you becoming sexually active at 16, why women "love big cocks but not too big" and which courses you can do to become a sex therapist/sexologist in the UK. Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into: - Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7 - Our email: podcasts@hattrick.com - Our DMs on Instagram, TikTok or X – we’re @thersepod - Cate's Facebook – https://www.facebook.com/catecampbellrelationshiptalk (but please direct all hate to @diggorywaite on Instagram, TikTok or X) Did you enjoy this episode? Then do subscribe to this podcast and leave us a review wherever you're listening or watching. All advice given on the podcast is for general use and educational purposes only. For individual medical diagnoses we always recommend seeing a professional. Resources: The College of Sexual and Relationship Therapists List of Professional Qualification Courses Sexual Assault Support Links: · Rape Crisis has a helpline, open from 12-14.30h and 19-21.30h: 0808 802 9999 · Rape Crisis Northern Ireland has a freephone helpline on Monday and Thursday from 18-20h: 0800 0246 911 · Rape Crisis Scotland has a free helpline from 18h-midnight 08088 010302 · Safeline 0808 800 5005 · Survivors Trust Free helpline: 08088 010818 · Support for Survivors · We Are Survivors · Women’s Support Project · Black Women’s Rape Action has a helpline, open Monday – Friday, 13-16.30h: 020 7482 2496 The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

*TRIGGER WARNING* FGM is discussed in this episode. You can find support below: NHS National FGM Support Clinics – https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/female-genital-mutilation-fgm/national-fgm-support-clinics/ The Dahlia Project – https://www.dahliaproject.org/access-our-services/ In this episode, Cate and Diggory answer more of your questions including if shift work can affect your sex life, how to find the clitoris and whether not being able to get an erection whilst giving a sperm donation means you've got a low sex drive. Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into: - Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7 - Our email: podcasts@hattrick.com - Our DMs on Instagram, TikTok or X – we’re @thersepod Did you enjoy this episode? Then do subscribe to this podcast and leave us a review wherever you're listening or watching. All advice given on the podcast is for general use and educational purposes only. For individual medical diagnoses we always recommend seeing a professional. The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this breakups special, accredited sex and relationships therapist Cate Campbell and son Diggory Waite answer your questions on breakups and processing them. Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into: - Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7 - Our email: podcasts@hattrick.com - DMing us on Instagram, TikTok or X – we’re @thersepod Did you enjoy this episode? Then do subscribe to this podcast and leave us a review wherever you're listening or watching. All advice given on the podcast is for general use and educational purposes only. For individual medical diagnoses we always recommend seeing a professional. The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, accredited sex and relationships therapist Cate Campbell and her son Diggory Waite catch up about Cate's holiday, shagging penguins and the mile-high club. Then, they answer your questions about IVF, endometriosis, what it means when you don't like someone, parents butting in on your sex life and how to give your partner polite feedback. Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into: -Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7 -Our email: podcasts@hattrick.com -DMing us on Instagram, TikTok or X – we’re @thersepod Did you enjoy this episode? Then do subscribe to this podcast and leave us a review wherever you're listening or watching. All advice given on the podcast is for general use and educational purposes only. For individual medical diagnoses we always recommend seeing a professional. The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, accredited sex and relationships therapist Cate Campbell and son Diggory Waite take listener questions on the contraceptive pill, ghosting, the reason you're turned on by master/slave kinks, how to get better at sex and whether it is okay to fantasise about your favourite characters in a sexy way??? Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into: - Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7 - Our email: podcasts@hattrick.com - DMing us on Instagram, TikTok or X – we’re @thersepod Did you enjoy this episode? Then do subscribe to this podcast and leave us a review wherever you're listening or watching. All advice given on the podcast is for general use and educational purposes only. For individual medical diagnoses we always recommend seeing a professional. The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, accredited sex and relationships therapist Cate Campbell and her son Diggory Waite answer more listener questions like what are the 'optimal' sex positions for people with a small penis, how to destigmatise people with a small penis, how to navigate budding new relationships, all or nothing libidos, chastity cages, chastity belts and Robin Hood... Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into: - Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7 - Our email: podcasts@hattrick.com - DMing us on Instagram, TikTok or X – we’re @thersepod Did you enjoy this episode? Then do subscribe to this podcast and leave us a review wherever you're listening or watching. All advice given on the podcast is for general use and educational purposes only. For individual medical diagnoses we always recommend seeing a professional. The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, accredited sex and relationship therapist Cate Campbell and son Diggory Waite take listeners questions around how to get comfortable with sex, performance anxiety, response pressure and religious guilt. Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into: - Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7 - Our email: podcasts@hattrick.com - DMing us on Instagram, TikTok or X – we’re @thersepod Did you enjoy this episode? Then do subscribe to this podcast and leave us a review wherever you're listening or watching. All advice given on the podcast is for general use and educational purposes only. For individual medical diagnoses we always recommend seeing a professional. The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, accredited sex and relationships therapist Cate Campbell and son Diggory take a serious look at 'Mommy Issues' and answer other questions from their listeners including 'Should I use a tampon to stop c*m running down my leg?', 'Am I not bisexual?' and 'What should I do if my partner has genital herpes?' Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into: - Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7 - Our email: podcasts@hattrick.com - DMing us on Instagram, TikTok or X – we’re @thersepod Did you enjoy this episode? Then do subscribe to this podcast and leave us a review wherever you're listening or watching. All advice given on the podcast is for general use and educational purposes only. For individual medical diagnoses we always recommend seeing a professional. The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, accredited sex and relationships therapist Cate Campbell and son Diggory Waite take listener questions on all things anal sex addressing how to do it safely, how to prepare properly, whether you can do it spontaneously and if you can get... pregnant? Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into: - Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7 - Our email: podcasts@hattrick.com - DMing us on Instagram, TikTok or X – we’re @thersepod Did you enjoy this episode? Then do subscribe to this podcast and leave us a review wherever you're listening or watching. All advice given on the podcast is for general use and educational purposes only. For individual medical diagnoses we always recommend seeing a professional. The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Accredited sex therapist Cate Campbell and son Diggory Waite try to solve the mystery around female orgasms, asking why one might be struggling to have them and how to rectify that. Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into: - Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7 - Our email: podcasts@hattrick.com - DMing us on Instagram, TikTok or X – we’re @thersepod Did you enjoy this episode? Then do subscribe to this podcast and leave us a review wherever you're listening or watching. All advice given on the podcast is for general use and educational purposes only. For individual medical diagnoses we always recommend seeing a professional. The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this very special episode, accredited sex therapist Cate Campbell and son Diggory Waite discuss sex! They also answer some listener questions including: Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into: -Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7 -Our email: podcasts@hattrick.com -DMing us on Instagram, TikTok or X – we’re @thersepod Did you enjoy this episode? Then do subscribe to this podcast and leave us a review wherever you're listening or watching. All advice given on the podcast is for general use and educational purposes only. For individual medical diagnoses we always recommend seeing a professional. A great ADHD and Mental Health resource: https://www.mind.org.uk/information-support/tips-for-everyday-living/adhd-and-mental-health/ The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this Valentines Day Special, accredited sex therapist Cate Campbell and son Diggory Waite talk about what you need for a great date night, the history of Valentines Day and videogames... Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into: - Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7 - Our email: podcasts@hattrick.com - DMing us on Instagram, TikTok or X – we’re @thersepod Did you enjoy this episode? Then do subscribe to this podcast and leave us a review wherever you're listening or watching. All advice given on the podcast is for general use and educational purposes only. For individual medical diagnoses we always recommend seeing a professional. The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, accredited sex therapist Cate Campbell and son Diggory answer the questions sent into them by you the listeners. After answering a couple of questions about fancying a friend who may be asexual, the discuss long distance relationships, breakups, improving your sexual performance and sex in video games. Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into: - Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7 - Our email: podcasts@hattrick.com - DMing us on Instagram, TikTok or X – we’re @thersepod Did you enjoy this episode? Then do subscribe to this podcast and leave us a review wherever you're listening or watching. All advice given on the podcast is for general use and educational purposes only. For individual medical diagnoses we always recommend seeing a professional. The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, accredited sex therapist Cate Campbell takes son Diggory Waite through the 'Compass of Shame' outlining the 4 ways we show shame. They talk about the affects of shame on a personal level and in wider society, posing the question "does shame make us monogamous?" Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into: - Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7 - Our email: podcasts@hattrick.com - DMing us on Instagram, TikTok or X – we’re @thersepod Did you enjoy this episode? Then do subscribe to this podcast and leave us a review wherever you're listening or watching. All advice given on the podcast is for general use and educational purposes only. For individual medical diagnoses we always recommend seeing a professional. If you're thinking of or are self harming, helplines are available here: https://www.nhs.uk/mental-health/feelings-symptoms-behaviours/behaviours/self-harm/getting-help/ https://www.mind.org.uk/information-support/types-of-mental-health-problems/self-harm/useful-contacts/ https://helpguide.org/find-help.htm You can watch Esther Perel's brilliant TedTalk that we reference here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P2AUat93a8Q&t=7s&ab_channel=TED The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, sex therapist Cate Campbell and son Diggory Waite answer questions sent in by listeners including someone asking if a particular medical examination had made them gay, should parents take their sons to the urologist, how to get back into dating and feeling sexual and if one listener is becoming straight... Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into: -Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7 -Our email: podcasts@hattrick.com -DMing us on Instagram, TikTok or X – we’re @thersepod Did you enjoy this episode? Then do subscribe to this podcast and leave us a review wherever you're listening or watching. All advice given on the podcast is for general use and educational purposes only. For individual medical diagnoses we always recommend seeing a professional. The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, sex and relationships therapist Cate Campbell takes son Diggory through Henry Dicks' theory of 'Couple Fit', outlining the 3 reasons you're attracted to someone: the 'Public/Social' attraction, 'Personal' attraction and the all-important 'Unconscious' attraction. Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into: -Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7 -Our email: podcasts@hattrick.com -DMing us on Instagram, TikTok or X – we’re @thersepod Did you enjoy this episode? Then do subscribe to this podcast and leave us a review wherever you're listening or watching. All advice given on the podcast is for general use and educational purposes only. For individual medical diagnoses we always recommend seeing a professional. The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this masturbation special, accredited sex and relationship therapist Cate Campbell and son Diggory Waite open up their mailbag to you, the listeners, to answer your questions - this week all surrounding the topic of masturbation. Listen to hear the answers to do I masturbate in a atypical way, do I masturbate too much and is masturbation a sin are all and so much more. Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into: - Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7 - Our email: podcasts@hattrick.com - DMing us on Instagram, TikTok or X – we’re @thersepod Did you enjoy this episode? Then do subscribe to this podcast and leave us a review wherever you're listening or watching. All advice given on the podcast is for general use and educational purposes only. For individual medical diagnoses we always recommend seeing a professional. The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In their most requested episode to date, accredited sex and relationship therapist Cate Campbell and son Diggory Waite explain what delayed ejaculation is and how one can improve it (should they want to!) They discuss the causes of delayed ejaculation, the affect it can have on individuals and their relationships before answering the internet's most commonly asked questions on the topic. Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into: - Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7 - Our email: podcasts@hattrick.com - DMing us on Instagram, TikTok or X – we’re @thersepod Did you enjoy this episode? Then do subscribe to this podcast and leave us a review wherever you're listening or watching. All advice given on the podcast is for general use and educational purposes only. For individual medical diagnoses we always recommend seeing a professional. The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In the first episode of series 6, sex and relationship therapist Cate Campbell and son Diggory Waite answer the questions you sent into them including whether a 19-year-old woman is 'shameful' for having a crush on a 58-year-old married male friend, how to help an older partner stay erect during sex and whether it's healthy to have your child see your naked body. Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into: -Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7 -Our email: podcasts@hattrick.com -DMing us on Instagram, TikTok or X – we’re @thersepod Did you enjoy this episode? Then do subscribe to this podcast and leave us a review wherever you're listening or watching. All advice given on the podcast is for general use and educational purposes only. For individual medical diagnoses we always recommend seeing a professional. The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Accredited sex and relationship therapist Cate Campbell and son Diggory answer your questions surrounding seeing your partner as a friend, getting aroused at inappropriate times, vaginismus and struggling to orgasm. Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into: - Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7 - Our email: podcasts@hattrick.com - DMing us on Instagram, TikTok or X – we’re @thersepod Did you enjoy this episode? Then do subscribe to this podcast and leave us a review wherever you're listening or watching. All advice given on the podcast is for general use and educational purposes only. For individual medical diagnoses we always recommend seeing a professional. The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.