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It's Spaghetti

4/30/2024
Did you all miss us? Because we missed you all. We are byke with another episode, and to start it off, Jasmine is happily angry, Donnie is tired, and Corey is cozy with patience. We were away for a minute, so we had an extended Wellness Check segment where we discussed real SHTT! From there, we touch on a few things in News You Can Use, including Beyonce, because why not? Donnie then leads us down our rollercoaster conversation concerning boundaries. Listen till the end because Corey has an announcement about the details of his new book, with pre-orders already starting this week. Enjoy the show! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/so-heres-the-thang/message

Duration:02:17:11

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A Memoir

3/6/2024
Welcome byke, ya'll! The SHTT crew has created an impactful episode we hope you'll enjoy. We start with announcements about changes to the show to lay the foundation for your listening ears in the new season of SHTT. We always say life is about swift and consistent transition, which often means change, so we're hopeful you'll enjoy growing with us this season. We introduced our first new segment, Wellness Check, which will focus on the healthy and challenging triggers we experienced during the day of our recording and how we navigated them to a positive outcome or new perspective. We also honored ourselves by sharing an affirmation we had for the day. Next, we dive into our staple News You Can Use with Donnie, where he walks us through news essential to us that would resonate with you or not. We have a new segment produced by Jasmine focused on women's issues. In It, she shares her heart concerning various women's chronicles from her experience and perspective. Finally, we walk our listeners through our current life's rollercoasters that have us spiraling. We also share where our lives are progressing and offer insightful information about our triumphs because celebration is always in order when we overcome something that threatens to overtake us. Enjoy the show! We're glad you're here! If you would like to submit questions or comments regarding this episode or be contacted about being a guest on the show, please email us at info@soheresthethangpod.com. Please leave us a rating or review. We would like to hear from you and appreciate your listening. ⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ Follow host Corey J on IG @corey_dj⁣ Follow Jasmine on IG @2jazzy⁣ Follow Donnie on IG @akuarian1 Follow us on IG @soheresthethang --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/so-heres-the-thang/message

Duration:01:56:38

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I Feel Like Oprah

12/22/2023
That's a wrap! Thank ya'll for another fantastic season. We appreciate you being a part of our community. In our season finale, we listened to Donnie's Honesty Hour responses and provided commentary alongside our perspectives. We also have some News You Can Use with colorful banter included. Donnie's book club information is below if you are reading along with us. Happy holidays in whatever way you celebrate, and we wish you a happy new year! Enjoy the show! The book is Boundaries by Dr. Henry Cloud & John Townsend. Where: Amazon, $17-22 dollars. If you would like to submit questions or comments regarding this episode or be contacted about being a guest on the show, please email us at info@soheresthethangpod.com. Please leave us a rating or review. We would like to hear from you and appreciate your listening. ⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ Follow host Corey J on IG @corey_dj⁣ Follow Jasmine on IG @2jazzy⁣ Follow Donnie on IG @akuarian1 Follow us on IG @soheresthethang --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/so-heres-the-thang/message

Duration:02:09:43

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Shacking Up

12/6/2023
We're byke with another "Happy Hour" episode for ya'll. We've been away for a minute, and baby my, how things have changed. We're discussing a new marriage, new relationships (aggressively single where), and community. We had so much SHTT to catch up on that we didn't get deep into News You Can Use; however, we definitely touched on a couple of polarizing news topics since we've been gone. Thanks for listening, and enjoy the show! If you would like to submit questions or comments regarding this episode or be contacted about being a guest on the show, please email us at info@soheresthethangpod.com. Please leave us a rating or review. We would like to hear from you and appreciate your listening. ⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ Follow host Corey J on IG @corey_dj⁣ Follow Jasmine on IG @2jazzy⁣ Follow Donnie on IG @akuarian1 Follow us on IG @soheresthethang --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/so-heres-the-thang/message

Duration:01:56:24

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Where's Foxy Brown

10/24/2023
This is an episode about nothing. We turned on the mics and started chit-chatting with liquor in our cups. It was a time. You should've been there, but you can listen in. Enjoy the show! Find our VIDEO episodes at patreon.com/SHTTPodcast. If you would like to submit questions or comments regarding this episode or be contacted about being a guest on the show, please email us at info@soheresthethangpod.com. Please leave us a rating or review. We would like to hear from you and appreciate your listening. ⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ Follow host Corey J on IG @corey_dj⁣ Follow Jasmine on IG @2jazzy⁣ Follow Donnie on IG @akuarian1 Follow us on IG @soheresthethang --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/so-heres-the-thang/message

Duration:01:48:25

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Call The Manufacturer

10/6/2023
Sometimes in life, you have to call the manufacturer and tune in for a depiction of that illustrated by Donnie. In this episode, we also discuss influencer and entertainment news you can use featuring RaeShanda and that wife. Additionally, we discuss SkeeYee Queen Sexyy Red via a conversation about aging. Finally, we dive head-first into our conversation about grief and the interconnectivity of self-compassion, relationships, and sex. There will be a part two to this conversation, so stay connected. Until then, enjoy the show! Find our VIDEO episodes at patreon.com/SHTTPodcast. If you would like to submit questions or comments regarding this episode or be contacted about being a guest on the show, please email us at info@soheresthethangpod.com. Please leave us a rating or review. We would like to hear from you and appreciate your listening. ⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ Follow host Corey J on IG @corey_dj⁣ Follow Jasmine on IG @2jazzy⁣ Follow Donnie on IG @akuarian1 Follow us on IG @soheresthethang --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/so-heres-the-thang/message

Duration:01:46:20

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Cotton Candy McFlurry

9/12/2023
Hey, ya'll! Welcome byke! We hop right in, catching up on what's been happening with us. We're all experiencing life via transitions, events, etc. We talk about Jasmine's relocation, and her adult son joins us! Donnie's moment of self-awareness via "going straight home" instead of what he agreed to, and Corey J's perspective on the journey to getting married while bringing two communities together that he and his partner created separately over the years. We also discuss dating and relationships from Jasmine's lens and have a thoughtful conversation about Tyrese's latest personal interview that we didn't ask for. If you are considering therapy or medication, stick around for this part of the show to receive recommendations. Enjoy the show and the music! Find our VIDEO episodes at patreon.com/SHTTPodcast. If you would like to submit questions or comments regarding this episode or be contacted about being a guest on the show, please email us at info@soheresthethangpod.com. Please leave us a rating or review. We would like to hear from you and appreciate your listening. ⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ Follow host Corey J on IG @corey_dj⁣ Follow Jasmine on IG @2jazzy⁣ Follow Donnie on IG @akuarian1 Follow us on IG @soheresthethang --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/so-heres-the-thang/message

Duration:01:49:51

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Uppercuts and Headlocks

8/16/2023
Welcome byke! We are celebrating the 50th anniversary of hip-hop, and it's providing the soundtrack for this episode. We catch up and talk about tons of music and a few eventful recent topics since we've been gone. Enjoy the show! Find our VIDEO episodes at patreon.com/SHTTPodcast. If you would like to submit questions or comments regarding this episode or be contacted about being a guest on the show, please email us at info@soheresthethangpod.com. Please leave us a rating or review. We would like to hear from you and appreciate your listening. ⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ Follow host Corey J on IG @corey_dj⁣ Follow Jasmine on IG @2jazzy⁣ Follow Donnie on IG @akuarian1 Follow us on IG @soheresthethang --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/so-heres-the-thang/message

Duration:01:53:47

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Pegging and Plugging

7/20/2023
Hey, Ya'll! It's our anniversary! We appreciate a fantastic three years of consistent listenership. We couldn't do it without you. *insert heart hand emoji* As far as this episode? It's an assortment in there...sex, mamas, travel, music, booty cheeks, pegs, cooch, food, booty licking, Jesus, all of the things! A conversation was had. Enjoy the show! Find our VIDEO episodes at patreon.com/SHTTPodcast. If you would like to submit questions or comments regarding this episode or be contacted about being a guest on the show, please email us at info@soheresthethangpod.com. Please leave us a rating or review. We would like to hear from you and appreciate your listening. ⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ Follow host Corey J on IG @corey_dj⁣ Follow Jasmine on IG @2jazzy⁣ Follow Donnie on IG @akuarian1 Follow us on IG @soheresthethang --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/so-heres-the-thang/message

Duration:01:50:15

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Tat Before I Tit

7/7/2023
So, we take it back to where it all started. The sexual liberation of the 1960s, as we address the attack on black women from other black women. Crazy right? Additionally, we finish our conversation on early relationship dynamics, and our crew catch up and news you can use. Enjoy the show! Find our VIDEO episodes at patreon.com/SHTTPodcast. If you would like to submit questions or comments regarding this episode or be contacted about being a guest on the show, please email us at info@soheresthethangpod.com. Please leave us a rating or review. We would like to hear from you and appreciate your listening. ⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ Follow host Corey J on IG @corey_dj⁣ Follow Jasmine on IG @2jazzy⁣ Follow Donnie on IG @akuarian1 Follow us on IG @soheresthethang --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/so-heres-the-thang/message

Duration:01:51:25

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Arthur's Fist

6/23/2023
In this episode, we discussed being in a polyamorous relationship and all the other SHTT we usually discuss. Enjoy the show! Find our VIDEO episodes at patreon.com/SHTTPodcast. If you would like to submit questions or comments regarding this episode or be contacted about being a guest on the show, please email us at info@soheresthethangpod.com. Please leave us a rating or review. We would like to hear from you and appreciate your listening. ⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ Follow host Corey J on IG @corey_dj⁣ Follow Jasmine on IG @2jazzy⁣ Follow Donnie on IG @akuarian1 Follow us on IG @soheresthethang --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/so-heres-the-thang/message

Duration:01:53:41

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Everybody Gets An Afro

6/8/2023
Welcome to summer! In this episode, we have an extensive conversation in our News You Can Use segment as we discuss what you'll discuss on the Twit. We have Donnie's honest hour question, and we reach into our nostalgia of experiencing summer growing up in different regions of the world. We round the episode with a spirited conversation about relationship attachment styles based on the academic theory of Nawal Mustafa, M.A., and X Atina Manvelian, Ph.D. Listen and discover why "Everybody Gets An Afro" and enjoy the show! Find our VIDEO episodes at patreon.com/SHTTPodcast. If you would like to submit questions or comments regarding this episode or be contacted about being a guest on the show, please email us at info@soheresthethangpod.com. Please leave us a rating or review. We would like to hear from you and appreciate your listening. ⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ Follow host Corey J on IG @corey_dj⁣ Follow Jasmine on IG @2jazzy⁣ Follow Donnie on IG @akuarian1 Follow us on IG @soheresthethang --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/so-heres-the-thang/message

Duration:01:47:18

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Get Your Gay Legs

5/23/2023
Welcome byke! So, in this episode, Donnie and Jasmine tussle the entire time, and Corey J goes off about the made-up concept of emasculation, all while we have a special guest and friend to the show, Anitra, present. It was a time! We had a lively conversation about the gay community mirroring heterosexual normalities in relationships that led down a rabbit hole of religious and internalized homophobia mess. Then we discussed relationships' rhythms and flows and how we show up. Enjoy the show! Find our VIDEO episodes at patreon.com/SHTTPodcast. If you would like to submit questions or comments regarding this episode or be contacted about being a guest on the show, please email us at info@soheresthethangpod.com. Please leave us a rating or review. We would like to hear from you and appreciate your listening. ⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ Follow host Corey J on IG @corey_dj⁣ Follow Jasmine on IG @2jazzy⁣ Follow Donnie on IG @akuarian1 Follow us on IG @soheresthethang --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/so-heres-the-thang/message

Duration:02:00:12

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A Tuck and Roll Off

5/12/2023
Honestly, it's complete chaos on the other side of the play button. The tequila was pouring, and the conversation was flowing. All of your favorite segments are there, including Donnie's Honesty Hour. Welcome back, and enjoy! Find our VIDEO episodes at patreon.com/SHTTPodcast. If you would like to submit questions or comments regarding this episode or be contacted about being a guest on the show, please email us at info@soheresthethangpod.com. Please leave us a rating or review. We would like to hear from you and appreciate your listening. ⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ Follow host Corey J on IG @corey_dj⁣ Follow Jasmine on IG @2jazzy⁣ Follow Donnie on IG @akuarian1 Follow us on IG @soheresthethang --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/so-heres-the-thang/message

Duration:01:52:57

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Fake Hurt

4/21/2023
In this episode, you are covered with the crew catch-up, news you can use, listener questions, and responses. Then we pick up where we left off last show by having a conversation asking if it is a red flag if a relationship is ALL work. Eventually, we arrived at an answer. Kinda. Corey J also announced his new venture, and you can check out the work he will be doing on his website haveconversation.com Find our VIDEO episodes at patreon.com/SHTTPodcast. If you would like to submit questions or comments regarding this episode or be contacted about being a guest on the show, please email us at info@soheresthethangpod.com. Please leave us a rating or review. We would like to hear from you and appreciate your listening. ⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ Follow host Corey J on IG @corey_dj⁣ Follow Jasmine on IG @2jazzy⁣ Follow Donnie on IG @akuarian1 Follow us on IG @soheresthethang --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/so-heres-the-thang/message

Duration:01:51:01

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Kitty Go Cat Cat

4/7/2023
Hey, ya'll! We are back with another eppy where we share our latest life updates and the listener's responses to Donnie's question, "What's hard about dating you?" While we did let ya'll have it a few times, we also share what is complex about dating each of us. Other than that, we're sitting around the table talking our SHTT per usual. Enjoy! Find our VIDEO episodes at patreon.com/SHTTPodcast. If you would like to submit questions or comments regarding this episode or be contacted about being a guest on the show, please email us at info@soheresthethangpod.com. Please leave us a rating or review. We would like to hear from you and appreciate your listening. ⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ Follow host Corey J on IG @corey_dj⁣ Follow Jasmine on IG @2jazzy⁣ Follow Donnie on IG @akuarian1 Follow us on IG @soheresthethang --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/so-heres-the-thang/message

Duration:01:44:28

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Vulnerability Is The Spice Of Life

3/10/2023
Ya'll still there?! We've made it byke! Welcome to season 4! Can ya'll tell how excited we are by the use of all these exclamations? The crew is back with a guest host from season 1, Sabrina (aka to Corey as Pal), and it's a wang dang doodle. There's an extended crew catch-up this episode, and then we get into a conversation on masculinity and feminity from our personal experiences. There's also some science related to being born of a man and a woman ( go figure) as it relates to those two traits, so we get into that as well. Enjoy the show! Find our VIDEO episodes at patreon.com/SHTTPodcast. If you would like to submit questions or comments regarding this episode or be contacted about being a guest on the show, or you would like to submit your own "So Here's The Thang," please email us at info@soheresthethangpod.com. We will read questions, comments, or your "So Here's The Thang" on our next episode. ⁣⁣⁣ ⁣ Please leave us a rating or review. We would like to hear from you and appreciate your listening. ⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ Follow host Corey J on IG @corey_dj⁣ Follow Jasmine on IG @2jazzy⁣ Follow Donnie on IG @akuarian1 Follow us on IG @soheresthethang --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/so-heres-the-thang/message

Duration:02:00:13

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Gary The Grape

12/29/2022
Shout out to everybody; we had a good time! Get into our last episode of 2022 with the crew digging into some News You Can Use where a pastor tells a woman to wait for a man who she claims to be her husband; however, the man is in a whole relationship. Whole. Also, the Monopoly board game has come to kill, steal and destroy, and we'll explain more inside the episode. We recap our top 2022 episodes and revisit some of our funniest moments. A delight. Anyway, get in there and enjoy! We'll see you on the other side of 2023. Love ya'll! Find our VIDEO episodes at patreon.com/SHTTPodcast. If you would like to submit questions or comments regarding this episode or be contacted about being a guest on the show, or you would like to submit your own "So Here's The Thang," please email us at info@soheresthethangpod.com. We will read questions, comments, or your "So Here's The Thang" on our next episode. ⁣⁣⁣ ⁣ Please leave us a rating or review. We would like to hear from you and appreciate your listening. ⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ Follow host Corey J on IG @corey_dj⁣ Follow Jasmine on IG @2jazzy⁣ Follow Donnie on IG @akuarian1 Follow us on IG @soheresthethang --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/so-heres-the-thang/message

Duration:01:52:54

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Thanos Stones

12/15/2022
What's this episode about, you ask? Sex, drugs, lies, and vulnerability. Enjoy the show! Find our VIDEO episodes at patreon.com/SHTTPodcast If you would like to submit questions or comments regarding this episode or be contacted about being a guest on the show, or you would like to submit your own "So Here's The Thang," please email us at info@soheresthethangpod.com. We will read questions, comments, or your "So Here's The Thang" on our next episode. ⁣⁣⁣ ⁣ Please leave us a rating or review. We would like to hear from you and appreciate your listening. ⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ Follow host Corey J on IG @corey_dj⁣ Follow Jasmine on IG @2jazzy⁣ Follow Donnie on IG @akuarian1 Follow us on IG @soheresthethang --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/so-heres-the-thang/message

Duration:01:44:39

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An Assortment

11/23/2022
Hey, ya'll! If you like a splash of News, You Can Use mixed with a deep dive into relationship dynamics in the course of dating, then listen. We hope you all enjoy a great Thanksgiving with your friends and families. Find our VIDEO episodes at patreon.com/SHTTPodcast If you would like to submit questions or comments regarding this episode or be contacted about being a guest on the show, or you would like to submit your own "So Here's The Thang," please email us at info@soheresthethangpod.com. We will read questions, comments, or your "So Here's The Thang" on our next episode. ⁣⁣⁣ ⁣ Please leave us a rating or review. We would like to hear from you and appreciate your listening. ⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ Follow host Corey J on IG @corey_dj⁣ Follow Jasmine on IG @2jazzy⁣ Follow Donnie on IG @akuarian1 Follow us on IG @soheresthethang --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/so-heres-the-thang/message

Duration:01:55:28