Keith and Raven Beyond The Altar

In this episode, we delve into the profound effects of pornography on marriages. Uncovering scientific insights alongside our personal experiences, we explore the impact of pornography within our own marriage and how it affects one's partner. This episode is inspired by a recent query from a follower who sought advice on navigating the significant influence of pornography on her partner. We invite you to listen in, engage with our discussions, and hopefully, gain valuable insights from this episode.

Join us on the latest episode where we tackle the tempting yet treacherous concept of a 'hall pass' in the aftermath of infidelity. We unpack why this seemingly easy 'eye for an eye' approach is a recipe for disaster and how it can complicate and potentially derail the already challenging path to recovery. When it comes to betrayal in a relationship, the crossroads should lead to two clear paths: to leave or to work it out. Transforming a monogamous commitment into an open relationship as a response to cheating only leads to more pain. Tune in as we explore the importance of choosing healing over revenge in the journey to true reconciliation.

In this empowering episode, we delve deep into the complex and emotional journey of recovery after infidelity. Recognizing that healing is possible with open and honest communication, we provide listeners with insights, strategies, and heartfelt advice to rebuild trust and strengthen relationships. Whether you’re looking to mend your relationship or simply seeking understanding and closure, this episode offers a safe space for reflection, learning, and finding the courage to move forward. Join us as we explore how embracing honesty and open dialogue can pave the way for reconciliation, personal growth, and a stronger bond than ever before.

In this thought-provoking episode of our podcast, we delve deep into the complex and emotionally charged topic of infidelity, exploring it from every angle and offering a balanced perspective from both the individual who cheated and the one who was hurt. Our conversation is raw and honest, aiming to provide listeners with a nuanced understanding of the emotions, thought processes, and aftermath of infidelity.

come join in our our beautiful christ filled conversation with Mrs.Da'Naia Jackson Da'Naia is the wife of Derrick Jackson, this couple has overcome infidelity with Christ completely at the center! we are truly honored that she gave us a yes to be featured on this podcast to help encourage and uplift you all in the name of Jesus! please follow Mrs. Jackson on IG as her entire page is filled with faith and JESUS!!

we are sharing our story in decency hopeful that many will have a new perspective on their journey of healing after infidelity. we are very protective over our family and respectfully not giving any descriptive details. God bless you guys!!

This episode is sharing how both parties have to come to a place of forgiveness towards themselves! we are simply sharing our experience in hopes to give you a better insight and idea on how to go about forgiving yourself! we only answered 2 questions because of how late we recorded but we will get to more on the next episode!

This episode dives deep into rebuilding your sex life after infidelity. there will be a part 2 so be sure to send in your questions and even topics on what you want us to speak on! send those directly to our inbox on our social media pages! or leave a comment!

This is part 1 of 2 we are so excited to be back and speaking about the hard stuff no one wants to talk about. We hope this message helps shed light on the hurt and pain pornography can cause a relationship, we always try to come from a biblical stand point as well as sharing our own personal experiences and opinions. God bless you guys we have more on the way! please follow us both on instagram And Youtube @_hartwellfit @raventhomashartwell Keith And Raven Beyond The Altar https://youtu.be/kicgxs8WFcU

In this episode we discuss the silent treatment! leave us feedback!

*THIS IS NOT FOR ANYONE WHO IS IN AN ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP* This episode is specifically for couples who are working towards a healthier communication and relationship this episode is intended to point out that using sex as leverage is completely wrong and very manipulative sex is service to one another in marriage that is what we believe God created it for. We Do not support any form of abuse whatsoever we are simply describing what we have learned being married to one another under God we hope that you guys enjoy this episode and we look forward to speaking again thank you.

In this episode we discuss SEX after infidelity if trying to rebuild .. we also discuss in detail the reason sex should be looked at as a selfless service to one another and it has to be selfless when rebuilding together.. sex is practice in be coming one again and we tell in detail how we felt at the time of our rebuilding process we hope this helps please feel free to reach out to us VIA IG (Instagram) Follow Us Keith: @1df_hvrtwellfit Raven:@raventhomashartwell

This Episode we discuss Changing Everything after infidelity if trying to rebuild .. we also discuss in detail the reason we say 50/50 in a relationship! if trying to rebuild after infidelity it is important to remember you have rededicated your marriage back to Christ so the changes not only need to go towards each other but HIM! we tell in detail how we strayed and some tips on how we changed everything and started anew we hope this helps please feel free to reach out to us VIA IG (Instagram) Follow Us Keith: @1df_hvrtwellfit Raven:@raventhomashartwell

This Episode we discuss about communication after infidelity .. its not always easy communication after you are trying to rebuild.. its literally tearing down and building back up.. but its a team effort and requires both to participate and give 50/50.. and the reason we say 50 is because the other 50 belongs to God.. and in this time of rebuilding you dont know how to give 100% without him.. he belongs in your rebuilding process and holds the blueprint.. gives the instructions and always helps with understanding one another. we hope this helps please feel free to reach out to us VIA IG (Instagram) Follow Us Keith: @1df_hvrtwellfit Raven:@raventhomashartwell

This episode discusses accountability in marriage and or relationships we are in no way stating that if someone cheats the one who was cheated on has to take accountability for what the cheater did. this episode discusses humbling yourself to see if there was something that could have been changed or fixed and even avoided ..This episode Is for couples who are looking to work it out together and have hope and trust God to restore them their relationship and their trust for one another. relationships take humbling especially in marriage and in Gods eyes we are looked at as one with our spouse... we hope that you guys enjoy this episode and we hope It helps in someway shape or form! Follow Us on IG Keith: @1df_hvrtwellfit Raven:@raventhomashartwell

This is for couples you need the help and guidance while facing life after infidelity. THERE IS NO JUSTIFICATION FOR CHEATING.. we are only explaining where our minds were at the time and how it affected our marriage.. we learned and it took a while for us to get to the place we are now but with all that we've been through we are hopeful that our experience helps lessen and strengthen your healing process. Follow us on Instagram Keiths IG: @1DF_Hvrtwellfit Ravens IG: @RavenThomasHartwell

This is for couples who are still together and are looking for healing. There is no justification for cheating, and we want everyone to know that, but for those who are working through infidelity we are here to help. We both understand and want to stress that it is only through Christ that you both will make it to that place of peace from such a tormenting place. Forgiveness is necessary to move forward in the relationship and in life. It is a process that tears down many different areas for the victim and to progress together tough decisions have to be made and hard questions answered. Follow us further on instagram and tiktok Keiths IG: 1DF_Hvrtwellfit Tiktok:_Hvrtwellfit Ravens IG: Raventhomashartwell Tiktok:Ravenhartwell6