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Diem is like chat gpt, meets reddit, meets your cherished group chat In this episode, we delve into the fascinating world of "Diem," a one-of-a-kind social search engine created by the Emma Bates. "Diem" is a platform like no other, tailored for women, providing a space to access and share knowledge inspired by women's traditions and experiences. Imagine it as a blend of Reddit, your cherished group chat, and Chat GPT, offering a fresh and innovative space for candid discussions. Here, topics range from friendships to birth control, toxic masculinity, harassment, chronic pain, big career moves, captivating books, and easy recipes. Our conversation with Emma kicks off by exploring the essence of "Diem" and the critical mission it serves—closing the gender information gap. We then dive into what makes "Diem" truly stand out, including its unique integration of AI through a feminine lens and the incorporation of real-life anecdotes from the community to enrich AI-generated responses. Emma passionately explains why it's essential to address taboo topics and how community members play a pivotal role in shaping the platform's growth and intelligence. As our discussion unfolds, we also touch on the impact "Diem" has already made and Emma's inspiring vision for its ongoing social influence. To conclude, Emma extends a warm invitation to our listeners, encouraging them to engage with and support the empowering mission of "Diem." Join us for a captivating exploration of this transformative platform and its dedication to the empowerment of women and non-binary individuals. Hosted by: Sesana Allen and Bri Springs Produced by: YBWC Follow Us: Instagram Twitter LinkedIn TikTok

Iman Hariri-Kia is a writer, editor, and author born and based in New York City. An award-winning journalist, she covers sex, relationships, identity, and adolescence. Her work has appeared in Vogue, NY Mag’s The Cut, Harper’s Bazaar, Allure, Cosmopolitan, Teen Vogue, and more. Her debut novel, A Hundred Other Girls, was published in July 2022 to critical acclaim. Her sophomore novel, The Most Famous Girl In The World, will be published in May 2024. First we explore Iman's journey to self-acceptance as an Iranian-American, her insights into societal pressures, and the complex interplay between Western ideals and cultural identity. In part two, we delve into Iman's experiences living in Iran, her observations of the struggle for gender equality and human rights, and her stories of resilience from women who escaped domestic abuse. Part three uncovers Iman's transition to becoming a novelist, and how her real-life experiences shaped her debut work, "A Hundred Other Girls," focusing on themes of sisterhood and the evolving media landscape. Hosted by: Sesana Allen and Bri Springs Produced by: YBWC Follow Us: Instagram Twitter LinkedIn TikTok

In this episode, Bri and Sesana open up about their guilty pleasures and why we sometimes enjoy doing things others might frown upon. They delve into embracing those secret indulgences that make us feel good. Whether it be trashy reality TV, going goblin mode, or playing board games, it’s important that we let ourselves indulge in the things we love. Tune in as they share their personal experiences and discuss the liberating feeling of unapologetically enjoying life's little pleasures. Hosted by: Sesana Allen and Bri Springs Produced by: YBWC Follow Us: Instagram Twitter LinkedIn TikTok

Join Bri and Sesana, as they delve deep into the world of Black hair, its cultural significance, and its impact on both the macro and micro levels of society. In this episode, Bri and Sesana explore the historical roots of the desire for straight hair among Black women, a desire that traces its origins back to the dark days of slavery. Unraveling the complex threads of history, they shed light on how this longing for straight hair has been intertwined with issues of identity, self-esteem, and societal standards. Bri and Sesana also share their personal journeys and experiences with embracing their natural hair textures. Tune in for an enlightening conversation on the significance of hair in our lives. Inspired by Angelina Chapin's "The Cost of Straight Hair." Hosted by: Sesana Allen and Bri Springs Produced by: YBWC Follow Us: Instagram Twitter LinkedIn TikTok

In this episode, Bri and Sesana delve into the concept of being an "it girl." They explore whether it entails participating in the latest TikTok and beauty trends (picture blueberry-glazed donut makeup and chocolate buttercream hair, for instance) or if it's a quality that originates from within. Tune in as Bri and Sesana discuss their journeys towards increased self-confidence, reducing feelings of victimhood, and embracing a more adventurous approach to life. Hosted by: Sesana Allen and Bri Springs Produced by: YBWC Follow Us: Instagram Twitter LinkedIn TikTok

This episode originally aired in December of 2022. This week, we dig deeper in Part Two of our interview with Serena Pitt. From growing up in an interracial household, to navigating social media as a part of a public relationship, Serena pulls back the curtain on what her relationship is like with Joe today and what their plans are for the future. Hosted by: Sesana Allen and Bri Springs Produced by: YBWC Follow Us: Instagram Twitter LinkedIn TikTok

This episode originally aired in December of 2022. Serena Pitt is a TV personality known for her appearance on Season 25 of the Bachelor and season 7 of Bachelor in Paradise. Originally from Toronto, Canada, she went on the Bachelor in search of love and ended up getting engaged at the end of her time on Bachelor in Paradise. Outside of the Bachelor franchise, she currently works as a fashion and lifestyle influencer and has a passion for building connections between people and brands. Serena gives us an intimate look into her recent move to New York as well as the ups and downs with her new husband, Joe Amabile. Hosted by: Sesana Allen and Bri Springs Produced by: YBWC Follow Us: Instagram Twitter LinkedIn TikTok

Bri and Sesana go in depth on their career histories and trajectory. Bri talks about how she navigated from working in large tech to a startup and now PR. Sesana discusses her career switch from consulting to Venture Capital. If you want to switch jobs, network with better ease, or are just nosy about our 9 to 5s, tune in! Hosted by: Sesana Allen and Bri Springs Produced by: YBWC Follow Us: Instagram Twitter LinkedIn TikTok

Cedoni Francis is a full-time creator and former Googler. Her layoff at Google catapulted her into full-time content creator. Born and raised in Brooklyn, Cedoni attended Vanderbilt University where she majored in Political Science. This has made her well-equipped to discuss varying cultural phenomena on her TikTok from her chin liposuction and IUD insertion to investing and applying for her MBA. Join us for an electrifying conversation as Cedoni shares her secrets on staying poised, even in the face of a recession. Hosted by: Sesana Allen and Bri Springs Produced by: YBWC Follow Us: Instagram Twitter LinkedIn TikTok

This week Bri and Sesana discuss their personal views on how to be okay with being alone. Hosted by: Sesana Allen and Bri Springs Produced by: YBWC Follow Us: Instagram Twitter LinkedIn TikTok

By day Kiana Brooks works as a luxury buyer. And by night she’s getting personal on her Tik Tok – from her journey to “un-big her back” to chronicling *that* Tarte influencer trip. Listen to this week’s episode as Bri and Sesana sit down to chat with her about the latest fashion trends on TikTok, navigating the fashion industry, and sharing your deepest darkest secrets. Hosted by: Sesana Allen and Bri Springs Produced by: YBWC Follow Us: Instagram Twitter LinkedIn TikTok

What would it look like to completely bet on yourself? Sesana and Bri have the pleasure of sitting down with attorney and beauty creator, Eni Popoola. After recently announcing she was pressing pause on her big law career, Eni opens up about the moments that led up to her big career transition, and how she’s putting 100% into her next endeavor. You can follow Eni on Instagram and TikTok @Enigivensunday. Hosted by: Sesana Allen and Bri Springs Produced by: YBWC Follow Us: Instagram Twitter LinkedIn TikTok

In this episode, Sesana and Bri deep-dive into the joys of therapy and boundary setting. They discuss how healthy boundaries have saved their relationships, as well as the line between healthy boundaries and controlling behavior (cough cough, Jonah Hill). Additionally, they explore the challenges of over-intellectualizing your emotions and emphasize why you shouldn't take (all your) advice from relationship podcasters. Hosted by: Sesana Allen and Bri Springs Produced by: YBWC Follow Us: Instagram Twitter LinkedIn TikTok

We missed you! After a couple months hiatus, Bri and Sesana are back for Season 3. Remember the phrase "You'll understand when you get older"... ? Bri and Ses used to hate hearing that phrase, but finally they get it. Get the full-rundown of their past couple months of life: birthdays, dating, jobs changes, summer plans, more! Hosted by: Sesana Allen and Bri Springs Produced by: YBWC Follow Us: Instagram Twitter LinkedIn TikTok

This week, on a solo episode, Ses and Bri dive into your questions about life, love and careers. From making big moves across the country to taking risks in your dating life, Ses and Bri are here to offer guidance. Hosted by: Sesana Allen and Bri Springs Produced by: YBWC Follow Us: Instagram Twitter LinkedIn TikTok

This week, Ses is joined by TV personality, Alysse Joyner. Alysse made her first TV appearance on MTV's "Double Shot at Love" where she dated Jersey Shore's Vinny Guadagnino. Since her time on the show, Alysse has built out her social media and joined Only Fans. Hosted by: Sesana Allen and Bri Springs Produced by: YBWC Follow Us: Instagram Twitter LinkedIn TikTok

It is time for a life update with Ses and Bri! This week the two sit down to talk about the jobs market, the benefits of going into the office and more. Plus, they give a recap of the SZA concert. Hosted by: Sesana Allen and Bri Springs Produced by: YBWC Follow Us: Instagram Twitter LinkedIn TikTok

This week, Ses and Bri are joined by Zach Shucklin— a porn writer, producer, and host. He is a writer and host for Vice and Paper magazine. He is also a porn writer for Brazzers, the number one pay porn site in America. Though he identifies as gay, he writes primarily straight and lesbian porn. Hosted by: Sesana Allen and Bri Springs Produced by: YBWC Follow Us: Instagram Twitter LinkedIn TikTok

This week Bri and Sesana sit down with Arewa Basit-- an influencer, performer, and ambassador for self-expression. In 2019, Arewa appeared on MTV's queer season of "Are You the One.” Arewa grew up in a conservative, Nigerian household where they weren’t able to fully explore their sexuality and gender expression until they left the household. Arewa identifies as non-binary and uses they/them pronouns. Hosted by: Sesana Allen and Bri Springs Produced by: YBWC Follow Us: Instagram Twitter LinkedIn TikTok

This week we're honoring Black History Month with a special solo episode. Ses and Bri reveal some of their experiences growing up Black in America and South Africa. Plus, they celebrate Black wins and show off their BHM registries. Hosted by: Sesana Allen and Bri Springs Produced by: YBWC Follow Us: Instagram Twitter LinkedIn TikTok