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Everyone is talking about sex...except for Christians. And if they do, it's some version of "sex is for marriage", sex creates "soul ties" or... the progressive church who talks about sex for married people, pretty much has some underlying version of "sex is for your husband." ...Which is not only problematic, but doesn't help you actually wait or know what to do when you are married. So it's time to flip the script. Because who created sex? God. And it's time we take it back for the kingdom.

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Everyone is talking about sex...except for Christians. And if they do, it's some version of "sex is for marriage", sex creates "soul ties" or... the progressive church who talks about sex for married people, pretty much has some underlying version of "sex is for your husband." ...Which is not only problematic, but doesn't help you actually wait or know what to do when you are married. So it's time to flip the script. Because who created sex? God. And it's time we take it back for the kingdom.

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Episodes
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Bussin It Pt. 2

5/25/2023
Hey Freaky Friend Fam! We got dragged a bit in our review section about this season's opener - "Ep 74 Is Bussin It Before Marriage A Sin Fr Fr?" We wanted to share our raw thoughts, pick up where we left off, and continue the conversation. Come listen in as we share our hearts with yall.

Duration:00:40:06

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Ep 80 - A Mother's Day Special

5/11/2023
Our 80th episode is a real candid conversation about relationships with sex as parents. We brought back a favorite guest for this one - Jamika Carter from the Prayer Plug and MillMom Podcast. Get into girl talk with us!

Duration:01:09:04

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Ep 79 - Can I Masturbate?

4/28/2023
I mean... the topic is in the title. Lol. IF this topic is discussed in the church, it's debated on both ends of the spectrum. We discuss how our thoughts have evolved on the topic. Listen in and join in on the coversation!

Duration:00:51:07

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Ep 78 - Is Accountability Biblical

4/13/2023
We're continuing this season doing what we've been doing - challenging the norm! We've all heard about "accountability" in the church, especially in terms of sexuality. But is this even biblical? Are we supposed to each other accountable or participate in mind your business ministries? We discuss! Listen in and join in the conversation. Engage with us on IG @goingnottoodeeppodcast.

Duration:00:55:29

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Ep 77 - Do Men Really NEED Sex?

3/29/2023
If you've grown up in church, you've likely heard this: "Men NEED sex." But do they really though? Like, what does this even mean? How is this a thing? Where did this even come from? Join us as we discuss!

Duration:00:42:19

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Ep 76 - Wild Thoughts

3/20/2023
Have you ever had a wild, crazy, and just inappropriate sexual thought? Be honest. It's ok. We won't judge. Well, we have. We share ours and how to navigate these as a Christian woman. Listen in.

Duration:00:38:38

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Ep 75 - Kingdom Sex

3/5/2023
With so many new podcasts out there, this new season is the perfect time to reflect.... Why a Christian sex podcast? This episode we break down the true purpose behind GNTD podcast - taking sex back for the Kingdom and what that truly means. Check it out!

Duration:00:36:55

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Ep 74 - Is Bussin It Before Marriage A Sin FrFr?

2/15/2023
We're back, Freaky Friends! We're so grateful for the time we had to get rest and handle life. We got some major life updates for y'all. And in true, GNTD fashion, we got a hot topic right off jump. Purity culture preaches that sex before marriage is a sin. Is that bible though? Like is it REALLY a sin?? We got part 1 discussing our thoughts. Welcome back and dive in with us!

Duration:00:46:59

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Ep 73 - P***y Talks (Anatomy with Kavya)

6/22/2022
Hi Freaky Friends! Can you believe it's the season 5 finale already?! Don't worry, we're leaving you with a banger! We've been wanting to do this episode for a while. You can't have a Womanhood series without learning about the woman's body! Enter Kavya Davuluri - MD/MBA student at the University of Michigan training to be an ObGyn. She breaks down all we need to know about the female reproductive system and breaks down the most common vagina myths. So, grab your headphones and mirror (yes, your mirror) and get into it!

Duration:00:58:25

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Ep 72 - Pregnant P

5/25/2022
Hey Freaky Friends! With soon-to-be 5 kids between the two of us, we know a little something about being pregnant. But, you know what's not talked about enough? Doing the thing that got you pregnant while pregnant! That's right. Pregnant P***y. Pregnant sex. We got all the info, tips, and juicy details (no pun intended) on it. Tap in to hear more and share with a pregnant or want-to-be pregnant friend!

Duration:00:41:39

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Ep 71 - A Lesson in Sexual Ethic

5/11/2022
Guess who's back, Freaky Friends! Ever wondered how far is too far sexually? Or how many times do you need to try something before getting more comfortable with exploring new sexual things? Or why your spouse might love something sexually that you're just not that into? We brought back guest favorite - Certified Sex Therapist De-Andrea Blaylock-Johnson to help us answer those questions. The last time when she was on, she mentioned sexual ethics. This time, she got real and answered all our questions about it. Tap into Episode 71 to hear all about it!

Duration:00:58:44

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Ep 70 - Intersectionality and Submission

4/27/2022
Hi Freaky Friends! We're back in our Womanhood series, and this episode is one we can all relate to. Who hasn't heard about submission as a woman? Well, we're sharing our thoughts on it as well as how it connects to the intersectionality of black, woman, and sexuality. Some great think pieces in this one forsure! Tap in to listen!

Duration:00:56:58

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Ep 69 - Sixty-Nine

4/12/2022
Freaky Friends... You know what it is! We made it to episode 69, so you know we had to do something special to celebrate. We have licensed, credentialed sexpert Goody Howard on with us to answer some of our most asked questions about all things oral. This is a don't miss episode with some free gems guaranteed to have you enjoying pleasure in ways you wouldn't expect. Get into it and listen!

Duration:00:59:25

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Ep 68 - The Talk...But Make It Like God Tho

3/30/2022
Welcome back Freaky Friends! We're in our Women's Series and this week, it's all about the sex talk. As women, a lot of what we hear and learn a lot about sex that shapes our sexuality our entire lives. But how does God handle this type of convo with us? I'm sure it's very different from the talk our parents (if we even had one!). Get into this latest drop as we dive into the talk... but make it like God tho!

Duration:00:59:04

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Ep 67 - Prov. 31: Who Can Find a Sexual Woman?

3/16/2022
We've all heard of the virtuous qualities of the woman in Proverbs 31. But is a Proverbs 31 woman sexual? We've NEVER heard that narrative preached before, but we have some thoughts... Tap in as we dive into another week of our Womanhood series.

Duration:00:59:24

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Ep 66 - I AM WOMAN

3/2/2022
Welcome back, Freaky Friends! This is for the ladiessss....... This season is all about womanhood. So, we're kicking off this series talking about our journey as women in regards to our sexuality and the intersectionality that intertwines it all. Y'all, it's a good season and a good episode. Get into it!

Duration:01:01:01

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Szn 5 - The Evolution

2/16/2022
We're baccckkkkk!!!!! Can you believe we're in the 5th season?! Some things have changed since we first launched. So, we're kicking off Season 5 with some real talk about sexual evolution. Tap in to check it out!

Duration:00:57:12

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Ep 64 - Peace on Earth: A Freaky Friend Christmas

12/22/2021
It's the most wonderful time of the year.... and the last episode of 2021! Freaky Friends, thank y'all for rocking with us through a rocky 2021. We made it THO! So, we're gonna close out the last episode of the year with another edition of the Undefiled Series: Peace on Earth. We know the holiday times can be full of joy, but not always void of stress. What's the best way to handle conflict around the holidays? How do you make sure you and your boo stay "TEAM US"? How do you and your spouse stay getting freaky in a house full of people? Tap in to listen to our thoughts on all this and more! Resources mentioned: yandy.com, Ultimate Intimacy App

Duration:00:45:05

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Ep 63 - How Far is Too Far

12/8/2021
In our Undefiled marriage series, we're talked a lot about sex-ploration. But in our journey, it's normal to wonder.... how far is too far? If you've wondered about boundaries to set or find yourself in too deep with your spouse, check out this great episode with our girl Kim Miller from the Hey, Girl Hey podcast! It's a must listen! Get into it!

Duration:00:52:05

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Ep 62 - Sex and the Super Mom

11/24/2021
A mom? A wife? A Christian? An influencer/marriage social media specialist? A full time lawyer? A woman? Doing it all isn't easy. But doing it all and still being intentional with sex with your husband? Our girl, Lachauna (IG: @mrsmommyesquire), wears all these hats, and comes through and gives us the tips she's learned through her marriage journey that makes her the expert at Sex as a Supermom! If you have any of these titles, this latest episode is a must hear! Tap in to check it out!

Duration:01:02:06