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2 Girls, A Pod, Hosts and some Guests. With different personalities and walks of life. Be prepared to have interesting and engaging discussions addressing various issues led by these young educated women. Listen to them rant, joke, and call out uncensored problematic topics. Do you know what a tampon tax is? If dating your friend's Ex is Ok? Why you can't leave that toxic relationship?? or Why being Black at work is a whole ass struggle?!! Press play and learn something new! There are many steps to fixing a problem. First step is admitting one exists.

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2 Girls, A Pod, Hosts and some Guests. With different personalities and walks of life. Be prepared to have interesting and engaging discussions addressing various issues led by these young educated women. Listen to them rant, joke, and call out uncensored problematic topics. Do you know what a tampon tax is? If dating your friend's Ex is Ok? Why you can't leave that toxic relationship?? or Why being Black at work is a whole ass struggle?!! Press play and learn something new! There are many steps to fixing a problem. First step is admitting one exists.

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English


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Problem #72: The masculinization of Black Women

12/21/2022
Five Black women and girls were killed every day in the United States in 2020, as a national increase in gun violence during the pandemic took a heavy toll on some of the country’s most vulnerable people. In all 1,821 Black women and girls were killed in 2020. That was an additional 461 women and girls who were murdered in 2020 compared with 2019 – more than one additional killing a day. Black women and girls in the US are four times more likely to die by violence than white or Hispanic...

Duration:00:28:24

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Problem #71: ROE vs. WADE a minute!

12/7/2022
Roe v. Wade, (1973), was a landmark decision of the U.S. Supreme Court in which the Court ruled that the Constitution of the United States approved the right to have an abortion. The decision struck down many federal and state abortion laws, and fueled an ongoing abortion debate in the United States about whether, or to what extent, abortion should be legal, who should decide the legality of abortion, and what the role of moral and religious views in the political sphere should be....

Duration:00:29:28

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Problem #70: You are Fatphobic.

11/23/2022
Fatphobia is the fear and hatred of fat bodies. “That encompasses a whole bunch of things, namely weight bias and weight stigma, such as the idea we see people of higher body weight as lazy, and unintelligent, or disgusting.” The harmful effects of fatphobia are a constant for people in larger bodies. “It is more intense against women,” and most of the data on the subject is based on the male/female binary. We are more likely to see positive examples of high-weight men than women in the...

Duration:00:37:15

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Problem #69: You Porn Addict!

11/9/2022
Pornography (the good, the bad, the ugly): is the representation of the human body form or human sexual behavior with the goal of sexual arousal.... the portrayal of sexual subject matter for the exclusive purpose of sexual arousal. A 2011 study found that couples who watch porn together felt more committed and sexually satisfied than couples where one partner watched it alone. Listen to the pros, cons and taboos of the porn industry and let us know where you stand. Are you an addict, a...

Duration:00:30:11

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H2H Mini Series: Millennials Turning 30!

9/21/2022
H2H: Heart 2 Heart Mini Series Turning 30 is often built up to be a huge landmark. The first big celebration after our ‘coming of age’ (after 18), it can be seen as a marker of how much we’ve achieved in young adulthood. For women especially, it has historically been the point at which we’re pressured to feel it 'all coming together', as that biological clock starts to tick even louder. It’s an age of ambition, promise, achievement and expectation all rolled into one. Do you feel the...

Duration:00:23:33

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UPDATE: WE ARE BACK!!

9/7/2022
WELCOME BACK TO 'I GOT PROBLEMS!!' We were MIA for a while, but not forever. Now we got our sh*t together and are back in ACTION! Take a listen to our adulting life updates and prepare for the upcoming topics that will certainly be shaking a few tables. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/igotproblems/message

Duration:00:06:11

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Problem #68: The mocking of Black women [Comedian Ed.]

12/25/2021
In the recent years of Instagram and the contemporary art of stand up, there is a distinct use of black women as the the subject and sometimes foundation of comedy for male comedians. These jokes are not simply jokes, but are loaded with political repercussions and continue to position women as jokes themselves, as less serious, as less of a full human. The jokes are not about the characteristics of black women, black women are the joke. Resources: How to support BLM:...

Duration:00:47:35

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Problem #67: Tall or Short? Big or Small? [Phenotypes] Feat Jesse

11/24/2021
In humans, phenotype examples include earwax type, height, blood type, eye color, freckles, and hair color. And phenotypes aren't just physical traits. Behavior is also considered a phenotype. Research shows that: Although physical attraction is important to young men, with 40% of them considering it ‘essential’ that their partner be ‘good-looking,’ only 18% of men ages 18-25 consider it “essential” that their long-term partner is ‘slender’. The bottom line is that some people care about...

Duration:00:54:35

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Problem #66: Scorpio vs Sagittarius season

11/17/2021
An Ode to Scorpios. It's Scorpio season and Sagittarius season follows immediately after. Let us break down the comparisons and differences between both signs and what makes them both so lovable and problematic. Resources: How to support BLM: https://builtin.com/diversity-inclusion/companies-that-support-black-lives-matter-social-justice Therapy Sources: Primary Care Physician, Employee assistance programs and therapyforblackgirls.com Self defense: https://beyonddefense.net OTHER...

Duration:00:44:27

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*Pilot* H2H Mini Series: 'Second-hand invites'

11/4/2021
Welcome to our pilot mini series called: Heart 2 Heart! Where we discuss short 15 minute or less personal stories and experiences with problematic issues we have encountered that are very relatable. Please take the poll and answer the questions to get engaged with us. We welcome your opinions and would love to know if these mini series should remain part of our circulation. Take your dog for a quick walk, a quick run to the store or ride to your friend's house listening to this short 'Heart...

Duration:00:12:26

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Problem #65: Problematic Rap and HipHop (BBL Me Baby)

10/29/2021
In an article titled: Brazilian butt lift - behind the world's most dangerous cosmetic surgery, it has been reported that- Since 2015, the number of butt lifts performed globally has grown by 77.6%, according to a recent survey by the International Society of Aesthetic Plastic Surgery. It is the fastest-growing cosmetic surgery in the world. The "slim thick" description is similar to the "Thicc" and "Bootylicious" body descriptions, which refer to a curvaceous body figure with a bigger...

Duration:00:36:12

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Problem #64: That 'Will and Jada Love' Feat. Tai

10/20/2021
Nowadays, people expect their spouses to be their soulmates—the one and only person who will fulfill all their emotional needs. While the soulmate marriage may be a noble ideal to strive for, most of us find it impossible to live up to such high expectations. When we fail to meet our spouse’s needs or don’t get ours met, we despair that our marriage isn’t as good as it’s supposed to be. Infidelity is a leading cause of divorce and one of the most common reasons why couples seek counseling....

Duration:00:39:06

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Problem #63: Have you dealt with a Narcissist?

10/14/2021
A disorder in which a person has an inflated sense of self-importance. Narcissistic personality disorder is found more commonly in men. The cause is unknown but likely involves a combination of genetic and environmental factors. About 1% of the population suffers from it (and for some reason I happen to run into all of them). Symptoms include: grandiosity, callous and unemotional traits, disregard for others' feelings, excessive need for admiration, or social isolation. Resources: How to...

Duration:00:28:21

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Problem #62: Token Black Girl Feat. Nesha

9/29/2021
The 'token black girl' is a concept with which we’re depressingly all too familiar, and have been for too long now. We are often the representative woman of colour. With that has often come an underlying expectation to be 'the black one' – to live the sassy, loud, eye-rolling, punchline-delivering, surface level stereotypes afforded to the black women we see in the white TV and film world. We understand that the consequence of messing it up is messing it up for everyone who looks like us in...

Duration:00:49:48

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Problem #61: Stop Hurting Black Women!

9/23/2021
Black femicide: @blackfemicideus @blackfemicideamerica CDC states: Black women experience highest rates of homicide of any racial group in the United States. The overall homicide rate for women was 2 per 100,000 women. When researchers reviewed the statistics for Black women, the homicide rate increased to 4.4 per 100,000 women. African-American women are less likely to contact domestic violence service providers or call police when they’re abused, thus increasing their risk of being...

Duration:00:34:43

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Problem #60: Unrequited love and friendships

9/1/2021
It is a one-sided experience that can leave us feeling pain, grief, and shame. You may think it would be easy to tell if love is unrequited but it isn't always clear and can cause a lot of confusion and emotional turmoil. It can feel like you’re always trying to prove yourself to them. And it feels like you’re never winning. Deep down in your heart, you know you’re trying too hard to love or be friends with someone who doesn’t care to reciprocate. Listen to find out if you have been a victim...

Duration:00:44:21

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Problem #59: Lust Vs. Love

8/18/2021
Lust is looking at a person and feeling both a strong sexual attraction and a pull toward imaginative details that the relationship could one day possess. Love is a feeling of commitment and adoration for a person that you've put effort into and began to build a life with. It is a feeling backed by action and a desire to grow with and do your best for the person you're with. Lust tends to get a bad rep in most situations but it is part of a healthy relationship in most cases, but lust alone...

Duration:00:38:10

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Problem #58: 'Why Waiting Works' & Pussy Power Ft. Rob K

8/11/2021
'Waiting for your Best Yes' with our Guest: Rob Kowalski. Emotionally and mentally, things change, sex is a spiritual ritual. Energy and fluids are exchanged during sexual intercourse and when you get married, the marriage is confirmed with consummation. Only weak people are controlled by sex. Your self esteem should not be based on how many people you can bed. The book 'Why Waiting Works' Is available for free on Rob's website (pay for shipping only) so pick up your copy and read the story...

Duration:01:08:55

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Problem #57: Toxic Family Drama

8/4/2021
There are many people you can choose in your life and get rid of if needed. You can pick your friends, and if there's a problem, you can always choose to part ways. However, you can't pick your family, and you can't leave them if you're a minor, or if they're your only source of living. Sometimes, your family can have qualities that you don't like, and it can be hard to deal with them. Other times, you're unsure whether you live in a toxic family situation or not. Being in a toxic family can...

Duration:00:33:51

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Problem #56: Stop being a 'Pick-Mesha' !!

7/28/2021
A lot of women who cape for men are usually the ones who are deemed unattractive by the majority of them according to various online articles, thus the need to cater to their messed up viewpoints to get their attention. They are usually negatively competitive, jealous and man-obsessed. 'Staying on code': Support and encourage one another. Be affectionate and create a sisterhood, FOLLOW GIRL CODE (unlike like Portia). Stop being jealous and assuming everyone is a hater. Be open and friendly....

Duration:00:31:42