re.love® with Dr. Ezzie Spencer

I'm so excited to share my new 1:1 re.love coaching program! Tune into discover how to remove splinters from your love consciousness. xo Ezzie BODY OF WORK: www.ezziespencer.com 1:1 re.love: www.ezzie.love Check out the self-study program LOVEABLE here: https://www.ezzie.love/loveable Ezzie's IG: @ezziespencer Free quiz, attraction elixir, love-notes and other resources here: www.ezzie.love Music composed and produced by Nathaniel Koenig ©

"Am I really attracted to very masculine men? Or is this just part of how I've been socialised (the whole girl fairytale thing)?" This is a great question from a listener, and today we're diving into attraction patterns on the pod. Truth be told, you won't know the answer to this Q until you strip back social conditioning and experience what lies beneath for you. What you might find might surprise you, either way! It's not about trying to talk yourself into liking the softer nicer people, and it's not about pathologising desires — neither work. When you're open and available for what is genuine for you, you can confidently claim it and call it in. Today's podcast ep includes some thoughts and prompts to help gain that openness and clarity. And if you're ready to move fast — release what is standing in the way and find your person who is attractive in all the ways — I have a few 1:1 spots opening next week. Look out for my email. xo Ezzie BODY OF WORK: www.ezziespencer.com 1:1 re.love: www.ezzie.love Check out the self-study program LOVEABLE here: https://www.ezzie.love/loveable Ezzie's IG: @ezziespencer Free quiz, attraction elixir, love-notes and other resources here: www.ezzie.love Music composed and produced by Nathaniel Koenig ©

You CAN find love after a toxic relationship. I help women to restore self-belief, self-trust and to feel the courage and confidence to put themselves out there again to find real love. Last week, goop published my article on dating after a narcissist. You can read the article here. I’m sharing my best tips in this week’s podcast episode. Tune in below. X Ezzie BODY OF WORK: www.ezziespencer.com 1:1 re.love: www.ezzie.love Check out the self-study program LOVEABLE here: https://www.ezzie.love/loveable Ezzie's IG: @ezziespencer Free quiz, attraction elixir, love-notes and other resources here: www.ezzie.love Music composed and produced by Nathaniel Koenig ©

I'm so excited to share my new website! You know how when you look back at life and suddenly all the steps along the way make perfect sense? Jo ChunYan created a gorgeous cosmic visual reflection of that: past, present and future. Check out the new www.ezziespencer.com here. You can link to the three individual websites of my body of work from the above “temple” site. Clarity around my coherent body of work emerged through working with the wonderful Pamela Slim. I share all in depth on today's podcast! Oh also, check out these announcements on this podcast episode: re.loveinterest list.xo Ezzie P.S. I recently sat with Kylie Patchett on her brilliant show. She's an intuitive interviewer and I shared the back story of my body of work there too: big initiations, vision, mission. Listen in here. BODY OF WORK: www.ezziespencer.com 1:1 re.love: www.ezzie.love Check out the self-study program LOVEABLE here: https://www.ezzie.love/loveable Ezzie's IG: @ezziespencer Free quiz, attraction elixir, love-notes and other resources here: www.ezzie.love Music composed and produced by Nathaniel Koenig ©

Want to find out if you have any Unconscious Vows in love? Today's podcast episode is a thought experiment designed to help you uncover any secret beliefs that are holding you back in love. Lots of prompts for contemplation and journaling that may just unlock the clarity you need to take your love-life to the next level. X Ezzie BODY OF WORK: www.ezziespencer.com 1:1 re.love: www.ezzie.love Check out the self-study program LOVEABLE here: https://www.ezzie.love/loveable Ezzie's IG: @ezziespencer Free quiz, attraction elixir, love-notes and other resources here: www.ezzie.love Music composed and produced by Nathaniel Koenig ©

When is it too hot too soon? What to look out for, to know if it's going to crash? Love-bombing might feel like a special “karmic bond”. Feels great, until it doesn’t. Today’s podcast episode helps you track the signs in dating, including unexpected conversational behaviours and other hints that something may be off in the early stages ... … plus how to build your immunity so you aren’t ever seduced by someone who will waste your time or dash your hopes in love (no narcissists allowed). Tune in and let me know your thoughts, x Ezzie BODY OF WORK: www.ezziespencer.com 1:1 re.love: www.ezzie.love Check out the self-study program LOVEABLE here: https://www.ezzie.love/loveable Ezzie's IG: @ezziespencer Free quiz, attraction elixir, love-notes and other resources here: www.ezzie.love Music composed and produced by Nathaniel Koenig ©

Something that upsets me is how many of my gorgeous, brilliant, magical women clients have been brainwashed by old-fashioned tropes about what it means “to be feminine” in love. It's not the “feminine” part that upsets me — it's those old cliches about “how the feminine should act so the masculine wants her" that translate into women feeling they have to be passive in love. No! That’s the fast-track to giving away your power … and missing out on the love you want. In this week’s new podcast episode, I share more about what feminine power might actually look like in a dating context. This topic gets me feisty … Tune in! xo Ezzie BODY OF WORK: www.ezziespencer.com 1:1 re.love: www.ezzie.love Check out the self-study program LOVEABLE here: https://www.ezzie.love/loveable Ezzie's IG: @ezziespencer Free quiz, attraction elixir, love-notes and other resources here: www.ezzie.love Music composed and produced by Nathaniel Koenig ©

Do you ever lose yourself in the balance between wanting big love, and getting a little fixated on the specifics? If you relate, then you'll love today’s podcast episode. We cover: wanting attaching xo Ezzie BODY OF WORK: www.ezziespencer.com 1:1 re.love: www.ezzie.love Check out the self-study program LOVEABLE here: https://www.ezzie.love/loveable Ezzie's IG: @ezziespencer Free quiz, attraction elixir, love-notes and other resources here: www.ezzie.love Music composed and produced by Nathaniel Koenig ©

In my private client work: … we unearth any blockages to self-worth in romantic relationships (return to unconditional love and self-acceptance), … we release any Unconscious Vows that may be preventing us from turning our Heartlight on, allowing our feminine essence and magic to shine out to catch the attention of gorgeous, appropriate suitors … … and we enjoy squeals of delight as we spin the wheel of love in real time, with dating profile and texting reviews in real time (gold). Love is inevitable with this powerful trifecta! Today’s episode is about the third part of the trifecta: Modern online dating etiquette! This is a super practical episode with tips to stop the second-guessing and put your mind at ease, create a powerful dating technique that works for you, plus communication scripts. When do you unmatch someone? And how to do it in an elegant, graceful fashion? Tune in below for insights into the weird language of virtual dating. xo Ezzie BODY OF WORK: www.ezziespencer.com 1:1 re.love: www.ezzie.love Check out the self-study program LOVEABLE here: https://www.ezzie.love/loveable Ezzie's IG: @ezziespencer Free quiz, attraction elixir, love-notes and other resources here: www.ezzie.love Music composed and produced by Nathaniel Koenig ©

If you’ve been single for awhile (or you’re recently out of a long-term relationship) then you may be confronted with the weirdness of the current dating climate. You might feel intimidated or turned off — which is entirely understandable. And I firmly believe that it is still possible to have fun dating right now, a belief rooted in the reality of how I help my clients everyday to enhance their dating experience. The quality of your experience will likely correlate with the depth of your inner work, the rigor of your vetting system, and your fluency in today’s “dating” language. So how to do that? As my cosmic pal Theresa Reed likes to say: be prepared, not scared! On that: I give preparation tips in today’s podcast episode. Tune in below, or search my name in your fave podcast platform. xo Ezzie BODY OF WORK: www.ezziespencer.com 1:1 re.love: www.ezzie.love Check out the self-study program LOVEABLE here: https://www.ezzie.love/loveable Ezzie's IG: @ezziespencer Free quiz, attraction elixir, love-notes and other resources here: www.ezzie.love Music composed and produced by Nathaniel Koenig ©

So. We can know that the hype around February 14 is commercially manufactured, we can know that everyone is on their own timeline but … Valentine's Day can still be a tricky one to navigate if your love-life is not exactly where you'd like it to be. In honour of this, today's podcast episode is a bit different. Tune in for a guided meditation to connect with unconditional love and hope, and to receive guidance from your own inner wisdom about what to do for yourself at this time of year. You are so loved, ... and big love is coming for you. xo Ezzie BODY OF WORK: www.ezziespencer.com 1:1 re.love: www.ezzie.love Check out the self-study program LOVEABLE here: https://www.ezzie.love/loveable Ezzie's IG: @ezziespencer Free quiz, attraction elixir, love-notes and other resources here: www.ezzie.love Music composed and produced by Nathaniel Koenig ©

Love Blocks don’t mean that you are doomed. On the contrary, figuring out you have a love block is cause for celebration! Okay, that sounds weird. Why celebrate? Because correctly identifying what is blocking you means that you can swiftly address it. In today’s episode, we go through the 3 main love blocks that I see with my clients. These blocks might come up at any stage in dating and relationship. But when you melt these away, the more ease you’ll have in your love-life. This applies whether you are single, dating or yes — even in relationship and wanting to go deeper. Do you feel blocked in love? Do you relate to, 1, 2 or 3? Listen to the episode and let me know. xo Ezzie BODY OF WORK: www.ezziespencer.com 1:1 re.love: www.ezzie.love Check out the self-study program LOVEABLE here: https://www.ezzie.love/loveable Ezzie's IG: @ezziespencer Free quiz, attraction elixir, love-notes and other resources here: www.ezzie.love Music composed and produced by Nathaniel Koenig ©

Think of it this way. If expectations signal a focus on them (how they "should" behave) Then standards emanate from the inside-out (what works for you). It’s how you position and hold yourself in relation to the thing that matters. Starting with your own standards in the quest for love can make all the difference. And then, to hold your standards is a sign of embodied self-worth. Good in theory ... a little crunchier when you are connecting with someone you really like. In today’s episode, we dive into that scenario. xo Ezzie BODY OF WORK: www.ezziespencer.com 1:1 re.love: www.ezzie.love Check out the self-study program LOVEABLE here: https://www.ezzie.love/loveable Ezzie's IG: @ezziespencer Free quiz, attraction elixir, love-notes and other resources here: www.ezzie.love Music composed and produced by Nathaniel Koenig ©

FROM THE ARCHIVES: In the weird online world, when things seem increasingly uncertain and complex, a system can help you stay grounded and confident and relax into the flow. The wheels of (re)love is the exact system I use to help my clients weave their way from single to loved-up. Tune into another classic podcast episode from the archives: how to go from dating to relationship. xo Ezzie BODY OF WORK: www.ezziespencer.com 1:1 re.love: www.ezzie.love Check out the self-study program LOVEABLE here: https://www.ezzie.love/loveable Ezzie's IG: @ezziespencer Free quiz, attraction elixir, love-notes and other resources here: www.ezzie.love Music composed and produced by Nathaniel Koenig ©

FROM THE ARCHIVES: This week I’m sharing one of the top re.love® podcast episodes of all time. THE GOLDEN QUADRANT gives a helpful framework to help you approach dating conversations with the energy of curiosity, openness, abundance and play. It helps to take the pressure down and have fun dating. Try it out and let me know what you think! xo Ezzie BODY OF WORK: www.ezziespencer.com 1:1 re.love: www.ezzie.love Check out the self-study program LOVEABLE here: https://www.ezzie.love/loveable Ezzie's IG: @ezziespencer Free quiz, attraction elixir, love-notes and other resources here: www.ezzie.love Music composed and produced by Nathaniel Koenig ©

If you’ve ever wondered whether you missed the chance with someone special because of something you said or did, then this episode is for you. I loved recording this episode because it gives insight into a private client session (details shared with her permission). She came into the session beating herself up about what she said to an ex one night - and left feeling peace, calm and relaxation at the end, knowing that she was enough. Tune in, as this is a practical dive into self-love and weaving the unconscious into the light. Love Ezzie BODY OF WORK: www.ezziespencer.com 1:1 re.love: www.ezzie.love Check out the self-study program LOVEABLE here: https://www.ezzie.love/loveable Ezzie's IG: @ezziespencer Free quiz, attraction elixir, love-notes and other resources here: www.ezzie.love Music composed and produced by Nathaniel Koenig ©

On the cusp of a new year, today’s podcast episode is another personal update. Tune in for my reflections on my word for 2022 (what was yours?) Also: xo Ezzie Apply for a private re.love® journey here: www.ezziespencer.com/private Check out the new self-study program LOVEABLE here: https://www.ezziespencer.com/loveable Ezzie's IG: @ezziespencer Free quiz, attraction elixir, love-notes and other resources here: www.ezziespencer.com Music composed and produced by Nathaniel Koenig © BODY OF WORK: www.ezziespencer.com 1:1 re.love: www.ezzie.love Check out the self-study program LOVEABLE here: https://www.ezzie.love/loveable Ezzie's IG: @ezziespencer Free quiz, attraction elixir, love-notes and other resources here: www.ezzie.love Music composed and produced by Nathaniel Koenig ©

Happy end-of-the-year, and good wishes for whatever you celebrate! Amidst it all, it can be a tricky time of year where friends and family take the opportunity to probe into your love-life … tricky if your love-life isn't exactly where you'd like it to be. If you're experiencing any awkward questions or opinions around the holiday dinner table, you might find today's episode helpful. This is about love, but the principles apply to any tender subject. Tune in for: who how no one I hope this episode helps you navigate any tricky conversations at this time of the year. Listen to your heart, and you've got this! xo Ezzie Apply for a private re.love® journey here: www.ezziespencer.com/private Check out the new self-study program LOVEABLE here: https://www.ezziespencer.com/loveable Ezzie's IG: @ezziespencer Free quiz, attraction elixir, love-notes and other resources here: www.ezziespencer.com Music composed and produced by Nathaniel Koenig © BODY OF WORK: www.ezziespencer.com 1:1 re.love: www.ezzie.love Check out the self-study program LOVEABLE here: https://www.ezzie.love/loveable Ezzie's IG: @ezziespencer Free quiz, attraction elixir, love-notes and other resources here: www.ezzie.love Music composed and produced by Nathaniel Koenig ©

This question breaks my heart because there is so much toxic dating advice out there, making you feel wrong for simply being YOU. The toxic part? "Having" to do/be something to be loved. The truth? Show YOUR magic. You don’t need to fix or change yourself to find love. And if you ever catch yourself trying to “be” or “do” something in order to “get” something … … it’s really risky business. I share my personal experience with that in this episode, Plus an alternative rooted in self-love and self-revelry. Click below to listen, or search my name in your fave podcast app. Show your own magic! xo Ezzie Apply for a private re.love® journey here: www.ezziespencer.com/private Check out the new self-study program LOVEABLE here: https://www.ezziespencer.com/loveable Ezzie's IG: @ezziespencer Free quiz, attraction elixir, love-notes and other resources here: www.ezziespencer.com Music composed and produced by Nathaniel Koenig © BODY OF WORK: www.ezziespencer.com 1:1 re.love: www.ezzie.love Check out the self-study program LOVEABLE here: https://www.ezzie.love/loveable Ezzie's IG: @ezziespencer Free quiz, attraction elixir, love-notes and other resources here: www.ezzie.love Music composed and produced by Nathaniel Koenig ©

I had more fun dating in my thirties than any other time. I was really hitting my stride when I met my guy, tee hee! Whether you’re dating in your thirties, forties, fifties or sixties: in today’s episode, I dive into some of the gifts of dating with a bit more experience under your belt ;) I see false scarcity kick in with many of my clients who haven’t hit a certain “milestone” by a certain age by which they earlier decided that they would be happily coupled up. The truth? Whatever your age, you are not too late, you can shift back into an abundance mindset, you can find love. One of my gorgeous re.love grads, now in a happy relationship, just turned 70. 70! Let’s unhook from the mainstream narratives, trust the timing and have FUN. Bring. It. On. xo Ezzie Apply for a private re.love® journey here: www.ezziespencer.com/private Check out the new self-study program LOVEABLE here: https://www.ezziespencer.com/loveable Ezzie's IG: @ezziespencer Free quiz, attraction elixir, love-notes and other resources here: www.ezziespencer.com Music composed and produced by Nathaniel Koenig © BODY OF WORK: www.ezziespencer.com 1:1 re.love: www.ezzie.love Check out the self-study program LOVEABLE here: https://www.ezzie.love/loveable Ezzie's IG: @ezziespencer Free quiz, attraction elixir, love-notes and other resources here: www.ezzie.love Music composed and produced by Nathaniel Koenig ©