Location:
United States
Description:
This is what an Asian Dating podcast should sound like. Stories and life advice about Asian women and the men who want to date them. Be kind. Be happy. Be open-minded. Dating should be fun. Hosted by May once a week.
Language:
English
Episodes
A Men's Group Might Be What You Need | Ep 163
9/30/2025
Michal Naisteter is an elite matchmaker and super-connector who believes real love can’t be reduced to algorithms. With a deep understanding of human connection, she helps people move beyond surface-level swiping to find relationships that feel authentic, soulful, and aligned. Michal’s gift lies in seeing people clearly—how they dream, aspire, and connect—and introducing them not just to partners, but to deeper community, self-discovery, and meaningful futures. She makes the matches, and her clients create the magic.
https://michalmatches.com/Connect with Michal:
https://michalmatches.com/connect-with-michal/
Men's group: https://michalmatchmaking.com/mg-course-home-index
0:00 Introduction to Michal Naisteter with Men’s Group and being a digital nomad matchmaker
2:07 Rift between men and women online, frustrations in dating
3:26 Men’s group with sexologist; are women attractive to men who work on themselves?4:20 Women looking for reliability6:13 Men cry7:45 Sliding in your conversation that you’re seeing a therapist but don’t dwell on that topic on the whole date8:20 Don’t use your date as a therapist9:45 Seeking butterflies vs. roots11:40 People find love faster if they have a community12:26 Practical life tip: you excel in love and life when you’re in a community 16:22 What’s Michal’s virtual men group about, containers are created, create hope22:30 How do matchmakers define success27:00 Delayed sexual debut28:00 The key to dating is to just go29:50 Live your life so you’re not time deficient31:55 When we’re surrounded by connections, love finds us faster35:00 Average person spends 90 minutes swiping, instead go out in real life to talk to someone36:00 Let your date know what you’re working on39:24 Men need safe spaces, join Michal’s men’s group*AMAZON BEST SELLER* Get my book, ‘A Roadmap For Single Asian Women’ here: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0C9L4CT87?ref_=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_dp_FKWJGPCVXW3XG8D98EWB Call May for help: (310) 867-0851Join The Best Asian Matchmaker’s Database Here: https://www.twoasianmatchmakers.com/profileEmail: may@twoasianmatchmakers.comWebsite: www.twoasianmatchmakers.comFacebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/TwoAsianMatchmakersInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/matchmakermayAsian friends can set each other up: https://www.facebook.com/groups/datethemasiansYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/twoasianmatchmakersTiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@asianmatchmaker88LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mayhui/ABOUT THIS PODCAST: THE ASIAN DATING PODCASTWhat does Matchmaker May Do?You know how high-net-worth men are accomplished in their careers but too busy to date? They value time more than money, yet struggle to find meaningful connection. What I do is learn who they want to attract, screen the women for them, and make the introductions—so instead of wasting time, they meet the right woman and fall in love.May talks about all things dating and Asian dating. She’s super nosy about people’s love lives and just loves love. May is a Professional Matchmaker and Dating and Relationship Coach. She founded Two Asian Matchmakers, a boutique matchmaking company. May has been helping successful and accomplished men in the United States to find an Asian partner since 2009. May is a highly respected and active member of the Matchmakers Alliance and Global Love Institute in New York. She is always learning and teaching in the industry. May currently mentors other Asian matchmakers to excel in the industry. May has appeared in Cosmopolitan, Los Angeles Magazine, Thrillist, Huffington Post, and numerous publications.
Duration:00:40:22
What Men Get Wrong About Dating Asian Women | Ep 162
9/30/2025
Xiaoli Mei is an Elite Asian and celebrity matchmaker with certifications in both matchmaking and relationship coaching. Drawing from her own journey of love, loss, and discovery, she uncovered the “Happiness Code”—the balance between career success and meaningful relationships. Today, she helps singles find love and build fulfilling partnerships through her expertise in psychology and cross-cultural dynamics.https://eliteasianmatchmaker.com/Support@eliteasianmatchmaker.com (925) 457-29690:00 Introduction to Xiaoli, Elite Asian Matchmaker and how we partner up often2:46 When is a good time to kiss an Asian woman on a 1st date?4:00 Nothing wrong with asking her before you kiss her7:20 When should you introduce your partner to your friends?8:30 Magic of Date 39:37 First 3 dates, try to keep it just you and him/her10:10 When should you introduce your partner to parents?15:00 What are the differences with the women from different countries?16:00 Chinese women born in China have different values16:38 Japanese women are very reserved, won’t tell you what they’re thinking18:00 Korean women are very strong headed, can drink!18:27 Chinese women are not passive, more aggressive than Japanese19:39 Korean women like Chinese American men20:09 Pacific Islanders are very nurturing, attentive…especially Thai and Vietnamese are very easy going22:20 Shy Asian women are very sought after24:20 What’s one thing that surprised you working with clients?26:20 A client who prefers Asian women but also open to Caucasian women, May has a lot of success with them if they’re flexible30:50 We will match what the client wants for the first half of the membership, and then they can do it our way AMAZON BEST SELLER Get my book, ‘A Roadmap For Single Asian Women’ here: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0C9L4CT87?... Call May for help: (310) 867-0851Join The Best Asian Matchmaker’s Database Here: https://www.twoasianmatchmakers.com/p...Email: may@twoasianmatchmakers.comWebsite: www.twoasianmatchmakers.comFacebook Page: / twoasianmatchmakers Instagram: / matchmakermay Asian friends can set each other up: / datethemasians YouTube: / twoasianmatchmakers Tiktok: / asianmatchmaker88 LinkedIn: / mayhui ABOUT THIS PODCAST: THE ASIAN DATING PODCASTWhat does Matchmaker May Do?You know how high-net-worth men are accomplished in their careers but too busy to date? They value time more than money, yet struggle to find meaningful connection. What I do is learn who they want to attract, screen the women for them, and make the introductions—so instead of wasting time, they meet the right woman and fall in love.May talks about all things dating and Asian dating. She’s super nosy about people’s love lives and just loves love. May is a Professional Matchmaker and Dating and Relationship Coach. She founded Two Asian Matchmakers, a boutique matchmaking company. May has been helping successful and accomplished men in the United States to find an Asian partner since 2009. May is a highly respected and active member of the Matchmakers Alliance and Global Love Institute in New York. She is always learning and teaching in the industry. May currently mentors other Asian matchmakers to excel in the industry. May has appeared in Cosmopolitan, Los Angeles Magazine, Thrillist, Huffington Post, and numerous publications.
Duration:00:32:46
He Split the Bill?! Dating Rules No One Talks About | Ep 161
9/30/2025
Jennie Agin is the founder of Storyfull Matchmaking, where she helps smart, soulful professionals move beyond surface-level swiping and find deeper, aligned connections. With a background in science education and a gift for blending intuition with structure, she guides thoughtful, emotionally intelligent clients to navigate modern dating with clarity, intention, and care—so they can write a love story that feels real and helps them grow.https://www.storyfullmatchmaking.com/Schedule a consultation with Jennie: https://tidycal.com/jennie3/30-minute...Submit your profile with Jennie: https://forms.withhoneybee.com/storyf...0:00 Introduction Jennie Agin Storyfull Matchmaking2:38 How important is being playful when dating?4:48 Texting and being playful8:40 How do I know if this person is interested in me?9:22 One green flag they want to be with you: They make plans with you!!12:27 What would you do differently in the dating world with all the dating tools?14:40 They should love me for who I am18:15 Dating skill is learned19:00 Change your brain chemistry with doing a new thing20:40 Getting out of comfort zone means you’re not boring23:00 Jennie does think looks are very important25:30 Busy people dating26:06 In between jobs, should they date?27:13 Should a man pay for the first date?28:35 If he wants to split the bill on the date, would you go out with him again?30:50 If a man pays for everything, that’s a dealbreaker for Jennie34:15 If a man makes less than the woman, should he pay on the first date?35:30 Long distance dating situation40:09 Storyfull Matchmaking niche 30s to 50s42:40 Fun thing to do on a winter dateAMAZON BEST SELLER Get my book, ‘A Roadmap For Single Asian Women’ here: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0C9L4CT87?...Join My Matchmaking Database Here: https://www.twoasianmatchmakers.com/p...Email: may@twoasianmatchmakers.comFacebook Page: / twoasianmatchmakers Instagram: / matchmakermay
Duration:00:44:06
Gain Exclusive Access To Honeybee's Matchmakers | Ep 160
9/30/2025
Meet Nick Cobb..."I'm a self-taught engineer who has led Product and Engineering teams at Uber, Uber Eats, and Kyte focusing on both consumer apps and developer platforms and infrastructure. My executive experience spans engineering, ops, finance, growth, and product strategy. I'm currently the founder of HoneyBee, an AI-enabled software a platform for matchmakers in the dating industry."0:00 Introduction: Meet Nick, the solo founder of Honeybee3:20 Matchmakers using AI enabled platform4:20 Small business owners exploding their business5:00 The smart system assistance speeds everything up for matchmakers6:30 Every matchmaker should use this platform7:30 Matchmaker community with solid security8:17 Pollinator marketplace presents matches for all matchmakers9:38 Recruiters on the platform makes our lives so much easier10:39 Solo matchmakers really have an advantage on Honeybee11:31 Matchmaking companies of all sizes and prices; different models welcome14:30 Customer support is quick16:00 Nick onboards each matchmaker personally18:00 Higher level of client analysis in development19:44 Find your niche in the business is key21:47 Trust your matchmaker and don’t just be so strict with your filter23:30 The platform also suggests matches for the matchmakers to look at24:30 You can be selective on which matchmakers you want to work with25:20 Weekly release notes sent to matchmakers on new features on the platform30:40 Honeybee in 2 years; support date coaches32:11 Show up to a date with no expectations, ask questions, be a good listener35:27 When should you introduce your girlfriend to your friends?37:40 Holidays-test points38.15 Pressure on family and everyone41:20 Men can lead without being so invested in the answers 44:00 Why do women live longer than men?46:30 Singles events for human connections48:20 You’re getting a business partner when you join Honeybee AMAZON BEST SELLER Get my book, ‘A Roadmap For Single Asian Women’ here: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0C9L4CT87?... Call May for help: (310) 867-0851Join The Best Asian Matchmaker’s Database Here: https://www.twoasianmatchmakers.com/p...Email: may@twoasianmatchmakers.comWebsite: www.twoasianmatchmakers.comFacebook Page: / twoasianmatchmakers Instagram: / matchmakermay Asian friends can set each other up: / datethemasians YouTube: / twoasianmatchmakers Tiktok: / asianmatchmaker88 LinkedIn: / mayhui ABOUT THIS PODCAST: THE ASIAN DATING PODCASTWhat does Matchmaker May Do?You know how high-net-worth men are accomplished in their careers but too busy to date? They value time more than money, yet struggle to find meaningful connection. What I do is learn who they want to attract, screen the women for them, and make the introductions—so instead of wasting time, they meet the right woman and fall in love.May talks about all things dating and Asian dating. She’s super nosy about people’s love lives and just loves love. May is a Professional Matchmaker and Dating and Relationship Coach. She founded Two Asian Matchmakers, a boutique matchmaking company. May has been helping successful and accomplished men in the United States to find an Asian partner since 2009. May is a highly respected and active member of the Matchmakers Alliance and Global Love Institute in New York. She is always learning and teaching in the industry. May currently mentors other Asian matchmakers to excel in the industry. May has appeared in Cosmopolitan, Los Angeles Magazine, Thrillist, Huffington Post, and numerous publications.
Duration:00:50:02
Shy Guys’ Playbook: Turning Nerves Into Dates | Ep 159
9/5/2025
Julia Malakiman is a Silicon Valley based dating coach for men, specializing in helping introverted and analytical guys build confidence, master social skills, and create genuine connections with women. Through in-person coaching, live approaching practice, and mindset training, she’s guided countless men to overcome fear of rejection and attract the women they truly want.To connect with Julia:https://thedatingadvisory.com/https://www.instagram.com/juliamalakiman/https://www.youtube.com/@thedatingadvisory0:00 Introduction to Julia, who helps shy, introverted, awkward men be more comfortable1:45 Helping shy, introverted men to show up and be themselves2:41 Julia's typical client 3:13 Inexperienced with dating 4:20 Why so many men struggle with dating 6:10 Men follow rules to solve this 8:33 Exposure to real life scenarios is how you learn 10:40 Approach women with low stake in public to get practice 15:55 Say anything as opening line. It works. 17:25 What’s one thing you can say that is easy to use 19:45 Men's interpretation of women's reactions is sometimes incorrect20:23 Healthy relationships start here 21:21 Julie loves to take guys out in the field 22:00 How and what you think of yourself matters 24:28 The one thing we are looking for in men 27:07 Loneliness in men is real. So important to have at least one single friend 34:30 You don't need to get her number every time. That is not always the goal*AMAZON BEST SELLER* Get my book, ‘A Roadmap For Single Asian Women’ here: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0C9L4CT87?ref_=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_dp_FKWJGPCVXW3XG8D98EWB Call May for help: (310) 867-0851Join The Best Asian Matchmaker’s Database Here: https://www.twoasianmatchmakers.com/profileEmail: may@twoasianmatchmakers.comWebsite: www.twoasianmatchmakers.comFacebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/TwoAsianMatchmakersInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/matchmakermayAsian friends can set each other up: https://www.facebook.com/groups/datethemasiansYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/twoasianmatchmakersTiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@asianmatchmaker88LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mayhui/ABOUT THIS PODCAST: THE ASIAN DATING PODCASTWhat does Matchmaker May Do?You know how there are men out there that are high net worth, super successful, and accomplished in their fields but they are too busy to date and value time more than money? They have trouble finding women to have a meaningful connection so what we do is find out who they’re trying to attract, screen the women for them, and make introductions for them. They meet and fall in love. May talks about all things dating and Asian dating. She’s super nosy about people’s love lives and just loves love. May is a Professional Matchmaker and Dating and Relationship Coach. She founded Two Asian Matchmakers, a boutique matchmaking company. May has been helping successful and accomplished men in the United States to find an Asian partner since 2009. May is a highly respected and active member of the Matchmakers Alliance and Global Love Institute in New York. She is always learning and teaching in the industry. May currently mentors other Asian matchmakers to excel in the industry. May has appeared in Cosmopolitan, Los Angeles Magazine, Thrillist, Huffington Post, and numerous publications.
Duration:00:36:47
Men, This is Why You're Single (And What Women Really Want) | Ep 158
9/5/2025
Jessie Kay knows what it’s like—dating after 50 can feel like a battlefield. She's been married. She's been single. She's gone through the frustration of bad matches, ghosting, and wasted time. But here’s the thing: the problem isn’t you. It’s the way online dating works.With 28 years in the matchmaking and dating industry, Jessie has seen firsthand what works and what doesn’t. She's spent years testing strategies, studying the algorithm, and fine-tuning the process to make it work. And she takes that frustration off your plate. Instead of swiping in circles, you’ll be meeting high-quality men while she handles the strategy.Connect with Jessie at www.50plusmatchmaking.com0:00 Introduction to Jessie Kay
1:38 The largest database is online. You’re missing out if you aren’t taking advantage of that
2:10 Helping women 50s and up to do online dating right is Jessie’s specialty
2:18 The current temperature of dating
2:52 Women do 3x’s the emotional work to meet a man. They say hello, they message the man, they initiate swapping numbers
4:37 Are men lazy daters? YES
4:40 If you just put in the work and you'll be busy dating
8:48 Be clever with men; You can challenge men to get off the app and meet in person
11:30 How do you get someone offline
12:10 You can tell the men, “My usual form of communication is not texting. Let me know when you want to hear my voice.”
12:55 If you're not jaded and you follow online dating rules; You'll do well online
15:40 Online algorithm will reward you for common sense and courtesy; Just do the right thing
17:22 Women want the men to ask us out. Men, make the initiative
20:00 When you do go out, let her know you want a second date
22:07 Stop being so judgmental
24:50 People don't want to do the work
26:19 Lonely men complain they are lonely. It's your own fault you. You don't make the effort, so you deserve to be alone
30:00 How do men work on their emotional intelligence
31:44 We don't hate men. We just want them to not be lazy daters*AMAZON BEST SELLER* Get my book, ‘A Roadmap For Single Asian Women’ here: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0C9L4CT87?ref_=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_dp_FKWJGPCVXW3XG8D98EWB
Call May for help: (310) 867-0851
Join The Best Asian Matchmaker’s Database Here: https://www.twoasianmatchmakers.com/profile
Email: may@twoasianmatchmakers.comWebsite: www.twoasianmatchmakers.com
Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/TwoAsianMatchmakers
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/matchmakermay
Asian friends can set each other up: https://www.facebook.com/groups/datethemasians
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/twoasianmatchmakers
Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@asianmatchmaker88
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mayhui/ABOUT THIS PODCAST: THE ASIAN DATING PODCAST
What does Matchmaker May Do?
You know how there are men out there that are high net worth, super successful, and accomplished in their fields but they are too busy to date and value time more than money? They have trouble finding women to have a meaningful connection so what we do is find out who they’re trying to attract, screen the women for them, and make introductions for them. They meet and fall in love.
May talks about all things dating and Asian dating. She’s super nosy about people’s love lives and just loves love. May is a Professional Matchmaker and Dating and Relationship Coach. She founded Two Asian Matchmakers, a boutique matchmaking company. May has been helping successful and accomplished men in the United States to find an Asian partner since 2009.
May is a highly respected and active member of the Matchmakers Alliance and Global Love Institute in New York. She is always learning and teaching in the industry. May currently mentors other Asian matchmakers to excel in the industry. May has appeared in Cosmopolitan, Los Angeles Magazine, Thrillist, Huffington Post, and numerous publications.
Duration:00:39:02
Helping U.S. Chinese Singles Find Love | Ep 157
9/5/2025
Meet San Francisco Asian Matchmaker Amy with Landz.us find love. She is a marriage agency to help singles find love. She helps parents find love for their children. Many of her customers are parents who have a consultation with Amy. You can contact Amy at (415) 650-5683. 0:00 Introduction to Matchmaker Amy 2:26 Challenging clients and how to handle them 4:39 Matching paying clients to paying clients first 5:10 Amy will go anywhere to find matches: events, recruiting, volunteer, cultural events 6:30 What are Asian women looking for 7:39 ABC clients 30% versus immigrants 70% 8:30 Mainland China, Taiwan, Hong Kong singles 8:55 Looking for marriage, but women must be pretty. Finding soulmate 9:50 Money views are important in a partner; Also saving money views 11:26 My men don’t like bossy women; They want soft personalities 12:44 Amy’s outgoing woman are okay with a quieter guy 181:4 How do you keep your relationship strong? 19:50 Oversee clients 24:01 How your friends can match you 27:03 Inexperienced daters need to go out and get experience 28:00 Chinese family dating starts when you're at college or when you start working 30:03 Matchmaker Amy for consultation*AMAZON BEST SELLER* Get my book, ‘A Roadmap For Single Asian Women’ here: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0C9L4CT87?ref_=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_dp_FKWJGPCVXW3XG8D98EWB Call May for help: (310) 867-0851Join The Best Asian Matchmaker’s Database Here: https://www.twoasianmatchmakers.com/profileEmail: may@twoasianmatchmakers.comWebsite: www.twoasianmatchmakers.comFacebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/TwoAsianMatchmakersInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/matchmakermayAsian friends can set each other up: https://www.facebook.com/groups/datethemasiansYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/twoasianmatchmakersTiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@asianmatchmaker88LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mayhui/ABOUT THIS PODCAST: THE ASIAN DATING PODCASTWhat does Matchmaker May Do?You know how there are men out there that are high net worth, super successful, and accomplished in their fields but they are too busy to date and value time more than money? They have trouble finding women to have a meaningful connection so what we do is find out who they’re trying to attract, screen the women for them, and make introductions for them. They meet and fall in love. May talks about all things dating and Asian dating. She’s super nosy about people’s love lives and just loves love. May is a Professional Matchmaker and Dating and Relationship Coach. She founded Two Asian Matchmakers, a boutique matchmaking company. May has been helping successful and accomplished men in the United States to find an Asian partner since 2009. May is a highly respected and active member of the Matchmakers Alliance and Global Love Institute in New York. She is always learning and teaching in the industry. May currently mentors other Asian matchmakers to excel in the industry.
Duration:00:31:19
3 Clients...Are You A Match For Them? | Ep 156
9/5/2025
Xiaoli Mei, Founder of Elite Asian Matchmaker, and Matchmaker May, Founder of Two Asian Matchmakers, are on a hunt for these 3 clients.
If you are a match for one of them, we'd like to meet you.
Contact us at May@TwoAsianMatchmakers.com or Xiaoli@EliteAsianMatchmaker.com.
It's free to meet our clients if you're a good match. Bachelorette R:
She's a young 60 year old Asian woman, who looks maybe 50...Asian genes, you know..she lives in West LA, fit, slender, been in the US for over 30 years, speaks very good English and Mandarin, has a cute accent, very financially comfortable, widowed, 5'5", 125 lbs, loves to travel, enjoys hikes, pilates, dancing, and dining out, stylish, educated, and seeking a man who's 55-69 years old, has hair, 100 miles from West LA, Caucasian or Asian man, and he is active, in shape, has good character, and a nice lifestyle. Sophisticated man is a plus. Bachelorette E:
She's a slender, young 48 year old Asian woman, who is between Georgia and New York, has her own business, speaks great English and Chinese, caring, open minded, artistic, loves to read, play badminton, ping pong, and has a very flexible schedule to travel and get to know her partner. She's open to men all across the U.S. He's 45-58 years old.Bachelor D:
He's Chinese American, speaks perfect English, 5'10" tall, in shape, lives in Harbor City in Los Angeles, seeking Asian women who is at least 5'3", slender, educated, and she must want to start a family. He's handsome, has a very good career, very responsible, more on the introverted side once you know him and then he is extroverted! He's a very good catch. He is open to women in the Los Angeles and Orange County areas. AMAZON BEST SELLER Get my book, ‘A Roadmap For Single Asian Women’ here: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0C9L4CT87?... Call May for help: (310) 867-0851
Join The Best Asian Matchmaker’s Database Here: https://www.twoasianmatchmakers.com/p...
Email: may@twoasianmatchmakers.com
Website: www.twoasianmatchmakers.comFacebook Page: / twoasianmatchmakers Instagram: / matchmakermay Asian friends can set each other up: / datethemasians YouTube: / twoasianmatchmakers Tiktok: / asianmatchmaker88 LinkedIn: / mayhui ABOUT THIS PODCAST: THE ASIAN DATING PODCASTWhat does Matchmaker May Do?
You know how there are men out there that are high net worth, super successful, and accomplished in their fields but they are too busy to date and value time more than money? They have trouble finding women to have a meaningful connection so what we do is find out who they’re trying to attract, screen the women for them, and make introductions for them. They meet and fall in love. May talks about all things dating and Asian dating. She’s super nosy about people’s love lives and just loves love. May is a Professional Matchmaker and Dating and Relationship Coach. She founded Two Asian Matchmakers, a boutique matchmaking company. May has been helping successful and accomplished men in the United States to find an Asian partner since 2009.
May is a highly respected and active member of the Matchmakers Alliance and Global Love Institute in New York. She is always learning and teaching in the industry. May currently mentors other Asian matchmakers to excel in the industry.
Duration:00:14:08
Dating Asian Women is a Skill, Work on It | Ep 155
9/3/2025
Xiaoli Mei, Founder, CEO, and VIP Matchmaker, is a certified Professional Matchmaker and Relationship Coach with a background in psychology. After experiencing a failed marriage and years of dating struggles while raising two children as a single mom, she spent over a decade studying love and relationships. Her journey led to a personal breakthrough—finding lasting love with her husband, Jim—which inspired her to dedicate her career to helping other singles find happiness in love.
0:00 Intro of Xiaoli Mei and Matchmaker May
2:06 Being a people person and people oriented
2:46 Clients seeking unnatural match
7:50 How should second date be different from first date?
9:30 Dancing date is not a good date
10:50 Sit side by side to get a man to open up on a date
11:26 When should you invite someone to your house?
13:30 Before you get physical, you should have a talk first
13: 50 How to meet up with people organically at ages 30,40s, 50s
16: 00 Introverted people need to do this space
17: 34 Xiaoli’s method of dating before landing her husband
18: 42 You can't be a lazy dater
21:00 Build your skills and dating
21:44 Your mentality should be in a curious mindset on adate
26:25 When should he ask for date #2?
27:00 Should you give him a chance after a neutral firstdate?
32:39 Swipe for 11 hours before you get 1 date
33:00 When to say NO to a guy for a 2nd date?
33:59 Butterfly feeling is fake; Real life is not a Disneymovie
35:00 Business skill set is not the same as dating skill set;It won't work
*AMAZON BESTSELLER* Get my book, ‘A Roadmap For Single Asian Women’ here:https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0C9L4CT87?ref_=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_dp_FKWJGPCVXW3XG8D98EWB
Call May forhelp: (310) 867-0851
Join The BestAsian Matchmaker’s Database Here: https://www.twoasianmatchmakers.com/profile
Email: may@twoasianmatchmakers.com
Website: www.twoasianmatchmakers.com
Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/TwoAsianMatchmakers
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/matchmakermay
Asian friendscan set each other up: https://www.facebook.com/groups/datethemasians
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/twoasianmatchmakers
Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@asianmatchmaker88
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mayhui/
ABOUT THIS PODCAST: THE ASIAN DATING PODCAST
What does Matchmaker May Do?
You know how there are men out there that are high net worth, super successful, and accomplished in their fields but they are too busy to date and value time more than money? They have trouble finding women to have a meaningful connection so what we do is find out who they’re trying to attract, screen the women for them, and make introductions for them. They meet and fall in love.
May talks about all things dating and Asian dating. She’s super nosy about people’s love lives and just loves love. May is a Professional Matchmaker andDating and Relationship Coach. She founded Two Asian Matchmakers, a boutique matchmaking company. May has been helping successful and accomplished men in the United States to find an Asian partner since 2009.
May is a highly respected and active member of the Matchmakers Alliance and Global Love Institute in New York. She is always learning and teaching in the industry. May currently mentors otherAsian matchmakers to excel in the industry.
Duration:00:37:24
Women Want To Be Approached This Way at Grocery Store | Ep 154
3/16/2025
Matchmaker May talks to Trenia Norford of Connectricity, a personalized matchmaking service. They just go back to the basics of finding love before apps and phones. Trenia also is helping an amazing gentleman find love. He's seeking an Asian woman. Could that be you?
Hi. I’m Trenia NorfordFor as long as I can remember, I’ve been in love with love. From my first college internship with talk shows to my career as a professional matchmaker, helping people find their own way to happiness has always been my passion.You can find out more about me in a recent article on DatingAdvice.com. In 2009, I married my best friend of ten years, Brad–the only man who ever got me to move to a new city for him. I believe everyone has a spark–that special something that makes them not only different from everyone else, but infinitely valuable to other people who need exactly that kind of spark in their lives.Born and raised in Brooklyn, New York, I began my career in publishing in 1996, serving as a production manager with magazines like Fortune and Women’s Wear Daily. Later, I moved into marketing and sales and came up through the ranks of the banking industry, becoming a marketing manager and vice president with Chase in Columbus, Ohio.https://connectricitymatch.com/Tn@connectricitymatch.com AMAZON BEST SELLER Get my book, ‘A Roadmap For Single Asian Women’ here: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0C9L4CT87?... Call May for help: (310) 867-0851Join The Best Asian Matchmaker’s Database Here: https://www.twoasianmatchmakers.com/p...Email: may@twoasianmatchmakers.comWebsite: www.twoasianmatchmakers.comFacebook Page: / twoasianmatchmakers Instagram: / matchmakermay Asian friends can set each other up: / datethemasians YouTube: / twoasianmatchmakers Tiktok: / asianmatchmaker88 LinkedIn: / mayhui ABOUT THIS PODCAST: THE ASIAN DATING PODCASTWhat does Matchmaker May Do?You know how there are men out there that are high net worth, super successful, and accomplished in their fields but they are too busy to date and value time more than money? They have trouble finding women to have a meaningful connection so what we do is find out who they’re trying to attract, screen the women for them, and make introductions for them. They meet and fall in love. May talks about all things dating and Asian dating. She’s super nosy about people’s love lives and just loves love. May is a Professional Matchmaker and Dating and Relationship Coach. She founded Two Asian Matchmakers, a boutique matchmaking company. May has been helping successful and accomplished men in the United States to find an Asian partner since 2009. May is a highly respected and active member of the Matchmakers Alliance and Global Love Institute in New York. She is always learning and teaching in the industry. May currently mentors other Asian matchmakers to excel in the industry. May has appeared in Cosmopolitan, Los Angeles Magazine, Thrillist, Huffington Post, and numerous publications.
Duration:00:35:45
Behind the Scenes of an Asian Matchmaking Business | Ep 153
3/16/2025
This is Part 2 of the interview that Carla Swiryn asked Matchmaker May professional business questions. This interview talked about advice for new matchmakers, what it's like to serve clients today with AI and technology, and what kind of clients May helped. It was an honest business discussion with a lot of nuggets to help singles, too.Podcasts we talked about: https://youtu.be/QrK3UfGCvY8?si=lt9hZi74Pz0-FCZwhttps://youtu.be/P6_RxhsRnvs?si=NcCmpDtk4wkNZ5hlhttps://youtu.be/TZbn2KcpZD4?si=xBGYE3-6kHCWw8EIhttps://youtu.be/eWQ13IT8iW0?si=o6DcIA2WqY6x3Jvx
Carla Swiryn believes that matchmaking should be accessible to everyone, and she has built an impressive business to make that vision a reality. We have a CO connection as she graduated from CU Boulder. She worked in marketing for 10 years, including optimizing ads at Google for 6 years and running her own ad agency, before finding her true passion in matchmaking. She was the first matchmaker hired at Three Day Rule, and helped match clients there for 6 years before branching off on her own to create DateSpot in 2019.DateSpot is an innovative matchmaking company that connects singles to the clients of multiple matchmaking companies, and offers risk-free matchmaking on a pay-per-match basis. Due to the model, the company prides itself on being able to take on anyone with no pressure on either side. Their data-driven approach makes for extremely thorough profiles that provide deeper-level insight about who to spend your life with, and they now offer video in profiles as well.Carla's favorite hobby is tennis, and enjoys when a new game starts and she gets to say "love all". She is happily married to Greg, her perfect match, and they have a delightful daughter, Ava, who will turn three just after Valentine’s Day.Though not Asian herself, Carla was born, raised and still lives in the diverse Bay Area, her father was born and raised in the Philippines, and she has worked extensively with many Asian clients. She does not stop until each and every one of them is matched up. You can check out and sign up for DateSpot's pay-per-match service at datespot.love.*AMAZON BEST SELLER* Get my book, ‘A Roadmap For Single Asian Women’ here: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0C9L4CT87?ref_=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_dp_FKWJGPCVXW3XG8D98EWB Call May for help: (310) 867-0851Join The Best Asian Matchmaker’s Database Here: https://www.twoasianmatchmakers.com/profileEmail: may@twoasianmatchmakers.comWebsite: www.twoasianmatchmakers.comFacebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/TwoAsianMatchmakersInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/matchmakermayAsian friends can set each other up: https://www.facebook.com/groups/datethemasiansYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/twoasianmatchmakersTiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@asianmatchmaker88LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mayhui/ABOUT THIS PODCAST: THE ASIAN DATING PODCASTWhat does Matchmaker May Do?You know how there are men out there that are high net worth, super successful, and accomplished in their fields but they are too busy to date and value time more than money? They have trouble finding women to have a meaningful connection so what we do is find out who they’re trying to attract, screen the women for them, and make introductions for them. They meet and fall in love.
Duration:00:56:35
Get To Know Matchmaker May Personally | Ep 152
3/10/2025
Role reversal for this episode. DateSpot's Founder Interviews May
Carla interviews Matchmaker May in this first part of personal questions. This is part one of a two part series. Part two focuses on the professional part of the business.
Carla Swiryn believes that matchmaking should be accessible to everyone, and she has built an impressive business to make that vision a reality. We have a CO connection as she graduated from CU Boulder. She worked in marketing for 10 years, including optimizing ads at Google for 6 years and running her own ad agency, before finding her true passion in matchmaking. She was the first matchmaker hired at Three Day Rule, and helped match clients there for 6 years before branching off on her own to create DateSpot in 2019.
DateSpot is an innovative matchmaking company that connects singles to the clients of multiple matchmaking companies, and offers risk-free matchmaking on a pay-per-match basis. Due to the model, the company prides itself on being able to take on anyone with no pressure on either side. Their data-driven approach makes for extremely thorough profiles that provide deeper-level insight about who to spend your life with, and they now offer video in profiles as well.
Carla's favorite hobby is tennis, and enjoys when a new game starts and she gets to say "love all". She is happily married to Greg, her perfect match, and they have a delightful daughter, Ava, who will turn three just after Valentine’s Day.
Though not Asian herself, Carla was born, raised and still lives in the diverse Bay Area, her father was born and raised in the Philippines, and she has worked extensively with many Asian clients. She does not stop until each and every one of them is matched up. You can check out and sign up for DateSpot's pay-per-match service at datespot.love.
*AMAZON BESTSELLER* Get my book, ‘A Roadmap For Single Asian Women’ here:https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0C9L4CT87?ref_=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_dp_FKWJGPCVXW3XG8D98EWB
Call May for help: (310) 867-0851
Join The BestAsian Matchmaker’s Database Here: https://www.twoasianmatchmakers.com/profile
Email: may@twoasianmatchmakers.com
Website: www.twoasianmatchmakers.com
Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/TwoAsianMatchmakers
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/matchmakermay
Asian friends can set each other up: https://www.facebook.com/groups/datethemasians
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/twoasianmatchmakers
Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@asianmatchmaker88
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mayhui/
ABOUT THIS PODCAST: THE ASIAN DATING PODCAST
What does Matchmaker May Do?
You know how there are men out there that are high net worth, super successful, and accomplished in theirfields but they are too busy to date and value time more than money? They have trouble finding women to have ameaningful connection so what we do is find out who they’re trying to attract, screen the women for them, and make introductions for them. They meet and fallin love.
Duration:00:41:48
Why Hire An Asian Matchmaker | Ep 151
3/3/2025
Matchmaker May sat down with Elite Asian Matchmaker in San Francisco Xiaoli Mei . In 2025, they decided to partner up on a few clients by joining forces with their resources. They believe they are the best Asian Matchmakers around. Xiaoli and May have known each other since 2016, first partnering up to set up Xiaoli’s date coaching client with one of May’s clients. That was a success story! That was the beginning of a successful partnership. Asian dating and matchmaking can be complex. They share their stories about their clients and their personal lives, both marrying Caucasian men.
Meet Xiaoli:
As an Elite Asian matchmaker and celebrity matchmaker, I possess a profound understanding of psychology and cross-cultural dynamics that shape relationships. With dual certifications in matchmaking and relationship coaching, I have transformed the lives of countless singles, guiding them towards finding love and fulfilling partnerships.
My journey as a matchmaker began with my own quest for love and happiness. Having experienced two failed marriages and numerous unsatisfactory dating experiences, I became determined to decipher the elusive “Happiness Code.” My understanding of this was a delicate balance between a thriving career and a gratifying relationship. Finding fulfillment in all areas of my life was the key to being happy so I explored this rigorously. Ultimately, I discovered the key to unlocking love and relationship fulfillment that has forever altered the course of my life.
*AMAZON BESTSELLER* Get my book, ‘A Roadmap For Single Asian Women’ here:https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0C9L4CT87?ref_=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_dp_FKWJGPCVXW3XG8D98EWB
Call May forhelp: (310) 867-0851
Join The BestAsian Matchmaker’s Database Here: https://www.twoasianmatchmakers.com/profile
Email: may@twoasianmatchmakers.com
Website: www.twoasianmatchmakers.com
Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/TwoAsianMatchmakers
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/matchmakermay
Asian friendscan set each other up: https://www.facebook.com/groups/datethemasians
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/twoasianmatchmakers
Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@asianmatchmaker88
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mayhui/
ABOUT THIS PODCAST: THE ASIANDATING PODCAST
What does Matchmaker May Do?
You know how there are men out there that are high net worth, super successful, and accomplished in theirfields but they are too busy to date and value time more than money? They have trouble finding women to have ameaningful connection so what we do is find out who they’re trying to attract, screen the women for them, and make introductions for them. They meet and fall in love.
Duration:00:45:35
5 Ways Instagram Is Better Than A Dating Profile l Ep 150
2/26/2025
Matchmaker May sat down with Robbie Kramer of Inner Confidence based out of Los Angeles and he really talked about how men can highlight their lifestyles by having an effective and powerful Instagram profile. Robbie talks about tactics to engage women on Instagram. Instagram can move your dating life forward in a drastic way if used properly. Robbie talks about how you can easily follow each other on Instagram and if she likes you, then Instagram is a great vehicle to ask her out. Instagram strategy consists of making sure that you have a consistent habit of highlighting your social life. Show yourself as a cool person. It's kind of a status signal. I love at the end where he talks about how women can be more overt with their signals. How women should communicate with men when you slide into their DM's. It's all about giving him attention and signals to show that you are investing in the conversation and communication with him.
*AMAZON BESTSELLER* Get my book, ‘A Roadmap For Single Asian Women’ here:https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0C9L4CT87?ref_=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_dp_FKWJGPCVXW3XG8D98EWB
Call May forhelp: (310) 867-0851
Join The BestAsian Matchmaker’s Database Here: https://www.twoasianmatchmakers.com/profile
Email: may@twoasianmatchmakers.com
Website: www.twoasianmatchmakers.com
Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/TwoAsianMatchmakers
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/matchmakermay
Asian friendscan set each other up: https://www.facebook.com/groups/datethemasians
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/twoasianmatchmakers
Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@asianmatchmaker88
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mayhui/
ABOUT THIS PODCAST: THE ASIANDATING PODCAST
What does Matchmaker May Do?
You know how there are menout there that are high net worth, super successful, and accomplished in theirfields but they are too busy to date and value time more than money? They have trouble finding women to have ameaningful connection so what we do is find out who they’re trying to attract,screen the women for them, and make introductions for them. They meet and fallin love.
Duration:00:48:38
Challenges in Dating in Silicon Valley | Ep 149
1/26/2025
Amy Andersen, known as the Cupid of Silicon Valley, is the Founder and CEO of Linx Dating, a high-end matchmaking service she established in December 2003 to connect Silicon Valley's elite professionals seeking meaningful, long-term relationships. With her personalized, discreet approach, Amy offers a hands-on, customized process that includes extensive screening, in-depth interviews, and relationship coaching. Renowned for her ability to match people based on deep compatibility, she has been featured in top publications like Forbes and The New York Times. Social media and website: IG: @Ms.LinxDating X: @LinxDating Blog: Linx Blog http://www.linxdating.com *AMAZON BEST SELLER* Get my book, ‘A Roadmap For Single Asian Women’ here: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0C9L4CT87?ref_=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_dp_FKWJGPCVXW3XG8D98EWB Join The Best Asian Matchmaker’s Database Here:
https://www.twoasianmatchmakers.com/profile Email: may@twoasianmatchmakers.com Website: www.twoasianmatchmakers.com
Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/TwoAsianMatchmakers
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/matchmakermay Asian friends can set each other up: https://www.facebook.com/groups/datethemasians
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/twoasianmatchmakers Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@asianmatchmaker88 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mayhui/ ABOUT THIS PODCAST: THE ASIAN DATING PODCAST May talks about all things dating and Asian dating. She’s super nosy about people’s love lives and just loves love. May is a Professional Matchmaker and Dating and Relationship Coach. She founded Two Asian Matchmakers, a boutique matchmaking company. May has been helping successful and accomplished men in the United States to find an Asian partner since 2009.
May is a highly respected and active member of the Matchmakers Alliance and Global Love Institute in New York. She is always learning and teaching in the industry. May currently mentors other Asian matchmakers to excel in the industry. May has appeared in Cosmopolitan, Los Angeles Magazine, Thrillist, Huffington Post, and numerous publications.
Duration:00:44:37
Swinging, Open Relationship, Poly Relationship for You? | Ep 148
1/12/2025
I didn't know much about the swinger, open-relationship, or poly relationships. I was curious how people navigate through some of these decisions. I asked Victoria all the questions building up in my mind. Enjoy this interesting episode.
Victoria is a certified professional matchmaker, dating coach, entrepreneur, Navy veteran, community builder, thought leader, speaker, writer, ENM enthusiast, and educator. She founded Birds of a Feather Matchmaking, a specialty boutique matchmaking firm specializing in ethically non-monogamous (ENM), open, poly, and swinger lifestyle relationships.
Birds of a Feather Matchmaking
Instagram - birdsofafeathermm
Instagram - ENMmatchmaker
*AMAZON BEST SELLER* Get my book, ‘A Roadmap For Single Asian Women’ here: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0C9L4CT87?ref_=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_dp_FKWJGPCVXW3XG8D98EWB
Join The Best Asian Matchmaker’s Database Here: https://www.twoasianmatchmakers.com/profile
Email: may@twoasianmatchmakers.com
Website: www.twoasianmatchmakers.com
Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/TwoAsianMatchmakers
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/matchmakermay
Asian friends can set each other up: https://www.facebook.com/groups/datethemasians
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/twoasianmatchmakers
Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@asianmatchmaker88
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mayhui/
ABOUT THIS PODCAST: THE ASIAN DATING PODCAST
May talks about all things dating and Asian dating. She’s super nosy about people’s love lives and just loves love. May is a Professional Matchmaker and Dating and Relationship Coach. She founded Two Asian Matchmakers, a boutique matchmaking company. May has been helping successful and accomplished men in the United States to find an Asian partner since 2009.
May is a highly respected and active member of the Matchmakers Alliance and Global Love Institute in New York. She is always learning and teaching in the industry. May currently mentors other Asian matchmakers to excel in the industry.
May has appeared in Cosmopolitan, Los Angeles Magazine, Thrillist, Huffington Post, and numerous publications.
Duration:00:48:19
Japanese Women Love Foreign Men | Ep 147
11/7/2024
Miyoko, a Japanese matchmaker who specializes in helping Japanese men and foreign men meet Japanese women. We talk about what appeals to Japanese women about non-Japanese men. Miyoko is our international matchmaker and office manager of Glow Match Makers. She has over eight years of experience in the Japanese matchmaking industry and has a sparkling track record of bringing many couples together. Miyoko helps all of her clients feel relaxed and at ease. Glow Match Makers www.glowjp.com (415) 523-5852 info@glowjp.com *AMAZON BEST SELLER* Get my book, ‘A Roadmap For Single Asian Women’ here: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0C9L4CT87?ref_=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_dp_FKWJGPCVXW3XG8D98EWB Join The Best Asian Matchmaker’s Database Here: https://www.twoasianmatchmakers.com/profile Email: may@twoasianmatchmakers.com Website: www.twoasianmatchmakers.com Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/TwoAsianMatchmakers Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/matchmakermay Asian friends can set each other up: https://www.facebook.com/groups/datethemasians YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/twoasianmatchmakers Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@asianmatchmaker88 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mayhui/ ABOUT THIS PODCAST: THE ASIAN DATING PODCAST May talks about all things dating and Asian dating. She’s super nosy about people’s love lives and just loves love. May is a Professional Matchmaker and Dating and Relationship Coach. She founded Two Asian Matchmakers, a boutique matchmaking company. May has been helping successful and accomplished men in the United States to find an Asian partner since 2009. May is a highly respected and active member of the Matchmakers Alliance and Global Love Institute in New York. She is always learning and teaching in the industry. May currently mentors other Asian matchmakers to excel in the industry. May has appeared in Cosmopolitan, Los Angeles Magazine, Thrillist, Huffington Post, and numerous publications.
Duration:00:49:06
Don't Stress Out About Flirting. Do This | Ep 144
9/25/2024
Meet Joanna Mandell. She's a genuine, witty mother of two who brings laughter and comfort to those around her. With a diverse career spanning from leading Public Relations at NBC to thriving as a professional matchmaker, Joanna is the communication expert who fearlessly dives into the questions others shy away from. Her mission? To uncover the authentic you and guide you towards finding love. If you seek an honest, dedicated, and empathetic matchmaker, look no further - you've found your perfect match! Joanna@Afterhello.com After Hello Matchmakers Colorado Matchmakers May and Jojo talk about dating! Oh so fun!! Timecodes 0:00 -Intro 1:50 -Having conversations is flirting; being warm, joking, smiling 3:30 -Making eye contact send men the wrong message? 5:30 -Don't be rigid on a date 5:50 -Are you naturally warm or open? 6:55 -Touch your date; act on your feelings 8:00 -Don't cross your arm on a date...ever!! 10:00 -Leave your date having a good time 11:40 -Make a decision to have a good date 12:54 -Alcohol and flirting does mix 14:00 -Mocktail vs. sober curious 15:00 -Sit right next to your date, share appetizer, create intimacy 15:15 -Bar stools creating sexy vibe 18:58 -Text message flirting 21:10 -Puns, challenges 21:45 -Sarcasm...is it mean? 22:48 -The best first date question 27:54 -Banter creates connections 29:00 -How to let your date know you like him or her 30:40 -How to let your date know you want a 2nd date 31:20 -Don't be afraid to get rejected 37:15 -Don't wink The sober curious movement is a lifestyle and cultural movement that encourages people to be mindful of their alcohol consumption and make informed decisions about their relationship with alcohol. *AMAZON BEST SELLER* Get my book, ‘A Roadmap For Single Asian Women’ here: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0C9L4CT87?ref_=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_dp_FKWJGPCVXW3XG8D98EWB Join My Matchmaking Database Here: https://www.twoasianmatchmakers.com/profile Email: may@twoasianmatchmakers.com Website: www.twoasianmatchmakers.com Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/TwoAsianMatchmakers Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/matchmakermay Asian friends can set each other up: https://www.facebook.com/groups/datethemasians YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/twoasianmatchmakers Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@asianmatchmaker88 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mayhui/ ABOUT THIS PODCAST: THE ASIAN DATING PODCAST May talks about all things dating and Asian dating. She’s super nosy about people’s love lives and just loves love. May is a Professional Matchmaker and Dating and Relationship Coach. She founded Two Asian Matchmakers, a boutique matchmaking company. May has been helping successful and accomplished men in the United States to find an Asian partner since 2009. May is a highly respected and active member of the Matchmakers Alliance and Global Love Institute in New York. She is always learning and teaching in the industry. May founded the Asian Matchmaking Institute to mentor other Asian matchmakers to excel in the industry. May has appeared in Cosmopolitan, Los Angeles Magazine, Thrillist, Huffington Post, and numerous publications.
Duration:00:38:16
Overcome Asian Men Dating Challenges | Ep 146
9/25/2024
Timecodes: 0:00 - Intro 1:35 - Racism & belief systems 2:00 - Asia men vs. Asian American men dating differences 4:06 - International Asian Men don't have inferior beliefs 6:07 - Using direct style communication increases your charisma 7:25 - Have her see you as a man and blow her mind when you say this...with your accent! 8:35 - "Cuss" through the noise when you do night time approach vs. day time approach 10:07 - Confidence is how you say it, not just words; Practice will help 12:12 - How to self-regulate your emotions 13:44 - Hey "I normally don't do this" 15:45 - Only approach a gym crush who gave you the okay 17:06 - JT's ABC's of Attraction success stories 18:15 - A great day time approach strategy...involves a dog compliment 19:50 - Asian men are career driven, relationship-minded, and want to choose his woman 23:36 - Asian men are sought after outside of the US 25:59 - Pay attention to the "female gaze" in your dating photos; how to show you're well- rounded and sexual 32:00 - How JT helped men and got started in the men date coaching business 33:48 - Make confidence part of your identity; Experience and Action will raise dating confidence 35:13 - Handle rejection 36:17 - How to use "cheers" as an auto pilot opener in meeting women 40:20 - How to "move" her or if she "moves" you...what does that mean? Meet JT Tran, a dating coach who gets results for his students. THE ABCS OF ATTRACTION IS THE WORLD’S ONLY MULTI-CULTURAL, HOLISTIC-APPROACH DATING COACHING COMPANY. Based in Los Angeles, California, the ABCs of Attraction team features coaches of Asian, African, Hispanic, and Caucasian descent, and has been entrusted with the dating lives of students of every ethnicity. However, our diversity does not stop at mere ethnic boundaries; our clients have ranged from celebrities to students, professionals to politicians, from “players” to “family men”, and beyond! Contact JT at (323) 317-2431 https://www.abcsofattraction.com/ *AMAZON BEST SELLER* Get my book, ‘A Roadmap For Single Asian Women’ here: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0C9L4CT87?ref_=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_dp_FKWJGPCVXW3XG8D98EWB Join The Best Asian Matchmaker’s Database Here: https://www.twoasianmatchmakers.com/profile
Email: may@twoasianmatchmakers.com
Website: www.twoasianmatchmakers.com
Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/TwoAsianMatchmakers Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/matchmakermay Asian friends can set each other up: https://www.facebook.com/groups/datethemasians
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/twoasianmatchmakers Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@asianmatchmaker88 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mayhui/ ABOUT THIS PODCAST: THE ASIAN DATING PODCAST May talks about all things dating and Asian dating. She’s super nosy about people’s love lives and just loves love.
May is a Professional Matchmaker and Dating and Relationship Coach. She founded Two Asian Matchmakers, a boutique matchmaking company. May has been helping successful and accomplished men in the United States to find an Asian partner since 2009. May is a highly respected and active member of the Matchmakers Alliance and Global Love Institute in New York. She is always learning and teaching in the industry.
May currently mentors other Asian matchmakers to excel in the industry.
May has appeared in Cosmopolitan, Los Angeles Magazine, Thrillist, Huffington Post, and numerous publications.
Duration:00:44:48
Divorced. Dating Again. Try This. | Ep 145
9/18/2024
Mary Kate – The Matchmaker Founder and Expert Relationship Coach The inspiration behind Mary Kate's matchmaking business began with her own journey to love. After developing a unique dating system to measure her dating results, she found the love of her life in just 2.5 months. Since then, Mary Kate has had the privilege of passing this system on to dozens of singles, helping them build happy, healthy relationships. Mary Kate is on a mission to guide other serious singles in achieving their own love stories. Her business offers three core services: matchmaking, dating coaching, and her Fast Match program. Her niche is teaching the essential communication skillset required to succeed in dating and attract lasting love. Mary Kate's Matchmaking MaryKate@MKMatchmaking.com www.mkmatchmaking.com The Happiness Experiment by Gary King
AMAZON BEST SELLER Get my book, ‘A Roadmap For Single Asian Women’ here: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0C9L4CT87?... Join The Best Asian Matchmaker’s Database Here: https://www.twoasianmatchmakers.com/p... Email: may@twoasianmatchmakers.com Website: www.twoasianmatchmakers.com Facebook Page: / twoasianmatchmakers Instagram: / matchmakermay Asian friends can set each other up: / datethemasians YouTube: / twoasianmatchmakers Tiktok: / asianmatchmaker88 LinkedIn: / mayhui ABOUT THIS PODCAST: THE ASIAN DATING PODCAST May talks about all things dating and Asian dating. She’s super nosy about people’s love lives and just loves love. May is a Professional Matchmaker and Dating and Relationship Coach. She founded Two Asian Matchmakers, a boutique matchmaking company. May has been helping successful and accomplished men in the United States to find an Asian partner since 2009.
May is a highly respected and active member of the Matchmakers Alliance and Global Love Institute in New York. She is always learning and teaching in the industry. May currently mentors other Asian matchmakers to excel in the industry.
May has appeared in Cosmopolitan, Los Angeles Magazine, Thrillist, Huffington Post, and numerous publications.
Duration:00:36:55