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Navigating the complex journey to love, consciously and spiritually, with Shane Kohler

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Navigating the complex journey to love, consciously and spiritually, with Shane Kohler

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English


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Why Do I Rush Into Relationships? (and how to stop!)

4/30/2024
Click here to take your Conscious Relationship Readiness Quiz! Delving into the complexities of love and attachment, Shane unpacks the underlying motivations behind the tendency to rush into relationships and offers practical strategies for cultivating mindful, intentional connections. In this episode, Shane explores the deep-seated fears and desires that drive us to seek validation and security in romantic partnerships. From the fear of loneliness to the longing for companionship, listeners will gain a deeper understanding of the emotional dynamics at play in the rush to love. But beyond mere analysis, Shane also offers empowering tools and practices to help listeners break free from the cycle of rushing into relationships. By cultivating self-awareness, practicing self-love, and embracing the journey of self-discovery, Shane guides us toward a more conscious approach to love and dating. Whether you're navigating the complexities of dating or seeking to break free from patterns of rushing into relationships, this episode provides invaluable guidance and inspiration to support your journey toward more mindful, fulfilling connections.

Duration:00:49:40

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Why Men Lose Interest After Sex (and what makes them want to stay)

4/23/2024
To work with Shane, Apply Here. To activate your free trial of the Aura App, click here. Delving into the intricate world of hormones and neurochemistry, Shane unveils the fascinating factors that influence how men bond with women, shedding light on the mysteries of post-sex behavior. Through captivating discussions and insightful revelations, Shane explores the hormonal blueprint that governs male attraction and connection. From the role of oxytocin, the "bonding hormone," to the impact of vasopressin, dopamine and testosterone, listeners will gain a deeper understanding of how these chemicals shape men's emotional responses and desire for intimacy. But beyond the science, Shane also delves into the emotional and psychological aspects that contribute to lasting connection. By examining the importance of communication, emotional vulnerability, and shared experiences, he offers practical insights on how to create a fulfilling and enduring bond with a partner. Whether you're navigating the complexities of dating, seeking to understand male behavior, or looking to enhance intimacy in your relationship, this episode provides invaluable guidance to empower both men and women to cultivate meaningful connections based on mutual understanding and respect.

Duration:00:54:00

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How Important is Physical Attraction? The science behind it finally explained

4/16/2024
To work with Shane, apply here. Click here to register for the Attachment Workshop Here is the link to the article mentioned in the episode: https://www.verywellmind.com/what-defines-beautiful-according-to-psychologists-5180378 Delving deep into the realms of human connection and attraction, Shane demystifies the complex interplay of biology, psychology, and personal preference that shape our perceptions of physical allure. Through engaging discussions and insightful revelations, Shane sheds light on the evolutionary roots of physical attraction and its role in forming initial connections. From the influence of hormones to the power of symmetry and facial features, listeners will gain a newfound understanding of the science behind what draws us to others. But beyond the surface level, Shane also delves into the deeper significance of physical attraction in the context of conscious love and meaningful relationships. Exploring how our perceptions of beauty are influenced by cultural norms and personal experiences, Shane offers a fresh perspective on how to navigate the complexities of attraction with mindfulness and authenticity. Whether you're curious about the science behind physical attraction or seeking insights to enhance your own relationships, this episode promises to illuminate the mysteries of love and attraction in a way that resonates deeply with the heart and mind.

Duration:01:08:43

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How to Handle Your Insecure Feelings in Love and Dating

4/9/2024
Click here to apply for Inspired Love Register for Attachment Workshop here. In a world where vulnerability is often perceived as weakness, Shane invites listeners to embrace their insecure feelings with compassion and courage, transforming them into catalysts for growth and deeper connection. Through heartfelt storytelling and insightful teachings, Shane shares practical strategies and empowering insights on how to navigate feelings of insecurity with grace and resilience. From cultivating self-awareness and practicing self-love to fostering open communication and trust in relationships, Shane offers invaluable guidance on how to transform insecurity into an opportunity for personal and relational growth. Whether you're navigating the uncertainties of dating, struggling with self-doubt in a relationship, or seeking to deepen your connection with yourself and others, this episode provides the inspiration and tools you need to navigate the complexities of insecurity with wisdom and compassion.

Duration:00:58:26

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Awakening Your Sexuality to Live a Fully Expressed Life

4/2/2024
To apply for Inspired Love, click here. In this week's episode, Shane shares practical strategies and empowering insights on how to tap into the innate wisdom of your sexuality, reclaiming it as a sacred aspect of your being. Discover how cultivating a deeper connection with your sensuality can unlock a newfound sense of vitality, creativity, and self-expression. From exploring the importance of self-love and body acceptance to learning how to navigate intimacy and pleasure with authenticity and confidence, Shane offers invaluable guidance on how to liberate your sexuality from societal constraints and embrace it as a potent force for personal growth and empowerment. Whether you're seeking to deepen your connection with yourself, enhance intimacy in your relationships, or simply embrace a more vibrant and fully expressed life, this episode provides the inspiration and tools you need to embark on a journey of sexual awakening and self-discovery.

Duration:01:14:36

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Understanding Your Nervous System, Parts Work, and Inner Child Healing with Sarah Baldwin

3/26/2024
Follow Sarah on Instagram: @sarahbcoaching Learn more at www.sarahbaldwincoaching.com In this illuminating episode as we delve into the profound realms of inner healing, nervous system regulation, and parts work with the insightful Sarah Baldwin. In this transformative conversation, Sarah shares her wisdom and expertise on how understanding our nervous system can lead to deep healing and transformation. Through compassionate discussions and practical insights, Sarah guides listeners on a journey of self-discovery, exploring the intricate connections between our nervous system responses, inner child wounds, and fragmented parts of ourselves. Discover how to cultivate awareness and compassion for the different aspects of your being, fostering integration and wholeness from within. From exploring the impact of early childhood experiences to learning practical techniques for nervous system regulation, Sarah offers invaluable guidance on how to navigate the inner landscape with grace and resilience. Join us as we uncover the transformative power of parts work and inner child healing in the journey toward conscious love and self-compassion.

Duration:01:12:16

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How to Nurture the Best From Men without Mothering Them

3/19/2024
Join the March 20th Polarity Workshop here Join Shane Kohler on The Conscious Love Show for an empowering exploration into nurturing the best from men without slipping into the role of a mother. In this enlightening episode, Shane shares profound insights and practical strategies for fostering masculine growth, partnership, and harmony in relationships without compromising individual agency or authenticity. Drawing from his extensive experience as a relationship coach and spiritual guide, Shane dives deep into the dynamics of masculine energy, exploring the delicate balance between support and autonomy. Through heartfelt discussions and transformative teachings, he reveals the keys to nurturing men to reach their highest potential while honoring their innate strength and sovereignty. Whether you're seeking to deepen your connection with a male partner, enhance your communication skills, or simply understand the dynamics of masculine growth, this episode provides profound insights and practical tools to support your journey toward conscious love and partnership.

Duration:01:05:05

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The Wound is Where the Light Enters You...

3/12/2024
Apply for the Inspired Love Program: Click Here Polarity Workshop, click here to register. In this deeply introspective exploration, Shane invites listeners to embrace the profound wisdom that arises from our wounds and challenges. Drawing from his own journey and spiritual teachings, Shane delves into the transformative power of embracing our wounds as gateways to deeper understanding, compassion, and growth. Through heartfelt storytelling and insightful reflections, he illuminates the path toward healing and wholeness, reminding us that our wounds are not flaws to be hidden but sacred openings for light to enter. Whether you're navigating personal challenges, seeking to heal past traumas, or simply exploring the depths of your own heart, this episode offers invaluable guidance and inspiration to support you on your path toward greater love, wholeness, and fulfillment. Tune in to The Conscious Love Show as Shane Kohler guides us on a journey of healing, transformation, and the profound realization that our wounds are not limitations but sacred portals to the light within.

Duration:01:01:23

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Why Your Instincts Are Misleading You in Love

3/5/2024
Apply for Inspired Love here This week's episode is a thought-provoking exploration into the complexities of human instincts and their influence on our experiences in love and relationships. In this eye-opening episode, we unravel the intricacies of why our instincts can sometimes lead us astray in matters of the heart. In this episode, Shane deep dives into the roots of our instincts and how they often clash with the modern complexities of love and romance. From the allure of instant attraction to the pitfalls of toxic patterns, we examine how understanding and questioning our instincts can lead to healthier, more fulfilling relationships. Discover the importance of mindfulness, self-awareness, and emotional intelligence in navigating the complexities of modern love. Thanks for joining us and wishing you the greatest love <3

Duration:01:01:33

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Relationship Pacing to Build Attraction, Connection, and Depth

2/27/2024
To apply for Inspired Love, click here. This week, we explore the delicate art of relationship pacing, a vital element in building authentic attraction, profound connection, and lasting depth in romantic relationships. In this enlightening episode, we unravel the intricacies of pacing and its profound impact on the dynamics of love and intimacy. Shane shares insights and practical wisdom on how to navigate the journey of love with intentionality and grace. From setting boundaries to honoring individual needs and desires, we delve into the transformative power of pacing as a catalyst for cultivating trust, intimacy, and emotional resonance. As your relationship evolves, this episode offers invaluable guidance on how to navigate the ebbs and flows of love with authenticity and intention. Tune in to The Conscious Love Show and embark on a journey of conscious connection, profound attraction, and the transformative power of relationship pacing!

Duration:01:15:49

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Experiencing Abundance in Life and Love

2/20/2024
To apply for Inspired Love, click here. In this illuminating episode, we uncover the secrets to cultivating abundance in all its forms and nurturing profound connections that resonate with the essence of our being. Through heartfelt discussions and inspiring anecdotes, we delve into the interconnectedness of love and abundance, exploring how fostering a sense of abundance within ourselves can ripple outward, enriching our relationships and experiences. Join us as we delve into the transformative power of abundance rituals, manifestation techniques, and self-love practices that empower us to embrace abundance as our birthright. Whether you're seeking to attract abundance in your career, relationships, or personal growth journey, this episode offers a roadmap to unlock the infinite possibilities of love and abundance. Thanks for listening and we're wishing you immense love and abundance in all aspects of your life!

Duration:01:42:27

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Acceptance: Completing Past Cycles to Create Freedom and Love

2/13/2024
Apply for Inspired Love: Click Here In this episode of The Conscious Love Show we explore the transformative power of acceptance. Join us as we unravel the intricacies of completing past cycles to pave the way for freedom and love in our lives. In today's episode, Shane guides us through a profound journey of acceptance, offering invaluable insights and practical strategies to embrace closure and release the burdens of the past. Through heartfelt conversations and personal anecdotes, he reveals the importance of acknowledging our past experiences, embracing them with compassion, and allowing ourselves to heal. Discover the liberating effects of acceptance as we break free from the shackles of resentment, guilt, and regret. From forgiveness rituals to self-reflection practices, we explore various tools and techniques to facilitate the process of acceptance and create space for love to flourish. Whether you're navigating past traumas, relationship conflicts, or simply seeking inner peace, this episode offers guidance to help you embark on a journey towards wholeness and fulfillment. Tune in to The Conscious Love Show and embark on a transformative odyssey of acceptance, closure, and the boundless possibilities of love!

Duration:01:31:33

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Fatima's Story: A Valentine's Day Special where Fatima and I share our love story

2/6/2024
Click here to register for Breath of Love on February 13th! Hey friends, in this special episode, I have my wife on the show for the very first time where we share our story and she shares the intimate details of her journey and everything she went through to create the love we have today. I really enjoyed this intimate and vulnerable conversation with my love and I know you will too. Packed with deep insights, humor, lessons, and heartfelt moments, this is an episode you don't want to miss!

Duration:01:52:48

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Choosing the Right Partner Part 2: Individual Aspects of Compatibility

2/1/2024
Click here to register for the Breath of Love event! In this week's episode we explore choosing the right partner, not in a way that applies to everyone, but in a way that applies to you personally. This episode is a deep dive into exploring your own values, needs, and desires, in a relationship. What are the things that are truly non-negotiable for you? And what can you be flexible about? The answers might surprise you! Also, don't forget to register for our special Valentine's event Breath of Love! Space is limited so register now at the link above <3

Duration:01:25:53

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Choosing the Right Partner, Part 1: Universal aspects of compatibility

1/23/2024
In this episode of The Conscious Love Show we do a deep dive on how to choose the right partner. Shane does a detailed exploration of how to identify true compatibility with someone, covering important red and green flags that reveal the character of a person. In this Part 1 of a 2 part episode, we focus more on the universal aspects of compatibility that apply to everyone. In part two we'll look at compatibility in more of an individual sense and how to choose the partner that's right for you specifically.

Duration:01:45:10

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Cultivating Self-Love and Healing Self-Destructive Patterns

1/16/2024
In this transformative episode of The Conscious Love Show, we delve deep into the profound realms of cultivating self-love and breaking free from self-destructive patterns that may hinder our personal growth. today, Shane shares invaluable insights on the importance of self-love as the foundation for building meaningful connections with others. Discover practical tips and empowering techniques to nurture a positive relationship with yourself and banish self-sabotaging behaviors. Through heartfelt conversations and personal stories, we explore the roots of self-destructive patterns, understanding their origins, and unlocking the keys to healing. Gain a fresh perspective on self-love as a dynamic force that empowers us to embrace our authentic selves. Whether you're on a quest for personal transformation or seeking ways to enhance your existing self-love practices, this episode provides a wealth of wisdom to guide you on your journey. Tune in, open your heart, and let the healing begin on The Conscious Love Show!

Duration:01:36:57

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Healing Attachment Wounds and Navigating the Wounds of Others

1/9/2024
FREE TRIAL through Jan 12th! Click Here: InspiredLoveProgram.com In this week's episode, join Shane as he explores the roots of attachment wounds and how they shape our emotional landscapes. Discover insightful strategies and therapeutic approaches to heal these wounds, fostering a path towards healthier connections and self-discovery. But that's not all – we also navigate the complex terrain of dealing with the wounds of others, especially in our romantic relationships, understanding and supporting those we care about through their healing process is a crucial aspect of fostering genuine connection and lasting love. Through candid conversation and real-life stories, this episode provides a compass for listeners to navigate the often tumultuous waters of attachment wounds and gain valuable insights into fostering empathy, communication, and resilience as we collectively strive for healing and growth.

Duration:01:41:55

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Get Turned On by Life and Love in 2024

1/2/2024
Start you free trial for The Inspired Love Program here: http://inspiredloveprogram.com Welcome to 2024! In this first episode of the new year, join Shane as he explores the profound connection between living a fulfilling life and experiencing deep, conscious love. As we step into the new year, gain expert insights and practical tips to help you ignite passion in every aspect of your existence and attract the deep passionate love you've been seeking. Discover how to cultivate a mindset that sparks joy, meaningful connections, and a love for life that radiates throughout the year and makes you wildly attractive to the people you meet. It's time to elevate your consciousness and embrace a love-filled 2024!

Duration:01:46:50

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Happy Holiday and New Year Message from Shane Kohler

12/28/2023
Happy Holidays and so much love as we enter this New Year. Thank you for being part of this community! Your presence here is immensely appreciated, we are only here because of you. Thank you for listening this year and we're looking forward to an exciting 2024! Much love and many blessings <3 Shane

Duration:00:02:18

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New Year Intentions and Holiday Mindset with Shane Kohler

12/20/2023
Click Here to Get Started with Inspired Love In this heartfelt episode of The Conscious Love Show, we usher in the holiday season with a special focus on the power of gratitude and intention. Join us as we explore a mindful approach to spending the holidays solo, steering away from the societal pressure to lament the absence of a partner. Instead, we invite you to embrace the present moment with gratitude for what you have, and to set clear intentions for the love you wish to cultivate in the upcoming year. Discover empowering practices that will shift your mindset, allowing you to celebrate your own company and find joy in the holiday season, regardless of relationship status. Whether you're navigating the holidays independently by choice or circumstance, this episode offers insights and practical tips to foster self-love, gratitude, and a conscious anticipation for the love that lies ahead in the new year. Tune in for a dose of inspiration that will empower you to enter the next chapter of your love journey with clarity and intention.

Duration:01:50:29