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Midlife brings many changes in a woman's life. Our bodies are changing so much that it can feel scary and upsetting. It affects our mental well-being and relationships with our significant others. Many women also become empty nesters now, and we can be left wondering what's next.If you're looking for a community of women, so you don't have to go through this alone, you've come to the right spot. You will hear stories from women who have made pivots, resources for managing menopause, and teachings from Terri Kellums, coach to midlife and empty-nest women seeking fulfillment by discovering their passions and purpose

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Midlife brings many changes in a woman's life. Our bodies are changing so much that it can feel scary and upsetting. It affects our mental well-being and relationships with our significant others. Many women also become empty nesters now, and we can be left wondering what's next.If you're looking for a community of women, so you don't have to go through this alone, you've come to the right spot. You will hear stories from women who have made pivots, resources for managing menopause, and teachings from Terri Kellums, coach to midlife and empty-nest women seeking fulfillment by discovering their passions and purpose

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English


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Day 12 - New Beginnings and Twelve Drumers

1/5/2024
In this final episode of the series, Terri reflects on the past year and the need for change. She discusses the resistance to change and the importance of recognizing when something no longer works. Terri encourages listeners to clear clutter, prioritize health, create a vision, build connections, and continue personal growth. She emphasizes the importance of celebrating achievements and setting SMART goals. Terri concludes by inviting listeners for coaching or assistance in planning activities. Takeaways Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Reflection 02:16 Recognizing the Need for Change 04:09 Resistance to Change 06:34 Taking Action: Clearing Clutter and Prioritizing Health 07:32 Creating a Vision and Building Connections 08:28 Continued Personal Growth and Celebrating Achievements 09:27 Conclusion and Next Steps Support the Show. Enjoying the Content? Want to support the show? https://www.buymeacoffee.com/Terrikellums Join the podcast on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/whatwomenwanttoday_podcast/ Facebook Page https://www.facebook.com/www2day Private Facebook Community https://www.facebook.com/groups/www2day Email www2daypodacast@gmail.com Website https://www.whatwomenwanttoday.com/ YouTube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCjk1SBYDlhl-6e0NowlDidA Join our email list https://terrikellums.activehosted.com/f/3 *any Amazon links listed in the show notes are affiliate links, and we get a small commission which helps us with production costs. This does not affect the price for you or the seller of these items. We appreciate you so much!

Duration:00:11:39

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DAY 11 - Goals That Sparkle: Smart 2.0 & Lords a Leaping

1/4/2024
Ready to inject some sparkle into your goal-setting routine? We've got you covered! Join me Terri Kellums on the What Women Want Today podcast, where we're turning the traditional SMART goals on their head with our Smart 2.0 strategy. On this special 11th day of our 12 Days of Christmas series, we're sharing the secret ingredients to creating goals that stick and dance to the rhythm of your deepest passions and values. Imagine goals that don't just sit on a checklist but become the magnetic force that propels you out of bed each morning with a heart full of purpose. We're moving beyond the mundane and into the marvelous as we discuss how to craft a vision that truly lights up your imagination and develop an action plan that gracefully pivots with life's every twist and turn. Revel in the journey of setting goals as we advocate for the joy found in each step, with a timeless tracking system that celebrates progress without the pressure of ticking clocks. Whether you're looking to enhance your personal relationships, boost your health, or enrich your emotional well-being, our lively conversation will leave you equipped with the tools for success. Make sure to join our Facebook group for all the glittering details and to sustain that goal-getting energy all year round. Support the Show. Enjoying the Content? Want to support the show? https://www.buymeacoffee.com/Terrikellums Join the podcast on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/whatwomenwanttoday_podcast/ Facebook Page https://www.facebook.com/www2day Private Facebook Community https://www.facebook.com/groups/www2day Email www2daypodacast@gmail.com Website https://www.whatwomenwanttoday.com/ YouTube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCjk1SBYDlhl-6e0NowlDidA Join our email list https://terrikellums.activehosted.com/f/3 *any Amazon links listed in the show notes are affiliate links, and we get a small commission which helps us with production costs. This does not affect the price for you or the seller of these items. We appreciate you so much!

Duration:00:07:35

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DAY 10 - Time Management and Ten Lords

1/3/2024
Ever found yourself with a coffee in hand, contemplating the cosmic juggle of work, life, and that ever-elusive "me-time"? Terri Kellums sure has, and she's spilling the beans on her personal tussles with time management in today's heart-to-heart chat. We're on day 10 of our 12 Days of Christmas series, bringing to light the chaotic ballet of daily schedules, from unforeseen work assignments to those last-minute pleas for a forgotten school project. This episode isn't just about the challenges; it's a treasure trove of actionable strategies, referencing a wealth of over 50,000 books on the topic to help you seize the day and reclaim your hours. Terri's candid reveal about a planner who's set to revolutionize her year is just the cherry on top. And if you've ever disguised procrastination by deep-cleaning your fridge, you'll feel right at home as we dissect the not-so-obvious forms of dilly-dallying. It's more than just a conversation; it's a masterclass in self-awareness and discipline, underscored by tales of last-minute grocery runs and the pursuit of a morning routine that actually sticks. Tune in for this deep dive into time management, where Terry and Amanda bridge the gap between knowing better and doing better. Support the Show. Enjoying the Content? Want to support the show? https://www.buymeacoffee.com/Terrikellums Join the podcast on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/whatwomenwanttoday_podcast/ Facebook Page https://www.facebook.com/www2day Private Facebook Community https://www.facebook.com/groups/www2day Email www2daypodacast@gmail.com Website https://www.whatwomenwanttoday.com/ YouTube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCjk1SBYDlhl-6e0NowlDidA Join our email list https://terrikellums.activehosted.com/f/3 *any Amazon links listed in the show notes are affiliate links, and we get a small commission which helps us with production costs. This does not affect the price for you or the seller of these items. We appreciate you so much!

Duration:00:09:30

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DAY 9 Celebrating with Nine Ladies Dancing

1/2/2024
Summary In this episode, the host discusses the importance of celebrating achievements and milestones along the way. She shares a story about a woman dealing with complicated grief and how therapy and celebrating small goals helped her. The host also highlights the characteristics of the Gen X generation and their tendency to downplay achievements. She emphasizes the benefits of celebrating, such as boosting morale and self-confidence. The episode concludes with the meaning of the song 'Nine Ladies Dancing,' which represents joy and celebration. Takeaways Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Setting the Topic 00:29 Story of Complicated Grief 01:16 Intensive Therapy and Celebrating Goals 02:09 Characteristics of Gen X 03:09 Benefits of Celebrating Achievements 04:06 Reflecting on Past Accomplishments and Setting Goals 04:34 Meaning of Nine Ladies Dancing 04:57 Conclusion Support the Show. Enjoying the Content? Want to support the show? https://www.buymeacoffee.com/Terrikellums Join the podcast on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/whatwomenwanttoday_podcast/ Facebook Page https://www.facebook.com/www2day Private Facebook Community https://www.facebook.com/groups/www2day Email www2daypodacast@gmail.com Website https://www.whatwomenwanttoday.com/ YouTube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCjk1SBYDlhl-6e0NowlDidA Join our email list https://terrikellums.activehosted.com/f/3 *any Amazon links listed in the show notes are affiliate links, and we get a small commission which helps us with production costs. This does not affect the price for you or the seller of these items. We appreciate you so much!

Duration:00:06:23

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Eight Maids a Milking: and Personal Growth

1/1/2024
Ever felt like technology is sprinting ahead while you're tying your shoelaces? That's been the story of my year, but guess what? I've turned those tech hurdles into personal growth triumphs, and I'm eager to take you through this journey on today's podcast. As we continue our festive 12 Days of Christmas series, we're embracing the theme of "Eight Maids a Milking," which translates into the nurturing and care we must give ourselves. It's about self-sustenance, and in today's episode, I, Terri Kellums, am flying solo to share these insights and extend a special invitation to my pre-launch book club – your ticket to a complimentary sneak peek at my upcoming book. Our conversation might be missing Amanda Keeper's vibrant presence today, but it's packed with reflections on the six essential elements for enduring happiness we adored from season one. Revisiting this favorite moment ties beautifully into our focus on personal growth, a value close to my heart. So, as you tune in, picture this – a space where we explore what it means to nurture your well-being, develop a sustainable sense of joy, and maybe even get a free copy of a book that could add a new chapter to your life. Join me as we honor ourselves this holiday season, and let's make personal growth more than just a New Year's resolution. Support the Show. Enjoying the Content? Want to support the show? https://www.buymeacoffee.com/Terrikellums Join the podcast on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/whatwomenwanttoday_podcast/ Facebook Page https://www.facebook.com/www2day Private Facebook Community https://www.facebook.com/groups/www2day Email www2daypodacast@gmail.com Website https://www.whatwomenwanttoday.com/ YouTube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCjk1SBYDlhl-6e0NowlDidA Join our email list https://terrikellums.activehosted.com/f/3 *any Amazon links listed in the show notes are affiliate links, and we get a small commission which helps us with production costs. This does not affect the price for you or the seller of these items. We appreciate you so much!

Duration:00:12:36

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Day 7 Connection and Community - Seven Swans

12/31/2023
In this episode, host Terri Kellums discusses the importance of connection with community for mental health and personal growth. She reflects on her own experiences of feeling disconnected after moving to a new place and emphasizes the need for socialization and support. Terri shares various strategies for finding and building a community, including joining interest-based groups, using online platforms like Meetup.com, and connecting with others through work and hobbies. She also highlights the healing power of being in a supportive community and encourages listeners to navigate challenges with grace and elegance. Takeaways Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Reflection on 2023 00:58 The Importance of Connection with Community 03:07 Challenges of Finding Community in a New Place 05:30 Finding Community through Shared Interests 07:18 Online Communities and Social Media 09:39 Overcoming Fear and Joining Hiking Groups 10:34 Using Meetup.com to Find Interest-Based Groups 12:02 Finding Community through Work and Hobbies 13:22 The Importance of Being in Community 16:06 Reflection on Grace and Elegance in Personal Growth 16:32 Conclusion and Invitation to Join the Community Support the Show. Enjoying the Content? Want to support the show? https://www.buymeacoffee.com/Terrikellums Join the podcast on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/whatwomenwanttoday_podcast/ Facebook Page https://www.facebook.com/www2day Private Facebook Community https://www.facebook.com/groups/www2day Email www2daypodacast@gmail.com Website https://www.whatwomenwanttoday.com/ YouTube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCjk1SBYDlhl-6e0NowlDidA Join our email list https://terrikellums.activehosted.com/f/3 *any Amazon links listed in the show notes are affiliate links, and we get a small commission which helps us with production costs. This does not affect the price for you or the seller of these items. We appreciate you so much!

Duration:00:18:33

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DAY 6 - Geese a Layin' and Passions

12/30/2023
In this episode, host Terri Kellums discusses the importance of passion in life and how it can provide fulfillment, energy, and motivation. She shares her journey of finding her passion for helping midlife women and creating a podcast community. Terri emphasizes that not all passions lead to a purpose and suggests exploring new interests and keeping an open mind to discover passions. She also highlights the importance of aligning passions with core values and overcoming roadblocks to pursue them. Terri encourages listeners to let go of passions that no longer serve them and make room for new ones. The episode concludes with a reflection on new beginnings and a wish for a happy new year. Takeaways Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Passion 01:26 Discovering a Passion 03:15 Finding Your Passion 05:37 Passions Aligned with Values 06:35 Exploring and Trying New Passions 07:04 Overcoming Roadblocks to Pursue Passions 08:59 Letting Go of Passions 10:53 Reflection on New Beginnings 11:20 Conclusion and New Year's Wishes Support the Show. Enjoying the Content? Want to support the show? https://www.buymeacoffee.com/Terrikellums Join the podcast on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/whatwomenwanttoday_podcast/ Facebook Page https://www.facebook.com/www2day Private Facebook Community https://www.facebook.com/groups/www2day Email www2daypodacast@gmail.com Website https://www.whatwomenwanttoday.com/ YouTube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCjk1SBYDlhl-6e0NowlDidA Join our email list https://terrikellums.activehosted.com/f/3 *any Amazon links listed in the show notes are affiliate links, and we get a small commission which helps us with production costs. This does not affect the price for you or the seller of these items. We appreciate you so much!

Duration:00:13:24

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12 Days of Christmas - 5 Gold Rings - Creating a Vision

12/29/2023
In this episode, Terri Kellums discusses the power of vision boards and daydreaming as tools for manifestation. She shares her personal experiences with vision boards and how they have helped her achieve her goals. Terri also encourages listeners to create mind movies and visualize their desired outcomes. She emphasizes the importance of disrupting patterns and habits that may hinder progress. Finally, Terri reflects on the value of personal and experiential wealth and encourages listeners to appreciate what truly matters to them. Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Setting Intentions 04:10 The Power of Vision Boards 07:00 Daydreaming as a Manifestation Tool 10:22 Creating a Mind Movie 14:00 Disrupting Patterns and Habits 16:21 Reflecting on Personal and Experiential Wealth Support the Show. Enjoying the Content? Want to support the show? https://www.buymeacoffee.com/Terrikellums Join the podcast on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/whatwomenwanttoday_podcast/ Facebook Page https://www.facebook.com/www2day Private Facebook Community https://www.facebook.com/groups/www2day Email www2daypodacast@gmail.com Website https://www.whatwomenwanttoday.com/ YouTube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCjk1SBYDlhl-6e0NowlDidA Join our email list https://terrikellums.activehosted.com/f/3 *any Amazon links listed in the show notes are affiliate links, and we get a small commission which helps us with production costs. This does not affect the price for you or the seller of these items. We appreciate you so much!

Duration:00:18:51

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Twelve Days of Christmas - Health and Four Calling Birds

12/28/2023
In this episode, host Terri Kellums discusses the importance of health and the top three health goals for 2024: mental, physical, and financial health. She shares her personal health challenges and highlights the need to focus on these areas. Terri explores statistics on financial health, life expectancy, and common health issues. She delves into weight loss and the various diets people follow. The conversation then shifts to exercise and the importance of building muscle mass. Terri shares her experience with intermittent fasting and emphasizes the need to measure progress beyond just the scale. She provides tips for improving health, including reducing stress, finding joy, and being kind. The episode concludes with a discussion of financial responsibility, giving back, and finding passion and purpose in life. Takeaways Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Personal Health Challenges 01:26 Financial Health 03:21 Life Expectancy and Health Statistics 03:51 Weight Loss and Diets 07:08 Exercise and Physical Health 08:59 Intermittent Fasting and Measuring Progress 09:27 Tips for Improving Health 14:39 Reducing Stress and Finding Joy 18:51 Financial Responsibility and Sustainability 20:15 Giving Back and Being Kind 23:02 Finding Passion and Purpose 25:24 Celebrating Small Steps and Changing Mindset 26:21 Conclusion Support the Show. Enjoying the Content? Want to support the show? https://www.buymeacoffee.com/Terrikellums Join the podcast on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/whatwomenwanttoday_podcast/ Facebook Page https://www.facebook.com/www2day Private Facebook Community https://www.facebook.com/groups/www2day Email www2daypodacast@gmail.com Website https://www.whatwomenwanttoday.com/ YouTube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCjk1SBYDlhl-6e0NowlDidA Join our email list https://terrikellums.activehosted.com/f/3 *any Amazon links listed in the show notes are affiliate links, and we get a small commission which helps us with production costs. This does not affect the price for you or the seller of these items. We appreciate you so much!

Duration:00:28:13

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Day 3 - Clearing the Clutter

12/27/2023
In this episode, Terri explores the topic of clutter and its relationship with disorganization. She discusses the definitions of clutter and disorganization and highlights that while they are related, they are not the same thing. The host shares personal experiences with clutter and emphasizes the importance of being organized for mental clarity, increased productivity, better decision-making, improved mental well-being, and enhanced creativity and focus. She also mentions the connection between clutter and prosperity. Takeaways Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Definition of Clutter 03:24 The Relationship Between Disorganization and Clutter 06:18 The Impact of Organization on Productivity 09:05 The Benefits of Being Organized 15:41 The Connection Between Clutter and Prosperity Episode Five https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/are-these-3-things-causing-you-stress/id1552726231?i=1000595543052 Support the Show. Enjoying the Content? Want to support the show? https://www.buymeacoffee.com/Terrikellums Join the podcast on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/whatwomenwanttoday_podcast/ Facebook Page https://www.facebook.com/www2day Private Facebook Community https://www.facebook.com/groups/www2day Email www2daypodacast@gmail.com Website https://www.whatwomenwanttoday.com/ YouTube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCjk1SBYDlhl-6e0NowlDidA Join our email list https://terrikellums.activehosted.com/f/3 *any Amazon links listed in the show notes are affiliate links, and we get a small commission which helps us with production costs. This does not affect the price for you or the seller of these items. We appreciate you so much!

Duration:00:16:18

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Twelve Days of Christmas: Two Turtle Doves

12/26/2023
Join me, Terri Kellums, on a heartfelt journey through the world of gratitude on our second day of the 12 Days of Christmas series. While exploring this theme, I opened up about a tradition close to my heart—one that began with my daughters and a daily group message to share things we're thankful for. This practice not only strengthened our family bond but led to an expansion of my circle of gratitude, enveloping friends and loved ones in a shared experience of appreciation. I'll take you through the highs and lows of maintaining a gratitude practice, touching upon those challenging days when finding things to be thankful for seems like an insurmountable task. This episode offers you a 'life hack' for those tough mornings, starting with identifying five things you're grateful for, from the familiar aroma of coffee to the cozy caress of your bedsheets. Whether you're looking to enhance your relationships, boost your health, or enrich your emotional and spiritual well-being, this episode is your invitation to cultivate a habit of gratitude that can profoundly shift your perspective and bring renewed joy every day. Let's learn how to turn the ordinary into an opportunity for thankfulness. Support the Show. Enjoying the Content? Want to support the show? https://www.buymeacoffee.com/Terrikellums Join the podcast on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/whatwomenwanttoday_podcast/ Facebook Page https://www.facebook.com/www2day Private Facebook Community https://www.facebook.com/groups/www2day Email www2daypodacast@gmail.com Website https://www.whatwomenwanttoday.com/ YouTube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCjk1SBYDlhl-6e0NowlDidA Join our email list https://terrikellums.activehosted.com/f/3 *any Amazon links listed in the show notes are affiliate links, and we get a small commission which helps us with production costs. This does not affect the price for you or the seller of these items. We appreciate you so much!

Duration:00:09:19

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Twelve Days of Christmas - A Partridge in a Pear Tree

12/25/2023
As the holidays wrap us in their familiar embrace, I find myself navigating a sea of emotions that many of us know all too well. In this heartfelt reflection, let me take you on a journey through the joys, the stresses, and the poignant absences that shape our yuletide celebrations. My personal narrative intertwines with a special 12-day series of episodes, each a beacon intended to light the way toward finding renewed meaning in our cherished traditions and the closing chapter of another year. Together, let's explore the symphony of Christmas music that has become a thread in the fabric of my family life, and I'll share why it matters so much. Stepping into the realm of sustainability, I recount the spark that ignited my eco-conscious voyage—a simple garden compost. This week's discussion unveils the surprising cascade of choices that followed, from a dramatic reduction in plastic bag usage to embracing glass over plastic. I draw a parallel between these modest, personal shifts and their potential to ripple outwards, influencing greater change. As we unwrap the symbolism of the "12 Days of Christmas," I invite you to reflect on the themes of protection, nurturing, and the abundance that growth brings, just as I have. Woven into our conversation, these themes serve as an undercurrent, challenging us to consider the impact of our own protective layers and the nurturing we grant to others and ourselves. Support the Show. Enjoying the Content? Want to support the show? https://www.buymeacoffee.com/Terrikellums Join the podcast on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/whatwomenwanttoday_podcast/ Facebook Page https://www.facebook.com/www2day Private Facebook Community https://www.facebook.com/groups/www2day Email www2daypodacast@gmail.com Website https://www.whatwomenwanttoday.com/ YouTube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCjk1SBYDlhl-6e0NowlDidA Join our email list https://terrikellums.activehosted.com/f/3 *any Amazon links listed in the show notes are affiliate links, and we get a small commission which helps us with production costs. This does not affect the price for you or the seller of these items. We appreciate you so much!

Duration:00:18:48

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Self Confidence and Emotional Intelligence are the GAME Changers

12/6/2023
Ever wondered if the way we perceive ourselves dictates our behaviors and emotions? Or if the people we choose to surround ourselves with are more of a reflection on us than on them? Tune in as we dissect these intriguing concepts through the enlightening metaphor of 'The Three Chairs', introduced by Dr. Karyn Gordon on the Resetters podcast. The chairs stand symbolically, each encapsulating a different attitude and representing the spectrum of self-perception - from self-doubt to arrogance to the golden middle ground of confidence laced with humility. We further plunge into the depths of self-perception, analyzing its impact on our behavior and emotions, all through the lens of the acclaimed TV show 'Six Feet Under'. We'll also touch upon the natural evolution of friendships and the paramount importance of being around positive influences. We share our personal experiences and reflections on the subject, aiming to provide valuable insights for our listeners. For those keen on exploring these themes further, we recommend Dr. Karen Gordon's book "The Three Chairs" and Dr. Mindy Pelz' Resetter podcast. This episode is a treasure trove of wisdom, underlining the significance of self-awareness, intentional actions, and personal growth. So, ready to take the plunge into a journey of self-discovery and transformation? Buckle up! The Resetter Podcast episode The Three Chairs Book Link Ted Talk with Dr Karyn Gord on the Three Chairs Concept Support the Show. Enjoying the Content? Want to support the show? https://www.buymeacoffee.com/Terrikellums Join the podcast on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/whatwomenwanttoday_podcast/ Facebook Page https://www.facebook.com/www2day Private Facebook Community https://www.facebook.com/groups/www2day Email www2daypodacast@gmail.com Website https://www.whatwomenwanttoday.com/ YouTube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCjk1SBYDlhl-6e0NowlDidA Join our email list https://terrikellums.activehosted.com/f/3 *any Amazon links listed in the show notes are affiliate links, and we get a small commission which helps us with production costs. This does not affect the price for you or the seller of these items. We appreciate you so much!

Duration:00:34:00

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Deepening our Connections with Intimate Roadmaps

11/29/2023
Have you ever wondered what nurturing female friendships and encouraging intimacy takes? Well, today my co-host Amanda Keeper and I decided to find out. We exchanged stories, shared our deepest fears, and navigated various topics, from our pet peeves, recurring dreams, and lottery dreams to the nostalgia of our childhood memories. One thing that stood out was our conversation on the power of meaningful advice and how it has shaped our lives, especially in our careers and parenting choices. In one of our most personal and enlightening episodes, We reminisced over our favorite Christmas movies and even revealed some of the craziest things we'd done as teenagers. Terri, candid as ever, opened up about her fears of aging and being alone, leading to an enlightening discussion on embracing change. We were all reminded of the power of open conversations in deepening connections and understanding ourselves better. We ended our conversation on a high note with a fun and humorous gift exchange, a testament to the importance of love and the deep connections that we've fostered. So, are you ready to join us on this enriching journey of self-discovery? We promise our heartfelt and insightful chat will inspire you to have similar conversations with your friends and loved ones. Remember to go to the Facebook community and share your favorite childhood comfort foods! RESOURCES: Questions document Support the Show. Enjoying the Content? Want to support the show? https://www.buymeacoffee.com/Terrikellums Join the podcast on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/whatwomenwanttoday_podcast/ Facebook Page https://www.facebook.com/www2day Private Facebook Community https://www.facebook.com/groups/www2day Email www2daypodacast@gmail.com Website https://www.whatwomenwanttoday.com/ YouTube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCjk1SBYDlhl-6e0NowlDidA Join our email list https://terrikellums.activehosted.com/f/3 *any Amazon links listed in the show notes are affiliate links, and we get a small commission which helps us with production costs. This does not affect the price for you or the seller of these items. We appreciate you so much!

Duration:01:01:04

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Managing Expectations: Navigating the Path to Disappointment

11/21/2023
There's something sneaky that creeps into our minds around the holiday season - expectations. We've all experienced the disappointment that can come when expectations are not met. This episode is all about unpacking these mental projections, figuring out how societal norms and personal experiences shape them, and, most importantly, how to manage them effectively. We'll take a closer look at the thin line separating realistic from unrealistic expectations and equip you with strategies to avoid disappointment. Beyond the disappointment, we delve deeper into how unmet expectations can impact relationships and stir personal growth. We'll share insights on how crushed hopes can create a chasm between people and instigate resentment, yet also present invaluable opportunities for candid communication and better understanding of one another. You'll hear us talk about disappointment's surprising role in self-reflection and personal development, pushing us to foster resilience, adaptability, and emotional intelligence. Expectations are everywhere, from our careers to our personal relationships and body image. Join us as we explore ways to manage them effectively through self-awareness, understanding our values, identifying patterns, practicing mindfulness, and seeking feedback. Support the Show. Enjoying the Content? Want to support the show? https://www.buymeacoffee.com/Terrikellums Join the podcast on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/whatwomenwanttoday_podcast/ Facebook Page https://www.facebook.com/www2day Private Facebook Community https://www.facebook.com/groups/www2day Email www2daypodacast@gmail.com Website https://www.whatwomenwanttoday.com/ YouTube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCjk1SBYDlhl-6e0NowlDidA Join our email list https://terrikellums.activehosted.com/f/3 *any Amazon links listed in the show notes are affiliate links, and we get a small commission which helps us with production costs. This does not affect the price for you or the seller of these items. We appreciate you so much!

Duration:00:19:07

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Redemption or Contamination Stories and the Influence of Cultural Narratives

11/15/2023
Let's start by defining these two types of stories. Redemption sequences are described as narratives that transition from negative emotion toward positive emotion, while contamination sequences are narratives that transition from positive emotion toward negative emotion. Imagine how your life might change if you could harness the power of your personal narrative to influence your mental health and overall well-being. In this thought-provoking discussion, we draw on the compelling research of Jonathan Adler to explore the transformative potential of turning pain into purpose. We uncover the fascinating contrast of redemption versus contamination narratives, and how one's life story can significantly shape their reality. Life is composed of alternate realities and the paths we choose to follow. One such journey took a woman from the precipice of military boot camp to the unexpected discovery of motherhood. Her narrative, stretching over a decade, helps us to understand the weight of our decisions, and how they can redefine our personal stories. Moreover, we venture into the realm of cultural narratives, investigating their major role in shaping our identities, and how therapy can help reconcile the expectations born from these narratives with our personal experiences. Finally, we navigate the concept of agency, considering how it can guide us toward making the right choices in life. We reflect on the impact of leadership changes within a company, and how these can cause a drastic shift in the work environment. The allure of 'golden handcuffs' is another facet we explore and how this can create a barrier to leaving a job, even when it might be the best course of action. We close by acknowledging that our hardships can be woven into redemption narratives and that we can choose which parts of our stories to emphasize. So, join us for an enlightening conversation that may inspire you to see your own story in a different light. RESOURCES Hidden Brain Podcast Support the Show. Enjoying the Content? Want to support the show? https://www.buymeacoffee.com/Terrikellums Join the podcast on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/whatwomenwanttoday_podcast/ Facebook Page https://www.facebook.com/www2day Private Facebook Community https://www.facebook.com/groups/www2day Email www2daypodacast@gmail.com Website https://www.whatwomenwanttoday.com/ YouTube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCjk1SBYDlhl-6e0NowlDidA Join our email list https://terrikellums.activehosted.com/f/3 *any Amazon links listed in the show notes are affiliate links, and we get a small commission which helps us with production costs. This does not affect the price for you or the seller of these items. We appreciate you so much!

Duration:00:37:29

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Traveling the Hills and Valleys of Menopause Mayhem

11/6/2023
Struggling through the turbulent times of menopause, I found myself retreating from the world, even my husband. It was a challenging period, filled with isolation, depression, and countless sleepless nights. My mom had a similar experience during her menopause phase, and an unexpected ally in her obsession with owls. Join us in this intimate episode where we open up about these personal experiences and explore the hard realities of menopause and depression. Have you ever experienced the desperation of wanting to seek help but not knowing how? The feeling can be paralyzing. Amanda, my podcast partner, and I share our struggles and our paths to seeking help before hitting rock bottom. Our journey hasn't been an easy one, it's filled with battles against insomnia, anxiety, and the societal pressures intensified by social media. We also pay tribute to Matthew Perry, whose recent passing has served as a stark reminder that mental health struggles are not confined to any gender or status. The episode culminates with a heartening note on women empowerment and solidarity during trying times. The power of community support cannot be overstated. We explore various avenues of help like telehealth, which allow you to seek support from the comfort of your home. This episode is a testament to the strength and resilience women can harness during difficult periods in life. So sit back, listen in, and join our journey towards understanding and navigating the challenges of menopause and depression. Menopausal Mayhem Mothers on Instagram Support the Show. Enjoying the Content? Want to support the show? https://www.buymeacoffee.com/Terrikellums Join the podcast on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/whatwomenwanttoday_podcast/ Facebook Page https://www.facebook.com/www2day Private Facebook Community https://www.facebook.com/groups/www2day Email www2daypodacast@gmail.com Website https://www.whatwomenwanttoday.com/ YouTube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCjk1SBYDlhl-6e0NowlDidA Join our email list https://terrikellums.activehosted.com/f/3 *any Amazon links listed in the show notes are affiliate links, and we get a small commission which helps us with production costs. This does not affect the price for you or the seller of these items. We appreciate you so much!

Duration:00:36:51

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Breast Implant Illness - A Healing Journey w/ Tiffany Robinson-Brown

11/1/2023
How far would you go to feel comfortable in your own skin? Join us for an incredibly personal and profound discussion with our guest Tiffany, who shares her story of body transformation and self-perception. Navigating us through her journey, Tiffany opens up about her decisions to undergo a breast reduction, get implants, and later, opt to remove those implants. This episode is heavy with emotion as we dive into the deep waters of self-care, self-love, and the pivotal role they play in our decisions about our body image. Tiffany's narrative takes a compelling turn when she recalls her decision to have the implants removed. What sparked this choice? A combination of intense research, spiritual guidance and a life-altering motorcycle accident. We also touch on the often neglected topic of detoxification post-implant removal. Tiffany shares her detox experiences and provides valuable insights on reducing toxicity in our bodies, starting with small, manageable changes in our daily habits. In the final act of this riveting conversation, we discuss the power of language and its impact on self-perception and body image. Tiffany's revelation about rewiring her brain to form a more positive self-image is an incredible testament to the transformative power of language. The episode concludes with reflections on Tiffany's journey with implants and their removal and a surprising discussion on fat transfer as a potential alternative to implants. This is a soul-stirring conversation that teaches us about resilience, self-love, and the power of positivity. Join us for this enlightening journey. RESOURCES FOR TODAY'S Episode Breast Implant Illness Website Symptoms Checklist INSTAGRAM LIVE WITH TIFFANY 2 YEARS AGO Support the Show. Enjoying the Content? Want to support the show? https://www.buymeacoffee.com/Terrikellums Join the podcast on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/whatwomenwanttoday_podcast/ Facebook Page https://www.facebook.com/www2day Private Facebook Community https://www.facebook.com/groups/www2day Email www2daypodacast@gmail.com Website https://www.whatwomenwanttoday.com/ YouTube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCjk1SBYDlhl-6e0NowlDidA Join our email list https://terrikellums.activehosted.com/f/3 *any Amazon links listed in the show notes are affiliate links, and we get a small commission which helps us with production costs. This does not affect the price for you or the seller of these items. We appreciate you so much!

Duration:00:49:44

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From Fear to Freedom: Conflict Resolution with Scott Tillema

10/26/2023
Ever wondered how to navigate through difficult conversations without losing your cool? Then tune in to this fascinating chat with Scott Tillema, a seasoned hostage negotiator and renowned professional speaker. Scott takes us on a captivating journey from the pressure-cooker settings of hostage negotiations to the high-stakes world of public speaking. He shares his unique paradigm on approaching conflicts and the importance of creating a safe space for constructive dialogue. Scott's philosophy of leaning into fear led him to the TEDx stage in 2016 and, possibly, to your earbuds today. He brings a wealth of insights from his years in crisis management, with lessons applicable in both personal and professional settings. You'll hear about a riveting real-world story where his team's negotiation skills saved a woman's life. It's not just about the adrenaline-pumping moments, though. Scott also takes us through the nuances of active listening, the power of open-ended questions, and the art of reflecting back on what's been said - all essential tools in the arsenal of effective communicators. In the latter part of our engaging discussion, we delve into different conflict approach styles and the significance of recognizing our emotional responses. We navigate the tricky terrain between knowledge and skill, underscoring the need for teaching communication strategies at the university level. Scott's invaluable insights provide actionable strategies to improve communication and navigate conflicts in a productive, respectful manner. So join us for an episode that will redefine how you approach discussions and negotiate your path in life. RESOURCES MENTIONED IN TODAY'S EPISODE: Connect with Scott: LinkedIn Watch his TedTalk Visit his Website Company Website Book Scott is reading -Triggers by Marshall Goldsmith. Support the Show. Enjoying the Content? Want to support the show? https://www.buymeacoffee.com/Terrikellums Join the podcast on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/whatwomenwanttoday_podcast/ Facebook Page https://www.facebook.com/www2day Private Facebook Community https://www.facebook.com/groups/www2day Email www2daypodacast@gmail.com Website https://www.whatwomenwanttoday.com/ YouTube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCjk1SBYDlhl-6e0NowlDidA Join our email list https://terrikellums.activehosted.com/f/3 *any Amazon links listed in the show notes are affiliate links, and we get a small commission which helps us with production costs. This does not affect the price for you or the seller of these items. We appreciate you so much!

Duration:00:51:13

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Season Four: Navigating Relationships with Four Pillars

10/18/2023
Did you ever wish there was a handbook for navigating the challenges of midlife as a woman? Well, your wish just got granted! Join us as we bring to the fore the unique experiences of women in midlife, discussing the physical and emotional changes we go through and the importance of shedding the cloak of solitude in tough times. We also give you a sneak peek into the hurdles we faced while recording this episode. Ever been overwhelmed by the flood of advice and information available online? So have we! This episode is all about sifting through the overflow to find credible advice, making choices that suit our individual needs, and leaning on the pillar of healthy relationships. We get personal, sharing our experiences and studies on end-of-life regrets, offering insights that might just help you make the most of now. We also touch on the struggles that high-achieving women often face due to excessive responsibilities. We also offer tips on managing family relationships, providing parenting advice, and nurturing friendships in midlife. And here's the cherry on top - we have a special mention of Dr. Mindy for her pioneering work on the science of fasting for men and women. We conclude the episode by examining the pros and cons of technology in podcasting and how it has reshaped the landscape. So, tune in for a heart-to-heart conversation on the challenges and triumphs of womanhood in midlife, and remember, you're not alone in this journey! RESOURCES MENTIONED: YouTube Video Dr. Mindy Pelz & Diary of a CEO Podcast Host Steven Bartlett This is so good you'll want to share it! Support the Show. Enjoying the Content? Want to support the show? https://www.buymeacoffee.com/Terrikellums Join the podcast on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/whatwomenwanttoday_podcast/ Facebook Page https://www.facebook.com/www2day Private Facebook Community https://www.facebook.com/groups/www2day Email www2daypodacast@gmail.com Website https://www.whatwomenwanttoday.com/ YouTube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCjk1SBYDlhl-6e0NowlDidA Join our email list https://terrikellums.activehosted.com/f/3 *any Amazon links listed in the show notes are affiliate links, and we get a small commission which helps us with production costs. This does not affect the price for you or the seller of these items. We appreciate you so much!

Duration:00:30:41