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Join me, Patrice B, for Tacos, Tequila Therapy & the Tea podcast. We're going to be talking about the beauty industry and everything else from life to love to motivation. I'll be taking you along my healed and healing journey as I navigate the growth and self-awareness that comes with it. Every day I learn something new and there's a new opportunity to share my passion with others. I've done it on the stage, in the classroom, and behind the chair, and now I'm going to share it with you! I am a hair stylist, entrepreneur, educator, and mom who has been in the beauty industry for over 20 years. I will be talking about hair, beauty and how to get that mind right because I believe that goes hand in hand with what we do behind the chair. Join me, follow, and share. Remember, you got options - choose The Tea with P!

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United States

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Join me, Patrice B, for Tacos, Tequila Therapy & the Tea podcast. We're going to be talking about the beauty industry and everything else from life to love to motivation. I'll be taking you along my healed and healing journey as I navigate the growth and self-awareness that comes with it. Every day I learn something new and there's a new opportunity to share my passion with others. I've done it on the stage, in the classroom, and behind the chair, and now I'm going to share it with you! I am a hair stylist, entrepreneur, educator, and mom who has been in the beauty industry for over 20 years. I will be talking about hair, beauty and how to get that mind right because I believe that goes hand in hand with what we do behind the chair. Join me, follow, and share. Remember, you got options - choose The Tea with P!

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English


Episodes
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White Glove Love

11/25/2025
Send us a text message to join the conversation or just send me a note! You know how in the beginning of a relationship, they'll be giving you the butler treatment? Holding doors, walking you home, having your favorite chocolates ready. Once things get more comfortable, are you still getting the white glove treatment, or does the mask slip? Was it real? On the other hand, how would you know white glove treatment if you don't give yourself the queenly treatment you deserve? Support the show I offer 1-to-1 training to help you find the systems, train the people, make it work and provide the best customer service in your salon. Send me a DM on Instagram to learn more! https://www.instagram.com/patricestar Find out more about Patrice's courses and faves on her website https://www.thedesignstudiomd.com/ Music credit: LA Nightlife by Full Frontal Audio A Subito Media production

Duration:00:10:36

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I lost them. I lost me. I found me!

9/30/2025
Send us a text message to join the conversation or just send me a note! Get comfy with your beverage of choice, because today is heavy. Today, grief is on my heart, and I've been through plenty of it. I lost my mother to breast cancer when I was 14 years old. I didn't know what grief was or how to handle it, and I had nobody around to help me. Today, I want to help you. Grief isn't always about losing a loved one, but it is always a loss. A loss of a relationship, a loss of love, a loss of something you used to have. We all go through the 5 stages of grief in different ways and along with that, we lose a version of ourselves too. Heal with me today. Honor the you that you used to be and honor the grieving process, however you need it to look. Support the show I offer 1-to-1 training to help you find the systems, train the people, make it work and provide the best customer service in your salon. Send me a DM on Instagram to learn more! https://www.instagram.com/patricestar Find out more about Patrice's courses and faves on her website https://www.thedesignstudiomd.com/ Music credit: LA Nightlife by Full Frontal Audio A Subito Media production

Duration:00:27:47

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I QUIT!

9/9/2025
Send us a text message to join the conversation or just send me a note! That's right, I quit. But quitting isn't failure... sometimes quitting is freedom. Sometimes we need to quit that job, those relationships, that situation, that isn't serving us anymore. When I quit, it's like a level up, or a graduation from something that was holding me back. If I hadn't quit, I wouldn't be where I am now. DM me on IG @patricestar with some of your "I quit" affirmations! Support the show I offer 1-to-1 training to help you find the systems, train the people, make it work and provide the best customer service in your salon. Send me a DM on Instagram to learn more! https://www.instagram.com/patricestar Find out more about Patrice's courses and faves on her website https://www.thedesignstudiomd.com/ Music credit: LA Nightlife by Full Frontal Audio A Subito Media production

Duration:00:10:19

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Love Bombs & Broken Promises

8/26/2025
Send us a text message to join the conversation or just send me a note! Is it really chemistry, or is it chaos disguised as a situationship starter pack? Love bombing is when someone comes in hot, throwing compliments, gifts, and romantic gestures. If it's too intense at the beginning, it's pretty obvious to see the red flags. The subtle kind gets trickier. Don't confuse attention for connection. Support the show I offer 1-to-1 training to help you find the systems, train the people, make it work and provide the best customer service in your salon. Send me a DM on Instagram to learn more! https://www.instagram.com/patricestar Find out more about Patrice's courses and faves on her website https://www.thedesignstudiomd.com/ Music credit: LA Nightlife by Full Frontal Audio A Subito Media production

Duration:00:09:02

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Soft Life Or Just Avoiding Real Life?

8/5/2025
Send us a text message to join the conversation or just send me a note! Social media sells us a magical "soft life" full of relaxation, luxury, ease, boundaries, and the perfect husband. How many people are really living that life? How many are just putting on the mask of perfection, while really just avoiding real life? How can you build that life and sustain it? Asking the real questions today. Always growing! Support the show I offer 1-to-1 training to help you find the systems, train the people, make it work and provide the best customer service in your salon. Send me a DM on Instagram to learn more! https://www.instagram.com/patricestar Find out more about Patrice's courses and faves on her website https://www.thedesignstudiomd.com/ Music credit: LA Nightlife by Full Frontal Audio A Subito Media production

Duration:00:07:22

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Why Do We Keep Attracting Projects, Not Partners?

7/22/2025
Send us a text message to join the conversation or just send me a note! You know what I'm talking about. Do you keep finding yourself in the same kind of situationships with people that you thought had so much potential, but they never delivered? Do you find that you're pouring yourself into this person, just trying to help them be what you believe they can be, only to end up feeling depleted? Those aren't partners - they're projects. Some people just don't have the capacity to give what you deserve in a relationship. You can't manifest a whole partner while entertaining half built people. Don't confuse someone's potential with compatibility! Support the show I offer 1-to-1 training to help you find the systems, train the people, make it work and provide the best customer service in your salon. Send me a DM on Instagram to learn more! https://www.instagram.com/patricestar Find out more about Patrice's courses and faves on her website https://www.thedesignstudiomd.com/ Music credit: LA Nightlife by Full Frontal Audio A Subito Media production

Duration:00:13:57

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Healing Ain’t Pretty - But You Still Gotta Show Up

7/15/2025
Send us a text message to join the conversation or just send me a note! It's been a minute, but I'm back! I've had to do some heavy healing with myself. Healing is hard. It's heavy, and it doesn't always look cute. Social media would have you believe that healing is just bubble baths and chocolate. That can be part of it, but the real healing happens when you're uncomfortable. Lean into it and show up for it! Support the show I offer 1-to-1 training to help you find the systems, train the people, make it work and provide the best customer service in your salon. Send me a DM on Instagram to learn more! https://www.instagram.com/patricestar Find out more about Patrice's courses and faves on her website https://www.thedesignstudiomd.com/ Music credit: LA Nightlife by Full Frontal Audio A Subito Media production

Duration:00:08:23

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Different Vantage Points

2/18/2025
Send us a text message to join the conversation or just send me a note! Sometimes we find ourselves in sticky situations with friends, relationships, clients or family. Do you always consider all viewpoints in a conflict, or do you sometimes react prematurely? Everyone comes into every situation from their own vantage point. There may be emotions already brewing, prior history with the people involved, or even fears and biases that color each person's perspective. It's worth it to take the time to reflect on your own reaction, emotions, and assumptions when you run into a conflict. Are you a co-conspirator? Might their point of view be just as correct as yours? Support the show I offer 1-to-1 training to help you find the systems, train the people, make it work and provide the best customer service in your salon. Send me a DM on Instagram to learn more! https://www.instagram.com/patricestar Find out more about Patrice's courses and faves on her website https://www.thedesignstudiomd.com/ Music credit: LA Nightlife by Full Frontal Audio A Subito Media production

Duration:00:20:01

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Arguing With the GPS

1/21/2025
Send us a text message to join the conversation or just send me a note! When you set a goal or intention, following the path there is like following GPS. Sometimes you think you know better, but sometimes a detour comes along you didn't expect. The thing is, life's GPS doesn't care where you've been. It cares where you are, and where you're going. I've been expanding my salon and let me tell you, it's been a lot. I don't always follow the path my life GPS is leading me, and sometimes I wish I had because I can't alway see the obstacles that are coming. Tune in for an inspiring discussion on goal setting, handling setbacks, and persistently moving forward. Support the show I offer 1-to-1 training to help you find the systems, train the people, make it work and provide the best customer service in your salon. Send me a DM on Instagram to learn more! https://www.instagram.com/patricestar Find out more about Patrice's courses and faves on her website https://www.thedesignstudiomd.com/ Music credit: LA Nightlife by Full Frontal Audio A Subito Media production

Duration:00:09:39

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Lessons, Growth, and the Journey Ahead

12/31/2024
Send us a text message to join the conversation or just send me a note! In this heartfelt episode, I'll reflect on the tumultuous year of 2024, discussing personal growth, the importance of self-discovery, and the power of embracing change. This year has been a lot in my healing journey, the impact of relationships, and the significance of gratitude for past experiences. Looking forward to 2025 with optimism, I encourage you to stay resilient and celebrate their progress. Join me in this contemplative and inspiring narrative as I share hopes for the future and appreciates the present moment. Support the show I offer 1-to-1 training to help you find the systems, train the people, make it work and provide the best customer service in your salon. Send me a DM on Instagram to learn more! https://www.instagram.com/patricestar Find out more about Patrice's courses and faves on her website https://www.thedesignstudiomd.com/ Music credit: LA Nightlife by Full Frontal Audio A Subito Media production

Duration:00:11:42

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New Season Of You

12/17/2024
Send us a text message to join the conversation or just send me a note! Today I'll reflect on the year 2024 and discuss the rapid passage of time, personal growth, and life lessons learned. I'll delve into my experiences with relationships, accountability, and the importance of self-reflection. On my journey of self-improvement, I've heard from people from my past that have made me think about how I handle myself and how I affect the people around me. As I look forward to 2025, there's huge value in living in the moment, appreciating where one has been, and being selective about who to share one's energy with. Tune in for an insightful conversation on growth, gratitude, and the excitement of new beginnings. Support the show I offer 1-to-1 training to help you find the systems, train the people, make it work and provide the best customer service in your salon. Send me a DM on Instagram to learn more! https://www.instagram.com/patricestar Find out more about Patrice's courses and faves on her website https://www.thedesignstudiomd.com/ Music credit: LA Nightlife by Full Frontal Audio A Subito Media production

Duration:00:12:03

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Being Present In Today

11/26/2024
Send us a text message to join the conversation or just send me a note! Have you ever found yourself getting so lost in the past that you lost track of the present? That's what I'm talking about today. The other day with a client, I got so deep looking into what we had done with her hair the last time that I didn't notice that we already had a plan for that day. The past got you here. The future isn't here yet. Be present in today and know that you've got the right tools in place. Support the show I offer 1-to-1 training to help you find the systems, train the people, make it work and provide the best customer service in your salon. Send me a DM on Instagram to learn more! https://www.instagram.com/patricestar Find out more about Patrice's courses and faves on her website https://www.thedesignstudiomd.com/ Music credit: LA Nightlife by Full Frontal Audio A Subito Media production

Duration:00:09:10

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Are You Tired or Fed Up?

11/12/2024
Send us a text message to join the conversation or just send me a note! You can't touch a river in the same place twice. Life always flows forward. Are you flowing with it? This episode delves into understanding personal evolution, dealing with past traumas, and distinguishing between being tired and being fed up. Let your emotions flow, embrace change, and ensure that every aspect of your life supports your growth and movement. Support the show I offer 1-to-1 training to help you find the systems, train the people, make it work and provide the best customer service in your salon. Send me a DM on Instagram to learn more! https://www.instagram.com/patricestar Find out more about Patrice's courses and faves on her website https://www.thedesignstudiomd.com/ Music credit: LA Nightlife by Full Frontal Audio A Subito Media production

Duration:00:09:15

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Victims Along the Healing Journey

10/16/2024
Send us a text message to join the conversation or just send me a note! Today we'll delve into the complexities of the healing journey, emphasizing the importance of self-awareness and personal responsibility. By sharing personal anecdotes about parental relationships and the residual impacts of childhood pain, the discussion highlights the necessity of recognizing past traumas, adapting our responses, and forgiving in order to move forward. The speaker stresses the critical need to become more cognizant in our personal growth to prevent causing unintended harm to others. Join this poignant conversation as we explore how to navigate our healing paths without perpetuating victim mentalities and making others casualties of our unresolved issues. Support the show I offer 1-to-1 training to help you find the systems, train the people, make it work and provide the best customer service in your salon. Send me a DM on Instagram to learn more! https://www.instagram.com/patricestar Find out more about Patrice's courses and faves on her website https://www.thedesignstudiomd.com/ Music credit: LA Nightlife by Full Frontal Audio A Subito Media production

Duration:00:15:23

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Words Have Power

9/24/2024
Send us a text message to join the conversation or just send me a note! Words carry significant meaning. Whether in conversations with others, business arrangements, or speaking to yourself, language is important. The words you use can cause misunderstandings, convey emotions, and show others who you really are. When someone tells you who they are, you'd best believe them! Be mindful of your language, celebrate your achievements and adopt empowering language to foster personal growth and resilience. Support the show I offer 1-to-1 training to help you find the systems, train the people, make it work and provide the best customer service in your salon. Send me a DM on Instagram to learn more! https://www.instagram.com/patricestar Find out more about Patrice's courses and faves on her website https://www.thedesignstudiomd.com/ Music credit: LA Nightlife by Full Frontal Audio A Subito Media production

Duration:00:17:41

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Protection vs. Being Guarded

9/3/2024
Send us a text message to join the conversation or just send me a note! When life's been lifing and bad things have happened, we find ways to protect ourselves in that situation. But, when we carry those protective habits forward into new situations, then we're being guarded. We don't need to protect ourselves from things that have already happened. Don't be so guarded that you miss new opportunities. Support the show I offer 1-to-1 training to help you find the systems, train the people, make it work and provide the best customer service in your salon. Send me a DM on Instagram to learn more! https://www.instagram.com/patricestar Find out more about Patrice's courses and faves on her website https://www.thedesignstudiomd.com/ Music credit: LA Nightlife by Full Frontal Audio A Subito Media production

Duration:00:10:25

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The People In Your Circle

8/13/2024
Send us a text message to join the conversation or just send me a note! In any group of connections be it business, friendships, or otherwise, there are 3 kinds of people: visionaries, fence-sitters, and resistors. Which one are you? What dynamics do you have in your friend group? What dynamics do you have in your salon, or with your clients? Who are you in this scenario? Are there people in your circle that shouldn't be there anymore? We are carefully curating our circle these days. Check your own mindset and know who belongs there. Support the show I offer 1-to-1 training to help you find the systems, train the people, make it work and provide the best customer service in your salon. Send me a DM on Instagram to learn more! https://www.instagram.com/patricestar Find out more about Patrice's courses and faves on her website https://www.thedesignstudiomd.com/ Music credit: LA Nightlife by Full Frontal Audio A Subito Media production

Duration:00:12:37

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Amalgamation

7/16/2024
Send us a text message to join the conversation or just send me a note! Coming at you with my detox tea! In my healed and healing journey, the word that came to me a lot recently was "amalgamation." You know like how Taco Bell and KFC sometimes combine in one store, but their menus are still separate? It's like that. In business and relationships, what you want is amalgamation - not assimilation. You don't want to lose yourself in the combination. Collaboration and cooperation is great and necessary, but it needs to be about mutual growth, not dissolving identities. Support the show I offer 1-to-1 training to help you find the systems, train the people, make it work and provide the best customer service in your salon. Send me a DM on Instagram to learn more! https://www.instagram.com/patricestar Find out more about Patrice's courses and faves on her website https://www.thedesignstudiomd.com/ Music credit: LA Nightlife by Full Frontal Audio A Subito Media production

Duration:00:21:24

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Careful What You Ask For

7/2/2024
Send us a text message to join the conversation or just send me a note! I've been careful to make a list of things I want for my life because I believe that these things are coming for me. The thing is, they don't always happen the way I expect them to. Sometimes you need to be more specific. Sometimes, be aware that the good things coming for you are housed in lessons. What is it that you're manifesting for your life? Are you being specific enough? Are you sure that the difficulties you're going through aren't actually the good things inside a lesson you need to learn in order to accept them? Support the show I offer 1-to-1 training to help you find the systems, train the people, make it work and provide the best customer service in your salon. Send me a DM on Instagram to learn more! https://www.instagram.com/patricestar Find out more about Patrice's courses and faves on her website https://www.thedesignstudiomd.com/ Music credit: LA Nightlife by Full Frontal Audio A Subito Media production

Duration:00:11:56

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Giving - Having - Being Grace

6/11/2024
Send us a text message to join the conversation or just send me a note! A word that keeps coming up for me for the last 6 months or so is grace. It means a lot of things to show grace, be grace, give grace, be graceful, and even to say grace. I have had some experiences recently where I would have liked to be given some grace in order to navigate the situation I was in. Those experiences made me reevaluate the way I run my business, treat my clients, and communicate the expectations to the people in my life. It's important to give grace, conduct yourself with grace, but most importantly to give yourself some grace on your healed and healing journey because growth, transforming, transcending, and changing is difficult. Support the show I offer 1-to-1 training to help you find the systems, train the people, make it work and provide the best customer service in your salon. Send me a DM on Instagram to learn more! https://www.instagram.com/patricestar Find out more about Patrice's courses and faves on her website https://www.thedesignstudiomd.com/ Music credit: LA Nightlife by Full Frontal Audio A Subito Media production

Duration:00:13:42