Family Disappeared

When the heartache of a fractured family finds a path to healing, the story resonates with a profound truth about the human spirit. Renee's narrative of reuniting with her sons after an agonizing 30-year separation is a testament to the resilience we all harbor. In our latest episode, we traverse the emotional valleys and peaks of her journey, revealing how personal growth can light the way to rekindling lost connections. Our conversation uncovers the delicate balance of maintaining low expectations and firm boundaries, and the remarkable transformation that can occur within a family when these principles are embraced. The art of reconnection requires grace and the wisdom to respect the individual paths that each family member has walked. Sharing my adventures in rebuilding my relationship with my son Dan, we discuss the beauty found in the ebb and flow of communication, where listening can sometimes speak louder than words. The episode also casts a thoughtful eye on the cautious steps taken towards reuniting with my eldest son, underscoring the importance of living in the present and steering clear of the shadows cast by the past. Renee's story, interwoven with mine, serves as a beacon for those navigating the turbulent waters of familial healing. Confronting the specter of parental alienation, we peel back the layers of misunderstanding that can sever the most intrinsic of human bonds. As Renee recounts the poignant moment of her child recognizing her as their 'real mom,' we delve into the significance of emotional stability and mutual recognition in the process of recovery. The conversation extends beyond the immediate family, highlighting essential practices like nonviolent communication and empathy that can transform all our relationships. Join us as we explore these intimate narratives of reconnection, offering solace and wisdom for those on their own paths to familial reconciliation. Don't forget to Subscribe to our YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@parentalalienationadvocates If you wish to connect with Lawrence Joss or any of the PA-A community members who have appeared as guests on the podcast: Email- familydisappeared@gmail.com Linktree: https://linktr.ee/lawrencejoss (All links mentioned in the podcast are available in Linktree) Please donate to support PAA programs: https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=SDLTX8TBSZNXS Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/ PLEASE SUBMIT YOUR ARTWORK TO THE FAMILY HOPE PROJECT: https://pa-a.mykajabi.com/questionnaire “Family Disappeared” podcast survey: https://pa-a.mykajabi.com/podcast-assessment This podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team: Glaze Gonzales- Podcast Manager Anna Johnson- Editor/Contributor/Activist Georgette Coppersmith - Editor/Contributor/Activist Kriztle Mesa - Social Media Manager Gen Rodelas-Kajabi Expert Kim Fernandez - Outreach Coordinator Connect with Lawrence Joss: Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/ Email- familydisappeared@gmail.com

The echoes of estrangement can resonate deeply, reverberating through the hollows of a parent's heart. Join us as we welcome back Renee, whose narrative of reconciliation after a 30-year rift with her children, offers a poignant testament to the resilience of familial bonds. Her experiences, layered with moments of hope and heartache, provide a compass for those navigating the murky waters of parental alienation. Renee's candid reflections underscore the necessity of self-awareness and the courage to face past missteps, whilst casting a light on the delicate dance of patience and empathy. Throughout our discussion, Renee and I dissect the intricate web of emotions that parental alienation weaves—not just for the parents, but for the children who find themselves caught in it's grasp. The journey of mending these ties is one that calls for a measured, thoughtful approach. We delve into the strategies that can pave the way for heartfelt conversations, and embrace the transformative power of understanding and respecting the emotional landscapes of those we love. Our shared narratives reveal the art of listening without judgment, and the significance of approaching a reunion without the baggage of the painful past. As our episode draws to a close, the Family Disappeared Podcast extends an invitation to listeners to join a community bonded by shared experiences and a collective desire for healing. Renee's transformation, supported by the Parental Alienation Anonymous 12-step program, may inspire you or someone you know who's yearning for reconnection with estranged loved ones. We part with an offering of resources, wisdom, and a wish for peace and joy in your own journeys toward familial wholeness. Let these stories illuminate your path, as they have ours, toward a future where past divides are bridged by the power of renewed connection. Don't forget to Subscribe to our YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@parentalalienationadvocates If you wish to connect with Lawrence Joss or any of the PA-A community members who have appeared as guests on the podcast: Email- familydisappeared@gmail.com Linktree: https://linktr.ee/lawrencejoss (All links mentioned in the podcast are available in Linktree) Please donate to support PAA programs: https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=SDLTX8TBSZNXS Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/ PLEASE SUBMIT YOUR ARTWORK TO THE FAMILY HOPE PROJECT: https://pa-a.mykajabi.com/questionnaire “Family Disappeared” podcast survey: https://pa-a.mykajabi.com/podcast-assessment This podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team: Glaze Gonzales- Podcast Manager Anna Johnson- Editor/Contributor/Activist Georgette Coppersmith - Editor/Contributor/Activist Kriztle Mesa - Social Media Manager Gen Rodelas-Kajabi Expert Kim Fernandez - Outreach Coordinator Connect with Lawrence Joss: Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/ Email- familydisappeared@gmail.com

As the sun set on a day marked by my daughter's distant wedding vows, I found comfort not in my solitude, but in the shared resilience and ingenuity that Anna and I bring to the table as we host another episode of Family Disappeared. Together, we peel back the layers of parenting in the absence of traditional contact, revealing the strength found in creative expression and the commitment to marking life's milestones with love and intentionality. The journey of self-rediscovery was illuminated as I celebrated my daughter's marriage from afar, a testament to the power of joy and the reclaiming of our rights to happiness, even amidst the ache of separation. Honesty and self-advocacy are the bedrock of any intimate relationship, and this episode doesn't shy away from the tough conversations that can lead to transformative apologies and growth. I recount a personal tale of confronting a lie by omission, and the cathartic release that followed—a moment of shared healing and a step towards more profound connections. We don't just talk about relationships, we explore the enrichment that comes from Nonviolent Communication and the potent influence of self-love, weaving these principles into the fabric of our identities as parents and relational beings. Parenting isn't a solo act, and this rings especially true for those of us navigating the challenges of doing so from a distance. Anna and I reflect on the indispensable role of community in these unconventional dynamics, celebrating the living record we create within the Parental Alienation Anonymous community. This legacy of care, documented in our stories and growth, underscores a shift towards a collective 'we' centric approach. Through laughter and tears, we share our narrative, inviting you to join us in this communal tapestry of healing and self-discovery. Don't forget to Subscribe to our YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@parentalalienationadvocates If you wish to connect with Lawrence Joss or any of the PA-A community members who have appeared as guests on the podcast: Email- familydisappeared@gmail.com Linktree: https://linktr.ee/lawrencejoss (All links mentioned in the podcast are available in Linktree) Please donate to support PAA programs: https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=SDLTX8TBSZNXS Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/ PLEASE SUBMIT YOUR ARTWORK TO THE FAMILY HOPE PROJECT: https://pa-a.mykajabi.com/questionnaire “Family Disappeared” podcast survey: https://pa-a.mykajabi.com/podcast-assessment This podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team: Glaze Gonzales- Podcast Manager Anna Johnson- Editor/Contributor/Activist Georgette Coppersmith - Editor/Contributor/Activist Kriztle Mesa - Social Media Manager Gen Rodelas-Kajabi Expert Kim Fernandez - Outreach Coordinator Connect with Lawrence Joss: Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/ Email- familydisappeared@gmail.com

Imagine the piercing silence of a father's heart as he misses his daughter's wedding, or the hidden tears when a grandchild's first cry echoes, and he's not there to share the joy. Lawrence Joss, in a stirring narrative, unveils the emotional landscape of parenting in absentia—sharing not just the pain but the triumph in creating bonds that transcend physical barriers. With Anna, a kindred spirit who once graced the guest seat and now joins as co-host, they weave a tapestry of hope and connection for those navigating the complexities of alienation. This episode serves as a homage to the enduring spirit of family, honoring resilience and the pursuit of unity despite life's trials. Lawrence gives voice to the silent struggles and victories that mark the journey of a parent sidelined by circumstance, yet undeterred in love. We uncover the transformational power of community through the option of involvement with Parental Alienation Advocates, illustrating that support can fuel growth and foster a renewed sense of identity. This is an episode filled with heartfelt revelations and strategies, an offering of solace and solidarity to those who walk this challenging path. Listen as we celebrate the warrior spirit in every parent who faces the world with strength and courage, and who reclaims their voice in the stillness of separation. Don't forget to Subscribe to our YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@parentalalienationadvocates If you wish to connect with Lawrence Joss or any of the PA-A community members who have appeared as guests on the podcast: Email- familydisappeared@gmail.com Linktree: https://linktr.ee/lawrencejoss (All links mentioned in the podcast are available in Linktree) Please donate to support PAA programs: https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=SDLTX8TBSZNXS Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/ PLEASE SUBMIT YOUR ARTWORK TO THE FAMILY HOPE PROJECT: https://pa-a.mykajabi.com/questionnaire “Family Disappeared” podcast survey: https://pa-a.mykajabi.com/podcast-assessment This podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team: Glaze Gonzales- Podcast Manager Anna Johnson- Editor/Contributor/Activist Georgette Coppersmith - Editor/Contributor/Activist Kriztle Mesa - Social Media Manager Gen Rodelas-Kajabi Expert Kim Fernandez - Outreach Coordinator Connect with Lawrence Joss: Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/ Email- familydisappeared@gmail.com

Have you ever felt the weight of family dysfunction heavy on your heart? Together with Allison Garner and two passionately committed parental alienation advocates, we traverse the emotional minefield that so many face but few dare to discuss. Our conversation is more than just an exchange of stories; it's a treasure trove of insights and strategies, with each of us pulling from the depths of personal experience and the wisdom of a 12-step program. We shine a light on the shadows of shame and guilt while uncovering the transformative role of acknowledging and validating the emotions of children caught in the crossfire of estrangement. The journey through the tangled web of parenting, where missteps can leave lasting scars, is a path few can navigate alone. That's why we pour our hearts into this dialogue, taking on the formidable challenge of setting boundaries and engaging in the tough talks that pave the way to healthy family connections. Our candid reflections on managing internal shame offer a guiding light for those of you seeking not only to heal but to thrive in the midst of these trials. By embracing personal healing and the strength found in community, we chart a course for ourselves and our listeners, towards an enriching life where the health of our familial relationships mirrors the growth within us. Don't forget to Subscribe to our YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@parentalalienationadvocates If you wish to connect with Lawrence Joss or any of the PA-A community members who have appeared as guests on the podcast: Email- familydisappeared@gmail.com Linktree: https://linktr.ee/lawrencejoss (All links mentioned in the podcast are available in Linktree) Please donate to support PAA programs: https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=SDLTX8TBSZNXS Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/ PLEASE SUBMIT YOUR ARTWORK TO THE FAMILY HOPE PROJECT: https://pa-a.mykajabi.com/questionnaire “Family Disappeared” podcast survey: https://pa-a.mykajabi.com/podcast-assessment A L L I S O N G A R N E R www.bethoughtly.com Speaker, TedX Talk. Author, "Think Possible" and “Unconditional” º Facebook º Instagram º LinkedIn º TikTok Allison’s podcast "Unhooked": https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/unhooked/id1685954627 This podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team: Glaze Gonzales- Podcast Manager Anna Johnson- Editor/Contributor/Activist Georgette Coppersmith - Editor/Contributor/Activist Kriztle Mesa - Social Media Manager Gen Rodelas-Kajabi Expert Kim Fernandez - Outreach Coordinator Connect with Lawrence Joss: Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/ Email- familydisappeared@gmail.com

Embarking on a heartfelt exploration, with myself, Geo, as guest host this week, we grapple with the heavy shadows of shame and guilt, those unwelcome companions that have trailed many of us from childhood to the labyrinth of parenthood. With the sagacious Allison Garner, an executive coaching connoisseur, our roundtable pulses with the shared beat of parent's hearts, including tales from Anna and Juli. The dialogue weaves through the textures of leadership and parenting, discovering how the tenacity we admire in boardrooms can also fortify the bonds with our children, and how self-compassion serves as a beacon through our most testing times. This episode doesn't just recount personal crossroads; it lays bare the transformative journey that follows. Through the act of journaling—a simple yet profound tool—we learn to 'get complete', fostering a deeper understanding with our children and ourselves, even amidst the stormy seas of adolescence. Yet, the odyssey doesn't end there; it's in the ruins of a family breakdown where the seeds of discovery are often sown. I share the solace found in the embrace of Parental Alienation Advocates(PAA), where self-work became the cornerstone of my healing. Our candid discussions traverse the rocky terrain of divorce, co-parenting, and facing false accusations, concluding that transparency and ongoing dialogue are the golden threads in the tapestry of rebuilding trust and understanding within our families. Don't forget to Subscribe to our YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@parentalalienationadvocates If you wish to connect with Lawrence Joss or any of the PA-A community members who have appeared as guests on the podcast: Email- familydisappeared@gmail.com Linktree: https://linktr.ee/lawrencejoss (All links mentioned in the podcast are available in Linktree) Please donate to support PAA programs: https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=SDLTX8TBSZNXS Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/ PLEASE SUBMIT YOUR ARTWORK TO THE FAMILY HOPE PROJECT: https://pa-a.mykajabi.com/questionnaire “Family Disappeared” podcast survey: https://pa-a.mykajabi.com/podcast-assessment A L L I S O N G A R N E R www.bethoughtly.com Speaker, TedX Talk. Author, "Think Possible" and “Unconditional” º Facebook º Instagram º LinkedIn º TikTok Allison’s podcast "Unhooked": https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/unhooked/id1685954627 This podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team: Glaze Gonzales- Podcast Manager Anna Johnson- Editor/Contributor/Activist Georgette Coppersmith - Editor/Contributor/Activist Kriztle Mesa - Social Media Manager Gen Rodelas-Kajabi Expert Kim Fernandez - Outreach Coordinator Connect with Lawrence Joss: Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/ Email- familydisappeared@gmail.com

As an alienated father, I've walked the rocky path of connecting with my daughters through the thinnest of threads, and that's where I discovered the healing balm of Nonviolent Communication (NVC). With my guest, Mary Mackenzie, we unravel my journey, and offer you the tools to mend and deepen the bonds within your family, even when the waters of communication seem unnavigable. My story is one of listening, not just to the words of my daughters, but to the emotions and needs that drive us all, and it's a story I'm eager to share with you. Through the lens of empathy and patience, especially in the turbulent teen years, we examine how to manage our own emotional tempests, and extend a bridge of understanding. I'll recount the surprising advantages of 'making wrong guesses' when attempting to empathize, a tactic that invites clarity and connection rather than distance. It's not just about weathering the storm, but learning the dance steps to move in harmony with the resistance of a blossoming young adult, respecting their pace and space. In our heart-to-heart discussion, we pivot to the ripple effects of NVC in all facets of life, highlighting it's role in personal stress relief and enhanced communication. Mary and I also explore the channels of support such as the NVC Academy and community groups that offer solace to parents feeling the ache of estrangement. Glean wisdom from our open conversation, and consider this your invitation to practice NVC for more authentic, compassionate interactions that extend far beyond the family tree. Don't forget to Subscribe to our YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@parentalalienationadvocates If you wish to connect with Lawrence Joss or any of the PA-A community members who have appeared as guests on the podcast: Email- familydisappeared@gmail.com Linktree: https://linktr.ee/lawrencejoss (All links mentioned in the podcast are available in Linktree) Please donate to support PAA programs: https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=SDLTX8TBSZNXS Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/ PLEASE SUBMIT YOUR ARTWORK TO THE FAMILY HOPE PROJECT: https://pa-a.mykajabi.com/questionnaire “Family Disappeared” podcast survey: https://pa-a.mykajabi.com/podcast-assessment Mary Mackenzie : www.marymackenzie.net NVC : www.nvcacademy.com "Taste of Compassionate Leadership" - nvcacademy.com/media/_live-nvc-courses/TOCL/index.html "Non Violent Communication: A Language of Life" Marshall Rosenberg Feelings and Needs sheets and local NVC trainers: cnvc.org International Intensive Training: cnvc.org/learn/iit This podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team: Glaze Gonzales- Podcast Manager Anna Johnson- Editor/Contributor/Activist Georgette Coppersmith - Editor/Contributor/Activist Kriztle Mesa - Social Media Manager Gen Rodelas-Kajabi Expert Kim Fernandez - Outreach Coordinator Connect with Lawrence Joss: Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/ Email- familydisappeared@gmail.com

Have you ever found yourself in the midst of a heated argument, desperately wishing for a lifeline to navigate the emotional chaos? That's where my encounter with Nonviolent Communication (NVC) revolutionized not just how I speak, but how I live. Alongside the wisdom of Mary Mackenzie, a seasoned NVC trainer, we venture into the transformative realm of compassionate connection. This episode is far from your average communication tutorial; it's a deep dive into the very fabric of human interaction. We unravel the threads of NVC that weave through the toughest conversations, turning conflict into opportunities for growth and connection. Embrace the shifts I share within my own family, where learning to engage rather than avoid conflict fostered a newfound tenderness between us. We share moments where empathy broke barriers, from guiding my mother towards understanding responses, to the surprising adeptness of young minds embracing empathetic listening. This episode is a heartfelt exploration of the profound effects empathy can have on our most cherished relationships, offering a beacon of hope for anyone yearning to bridge the gaps that keep us apart. Don't forget to Subscribe to our YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@parentalalienationadvocates If you wish to connect with Lawrence Joss or any of the PA-A community members who have appeared as guests on the podcast: Email- familydisappeared@gmail.com Linktree: https://linktr.ee/lawrencejoss (All links mentioned in the podcast are available in Linktree) Please donate to support PAA programs: https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=SDLTX8TBSZNXS Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/ PLEASE SUBMIT YOUR ARTWORK TO THE FAMILY HOPE PROJECT: https://pa-a.mykajabi.com/questionnaire “Family Disappeared” podcast survey: https://pa-a.mykajabi.com/podcast-assessment Mary Mackenzie : www.marymackenzie.net NVC : www.nvcacademy.com This podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team: Glaze Gonzales- Podcast Manager Anna Johnson- Editor/Contributor/Activist Georgette Coppersmith - Editor/Contributor/Activist Kriztle Mesa - Social Media Manager Gen Rodelas-Kajabi Expert Kim Fernandez - Outreach Coordinator Connect with Lawrence Joss: Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/ Email- familydisappeared@gmail.com

Ever struggled with the delicate dance of blending families and navigating the shadows of parental alienation? I know I have. This week on Family Disappeared, join me, Lawrence Joss, alongside Steve and Alain—both fellow alienated parents—for a candid discussion on these intricate dynamics. We peel back the layers of introducing new partners to our children, the art of cultivating self-awareness, and the pivotal role communication plays in mending and forging family bonds. Building a family amidst the remnants of alienation is akin to treading a tightrope of emotions. Steve opens up about finding strength in the empathy of his spouse, whose own battle scars from alienation bring a depth of understanding to their union. As we traverse the landscape of these formidable ties, we discover the necessity for emotional boundaries, and the profound effects our partner's support can have on our own willingness to be vulnerable. Our collective tales give voice to the silent hopes that life's milestones might just be the catalysts for healing fractured relationships. The act of reconnecting with a child after alienation is a journey laden with a mix of trepidation and elation. We delve into the emotional intricacies of parental reconnection, highlighting the flux of joy and apprehension when a child signals readiness to rebuild bridges. Our conversation serves as a beacon of cautious optimism for those fostering rekindled ties, emphasizing the importance of savoring triumphs while staying grounded. For anyone bracing the path of reconnecting, or simply seeking to be more present for their children, this episode is an affirmation of the resilience of the parental spirit in the face of adversity. Don't forget to Subscribe to our YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@parentalalienationadvocates If you wish to connect with Lawrence Joss or any of the PA-A community members who have appeared as guests on the podcast: Email- familydisappeared@gmail.com Linktree: https://linktr.ee/lawrencejoss (All links mentioned in the podcast are available in Linktree) Please donate to support PAA programs: https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=SDLTX8TBSZNXS Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/ PLEASE SUBMIT YOUR ARTWORK TO THE FAMILY HOPE PROJECT: https://pa-a.mykajabi.com/questionnaire “Family Disappeared” podcast survey: https://pa-a.mykajabi.com/podcast-assessment This podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team: Glaze Gonzales- Podcast Manager Anna Johnson- Editor/Contributor/Activist Georgette Coppersmith - Editor/Contributor/Activist Kriztle Mesa - Social Media Manager Gen Rodelas-Kajabi Expert Kim Fernandez - Outreach Coordinator Connect with Lawrence Joss: Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/ Email- familydisappeared@gmail.com

Have you ever wondered how the threads of a new family are woven together amidst the remnants of the past? On this heartfelt episode of Family Disappeared, we traverse the intricate path of remarriage and step-parenting. As your host, Lawrence Joss, I share a slice of my own life, revealing the profound impact of these transitions on children, and the power of inclusivity and understanding. Our panel of parents, including Steve and Alain, peel back the layers of their experiences to offer invaluable insights into the delicate process of fostering new bonds while nurturing existing ones. Strap in for a raw look at the emotional upheaval that comes with reconnecting with children from whom you've become estranged. Steve and Alain open up about their steps toward healing the wounds of parental alienation, from the tentative beginnings of email communication to the poignant joy and sorrow of witnessing their children's life milestones from the sidelines. Their stories lay bare the tough reality of mending parent-child relationships, navigating financial discussions, and the often-unspoken struggles that come with these efforts. But the journey doesn't end there; understanding parental alienation can be a transformative moment for many. Listen to Alain and Steve share their tales of confusion and guilt, and how a newfound awareness has guided them towards recovery. We examine the lifeline that is community support, and the integration of alienation awareness in counselling practices. This episode is a testament to the resilience of families, the compassion of new partners, and the profound journey towards healing and reconciliation. Don't forget to Subscribe to our YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@parentalalienationadvocates If you wish to connect with Lawrence Joss or any of the PA-A community members who have appeared as guests on the podcast: Email- familydisappeared@gmail.com Linktree: https://linktr.ee/lawrencejoss (All links mentioned in the podcast are available in Linktree) Please donate to support PAA programs: https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=SDLTX8TBSZNXS Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/ PLEASE SUBMIT YOUR ARTWORK TO THE FAMILY HOPE PROJECT: https://pa-a.mykajabi.com/questionnaire “Family Disappeared” podcast survey: https://pa-a.mykajabi.com/podcast-assessment This podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team: Glaze Gonzales- Podcast Manager Anna Johnson- Editor/Contributor/Activist Georgette Coppersmith - Editor/Contributor/Activist Kriztle Mesa - Social Media Manager Gen Rodelas-Kajabi Expert Kim Fernandez - Outreach Coordinator Connect with Lawrence Joss: Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/ Email- familydisappeared@gmail.com

As I unraveled my own knots of estrangement and marital upheaval, I discovered the unexpected gifts hidden in life's trials. Our latest podcast episode invites you into this personal journey, alongside insights from Dr. Paul, who illuminates the indispensable role of energy management in navigating the turbulent waters of family dynamics and child custody battles. In the throes of adversity, it's the transformative potential of our hardships that can lead us to a place of growth and creativity. Dr. Paul and I dissect the delicate dance of personal safety, righteousness, and their effects on our connections with others. We also question the impact of clinging to victimhood versus utilizing support groups as launching pads for resilience. Mary Louise Zeller, an 80-year-old 6-degree black belt in Taekwondo, graces us with her wisdom on the "white belt stuff"—the daily practice of gratitude and self-improvement that lays the foundation for a positive outlook. Concluding with a heartfelt reminder of the power of love and gratitude, we beckon you to share these gleaned pearls of wisdom with those in your own circles. This conversation is an invitation to transform your mess into a message, a mantra to carry with you as you continue to foster happiness and well-being in every facet of life. Don't forget to Subscribe to our YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@parentalalienationadvocates If you wish to connect with Lawrence Joss or any of the PA-A community members who have appeared as guests on the podcast: Email- familydisappeared@gmail.com Linktree: https://linktr.ee/lawrencejoss (All links mentioned in the podcast are available in Linktree) Please donate to support PAA programs: https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=SDLTX8TBSZNXS Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/ PLEASE SUBMIT YOUR ARTWORK TO THE FAMILY HOPE PROJECT: https://pa-a.mykajabi.com/questionnaire “Family Disappeared” podcast survey: https://pa-a.mykajabi.com/podcast-assessment Dr. Paul Jenkins - www.drpauljenkins.com This podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team: Glaze Gonzales- Podcast Manager Anna Johnson- Editor/Contributor/Activist Georgette Coppersmith - Editor/Contributor/Activist Kriztle Mesa - Social Media Manager Gen Rodelas-Kajabi Expert Kim Fernandez - Outreach Coordinator Connect with Lawrence Joss: Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/ Email- familydisappeared@gmail.com

When hope flickers in the darkness of life's toughest moments, transformation awaits. Dr. Paul Jenkins, a psychologist specializing in positivity psychology, joins the conversation today, illuminating the path to emotional wholeness. The conversation includes Dr. Paul's response to the heart-stopping diagnosis of his son's cancer, and champions the resilience that springs from hope, and the relentless pursuit of self-improvement. Imagine a world where our perceptions don't imprison us but instead liberate us, where the weight of circumstance is but a feather on the scale of our minds. This revelation forms the crux of our conversation, where we delve into the power of positive thinking. We unveil how shifting comparisons, from the despairing to the hopeful, can transform our emotional landscape. This conversation is a testament to the strength we have to paint our experiences with the hues of positivity, altering the canvas of our lives. As the episode draws to a close, the power of community comes to the forefront. The exchange of stories and questions through email isn't just encouraged, it's vital. It's in the sharing of wisdom where true growth blossoms. So, as I extend this invitation to you, our listeners, to engage and connect, let's remember that together, we're building a bastion of support for each other, a place where hope thrives and the spirit of positivity prevails. Don't forget to Subscribe to our YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@parentalalienationadvocates If you wish to connect with Lawrence Joss or any of the PA-A community members who have appeared as guests on the podcast: Email- familydisappeared@gmail.com Linktree: https://linktr.ee/lawrencejoss (All links mentioned in the podcast are available in Linktree) Please donate to support PAA programs: https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=SDLTX8TBSZNXS Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/ PLEASE SUBMIT YOUR ARTWORK TO THE FAMILY HOPE PROJECT: https://pa-a.mykajabi.com/questionnaire “Family Disappeared” podcast survey: https://pa-a.mykajabi.com/podcast-assessment Dr. Paul Jenkins - www.drpauljenkins.com This podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team: Glaze Gonzales- Podcast Manager Anna Johnson- Editor/Contributor/Activist Georgette Coppersmith - Editor/Contributor/Activist Kriztle Mesa - Social Media Manager Gen Rodelas-Kajabi Expert Kim Fernandez - Outreach Coordinator Connect with Lawrence Joss: Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/ Email- familydisappeared@gmail.com

As I laid bare the raw edges of my heart, recounting the times my children seemed like distant stars in a sky I could no longer reach, our community conversation took a turn toward the cathartic. We navigated the difficult terrain of parental alienation, a path I've walked with heavy steps, and emerged with a deeper understanding of the healing process that is possible when one embraces accountability and personal growth. As a group, we shed light on the silent struggles and the unexpected gratitude that can blossom from such profound adversity, reshaping relationships and offering a beacon of hope for reconciliation. This episode is a heartfelt exploration of the transformative journey from estrangement to emotional and spiritual health. It's about the courage it takes to let go of anger and to become receptive to new ways of connecting, sharing, and healing. We delve into the significance of truth-telling within family systems, the vulnerability required to break the cycle of generational trauma, and the gentle balance needed to respect autonomy while fostering connection. By the end, you'll come away with not only a collection of personal recovery stories, but also an invitation to reflect on your own relationships, and perhaps find your own doorway to healing, peace, and a deeper connection with those you love. Don't forget to Subscribe to our YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@parentalalienationadvocates If you wish to connect with Lawrence Joss or any of the PA-A community members who have appeared as guests on the podcast: Email- familydisappeared@gmail.com Linktree: https://linktr.ee/lawrencejoss (All links mentioned in the podcast are available in Linktree) Please donate to support PAA programs: https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=SDLTX8TBSZNXS Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/ PLEASE SUBMIT YOUR ARTWORK TO THE FAMILY HOPE PROJECT: https://pa-a.mykajabi.com/questionnaire “Family Disappeared” podcast survey: https://pa-a.mykajabi.com/podcast-assessment This podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team: Glaze Gonzales- Podcast Manager Anna Johnson- Editor/Contributor/Activist Georgette Coppersmith - Editor/Contributor/Activist Kriztle Mesa - Social Media Manager Gen Rodelas-Kajabi Expert Kim Fernandez - Outreach Coordinator Connect with Lawrence Joss: Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/ Email- familydisappeared@gmail.com

The pain of family estrangement cuts deep, and in our latest episode, we grapple with this silent struggle alongside guests from the PAA community. We share not only our own heart-wrenching experiences of alienation from our children but also the journeys of others who are navigating these turbulent waters. Embark on a conversation that is both a map and a compass for those seeking to mend the fractures within their own families, and discover the solace that comes with knowing you're not navigating these rough seas alone. As we unfold the layers of emotional landscapes shaped by broken bonds and societal constructs, you'll find yourself immersed in a dialogue that's as real as it gets. We delve into how childhood traumas echo through generations and the ways in which these hidden currents can lead to alienation. The insights gained here are not just theoretical—they're lived experiences that provide clarity on the path to healing, the responsibilities of parenting, and the transformation that comes when one confronts their identity within the family unit. The journey doesn't end with understanding the problem; it beckons us toward recovery and advocacy. Our conversation culminates as we highlight the transformative power of support systems, such as Parental Alienation programs that foster self-improvement and bridge-building with our children. These poignant tales reveal the strength found in vulnerability, the gratitude for life's trials, and the hope for a reunion. Each story is a testament to the relentless pursuit of reconnection and the belief that, despite the past's shadows, a brighter future for our families is within reach. Don't forget to Subscribe to our YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@parentalalienationadvocates If you wish to connect with Lawrence Joss or any of the PA-A community members who have appeared as guests on the podcast: Email- familydisappeared@gmail.com Linktree: https://linktr.ee/lawrencejoss (All links mentioned in the podcast are available in Linktree) Please donate to support PAA programs: https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=SDLTX8TBSZNXS Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/ PLEASE SUBMIT YOUR ARTWORK TO THE FAMILY HOPE PROJECT: https://pa-a.mykajabi.com/questionnaire “Family Disappeared” podcast survey: https://pa-a.mykajabi.com/podcast-assessment This podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team: Glaze Gonzales- Podcast Manager Anna Johnson- Editor/Contributor/Activist Georgette Coppersmith - Editor/Contributor/Activist Kriztle Mesa - Social Media Manager Gen Rodelas-Kajabi Expert Kim Fernandez - Outreach Coordinator Connect with Lawrence Joss: Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/ Email- familydisappeared@gmail.com

Embarking on a profound odyssey through emotional landscapes, I found that healing personal wounds and transforming relationships starts with the language we use and the understanding of our own neural pathways. Our guest, Sarah, with her expertise in relational neuroscience and self-compassion, joins me to share insights that can turn the brain into a sanctuary of warmth and empathy. Throughout the discussion, we unravel how Nonviolent Communication (NVC), family constellations, and neuroscience not only reshaped my relationship with my father but also offer others a blueprint for reconnecting with family members and resolving generational scars. Touching upon the nurturing power of empathy in parenting, we reveal the subtle strength behind a simple phrase like "Are you willing?" and discuss how it can cultivate cooperation in our children. The transformative journey from confrontation to compassion exemplifies the shift that's possible when we apply NVC in our familial interactions. We also delve into the concept of embodied parenting, exploring how our language patterns and attachment styles can pave the way for a partnership-oriented family dynamics, and how creating a secure emotional environment can lead to healthier, more grounded offspring. Finally, we dissect the systemic factors that seep into our family fabric, acknowledging how societal influences like poverty and racism contribute to the intergenerational transmission of trauma. A captivating case study from a constellation workshop provides a vivid example of how historical events still echo in today's relationships. Sarah's contributions, including her works "Your Resonant Self" and the accompanying workbook, are highlighted as essential guides for anyone on the quest for personal growth and healing. Together, we underscore the significance of understanding family systems in the broader context of societal struggles and the importance of supporting initiatives that bring these life-affirming communication modalities to the forefront of our community. Don't forget to Subscribe to our YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@parentalalienationadvocates If you wish to connect with Lawrence Joss or any of the PA-A community members who have appeared as guests on the podcast: Email- familydisappeared@gmail.com Linktree: https://linktr.ee/lawrencejoss (All links mentioned in the podcast are available in Linktree) Please donate to support PAA programs: https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=SDLTX8TBSZNXS Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/ PLEASE SUBMIT YOUR ARTWORK TO THE FAMILY HOPE PROJECT: https://pa-a.mykajabi.com/questionnaire “Family Disappeared” podcast survey: https://pa-a.mykajabi.com/podcast-assessment Sarah Peyton: www.sarahpeyton.com This podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team: Glaze Gonzales- Podcast Manager Anna Johnson- Editor/Contributor/Activist Georgette Coppersmith - Editor/Contributor/Activist Kriztle Mesa - Social Media Manager Gen Rodelas-Kajabi Expert Kim Fernandez - Outreach Coordinator Connect with Lawrence Joss: Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/ Email- familydisappeared@gmail.com

Embarking on a healing journey often feels deeply personal, yet it's a path that can resonate with many. My own voyage through the valleys of disconnection to the peaks of joy, love, and community has been marked with profound interactions and insights. In our conversation, Sarah Peyton, an expert in nonviolent communication and family constellation therapy, joins me to unravel these transformative practices, and how they can rewire our relationships and self-perception. Together, we explore the symbiotic relationship between interpersonal neurobiology and emotional healing, offering you a lantern to navigate the often dark corridors of personal change. Trauma can weave itself into the fabric of our lives, but understanding it's patterns can lead to self-compassion and recovery. We also look toward the light, highlighting the crucial role of embracing life's positive moments and cherishing connections. The practice of family constellation therapy illuminated my relationships with my children, revealing the capacity to support them beyond physical presence. As we close this chapter, I extend an invitation to you, our listeners, to engage with our ongoing dialogue. Your experiences, questions, and topic suggestions are the lifeblood of this community. We're committed to sharing a diversity of perspectives on recovery and personal growth, and we can't do it without your voice. Join us as we continue to build this neighborhood of dialogue and discovery, and stay tuned for next week's episode, which promises to bring another enlightening segment to your ears. Don't forget to Subscribe to our YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@parentalalienationadvocates If you wish to connect with Lawrence Joss or any of the PA-A community members who have appeared as guests on the podcast: Email- familydisappeared@gmail.com Linktree: https://linktr.ee/lawrencejoss (All links mentioned in the podcast are available in Linktree) Please donate to support PAA programs: https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=SDLTX8TBSZNXS Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/ PLEASE SUBMIT YOUR ARTWORK TO THE FAMILY HOPE PROJECT: https://pa-a.mykajabi.com/questionnaire “Family Disappeared” podcast survey: https://pa-a.mykajabi.com/podcast-assessment Sarah Peyton: www.sarahpeyton.com This podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team: Glaze Gonzales- Podcast Manager Anna Johnson- Editor/Contributor/Activist Georgette Coppersmith - Editor/Contributor/Activist Kriztle Mesa - Social Media Manager Gen Rodelas-Kajabi Expert Kim Fernandez - Outreach Coordinator Connect with Lawrence Joss: Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/ Email- familydisappeared@gmail.com

Have you ever yearned for a connection that seemed perpetually out of reach? Ceyhun's raw narrative in our latest episode takes you deep into the heart of such a longing, where the shadows of parental alienation within an intact family contour adult identities and relationships. He bravely exposes the emotional toll of striving for a father's validation, an endeavor that has left profound imprints on his journey toward self-discovery and wholeness. Through Ceyhun's eyes, we scrutinize the intricate cycle of trauma bonding and the replication of childhood patterns in adult partnerships. The conversation traverses the rocky terrain of seeking love in the high-stakes game of relationship reenactment, where the stakes are personal growth and emotional well-being. We confront the paradox of craving intensity while learning to embrace the calm of stable, nurturing connections. This episode invites you to reflect on your own relationships, to distinguish between the nourishment of healthy boundaries and the familiarity of emotional distance. In our concluding segment, the path to recovery unfurls, revealing the tangled web of role reversal within families. We share insights and tools that have illuminated our paths—vipassana meditation, creative expression, and psychotherapy—highlighting the resilience necessary to navigate the aftershocks of familial dysfunction. Ceyhun's candid revelations, coupled with our exploration of therapeutic avenues, aim to empower you to rewrite your own script. Join us in this transformative dialogue, where we lay bare the complexities of healing from the invisible scars of parental alienation. Don't forget to Subscribe to our YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@parentalalienationadvocates If you wish to connect with Lawrence Joss or any of the PA-A community members who have appeared as guests on the podcast: Email- familydisappeared@gmail.com Linktree: https://linktr.ee/lawrencejoss (All links mentioned in the podcast are available in Linktree) Please donate to support PAA programs: https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=SDLTX8TBSZNXS Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/ PLEASE SUBMIT YOUR ARTWORK TO THE FAMILY HOPE PROJECT: https://pa-a.mykajabi.com/questionnaire “Family Disappeared” podcast survey: https://pa-a.mykajabi.com/podcast-assessment This podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team: Akai Aquino - Project Leader Glaze Gonzales- Podcast Manager This podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team: Glaze Gonzales- Podcast Manager Anna Johnson- Editor/Contributor/Activist Georgette Coppersmith - Editor/Contributor/Activist Kriztle Mesa - Social Media Manager Gen Rodelas-Kajabi Expert Kim Fernandez - Outreach Coordinator Connect with Lawrence Joss: Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/ Email- familydisappeared@gmail.com

Have you ever felt caught in the middle of your parent's silent wars, loving them both yet torn by their underlying discord? I'm Lawrence Joss, and in this poignant conversation, we explore the complex world of parental alienation within intact families. Joined by Ceyhun from Turkey, we offer a cross-cultural perspective on family estrangement, and the silent battles that shape our internal and external worlds. This episode promises an introspective journey through the landscapes of enmeshment and codependency that often trace back to before children even enter the picture, setting the stage for a cycle of generational trauma and dysfunction. Parental relationships can be a delicate web of emotions and expectations, where the line between caregiver and confidante is often blurred. This episode peels back the layers of such dynamics, spotlighting how they can project internalized parental roles into our adult lives and relationships. We open the dialogue on the all-too-common phenomenon where children become the caretakers of their parents' unaddressed issues, leading to a deep-seated struggle for independence and self-identity. With our guest Ceyhun providing insight into how these themes play out in diverse cultural settings, we bring to the fore the necessity of recognizing these patterns for what they are: a call to embark on the path to emotional liberation. Finally, we wade into the tender waters of emotional incest and the yearning for connection amidst parental alienation. The stories shared in this chapter serve as a mirror for listeners who might find reflections of their own familial challenges. The conversation goes further, addressing the potent desire for paternal recognition and how one's sense of masculinity can be entwined with these formative relationships. As we wrap up this episode, remember that our shared narratives are the stepping stones towards healing, and that you're not navigating these waters alone. Don't forget to Subscribe to our YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@parentalalienationadvocates If you wish to connect with Lawrence Joss or any of the PA-A community members who have appeared as guests on the podcast: Email- familydisappeared@gmail.com Linktree: https://linktr.ee/lawrencejoss (All links mentioned in the podcast are available in Linktree) Please donate to support PAA programs: https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=SDLTX8TBSZNXS Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/ PLEASE SUBMIT YOUR ARTWORK TO THE FAMILY HOPE PROJECT: https://pa-a.mykajabi.com/questionnaire “Family Disappeared” podcast survey: https://pa-a.mykajabi.com/podcast-assessment This podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team: Akai Aquino - Project Leader Glaze Gonzales- Podcast Manager Anna Johnson- Editor/Contribu This podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team: Glaze Gonzales- Podcast Manager Anna Johnson- Editor/Contributor/Activist Georgette Coppersmith - Editor/Contributor/Activist Kriztle Mesa - Social Media Manager Gen Rodelas-Kajabi Expert Kim Fernandez - Outreach Coordinator Connect with Lawrence Joss: Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/ Email- familydisappeared@gmail.com

Have you ever reached for pen and paper, hoping to mend bridges with heartfelt words, only to find yourself at a loss? Dr. Josh Coleman joins us to explore the cathartic journey of writing an Amends letter, a voyage that might begin with you, but has the power to heal entire family systems. In a conversation that's as raw as it is insightful, we tackle the nuances of apologies and the personal growth that emerges from truly acknowledging the impact of our actions on our children. The art of the Amends letter is not just about saying "I'm sorry," but about opening channels for deep, transformative connections. Navigating the complexities of strained family relationships requires patience, acceptance, and oftentimes, a strategic touch. We unveil strategies that can help parents and children alike to initiate and nurture the path toward reconciliation. With Dr. Coleman's guidance, discover the delicate balance between too much information and just enough, the importance of framing conversations positively, and the maturity needed to let go of being right in favor of closeness. This episode doesn't just offer a beacon of hope; it provides practical steps for anyone ready to heal old wounds and forge stronger bonds with those they call family. Dr Josh Coleman: https://www.drjoshuacoleman.com/ Connect with Lawrence Joss: Email- familydisappeared@gmail.com Linktree https://linktr.ee/lawrencejoss (All links mentioned in the podcast are available in Linktree) “Family Disappeared” podcast survey: https://pa-a.mykajabi.com/podcast-assessment Please donate to support PAA programs: https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=SDLTX8TBSZNXS PLEASE SUBMIT YOUR ARTWORK TO THE FAMILY HOPE PROJECT: https://pa-a.mykajabi.com/questionnaire This podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team: Glaze Gonzales- Podcast Manager Anna Johnson- Editor/Contributor/Activist Georgette Coppersmith - Editor/Contributor/Activist Kriztle Mesa - Social Media Manager Gen Rodelas-Kajabi Expert Kim Fernandez - Outreach Coordinator Connect with Lawrence Joss: Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/ Email- familydisappeared@gmail.com

Embarking on a journey of reconciliation can be as daunting as it is necessary, especially when the estrangement lies within the delicate fibers of family. I, Lawrence Joss, alongside the insightful Dr. Josh Coleman, delve into the often-unspoken paths of familial healing, and the profound act of writing amends letters. Navigating the complexities of estrangement and alienation, Dr. Coleman and I dissect the intricate dynamics that lead to family disconnections. We lay bare the soulful distinction between alienation—where one parent's influence skews a child's view of the other parent—versus estrangement, which can stem from various, sometimes unavoidable, life circumstances. The conversation is an honest reflection on the hampering defensiveness that parents must overcome, and the courageous steps towards empathetic communication that may pave the way to rekindling lost relationships. The closing moments of our dialogue are a heartening embrace of the struggles and victories in the throes of parental estrangement. We share tales of resilience, the solace found in acceptance, and the self-care necessary when facing the reality of a child's unforgiveness. Our podcast provides a reservoir of support and hope through concrete resources and shared experiences. For anyone navigating these turbulent waters, our stories and advice serve as a lighthouse guiding you back to the shores of familial connection. Dr Josh Coleman: https://www.drjoshuacoleman.com/ Connect with Lawrence Joss: Email- familydisappeared@gmail.com Linktree https://linktr.ee/lawrencejoss (All links mentioned in the podcast are available in Linktree) “Family Disappeared” podcast survey: https://pa-a.mykajabi.com/podcast-assessment Please donate to support PAA programs: https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=SDLTX8TBSZNXS PLEASE SUBMIT YOUR ARTWORK TO THE FAMILY HOPE PROJECT: https://pa-a.mykajabi.com/questionnaire This podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team: Glaze Gonzales- Podcast Manager Anna Johnson- Editor/Contributor/Activist Georgette Coppersmith - Editor/Contributor/Activist Kriztle Mesa - Social Media Manager Gen Rodelas-Kajabi Expert Kim Fernandez - Outreach Coordinator Connect with Lawrence Joss: Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/ Email- familydisappeared@gmail.com