Second Thoughts

Pia and Paula are excitedly counting down to 2024 and reminiscing about all the amazing things that happened in 2023 – shoutout to Pia's new house and Paula's career pivot! But they're not just looking back…they're also planning for their future. In this episode, the sisters share their experiences from the past year, both the highs and the lows and discuss their goals and aspirations for the coming year. They also chat about the anxiety and fear that often come with change or planning for the future and share their tips on staying proactive without feeling overwhelmed. IN THIS EPISODE, PIA & PAULA TALK ABOUT: - (9:34) The impact the pandemic had on their current selves - (13:08) The major highs and lows of 2023 - (18:39) Thoughts, plans, and goals for 2024 - (23:10) How they each approach planning - (26:34) Advice for managing anxiety and fears about change - (32:40) Tips for planning ahead without feeling overwhelmed - (37:47) Slowing down in your mid-20s and balancing responsibilities with activities RESOURCES - Leave us a voicemail or text at (512) 827-8730 for a chance to get featured on the pod! Tell us what you’re second guessing. - Follow the podcast on Instagram HERE - Listen on your favorite platform HERE - Shop Ignited Apparel HERE CONNECT WITH PIA On Instagram: @sophiacuerquis On YouTube: @sophiacuerquis On TikTok: @sophiacuerquis CONNECT WITH PAULA On Instagram: @paulacuerquis On TikTok: @paulacuerquis --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/second-thoughts/support

The holiday season is just around the corner, but it can be super tough to fully enjoy it if you're far away from your loved ones. And Pia and Paula totally understand the challenges of living in different states from each other and the rest of their family! In this episode, they share their experiences navigating long-distance with friends and family and split-family obligations with their partners. They reflect on past holidays and unpack their decision to spend Thanksgiving apart this year. They also talk about their excitement for their upcoming trip to visit their family in the Philippines and offer their tips for coping with distance, creating personal traditions at home, and embracing a "found family." IN THIS EPISODE, PIA & PAULA TALK ABOUT: - (11:47) The difference between distance with a partner vs. family/friends - (15:51) Splitting holidays with partners - (22:18) Visiting family in the Philippines - (29:04) The challenges of long-distance relationships with friends and family - (35:04) Tips for dealing with loneliness during the holidays - (39:51) The concept of a “found family” - (44:02) Why Paula is second-guessing her marathon RESOURCES - Book rec: Fourth Wing by Rebecca Yarros - Book rec: Iron Flame by Rebecca Yarros - Leave us a voicemail or text at (512) 827-8730 for a chance to get featured on the pod! Tell us what you’re second guessing. - Follow the podcast on Instagram HERE - Listen on your favorite platform HERE - Shop Ignited Apparel HERE CONNECT WITH PIA On Instagram: @sophiacuerquis On YouTube: @sophiacuerquis On TikTok: @sophiacuerquis CONNECT WITH PAULA On Instagram: @paulacuerquis On TikTok: @paulacuerquis --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/second-thoughts/support

With Thanksgiving just around the corner, Pia & Paula are feeling grateful and nostalgic! The sisters think this season is the perfect time to reflect on your year, tap into your feelings, and enjoy all the beauty right in front of you. They chat about appreciating life's simplicities, being thankful for their friends and family, and living in the moment. So listen in, grab your favorite cozy blanket, and sip on a cup of tea because it's about to get all warm and fuzzy. IN THIS EPISODE, PIA & PAULA TALK ABOUT: - (5:07) Appreciating life’s simple pleasures - (14:30) Having a close relationship with parents and best friends - (17:46) Why you can’t take the internet for granted - (25:38) The sacrifices and unconditional love of their family - (30:30) Balancing living in your YOLO era vs. saving for the future RESOURCES - Book rec: A Court of Thorns and Roses - Leave us a voicemail or text at (512) 827-8730 for a chance to get featured on the pod! Tell us what you’re second guessing. - Follow the podcast on Instagram HERE - Listen on your favorite platform HERE - Shop Ignited Apparel HERE CONNECT WITH PIA On Instagram: @sophiacuerquis On YouTube: @sophiacuerquis On TikTok: @sophiacuerquis CONNECT WITH PAULA On Instagram: @paulacuerquis On TikTok: @paulacuerquis --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/second-thoughts/support

Let's be honest... we're all a little nosy sometimes. In this episode, Pia and Paula dive into the latest trend on TikTok - "I pay attention to things most people ignore," inspired by Olivia Rodrigo's song, All American B*tch. They chat about the most popular TikToks on this topic, like Venmo requests between couples, the weird ways people interact with your significant other, and social media stalking or blocking. They also share what they pay the most attention to – Pia gets stressed out by how people use punctuation and emojis when texting, while Paula has a superpower for knowing exactly how people feel. IN THIS EPISODE, PIA & PAULA TALK ABOUT: - (4:27) Venmo requests and financial equality between couples - (8:51) Cutting people off vs. valuing opinions in conversation - (10:50) Dating habits and how people interact with your partner - (24:51) What they each pay attention to, like energetic intuition, texting styles, and sharing germs - (34:02) The universality and common interests found in this trend - (35:02) Advice for leaving a toxic relationship, hookup culture, and today’s dating era RESOURCES - Spotify Audio Books - Book rec: The Killing Game by Kate Bold - Book rec: Fourth Wing by Rebecca Yarros - Leave us a voicemail or text at (512) 827-8730 for a chance to get featured on the pod! Tell us what you’re second guessing. - Follow the podcast on Instagram HERE - Listen on your favorite platform HERE - Shop Ignited Apparel HERE CONNECT WITH PIA On Instagram: @sophiacuerquis On YouTube: @sophiacuerquis On TikTok: @sophiacuerquis CONNECT WITH PAULA On Instagram: @paulacuerquis On TikTok: @paulacuerquis --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/second-thoughts/support

Social media has made it way too easy for people to share intimate details of their lives with their followers, and today, Pia & Paula reflect on their experiences with oversharing vs. keeping certain things private online and in real-life. They talk about the difference between relatable content, excessive oversharing, and providing personal stories that can be helpful or educational. The sisters discuss the importance of maintaining your privacy online and Pia explains how she balances being a relatable influencer while not oversharing. Plus, Paula gives her thoughts on how to deal with trauma dumping from friends or when you first meet someone. They also remind us of age-old advice, "think before you speak," and give their tricks for knowing when/ where you should/shouldn’t overshare. IN THIS EPISODE, PIA & PAULA TALK ABOUT: - (8:07) What it means to overshare on social media - (10:39) Their individual perspectives on sharing or not sharing certain things - (20:50) Why influencers overshare details of their daily lives - (25:00) How oversharing can create a sense of community and understanding - (30:00) The difference between offering help and setting boundaries with trauma dumping - (40:15) Advice for making the most of long-distance relationships RESOURCES - Check out Ken Eurich: @ken.eurich - Check out Call Her Daddy with Alex Cooper HERE - Leave us a voicemail or text at (512) 827-8730 for a chance to get featured on the pod! Tell us what you’re second guessing. - Follow the podcast on Instagram HERE - Listen on your favorite platform HERE - Shop Ignited Apparel HERE CONNECT WITH PIA On Instagram: @sophiacuerquis On YouTube: @sophiacuerquis On TikTok: @sophiacuerquis CONNECT WITH PAULA On Instagram: @paulacuerquis On TikTok: @paulacuerquis --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/second-thoughts/support

Today, Pia and Paula are chatting all about being petty and being on the receiving end of petty behavior! Throughout the episode, the sisters share some personal stories about their experiences with pettiness in relationships, friendships, and family dynamics. They also talk about the nuances of being petty, the difference between playful and harmful pettiness, and how they respond to someone being petty towards them. Pia reveals her annoyance with people who respond to her texts with "lol", and Paula reflects on how pettiness plays a role in her relationship. IN THIS EPISODE, PIA & PAULA TALK ABOUT: - (8:47) The various ways they each exhibit or refrain from being petty - (14:15) Being petty in romantic relationships vs. friendships - (24:20) The consequences of engaging in petty behavior - (27:38) Ways that they each express their pettiness - (32:20) Tips for navigating situations when others are being petty towards you - (37:10) Advice on the best activities for a first date with someone from a dating app RESOURCES - Wine rec: Ménage à Trois wine - Chapstick rec: LANEIGE Gummy Bear - Leave us a voicemail or text at (512) 827-8730 for a chance to get featured on the pod! Tell us what you’re second guessing. - Follow the podcast on Instagram HERE - Listen on your favorite platform HERE - Shop Ignited Apparel HERE CONNECT WITH PIA On Instagram: @sophiacuerquis On YouTube: @sophiacuerquis On TikTok: @sophiacuerquis CONNECT WITH PAULA On Instagram: @paulacuerquis On TikTok: @paulacuerquis --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/second-thoughts/support

Emotional detachment gets a bad rap, but finding ways to separate yourself from situations or people that don’t serve you is so important. In this episode, Pia and Paula discuss what detachment looks like through the lens of toxic friendships and family dynamics, particularly for people who tend to absorb negative energy. They also highlight ways to let go of unrealistic expectations and reduce anxiety about situations that are outside of your control. It’s easier said than done, but practicing detachment is the key to protecting your peace. IN THIS EPISODE, PIA & PAULA TALK ABOUT: - (11:13) What ‘detachment’ means to Pia and Paula - (15:12) Why it’s so hard for people pleasers to practice detachment - (20:18) Pia and Paula’s thoughts on the classic ‘don’t go to bed angry’ advice - (22:48) Paula’s struggle to detach from family stress - (30:52) Learning to set professional boundaries - (37:46) Pia and Paula’s advice for anyone questioning their career or life’s purpose RESOURCES - Listen to Episode 42 about pivoting - Leave us a voicemail or text at (512) 827-8730 for a chance to get featured on the pod! Tell us what you’re second guessing. - Follow the podcast on Instagram HERE - Listen on your favorite platform HERE - Shop Ignited Apparel HERE CONNECT WITH PIA On Instagram: @sophiacuerquis On YouTube: @sophiacuerquis On TikTok: @sophiacuerquis CONNECT WITH PAULA On Instagram: @paulacuerquis On TikTok: @paulacuerquis --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/second-thoughts/support

The leaves are changing, the pumpkins are out, and the sweaters are on! Fall is here, and Pia and Paula couldn't be more excited. But as cozy as fall can be, they don't want you to get caught up in the seasonal blues. Today, the sisters share their tips for keeping your social calendar full of fall activities, making memories with your friends and family, and suiting up in those comfy cold-weather outfits. As winter approaches, they want you to take care of your mental health, stick to your routines, and soak up every second of sunshine. Don't let the weather get you down – snuggle up in a fluffy blanket, grab your favorite warm drink, and listen in! IN THIS EPISODE, PIA & PAULA TALK ABOUT: - (9:15) Fall weather in Austin vs. Philly - (17:35) What they’ve been doing to settle into fall - (21:57) Fashion trends for cold weather - (27:03) Tips and tricks for combatting seasonal depression - (31:32) Prioritizing your nighttime, morning, and weekly routines - (36:11) The stereotype that Filipina women only date white guys RESOURCES - Movie rec: Kelce Documentary - Podcast rec: New Heights with Jason and Travis Kelce (Swifties' Version) - Book rec: You're That Bitch: & Other Cute Lessons About Being Unapologetically Yourself - Shoes rec: Nike Dunks - Shoes rec: Birkenstock Boston Clogs - Pia’s Bath & Body Works Partnership TikTok - Leave us a voicemail or text at (512) 827-8730 for a chance to get featured on the pod! Tell us what you’re second guessing. - Follow the podcast on Instagram HERE - Listen on your favorite platform HERE - Shop Ignited Apparel HERE CONNECT WITH PIA On Instagram: @sophiacuerquis On YouTube: @sophiacuerquis On TikTok: @sophiacuerquis CONNECT WITH PAULA On Instagram: @paulacuerquis On TikTok: @paulacuerquis --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/second-thoughts/support

As Pia's 25th birthday approaches, she and Paula are taking a moment to look back on all the amazing things that have happened before and during 24. They chat about why it's so important to prioritize self-care, health, and personal growth over partying and Netflix binges as you hit that quarter-life milestone. Moving into her mid-twenties, Pia is embracing what makes her unique and playing to her strengths rather than comparing herself to others she sees online. Paula questions whether certain life choices (like getting married or having kids) can impact your potential for success and growth. At the end of the day, they encourage you to find the bright side in every situation, trust the timing of life, and seize every opportunity that comes your way! IN THIS EPISODE, PIA & PAULA TALK ABOUT: - (3:30) Pia’s initial thoughts and feelings about turning 25 - (15:58) The top five lessons Pia learned during 24 - (24:29) Reflections on the last 10 years - (34:03) Words of wisdom for anyone hitting their mid-twenties - (36:39) Tips for moving out and keeping long-distance relationships strong RESOURCES - Book rec: The Crescent City Series - Book rec: Fourth Wing - Book rec: Happy Place - Book rec: A Court of Mist and Fury - Leave us a voicemail or text at (512) 827-8730 for a chance to get featured on the pod! Tell us what you’re second guessing. - Follow the podcast on Instagram HERE - Listen on your favorite platform HERE - Shop Ignited Apparel HERE CONNECT WITH PIA On Instagram: @sophiacuerquis On YouTube: @sophiacuerquis On TikTok: @sophiacuerquis CONNECT WITH PAULA On Instagram: @paulacuerquis On TikTok: @paulacuerquis --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/second-thoughts/support

As summer 2023 comes to a close, Pia and Paula are reflecting back on all the lessons they've learned. For the sisters, this summer was all about growth, self-discovery, and realizing that you can live life on your own terms. They chat about the importance of setting boundaries, finding supportive friends, and not giving in to societal pressures or expectations. Pia highlights embracing her adulthood while still having a hot girl summer (that isn't TOO hot). Paula reminds you to stay open to all the opportunities that come your way – including those friendly games of pickleball. Who says summer fun has to end when the leaves start to fall? The sisters want you to keep living life to the fullest, no matter the season! IN THIS EPISODE, PIA & PAULA TALK ABOUT: - (11:30) Opening yourself up to every opportunity - (13:37) Why hot girl summers don’t need to be SO hot - (15:08) Learning to say no and making deeper friendships - (21:10) Not meeting everyone’s expectations - (27:17) Going at your own pace and staying true to yourself - (32:21) Summer doesn’t have to end - (35:37) Advice for overcoming the fear of failure RESOURCES - Leave us a voicemail or text at (512) 827-8730 for a chance to get featured on the pod! Tell us what you’re second guessing. - Follow the podcast on Instagram ⁠HERE⁠ - Listen on your favorite platform ⁠HERE⁠ - Shop Ignited Apparel ⁠HERE⁠ CONNECT WITH PIA On Instagram: ⁠@sophiacuerquis⁠ On YouTube: ⁠@sophiacuerquis⁠ On TikTok: ⁠@sophiacuerquis⁠ CONNECT WITH PAULA On Instagram: ⁠@paulacuerquis⁠ On TikTok: ⁠@paulacuerquis⁠ --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/second-thoughts/support

Pia and Paula are here to remind you that there's nothing wrong with being a little delulu from time to time! Today, the sisters chat about the power of delusion, also known online as “being delulu.” They talk about how being delusional can be a good thing, especially when it helps you turn your passions into a career or as a way to stay optimistic in situations that are beyond your control. They also discuss the downside of being delusional, like when it leads to toxic relationships or unrealistic expectations. They touch on "lucky girl syndrome" and manifestation and share their own experiences with being delulu – Paula opens up about her past obsession with One Direction, while Pia explains how her delusion shaped where she is today. IN THIS EPISODE, PIA & PAULA TALK ABOUT: - (4:19) Life updates on fashion week & hiring an assistant - (12:04) What it means to be “delulu” - (18:35) Why being delusional can benefit you - (22:47) The negative aspects of being delusional - (27:28) Deluluships, lucky girl syndrome & manifestation - (37:31) Advice for saving money and where to invest RESOURCES - Episode 53: Managing Our Money: Spending, Saving, & Security - Leave us a voicemail or text at (512) 827-8730 for a chance to get featured on the pod! Tell us what you’re second guessing. - Follow the podcast on Instagram HERE - Listen on your favorite platform HERE - Shop Ignited Apparel HERE CONNECT WITH PIA On Instagram: @sophiacuerquis On YouTube: @sophiacuerquis On TikTok: @sophiacuerquis CONNECT WITH PAULA On Instagram: @paulacuerquis On TikTok: @paulacuerquis --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/second-thoughts/support

Are you starting to channel more Emily Mariko energy and less Alix Earle? Then, you might be transitioning into your soft girl era! Today, Pia and Paula dive into hot girl and soft girl eras. They explore what each phase of life means, how they differ, and why it all ties into growth and priorities. They also introduce a new term for an era that's a mix of both! The sisters share their experiences and thoughts, including how they've shifted from their hot girl era to a soft girl era, and why finding balance is key. Plus, they touch on girl math, planning for Paula's wedding, and why Pia hired a housekeeper. IN THIS EPISODE, PIA & PAULA TALK ABOUT: - (1:45) Paula's marathon training and Pia's cycling classes - (8:31) The differences between hot girl and soft girl eras - (16:19) Their hot girl era and transitioning into their soft girl era - (23:40) A quick lesson on girl math - (28:23) An idea for a new stage of life that combines elements of both eras - (32:50) Tips for reconnecting with Filipino culture RESOURCES - Leave us a voicemail at (512) 827-8730 for a chance to get featured on the pod! Tell us what you’re second guessing. - Follow the podcast on Instagram HERE - Listen on your favorite platform HERE - Shop Ignited Apparel HERE CONNECT WITH PIA On Instagram: @sophiacuerquis On YouTube: @sophiacuerquis On TikTok: @sophiacuerquis CONNECT WITH PAULA On Instagram: @paulacuerquis On TikTok: @paulacuerquis --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/second-thoughts/support

In a world full of societal pressures, social media trends, and cultural standards, it's easy to feel like you need to be the "perfect" version of yourself all of the time. Pia & Paula know how overwhelming this can be and want to remind you that these standards are totally unrealistic! Today, the sisters open up about their experiences in navigating modern beauty standards, rant about the constant pressure to uphold them, offer tips on how to quiet the noise of outside opinions, and encourage you to focus on what makes you feel confident. They know it can be tough to stop comparing yourself to others, but with daily affirmations, the perfect pair of jeans, and some self-love, you'll be on the right track to fully embracing what makes you YOU! IN THIS EPISODE, PIA & PAULA TALK ABOUT: - (6:09) How their body image standards changed over time - (13:46) Overcoming insecurities from childhood - (19:59) External validation versus internal self-worth - (24:32) The pressure to conform to trends - (30:56) Advice for navigating beauty standards RESOURCES - Leave us a voicemail at (512) 827-8730 for a chance to get featured on the pod! Tell us what you’re second guessing. - Follow the podcast on Instagram HERE - Listen on your favorite platform HERE - Shop Ignited Apparel HERE CONNECT WITH PIA On Instagram: @sophiacuerquis On YouTube: @sophiacuerquis On TikTok: @sophiacuerquis CONNECT WITH PAULA On Instagram: @paulacuerquis On TikTok: @paulacuerquis --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/second-thoughts/support

Today's special episode is dedicated entirely to second-guessing and answering your burning questions. The sisters cover an array of topics, including their semi-traumatic childhood Target trips, why Pia couldn't keep her guinea pigs, and their goals for 2024. They also dig into deeper discussions about having kids in modern America, the advice they would give their younger selves, and the struggle of admitting when they're wrong. Make sure to follow Pia & Paula on Instagram for a chance to have your question answered next time! IN THIS EPISODE, PIA & PAULA TALK ABOUT: - (1:16) Core childhood memories - (7:31) Book recommendations - (10:17) The most Filipino things they do - (14:07) What to do when a celebrity isn’t who you expected them to be - (15:39) Things they’ve done that go against what their parents wanted for them - (18:03) Dream jobs and the worst parts of their current jobs - (25:29) Goals for 2024 - (28:38) How they’re mentally preparing for having kids - (33:55) Being too proud to admit when they’re wrong - (38:04) Advice for finding time to go out with friends and introducing your S.O. to the group - (41:00) What they would tell their younger selves RESOURCES - Follow Paula on GoodReads HERE - Leave us a voicemail at (512) 827-8730 for a chance to get featured on the pod! Tell us what you’re second guessing. - Follow the podcast on Instagram HERE - Listen on your favorite platform HERE - Shop Ignited Apparel HERE CONNECT WITH PIA On Instagram: @sophiacuerquis On YouTube: @sophiacuerquis On TikTok: @sophiacuerquis CONNECT WITH PAULA On Instagram: @paulacuerquis On TikTok: @paulacuerquis --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/second-thoughts/support

Pia and Paula admit they aren't financial experts, but they're more than happy to share some tips and tricks that have helped them manage their money in their 20s! In this episode, they offer advice to anyone looking to manage their finances wisely, find joy in their spending choices, and create a harmonious relationship between everyday luxuries and future security. The sisters reflect on how their upbringing in a middle-class family of nurses impacted their view on money. They also offer insights into how they navigate their individual spending habits and save money without sacrificing any serotonin. Paula shares her journey from binge buying to embracing a healthier relationship with money, while Pia opens up about how her career and how access to free products have influenced her spending patterns. IN THIS EPISODE, PIA & PAULA TALK ABOUT: - (8:26) The importance of salary transparency - (14:04) How their childhood shaped their money mindset - (17:01) Why you need to open credit cards and high-yield savings accounts - (29:21) Tips for saving money and managing spending - (37:42) Reviewing credit card charges and recurring subscriptions - (48:02) Their experiences with personal reinvention RESOURCES - Leave us a voicemail at (512) 827-8730 for a chance to get featured on the pod! Tell us what you’re second guessing. - Follow the podcast on Instagram HERE - Listen on your favorite platform HERE - Shop Ignited Apparel HERE CONNECT WITH PIA On Instagram: @sophiacuerquis On YouTube: @sophiacuerquis On TikTok: @sophiacuerquis CONNECT WITH PAULA On Instagram: @paulacuerquis On TikTok: @paulacuerquis --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/second-thoughts/support

Pia and Paula understand the uphill climb of making friends in your 20s. But they’re here to remind you that feeling unsure or nervous is completely normal and building genuine and meaningful friendships takes time and effort! Today, the sisters open up about navigating the ups and downs of making friends. They share their tips for connecting with others, what they look for in friendships, and why you need to prioritize your alone time. Plus, Pia and Paula discuss being dog parents and share their advice for caring for your furry besties. IN THIS EPISODE, PIA & PAULA TALK ABOUT: - (13:05) Why it’s so difficult to make friends as an adult - (16:39) The differences between acquaintances, true friends & The Fab Five - (26:03) How to be intentional with your plans to balance time for friends and yourself - (34:10) Aligning your friendships with your needs, creating deeper connections, and the significance of emotional reciprocity - (37:17) Their tips and tricks for making genuine friendships - (45:35) The pros and cons of dog ownership RESOURCES - Leave us a voicemail at (512) 827-8730 for a chance to get featured on the pod! Tell us what you’re second guessing. - Follow the podcast on Instagram HERE - Listen on your favorite platform HERE - Shop Ignited Apparel HERE CONNECT WITH PIA On Instagram: @sophiacuerquis On YouTube: @sophiacuerquis On TikTok: @sophiacuerquis CONNECT WITH PAULA On Instagram: @paulacuerquis On TikTok: @paulacuerquis --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/second-thoughts/support

Family vacations are a rare time to slow down, relax, and bond with loved ones without any work-related or outside distractions. For the Cuerquis family, going on big family vacations is a tradition, and Pia & Paula have become professionals in the art of family travel! Today, they're sharing their pros, cons, and expert tips for making the most of family vacations. Being in forced proximity with a ton of family members has its ups and downs, from seeing parents at their happiest and creating lasting memories to embarrassing matching outfits or stopping traffic for a family photo. The sisters also share their advice for choosing a vacation spot that suits everyone's style, age, and interests. Plus, Pia & Paula open up about their relationship when they were younger, sharing personal stories of sibling rivalry and how things took a turn for the better in their adulthood. If you’re the eldest daughter like Paula, turn to this Refinery29 article for some comfort. IN THIS EPISODE, PIA & PAULA TALK ABOUT:- (4:22) Why the Cuerquis family vacations are iconic - (10:14) What they love most about family vacations - (13:23) The cons of family vacations - (23:52) How to craft a vacation that everyone in your family will enjoy - (34:28) Tips for getting the most out of your family vacations - (38:54) Their relationship growing up compared to who they are now RESOURCES - Leave us a voicemail at (512) 827-8730 for a chance to get featured on the pod! Tell us what you’re second guessing. - Follow the podcast on Instagram HERE - Listen on your favorite platform HERE - Shop Ignited Apparel HERE CONNECT WITH PIA On Instagram: @sophiacuerquis On YouTube: @sophiacuerquis On TikTok: @sophiacuerquis CONNECT WITH PAULA On Instagram: @paulacuerquis On TikTok: @paulacuerquis --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/second-thoughts/support

For Pia & Paula, learning is a never-ending process. With immigrant parents, they've had to figure out important US milestones like college applications, filing taxes, finding a doctor, and pumping gas (shout out to New Jersey) on their own. In this episode, the sisters share the obstacles they've faced in their young adulthood that no one bothered to teach them about sooner! Everyone is constantly learning, and it's totally okay not to have all the answers. Life is full of challenges, and Pia & Paula encourage you to embrace them! Pia shares her experience navigating the early stages of homeownership while Paula opens up about guiding her younger siblings through the FAFSA and SATs. They also touch on creating an LLC, the humble beginnings of this podcast, and the first steps to becoming an influencer. IN THIS EPISODE, PIA & PAULA TALK ABOUT: - (6:28) Adjusting to the culture shock of living in the US - (10:56) Transitioning from a pediatrician to a regular doctor - (16:07) The finances of being an influencer, like brand deals and write-offs - (22:38) All of the components that go into making the podcast - (26:07) The unexpected (and complex) aspects of buying a home - (30:38) Urgent care vs. emergency rooms - (33:57) Tips for getting started as a digital creator RESOURCES - Check out Pia’s new jewelry line HERE - Leave us a voicemail at (512) 827-8730 for a chance to get featured on the pod! Tell us what you’re second guessing. - Follow the podcast on Instagram HERE - Listen on your favorite platform HERE - Shop Ignited Apparel HERE CONNECT WITH PIA On Instagram: @sophiacuerquis On YouTube: @sophiacuerquis On TikTok: @sophiacuerquis CONNECT WITH PAULA On Instagram: @paulacuerquis On TikTok: @paulacuerquis --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/second-thoughts/support

If you claim you don't get jealous, you're lying! Jealousy is a natural human emotion that everyone faces, but knowing how to handle it is essential for your personal growth journey. Today, Pia & Paula dive into how jealousy can sneak up on you in relationships, work, and friendships, especially in the era of social media. The sisters open up about the ways they experience jealousy, like craving an influencer's luxurious lifestyle or comparing themselves to picture-perfect couples. The sisters emphasize that self-awareness and acceptance are the key to overcoming jealousy and encourage channeling these emotions into motivation. Pia believes that when jealousy strikes, you need to hit that "unfollow" button ASAP. Paula suggests that you can use jealousy to your advantage and shares advice for getting to the core of your jealousy and using it as fuel to achieve your goals. IN THIS EPISODE, PIA & PAULA TALK ABOUT: - (3:27) “Jealousy is a disease, get well soon.” - (4:57) The impact of social media on jealousy and envy - (9:23) How jealousy shows up in their lives - (19:02) Why Paula used to be jealous of Pia's job - (22:17) Ways to silence your self-doubt - (27:25) Lifestyle and relationship envy - (31:06) Tips for managing your jealousy - (36:43) Coping with a breakup and advice for moving on RESOURCES - Leave us a voicemail at (512) 827-8730 for a chance to get featured on the pod! Tell us what you’re second guessing. - Follow the podcast on Instagram HERE - Listen on your favorite platform HERE - Shop Ignited Apparel HERE CONNECT WITH PIA On Instagram: @sophiacuerquis On YouTube: @sophiacuerquis On TikTok: @sophiacuerquis CONNECT WITH PAULA On Instagram: @paulacuerquis On TikTok: @paulacuerquis --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/second-thoughts/support

While you're probably familiar with red and green flags, there's a new online trend: beige flags. These flags aren't necessarily good or bad, but they add a touch of uniqueness and quirkiness to a person. In today’s episode, Pia & Paula share their own relationship green, red and beige flags! They highlight their green flags, like when someone they’re dating makes their friends laugh and likes to be adventurous with food. They also discuss some red flags, like not following through on tasks or still relying on their parents to book their appointments. Pia and Paula's partners, Jeff (aka J) and Jordan, also point out the sisters' beige flags. Jay notices that Pia's feet flex up when she's stressed, while Jordan claims that Paula has a talent for over-exaggeration. IN THIS EPISODE, PIA & PAULA TALK ABOUT: - (9:38) What do red, green, and beige flags mean in relationships - (12:03) Green, red, and beige flags they look for in other people - (21:36) Their beige flags - (30:47) The overwhelming amount of social media platforms - (32:42) Listener’s beige flags RESOURCES - Leave us a voicemail at (512) 827-8730 for a chance to get featured on the pod! Tell us what you’re second guessing. - Follow the podcast on Instagram HERE - Listen on your favorite platform HERE - Shop Ignited Apparel HERE CONNECT WITH PIA On Instagram: @sophiacuerquis On YouTube: @sophiacuerquis On TikTok: @sophiacuerquis CONNECT WITH PAULA On Instagram: @paulacuerquis On TikTok: @paulacuerquis --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/second-thoughts/support