I've Never Said This Before With Tommy DiDario

On this episode of “Tommy Talk,” Tommy discusses if work-life balance is really attainable. He explores what “balance” really means in today’s fast-paced world. Is it about splitting your time evenly between career and personal life? Or is it more about feeling fulfilled and in control of what matters most to you? Whether you’re climbing the career ladder, raising a family, building a business, or just trying to carve out more time for yourself, let’s rethink the idea of balance because maybe the real question isn’t whether work–life balance is attainable, but how you choose to define it. Subscribe, rate, and leave a written review if you enjoy this conversation! Tune in every week for new episodes of I’ve Never Said This Before. Executive Producers: iHeart Media and Elvis Duran Podcast Network Producers: Andrew Pugliese, Stephanie Lane, Josh Kolodny, Celia Romano Follow us on socials! Instagram: @neversaidthisbefore YouTube: @NeverSaidThisBefore See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This week, Tommy is joined by actor Eric Winter, best known for his role as Tim Bradford on ABC’s long-running hit The Rookie. Now heading into season eight, Eric reflects on being part of such a successful show and how his role has evolved alongside him. He opens up about Tim’s journey from a tough, controversial training officer in season one to one half of one of the show’s most talked about slow burn relationships. Eric discusses how the writers listened to fans in developing Tim and Lucy’s romance, the pressure of delivering storylines audiences are deeply invested in, and if he and Lucy belong together. He also shares what it was like filming pivotal moments for his character. Also, he shares how portraying law enforcement has deepened his appreciation for the real-life officers who inspire the series. Beyond the show, Eric talks about longevity…what keeps The Rookie feeling fresh after eight seasons, the chemistry of a cast that genuinely gets along, and how social media and TikTok have reshaped fan engagement. He reflects on how he wants Tim to be remembered one day when the series ends. This conversation also explores entrepreneurship and launching his rum brand (Palm Republic Rum) with intention, his perspective on acting as a job rather than his identity, and the importance of taking time for himself outside of work. Subscribe, rate, and leave a written review if you enjoy this conversation! Tune in every week for new episodes of I’ve Never Said This Before. This episode is presented by Travel Guard. Executive Producers: iHeart Media and Elvis Duran Podcast Network Producers: Andrew Pugliese, Stephanie Lane, Josh Kolodny, Celia Romano Follow us on socials! Instagram: @neversaidthisbefore YouTube: @NeverSaidThisBefore Check out Eric's rum: http://www.palmrepublicrum.com/ See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

On this episode of Tommy Talk, Tommy dives into the unwritten rules for calling, texting and FaceTiming. Is it ever okay to rogue FaceTime someone? Are voice notes longer than one minute annoying or actually appreciated? How long should someone take to respond to a text? Does anyone even leave voicemails anymore, and do they still have value? Tommy shares his millennial perspective, then turns to his two Gen Z producers, Celia and Steph, to find out what really triggers them when it comes to phone communication in 2026. From hot takes to hard truths, let’s see how many of these situations you relate to and whether any of our opinions change the way you think about communicating in the modern world. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This week, Tommy is joined by actress Melissa O’Neil who plays Sergeant Lucy Chen in ABC’s THE ROOKIE. Melissa has been a fan-favorite character over the course of eight seasons of this smash hit series. You may also know and love Melissa from playing the lead role in the Syfy Channel series, DARK MATTER. At 16, Melissa was the youngest and first female winner of Canadian Idol and went on to become a platinum selling recording artist. She also has performed on Broadway in both Les Miserables and Jesus Christ Superstar. Today, Melissa opens up about that cliffhanger in the season seven finale, what she thinks might happen for Lucy and Tim in the future, what it’s been like creating a beloved on-screen relationship with co-star Eric Winter, what she has most learned about herself since starting on THE ROOKIE, if there was ever a time in her career when she was uncomfortable with a scene, how she learned to communicate her concerns, the parts of playing Lucy that are both easy and harder for her, some of her favorite moments for Lucy, her reaction to Lucy being promoted to Sergeant, if she ever tries to give the writers ideas about her character, what she would want Lucy’s endgame to be, if she has the itch to do Broadway again, some of her dream roles, what her perfect day off is, how she maintains a positive outlook, something powerful she has never said before, and so much more. Subscribe, rate, and leave a written review if you enjoy this conversation! Tune in every week for new episodes of I’ve Never Said This Before Executive Producers: iHeart Media and Elvis Duran Podcast Network Follow us on socials! Instagram: @neversaidthisbefore YouTube: @neversaidthisbefore See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

On this episode of Tommy Talk, Tommy dives into the world of love just in time for Valentine’s Day. It’s one of the most polarizing holidays out there. Some people adore it, others absolutely can’t stand it. But in a world that can feel dark and heavy, maybe there’s a way to reframe Valentine’s Day into something everyone can actually enjoy. This episode breaks down the hype, the pressure, the cringe, and the cool. So grab some chocolate and let’s lay it all on the table. Executive Producers: iHeart Media and Elvis Duran Podcast Network Follow us on socials! Instagram: @neversaidthisbefore YouTube: @neversaidthisbefore See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This week, Tommy is joined by actor Luke Thompson, who steps into the spotlight as Benedict Bridgerton in the newest season of Netflix’s global hit Bridgerton. After years of watching the series become a cultural phenomenon, this marks the first season in which Benedict’s love story takes center stage. Luke opens up about what it means to carry the season as the lead, from the excitement and pressure of stepping into a role previously held by other Bridgerton brothers to discovering new layers of Benedict’s identity. He reflects on how Benedict has evolved since season one, how he sees him as the most free-spirited of the siblings, and what Benedict is truly searching for this season…love, freedom, or purpose. Luke also shares how collaborative the process was in shaping Benedict’s arc and whether stepping fully into the role revealed anything surprising about the character. Luke discusses the legacy of Bridgerton’s leading men, the influence of watching Regé-Jean Page take the role seriously in season one, and what he’s learned from sharing the screen with a dynamic ensemble cast. Thoughtful and intimate, this episode offers a deeper look at Benedict Bridgerton’s journey and the heart of the season, while getting to know who Luke Thompson is beyond his work. Subscribe, rate, and leave a written review if you enjoy this conversation! Tune in every week for new episodes of I’ve Never Said This Before Executive Producers: iHeart Media and Elvis Duran Podcast Network See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

On this episode of “Tommy Talk,” Tommy dives into why turning 40 is the ultimate glow-up. In a world obsessed with youth, I’m flipping the script and dropping some real truth: your 40s are better. This decade brings more confidence, clearer boundaries, deeper relationships, less chaos, and far more alignment. I have great memories from my 20s and 30s, but it’s stepping into my 40s that I truly feel exactly where I’m meant to be...and you should too. Because you EARNED the life you’re living today. Let’s celebrate that and dive into why your 40s are better than any decade before. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This week, Tommy is joined by global pop culture icon, entrepreneur, and media force, Paris Hilton. Best known for redefining celebrity in the early 2000s, Paris has spent decades turning public perception into a powerful, multi-hyphenate career. Now, as she continues to evolve as an artist, producer, and advocate, she’s reclaiming her story on her own terms. Paris opens up about growing up underestimated, navigating the New York club scene, and why the “dumb blonde” persona became both a character and a trauma response. She reflects on early reality TV and pop culture’s treatment of women, touching on figures like Britney Spears and the lasting impact of that era. Paris also discusses guiding her public image, what she’s most proud of today, and the moments that helped her truly believe in herself—including validation from artists like Madonna and Sia. Later, she dives into her music journey…from Stars Are Blind to the deeper meaning behind Infinite Icon, as well as motherhood, forgiveness, and confronting painful chapters of her past publicly for the first time. The conversation also explores her advocacy work around AI, her hands-on role in developing a new television project with A24 alongside Elle and Dakota, and a deeply personal story she says she’s never shared before. Subscribe, rate, and leave a written review if you enjoy this conversation! Tune in every week for new episodes of I’ve Never Said This Before Executive Producers: iHeartMedia and Elvis Duran Podcast Network Follow us on socials! Instagram: @neversaidthisbefore YouTube: @NeverSaidThisBefore See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

On this episode of “Tommy Talk,” Tommy discusses how growing up and getting older doesn’t mean that it’s over. If anything, it’s just getting started. We can and should feel our f*cking best. By dialing in our mind, body, and spirit, we unlock the ability to show up on top of our A-game every single day. Today, Tommy is breaking down exactly what he does to stay fired up, aligned, and operating on all cylinders because living a feel-good life isn’t optional. It’s what we all deserve. Let’s f*cking go. Subscribe, rate, and leave a written review if you enjoy this conversation! Tune in every week for new episodes of I’ve Never Said This Before. Executive Producers: iHeart Media and Elvis Duran Podcast Network Follow us on socials! Instagram: @neversaidthisbefore YouTube: @neversaidthisbefore See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This week, Tommy is joined by actor and director Tyler James Williams, best known for his Emmy-winning role as Gregory Eddie on ABC’s Abbott Elementary. From his early start as a child actor to becoming one of the most respected performers on television today, Tyler has built a career defined by discipline, range, and creative intention. Now, with season five of Abbott Elementary underway, he continues to expand his impact both on-screen and behind the camera. Tyler opens up about his approach to longevity in Hollywood, the lessons he learned growing up in the industry, and the boundaries he’s set to protect his personal life. He also dives into Gregory Eddie—how the character has evolved, why subtlety is key to the role, and how Abbott Elementary continues to resonate with audiences in unexpected, real-world ways. Plus, Tyler reflects on his transition into directing, the challenges of helming one of the show’s most ambitious episodes, and why staying creatively fulfilled matters more to him now than ever before. Subscribe, rate, and leave a written review if you enjoy this conversation! Tune in every week for new episodes of I’ve Never Said This Before. Executive Producers: iHeart Media and Elvis Duran Podcast Network Follow us on socials! Instagram: @neversaidthisbefore YouTube: @neversaidthisbefore See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

On this episode of “Tommy Talk,” Tommy discusses hitting the big 4-0.Turning 40 often comes with a lot of noise. Society loves to call it a midlife crisis, but what if it’s actually a powerful awakening? Today Tommy is exploring what really happens when you step into this pivotal decade. From shifting identities and changing priorities to deeper self-awareness, confidence, and clarity, Tommy talks honestly about growing older, reinvention and redefining success on your own terms. Whether you’re approaching 40, already there, or reflecting on what life has taught you up to this point, this episode shows you that “midlife" is not an ending. It’s just the beginning baby, and we are just getting started. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This week, Tommy is joined by singer-songwriter Corbyn Besson, who first found his audience as a teenager streaming on YouNow before rising to global fame as a member of the chart-topping boy band Why Don’t We. Today, Corbyn opens up about the whirlwind of Why Don’t We’s rise, the creative high of producing their second album, and the emotional reality of the band’s hiatus and eventual disbanding. He also talks about how he processed the transition from being part of a global pop phenomenon to stepping into the spotlight on his own. Plus, Corbyn reveals what he hopes listeners take away from his new music, what’s next for him musically, and which artists inspire him. Corbyn teases his new EP, titled “Headfirst,” coming out on January 16th and the possibility of a tour in the near future. Subscribe, rate, and leave a written review if you enjoy this conversation! Tune in every week for new episodes of I’ve Never Said This Before Executive Producers: iHeart Media and Elvis Duran Podcast Network Follow us on socials! Instagram: @neversaidthisbefore YouTube: @neversaidthisbefore See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

On this episode of “Tommy Talk,” Tommy discusses how to beat those pesky January Blues. The January Blues are something many of us feel without even realizing what they are. They're a dip in mood caused by the post-holiday quiet, dark mornings and nights, chilly weather, and the pressure of having an entire new year ahead of us to “start fresh.” We’re all trying to get back into our routines that make us feel good again. I’m sharing with you the ways to kick those January Blues out the door. Here’s what I do, and just as importantly, here is what I DON’T do. Let’s walk into this new year together, feeling our absolute best. If you’re in need of a little encouragement and a big hug to get the year going, this episode is for you. Executive Producers: iHeart Media and Elvis Duran Podcast Network Follow us on socials! Instagram: @neversaidthisbefore YouTube: @neversaidthisbefore See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This week, Tommy is joined by bestselling author Rachel Reid, the writer behind Heated Rivalry and the Game Changers series. The series is beloved for redefining queer romance in the world of professional hockey. What began as a passion project quickly became a phenomenon, earning Rachel a devoted global fanbase and cementing Heated Rivalry as a modern romance classic. She opens up about the origins of Heated Rivalry, how Shane and Ilya’s story evolved from a side romance into something much bigger, and why readers connected so deeply to its emotional honesty. Rachel discusses why Connor Storrie and Hudson Williams were the only choices for Ilya and Shane, if more Ilya and Shane books are coming, and what we might see in Season 2 of the hit series. She also talks about fandom culture, online communities, and the unexpected life-changing success of her books, as well as what it’s like to create characters that live far beyond the page. Plus, she shares what she’s learned as a writer, what inspires her storytelling, and why romance (especially queer romance) matters now more than ever. And she is answering YOUR burning fan questions! Subscribe, rate, and leave a written review if you enjoy this conversation! Tune in every week for new episodes of I’ve Never Said This Before Executive Producers: iHeart Media and Elvis Duran Podcast Network Follow us on socials! Instagram: @neversaidthisbefore YouTube: @neversaidthisbefore See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

On this episode of “Tommy Talk,” Tommy dives into his thoughts on New Year’s resolutions. January is often seen as a reset. It’s a time to reflect on what we want the next 365 days to look like. But do resolutions actually work, or do they just leave us feeling guilty when we don’t stick to them? We all want to keep bettering ourselves, but what are the most effective ways to do that without the pressure of perfection? Let’s dive in and kick off this wild 2026 journey together. Happy New Year! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This week, Tommy is joined by actress Priah Ferguson, best known for her breakout role as Erica Sinclair on Netflix’s global phenomenon Stranger Things. Since stealing scenes with her sharp wit and fearless confidence, Priah has grown from fan-favorite newcomer to a key part of the show’s core cast as it heads into its final season. She opens up about growing up on one of the biggest shows in the world, how Erica evolved from comic relief into a fully realized hero, and what it’s been like stepping into a larger role as the stakes in Hawkins rise. Priah also reflects on balancing fame at a young age, finding her voice on and off screen, and what the Stranger Things journey has meant to her personally. Plus, she teases what fans can expect from Erica in the final chapter and why saying goodbye to the series is both emotional and empowering. Subscribe, rate, and leave a written review if you enjoy this conversation! Tune in every week for new episodes of I’ve Never Said This Before. Executive Producers: iHeart Media and Elvis Duran Podcast Network Follow us on socials! Instagram: @neversaidthisbefore YouTube: @TommyDiDarioShow See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

On this episode of “Tommy Talk,” Tommy is joined by actress Jennifer Love Hewitt to debate all things holidays and New Year’s. Known as “The Holiday Junkie,” Jennifer is the perfect guest to weigh in on some seriously heated topics like: Should Christmas decorations stay up past New Year’s? The Holiday vs. Love Actually? Are New Year’s resolutions worth it? Multicolor lights or white lights? Should we really keep sending family photos every Christmas? It’s the perfect episode to wrap up the holiday season, all while getting a glimpse into our very fun and unhinged friendship. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This week, Tommy is joined by actress Cara Buono, best known for her powerful portrayal of Karen Wheeler on Netflix’s cultural phenomenon Stranger Things. With a career spanning decades across film and television Cara has become known for bringing depth, strength, and emotional nuance to every role she takes on—especially in the world of Hawkins. She dives deep into her most unforgettable Stranger Things moments, including the iconic wine bottle scene, the physical demands of filming, and what it truly means to be part of such a beloved story. Cara also reflects on career twists that led her to the show, from losing a role to landing one that would change everything. Plus, she shares what she’s most proud of in this role, her thoughts on the show’s future, and a side of her journey she’s never talked about before. Subscribe, rate, and leave a written review if you enjoy this conversation! Tune in every week for new episodes of I’ve Never Said This Before Executive Producers: iHeart Media and Elvis Duran Podcast Network Follow us on socials! Instagram: @neversaidthisbefore YouTube: @TommyDiDarioShow See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

On this episode of, “Tommy Talk,” Tommy discusses the return of the nostalgic Christmas trend! Are white lights, minimalism, and perfectly curated, catalog-ready Christmas homes becoming a thing of the past? Why are so many generations, including Gen Z, embracing a more nostalgic holiday aesthetic? From twinkling multicolored lights to “tacky” ornaments, to vintage décor, and cozy family traditions, nostalgic Christmas is everywhere. In a world that feels fast-changing and uncertain, more and more people are drawn to the comfort of how things used to be. This episode explores why those memories still matter, and why they’re shaping how we celebrate the holidays today. Grab a warm drink, get cozy, and join me as we dive into the magic of a nostalgic Christmas! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This week, Tommy is joined by actress Philippine Leroy-Beaulieu, best known for her iconic role as Sylvie Grateau on Netflix’s global hit Emily in Paris. With a career spanning over 40 years and more than 50 film and television roles, Philippine has become a symbol of confidence, elegance, and creative longevity. Now, she’s preparing to return for season five of Emily in Paris, premiering December 18th. She dives deep into Sylvie Grateau—what first drew her to the character, how Sylvie’s strength and vulnerability resonate with her personally, and how the character has helped shape her confidence (and unmistakable wardrobe) over the seasons. Plus, Philippine shares what audiences can expect from Sylvie in the new season and why this chapter of her career feels more exciting than ever. Subscribe, rate, and leave a written review if you enjoy this conversation! Tune in every week for new episodes of I’ve Never Said This Before Executive Producers: iHeart Media and Elvis Duran Podcast Network Follow us on socials! Instagram: @neversaidthisbefore YouTube: @TommyDiDarioShow See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.